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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
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if a woman officially lives in your house, but it's 100 % your property and you arent married
are you safe, house and money wise when it all goes to shit?
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
DO NOT READ if you suffer from high blood pressure... fuck!! >:(
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Holy fuck, I wasn't going to read that but I did... even his fucking retirement savings!?!? Holllly fuck........ wish I didn't read that. So pissed off lol :-X
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My girlfriend of over 2 years left me a few months ago because I wouldn't commit to marriage. I have worked way to hard to loose it all. I've seen it happen too many times. Not to sound like a pussy but I was just way too scared. People say if you own it before you got married she can't take it, yet I've seen guys loose it all.
The same situation in that story happened to my boy Chris. He's 45 and lives in a studio apartment and eats tuna and roman noodles while I see his wife having bbq's on his porch. Fuck that noise.
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My girlfriend of over 2 years left me a few months ago because I wouldn't commit to marriage. I have worked way to hard to loose it all. I've seen it happen too many times. Not to sound like a pussy but I was just way too scared. People say if you own it before you got married she can't take it, yet I've seen guys loose it all.
The same situation in that story happened to my boy Chris. He's 45 and lives in a studio apartment and eats tuna and roman noodles while I see his wife having bbq's on his porch. Fuck that noise.
it's not funny at all but, that made me laugh ;D
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if a woman officially lives in your house, but it's 100 % your property and you arent married
are you safe, house and money wise when it all goes to shit?
Read up on Common Law girlfriend...These bitch's have taken assets from their boyfriends in some cases...Find out how many years common law kicks in and leave your girlfriend beforehand...Some States look at common law boy/girlfriends the same as marriage...If you ever do move a girlfriend into your house and you know you'll never marry her, don't allow her to have mail sent to your house...Make her get a PO box...Don't put anything in her name...Nothing...Don't allow her to set up anything using your house address...
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Haha, this woman got owned big time for getting too greedy
http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2012/07/01/deadbeat_dad_flees_to_philippines_leaving_four_kids_without_support.html?app=noRedirect
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Haha, this woman got owned big time for getting too greedy
http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2012/07/01/deadbeat_dad_flees_to_philippines_leaving_four_kids_without_support.html?app=noRedirect
I love this story. All the media outlets in Canada made it out like he was a bastard but it's his c-u-n-t wife he's running from. I don't blame him.
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I love this story. All the media outlets in Canada made it out like he was a bastard but it's his c-u-n-t wife he's running from. I don't blame him.
Yeah I don't get it, the wife gets the 1.2 million dollar house, 2 grand a month from the husband, plus the house has an apartment she could get 2 grand a month rent from, and then decides to take the husband to court for more money?!
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I don't get this at all, why does the man loose out so badly. Surely there must be cases where the husband wins spousal support? ??? Reading this shit brings my blood to a boil.
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No it`s not worth it in my opinion. Not without an iron clad prenupt. It`s amazing how fast they run when you bring up a prenupt. ;D
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These stories seem hard to believe. They're always told from the victimized guy's perspective. They may not be pure bullshit but they're certainly one sided.
I don't get not getting married because of them. Even if these tales of woe are true, surely there's a way to secure your shit. Then you can get married. Even a dumbass like me can come up with: Put stuff in a trust to which the proposed spouse isn't a beneficiary. Or define it as corporate property. Or talk to an accountant and a lawyer. They'll have dozens of suggestions.
Not to poop the spirit of the thread.
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Sounds to me like some getbiggers are single because they have a hard time getting laid and not because they hate marriage ::)
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The solution is easy... Only marry a women with way more money than you.
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"when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order)."
- That's his lawyer's fault. He must not have submitted evidence. There is a reasonable time period and from the time of finding out about the affair to filings for divorce; that's very reasonable for a court. Also, if she took ALL the money out at once or in lots it's a large indicator of culpability.
Perhaps, It's just your friend was running out of money and his attorney probably saw that and that issue would have been more money than what was in the account or taken....maybe the lawyer by not pressing it saved yor friend in fees.
Don't worry Snowman: Common Law girlfriend is on the books in very small number of states and it has no case precedent so there has been no case law on it to happen. Why? First, it's meant for ye olde days when couples couldn't get to the courthouse because they lived so far away so. Second, one of the elements is holding yourself out as husband and wife to ALL. Therefore, if there one person you know that knows you were never married? The key to this CL wife is everyone thought you were married: one person knows you're not (not holding yourself out to be husband and wife) it fails.
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Will not marry. If anyone decides to get married they should each seek out attorney to draw out agreements for prenuptials.
Told girl I'm dating now, that is what I would do....she had problem with that. I explained marriage has always been a contract of faithfulness and devotion and money, I just wanted mine in writing. On to the next one.
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My girlfriend of over 2 years left me a few months ago because I wouldn't commit to marriage. I have worked way to hard to loose it all. I've seen it happen too many times. Not to sound like a pussy but I was just way too scared. People say if you own it before you got married she can't take it, yet I've seen guys loose it all.
The same situation in that story happened to my boy Chris. He's 45 and lives in a studio apartment and eats tuna and roman noodles while I see his wife having bbq's on his porch. Fuck that noise.
Depends on what state bro. Separate property state or community property state. When you meet the right one she will understand your hesitations and will commit to a prenuptial agreement so long as you promise to commit to her.
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This made me cry! I'm sick to my stomach. It's bitches like this that give women a bad name. I'm so sorry for your friend. Karma will get her as this home wrecker she's with now will leave her for someone else...she's the real home wrecker though! Disgusting
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It's a good thing that woman is getting the support she deservers. He should have been wise enough NOT to marry. In Poland if man cheats on his wife and she is plead guilty of the divorce in court woman still does not get jack shit, maybe a half of the house and like 200$ per month if she's lucky and husband is very wealthy.
If you marry better be prepared to provide for your wife for rest of your life. If that doesn't suit you, well, then do not fucking marry. See, the guy that moved in, does not marry and lives off her ex husband money? He's the guy you wanna be.
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
That's his fault , he married a whore .
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Yes, or like in muslim third world where if woman gets raped she goes to prison for adultery. Wonderful world, ruled by man, isn't it?
Jeez, you can always write a contract when you marry stating bla bla bla, she doesn't get jack shit when you divorce and you just part ways. Can you? Yes you fucking can.
Bottom line, you knew what you're getting into, man up and don't bitch about it. Or if all this "family life" sounds like BS for you then just don't do it.
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It's a good thing that woman is getting the support she deservers. He should have been wise enough NOT to marry. In Poland if man cheats on his wife and she is plead guilty of the divorce in court woman still does not get jack shit, maybe a half of the house and like 200$ per month if she's lucky and husband is very wealthy.
If you marry better be prepared to provide for your wife for rest of your life. If that doesn't suit you, well, then do not fucking marry. See, the guy that moved in, does not marry and lives off her ex husband money? He's the guy you wanna be.
I don't understand why she deserves it? She's the one who fucked over the marraige. I would sue her back for the money and kids.
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you know, most start with good and honest intents, but things end up bad.
as deceicer said, i rather have the current situation,compared to 60 or even 150 years ago.
where marriage basicaly meant owned by the husband
First of all...where have you been? lol
Second...really? I would have loved to live in the 50's or if the 50's way of life was current. Where the man is the man and the woman is the woman. Man works, woman takes care of house and kids. Perfect...simple! ;) but I'm just old school.
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First of all...where have you been? lol
Second...really? I would have loved to live in the 50's or if the 50's way of life was current. Where the man is the man and the woman is the woman. Man works, woman takes care of house and kids. Perfect...simple! ;) but I'm just old school.
LOL, yeah, where the woman does all the dirty work and she cannot say jack shit about her husband fucking everyone he wants because she's financially attached to him. Or about anything for that matter because she's 100% financially dependent on him.
FUCK YEAH, OLDSCHOOL RULESSS
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Sounds to me like some getbiggers are single because they have a hard time getting laid and not because they hate marriage ::)
If that`s what you are hearing, time to get a hearing test ;)
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The solution is easy... Only marry a women with way more money than you.
That, or a prenupt, both are workable solution. ;D
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where marriage basicaly meant owned by the husband
Prefer the property part, lol
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i know couple of women who are like that, but society is too far gone from these days,its unimagineable today int he western world to go back there.
haha i seen a booklet of the 50s i think, basicaly it was a guidance for women on how to treat their men, some feminist gargoyle showed it to me, i laughed all the way through.ill try to remember a best off and post the bits, or ill try to find that booklet online. ;D
Please do! I'd love to know what it says ;)
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Please do! I'd love to know what it says ;)
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PS 36-66-39, "A Wood Woman ALWAYS knows her place"
Thanks for the image! Perfectly said.
PS...I'm a GREAT woman ;)
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
Thou visits other forums?
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LOL, yeah, where the woman does all the dirty work and she cannot say jack shit about her husband fucking everyone he wants because she's financially attached to him. Or about anything for that matter because she's 100% financially dependent on him.
FUCK YEAH, OLDSCHOOL RULESSS
For someone as smart as you, you'd think not to go to the extreme of things. There is a happy medium.
Another thing,Since you are new to this country, let me tell you something...the restraining orders...are a tool, just like a hammer is one. And both can be used as a weapon. Not just against a married man, but also against a boyfriend. And they can used to embarass or in the case of married couples to create a paper trail for the divorce precedings. These are civil orders, and if violated, depending on the state, can carry serious criminal consequences. So, one could in theory have a civil order of protection against them, and violate it, then have criminal charges, plus a custody or divorce hearing all going on at the same time. In different courts. This means more money spent on attorney fees, more time spent in court, and also possible jail time. Meanwhile, if one has kids, the kids suffer.
The judicial system tends to rape the man, for just being a man. And then expects said man to pick up the pieces of his life, and "deal with it"...meanwhile, his reputation has been dragged thru the mud (assuming he has done no wrong), his car can be effed up (if he got it when he was married, it's her's as well), house gone, and in some instances lose his job.
Sure, as you said one can do a prenup, but ask yourself, if you go in thinking pre-nup, why get married if there is no trust, one is automatically assuming that this will eventually end?
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For someone as smart as you, you'd think not to go to the extreme of things. There is a happy medium.
Another thing,Since you are new to this country, let me tell you something...the restraining orders...are a tool, just like a hammer is one. And both can be used as a weapon. Not just against a married man, but also against a boyfriend. And they can used to embarass or in the case of married couples to create a paper trail for the divorce precedings. These are civil orders, and if violated, depending on the state, can carry serious criminal consequences. So, one could in theory have a civil order of protection against them, and violate it, then have criminal charges, plus a custody or divorce hearing all going on at the same time. In different courts. This means more money spent on attorney fees, more time spent in court, and also possible jail time. Meanwhile, if one has kids, the kids suffer.
The judicial system tends to rape the man, for just being a man. And then expects said man to pick up the pieces of his life, and "deal with it"...meanwhile, his reputation has been dragged thru the mud (assuming he has done no wrong), his car can be effed up (if he got it when he was married, it's her's as well), house gone, and in some instances lose his job.
Sure, as you said one can do a prenup, but ask yourself, if you go in thinking pre-nup, why get married if there is no trust, one is automatically assuming that this will eventually end?
Soooo true!!! So sad
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Trust is hard to find these days
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Marriage is a Jewish/Christian institution first and foremost. It requires one to have read the Bible to have a clue what he s heading into and what it is based on.
No wonder most marriages fail nowadays, do you guys think it could have anything to do with the fact most people abandoned christianism for atheism at the exact same time?
It s like trying to operate a sophisticated tool without reading the manual first.
Don t marry then, if you re an atheist. And ask the whore who wants to marry you to read the Bible with you before you both engage. Pure common sense.
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If you ballers are so worried about women taking all your "fortunes" why not just get a prenup?
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If you ballers are so worried about women taking all your "fortunes" why not just get a prenup?
A good quote from Parker
"Sure, as you said one can do a prenup, but ask yourself, if you go in thinking pre-nup, why get married if there is no trust, one is automatically assuming that this will eventually end?"
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For someone as smart as you, you'd think not to go to the extreme of things. There is a happy medium.
Another thing,Since you are new to this country, let me tell you something...the restraining orders...are a tool, just like a hammer is one. And both can be used as a weapon. Not just against a married man, but also against a boyfriend. And they can used to embarass or in the case of married couples to create a paper trail for the divorce precedings. These are civil orders, and if violated, depending on the state, can carry serious criminal consequences. So, one could in theory have a civil order of protection against them, and violate it, then have criminal charges, plus a custody or divorce hearing all going on at the same time. In different courts. This means more money spent on attorney fees, more time spent in court, and also possible jail time. Meanwhile, if one has kids, the kids suffer.
The judicial system tends to rape the man, for just being a man. And then expects said man to pick up the pieces of his life, and "deal with it"...meanwhile, his reputation has been dragged thru the mud (assuming he has done no wrong), his car can be effed up (if he got it when he was married, it's her's as well), house gone, and in some instances lose his job.
Sure, as you said one can do a prenup, but ask yourself, if you go in thinking pre-nup, why get married if there is no trust, one is automatically assuming that this will eventually end?
I do not think in terms of medium and extreme. I think in terms of what makes sense and what simply does not. Idea of marriage is based on false premise that:
a) people do not change
b) pair can spend their lifetime together
This is just unrealistic approach. If you think I'm extreme then look at damn statistics. Expecting your relationship to last until your death is like someone with third stage cancer expecting to live for another 40 years. Yes, that does happen but these are exceptions.
I think pre-nup is making your relationship all about trust. In the end, if you trust your partner why would you possibly need any legal guarantees that they, say, if you get sick will take care of you and not divorce and abandon you? But people are not rational. If you want to leave her after many years and your partner doesn't share that emotion this can go very wrong.
Then again you can say I'm 23 year old and dunno shit, so be it, let's use that argumentum ad personam. But please tell me that what I write doesn't make sense :)
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Marriage is a Jewish/Christian institution first and foremost. It requires one to have read the Bible to have a clue what he s heading into and what it is based on.
No wonder most marriages fail nowadays, do you guys think it could have anything to do with the fact most people abandoned christianism for atheism at the exact same time?
It s like trying to operate a sophisticated tool without reading the manual first.
