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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: Deedee on October 24, 2006, 06:59:29 AM
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It's the last ten seconds that are a little frightening. It's all about perception...
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and then there's this one...
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very interesting. It sounds tacky or corny or whatever, but real beauty is the actual person not the shell they are in. We are trained to admire physiclal beauty and disregard the person. That is why there is so much ugliness out there. I have met some very "beautiful" people that are ugly inside and vice versa.
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very interesting. It sounds tacky or corny or whatever, but real beauty is the actual person not the shell they are in. We are trained to admire physiclal beauty and disregard the person. That is why there is so much ugliness out there. I have met some very "beautiful" people that are ugly inside and vice versa.
Real beauty is you all the way baby....lol steelers ;D
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aww thanks snookums. BROKE BACK LIKE A MOFO, lol.
Seriuosly, i wish more people would actually get to know the person than dismiss them for their looks
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my sentiments exactly (although I happen to be born in a nice body too)
Beauty comes from within. & with knowing and loving oneself.
xL
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For women it's often less about the beauty than other things, like personality. A man can make up for a lack of physical beauty by exuding confidence, imagination, etc...
Anyway, Miggy, it's funny you say that, considering your avatar, lol.
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see what i mean. You see my avatar and jumop to conclusiosn lol.
A man can make up for a lack of physical beauty by exuding confidence, imagination, etc...
.....huge house, nice car, fat wallet.
See deeds, i've never seen you, but i think you are beautiful
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see what i mean. You see my avatar and jumop to conclusiosn lol.
.....huge house, nice car, fat wallet.
See deeds, i've never seen you, but i think you are beautiful
STella has posted her pic on the photos of members thread and she is mind bogglingly beautiful, physically
as well as lovely in words...
xL
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Unfortunately we live in a superficial society these days that is totally focused on physical appearance. In fact you may have everything it takes to be “beautiful” but without being a genuinely good person inside, beauty is not complete. You need to be kind & loving in addition to your good looks. True beauty is in the heart of a person… without a beautiful heart you cannot love another fully. What we tend to forget is that the physical fades and it’s a persons’ inner beauty that stands the test of time. Now I’m not saying that a persons “prettiness” or “handsomeness” doesn’t play a role in the mating game (it is what first attracts us to someone) but a relationship based solely on this will never last.
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.....huge house, nice car, fat wallet.
>:( I'd say this has more to do with the type of women you've been persuing than women in general cuddlebug ;D
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For women it's often less about the beauty than other things, like personality. A man can make up for a lack of physical beauty by exuding confidence, imagination, etc...
Anyway, Miggy, it's funny you say that, considering your avatar, lol.
So your saying Miggy has a chance... ;D
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hey it's not just me. I know many guys that have had the same issues with women. Maybe its Atlanta?
Yup AS, there is always a cahnce (especially when they are passed out under a pool table)
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perhaps. i'm sure he has half a chance. but what does he look like?
superficially yours,
LInda xxxxx
but can he empathise and does he have a sense of humour??? I reckon that is true beauty. Up there with God.
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see what i mean. You see my avatar and jumop to conclusiosn lol.
.....huge house, nice car, fat wallet.
See deeds, i've never seen you, but i think you are beautiful
shhhh "she" is really a man... ;D Kidding Muse.
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but can he empathise and does he have a sense of humour??? I reckon that is true beauty. Up there with God.
Yes, our Miggy is actually quite sensitive & always brings the funny (whether he means to or not) ;D
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Yes, our Miggy is actually quite sensitive & always brings the funny (whether he means to or not) ;D
LMAO spot on ms smurfette.
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LOL!!! ;D
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addendum without modifying:
I already know Migs has a great sense of humour
with love etc.
Linda
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LMAO spot on ms smurfette.
hrmph!
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shhhh "she" is really a man... ;D Kidding Muse.
oh now you're going after someone else to fathom whether or not they're really a woman. this is madness. most women don't lie about stuff like that. they just do little white ones...
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why are you grilling this board ?
perphaps she's in touch with her female self (like you)
xxL
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hrmph!
Don't be mad... you know it's all out of love :-*
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backtrack<<< i still haven't watched deedee's original thing we are talking about....
smiles
Linda
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shhhh "she" is really a man... ;D Kidding Muse.
Not a manly bone in my body... :)
(did I do a pun?)
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backtrack<<< i still haven't watched deedee's original thing we are talking about....
smiles
Linda
All women should watch it.
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nor have i eaten. could you please do one of your seriously funny threads about food? I'm going to the fridge or the shops.
beautiful
Linda
xxx
(it's my name, which i think helps
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Not a manly bone in my body... :)
want one? ;)
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Real beauty is you all the way baby....lol steelers ;D
{ROTFLMAO} I know this sounds really superficial considering the subject of this thread, ...but AS, if you ever saw who you just said that to... you'd be screaming "Steelers" so loud, you'd break the sound barrier, ...and be too embarrased to ever show your face. I've seen Miggly's picture. All I'm gonna say is... he has been deceiving us. :P
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want one? ;)
What you have a friend...lol ;D
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{ROTFLMAO} I know this sounds really superficial considering the subject of this thread, ...but AS, if you ever saw who you just said that to... you'd be screaming "Steelers" so loud, you'd break the sound barrier, ...and be too embarrased to ever show your face. I've seen Miggly's picture. All I'm gonna say is... he has been deceiving us. :P
Ok do you mean in a good way or bad way...?
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What you have a friend...lol ;D
Damn! LOL!!!
