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is it ok to poop in your bathroom on a first date or should we just wait till we say good bye and make a mad dash for the closest mc donalds?
as much as most men here will pooh and pah this one...they WILL read this thread with zeal and looking for enlightment.
.....and yeah....its disturbing in here....
;D
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The safe bet is McDonalds.
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i say hold it whenever possible
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i say hold it whenever possible
Heck no the moment you are holding it in for someone else your setting a bad situation.If you have to go be honest from the start with your date and excuse yourself and drop a deuce. If she is not there when you get back she is shallow and you just saved yourself alot of time and money, bag up her meal and take it home.
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Heck no the moment you are holding it in for someone else your setting a bad situation.If you have to go be honest from the start with your date and excuse yourself and drop a deuce. If she is not there when you get back she is shallow and you just saved yourself alot of time and money, bag up her meal and take it home.
i just rather not pinch a loaf in the girls place theon the first date. either go before you get to her house (i.e en route stop in aquicktrip or store, drop and go), or wait to you get to your date destination and excuse your self and take the browns to the superbowl. Just pary no one hits you in the stomach or that you dont stuck in traffic
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is it ok to poop in your bathroom on a first date or should we just wait till we say good bye and make a mad dash for the closest mc donalds?
as much as most men here will pooh and pah this one...they WILL read this thread with zeal and looking for enlightment.
.....and yeah....its disturbing in here....
;D
I won't say it's not ok, hey you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes but it would be frowned upon. I'd prefer if you could wait... I really don't want someone else bombing up my bathroom :-X
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Heck no the moment you are holding it in for someone else your setting a bad situation.If you have to go be honest from the start with your date and excuse yourself and drop a deuce. If she is not there when you get back she is shallow and you just saved yourself alot of time and money, bag up her meal and take it home.
Well, if you're causing her to leave her own house, it might be time to do something about the diet... :-X
Toxy, have never met anyone who has ever held anything in, back, or from me. They just let it all hang out from day one. It's just a random sampling... but the girlfriends have shared the same info.
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Well, if you're causing her to leave her own house, it might be time to do something about the diet... :-X
lol
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I say drop the bomb, if she doenst run, shes yours :D
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I say drop the bomb, if she doenst run, shes yours :D
ah te famed poop test
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Just leave the door open and talk to her as you poop.................... ...
girls love to be included in activities!!
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Just leave the door open and talk to her as you poop.................... ...
girls love to be included in activities!!
ROTFLMAO
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Just leave the door open and talk to her as you poop.................... ...
girls love to be included in activities!!
BUAWAAYAYA
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Just leave the door open and talk to her as you poop.................... ...
girls love to be included in activities!!
Zinggggggggggggggggggggg ggggggggg
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I prefer it if they have a crap in the morning. Then compare it to mine and tell me I'm crap. (joke)
Then have a nice bath or a shower.
But if you gotta fart, do do it in the garden?
xL
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what became of manners?
You just say I need to use your room for 2or3 or perhaps five minuites, may I? thanks.
xL
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is it ok to poop in your bathroom on a first date or should we just wait till we say good bye and make a mad dash for the closest mc donalds?
as much as most men here will pooh and pah this one...they WILL read this thread with zeal and looking for enlightment.
.....and yeah....its disturbing in here....
;D
oh and yeah....
it's important to clean up after. you might get invited backagain?
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I prefer it if they have a crap in the morning. Then compare it to mine and tell me I'm crap. (joke)
Then have a nice bath or a shower.
But if you gotta fart, do do it in the garden?
xL
In the US we dont all have gardens, would it be ok if we just did it in the house? :-\
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I say Bombs away!! No need to hide or disguise anything LOL :D
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In the US we dont all have gardens, would it be ok if we just did it in the house? :-\
fine, just not in bed, okay?
and I'm only talking about farting.
I agree with Mr. Arvilla above 3 posts.
keep it normal, natural, talk and laugh if you can.
I repeat myself: you get up in the morning, have a coffee or 3, perhaps breakfast, then do your crap and have a nice wash.
I so hate it when people do it in public places (I was at my doctors office yesterday and needed a pee but couldn't do it because I couldn't get in the door for the smell because someone had been in there and done a stinky poo).