Don t marry then, if you re an atheist. And ask the whore who wants to marry you to read the Bible with you before you both engage. Pure common sense.
Good post. I agree, but lack faith in people not God.
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if a woman officially lives in your house, but it's 100 % your property and you arent married
are you safe, house and money wise when it all goes to shit?
It depends on a couple of things. One is how long you let her live in your house and two is whether you live in a community property state or not. This is assuming she is also a "friend with benefits."
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theres claims this could be a hoax, but that is the exact book i meant.
weird is, i seen it in german, so chances are,its indeed a hoax.
but! society WAS kinda like that back then
It definitely was. I don't see anything wrong with it.
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I do not think in terms of medium and extreme. I think in terms of what makes sense and what simply does not. Idea of marriage is based on false premise that:
a) people do not change
b) pair can spend their lifetime together
This is just unrealistic approach. If you think I'm extreme then look at damn statistics. Expecting your relationship to last until your death is like someone with third stage cancer expecting to live for another 40 years. Yes, that does happen but these are exceptions.
I think pre-nup is making your relationship all about trust. In the end, if you trust your partner why would you possibly need any legal guarantees that they, say, if you get sick will take care of you and not divorce and abandon you? But people are not rational. If you want to leave her after many years and your partner doesn't share that emotion this can go very wrong.
Then again you can say I'm 23 year old and dunno shit, so be it, let's use that argumentum ad personam. But please tell me that what I write doesn't make sense :)
this post sounds like it was written by someone entirely different than the one who wrote
It's a good thing that woman is getting the support she deservers. He should have been wise enough NOT to marry. In Poland if man cheats on his wife and she is plead guilty of the divorce in court woman still does not get jack shit, maybe a half of the house and like 200$ per month if she's lucky and husband is very wealthy.
If you marry better be prepared to provide for your wife for rest of your life. If that doesn't suit you, well, then do not fucking marry. See, the guy that moved in, does not marry and lives off her ex husband money? He's the guy you wanna be.
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lol...that's me right now, minus the financially dependent part...and married part. I guess I'm just "realistic"
your bf is "fucking everyone he wants" right now?
???
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A good quote from Parker
When you buy a car you don't intend to get in a car accident? But you still get insurance right?
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haha brutal deletion 38etc.
afraid he'll catch wind of your suspicions, huh?
something tells me you're a sucker for punishment... :-*
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If you ballers are so worried about women taking all your "fortunes" why not just get a prenup?
Asking a woman to sign a pre-nup is akin to telling her she needs to lose weight. It's not gonna go smoothly.
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if a woman officially lives in your house, but it's 100 % your property and you arent married
are you safe, house and money wise when it all goes to shit?
commonlaw in FL
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Yall
nigge hebrews every heard of a Prenuptial agreement?
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well if there's anything i can do to help speed the termination of this obviously, dreadfully unhappy relationship, in which you're clearly helplessly ensnared
do let me know
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well if there's anything i can do to help speed the termination of this obviously, dreadfully unhappy relationship, in which you're clearly helplessly ensnared
do let me know
:D
I'm the happiest I've ever been. There's no end to this one. Sorry to break your heart lol
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I'm the happiest I've ever been. There's no end to this one. Sorry to break your heart lol
You're relationship with this mystery getbigger won't last, they never do. Once a getbigger, always a getbigger...
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I'm the happiest I've ever been. There's no end to this one. Sorry to break your heart lol
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there's this hot, but very sad looking latina chick at my gym
who works out with her huge (5'5") bodybuilder boyfriend every day
she mopes around and compliments him a little bit here and there, but he's just got his head down and earbuds in, sometimes takes off the cap to wipe his bald head... but then he plants his otomix boots right back on that leg press and "gets to work"
don't turn out like her
quit before its too late
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You're relationship with this mystery getbigger won't last, they never do. Once a getbigger, always a getbigger...
I take it you're alone? And bitter? I'm sorry
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there's this hot, but very sad looking latina chick at my gym
who works out with her huge (5'5") bodybuilder boyfriend every day
she mopes around and compliments him a little bit here and there, but he's just got his head down and earbuds in, sometimes takes off the cap to wipe his bald head... but then he plants his otomix boots right back on that leg press and "gets to work"
don't turn out like her
quit before its too late
Lol funny story!
However when we go to the gym, I'm the one getting all the compliments...from all the other guys there lol and some of the girls too ;)
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I take it you're alone? And bitter? I'm sorry
I was just kidding you curvy ass bitch. :-[
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I was just kidding you curvy ass bitch. :-[
lol hey...me too! And don't call me a bitch :-\ I wasn't trying to be mean! I said I'm sorry!
Don't have a negative outlook on relationships...they don't all end like you mentioned. :)
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lol hey...me too! And don't call me a bitch :-\ I wasn't trying to be mean! I said I'm sorry!
Don't have a negative outlook on relationships...they don't all end like you mentioned. :)
I'm so transparent, even when I'm anonymously posting online!! ;D
P.S. I was kidding about you being a b-word.
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Asking a woman to sign a pre-nup is akin to telling her she needs to lose weight. It's not gonna go smoothly.
If its the right one she won't even flinch at it. A prenup protects BOTH people and their assets. Simply states BOTH parties keep and retain what they came in with and the only community property is what it purchased in BOTH names . If either party flinches at a prenup it it's a major red flag...
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I'm so transparent, even when I'm anonymously posting online!! ;D
P.S. I was kidding about you being a b-word.
"B-word" lol I know you were kidding. It's ok...I rather be called a bitch than anything else.
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if a woman officially lives in your house, but it's 100 % your property and you arent married
are you safe, house and money wise when it all goes to shit?
1- if she pays you rent have her pay you cash and if she has to write a check don't have it say "rent" in the memo. If she can prove in court she's been helping pay the mortgage even though its a long shot she WILL have a shot at money's earned or equity during the marriage
2- common law is different in every state. Most expensive states it no longer exists
3- if she gets mail sent to the house you will have a harder time evicting her if things go south. Check your state laws regarding the eviction process of a renter
4- NEVER marry someone who makes less than you. If you marry someone that makes more you don't have to worry about 1,2,3 :D
Fun fact: she has your baby YOUR FUCKED weather you have a prenup or not if things go south. The kid is where the $$$$$ is at. Why do you think all the cleat chasers shit that kid out the 1st chance they get, cha-Ching ;D
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consider the following
when marrying you promise to stay together until death do you part
divorce is praying for problems
only death of one of the parties can release the marriage bond
just saying sometjing to think about
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consider the following
when marrying you promise to stay together until death do you part
divorce is praying for problems
only death of one of the parties can release the marriage bond
just saying sometjing to think about
My man that's what every guy who's paying now thought. In court all that matters is what's in writing. He said she said means absolutely ZERO in court...
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My man that's what every guy who's paying now thought. In court all that matters is what's in writing. He said she said means absolutely ZERO in court...
they should have anticipated and killed thier wife, themselves or both
waiting for court is a losers way
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When you buy a car you don't intend to get in a car accident? But you still get insurance right?
Sure, but you can avoid marriage and still have fun together, have children etc.
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This made me cry! I'm sick to my stomach. It's bitches like this that give women a bad name. I'm so sorry for your friend. Karma will get her as this home wrecker she's with now will leave her for someone else...she's the real home wrecker though! Disgusting
There are bitches who give women a "good" name......? ::)
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Thou visits other forums?
I do partake in observing the follies of lesser cyber mortals.listen to many, speak to a few.
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consider the following
when marrying you promise to stay together until death do you part
divorce is praying for problems
only death of one of the parties can release the marriage bond
just saying sometjing to think about
"Now I'm not saying he should have killed her! ... but I understand."
Chris Rock
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Dont pick a scumbag bitch then lol.
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
How long did he know her till he got married?
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I do not think in terms of medium and extreme. I think in terms of what makes sense and what simply does not. Idea of marriage is based on false premise that:
a) people do not change
b) pair can spend their lifetime together
This is just unrealistic approach. If you think I'm extreme then look at damn statistics. Expecting your relationship to last until your death is like someone with third stage cancer expecting to live for another 40 years. Yes, that does happen but these are exceptions.
I think pre-nup is making your relationship all about trust. In the end, if you trust your partner why would you possibly need any legal guarantees that they, say, if you get sick will take care of you and not divorce and abandon you? But people are not rational. If you want to leave her after many years and your partner doesn't share that emotion this can go very wrong.
Then again you can say I'm 23 year old and dunno shit, so be it, let's use that argumentum ad personam. But please tell me that what I write doesn't make sense :)
it makes sense, only to those who may lack experience or are youthfully naive.
1. People should think about certain things when getting married. Similar backgrounds--both parents being married. Common goals. Remember we tend to replicate what we know.Bad habits, or the development of bad habits.
The stats---ha, are they reflective of the Baby-Boomers and their children? The baby boomer generation is the generation in which the massive trend towards divorce was started. You know the "I'm not happy" and "we grew apart" (and then the recapturing of their youth).
The trend tends to start from a selfish mindset. Today's society reflects that, and is the result of the Baby-Boomers teaching that to their kids---who tended to come from the divorced, remarried, and or single parents
Sure, people change, some for the better, others for the worse.
The majority of people my age that I have come into contact with who are married, heading for a divorced or divorced, either came from divorced parents, single parents. Or got with greedy, selfish, promiscious partners. Basically, Individuals with very deep personality flaws. Now, how are these people going to have a long lasting marriage, with respect for one another, their marriage, and their children? Now, granted, no marriage is perfect, everyone has it's flaws---and just because it's long lasting, doesn't mean that it is good. A lot of women have been in long marriages, where they have been the subject of domestic abuse since the beginning or before the marriage. And a lot of men have had to suffer thru verbal demasculinization for yrs on end.
This is no equation, there is no right or wrong answer, there are many ways, and paths to a happy marriage. And if one starts out saying, "sign this pre-nup", it's essentially saying, "I don't trust you, and down the road if you eff me over, you get what you came in with, and not a cent more." How is that "building trust"? All it does is create a situation in which backs another into a corner. It creates animosity, and a form of "power play". Holding a "act right or else" clause over a person's head does not, nor will it ever build trust. Especially, if you hold it over today's woman's head.
Also, look at the couples who get this. If you look at the celebs and rich folk, the women tend to be young and very attractive. The men, tend to be rich, and of various states of attractiveness, but the power is on their sides. One also must wonder about both parties characters.
And another note, I had turned the radio on one day, and flipped thru the channels. A pasted was on the radio, and stated, "Show me boy and girl in front of the altar, and they have the thinking, 'if this doesn't last there is always divorce', then chances are the marriage will not last. Show me a boy girl at the altar with the thinking 'this will last and divorce is not an option', then chances are it will last."
This is of course barring domestic violence, major character flaws and development of marriage wrecking addictions and or bad habits.
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lots of beta twinks frightened to get married in this thread
if you meet the right girl all the above shit never comes in to play
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That's why I only date women that brings the same to the relationship in terms of finance, wealth and employment. No job, no money? Fuck off. Children? Get fucked. I'm not paying any bitch' way in life, no matter how magnificent her tits are.
My current gf is a teacher, owns her own house and pay her way in our relationship as much as I pay mine.
That's the type of girl you date. Not a blonde and pretty waste of space.
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That's why I only date women that brings the same to the relationship in terms of finance, wealth and employment. No job, no money? Fuck off. Children? Get fucked. I'm not paying any bitch' way in life, no matter how magnificent her tits are.
My current gf is a teacher, owns her own house and pay her way in our relationship as much as I pay mine.
That's the type of girl you date. Not a blonde and pretty waste of space.
congratulation
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That's why I only date women that brings the same to the relationship in terms of finance, wealth and employment. No job, no money? Fuck off. Children? Get fucked. I'm not paying any bitch' way in life, no matter how magnificent her tits are.
My current gf is a teacher, owns her own house and pay her way in our relationship as much as I pay mine.
That's the type of girl you date. Not a blonde and pretty waste of space.
fuck
doing it right^^^^^^^^^^^^
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fuck
doing it right^^^^^^^^^^^^
You have a child now brother, this is your portion in life and you must work at it.
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You have a child now brother, this is your portion in life and you must work at it.
The woman he had the child with is callig the shots, and always will be.
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The woman he had the child with is callig the shots, and always will be.
It is what it is, but he made the decisions that led to his son being born with her. He's in it to win it now, whether he likes it or not.
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as long as i dont get a second one i think i can still have a decent every day life
i need to get a secret vaszectomy
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This is no equation, there is no right or wrong answer, there are many ways, and paths to a happy marriage. And if one starts out saying, "sign this pre-nup", it's essentially saying, "I don't trust you, and down the road if you eff me over, you get what you came in with, and not a cent more." How is that "building trust"? All it does is create a situation in which backs another into a corner. It creates animosity, and a form of "power play". Holding a "act right or else" clause over a person's head does not, nor will it ever build trust. Especially, if you hold it over today's woman's head.
Good post, but all relationships have elements of power play. Some more, some less. Writing up a prenup is a safety valve and it doesn't mean it will lead to a loss of trust, it means a partner has to think twice before acting irresponsibly.
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Have you considered a "secret" gunshot through the head?
have you
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I've met plenty of guys in their 40's who were getting fucked over and just said that everyone went through it.
It's fucking bullshit. Yeh there are some great people who wouldn't fuck over others but it's few and far.
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That's why I only date women that brings the same to the relationship in terms of finance, wealth and employment. No job, no money? Fuck off. Children? Get fucked. I'm not paying any bitch' way in life, no matter how magnificent her tits are.
My current gf is a teacher, owns her own house and pay her way in our relationship as much as I pay mine.
That's the type of girl you date. Not a blonde and pretty waste of space.
you have lied incessantly on here about your sexual conquests
we all know you are a virgin
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you have lied incessantly on here about your sexual conquests
we all know you are a virgin
Are you somehow implying that Jimmy's tales of dropping perfect 10s because they didn't apply deodorant to their armpits were figments of an overactive imagination, bigmc?
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Are you somehow implying that Jimmy's tales of dropping perfect 10s because they didn't apply deodorant to their armpits were figments of an overactive imagination, bigmc?
what im sayin is mr my phone is never charged so I cant take pics of the multiple super modesl im banging every night might be confusing his hand with these perfect tens
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My girlfriend of over 2 years left me a few months ago because I wouldn't commit to marriage. I have worked way to hard to loose it all. I've seen it happen too many times. Not to sound like a pussy but I was just way too scared. People say if you own it before you got married she can't take it, yet I've seen guys loose it all.