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oh now you're going after someone else to fathom whether or not they're really a woman. this is madness. most women don't lie about stuff like that. they just do little white ones...
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why are you grilling this board ?
perphaps she's in touch with her female self (like you)
xxL
You should first mind you own business it was a joke between deeds and myself. Second Have you not learned it's a nicer place here when you don't talk to me? I like when I just ignore you all together and suggest you do the same or I might have to play ruff with you again.
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Ok do you mean in a good way or bad way...?
That all depends on your perspective. I don't want to say 'cause I don't want to make him blush,
...but then again, I have a sneaky feeling Migsy doesn't blush easily. :P
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You should first mind you own business it was a joke between deeds and myself. Second Have you not learned it's a nicer place here when you don't talk to me? I like when I just ignore you all together and suggest you do the same or I might have to play ruff with you again.
I know I'm repeating myself but... Damn! You are grumpy today :o remind me to stay on your good side ;D but you were right.
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That all depends on your perspective. I don't want to say 'cause I don't want to make him blush,
...but then again, I have a sneaky feeling Migsy doesn't blush easily. :P
did he send you the same antiano bandares photo claiming it was him..lol
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Always Sore is always right.
I figure he's a bit like me and doesn't put up with fools. (although I'm obviously foolish.
But he's funny.
I just went and bought some lunch. (It's nearly 6pm here...
lovely
linda
xxx
real beauty is: truth, beauty, love and god & a good sense of humour. perhaps good health too.
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I know I'm repeating myself but... Damn! You are grumpy today :o remind me to stay on your good side ;D but you were right.
ok a little grumpy...I need to have my head rubbed as I am told its going to be ok... :D
plus I really really really dislike hate "loonda". ahh feel better already after writing that... ;D
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*Rubs head* Everything's gonna be alright puddin' :-*
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*Rubs head* Everything's gonna be alright puddin' :-*
LMAO..puddin almost sounds like YMBL... ;D
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oh look< I have it in for you too, Always...
there are a number of reasons:
1) you led the meltdown on the night I got melteddown
2) i still think you're YMBL and even perhaps Migs and maybe a man pretending to be a woman, no I'm kidding about that, you're just extremely perceptive.
3) when I posted some drunken but real thing about my poor eyesight you came straight back at me calling me blind. GIve you half a chance and you'll take me right out...
You are perhaps the only reason I still keep coming back to this forum. You hate me and are extremely funny. I gave back as good as I got.
hugs
Linda
(you'll forgive me for keeping up with you and doing your act, almost taking over? I'm just me. you're multiple. you're much more than me.
I've just been extremely upset about men doing the nasty to me and then me setting my place on fire.
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LMAO..puddin almost sounds like YMBL... ;D
Sorry, it just slipped out... ;)
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oh look< I have it in for you too, Always...
there are a number of reasons:
1) you led the meltdown on the night I got melteddown
2) i still think you're YMBL and even perhaps Migs and maybe a man pretending to be a woman, no I'm kidding about that, you're just extremely perceptive.
3) when I posted some drunken but real thing about my poor eyesight you came straight back at me calling me blind. GIve you half a chance and you'll take me right out...
You are perhaps the only reason I still keep coming back to this forum. You hate me and are extremely funny. I gave back as good as I got.
hugs
Linda
(you'll forgive me for keeping up with you and doing your act, almost taking over? I'm just me. you're multiple. you're much more than me.
I've just been extremely upset about men doing the nasty to me and then me setting my place on fire.
oh freaking great your talking to me again...could you just move on to someone else and pretend I am not here. I would rather go back to skipping your manic responses and fantasizing about you being dead. If I am the reason you post here I would like to say sorry to everyone else here on getbig.Oh and for the zillionth time I am not anyone but me (i find it insulting to be thought of as Migs (LOL hey buddy)) and I have never claimed to be a girl when everyone knows I am a guy..you should try the same.Hope you do not respond and that would make me very happy.
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i was hoping Always Sore might someday forgive me?
I'm just a bit over the top.
You, you're way ahead. You often say stuff before it actually happens, or you say stuff I'm feeling at the exact same time.
Thanks
Linda
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i was hoping Always Sore might someday forgive me?
I'm just a bit over the top.
You, you're way ahead. You often say stuff before it actually happens, or you say stuff I'm feeling at the exact same time.
Thanks
Linda
please do not compare me to you in anything in this world or the next..thank you.
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oh freaking great your talking to me again...could you just move on to someone else and pretend I am not here. I would rather go back to skipping your manic responses and fantasizing about you being dead. If I am the reason you post here I would like to say sorry to everyone else here on getbig.Oh and for the zillionth time I am not anyone but me (i find it insulting to be thought of as Migs (LOL hey buddy)) and I have never claimed to be a girl when everyone knows I am a guy..you should try the same.Hope you do not respond and that would make me very happy.
so go back and rule the bloke gen tops board then and leave the women alone...
I'll get over you too.
peace and love and real beauty
LInda
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so go back and rule the bloke gen tops board then and leave the women alone...
I'll get over you too.
peace and love and real beauty
LInda
xxx
But some of us like AS here...
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But some of us likelove AS here...
little error smurfette but I fixed it... ;D
plus define where you mean when you say "here" show me on the doll where "here" is... ;D
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yep I like him too. he just doesn't like me. i mean, i can understand why, but?
well, no i kinda understand. i'm learning. you drive away the weaklings. scare them away?
happy diwali, happy ramadam, happy halloween
(or boooooo as flower said)
this is the internet after all and I may do as I please. if i've gotta do battle with Always Sore, so be it.