I also dislike it when people do it at night at then get in bed with you afterwards. I've only known one or two men like that and they got kicked out in like two days.
with mad love
Linda
xxx
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I say Bombs away!! No need to hide or disguise anything LOL :D
I think I love you OZgrrl ;)
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thanx for the replies guys ;D
it ws a hypothtical question anyways...unless the situation is dire i wont go anywhere except my own home...
...cause i use wetnaps :D
...the white huggies box if anyone is curious ;D
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TMI, but remember dry, wet dry.
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TMI, but remember dry, wet dry.
no such thing as TMI...only lack of confidence.....n..more like...wet ...dry..wet wet wet....dry...wet wet wet.....dry dry...
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never start wuth wet! spread factor is too great. dry wet dry, repeast as needed
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I say Bombs away!! No need to hide or disguise anything LOL :D
LOL "hi nice house you have, you look beautiful tonight, yep almost ready but can I borrow a magazine and where is the crapper I have to drop a deuce..." lol
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aahahah
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LOL "hi nice house you have, you look beautiful tonight, yep almost ready but can I borrow a magazine and where is the crapper I have to drop a deuce..." lol
EXACTLY!!
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Ok guys... all this:
thanx for the replies guys ;D
it ws a hypothtical question anyways...unless the situation is dire i wont go anywhere except my own home...
...cause i use wetnaps :D
...the white huggies box if anyone is curious ;D
TMI, but remember dry, wet dry.
no such thing as TMI...only lack of confidence.....n..more like...wet ...dry..wet wet wet....dry...wet wet wet.....dry dry...
never start wuth wet! spread factor is too great. dry wet dry, repeast as needed
is a definite case of TMI!!! :-X
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never start wuth wet! spread factor is too great. dry wet dry, repeast as needed
hmmm..i shall give this theory a try..actually..pretty soon! :D
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hmmm..i shall give this theory a try..actually..pretty soon! :D
There's also this thing called a bidet... :P
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There's also this thing called a bidet... :P
Those contraptions really freak me out! It was weird enough to buy the cottonelle wet wipes and use them.
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Those contraptions really freak me out! It was weird enough to buy the cottonelle wet wipes and use them.
I got used to them after several trips to Europe. They're actually really convenient...
(My sister has one. She's never used it for the intended purpose but says it's great for washing out stockings. :P )
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There's also this thing called a bidet... :P
When I was in highschool, my boyfriend's family had guests over one night, and their 6 yr old daughter had never seen a bidet. She pooped in it. :-X
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oh man, lol.
I have one in the condo in Madrid. never used it though.
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There's also this thing called a bidet... :P
whats a bidet?? go ahead..i promise i wont google it...
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whats a bidet?? go ahead..i promise i wont google it...
WHAT? You don't know what that is?
It's basically a low built sink for your tushie with warm running water... it's kinda nice. :)
(It's the one on the left.)
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WHAT? You don't know what that is?
It's basically a low built sink for your tushie with warm running water... it's kinda nice. :)
(It's the one on the left.)
umm...thats kinda gross...like taking an ass bath with poop everywhere...ewwww >:(
but its hot when you say "tushie"
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at my father-in-law's FL condo:
(from a what is it? thread ;D )
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umm...thats kinda gross...like taking an ass bath with poop everywhere...ewwww >:(
but its hot when you say "tushie"
Nooooo... you wipe yourself first obviously. THEN bathe your "tushie". :) It's like taking a spot shower. STella's pic shows a top view.
Wow, this thread just got very clinical. :)
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We vacation there often but I only used that thing once out of curiosity. Not my cup of tea :-\
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Nooooo... you wipe yourself first obviously. THEN bathe your "tushie". :) It's like taking a spot shower. STella's pic shows a top view.
Wow, this thread just got very clinical. :)
And just to be more clear Toxy, you would poop in the regular toilet first and wipe yourself there.....then you "wash" yourself w/the bidet. I only used it for #1 though :P
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Nooooo... you wipe yourself first obviously. THEN bathe your "tushie". :) It's like taking a spot shower. STella's pic shows a top view.