The same situation in that story happened to my boy Chris. He's 45 and lives in a studio apartment and eats tuna and roman noodles while I see his wife having bbq's on his porch. Fuck that noise.
You did the right thing buddy. Never look back.
A man can fall in love 20 times in one day. Just hang out outside a modeling agency. She'll get desperate soon enough, trap an imbecile into marrying her, having kids and all that.
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what im sayin is mr my phone is never charged so I cant take pics of the multiple super modesl im banging every night might be confusing his hand with these perfect tens
James28 is the kind of guy that would find a horny page three model on his bed and turn her away saying "You have a bit of extra hair in your bikini line darling, sorry no shag until you take care of that".
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what im sayin is mr my phone is never charged so I cant take pics of the multiple super modesl im banging every night might be confusing his hand with these perfect tens
Hahaha yes bigmc, James28strokesasecond is clearly confusing 10's with 10 digits here.
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Good post, but all relationships have elements of power play. Some more, some less. Writing up a prenup is a safety valve and it doesn't mean it will lead to a loss of trust, it means a partner has to think twice before acting irresponsibly.
True, about the power play part.
I read something in this book about money. I forgot the exact wording, but the author had advised against this. He gave his reasonings. What I wonder is this just a reflection of today's society and today's marriages? Today's people are less than trustworthy, came from less than stellar marriages/households. And the view that marriage is just a contract. That's it. Since, there is the popular belief that marriage is not a convenant between God, man, and woman, (because as we all know, God doesn't exist, right?) it is not taken seriously by one or both parties. Also, the view of "we build and grow together" is looked as out-moded, out dated, old fashioned.
Bottom line, Marriage hasn't changed, the people have. Marriage has been the same, the quality of people has gone down.
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Hahaha yes bigmc, James28strokesasecond is clearly confusing 10's with 10 digits here.
yes cyp jamesmaterbate thinks painting his nails pink is the same as banging a hot woman
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you spend vast amounts of money and time playing around your male hormons, worring and angsting about others thinking you are a queer and now you propose to emasculate your self
let the blade aspire to higher things when its there
VAST AMOUNTS OF MONEY on 1-2 cc's of test enanthate per week huh..................... ........................ ........................ .....
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VAST AMOUNTS OF MONEY on 1-2 cc's of test enanthate per week huh..................... ........................ ........................ .....
Relatively speaking. If you don't have a pot to piss in, 50 euros can be a vast amount of money.
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Relatively speaking. If you don't have a pot to piss in, 50 euros can be a vast amount of money.
what the fuck
50 euros is like a ten week supply of test
how poor exactly do you think i am
lol
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what the fuck
50 euros is like a ten week supply of test
how poor exactly do you think i am
lol
Really poor in mind.
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what the fuck
50 euros is like a ten week supply of test
how poor exactly do you think i am
lol
How about putting the money you use for PEDs aside for your child's education?
You can look big, or as big as you are now with push ups, dips, pull ups, and work in the weight room.
You put more priority in the wrong things.
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How about putting the money you use for PEDs aside for your child's education?
You can look big, or as big as you are now with push ups, dips, pull ups, and work in the weight room.
You put more priority in the wrong things.
fuck off with this nonsense
a life without bb is not a life i want to live
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It's not only about you, you fucking idiot. Can't you get it through your head?
You actually believe anything he posts is real?
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You actually believe anything he posts is real?
It could be, it's so sad.
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Getting married is the equivalent of promising to eat the same food, to listen to the same song and to watch the same movie for the rest of your life.
lots of beta twinks frightened to get married in this thread
if you meet the right girl all the above shit never comes in to play
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Getting married is the equivalent of promising to eat the same food, to listen to the same song and to watch the same movie for the rest of your life.
(http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/38448078.jpg)
You just described the life of an IFBB pro
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Getting married is the equivalent of promising to eat the same food, to listen to the same song and to watch the same movie for the rest of your life.
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yeah but if its your favourite food, the greatest song ever and a movie that never gets old
then that my friend is the dream right there
why keep watching b movies when you can always be watching a block buster
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It could be, it's so sad.
I can't be - nobody that retarded could have a job, subordinates, let alone operate a PC. Just a troll.
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I can't be - nobody that retarded could have a job, subordinates, let alone operate a PC. Just a troll.
The guy is a forklift operator. A monkey can be trained to do that.
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yeah but if its your favourite food, the greatest song ever and a movie that never gets old
then that my friend is the dream right there
why keep watching b movies when you can always be watching a block buster
Bigmc living the good life in the Midlands with Mrs Right in this thread.
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Bigmc living the good life in the Midlands with Mrs Right in this thread.
wouldn't swap her for the world
I feel sorry for people that don't have that and end up bitter
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wouldn't swap her for the world
I feel sorry for people that don't have that and end up bitter
That's it bro.
I literally can't wait to finish work so I can get back to my main hobby in life, the wife and 2 kids.
Nothing worse than reading an embittered post from a 40 something year old on getbig, who's spent the last 25 years sleeping about, now moaning constantly about 'evil' women and putting down marraige, lol it speaks for itself.
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That's why I only date women that brings the same to the relationship in terms of finance, wealth and employment. No job, no money? Fuck off. Children? Get fucked. I'm not paying any bitch' way in life, no matter how magnificent her tits are.
My current gf is a teacher, owns her own house and pay her way in our relationship as much as I pay mine.
That's the type of girl you date. Not a blonde and pretty waste of space.
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You can include bitches with low selfesteem and problems in there as well. Just stay the fuck away! No way Im going to take care of a broke, non having ass job with multiple children of a sorry ass biatch! The children part is the worst though, because there are so many young women with children these days, but you can always just fuck them and leave them, and hope to establish a real relationship with a bitch without kids... :)
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Nothing better than walking into the station car park, and seeing her long curly brown hair lighltly blowing in the breeze, while she sits in her new A4 sport with the kids in the back, knowing that she's even more beautiful than she looks because she fixed dinner before she left to get me.
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It's not only about you, you fucking idiot. Can't you get it through your head?
fuck you little bitch
if working hard and putting money on the table doesnt even give you the right to bodybuild then i dont want to live in this perverse world
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The guy is a forklift operator. A monkey can be trained to do that.
i used to be but unlike you i'm moving up in the world
stay mad cock breath
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Nothing better than walking into the station car park, and seeing her long curly brown hair lighltly blowing in the breeze, while she sits in her new A4 sport with the kids in the back, knowing that she's even more beautiful than she looks because she fixed dinner before she left to get me.
BigCyp, you're quite the romantic.
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Nothing better than walking into the station car park, and seeing her long curly brown hair lighltly blowing in the breeze, while she sits in her new A4 sport with the kids in the back, knowing that she's even more beautiful than she looks because she fixed dinner before she left to get me.
cyp dropping some world class lyrics in this thread
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BigCyp, you're quite the romantic.
You're not too shabby yourself Romando
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The situation in the original post is fucking unreal.
The bloke wants to start looking up how to get away with murder, seriously.
Will never marry wor lass for that very reason, if we split she gets fuck all and id take my kids and tell her to go get fucked. Would rather die or spend life in prison than allow my kids to live with another man. And that poor fucker has to pay for that privelage? Can hardly wait.
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Nothing better than walking into the station car park, and seeing her long curly brown hair lighltly blowing in the breeze, while she sits in her new A4 sport with the kids in the back, knowing that she's even more beautiful than she looks because she fixed dinner before she left to get me.
you got lucky. please dont encourage guys to get married in this judicial environment. People win the lottery every week many more dont. Marriage is kinda the same way....a small percentage get lucky ( i.e. win the lottery) the vast majority just lose their money.
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you got lucky. please dont encourage guys to get married in this judicial environment. People win the lottery every week many more dont. Marriage is kinda the same way....a small percentage get lucky ( i.e. win the lottery) the vast majority just lose their money.
No.
The difference between winning the lottery, and picking a good wife, is that you get to pick the winning ticket dummy.
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fuck you little bitch
if working hard and putting money on the table doesnt even give you the right to bodybuild then i dont want to live in this perverse world
i used to be but unlike you i'm moving up in the world
stay mad cock breath
Believe it or not I am not entirely trolling you. I am aghast at a guy who has had a child with a woman he is not in the best of terms with and all he thinks about is bigger muscles.
Shouldn't you be thinking of how to provide a more stable environment for your child ??? Believe me, your woman won't start respecting you if you get bigger; to her white guys are weak and nothing but a meal ticket.
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No.
The difference between winning the lottery, and picking a good wife, is that you get to pick the winning ticket dummy.
Thats an idiotic statement... when you pick a wife, just like when you pick a ticket, you dont know if you have a winner until later. Most divorced couples will tell you that the person they divorced isn't the same person they married. People change and the law in the west isn't on the husbands side when and if that happens. Dummy.
You picked a winning lottery ticket, enjoy it. Dont go around telling others they can just as easily do the same. Dummy ;D
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Marriage is like a late night phone call
You get a ring...
And then you wake up!
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The best thing you can do is pick the right one to be your wife and wait until you're settled with her for 4-5 years to have children. Not that I have any room to talk as I'm on my second wife but I can guarantee you one thing it will be my last.
That no fault BS nearly screwed me but I saved alot of my assets by thinking fast and transferring them.
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I am still on my first wife. I married very young. I was 20 years old when I married my wife and we had already lived together for more than a year by this time. My wife was a year and a half older than me....so I married an older woman.
I don't know what magic makes a good lasting relationship because there is some mystique involved. My wife and I were two of the most unlikely people to marry and stay married all these years for a number of reasons which I won't go into here. The one thing both of us were on the same page about was commitment and being real about who we were. We didn't go into this longtime relationship with the idea we could change each other to suit our needs.
Over the years, we have seen many friends marry and divorce. It is sad. Divorced people are never the same as they once were. In the case of our friends and family who have divorced, there was nothing outrageous in their relationship, which is to say no one was beating the other one up or the like.
Maybe I got lucky. So many guys say they married the consummate bitch. My wife is an angel. I know the difference too because my mother was the woman no man should marry if they want any peace in their life after marriage.
I suspect physical attraction clouds folks judgment. A physically beautiful person is not necessarily the person you should commit the rest of your life too. A wife is not a "trophy" but a partner for life.
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I am still on my first wife. I married very young. I was 20 years old when I married my wife and we had already lived together for more than a year by this time. My wife was a year and a half older than me....so I married an older woman.
I don't know what magic makes a good lasting relationship because there is some mystique involved. My wife and I were two of the most unlikely people to marry and stay married all these years for a number of reasons which I won't go into here. The one thing both of us were on the same page about was commitment and being real about who we were. We didn't go into this longtime relationship with the idea we could change each other to suit our needs.
Over the years, we have seen many friends marry and divorce. It is sad. Divorced people are never the same as they once were. In the case of our friends and family who have divorced, there was nothing outrageous in their relationship, which is to say no one was beating the other one up or the like.
Maybe I got lucky. So many guys say they married the consummate bitch. My wife is an angel. I know the difference too because my mother was the woman no man should marry if they want any peace in their life after marriage.
I suspect physical attraction clouds folks judgment. A physically beautiful person is not necessarily the person you should commit the rest of your life too. A wife is not a "trophy" but a partner for life.
Wise words!
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I am still on my first wife. I married very young. I was 20 years old when I married my wife and we had already lived together for more than a year by this time. My wife was a year and a half older than me....so I married an older woman.
Can't even fathom getting married that young. (at least for me). How old are you now?
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yeah but if its your favourite food, the greatest song ever and a movie that never gets old
then that my friend is the dream right there
why keep watching b movies when you can always be watching a block buster
Why marry though? The question remains that no-one dares to ask it seems. Let's face it, it is something that women want, fantasize about (wedding) and benefit from. Why are men so eager to marry? Marriage is bullshit.
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Wise words!
Thanks Big Arch.
I suspect I am one of the oldest dudes on Getbig. While age does not necessarily make someone wise....so I am definitely no wizard....it can speak from a point of personal experience. If my experiences offer some light and guidance to others who come after me, this is very gratifying.
My wife and I have two grown children who have successful adult lives, thanks or no thanks to their dad and mom. Sometimes they ask us for guidance through a particular issue and probably more times then we know, they do not. Still, I hope that our experiences, especially mine have taught me things which I can now share with those of you who are less experienced than me.
Just so you know, I am a small part Cherokee Indian. We believe in sharing the wisdom of our forefathers.
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Can't even fathom getting married that young. (at least for me). How old are you now?
My wife and I will celebrate 49 years of marriage this October. I turned 69 years of age late last month.
I've read that it is not advised for people to marry young. I did and it worked out great. My son married his wife when he was 22 years old. They just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary. My daughter married her husband when she was 19 years old. This summer, they celebrated their 18th wedding anniversary. Both are happily married.
On a side note, all of us lived with our eventual marital partners for awhile (about a year) prior to marrying. Given the success of our marriages, I conclude that there is merit to living together prior to marriage. While the sex can be amazing, living together through thick and thin, illness and good health and whatever comes up during that time can be really telling if you are in it for the long haul.
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In my opinion a fair question: I don't know what kind of person I'm going to be in 10 years. I like to keep as honest as possible and treat other people well. How can I sign a legal social contract with someone for life when I can't in any way predict what kind of person I will be in the future?
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In my opinion a fair question: I don't know what kind of person I'm going to be in 10 years. I like to keep as honest as possible and treat other people well. How can I sign a legal social contract with someone for life when I can't in any way predict what kind of person I will be in the future?
What you ask is at the basis of commitment. You probably won't be the same person you were ten years ago and neither will be your partner. There is the risk, to be sure, that in ten years neither you no your partner will still be compatible. However, if you are committed to each other and you don't totally go off in different directions, you will still find a common ground which added to your love of each other and your experience together is enough to get you through the hard times.
There are no knights in shinning armor nor are their beautiful maidens to cater to your every whim. Once people come to accept the reality of making two different personalities coming together to develop relationship they can both enjoy most of the time, the better marriage or even civil unions will be.