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little error smurfette but I fixed it... ;D
plus define where you mean when you say "here" show me on the doll where "here" is... ;D
Thanks! Whatever was I thinking ::) ;D
What I meant was here on the girls board but I think you know where "here" is on the doll :P
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wishing me dead is disgusting.
I wish you well
etc
Linda
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Thanks! Whatever was I thinking ::) ;D
What I meant was here on the girls board but I think you know where "here" is on the doll :P
LOL...I try... ;D
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wishing me dead is disgusting.
I wish you well
etc
Linda
Trust me its the least I could do... :)
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LOL...I try... ;D
i reckon you need to try harder
xL
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i reckon you need to try harder
xL
You really are begging for attention arn't you..just sad really.ok back to the big tune out have fun wack job.
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did he send you the same antiano bandares photo claiming it was him..lol
That was not Antonio Banderas in the photo. And if that was actually a photo of Miggy,
...all I can say is some woman is in big trouble. :D Absolutely hypnotic eyes,
...and the most incredible smile you've ever seen. He's not that sweet little boy we see him as. He's a man! :o
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That was not Antonio Banderas in the photo. And if that was actually a photo of Miggy,
...all I can say is some woman is in big trouble. :D Absolutely hypnotic eyes,
...and the most incredible smile you've ever seen. He's not that sweet little boy we see him as. He's a man! :o
OK how much is he paying you for the product positioning? Really he may be a man but he is still under warrenty and has his original tires.I can only think you must have forgotten your glasses when you were looking at his picture...lol ;D
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real beauty here. i'm gonna go do something else. okay Always Sore, you win, i give in. I haven't enough time or energy to waste.
you rock.
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OK how much is he paying you for the product positioning? Really he may be a man but he is still under warrenty and has his original tires.I can only think you must have forgotten your glasses when you were looking at his picture...lol ;D
I'm serious! Girl Scouts Honour :)
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attention seeking? look, i just type fast.
& what is it you think you are doing?
at least I've learned in this cesspool (your words). and when I go someplace else, I'll now know to log in as 3 or 4 different people. Like I could keep up with that. Only you can.
edit delete this entire thread, it went ugly
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ps: i love the way everyone else skirts around the issue. it's funny. noone will respond to Always Sore except himself.
me included.
xL
wwhat are we talking about, Antonio Banderas? He's got to be mad too.
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I'm serious! Girl Scouts Honour :)
Ok forward it to me I want to see the boy also..he does have clothes on right.. ;D
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HAHAHAHAHA!!! Go Steelers! ;D
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Ok forward it to me I want to see the boy also..he does have clothes on right.. ;D
Sorry. :'( no can do. I won't forward his pic. You'll just have to take my word for it.
...sides don't wanna make ya feel all wierd & squishy inside knowing you complimented a guy that good looking.
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Sorry. :'( no can do. I won't forward his pic. You'll just have to take my word for it.
...sides don't wanna make ya feel all wierd & squishy inside knowing you complimented a guy that good looking.
1st I am safe in my manhood so I can complement another brother without coming off like..well Migs.. ;D
2nd What happened to sharing in the group? Me thinks the only picture you saw of him has Andrew Jacksons face on it... ;D
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I'm serious! Girl Scouts Honour :)
i was the sixer of the pixies. honest, it was the brownies.... HOw now Brown Owl
that was fun. nice brown uniforms/outfits. I sewed endless badges onto my sleeves.
but not very beautiful. In those days I wore braces and glasses. I guess I looked smart.
them days...
who is andrew jackson i thought we were bandering about antonio
perhaps i'll just kill this thread instead xL
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i'm back but must go out soon. here's antonio. i googled him. perhaps i ought to be yacking on his website. not sure.
he has a mad wife, no? I found her website once and threw my keyboard at the wall.
where's his ponytail, i so liked his ponytail
xL
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You really are begging for attention arn't you..just sad really.ok back to the big tune out have fun wack job.
if you can't beat them, join them.
one punch don't make no fight.
xxx
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1st I am safe in my manhood so I can complement another brother without coming off like..well Migs.. ;D
I think you're jealous of how women flock to him, and how we embrace him and wanna cuddle him.
2nd What happened to sharing in the group? Me thinks the only picture you saw of him has Andrew Jacksons face on it... ;D
You have no shame ...or honour. :-\ {tsk, tsk} ...you're such a disappointment to me.
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I think you're jealous of how women flock to him, and how we embrace him and wanna cuddle him.
You have no shame ...or honour. :-\ {tsk, tsk} ...you're such a disappointment to me.
LMAO..stop really your killing me. oh everybody has there price... ;D
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LMAO..stop really your killing me. oh everybody has there price... ;D
their price
perhaps real beauty = £££$$$
only kidding
xL
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HEYYYYYY! What happened to my thread. I go away and work for an hour and this is what happens. Bunch of superficial people :'(
PS. Miggy, how come you never sent me a pic of you? I'm hurt now. :(
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HEYYYYYY! What happened to my thread. I go away and work for an hour and this is what happens. Bunch of superficial people :'(
PS. Miggy, how come you never sent me a pic of you? I'm hurt now. :(
ok Deeds here is the one he carries in his wallet... ;D
(http://www.alvarocarnicero.com/archives/imagenes/Pedro%20y%20su%20burro.jpg)
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It's the last ten seconds that are a little frightening. It's all about perception...
