I have a wealthy client in the same situation as this. Its not an easy scenario to deal with when children have children of their own.
I understand. I'm nearly raising kids of a family relative who had them too young and didn't know what to do with them. Two years back, I would have called Palin a shitty parent, etc.
But today... who knows... kids age quicker these days. if the kid was 21, having her BF live with her, drinking, posting lots of pics of crowne royale bags on the wall, that would be acceptable because she's just young and having fun. Obama and Bush were snorting coke at that age, right? What's a little liquor and unprotected sex at that point? Normal for many.
Scoot back 5 years to age 16, and it's taboo.
So who knows. i'd never let my kid do it at 16, but I understand Palin was busy in the capital city and the kids were alone a lot. So maybe they were just being kids. Should she have paid more attention to liquor pictures on her kids' myspace? That's something to consider, but she might be one of those 'cool parents' who is okay with a 16 year old drinking liquor from the bottle.
We shouldn't judge others. Unless Palin is trying to legislate anstinence or some alcohol laws, there's nothing hypocritical about it. She's just of a more LIBERAL mindset when it comes to parenting. Me, I'm a conservative. I'd whoop my kids' ass if I saw pics of him doing shots and having sleepovers. But I'm old fashioned.