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It's bodybuilding related since a lot of fellas on here have been through that route. When it comes to a prenup, can you only have one before a marriage certificate or after is acceptable too. Or either way it does 't matter, a prenup could be signed at anytime during a marriage.
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Marriage: two people trying to solve together problems they wouldn't have encountered had they been single.
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It's bodybuilding related since a lot of fellas on here have been through that route. When it comes to a prenup, can you only have one before a marriage certificate or after is acceptable too. Or either way it does 't matter, a prenup could be signed at anytime during a marriage.
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The clue is in the word stud.
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how well do prenups stand up in court though ? i once read about a woman who still scored very big after her divorce despite a prenup being in place ???
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how well do prenups stand up in court though ? i once read about a woman who still scored very big after her divorce despite a prenup being in place ???
this
pre nups dont offer the full protection in law
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how well do prenups stand up in court though ? i once read about a woman who still scored very big after her divorce despite a prenup being in place ???
The whole idea of a prenuptial agreement is a pathetic reflection on today's litigious society and the sorry state of marriages today, which appear to come and go with the weather.
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True LOVE doesn't need any rituals like marriage, marriage contract ...
If she askes fo it -> fuck and leave her.
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Prenups are effective if they're done right. Both sides have a lawyer, makes sure its done far enough in advance that neither side can say they were rushed or felt pressured. For me, it was about protecting my home and the money I had accumulated up to this point. Also, I made her waive alimony and setup a payment plan in the event it didn't workout.
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If a girl pays part of the rent, then she isnt common law wifey, right? ???
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If a girl pays part of the rent, then she isnt common law wifey, right? ???
Only in common law states.
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Prenups are effective if they're done right. Both sides have a lawyer, makes sure its done far enough in advance that neither side can say they were rushed or felt pressured. For me, it was about protecting my home and the money I had accumulated up to this point. Also, I made her waive alimony and setup a payment plan in the event it didn't workout.
It's far better not to get married at all. There is always some crafty lawyer out there who can circumvent almost any pre-nup. It's just not worth the risk and financial ramifications. Marriage is a legally binding financial arrangement... it has NOTHING to do with love.
The number one contributing factor to divorce, is marriage. Dumb men will always get married... smart men don't.
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If a girl pays part of the rent, then she isnt common law wifey, right? ???
Depends on which state you are in. Even if you just live with her for short time you can be liable. Cali used to be 2 years or longer. Not sure about the other states... they vary from 2-10 years.
Shacking up aside, make sure you never share an address, credit card or a bank account. She can come after you for monetary damages in court if you do.
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Dumb men will always get married... smart men don't.
LOL. Better tell that to guys like Trump, Buffet, Gates, Zuckerberg etc
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Marrying is improving your odds of survival making an alliance with someone else and his/her family first and foremost.
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Marrying is improving your odds of survival making an alliance with someone else and his/her family first and foremost.
Words of the weak
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LOL. Better tell that to guys like Trump, Buffet, Gates, Zuckerberg etc
Yes... they are dumb. How much did Trump lose when he got divorced? Same thing is going to happen to hoodie boy... naïve idiot.
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Words of the weak
well for most beta males that s just the way it is. Now for rich alphas who pay everything for women it's another matter. But we all know only 1 % of males are alphas, while the rest are betas pretending to be alphas.
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Words of the weak
Yes, but also words of someone who is married -lol
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well for most beta males that s just the way it is. Now for rich alphas who pay everything for women it's another matter. But we all know only 1 % of males are alphas, while the rest are betas pretending to be alphas.
Words of the weak.
Alpha doesnt pay for women. Women pays for Aplha.
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Yes... they are dumb. How much did Trump lose when he got divorced? Same thing is going to happen to hoodie boy... naïve idiot.
They said around 25 million. He's now worth a couple billion.
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Yes... they are dumb. How much did Trump lose when he got divorced? Same thing is going to happen to hoodie boy... naïve idiot.
Trump deserves to be trumped by the women he dumps because he seems like a jerk anyway (just my opinion). Most people don't have to worry about giving up as much money to a failed relationship as he does because they don't have that much money in the first place.
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They said around 25 million. He's now worth a couple billion.
You're cherry picking here kid.
The less money a man has, the more it hurts when that money leaves his pocket. Men with average or slightly above average means get their ass-reamed in divorce court because they normally lose 50% of everything they've got or ever worked for.
Wake up son.
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Some nasty stories here. The key is finding/marrying a sane, non whore, that's hasn't been poisoned by feminism.
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Some nasty stories here. The key is finding/marrying a sane, non whore, that's hasn't been poisoned by feminism.
Far and few between. They're still out there, but they're 1 in a million these days.
Today's woman has a HUGE sense of entitlement. Entitlement costs a LOT of money... money I'm not willing to spend.
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I'm not spending much money on my wife. Only on children.
But marriage is real burden. Absense of freedom. Sometimes i can't do what i want. i am fucken betta :(
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You're cherry picking here kid.
The less money a man has, the more it hurts when that money leaves his pocket. Men with average or slightly above average means get their ass-reamed in divorce court because they normally lose 50% of everything they've got or ever worked for.
Wake up son.
But I have money. Men, for lack of a better word, that don't have shit, shouldn't be getting married. Smart men have confidence in their ability to make money. Dumb guys worry about every dollar, because they have to.
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But I have money. Men, for lack of a better word, that don't have shit, shouldn't be getting married. Smart men have confidence in their ability to make money. Dumb guys worry about every dollar, because they have to.
i do this
trying to survive
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Let s just say we all try to survive with what we have and leave it at that :-*
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Knew a bloke who found out his wife was cheating on him,was a successful guy he kept quiet and put all his rental propertys in his dads name and wrapped up his buisness before divorcing the bitch and she got nowt.
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http://www.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/us/2013/09/10/nr-live-newlywed-pushes-husband-off-cliff.cnn.html
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reason why I am not getting married...again :o
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never marry fat whore.
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this
pre nups dont offer the full protection in law
Full protection of the law???
Pre nups aren't a law, it's a contract. They're upheld unless one of the lawyers screwed up drafting or did some type of unconscionable act like make someone sign without reading blah blah)
Best thing to do is offer up your wife some consideration in the prenuptial terms, like 10,000 dollars upon signing into a seperated savings account in her sole name.
Just needs to be a valid contract in your marriage state and then if you move states consult a property attorney or divorce attorney to see if that has any bearing.....
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reason why I am not getting married...again :o
I'm with you and my gf is 95 pounds.
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Prenups are effective if they're done right. Both sides have a lawyer, makes sure its done far enough in advance that neither side can say they were rushed or felt pressured. For me, it was about protecting my home and the money I had accumulated up to this point. Also, I made her waive alimony and setup a payment plan in the event it didn't workout.
Hey bro, I feel it's best to not ever mention you made her. Perhaps in a court that could break it all together under a duress claim. Woman do stuff like that with your words.
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:D ;D
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But I have money. Men, for lack of a better word, that don't have shit, shouldn't be getting married. Smart men have confidence in their ability to make money. Dumb guys worry about every dollar, because they have to.
Totally incorrect. Men who don't have shit SHOULD be getting married, that way they can get 50% from their ex-wives when they get divorced (yes, it goes both ways).
Dumb guys are traditional/idealistic ones who always think: "this is the one"... "she really and truly loves me"... "she would never do that to me". If you were a bum with no job and no money would she want to marry you then?... of course not.
You have money huh? That's a very relative statement.
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Totally incorrect. Men who don't have shit SHOULD be getting married, that way they can get 50% from their ex-wives when they get divorced (yes, it goes both ways).
Dumb guys are traditional/idealistic ones who always think: "this is the one"... "she really and truly loves me"... "she would never do that to me". If you were a bum with no job and no money would she want to marry you then?... of course not.
You have money huh? That's a very relative statement.
Totally flawed logic as usual. Guys that don't have shit, usually marry women that don't have shit. They title everything in both names and the guy usually pays for more of it. Then they have a couple kids. When they get divorced, the guy ends up having to give 50% or more of his assets and then pays alimony and child support on top of that. He most likely has a dead end, crappy job and this kills him financially. This whole "only dumb guys get married, smart guys don't" Is so far off the mark, its laughable. It's very basic, dumb guy logic. The only guys i've ever seen killed by divorce are dumb guys that didn't make good money.
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Far and few between. They're still out there, but they're 1 in a million these days.
Today's woman has a HUGE sense of entitlement. Entitlement costs a LOT of money... money I'm not willing to spend.
I dont dispute that at all. Its vàries hugely from region to region too.
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What is funny is that nobody ever talks about... successful marriages :)
Simply because they would find what it takes to be "too boring".
Fact is insuring your survival has nothing to do with "fun". The religion of "fun" is just a product of our modern society, but it wont last. Survival underlies everything, marriage and all other types of alliances/ interactions included. And aint nothing fun about survival. Fun is more a byproduct of being able to survive successfully. Knowing you ll survive better than the competition.
But to put it on a pedestral and classify it as the beginning and end of everything in life is only a trend. In the past you had to work to merit fun , leisures, spare time. Nowadays more and more people access fun without having to deserve it. And for some reasons, more and more people actually "drown" in too much quantities of fun to the point they become...depressed.
Dude who s surviving in a shithole probably feels quantitatively speaking as "happy" as the dude surviving doing his tricks at the top of the pyramid as long as he s part of a stable, hope oriented family/community.
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What is funny is that nobody ever talks about... successful marriages :)
Simply because they would find what it takes to be "too boring".
Fact is insuring your survival has nothing to do with "fun". The religion of "fun" is just a product of our modern society, but it wont last.
x2
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Here is Eddie Murphy s take on it. ;D
HALF!!!!!
http://vimeo.com/28965130
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Guys Need to Grow some Balls!
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secretary_problem#Formulation
Let n be the number of men/women you are willing to try and make into serious partners before calling it quits ("applicants" to the marriage partner "position").
In order to maximize the chance of selecting the best "applicant," reject the first n/e (2.781828) men/women and select the next man/woman who is better than all previous ones.
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Move to Texas...
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secretary_problem#Formulation
Let n be the number of men/women you are willing to try and make into serious partners before calling it quits ("applicants" to the marriage partner "position").
In order to maximize the chance of selecting the best "applicant," reject the first n/e (2.781828) men/women and select the next man/woman who is better than all previous ones.
I hate mathematicians... what do you do for a living syntax. we should talk. I could use some help with my discrete structures class.
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Depends on which state you are in. Even if you just live with her for short time you can be liable. Cali used to be 2 years or longer. Not sure about the other states... they vary from 2-10 years.
Shacking up aside, make sure you never share an address, credit card or a bank account. She can come after you for monetary damages in court if you do.
Peep the name. I'm form Texan bro. ;)
Anyway, been living with my chick for about 16 months. Both of us are on the lease. But, we don't share cc, bank statements, health insurance, or anything. All the bills, except her car, insurance, health insurance , and cellphone, are under my name. And I pay all bills except those bills.
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lmao, thanks.
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Move to Texas...
better yet dont get married and dont live with her.... 8)
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I hate mathematicians... what do you do for a living syntax. we should talk. I could use some help with my discrete structures class.
I'm too stupid to be a mathematician; I simply recited the decision-theoretic solution to the secretary (marriage) problem, with no real thought on my part.
http://math.stackexchange.com/ might be of help to you
http://www.dragonboxapp.com/ is more appropriate for most getbiggers, lol
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Totally flawed logic as usual. Guys that don't have shit, usually marry women that don't have shit. They title everything in both names and the guy usually pays for more of it. Then they have a couple kids. When they get divorced, the guy ends up having to give 50% or more of his assets and then pays alimony and child support on top of that. He most likely has a dead end, crappy job and this kills him financially. This whole "only dumb guys get married, smart guys don't" Is so far off the mark, its laughable. It's very basic, dumb guy logic. The only guys i've ever seen killed by divorce are dumb guys that didn't make good money.
Yeah, I covered all that stuff earlier.
It's not flawed logic, it's fact. If you marry a women who has/makes more money than you do, you are able to get money from her in a divorce. Plenty of men have done this. You dispute this?
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It's not flawed logic, it's fact. If you marry a women who has/makes more money than you do, you are able to get money from her in a divorce. Plenty of men have done this. You dispute this?
And the women get really, really pissed.
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And the women get really, really pissed.
Too bad. ;D
This is rare because most women typically will not marry a man who makes or has less than she does, but it does happen.
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
This happened almost verbatim to a guy I used to work with. Some more details: He had a full time job but also ran a paint shop out of his house. Wife began fucking one of HIS hired painters. She gets everything in the divorce including the paint business. She and his ex-employee now live in the house....There was no retraining order. The poor guy has to live in the basement while he figures out living arrangements. Meanwhile his wife and ex employee are fucking in his old bed and running his paint shop. He eventually moves back into parents house.
Everybody who knew him was shocked at how royally he got screwed. I think I would've killed somebody at this point BUT....He hung in there and.....
She did not have any business skills and se loses the paint shop anyway. The guy (ex-husband) either follows her or hires a P.I., I can't remember exactly but he finds her drunk driving WITH the children in the car. So she gets locked up for DUI AND Child Endangerment. He gets custody of the kids back...
Now she has a house she can't afford, no kids, no child support comming in and no paint shop.
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This happened almost verbatim to a guy I used to work with. Some more details: He had a full time job but also ran a paint shop out of his house. Wife began fucking one of HIS hired painters. She gets everything in the divorce including the paint business. She and his ex-employee now live in the house....There was no retraining order. The poor guy has to live in the basement while he figures out living arrangements. Meanwhile his wife and ex employee are fucking in his old bed and running his paint shop. He eventually moves back into parents house.
Everybody who knew him was shocked at how royally he got screwed. I think I would've killed somebody at this point BUT....He hung in there and.....
She did not have any business skills and se loses the paint shop anyway. The guy (ex-husband) either follows her or hires a P.I., I can't remember exactly but he finds her drunk driving WITH the children in the car. So she gets locked up for DUI AND Child Endangerment. He gets custody of the kids back...
Now she has a house she can't afford, no kids, no child support comming in and no paint shop.
These things happen all the time, yet men keep getting married... sometimes over and over again. ??? :o
All single men need to do is observe other married men... they can avoid many mistakes and financial destruction that married/divorced men eventually have to deal with.