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and then there's this one...
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Interesting. Reminds me of the book Tyra Banks wrote a few years ago where she showed her before and after pictures. Confirms my belief that many of the women we see in magazines, etc. don't really exist.
I think beauty starts externally and evolves based on the woman's character, personality, etc. I think a woman can go from Vanessa Williams to Whoppie Goldberg simply by opening her mouth.
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Interesting. Reminds me of the book Tyra Banks wrote a few years ago where she showed her before and after pictures. Confirms my belief that many of the women we see in magazines, etc. don't really exist.
I think beauty starts externally and evolves based on the woman's character, personality, etc. I think a woman can go from Vanessa Williams to Whoppie Goldberg simply opening her mouth.
Have any of you ever seen Whoopie Goldberg in person? She's actually a very attractive woman, and looks way better than she does on camera.
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Have any of you ever seen Whoopie Goldberg in person? She's actually a very attractive woman, and looks way better than she does on camera.
what is she holding back on camera for if she is so scary beautiful in person..?
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what is she holding back on camera for if she is so scary beautiful in person..?
That's what I'm saying. The camera usually makes people look better, not worse.
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what is she holding back on camera for if she is so scary beautiful in person..?
I didn't say she's scary beautiful, ...but she is an attractive woman, far more so than what comes across on camera. My personal theory is, it's probably a combination of her not being photogenic, and people being lazy about shooting her properly. Afterall, she is a comedienne and not a sex pot, ...so they don't care. btw - my statement that she's not photogenic isn't to imply she unattractive. There are just some people that the camera doesn't like. They look much better in person than on film. And then there are those who look like crap in person, ...but the camera has a love affair with them nonetheless.
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I didn't say she's scary beautiful, ...but she is an attractive woman, far more so than what comes across on camera. My personal theory is, it's probably a combination of her not being photogenic, and people being lazy about shooting her properly. Afterall, she is a comedienne and not a sex pot, ...so they don't care. btw - my statement that she's not photogenic isn't to imply she unattractive. There are just some people that the camera doesn't like. They look much better in person than on film. And then there are those who look like crap in person, ...but the camera has a love affair with them nonetheless.
I would say IMHO that the camera hates her because she from what i have seen is not attractive. That being said I like her comedy and she comes accross like a really cool person that would be fun to hang with.
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I would say IMHO that the camera hates her because she from what i have seen is not attractive. That being said I like her comedy and she comes accross like a really cool person that would be fun to hang with.
That about sums it up. I agree.
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I would say IMHO that the camera hates her because she from what i have seen is not attractive. That being said I like her comedy and she comes accross like a really cool person that would be fun to hang with.
There are very few people that cannot be groomed, prepped, and coifed in such a way as to highlight their strong points and diminish their shortcomings to such an extent that they appear attractive. There are just some people who look better in person than they do on film. :-\ Maybe that's the real beauty. That quality that can reach out and speak to another human being, but incapable of being captured by a mere macine
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I think guys who don't have guts enough to share their pictures have no business posting on a women's board calling a woman they do not know, and have never met unattractive based on nothing more than superficial & subjective qualities. That hardly makes for a nice cozy place for women to feel comfortable. :-\
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And to add to my ::) I do think there is subjective and objective beauty. I'd say women like Vanessa Williams, Nicole Kidman, and Gabrielle Union are objectively pretty. People like Whoopi, Anjelica Huston, and Lyle Lovett are not objectively pretty/handsome.
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anjelica huston is a striking woman.
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There are very few people that cannot be groomed, prepped, and coifed in such a way as to highlight their strong points and diminish their shortcomings to such an extent that they appear attractive. There are just some people who look better in person than they do on film. :-\ Maybe that's the real beauty. That quality that can reach out and speak to another human being, but incapable of being captured by a mere macine
go jag
and ps: I so loved the post you made 3 months ago about how being beautiful gets tiresome... enough people want you and you get sick and tired and go home and hide and rest. honest to god,
hi i came home again.
xL
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anjelica huston is a striking woman.
she's amazing i met her a few times. She didn't hit me, she's not that striking. She's just really beautiful.
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anjelica huston is a striking woman.
Strikingly what? :) She falls under the subjective category IMO. Some consider her beautiful. Some think she looks like a man.
I think Glenn Close is another. My wife thinks Close is pretty. I think she's really ugly.
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Strikingly what? :) She falls under the subjective category IMO. Some consider her beautiful. Some think she looks like a man.
I think Glenn Close is another. My wife thinks Close is pretty. I think she's really ugly.
I don't think Huston or Close is beautiful . . . but i have a feeling that if I was in a room with them, I'd have a hard time looking away. something about the person rivets the attention.
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I don't think Huston or Close is beautiful . . . but i have a feeling that if I was in a room with them, I'd have a hard time looking away. something about the person rivets the attention.
Ah so. I agree.
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look, we are talking real beauty here.
that is within, and is talent and whatever.
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do not just judge the outer facade.
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ps: some of the women you are chatting about were gorgeous in their younger days.
perhaps you're just saying they're getting older?
but that is real beauty.
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look, we are talking real beauty here.
that is within, and is talent and whatever.
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do not just judge the outer facade.
Yes true beauty comes from within, but if you're telling me you and many others don't judge "the outer facade," I will call you a liar. :) Don't tell me you've never looked at someone and thought they were, superficially, pretty or ugly, beautiful or hideous, etc.