Wow, this thread just got very clinical. :)
oooooo...okie i'm sooo showing this thread to mumsy tomorrow...so she can order dad to buy those... ;D
so no racy posts on this thread >:(
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We vacation there often but I only used that thing once out of curiosity. Not my cup of tea :-\
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lmao...dunno why...but i kinda always see you about as clumsy as flower (who gets the award :D )...heehee..that ws funny...
good looking clumsy women are adorable... :)
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And just to be more clear Toxy, you would poop in the regular toilet first and wipe yourself there.....then you "wash" yourself w/the bidet. I only used it for #1 though :P
ok that took the funny image away >:(
plus thats wayyy too much work....i'm sticking to huggies...wayyy easier...and with huggies you can really scrub and feel squeaky clean...
PS buy the white box..the blue one has some moisturizing bullshit on it...i want my ass clean...not some wierd moisturized feeling film on it that makes ya feel ya gotta wipe more.. >:(
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you have issues lol
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you have issues lol
we established that a while back...
i'm ok with it :D
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do you really sit on these things...or do you "hover"
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do you really sit on these things...or do you "hover"
now why the heck did THAT turn(ish) me on >:(
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now why the heck did THAT turn(ish) me on >:(
hahaha....it depends. do you enjoy japanese porn?
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hahaha....it depends. do you enjoy japanese porn?
eww no...edited :-\
oh good lord...you'd think everyone here is 12 or has a bad case of low self esteem .. :-\
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And just to be more clear Toxy, you would poop in the regular toilet first and wipe yourself there.....then you "wash" yourself w/the bidet. I only used it for #1 though :P
It's also great for rinsing & grooming certain parts. ahem
...although you gotta be careful of hair clogs. :P
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It's also great for rinsing & grooming certain parts. ahem
...although you gotta be careful of hair clogs. :P
:-X
the Buckwheat in a leg lock look doesn't work for me. Please trim the hedges lol :-*
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is it ok to poop in your bathroom on a first date or should we just wait till we say good bye and make a mad dash for the closest mc donalds?
as much as most men here will pooh and pah this one...they WILL read this thread with zeal and looking for enlightment.
.....and yeah....its disturbing in here....
;D
Junaid,
I think in any relationship you need to keep it real. If you have to use her bathroom, ask her to use the bathroom. If she says no or is reluctant, then she's probably not going to be the type of woman you want anyway. It's a bit pretentious to expect someone to hold it during a date.
I went on a trip up north with my girlfriend and her parents and when we stopped in certain remote areas of wilderness, I wouldn't hesistate to piss and I didn't care whether her parents knew it or not. Her father wasn't so comfortable pissing in the woods, but that's his hangup.
As far as dropping a load in your date's apartment, there's really no harm in it. If she's lucky, there will be a lingering reminder of your date when she gets home... :-*
DIV
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Junaid,
I think in any relationship you need to keep it real. If you have to use her bathroom, ask her to use the bathroom. If she says no or is reluctant, then she's probably not going to be the type of woman you want anyway. It's a bit pretentious to expect someone to hold it during a date.
I went on a trip up north with my girlfriend and her parents and when we stopped in certain remote areas of wilderness, I wouldn't hesistate to piss and I didn't care whether her parents knew it or not. Her father wasn't so comfortable pissing in the woods, but that's his hangup.
As far as dropping a load in your date's apartment, there's really no harm in it. If she's lucky, there will be a lingering reminder of your date when she gets home... :-*
DIV
welcome back fucker! from now on i shall make it a point to poop in every girls bathroom i meet...then i shall force her to sit in there with me indian smile for 10 mins....
if she stays..she's a keeper :D
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welcome back fucker! from now on i shall make it a point to poop in every girls bathroom i meet...then i shall force her to sit in there with me indian smile for 10 mins....
if she stays..she's a keeper :D
I wonder if I could do that with your sister? :D
DIV
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I wonder if I could do that with your sister? :D
DIV
ohhhh nooooo...on eid recently (eid = muslim x-mas) i farted in front of her and 2 of her friends as a joke...bitch beat me up :(
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dude you're huge though, how'd that happen? ;D
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dude you're huge though, how'd that happen? ;D
i weigh like 160 :P
we'll fix that come summer... ;D
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cycle? I mena up your multi-vitamin and some GNC protein powder? lol
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cycle? I mena up your multi-vitamin and some GNC protein powder? lol
10 yrs ago i weighed a very sliced and diced 220....come hell or high water i'm gonna get up there again...but with more balance this time..
previously i had no arms or chest..all of it ws in my back and legs..