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These things happen all the time, yet men keep getting married... sometimes over and over again. ??? :o
All single men need to do is observe other married men... they can avoid many mistakes and financial destruction that married/divorced men eventually have to deal with.
Howard hasn't learned, or has he? I think he married a woman who makes more than him...this would be his 4th marriage, I believe.
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Even if you make out ok and keep your house and all your shit, if you have kids you still have to pay for them. My co worker makes the same as me but has to give 1500 a month to his x and his weekends are fucked cuz he's got the kids.
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wether anyone wants to hear it or not, the fact is that alphas reproduce. most alphas reproduce with beautiful women. unfortunately beautiful women are crazy. my wife is batshit.
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wether anyone wants to hear it or not, the fact is that alphas reproduce. most alphas reproduce with beautiful women. unfortunately beautiful women are crazy. my wife is batshit.
Betas reproduce just as much if not more, and betas take better care of offsprings than alphas who tend to ruin one or two families before finally settling with one or none at all.
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This happened almost verbatim to a guy I used to work with. Some more details: He had a full time job but also ran a paint shop out of his house. Wife began fucking one of HIS hired painters. She gets everything in the divorce including the paint business. She and his ex-employee now live in the house....There was no retraining order. The poor guy has to live in the basement while he figures out living arrangements. Meanwhile his wife and ex employee are fucking in his old bed and running his paint shop. He eventually moves back into parents house.
Everybody who knew him was shocked at how royally he got screwed. I think I would've killed somebody at this point BUT....He hung in there and.....
She did not have any business skills and se loses the paint shop anyway. The guy (ex-husband) either follows her or hires a P.I., I can't remember exactly but he finds her drunk driving WITH the children in the car. So she gets locked up for DUI AND Child Endangerment. He gets custody of the kids back...
Now she has a house she can't afford, no kids, no child support comming in and no paint shop.
i love a story with a happy ending :)
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Betas reproduce just as much if not more, and betas take better care of offsprings than alphas who tend to ruin one or two families before finally settling with one or none at all.
i am sincerely curios uber, do you have kids?
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i am sincerely curios uber, do you have kids?
bad gimmick.
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bad gimmick.
wrong. I admire alot of your posts. just a tad too negative.
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Regarding the debate on alphas, I saw a study reported on BBC recently about this: they tested correlation between the size of your balls to involvement in child rearing. There was a negative correlation. I just don't know how the fuck this is worth studying, or how anyone thought it was worth doing/funding the study :D
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This happened almost verbatim to a guy I used to work with. Some more details: He had a full time job but also ran a paint shop out of his house. Wife began fucking one of HIS hired painters. She gets everything in the divorce including the paint business. She and his ex-employee now live in the house....There was no retraining order. The poor guy has to live in the basement while he figures out living arrangements. Meanwhile his wife and ex employee are fucking in his old bed and running his paint shop. He eventually moves back into parents house.
Everybody who knew him was shocked at how royally he got screwed. I think I would've killed somebody at this point BUT....He hung in there and.....
She did not have any business skills and se loses the paint shop anyway. The guy (ex-husband) either follows her or hires a P.I., I can't remember exactly but he finds her drunk driving WITH the children in the car. So she gets locked up for DUI AND Child Endangerment. He gets custody of the kids back...
Now she has a house she can't afford, no kids, no child support comming in and no paint shop.
Oh thank God this story had a happy ending! Yay
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What is funny is that nobody ever talks about... successful marriages :)
Simply because they would find what it takes to be "too boring".
Fact is insuring your survival has nothing to do with "fun". The religion of "fun" is just a product of our modern society, but it wont last. Survival underlies everything, marriage and all other types of alliances/ interactions included. And aint nothing fun about survival. Fun is more a byproduct of being able to survive successfully. Knowing you ll survive better than the competition.
But to put it on a pedestral and classify it as the beginning and end of everything in life is only a trend. In the past you had to work to merit fun , leisures, spare time. Nowadays more and more people access fun without having to deserve it. And for some reasons, more and more people actually "drown" in too much quantities of fun to the point they become...depressed.
Dude who s surviving in a shithole probably feels quantitatively speaking as "happy" as the dude surviving doing his tricks at the top of the pyramid as long as he s part of a stable, hope oriented family/community.
Uberman always comes in with the best. I feel like I just walked out of the frozen section in the grocery store, refreshed and ready to make a purchase.
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maybe the term 'alpha' is rubbing some of you the wrong way. dont be so sensitive. escpecially Uber, who otherwise has a firm understanding of how closely man is still related to animals.
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Robin Williams has been forced to sell his house and return to television to cover debts
ROBIN Williams admits his finances are far from a laughing matter.
The comedian has been left on the verge of bankruptcy after two costly divorces.
The 62-year-old is returning to TV and selling his $35 million house to help cover his debts.
"The idea of having a steady job is appealing," Williams told Parade magazine.
"There are bills to pay. My life has downsized, in a good way. I'm selling the ranch up in Napa. I just can't afford it anymore."
The Mrs Doubtfire star divorced his first wife in 1988 and ended his second marriage with Marsha Garces in 2008 after 19 years.
"Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money', but they changed it to 'alimony'. It's ripping your heart out through your wallet," Williams said.
He's currently married to graphic designer Susan Schneider who he tied the knot with in 2011.
The Oscar winning actor will star alongside Sarah Michelle Gellar in a new TV show called The Crazy Ones which will debut in the US on September 26.
The sitcom is the brainchild of David E. Kelley, who says Williams was the "only choice" to play the role of an energetic advertising executive.
"We needed an actor who could convey genius, insanity, and comedy, tempered with humanity," Kelley said.
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Just checking in to update on a good marraige,
Married life is great as always, delicious meal yesterday, followed by a late afternoon nap/copulation with MrsCyp. Shortly after my youngest woke up and I made up some baby porridge, fed her and played for about an hour before heading to the gym and training legs for 45mins.
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Just checking in to update on a good marraige,
Married life is great as always, delicious meal yesterday, followed by a late afternoon nap/copulation malfunction with MrsCyp. Shortly after my youngest woke up and I made up some baby porridge, fed her and played for about an hour before heading to the gym and training legs for 45mins.
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Just checking in to update on a good marraige,
Married life is great as always, delicious meal yesterday, followed by a late afternoon nap/copulation with MrsCyp. Shortly after my youngest woke up and I made up some baby porridge, fed her and played for about an hour before heading to the gym and training legs for 45mins.
check in 10-15 yrs from now...
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This happened almost verbatim to a guy I used to work with. Some more details: He had a full time job but also ran a paint shop out of his house. Wife began fucking one of HIS hired painters. She gets everything in the divorce including the paint business. She and his ex-employee now live in the house....There was no retraining order. The poor guy has to live in the basement while he figures out living arrangements. Meanwhile his wife and ex employee are fucking in his old bed and running his paint shop. He eventually moves back into parents house.
Everybody who knew him was shocked at how royally he got screwed. I think I would've killed somebody at this point BUT....He hung in there and.....
Holy crap
Now THAT's depressing. I had most definately done an OJ in that scenario
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Just checking in to update on a good marraige,
Married life is great as always, delicious meal yesterday, followed by a late afternoon nap/copulation with MrsCyp. Shortly after my youngest woke up and I made up some baby porridge, fed her and played for about an hour before heading to the gym and training legs for 45mins.
To be fair, I don't think anyone is debating that there are good times early in a marriage, its just once you get to the 7yr and beyond mark most people agree they get less and less and percentages increase drastically that an expensive divorce will occur.
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check in 10-15 yrs from now...
;D - ok here's the 10 years in the future version...
"Just checking in to update on a good marriage,
Married life is predictable as always. I ate the same meal as we do every Sunday (I think she changed the gravy slightly - could be arsenic though so i'll watch this space). This was followed by a late afternoon jibe about 'the last BJ I had being so long ago, that one day they might release the video in technicolor', MrsCyp didn't see the funny side. Shortly after my youngest called and asked for another $100 because she's run out of gas money. Transferred this online and then headed to the gym to look for possible shoulder to cry on at the cardio section, bumped into UKJeff who unbelievably was still trolling on getbig the same as 10 years ago' :'(
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Robin Williams has been forced to sell his house and return to television to cover debts
ROBIN Williams admits his finances are far from a laughing matter.
The comedian has been left on the verge of bankruptcy after two costly divorces.
The 62-year-old is returning to TV and selling his $35 million house to help cover his debts.
"The idea of having a steady job is appealing," Williams told Parade magazine.
"There are bills to pay. My life has downsized, in a good way. I'm selling the ranch up in Napa. I just can't afford it anymore."
The Mrs Doubtfire star divorced his first wife in 1988 and ended his second marriage with Marsha Garces in 2008 after 19 years.
"Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money', but they changed it to 'alimony'. It's ripping your heart out through your wallet," Williams said.
He's currently married to graphic designer Susan Schneider who he tied the knot with in 2011.
The Oscar winning actor will star alongside Sarah Michelle Gellar in a new TV show called The Crazy Ones which will debut in the US on September 26.
The sitcom is the brainchild of David E. Kelley, who says Williams was the "only choice" to play the role of an energetic advertising executive.
"We needed an actor who could convey genius, insanity, and comedy, tempered with humanity," Kelley said.
You'd think he'd call it quits after two wives.
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Robin Williams has been forced to sell his house and return to television to cover debts
ROBIN Williams admits his finances are far from a laughing matter.
The comedian has been left on the verge of bankruptcy after two costly divorces.
The 62-year-old is returning to TV and selling his $35 million house to help cover his debts.
"The idea of having a steady job is appealing," Williams told Parade magazine.
"There are bills to pay. My life has downsized, in a good way. I'm selling the ranch up in Napa. I just can't afford it anymore."
The Mrs Doubtfire star divorced his first wife in 1988 and ended his second marriage with Marsha Garces in 2008 after 19 years.
"Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money', but they changed it to 'alimony'. It's ripping your heart out through your wallet," Williams said.
He's currently married to graphic designer Susan Schneider who he tied the knot with in 2011.
The Oscar winning actor will star alongside Sarah Michelle Gellar in a new TV show called The Crazy Ones which will debut in the US on September 26.
The sitcom is the brainchild of David E. Kelley, who says Williams was the "only choice" to play the role of an energetic advertising executive.
"We needed an actor who could convey genius, insanity, and comedy, tempered with humanity," Kelley said.
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I called it first, TMZ is on the phone to me right now
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"Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money', but they changed it to 'alimony'. It's ripping your heart out through your wallet," Williams said.
>:(
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i am very happy to be a single man again
kicked all her stuff out like getbig advised me
she went real crazy but worth it
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LOL, yeah, where the woman does all the dirty work and she cannot say jack shit about her husband fucking everyone he wants because she's financially attached to him. Or about anything for that matter because she's 100% financially dependent on him.
FUCK YEAH, OLDSCHOOL RULESSS
weren't you just the one saying "if you marry, you need to financially support your wife for the rest of her life"? ???
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Good Thread.... but sad about Robin Williams tho... he must really loves the P.U.S.S.Y! but it cost money!!!
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Some folks don't want to get married, that's ok. Some others (specially online) talk like if marriage was a devastating state of delusion that will rip you apart after some years, I can't help but to think those people are huge losers who can't get laid even if their lives depended on it.
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Robin Williams has been forced to sell his house and return to television to cover debts
ROBIN Williams admits his finances are far from a laughing matter.
The comedian has been left on the verge of bankruptcy after two costly divorces.
The 62-year-old is returning to TV and selling his $35 million house to help cover his debts.
"The idea of having a steady job is appealing," Williams told Parade magazine.
"There are bills to pay. My life has downsized, in a good way. I'm selling the ranch up in Napa. I just can't afford it anymore."
The Mrs Doubtfire star divorced his first wife in 1988 and ended his second marriage with Marsha Garces in 2008 after 19 years.
"Divorce is expensive. I used to joke they were going to call it 'all the money', but they changed it to 'alimony'. It's ripping your heart out through your wallet," Williams said.
He's currently married to graphic designer Susan Schneider who he tied the knot with in 2011.
The Oscar winning actor will star alongside Sarah Michelle Gellar in a new TV show called The Crazy Ones which will debut in the US on September 26.
The sitcom is the brainchild of David E. Kelley, who says Williams was the "only choice" to play the role of an energetic advertising executive.
"We needed an actor who could convey genius, insanity, and comedy, tempered with humanity," Kelley said.
Case in point, the scam cost him his life.
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The story in the OP is 100% a real thing I see happen MULTIPLE times a year where I work. A few months ago so idiot who got married had to cut a 150,000$ check out of his 401k to his ex-wife who cheated on him. That is on top of her getting part of his retirement benefits and alimony. And child support.
This kind of crap kills people and gets them killed. Yet women due it constantly and men are stupid enough to do it.
Do
Not
MARRY
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men marry because they hope this will make the woman so happy and love them like they love the benjamins
after the initial glow wears off it all falls apart and the man is worse off than where he started
better stay single, fuck prostitutes to avoid any drama
when feeling adventurous bang some women you pick up in clubs but try to fuck them only once and leave no trail (address, real name, phone number, or any other info)
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Betas reproduce just as much if not more, and betas take better care of offsprings than alphas who tend to ruin one or two families before finally settling with one or none at all.
That would appear to be a generalization based on some flawed knowledge of what an alpha is.
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That would appear to be a generalization based on some flawed knowledge of what an alpha is.
the beta emancipation movement wants to twist the truth and call beta alpha
family man alpha ::)
oh brother
look at the lions in the jungle, they kill females babies from former relations, pump females full of semen and sleep all day whilst females go to hunt
that is alpha
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the beta emancipation movement wants to twist the truth and call beta alpha
family man alpha ::)
oh brother
look at the lions in the jungle, they kill females babies from former relations, pump females full of semen and sleep all day whilst females go to hunt
that is alpha
It might be a bit of an oversimplification to look at the lower animals for tips on social structure, but party on.
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It might be a bit of an oversimplification to look at the lower animals for tips on social structure, but party on.
lower animals?
go say that to lion's face, not online and see what happens
:D
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lower animals?
go say that to lion's face, not online and see what happens
:D
Higher order animals like me get to use tools. I like my chances. I've been on safari before in Hwange in ZIM.