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Cameras hate me. :(
I photo like yuck-y. :P
me too. I will not do my 15 minutes of fame. I turn the over way when the fucking news cameras come at me.
xL
don't know what I'm saving myself for, but I'm so not doing it.
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Yes true beauty comes from within, but if you're telling me you and many others don't judge "the outer facade," I will call you a liar. :) Don't tell me you've never looked at someone and thought they were, superficially, pretty or ugly, beautiful or hideous, etc.
of course, in a flash.
but I don't judge a person by what they look like.
just the men I sleep with. I need to keep my eyes open.
xL
ps: I don't get laid that much, i'm too picky. although as I get older I've realised that my tastes have not changed, which is going to become a problem. Although I'm over 40, I still only like the fit young ones I liked when I was their age.
oops
Linda
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HEYYYYYY! What happened to my thread. I go away and work for an hour and this is what happens. Bunch of superficial people :'(
PS. Miggy, how come you never sent me a pic of you? I'm hurt now. :(
you never asked, besides it's a two way street, lol. ;)
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I think guys who don't have guts enough to share their pictures have no business posting on a women's board calling a woman they do not know, and have never met unattractive based on nothing more than superficial & subjective qualities. That hardly makes for a nice cozy place for women to feel comfortable. :-\
Ok thats fair I will post a picture of myself so I can comment on women if you stop posting about the US goverment until you hold a position in the goverment. ::) Really are you kidding me, I wade thru pages and pages of your "opinions" and at what time do you think I need to have a copy of your resume to see if you have the right to comment or not. That was just silly.
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You missed Jag's point. She is dead right and you are out to lunch on this one.
Play nice or take your ball and go home! >:(
"Screw you guys, I'm going home"
- Eric Cartman
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it is sad and migsy u just rock in my book...
its a shame..men wont see a woman walking down the street and say wow bet she a great personality they will look at the outside first
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Inner beauty is extremely important but the reality of the matter is that attraction is equally as important too. Inner beauty and qualities just get overlooked. The reality of the matter is that no one wants to be with someone that they find un-attractive.
PB
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You missed Jag's point. She is dead right and you are out to lunch on this one.
Play nice or take your ball and go home! >:(
"Screw you guys, I'm going home"
- Eric Cartman
No I think you did. She said we can't comment on someone unless we can be held up to the same standard. She brought up whoopie as someone who looked better in real life and not so well on film and I said I agree because on film she is not what "I" would call attractive, I stated she may me a nice person and fun to hang with but I do not think she is in any way pretty "to me". Its not like I brought it up as a slam or was attacking anybody. You really should read the whole conversation first next time.
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it is sad and migsy u just rock in my book...
its a shame..men wont see a woman walking down the street and say wow bet she a great personality they will look at the outside first
Yea its all the men doing this but ladies always see the nice guy inside.Bull@#$! don't even try to pass off the looks don't matter speech as a guy problem, its a people problem. You could meet the best guy in the world sweet,caring,generous but if he had a hump and 3 eyes and smelled of poop you would look the other way also. If you say no then your lying.I am the first to say it takes more then looks to stay with someone but you are wrong to think its a one way street.
Plus not to slam Miggy Po (in my book the guy is a ace) but you only see what he wants you to see, this is not reality and if you think he is a sweet puppy dog and not a regular guy like everybody else your wrong there also.
oh before anybody gets upset this is a response not a attack so relax.
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No I think you did. She said we can't comment on someone unless we can be held up to the same standard. She brought up whoopie as someone who looked better in real life and not so well on film and I said I agree because on film she is not what "I" would call attractive, I stated she may me a nice person and fun to hang with but I do not think she is in any way pretty "to me". Its not like I brought it up as a slam or was attacking anybody. You really should read the whole conversation first next time.
That hardly makes for a nice cozy place for women to feel comfortable. :-\
That point
But that is okay, fight with somebody else on this board, that is why it and you are here, correct?
I will be bloody blatant,
GO AWAY!
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You missed Jag's point. She is dead right and you are out to lunch on this one.
Play nice or take your ball and go home! >:(
"Screw you guys, I'm going home"
- Eric Cartman
Jag's point being a man can't comment on an actress's appearance on the women's board because she doesn't agree? Um, no!
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Re: What is real beauty?
Found this and thought it was interesting...
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i sense hostility today on the board. WHo needs a massage? lol
As has a point, no matter how truthful we are in our posts, it is the internet. Our avatar, our handle only the sheell of representation. We all are a little more outgoing, or more aggressive since it's not personall interaction but rather electronic interaction. That being said, I am a great guy that is completely honest about everything and would never gawk at a woman in a thong on the beach. ;) ;D
YMBL!!!!!!!
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Jag's point being a man can't comment on an actress's appearance on the women's board because she doesn't agree? Um, no!
I am not arguing that point.
Just this one, and Jag is right about this.
That hardly makes for a nice cozy place for women to feel comfortable. :-\
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it is sad and migsy u just rock in my book...
its a shame..men wont see a woman walking down the street and say wow bet she a great personality they will look at the outside first
thank you. It is a shame, but in all reality, if i see an "attractive" woman yes i will look. Human nature, men do it, women do it.
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I am not arguing that point.
Just this one, and Jag is right about this.
Sorry, I don't follow. A man making a comment on the women's board about an actress is verboten if Judi disagrees with the comment because it makes her "uncomfortable." Is that the point?
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Re: What is real beauty?
Found this and thought it was interesting...
Funny, I was talking this morning about life being beautiful with someone. :)
That scene in American Beauty was one of my favorites. Also reminds me of a beautiful poem that evokes the image of a newspaper caught on the wind and flying over Coney Island.