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wow thats a flip. Moslty its all upper body and toothpicklegs. yeah i just got some muli-vitamins and redid my diet plan
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wow thats a flip. Moslty its all upper body and toothpicklegs. yeah i just got some muli-vitamins and redid my diet plan
the owner of the gym ws bigtime into training legs....i ki nda fell into it like that...i used to train arms 2ice a month and do legs 3 times a week.. :-\
i could squat 405 but had problems benching 185....i kid u not.. :-[ on the flip side i could shoulderpress 185..even 225 but i could hardly bench that :-[
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10 yrs ago i weighed a very sliced and diced 220....come hell or high water i'm gonna get up there again...but with more balance this time..
previously i had no arms or chest..all of it ws in my back and legs..
There's a way to work through that.
When is your next cycle?
DIV
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There's a way to work through that.
When is your next cycle?
DIV
i'm thinkingmarch(ish)
i wanna lay a good base..yanno squat 315 for 12...before i jump into a cycle...right now 275 is a struggle..
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is it ok to poop in your bathroom on a first date or should we just wait till we say good bye and make a mad dash for the closest mc donalds?
as much as most men here will pooh and pah this one...they WILL read this thread with zeal and looking for enlightment.
.....and yeah....its disturbing in here....
;D
If she takes you home on date #1 the odds are shes a raving whore or very interested in you. Either way, fuck the bathroom, you could probably get away with a hot potato if ya wanted ;D
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If she takes you home on date #1 the odds are shes a raving whore
shhh...you cant use the words 'raving whore' on this board...cause all the women pretend to be virgins on here..(except flowey..she's fucking honest and i love her for that :) )
i did once and the thread got moved..and then del...(you can imply freud to that if ya want ;D )
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Nothing wrong with being a whore, I usually fuck on the first date myself :)
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Nothing wrong with being a whore, I usually f**k on the first date myself :)
riiiight
jimmy?
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riiiight
jimmy?
Pardon
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Pardon
ok maybe u aren;t jimmy..never mind that...anyhow...u fuck on the first date... :-\
...tsk..
that will never have a dood call ya back...at least not a decent looking one...i'm a guy..i NEVER call back chicks that fuck me 2 soon...unless ya want not 2 be called back...which is fine then..
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Nothing wrong with being a whore, I usually f**k on the first date myself :)
Having sex on the first date doesn't make you a whore... it makes you a slut. ;)
...now if ya took money for having sex on the first date, ...that would make you a whore. :D
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ok maybe u aren;t jimmy..never mind that...anyhow...u f**k on the first date... :-\
...tsk..
that will never have a dood call ya back...at least not a decent looking one...i'm a guy..i NEVER call back chicks that f**k me 2 soon...unless ya want not 2 be called back...which is fine then..
Where is jimmy these days?
Is he lurking in the shadows or did Ronald ban him finally?
I've never fucked on the first date, but I did work over a woman before......in the park, under the stars.....touched her everywhere and gave her multiple orgasms.
Now that was a date.
DIV
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clubber = jimmy
oh i always try to do em on the first date....
if they hold me back long enough...i fall for em..
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that will never have a dood call ya back...at least not a decent looking one...i'm a guy..i NEVER call back chicks that f**k me 2 soon...unless ya want not 2 be called back...which is fine then..
It reads to me like you are concerned with how many sexual partners your woman has had. You should know that generally girls only tell you how many relationships they have had, one night stands dont "notch our beds" ;)
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. You should know that generally girls only tell you how many relationships they have had, one night stands dont "notch our beds" ;)
a guy with half a brain and the knowlodge how to use his brain can ALWAYS tell...
then its a matter of whether i like her enough to still stay...usually not...
hey i'm all for one niters hon..but i dont eat and shit in the same spot... :-\ if she's been handing it out like it went outts style (like my ex) why exacty should i feel special about getting it? and when i stop feeling special...1 simply lose interest and its over..
