christ, some of you aren't fucking enough. most sex positions have the male providing the majority, but not all, of the force. having the female on top while you lay flat is almost the female with the force, but because she's using gravity most of all, its not quite her with the point of leverage. when you do some variation of missionary with the female providing the force, surprise surprise, it feels good and different for both parties. only on the internet could trrying out different sex positions with a female be "gay."