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Sounds to me like some getbiggers are single because they have a hard time getting laid and not because they hate marriage ::)
;D
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My friend is fucked. A shotgun marriage, year later and it's falling apart already, he will have to pay money for at least 18 years from now and overall the stress and general fail is just a lot to go through... Oh, and obviously he's the "guilty" and devil one (regardless that female was a grown up adult, way above 20yo). These are the worst case scenarios... a fucked up part fo life for everyone involved.
Use protection guys (if you're not on gear year-round)
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My friend is fucked. A shotgun marriage, year later and it's falling apart already, he will have to pay money for at least 18 years from now and overall the stress and general fail is just a lot to go through... Oh, and obviously he's the "guilty" and devil one (regardless that female was a grown up adult, way above 20yo). These are the worst case scenarios... a fucked up part fo life for everyone involved.
Use protection guys (if you're not on gear year-round)
when will this myth die?
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when will this myth die?
Idk, but it rendered me infertile very effectively (androgens + progestins - very reliable combination). "Myth" is for these who think they will be infertile after 3months on hormones. That is not always the case. Well and some are not susceptible to that effect, but that's very rare.
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Idk, but it rendered me infertile very effectively (androgens + progestins - very reliable combination). "Myth" is for these who think they will be infertile after 3months on hormones. That is not always the case. Well and some are not susceptible to that effect, but that's very rare.
explain to me how ronnie coleman has at least 9 children and a 10th on the way?
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explain to me how ronnie coleman has at least 9 children and a 10th on the way?
As I said - SOME are not susceptible to these effects (or mayne he's running HCG in addition to hormones, you can't know), but that's an exception from a rule.
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As I said - SOME are not susceptible to these effects (or mayne he's running HCG in addition to hormones, you can't know), but that's an exception from a rule.
High long term doses of HCG would be my guess as well.
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explain to me how ronnie coleman has at least 9 children and a 10th on the way?
Chicks get preggers just from being in the same room as Ronald.
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Chicks get preggers just from being in the same room as Ronald.
they are lucky to have been given such great genetics.
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they are lucky to have been given such great genetics.
Coleman pays his child support in protein powder
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That would never happen to me. Sorry but if I got drug through the ringer like that, you could expect those two to be drug from that house in body bags.
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the beta emancipation movement wants to twist the truth and call beta alpha
family man alpha ::)
oh brother
look at the lions in the jungle, they kill females babies from former relations, pump females full of semen and sleep all day whilst females go to hunt
that is alpha
Only if your a Lion. I'm human. -don't know about you.
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I dont think we should look exclusively to animals for our definition of what Alpha is. We have evolved.
A man who is non-violent, vegetarian, wears sandals and is totally celibate could have far more grit and masculine power than what we usually coin alpha, men who have lots of money, status and spew semen everywhere.
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I dont think we should look exclusively to animals for our definition of what Alpha is. We have evolved.
A man who is non-violent, vegetarian, wears sandals and is totally celibate could have far more grit and masculine power than what we usually coin alpha, men who have lots of money, status and spew semen everywhere.
i think you are mixing up some things my friend, what are admirable qualities in a person are often the opposite of "alpha"
in the world of humans the most powerful people (political leaders, CEO's of enormous companies etc) often have psychopathic personalities. they want power above else and will crush anybody in their way
a psychiatrist told me
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yes ok thats fine but getbiggers are very proud of being alpha, to be called alpha in bodybuilding circles is a compliment right? alpha good beta bad
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yes ok thats fine but getbiggers are very proud of being alpha, to be called alpha in bodybuilding circles is a compliment right? alpha good beta bad
yes but at the same time they always reveal their betaness in "beating women is wrong" threads etc
funny but i'm right :-\
lions beat the fuck out of lionesses to break them in
they are alpha
humans like to be called alpha but they are not even willing to accept the meaning
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i think you are mixing up some things my friend, what are admirable qualities in a person are often the opposite of "alpha"
in the world of humans the most powerful people (political leaders, CEO's of enormous companies etc) often have psychopathic personalities. they want power above else and will crush anybody in their way
a psychiatrist told me
STOP contradicting yourself ::) U a capitalist Yankee Americano diplomat on Cuba who represents mega companies & mega $ !.
;D ;D ;D
Real Anal was much better liar than U :)
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your idolizing lions and gorillas. We really need to drop this alpha beta nonsense in how we define ourselves.
When you go to check up on prince dianabol does that hurt your alpha male identity?
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your idolizing lions and gorillas. We really need to drop this alpha beta nonsense in how we define ourselves.
When you go to check up on prince dianabol does that hurt your alpha male identity?
i dont consider myself alpha at all, i wouldnt last a minute against a lion
i'm just a regular guy with a dream of getting 20" arms and hebrew honeys
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well who would, maybe hercules?
My pipes are 20 but I dont get as many shags as you.
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I'd go to jail before I would accept those terms.
I've dealt with man hating family law before and came out with custody and access. After character assassination, lies, prejudice and a hefty legal bill...but now I know the ropes.
First time I understood hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
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There are many attributes that define the alpha male. Beating women into submission is not one of them. Humans have evolved beyond such primitive measures.
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There are many attributes that define the alpha male. Beating women into submission is not one of them. Humans have evolved beyond such primitive measures.
STOP TALKING NONSENSE
ALPHA MALE IS EVERYTHING YOU ARE NOT
POWERFUL
DOMINANT
VIOLENT
RUTHLESS
MERCILESS
etc
stop trying to bend the laws of nature
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http://38.media.tumblr.com/91e58592150834a01ebac338905b798c/tumblr_mwdjj4j9ay1r5rd7qo1_400.gif
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well who would, maybe hercules?
My pipes are 20 but I dont get as many shags as you.
nobody would
therefore humans should stop trying to be alpha
they have never been and never will
just a bunch of pathetic 2 legged weaklings who wouldnt last a minute against a lion, jaguar, elephant...
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in the human world alpha males are leaders of nations, gigantic enterprises etc
an acquintance of mine does training for high level people on how to do public speaking etc and he worked with CEOs of multi billion dollar companies
he said they are all pretty much fucked up psychopaths with no regard to how many lives they ruin
this proves my point that you people need to stop pretending being an alpha male is necessarily an admirable thing ;D
and stop trying to redifine the word because you would like to perceive yourself as alpha but you cant even beat up your wife without blinking ::)
nothing wrong with accepting you are just another sheep going to the slaughter house ::)
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just a bunch of pathetic 2 legged weaklings who wouldnt last a minute against a lion, jaguar, elephant...
Me and my rifle would do quite well against them, thanks. Just think of it as my "teeth" in case you were planning on complaining about my use of tools. My alpha/apex predator brain evolved at the same time their teeth, claws and muscles evolved.
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Me and my rifle would do quite well against them, thanks. Just think of it as my "teeth" in case you were planning on complaining about my use of tools. My alpha/apex predator brain evolved at the same time their teeth, claws and muscles evolved.
what do you do when you get naked out of the shower and lion is there?
where is your rifle when you need it
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
I have been married and divorced more then once. I never had issues or problems like this dude, but wtf?
I'm over 50 now and remarried to a pretty woman who makes more then me. She's a VP for major bank.
In my case, I never had kids and at my age now, that ship has sailed for good.
My advice is : 1. Marry a woman who has a good career 2. Never have kids.
'nuff said
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I have been married and divorced more then once. I never had issues or problems like this dude, but wtf?
I'm over 50 now and remarried to a pretty woman who makes more then me. She's a VP for major bank.
In my case, I never had kids and at my age now, that ship has sailed for good.
My advice is : 1. Marry a woman who has a good career 2. Never have kids.
'nuff said
Some couples want children.
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a marriage without children
that is like the most pointless thing ever ::)
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what do you do when you get naked out of the shower and lion is there?
where is your rifle when you need it
So lions can travel to foreign lands and open doors now? See I have a "shelter" where I can sleep without having my rifle on my shoulder. That is another part of the alpha/apex predator brain.
Your lion metaphor is weak, my friend. You need a better proof-point.
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So lions can travel to foreign lands and open doors now? See I have a "shelter" where I can sleep without having my rifle on my shoulder. That is another part of the alpha/apex predator brain.
Your lion metaphor is weak, my friend. You need a better proof-point.
a lion can be anywhere any time if he so wishes
you are lucky he has no interest in your bathroom
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a marriage without children
that is like the most pointless thing ever ::)
Some people are meant to have kids and love being devoted parents.
Others , like me, never wanted kids, so I made sure to never father children.
Obviously, the world needs people to reproduce , BUT we need to stem the tide of uncontrolled population growth .
In summary, the world needs BOTH kinds of people for the world to thrive.
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Some couples want children.
I'm older then most who post here.
Most ( not all ) couples I know, say privately , that kids are marriage killers.
A guy I grew up with has been married for 30 years with adult children now.
He loves his kids and was an excellent dad.
BUT, a few years ago, he told me ; " Kids suck the life out of you."
He hasn't had much hot sex with his wife in many years.
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I'm older then most who post here.
Most ( not all ) couples I know, say privately , that kids are marriage killers.
A guy I grew up with has been married for 30 years with adult children now.
He loves his kids and was an excellent dad.
BUT, a few years ago, he told me ; " Kids suck the life out of you."
He hasn't had much hot sex with his wife in many years.
Children are work but they enrich your life.
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a lion can be anywhere any time if he so wishes
you are lucky he has no interest in your bathroom
There was a mountain lion in my neighborhood scaring the fuck out of the livestock and the dogs last year.
It got shot and is now rotting in a shallow lime-filled grave. So I guess you are right, they CAN be anywhere they want...they just don't think well.
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Children are work but they enrich your life.
For those who were "called" to have kids, I agree 100%.
For those like me and my wife, kids are : work, $$ and stress.
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There was a mountain lion in my neighborhood scaring the fuck out of the livestock and the dogs last year.
It got shot and is now rotting in a shallow lime-filled grave. So I guess you are right, they CAN be anywhere they want...they just don't think well.
if you're so tough why didn't you strangle it to death
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if you're so tough why didn't you strangle it to death
Why would I do that? I have never had a "fair fight" and I never will. Fighting fair is for fools and dead men.
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My advice is : 1. Marry a woman who has a good career 2. Never have kids.
'nuff said
First is an excellent advice, a lot more important than many think. Second is relative/depends on a person.
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I'm older then most who post here.
Most ( not all ) couples I know, say privately , that kids are marriage killers.
A guy I grew up with has been married for 30 years with adult children now.
He loves his kids and was an excellent dad.
BUT, a few years ago, he told me ; " Kids suck the life out of you."
He hasn't had much hot sex with his wife in many years.
Very often this is true too, unfortunately. I've heard lots of sad stuff from my married friends, and they've been married for a short time yet. I can easily see a bigger half of them going the divorce way 5-8 years down the road. It's very selfish.. kids are suffering the most and there's no excuse for that shit..
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Children are work but they enrich your life.
Shut the fuck up you whore. I wonder whether your bald pussy and tits on the interwebz will enrichen their lives when they'll grow up.
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First is an excellent advice, a lot more important than many think. Second is relative/depends on a person.
Thanks and despite the fairy tale some believe, marriage today is all about having a loving PARTNERSHIP.
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Very often this is true too, unfortunately. I've heard lots of sad stuff from my married friends, and they've been married for a short time yet. I can easily see a bigger half of them going the divorce way 5-8 years down the road. It's very selfish.. kids are suffering the most and there's no excuse for that shit..
Bingo - My wife's grandma told her ; " There are a lot more married, then happy ".
Having children within a loving marriage can be one the most rewarding things one can experience.
BUT, like all things worth having , it takes a ton of work and effort to do it right.
I knew I didn't want that responsibility and didn't feel the inner yearning to have kids.
So , I did the responsible thing, and never had any.
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i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street
my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains
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nobody would
therefore humans should stop trying to be alpha
they have never been and never will
just a bunch of pathetic 2 legged weaklings who wouldnt last a minute against a lion, jaguar, elephant...
And yet, humans rule the world.
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i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street
my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains
Your memory of this time is somewhat distorted. How about the time she kicked your door in?
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i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street
my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains
Did you father a child with her?
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i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street
my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains
Having a successful long term relationship comes down to who youre with and how you communicate. Sixteen years with the same woman and I'm happier than I was when we first started dating.
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Your memory of this time is somewhat distorted. How about the time she kicked your door in?
that was the night she found all her stuff in front of her sisters house, where she was staying the days after she left me
they had gone clubbing and in the night came home to her sisters house and the side walk was LOADED with suitcases and garbage bags full of clothes and all her other stuff (so much stuff it took me twice to drive it over)
she went real furiously mad at this point and at 4 am arrived at my home with her sister and started trashing my door
i was consulting getbig on what to do during this time but most thought it was a jokes
she left after some time and returned with police telling them i kicked her and "her" son out
and police told her to fuck off (i think they were being racist to her but it was a good thing ffor me)
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Having a successful long term relationship comes down to who youre with and how you communicate. Sixteen years with the same woman and I'm happier than I was when we first started dating.
amazing story
maybe got lucky and perfect match ???
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Having a successful long term relationship comes down to who youre with and how you communicate. Sixteen years with the same woman and I'm happier than I was when we first started dating.
This x 10
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that was the night she found all her stuff in front of her sisters house, where she was staying the days after she left me
they had gone clubbing and in the night came home to her sisters house and the side walk was LOADED with suitcases and garbage bags full of clothes and all her other stuff (so much stuff it took me twice to drive it over)
she went real furiously mad at this point and at 4 am arrived at my home with her sister and started trashing my door
i was consulting getbig on what to do during this time but most thought it was a jokes
she left after some time and returned with police telling them i kicked her and "her" son out
and police told her to fuck off (i think they were being racist to her but it was a good thing ffor me)
Ok so is it YOUR kid or what?
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Thanks and despite the fairy tale some believe, marriage today is all about having a loving PARTNERSHIP.
Agreed. My wife and I have both enjoyed a loving partnership for almost 50 years.
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Agreed. My wife and I have both enjoyed a loving partnership for almost 50 years.
x 100!
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Ok so is it YOUR kid or what?