there is a reason ya never hear about the happily married former hooker.. :P
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IMO, a sexually experienced woman presents a problem for guys like you who dont get laid alot, because you know you could never be the best we've had and that is somewhat crushing. On the other hand, many(most?) girls with alot of experience have the baggage to go with it because of narrow minded insecure individuals like yourself giving us shit :'(
If you want toothy head, chaffed h.j.'s and get off on fucking a dear in the headlights (I don't judge baby!), marry that virgin you've been searching for. That way you won't miss out on the other 71 that god promises people who think like you ;D
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IMO, a sexually experienced woman presents a problem for guys like you who dont get laid alot, because you know you could never be the best we've had and that is somewhat crushing. On the other hand, many(most?) girls with alot of experience have the baggage to go with it because of narrow minded insecure individuals like yourself giving us shit :'(
If you want toothy head, chaffed h.j.'s and get off on fucking a dear in the headlights (I don't judge baby!), marry that virgin you've been searching for. That way you won't miss out on the other 71 that god promises people who think like you ;D
I think you over-generalize considering you don't know Junaid in real life.
You can only see what he's projecting, but that's hardly enough to make the kind of assumations you do.
As far as sexual experience and relationships, your generalization don't mean shit.
My current girlfriend's last boyfriend was with her over a year, and still never gave her an orgasm.
I gave her multiples the first night I met her, without having intercourse with her.....
There's your sexual experience.
......and because you're the type to come back with something like "how do you know she had an orgasm?", she squirts, so it was blatantly obvious......
DIV
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IMO, a sexually experienced woman presents a problem for guys like you who dont get laid alot, because you know you could never be the best we've had and that is somewhat crushing. :'(
touche ..but thats absolutely right man..u r absolutely right...recently some chick had me fist her...then she asked me to do her...i couldn't..i felt so insecure..however ...just cause i dont wanna make u my girlfriend isn't me giving u shit...i dont go around saying this stuff to girls faces in real life....and i still wanna fuck em...just wouldn't consider em as girlfriend material..but why does it matter what i think......mmmaaaybe because most guys think exactly like me... they just dont wanna come out and say it and lose out on possible lays.. :-\
would i fuck a chick that had done ron jeremy....hell no...
1) i cant compete with jurrasic cock
2) look at his face...someone that sunk that ow why should i bother with...
If you want toothy head, chaffed h.j.'s and get off on fucking a dear in the headlights (I don't judge baby!), marry that virgin you've been searching for. That way you won't miss out on the other 71 that god promises people who think like you ;D
first girlie board meltdown! ;D
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I think you over-generalize considering you don't know Junaid in real life.
You can only see what he's projecting, but that's hardly enough to make the kind of assumations you do.
As far as sexual experience and relationships, your generalization don't mean shit.
My current girlfriend's last boyfriend was with her over a year, and still never gave her an orgasm.
I gave her multiples the first night I met her, without having intercourse with her.....
There's your sexual experience.
......and because you're the type to come back with something like "how do you know she had an orgasm?", she squirts, so it was blatantly obvious......
DIV
she is a little right though there div...i am tad bitter from a previous ex...i fell in love with her only to find out the kinda guys she'd been 'seeing' before...i had a "what the faaack where u thinking woman" ( i actually hoped she had been into meth or coke at the time)...however it ws un acceptable..she got dumped...got bitter and went around college park spreading stories about me... :-\
it matters cause the person u r today is the sum total of your previous experiences...and that chick had me fall for what turned out to be lies..lit major my ass..she didn't even have a friggin fav author..... >:(
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Toxic, this is exactly why girls tell guys (like DIVISION) that nobody has ever rocked their world like that before ::)
I think its good you dont lie to score and despite the fact it cant be easy to admit you realize exactly why you are bitter, which is the step 95% of the population never makes.
The next step is growing a pair and getting over it :P
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I think its good you dont lie to score and despite the fact it cant be easy to admit you realize exactly why you are bitter, which is the step 95% of the population never makes.