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coughMuscleMayhemcough
And you were the one who wanted the board hidden ;)
I just considered the source of the comments, AS has not been user friendly here in the past.
If somebody else mentioned the fact I wouldn't have said anything.
Any how, I am done with this topic. It is stinking up the place.
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lol..mmm smores
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hidden just to be a pain ;)
What exactly did AS say? Your comments in the "cougar" thread were more women unfreindly?
Someone vaseline your pole last night? :-*
Who wants S'mores? :D
LOL ;D
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And you were the one who wanted the board hidden ;)
I just considered the source of the comments, AS has not been user friendly here in the past.
If somebody else mentioned the fact I wouldn't have said anything.
Any how, I am done with this topic. It is stinking up the place.
1st are you kidding me, I suggest you get your facts strait before you start slinging stones. I have never not once attacked anybody here. I poke with Migs and Deeds and YMBL and Mish because they are in the same group and we are just playing around. I do have a problem with Linda but thats another subject all together. I have never poked anybody here with any malace at all. Judi brought up the subject (and again I get along with her and hell she knows who I am thru my sister in real life) I made a comment based on it and you get bent out of shape like I am one of the kids here talking trash all the time. If you have a issue with me then PM me and let me know, hell if i have offended you in some way either speak up so I can appologise or defend my point or climb down off my back and find another lap dog to take pot shots at.
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1st are you kidding me, I suggest you get your facts strait before you start slinging stones. I have never not once attacked anybody here. I poke with Migs and Deeds and YMBL and Mish because they are in the same group and we are just playing around. I do have a problem with Linda but thats another subject all together. I have never poked anybody here with any malace at all. Judi brought up the subject (and again I get along with her and hell she knows who I am thru my sister in real life) I made a comment based on it and you get bent out of shape like I am one of the kids here talking trash all the time. If you have a issue with me then PM me and let me know, hell if i have offended you in some way either speak up so I can appologise or defend my point or climb down off my back and find another lap dog to take pot shots at.
So many options which to choose ;D
Like I stated I am done with it, move along now nothing left to see.
Just bitchy this morning, I guess. :-[
Maybe I should be posting in the PMS thread, but I can't even use that as an excuse. ;D
Anybody have a puppy I can kick? ;D
I offer my apologies
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So many options which to choose ;D
Like I stated I am done with it, move along now nothing left to see.
Just bitchy this morning, I guess. :-[
Maybe I should be posting in the PMS thread, but I can't even use that as an excuse. ;D
Anybody have a puppy I can kick? ;D
I offer my apologies
No sweat but really if your mad at me for something I have said next time just PM me or hell ask out front for me to restate it or hell just give me the chance to admit I said something stupid. Most of the time I am working to make everybody laugh, everything else is a just playing and wasting time.
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Get Migs to grab them, he spends more time over at her place then she does. ;D
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oK people...I don't have any smores made...how about some coconut muffins?
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Yuck.
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thank you. It is a shame, but in all reality, if i see an "attractive" woman yes i will look. Human nature, men do it, women do it.
I look at both attractive men AND attractive women...and I'm 100% hetero. I like to look at attractive people.
Also, I think personal opinions of who one finds attractive or not are OK on this board unless someone goes over the line and I don't believe Always Sore did.
Do the men care if I say I find Ben Affleck unattractive? I doubt it.
Meanwhile, thanks AS and OS for working things out! You're both dreamy :)
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Yuck.
Fine! >:( There aren't enough for you anyway >:(
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Fine! >:( There aren't enough for you anyway >:(
I don't touch dessert stuff unless it's chocolate. Card carrying, certified chocoholic. :)
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I don't touch dessert stuff unless it's chocolate. Card carrying, certified chocoholic. :)
WEll, I'll make something nice for you soon :)
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beauty...is in the eye of the beholder. ;)
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oK people...I don't have any smores made...how about some coconut muffins?
yummm, thanks stella. BY the way what some where you humming when you made those. its catchy ;)
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I know some women that cant put make up on for shit, not that im a pro though
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You missed Jag's point. She is dead right and you are out to lunch on this one.
Play nice or take your ball and go home! >:(
"Screw you guys, I'm going home"
- Eric Cartman
OS
I have a sneeky suspicion this is one of those famous "Women are from Venus / Men are from Mars" moments we always hear about. {sigh} oh well.
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No I think you did.
Nuh-uh.
She said we can't comment on someone unless we can be held up to the same standard.
Nope, ...wasn't saying that.
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Jag's point being a man can't comment on an actress's appearance on the women's board because she doesn't agree? Um, no!
Nope, ...wasn't saying that either.
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Sorry, I don't follow. A man making a comment on the women's board about an actress is verboten if Judi disagrees with the comment because it makes her "uncomfortable." Is that the point?
Nope. That wasn't it either.
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lol. damn it jags, whatthe hell did you mean! :-*
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Migs, ...I guess this is just one of those things that we have to chalk up under:
"If I have to explain it to you, ...you wouldn't understand it at all"
This is just one of those either you get it or you don't, ...and it's pretty obvious, that some people just don't get it. :'(
I just wish I had been around today so I could have clarified things before AS & OS got into it.
Stupid text medium! It's so open to misinterpretation... which then makes people get all upset & defensive when they have nothing to defend against. {sigh}
ps - I'm just ticked 'cause STella didn't save me any muffins. :'(
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actually i didnt really keep up with it or anything. i was just hoping to get the clift notes version, lol
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Cliff Notes:
Problems develop when people are more concerned about being right, than they are about finding common ground.