OUR kid
women always doing that "my baby", "my son" when you are standing next to them like you dont exist
it rustles my jimies
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that was the night she found all her stuff in front of her sisters house, where she was staying the days after she left me
they had gone clubbing and in the night came home to her sisters house and the side walk was LOADED with suitcases and garbage bags full of clothes and all her other stuff (so much stuff it took me twice to drive it over)
she went real furiously mad at this point and at 4 am arrived at my home with her sister and started trashing my door
i was consulting getbig on what to do during this time but most thought it was a jokes
she left after some time and returned with police telling them i kicked her and "her" son out
and police told her to fuck off (i think they were being racist to her but it was a good thing ffor me)
Later she wanted some of the furniture, as I remember. You ended up complying.
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OUR kid
women always doing that "my baby", "my son" when you are standing next to them like you dont exist
it rustles my jimies
Unless you really want to raise and pay for a kid for the next 20 yrs, do NOT get any girl pregnant.
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Later she wanted some of the furniture, as I remember. You ended up complying.
yes because in the end it was her furniture ...................... so.....
;D
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Thanks and despite the fairy tale some believe, marriage today is all about having a loving PARTNERSHIP.
X100. My wife and I work together. Its easier when you both want the same things.
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Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept
"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.
A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).
He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.
That's the risk. Is it worth it?"
Thank Ronald Reagan, the only divorced US President.
"Probably the most well-known no-fault law was enacted in the state of California, and signed by Governor Ronald Reagan, coming into effect on January 1, 1970. At that time, lawyers and judges objected to the legal fictions used to bypass statutory requirements for obtaining a divorce, which had become more commonplace since the mid-20th century. In August 2010, New York's governor, David Paterson, signed into law a bill removing mutual-consent requirements and shortening the waiting period for "no-fault" divorce. Since at least 1985, no-fault divorce has been available in all 50 U.S. states and the District of Columbia."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No-fault_divorce#United_States
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yes because in the end it was her furniture ...................... so.....
;D
So....you did the right thing. You are a good man. This is what a real alpha does in these situations. ;)
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So....you did the right thing. You are a good man. This Iis what a real alpha does in these situations. ;)
actually....... while that makes me a decent person........
reality is
she was the alpha female and i rolled over like a beta male
that is the fact
truth is bitter to those who love to swallow lies but i am a truth seeker so i can take it
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Marriage is a Jewish/Christian institution first and foremost. It requires one to have read the Bible to have a clue what he s heading into and what it is based on.
No wonder most marriages fail nowadays, do you guys think it could have anything to do with the fact most people abandoned christianism for atheism at the exact same time?
It s like trying to operate a sophisticated tool without reading the manual first.
Don t marry then, if you re an atheist. And ask the whore who wants to marry you to read the Bible with you before you both engage. Pure common sense.
Marriage predates the Bible and historically it's found in many religions and cultures, including China, India, and it's even found today among indigenous people deep in the Amazon jungle who have never seen modern civilization.
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Unless you really want to raise and pay for a kid for the next 20 yrs, do NOT get any girl pregnant.
MKy friend will be paying for the next 18-20 years and fuck knows how much his free time he'll spend on that kid that he didn't even plan/want with a female he didn't even know well (and she was not the female of his dreams). That's so fucked up in so many ways... yet he can't escape the reality and turn the time back.
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actually....... while that makes me a decent person........
reality is
she was the alpha female and i rolled over like a beta male
that is the fact
truth is bitter to those who love to swallow lies but i am a truth seeker so i can take it
This is your take. Others see it differently. There are many ways one can show strength.
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1. People should think about certain things when getting married. Similar backgrounds--both parents being married.
With that, you take out 1/2 the western adult population.
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I am still on my first wife. I married very young. I was 20 years old when I married my wife and we had already lived together for more than a year by this time. My wife was a year and a half older than me....so I married an older woman.
I don't know what magic makes a good lasting relationship because there is some mystique involved. My wife and I were two of the most unlikely people to marry and stay married all these years for a number of reasons which I won't go into here. The one thing both of us were on the same page about was commitment and being real about who we were. We didn't go into this longtime relationship with the idea we could change each other to suit our needs.
Over the years, we have seen many friends marry and divorce. It is sad. Divorced people are never the same as they once were. In the case of our friends and family who have divorced, there was nothing outrageous in their relationship, which is to say no one was beating the other one up or the like.
Maybe I got lucky. So many guys say they married the consummate bitch. My wife is an angel. I know the difference too because my mother was the woman no man should marry if they want any peace in their life after marriage.
I suspect physical attraction clouds folks judgment. A physically beautiful person is not necessarily the person you should commit the rest of your life too. A wife is not a "trophy" but a partner for life.
Congratulations! ;D
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Having a successful long term relationship comes down to who youre with and how you communicate. Sixteen years with the same woman and I'm happier than I was when we first started dating.
Agreed.
I'm happily married and have been for 15 years.
Not to the same woman though - that would be a fucking nightmare.
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OUR kid
women always doing that "my baby", "my son" when you are standing next to them like you dont exist
it rustles my jimies
lol - exes will do anything that rustles your jimies.
You just have to learn how to have your jimies rustled without them appearing to be rustled. Then chicks don't know what causes your jimies to rustle.
Capiche?
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the beta emancipation movement wants to twist the truth and call beta alpha
family man alpha ::)
oh brother
look at the lions in the jungle, they kill females babies from former relations, pump females full of semen and sleep all day whilst females go to hunt
that is alpha
Single Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/1.jpg)
Married Male
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Divorced Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/3.jpg)
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Statistically, most Americans with a net worth of at least one million dollars are married, to a frugal woman, and have never been divorced.
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Single Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/1.jpg)
Married Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/2.jpg)
Divorced Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/3.jpg)
L :D L.
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MKy friend will be paying for the next 18-20 years and fuck knows how much his free time he'll spend on that kid that he didn't even plan/want with a female he didn't even know well (and she was not the female of his dreams). That's so fucked up in so many ways... yet he can't escape the reality and turn the time back.
True story- From the first time I had sex with a woman, I used the "withdrawal" method to insure I never got her pregnant.
If a man pulls out, 8-10 sec before he cums, it is near impossible to get her pregnant.
Of course, this requires the male to use some control .
Then again, if a man can't control when his dick fires, he's got no business trying to make love with any woman.
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Single Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/1.jpg)
Married Male
(http://www.lmtcg.com/images/photogallery/animals/lionmarriage/2.jpg)
Divorced Male
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I nominate this for the getbig.com hall of fame ;D
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Agreed.
I'm happily married and have been for 15 years.
Not to the same woman though - that would be a fucking nightmare.
Hahaha
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yes because in the end it was her furniture ...................... so.....
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My last ex-wife and I were so agreeable that my divorce lawyer said we got along better then most happily married couples he knew at the signing, in his office.
Any douchebag can be an asshole when breaking up, BUT , it takes a real man to stand his ground while treating her with dignity and respect.
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I nominate this for the getbig.com hall of fame ;D
Thanks, but I can't take credit for it. Someone else came up with this a while back. ;D
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Children are work but they enrich your life.
Ask any marriage counselor and they'll tell you that children put a lot of strain on a marriage. Marriage is difficult and it takes a lot of work to make it last as it is. Children only make marriage more difficult, and it only gets worse as the children grow older, until the leave the house.
This isn't to discourage married couples from having children. The soon to be married and the newly weds just need to be aware of this so it doesn't come as a shock when it happens, and they need to be prepared to work twice as hard on their marriage when the children come.
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Ask any marriage counselor and they'll tell you that children put a lot of strain on a marriage. Marriage is difficult and it takes a lot of work to make it last as it is. Children only make marriage more difficult, and it only gets worse as the children grow older, until the leave the house.
This isn't to discourage married couples from having children. The soon to be married and the newly weds just need to be aware of this so it doesn't come as a shock when it happens, and they need to be prepared to work twice as hard on their marriage when the children come.
Solid advice.
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I will never get married without a serious prenupt. In Texas you are just plain fucked no matter who is at fault if you don't have one. A lot of my friends have lost their ass to women, similar to the stories in this thread. It's a 50/50 deal, about half of my friends are happy in marriage and the others are miserable or divorced and broke.
The last 3 girls i had a serious relationship with went nuts when i mentioned a prenupt. Go figure; I've worked hard my entire life and have a nice retirement waiting for me many years down the road. I'm not losing all my assets over some bullshit legal bondage.
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I will never get married without a serious prenupt. In Texas you are just plain fucked no matter who is at fault if you don't have one. A lot of my friends have lost their ass to women, similar to the stories in this thread. It's a 50/50 deal, about half of my friends are happy in marriage and the others are miserable or divorced and broke.
The last 3 girls i had a serious relationship with went nuts when i mentioned a prenupt. Go figure; I've worked hard my entire life and have a nice retirement waiting for me many years down the road. I'm not losing all my assets over some bullshit legal bondage.
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Good post and it's a 50/50 shot at having a good, decent, happy marriage.
BUT, I wouldn't marry a woman who didn't have a good career.
I want an equal PARTNER and I'm lucky enough to have that now.
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"I don't think I ever wanted to be the man who loves children. But, from the moment they're born, that baby comes out and you act excited. You hand out cigars. But, you don't feel anything, especially if you had a difficult childhood. You want to love them, but you...don't. And the fact that you're faking that feeling makes you wonder if your own father had the same problem. Then one day they get older and you see them do something and you feel that feeling that you were pretending to have. It feels like your heart is going to explode." Don Draper - Mad Men
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Children are work but they enrich your life.
They should be cared for by an attentive mother, that's for sure.
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Ask any marriage counselor and they'll tell you that children put a lot of strain on a marriage. Marriage is difficult and it takes a lot of work to make it last as it is. Children only make marriage more difficult, and it only gets worse as the children grow older, until the leave the house.
This isn't to discourage married couples from having children. The soon to be married and the newly weds just need to be aware of this so it doesn't come as a shock when it happens, and they need to be prepared to work twice as hard on their marriage when the children come.
what about the absence of children putting strain on a relationship? Is it romantic to think things will be better with the presence of child/ren?
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what about the absence of children putting strain on a relationship? Is it romantic to think things will be better with the presence of child/ren?
Only way people have kids should be (it's far from reality usualy): two people are together for 3-5 years, go through all the "stages" of boredom, excitement, passion, etc... and THEN, if one day they are sitting together on a sofa and thiking "hey...maybe it would be cool to see a little human being of ours running around and LOVE him, etc..", then they should have kids.
This scenario is very rare. Most people aren't conscious enough.. stuff just "happens" to them from a moment they are born. They die without a clue of how/why/what happened. On other hand.. that kind of dis-attachment from reality is a good way to stay "sane", as too much consciousness may reveal some ugly truths about life in general.
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They should be cared for by an attentive mother, that's for sure.
I am curious why the mayor of a small town in Australia would be interested in a bodybuilding website.
https://www.google.com/search?tbs=sbi:AMhZZivWzZi-WZ_1yt1DuZUOzDYN2qiOTD5PtY-uXAC1R3z4Jym-JOh9R6SU3pOY_1fu9-P-PJdqg1_1rwVyUjOCywN4k0RO4DSk8Sr5IVhbDc_1glgjzxmHIlZRKSWGUtpGiw6IliDR-Emv-7lWac10_1aJVyQke_1-mvH0kKICngQ4WSMbZYsD5Tn3V0_1aEFnKivERkz017uNy2s1jD1O2DvrHiVh1fxNOf7hJNfUV5qHP6BRqwghM-OvzByKCCZeB9gW4ukC2UcVgosMzpT5cWeuDsOdSZEitVm-36VO8CxnKBF-WqN5A38HyVX2h7TLGU_1uSWnDol3y5WCB518KDbeBuF6Ub68ARAWPcQchZmyVYS1HfkDxoVB4632yWmtribbYuje9HEtV6skVuQukq58fvqWFhXOeytsTSuuHXjhbjgK58NPnlSbM_1uAyGIAK9mraClnf19AD_1L8T5EavLmDMZ9ek91FcuCMzzCLN25CBLWX_1jhyZ4iLH-ek2nQjEkFtRw1YZ_12DE_1JZi0ejma9qjrrWIwvy_1O1cL05dvt_1uWA9eXNDlxR26N-dzTmEee1C_1A5xaeT6iA4GhzMmScW1WmAH8O_1OYxri1qU03adg3fTRm4j6DRvJpiq6jBPJNGPNEaRt_1HHLuVTjahiML-UsbIwQ9g-j7RYHdzjWtVbrNlEhDPsT71ivXYYaAotp0p0l9AO1NIPk16zpjaLS8nOdDKFX29174aj164Ds0pcVyYjG3Fj6VpzhUWbBvt9CyYzBLRdUIkmkYO5byJUsGm6S6R5Q6S9gHbyIESpbSCT7XjQlASLNd4SWXahbNauEpTBJTgEqhnMOUhZe3saCSy3kOq-dUlmgRhdQbjWHY0jTZ95aRZxYB0A1tPuzZ64OXj-tk7sWTAi1NPRb5SxiylJzudKriRb1Pu3moSZh4mUHJM48Jr-EQDg7PzqNX05oTeNmwWcd-YZ-M_1bsoUFxbDKKaol3LjteoOjT_1Ntya2jsDQV9Wecj15vwSuDTdROtHUgEZDGdHrlcRSxsmHW_1ZJwU5Wlk0VyViRbwBa2IR_1tQ8VGWPxd79tKTbhnynXtv2So9P52nc3w1Qs6TNs-cpaikxQGWLjwC3pFhh3m5X9XIrca5JiptU8jpouJfBBkYAcYzaPnlLagJb2WnZCO3g3EuOU2_16O8O9pzziCFHxsEw9KzJDJIzFo8MyvuXeQR1FdXOV3_15eQjHuAN3NddKO5YMXF94BalE9ehMpJg
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Only way people have kids should be (it's far from reality usualy): two people are together for 3-5 years, go through all the "stages" of boredom, excitement, passion, etc... and THEN, if one day they are sitting together on a sofa and thiking "hey...maybe it would be cool to see a little human being of ours running around and LOVE him, etc..", then they should have kids.
This scenario is very rare. Most people aren't conscious enough.. stuff just "happens" to them from a moment they are born. They die without a clue of how/why/what happened. On other hand.. that kind of dis-attachment from reality is a good way to stay "sane", as too much consciousness may reveal some ugly truths about life in general.
well said.