Divs a good guy and a good friend...why would i lie to get laid...then that'd mean the girl is coming home with me not cause of me..but cause of my lies...unacceptable...
which is why i cant bring myself to do drunk chicks..
yeah..i dont get laid as much as i'd like 2..owell
The next step is growing a pair and getting over it :P
but she slept with fat ugly doods before me.....f**k man..i put my penis where..shudder...it pisses me off >:( what the f**k ws she thinking >:(
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but she slept with fat ugly doods before me
If the shoe fits ;D
(Sorry, I had too)
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Toxic, this is exactly why girls tell guys (like DIVISION) that nobody has ever rocked their world like that before ::)
I think its good you dont lie to score and despite the fact it cant be easy to admit you realize exactly why you are bitter, which is the step 95% of the population never makes.
The next step is growing a pair and getting over it :P
Obviously, I can only go by her word, but considering the fact that she's told me things about her past (rape survivor) that she hasn't even revealed to her ex, nor her parents, I tend to think she trusted me more than the others.
That combined with the fact that I am a giver sexually, means that I doubt she'd lie about her ex or his sexual inadequacies.
You seem so jaded and pessimistic toward relationships and what they mean, which leads me to believe you were truly wounded by the men in your life.
The question is: Did they cheat because it was available or because you weren't satisfying them in some way? There's a reason, hidden beneath the lies and insecurity, though you may never get the truth from your ex's. Regardless of why they cheated, the fact that they did tells me your relationship was not as solid as it needed to be.
All men do not cheat, because all men don't look at sex as merely a transaction of flesh......
I think it's the men you've been dealing with that have tainted your perspective, not men in general.
No idea how old you are, but you sound late thirties to mid forties based on your level of pessimism.
DIV
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Do you really think Sandy is a woman? ;)
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Do you really think Sandy is a woman? ;)
I have a feeling that Sandy is Jimmy in disguise......
But if that was the case, why allow him in this forum? ???
DIV
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I have a feeling that Sandy is Jimmy in disguise......
But if that was the case, why allow him in this forum? ???
DIV
I didn't necessarily think it was Jimmy. It's just she don't walk like a duck or talk like a duck.
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What is the sound of a house of cards hitting the ground ??
Obviously, I can only go by her word, but considering the fact that she's told me things about her past (rape survivor) that she hasn't even revealed to her ex, nor her parents, I tend to think she trusted me more than the others.
That combined with the fact that I am a giver sexually, means that I doubt she'd lie about her ex or his sexual inadequacies.
You seem so jaded and pessimistic toward relationships and what they mean, which leads me to believe you were truly wounded by the men in your life.
The question is: Did they cheat because it was available or because you weren't satisfying them in some way? There's a reason, hidden beneath the lies and insecurity, though you may never get the truth from your ex's. Regardless of why they cheated, the fact that they did tells me your relationship was not as solid as it needed to be.
All men do not cheat, because all men don't look at sex as merely a transaction of flesh......
I think it's the men you've been dealing with that have tainted your perspective, not men in general.
No idea how old you are, but you sound late thirties to mid forties based on your level of pessimism.
DIV
;D
ps Deedee, tis true I do not let my genitalia dictate my world outlook, quack quack quack :D
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Obviously, I can only go by her word, but considering the fact that she's told me things about her past (rape survivor) that she hasn't even revealed to her ex, nor her parents, I tend to think she trusted me more than the others.
That combined with the fact that I am a giver sexually, means that I doubt she'd lie about her ex or his sexual inadequacies.
You seem so jaded and pessimistic toward relationships and what they mean, which leads me to believe you were truly wounded by the men in your life.
The question is: Did they cheat because it was available or because you weren't satisfying them in some way? There's a reason, hidden beneath the lies and insecurity, though you may never get the truth from your ex's. Regardless of why they cheated, the fact that they did tells me your relationship was not as solid as it needed to be.
All men do not cheat, because all men don't look at sex as merely a transaction of flesh......
I think it's the men you've been dealing with that have tainted your perspective, not men in general.
No idea how old you are, but you sound late thirties to mid forties based on your level of pessimism.
DIV
Very good point there, Division.
Myself personally I have always steered clear of women with emotional baggage. It opens up a whole new world of problems and headaches that I really don't need. I dated someone a while back who came from a horrendous relationship and it caused me nothing but problems.
PB
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Very good point there, Division.