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Confusious Says "Common ground" could be be considered beautiful when it is two adversaries who are reaching it.
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where have you been dude?
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Holy Crap! There's been a YMBL sighting! :o
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LOL. Working my ass off mostly. Been hitting a lot of haunted houses and stuff too. Tis the season :)
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he's like the Yeti. we need a snare, a gilly suit, an old camamra with grainy film, and some beef jerky. STAT!
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LOL. Working my ass off mostly. Been hitting a lot of haunted houses and stuff too. Tis the season :)
cool. I havent been to a haunted house in forever. damn i need to get out, lol
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Been to a few already. Pretty insane stuff in one of them. The haunt was more like being the fly on the wall in different scenes. Torture, house break ins, locked in the dark, etc. Not supernatural ghost things. The others have been the usual fun house and or haunted house and maze stuff. These are great things to do with your girl. It's a fun nite out.
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Good stuff! Last thing I was at was a haunted hayride - lol! I love getting scared, watching scary movies, all of it! I'm weird like that :-\
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yeah i need to scope them out this year. might be fun
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Nope, ...wasn't saying that either.
I know you weren't. I was just trying to get clarification on what someone else meant. Anyway, it doesn't matter. This thread sure took a sharp left somewhere into outer space. I was just making a point about the reality of beauty and how much of a lie the advertising industry promotes. Maybe I should stick to fluff. :P
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there used to be a video floating around about how they mathematically assessed beauty and then made a program to make the perfect face (according to studies and measuremnts) it was very interesting. The media promotes false ideals, however it is the people that buy into it that are to blame.
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I know you weren't. I was just trying to get clarification on what someone else meant. Anyway, it doesn't matter. This thread sure took a sharp left somewhere into outer space. I was just making a point about the reality of beauty and how much of a lie the advertising industry promotes. Maybe I should stick to fluff. :P
Fluff is for fluffers. >:(
I think this was a fabulous topic especially for this board, ...and I commend you for having started it. :)
ps - Glad to know you're not a Martian. ;)
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there used to be a video floating around about how they mathematically assessed beauty and then made a program to make the perfect face (according to studies and measuremnts) it was very interesting.
There have been a few. I remember seeing one with Paulina Porizkova years ago, and the contempt that seemed to be oozing out of her was palpable. She was like "This..." she said {gesturing to her face} "...this is nothing. It's only mathematics. IT MEANS NOTHING!"
The commentator then included the comment that Paulina must have been very sincere when she said that, ...then the documentary cut to a shot of Paulina and her new husband ...Rick Ocasek of the Cars.
The media promotes false ideals, however it is the people that buy into it that are to blame.
People who "buy into it" are manipulated beyond even their own comprehension.
It's mainly North Americans tho, the same BS exists in Europe, ...but not to the same extent as it does here.
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but people canchabge the ideals. i dont buy into the hype of all the shit the media throws out there when it comes to beauty. Maybe my mentality is slightly different since i grew up in a more european houshold. it's late im rambling and nothing good can come from that, lol
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{LOL} Oh ya, ...I believe ya. Your avatar even supports that claim too. :P
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my avatar i ssupporting fitness, see she is running. I don't know what else could be construed from my avatar. I'm promoting a healthy lifestyle of exercise. ;D
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but people canchabge the ideals. i dont buy into the hype of all the shit the media throws out there when it comes to beauty. Maybe my mentality is slightly different since i grew up in a more european houshold. it's late im rambling and nothing good can come from that, lol
Ideals like those are what pays my bills.
I'm not ready for a change, maybe when I outgrow it, but not today.
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Ideals like those are what pays my bills.
I'm not ready for a change, maybe when I outgrow it, but not today.
{LOL} It's quite the dichotomy isn't it? On the one hand, you kind of want them to think like that,
...but at the same time, the more they do, ...the less you respect them or are flattered that they do.
You meet a guy, and he's falling all over himself over your 'beauty', ...but that's ALL he can see,
...so you're ready to toss him to the curb in 2 seconds flat. Kind of like when you meet what you think is a really cool guy, ...then he asks for your autograph, ...and you're just immediately turned off. :-\
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i worked in the restaurant business for a long time and have met clebrities. never once did i ask for an autograph. I also treated them like i did all my guests. My thing was just respect their space and their privacy. I did get invited to some events because the way i treated them though. I thought that was cool.
you are right though, it is a dichotomy. But much the same way when you ( a woman) say that you want a nice guy, don't care what he looks like) then find the rugged good looking abd boy that treats you like sh*t, then wonder why?
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Not to go off on a tangent (for long ;D ) but I've never understood the popularity of "the autograph." I mean, people are people and most of us know how to write our own names. I guess I just don't get why some people seek them out.
But, most people don't understand my attraction to sparkly things, so.....to each his own I guess. :P
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Not to go off on a tangent (for long ;D ) but I've never understood the popularity of "the autograph." I mean, people are people and most of us know how to write our own names. I guess I just don't get why some people seek them out.
But, most people don't understand my attraction to sparkly things, so.....to each his own I guess. :P
lol you and crabs have the same attraction. By crabs i mean the sea creature not the STD, lol.
I dont get autographs either. beauty to me shines from the inside of the person. Yes outwardl beauty is a catalyst to get to want to know someone. I know i'm not a stud and that i may "miss out" on some opportunities. but i rather be with someone that feels comfortable with themselves than with super gorgeous woman that has to always be made up.