Myself personally I have always steered clear of women with emotional baggage. It opens up a whole new world of problems and headaches that I really don't need. I dated someone a while back who came from a horrendous relationship and it caused me nothing but problems.
Bro........you feel me on the baggage issue.
Unfortunately, in a relationship you won't understand the full complexity of the baggage until after you're somewhat invested. The girl I am with now has tons of baggage and it's affected her relationships with men, and I've been patient (as much as I can), but to say it hasn't affected our relationship would be lying.
The younger a person has trauma, the more it affects everthing else, essentially tainting their outlook on life.
Date a rape survivor and you'll understand soon enough.
ps Deedee, tis true I do not let my genitalia dictate my world outlook, quack quack quack :D
So you're a transexual who was formerly a female bodybuilder who took too many androgens for too long a period, got tired of men and decided to play for the opposite team?
How about you just be who you are and stop playing games?
I said Jimmy because I've never encountered anyone else here who makes the grand generalizations that you do, other than him.
Think you can know anything about someone from a message board.
DIV
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I didn't necessarily think it was Jimmy. It's just she don't walk like a duck or talk like a duck.
...but sandy is a bit of a quack tho :D
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Bro........you feel me on the baggage issue.
Unfortunately, in a relationship you won't understand the full complexity of the baggage until after you're somewhat invested. The girl I am with now has tons of baggage and it's affected her relationships with men, and I've been patient (as much as I can), but to say it hasn't affected our relationship would be lying.
The younger a person has trauma, the more it affects everthing else, essentially tainting their outlook on life.
Date a rape survivor and you'll understand soon enough.
So you're a transexual who was formerly a female bodybuilder who took too many androgens for too long a period, got tired of men and decided to play for the opposite team?
How about you just be who you are and stop playing games?
I said Jimmy because I've never encountered anyone else here who makes the grand generalizations that you do, other than him.
Think you can know anything about someone from a message board.
DIV
That is a tough one Div. Rape huh? My ex was a survivor of physical and verbal abuse. It tainted her bigtime. Wow....don't know how you do it bro. That plus a bunch of other things i'm sure, will definetly taint her outlook and opinions in life. I don't know how your situation is with her now but I hope it works for the best. Just don't make the same mistake that I did in over investing in a no win situation. Especially if you are thinking long term. You can only do so much. The rest is up to her. I passed up a lot of great people that I could have been with because I thought the relationship would survive the drama. It didn't. There comes a time when you have to look out for you own best interests no matter how good your hearts intentions were.
PB
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I said Jimmy because I've never encountered anyone else here who makes the grand generalizations that you do, other than him.
You're being cute, of course........but I've met women before with your A-type personality.
Unfortunately, they all have problems in relationships because they think they are men, essentially.
After I met you, I met another woman like you locally, same personality exactly and we discussed her relationship issues.
Suffice to say, she basically turned off all the men she met because she couldn't/wouldn't let them be men.
Sexually, she would take charge and tell them what was to happen, and then wondered why none of the men called her back.
Initially, she wanted to talk to me about a sexual relationship, but after I recognized her personality type, I dropped that and explained to her why it would be hard to find what she desired.
She didn't want a weak man she would walk all over, yet all the dominant men were just repelled because she wanted to fight them tooth and nail instead of submitting.
A real conundrum.....
I explained that most guys that she found attractive would not accept her attitude sexually or otherwise and she finally understood her choices.
Stay single or play the role of submissive that most women do......
Never found out what the resolution was because I stopped talking to her.
She wanted sex and I, for obvious reasons, wasn't having it so she took it as a slight I suppose.....
Anyway, Jodi, understand there are other women like you, just that they are the minority when it comes to women.
DIV
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coos, there's a tribute thread on the general board . . . i think you might enjoy it. ;D
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I didn't necessarily think it was Jimmy. It's just she don't walk like a duck or talk like a duck.
so who do you think the coosworth is?
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so who do you think the coosworth is?
A bright, quick-witted male.
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That is a tough one Div. Rape huh? My ex was a survivor of physical and verbal abuse. It tainted her bigtime. Wow....don't know how you do it bro. That plus a bunch of other things i'm sure, will definetly taint her outlook and opinions in life. I don't know how your situation is with her now but I hope it works for the best. Just don't make the same mistake that I did in over investing in a no win situation. Especially if you are thinking long term. You can only do so much. The rest is up to her. I passed up a lot of great people that I could have been with because I thought the relationship would survive the drama. It didn't. There comes a time when you have to look out for you own best interests no matter how good your hearts intentions were.