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There's nothing wrong with the autograph thingy, but it's all in the way it's asked. It's almost makes you wonder who he thinks he's talking to... you, ...or an artificial image of you he has in his mind based on some character you've played? That's the difference.
Who says women don't care what a man looks like? I think we do, ...we just don't judge a man's value as a human being, or deem him worthy of courtesy or respect, based solely on his looks. Generally, for women, looks are just a part of the package, the ribbon, ...but the rest of the package has to be there.
To simplify the analogy, ...we don't have a problem accepting a great gift that hasn't been gift wrapped with pretty paper and a nice bow, ...but if you give us a box with expensive wrapping and and a gorgeous ribbon on the outside, ...it better darned well have something good inside. >:(
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well i may be a gift wrapped in brwn crate paper, but damn if i don't try to bring something to the table
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To simplify the analogy, ...we don't have a problem accepting a great gift that hasn't been gift wrapped with pretty paper and a nice bow, ...but if you give us a box with expensive wrapping and and a gorgeous ribbon on the outside, ...it better darned well have something good inside. >:(
LOL!!! Agreed! ;D
well i may be a gift wrapped in brwn crate paper, but damn if i don't try to bring something to the table
Yes Miggy-poo you do ;)
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to me real beauty is when you wake up next to someone and fall in love with them all over again, not because they are physically attratvie, but beacuse of the way they make you feel
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*swoon* Oh Miggy!
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Not to go off on a tangent (for long ;D ) but I've never understood the popularity of "the autograph." I mean, people are people and most of us know how to write our own names. I guess I just don't get why some people seek them out.
But, most people don't understand my attraction to sparkly things, so.....to each his own I guess. :P
I agree. I've never asked for one. I could care less. My kids, on the other hand, have several. Not sure where they keep them. The only one I saved for them was Arnold's. He gave my daughter the only autograph in the building when he made a rare appearance at the bodybuilding show he co-promotes here. I thought that was very nice of him.
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Some people are into them. I don't think it's wierd if someone is into getting autographs,
...I just get uncomfortable when they want one from me. I'll get autographs for my friends tho.
I sometimes get a kick out of seing their excitement. I was working on a particular show up here, and a girlfriend in the States was so excited because she was such a huge, HUGE fan of the show as well as the star of the show. One day her husband was getting the mail, and he hands her this big 8.5 X 11 manilla envelope from Canada. She opened it up and nearly fell off her chair when she saw it was an autographed picture in the mail, personalized to her, from the star of the show, ...all dressed up in character. It just made her day. :D
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I know you weren't. I was just trying to get clarification on what someone else meant. Anyway, it doesn't matter. This thread sure took a sharp left somewhere into outer space. I was just making a point about the reality of beauty and how much of a lie the advertising industry promotes. Maybe I should stick to fluff. :P
if you wanted real answers you should have posted this on the general board . . .
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if you wanted real answers you should have posted this on the general board . . .
Why don't you love us Al-Gebra :'(
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if you wanted real answers you should have posted this on the general board . . .
If I had posted this on the general board, the responses would have been mostly slamming and irreverant remarks about women.
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If I had posted this on the general board, the responses would have been mostly slamming and irreverant remarks about women.
Exactly.
PB
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I love you guys . . . but clearly a couple of females weren't able to be objective about the topic. And after projecting themselves into the thread (through Whoopi of all people) they pretty much cut short any discussion. It's a great thread if you want to know how certain Canadian femmes personally react to men commenting on actresses, but that doesn't really answer the question . . .
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I love you guys . . . but clearly a couple of females weren't able to be objective about the topic. And after projecting themselves into the thread (through Whoopi of all people) they pretty much cut short any discussion. It's a great thread if you want to know how certain Canadian femmes personally react to men commenting on actresses, but that doesn't really answer the question . . .
And this is such a value to this thread....
When you even have an idea of what we were talking about then you can comment objectively.
You've missed the point. It has nothing to do about actresses at all.
It is all about how certain males come on the board and are making it uncomfortable for certain females with their comments.
There are too many men on the girl board if we have to try justify ourselves to people who take cheap shots like this one.
My complaint for the record.
Have Fun
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And this is such a value to this thread....
When you even have an idea of what we were talking about then you can comment objectively.
You've missed the point. It has nothing to do about actresses at all.
It is all about how certain males come on the board and are making it uncomfortable for certain females with their comments.
There are too many men on the girl board if we have to try justify ourselves to people who take cheap shots like this one.
My complaint for the record.
Have Fun
AHHHHH come here OS its time to get a hug and maybe some nice tea you have had a long week... ;D
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AHHHHH come here OS its time to get a hug and maybe some nice tea you have had a long week... ;D
Don't forget to snuggle her up in a nice big fluffy bathrobe, ...and Miggly can give her one of his famous foot massages
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who called for a foot massage? anyone, bueller? bueller?
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Did someone say foot massage?
I love massages from head to toes. The harder, the better. No talking, just nature music, candles and lots of oil.
But a foot massage, those are the best. The most memorable one was feet bathed in white wine, very memorable.
Sandra
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Did someone say foot massage?
I love massages from head to toes. The harder, the better. No talking, just nature music, candles and lots of oil.
But a foot massage, those are the best. The most memorable one was feet bathed in white wine, very memorable.
Sandra
Lol, I hope it wasn't chilled.
But agree, nothing like a hard massage... rolfing/myofascial massage is the best!