Thanks for your concern, PB.
I look at this relationship as a learning experience like all the ones prior and it has taught me more empathy and patience than I knew I ever had.
Truthfully, I doubt it will work out for the longterm because she is so tainted emotionally and physically from the scars that any relationship for her will not be a "normal" one.
I've really extended myself for her, and I'm not concerned with what I miss out on.
This is life.......another step.
Mainly, because of her past relationships, I want her to understand that all men aren't selfish or hard to deal with, that she can trust a man.
......and regardless of what happens, she'll have this experience to draw from.
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Are you dense or what?
I've talked with Jodi offline, and I'm not making any generalization as it pertains to her.
Believe me........
DIV
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A bright, quick-witted male.
this board is hopping tonight. must be all the transgendered posters. ;D
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this board is hopping tonight. must be all the transgendered posters. ;D
Males tend to post with more emotion. :) And are much more confrontational.
Am I over-generalizing. ???
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Are you dense or what?
I've talked with Jodi offline, and I'm not making any generalization as it pertains to her.
Believe me........
DIV
Right, and your post was "pegging" her, which is, de de da, a generalization.
You know this to be true ::)
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Right, and your post was "pegging" her, which is, de de da, a generalization.
You know this to be true ::)
Only because I've spoke offline with her.......so it's not a generalization.
I'm going to have to start ignoring your posts because you're really only interested in baiting........like lil' jimmy did.
DIV
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Males tend to post with more emotion. :) And are much more confrontational.
Am I over-generalizing. ???
I'm suffering from insomnia tonight. My eyes are the size of toonies right now :o
Come sing me a lullabye Deedee :-*
PB
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Males tend to post with more emotion. :) And are much more confrontational.
Am I over-generalizing. ???
some males do post w more emotion . . . than say, stella.
when i'm being confrontational, it's usually b/c i'm bored. can't tell you how much fun it is to come online and read a 240/Berserker/Toxie meltdown during a busy day. it's like having your own dadaists on call. Jaguar's been letting me down as she won't respond to my posts any more, but she still is wonderfully creative . . . and her tone beats all of the others hollow.
but i think you're generally right. apart from beach bum, i can't really think of anyone who is confrontational for kicks.
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I'm going to have to start ignoring your posts because you're really only interested in baiting
Im a master at it :D
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some males do post w more emotion . . . than say, stella.
when i'm being confrontational, it's usually b/c i'm bored. can't tell you how much fun it is to come online and read a 240/Berserker/Toxie meltdown during a busy day. it's like having your own dadaists on call. Jaguar's been letting me down as she won't respond to my posts any more, but she still is wonderfully creative . . . and her tone beats all of the others hollow.
but i think you're generally right. apart from beach bum, i can't really think of anyone who is confrontational for kicks.
Lol!!!
I'm suffering from insomnia tonight. My eyes are the size of toonies right now
Me too. I'm so going to hate myself in the morning. :'(
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If the shoe fits ;D
(Sorry, I had too)
lmao...heehee..good one! ;D
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Lol!!!
Me too. I'm so going to hate myself in the morning. :'(
And i'm feeling it now.....I went to bed at 1:30am last night only to get up at 5:30am this morning. Lovely :'(
PB
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Thursday Night: Asleep by 3, up by 6
Friday Night: Never really slept, had a nap when I got in ;)
Saturday Night: see Friday
The 6 hours I got last night should tide me over for a few :P
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Thursday Night: Asleep by 3, up by 6
Friday Night: Never really slept, had a nap when I got in ;)
Saturday Night: see Friday
The 6 hours I got last night should tide me over for a few :P
Holy cow and your still standing? Friday and Saturday's ordeal would have TKO'D me for a day easily.
PB
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Oh I'm still standing allright, though I still have a bit of a limp when I walk ;)
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Oh I'm still standing allright, though I still have a bit of a limp when I walk ;)
Sounds like you had a hell of a weekend:)
PB
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You only live once :)