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I notice a lot of couples break up right after their kid is born. A lot are also no longer together by the time they reach 18. Why waste all that time, money, effort and sacrifice when you know it's not going to last.
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I am curious why the mayor of a small town in Australia would be interested in a bodybuilding website.
It is a national obsession down here.
Why are you interested in bodybuilding?
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It is a national obsession down here.
Why are you interested in bodybuilding?
It appeals to my niche mental retardation.
It's quite something for someone of your political stature to use your real name and boldly reference the medical designation for an anal prolapse in your profile.
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It appeals to my niche mental retardation.
It's quite something for someone of your political stature to use your real name and boldly reference the medical designation for an anal prolapse in your profile.
Quite something indeed.
Like you said, it's a very small town.
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well who would, maybe hercules?
My pipes are 20 but I dont get as many shags as you.
BigRo (aka Wabba Mr. Universe '14) you should:
-relocate to Belgium
-live in shit social housing
-be unemployed
-eat cheap food
-drive 20 yo shit car
-buy thai penis pump
-drink cheap polish vodka
-get exploited by kongo whore for EC residency
-pose with someone white kid
-buy garage made turkish dope
-attend afros social gathering's
-wear 5 euros t-shirt only
-bonk "fine" black street walkers for € 30 in Brussels
-stay away from Chelsea type poshy chicks
& all sweet 18yo will be yours
;D
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I notice a lot of couples break up right after their kid is born. A lot are also no longer together by the time they reach 18. Why waste all that time, money, effort and sacrifice when you know it's not going to last.
Because society feels the NEED to believe in the MYTH of the happy family.
Many men and woman feel they will have the fantasy.
But reality hits and they end up more like the Grizwald's then the Walton's.
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Only way people have kids should be (it's far from reality usualy): two people are together for 3-5 years, go through all the "stages" of boredom, excitement, passion, etc... and THEN, if one day they are sitting together on a sofa and thiking "hey...maybe it would be cool to see a little human being of ours running around and LOVE him, etc..", then they should have kids.
This scenario is very rare. Most people aren't conscious enough.. stuff just "happens" to them from a moment they are born. They die without a clue of how/why/what happened. On other hand.. that kind of dis-attachment from reality is a good way to stay "sane", as too much consciousness may reveal some ugly truths about life in general.
Our son was born two years after we married. He was a happy surprise. We waited eight and a half years before our daughter was born. She was a welcomed gift. We've never regretted having either of our children, even when they were teenagers. As married adults, they enrich our lives almost daily.
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BigRo (aka Wabba Mr. Universe '14) you should:
-relocate to Belgium
-live in shit social housing
-be unemployed
-eat cheap food
-drive 20 yo shit car
-buy thai penis pump
-drink cheap polish vodka
-get exploited by kongo whore for EC residency
-pose with someone white kid
-buy garage made turkish dope
-attend afros social gathering's
-wear 5 euros t-shirt only
-bonk "fine" black street walkers for € 30 in Brussels
-stay away from Chelsea type poshy chicks
& all sweet 18yo will be yours
;D
lmao
cant stop laughing
you are too funny foreal ;D ;D
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My last ex-wife and I were so agreeable that my divorce lawyer said we got along better then most happily married couples he knew at the signing, in his office.
Any douchebag can be an asshole when breaking up, BUT , it takes a real man to stand his ground while treating her with dignity and respect.
However when there's a lot of money involved that in itself can turn it into a war. As I've mentioned before on this forum it's not easy to fork over seven figures no matter how good your marriage was (and mine was). If your marriage is considered long term and you earned all the assets while married it's tough road. My ex dragged it out so I could keep trading (to make her golden parashute even larger) and believe me the courts are backed up!
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I am curious why the mayor of a small town in Australia would be interested in a bodybuilding website.
https://www.google.com/search?tbs=sbi:AMhZZivWzZi-WZ_1yt1DuZUOzDYN2qiOTD5PtY-uXAC1R3z4Jym-JOh9R6SU3pOY_1fu9-P-PJdqg1_1rwVyUjOCywN4k0RO4DSk8Sr5IVhbDc_1glgjzxmHIlZRKSWGUtpGiw6IliDR-Emv-7lWac10_1aJVyQke_1-mvH0kKICngQ4WSMbZYsD5Tn3V0_1aEFnKivERkz017uNy2s1jD1O2DvrHiVh1fxNOf7hJNfUV5qHP6BRqwghM-OvzByKCCZeB9gW4ukC2UcVgosMzpT5cWeuDsOdSZEitVm-36VO8CxnKBF-WqN5A38HyVX2h7TLGU_1uSWnDol3y5WCB518KDbeBuF6Ub68ARAWPcQchZmyVYS1HfkDxoVB4632yWmtribbYuje9HEtV6skVuQukq58fvqWFhXOeytsTSuuHXjhbjgK58NPnlSbM_1uAyGIAK9mraClnf19AD_1L8T5EavLmDMZ9ek91FcuCMzzCLN25CBLWX_1jhyZ4iLH-ek2nQjEkFtRw1YZ_12DE_1JZi0ejma9qjrrWIwvy_1O1cL05dvt_1uWA9eXNDlxR26N-dzTmEee1C_1A5xaeT6iA4GhzMmScW1WmAH8O_1OYxri1qU03adg3fTRm4j6DRvJpiq6jBPJNGPNEaRt_1HHLuVTjahiML-UsbIwQ9g-j7RYHdzjWtVbrNlEhDPsT71ivXYYaAotp0p0l9AO1NIPk16zpjaLS8nOdDKFX29174aj164Ds0pcVyYjG3Fj6VpzhUWbBvt9CyYzBLRdUIkmkYO5byJUsGm6S6R5Q6S9gHbyIESpbSCT7XjQlASLNd4SWXahbNauEpTBJTgEqhnMOUhZe3saCSy3kOq-dUlmgRhdQbjWHY0jTZ95aRZxYB0A1tPuzZ64OXj-tk7sWTAi1NPRb5SxiylJzudKriRb1Pu3moSZh4mUHJM48Jr-EQDg7PzqNX05oTeNmwWcd-YZ-M_1bsoUFxbDKKaol3LjteoOjT_1Ntya2jsDQV9Wecj15vwSuDTdROtHUgEZDGdHrlcRSxsmHW_1ZJwU5Wlk0VyViRbwBa2IR_1tQ8VGWPxd79tKTbhnynXtv2So9P52nc3w1Qs6TNs-cpaikxQGWLjwC3pFhh3m5X9XIrca5JiptU8jpouJfBBkYAcYzaPnlLagJb2WnZCO3g3EuOU2_16O8O9pzziCFHxsEw9KzJDJIzFo8MyvuXeQR1FdXOV3_15eQjHuAN3NddKO5YMXF94BalE9ehMpJg
Its my stalker Chadwick the Beta. He is allowed to make a new gimmick to follow me around with. I sent OMR the proof and nothing was done.
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Booty can appreciate the corn we so dearly love on Getbig
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Our son was born two years after we married. He was a happy surprise. We waited eight and a half years before our daughter was born. She was a welcomed gift. We've never regretted having either of our children, even when they were teenagers. As married adults, they enrich our lives almost daily.
Obviously you two were meant to be parents.
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However when there's a lot of money involved that in itself can turn it into a war. As I've mentioned before on this forum it's not easy to fork over seven figures no matter how good your marriage was (and mine was). If your marriage is considered long term and you earned all the assets while married it's tough road. My ex dragged it out so I could keep trading (to make her golden parashute even larger) and believe me the courts are backed up!
No experience with anything like that.
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Booty can appreciate the corn we so dearly love on Getbig
I am not sure I do.
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However when there's a lot of money involved that in itself can turn it into a war. As I've mentioned before on this forum it's not easy to fork over seven figures no matter how good your marriage was (and mine was). If your marriage is considered long term and you earned all the assets while married it's tough road. My ex dragged it out so I could keep trading (to make her golden parashute even larger) and believe me the courts are backed up!
Damn. Thank Hebrew Jesus my wife makes more than I do.
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Good post and it's a 50/50 shot at having a good, decent, happy marriage.
BUT, I wouldn't marry a woman who didn't have a good career.
I want an equal PARTNER and I'm lucky enough to have that now.
What # wife are you on these days?
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What # wife are you on these days?
7th :D
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7th :D
Definition of insanity right there, if that's true.
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Definition of insanity right there, if that's true.
its actually 3rd. But still that's getting ridiculous.
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its actually 3rd. But still that's getting ridiculous.
Ridiculous is to upload pics of your pussy and tits while having kids. You are the last one to talk about "ridiculous".
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This thread should be renamed "Sluts....oh brother".
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Ridiculous is to upload pics of your pussy and tits while having kids. You are the last one to talk about "ridiculous".
I have never posted pussy pics. And my nudes were published and I was paid by ACP publishing. So if any are on the net then it's nothing anyone hasn't already seen.
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I have never posted pussy pics. And my nudes were published and I was paid by ACP publishing. So if any are on the net then it's nothing anyone hasn't already seen.
Oh what a difference. An adult woman posing nude for money, I'm sure your kids will be grateful that their mother was a whore. ::) Well that's ridiculous, so stfu.
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Oh what a difference. An adult woman posing nude for money, I'm sure your kids will be grateful that their mother was a whore. ::) Well that's ridiculous, so stfu.
Don't worry bro, one day you'll see a real vagina up close and you will be so happy that attacking females on the internet will not even occur to you
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Oh what a difference. An adult woman posing nude for money, I'm sure your kids will be grateful that their mother was a whore. ::) Well that's ridiculous, so stfu.
Posing naked legs closed, does not make me a whore. I didn't have sex with anyone.
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Don't worry bro, one day you'll see a real vagina up close and you will be so happy that attacking females on the internet will not even occur to you
Poor virgin he is.
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Don't worry bro, one day you'll see a real vagina up close and you will be so happy that attacking females on the internet will not even occur to you
Haha, never has this meme been more appropriate since its creation
(http://ilawled.com/images/13128-Internet-White-Knight/fitted.jpg?1348981349)
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Haha, never has this meme been more appropriate since its creation
(http://ilawled.com/images/13128-Internet-White-Knight/fitted.jpg?1348981349)
Don't worry bro, one day people on getbig will think your posts are funny.
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Don't worry bro, one day people on getbig will think your posts are funny.
are you saying cyp that drowning in come is about as funny as a rolf harris tribute act at a childrens birthday party
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Don't worry bro, one day you'll see a real vagina up close and you will be so happy that attacking females on the internet will not even occur to you
Here comes a white knight.
My gfs pic on bb.com MISC was a 5 page thread in half an hour, before I deleted it, so yeah, you are probably right. ::)
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Posing naked legs closed, does not make me a whore. I didn't have sex with anyone.
Yeah, right, tell me more about how posing naked for pics while being a grown woman doesn't make one a whore (and a head case). I wasn't born yesterday you old hag.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=421094.0;attach=465019;image)
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Yeah, right, tell me more about how posing naked for pics while being a grown woman doesn't make one a whore (and a head case). I wasn't born yesterday you old hag.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=421094.0;attach=465019;image)
Well look who saved my pic. ::) enjoy!!!
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Well look who saved my pic. ::) enjoy!!!
it's about time for masturbation thanks
:P
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Well look who saved my pic. ::) enjoy!!!
That's right, google've saved lots of your pics and if you open your mouth - be sure it's something adequate you say, else - you'll get this treatment, and don't be fuckin surprised about it. You are the last one to judge someone on the count of marriages.
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it's about time for masturbation thanks
:P
She's fat now, too bad. I'd like to see her in some hardcore porn, she's obviously suited for that stuff.
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it's about time for masturbation thanks
:P
You are welcome!
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She's fat now, too bad. I'd like to see her in some hardcore porn, she's obviously suited for that stuff.
My arms are smaller now than they were in that pic. I don't and will never do porn so keep dreaming!
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Yeah, right, tell me more about how posing naked for pics while being a grown woman doesn't make one a whore (and a head case). I wasn't born yesterday you old hag.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=421094.0;attach=465019;image)
yum yum
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Here comes a white knight.
My gfs pic on bb.com MISC was a 5 page thread in half an hour, before I deleted it, so yeah, you are probably right. ::)
Don't worry bro, one day you'll see a real vagina up close and you will be so happy that attacking females on the internet will not even occur to you
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Don't worry bro, one day people on getbig will think your posts are funny.
It's an existing meme made for people like you.Sorry to break it to you but out of 20 or so jokes you make a day maybe 2 are mildly amusing, even a broken clock is right twice a day.throw enough shit out and some will stick.Youve been white knighting Booty since the beginning, sad really, I wonder what your wife would think.
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It's an existing meme made for people like you.Sorry to break it to you but out of 20 or so jokes you make a day maybe 2 are mildly amusing, even a broken clock is right twice a day.throw enough shit out and some will stick.Youve been white knighting Booty since the beginning, sad really, I wonder what your wife would think.
she probably thinks you love the cock
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It's an existing meme made for people like you.Sorry to break it to you but out of 20 or so jokes you make a day maybe 2 are mildly amusing, even a broken clock is right twice a day.throw enough shit out and some will stick.Youve been white knighting Booty since the beginning, sad really, I wonder what your wife would think.
His wife would be pleased to know that BigCyp isn't a woman hater and bully.
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You are welcome!
few
i was just in the shower wondering if you were gonna take it the wrong way
you are just a beautiful woman, so perfect to masturbate to, know what i'm saying
;D
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are you saying cyp that drowning in come is about as funny as a rolf harris tribute act at a childrens birthday party
What i'm saying bigmc, is that Arnie of bumfun is about as funny as Lee Rigby's memorial cards
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What i'm saying bigmc, is that Arnie of bumfun is about as funny as Lee Rigby's memorial cards
are you inferring cyp that swarming round bums is as effective at telling jokes as Rotherham council are at investigating Asians
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What # wife are you on these days?
I'd like to say she's my 11th wife ;D, but this one is only #4.
She's the perfect woman for me and I plan on staying with this one.
1. Has a youthful, sexy look with bedroom eyes ,small waist and a bubble butt.
2. Like me she loves dogs and never wanted kids.
3. Good career as a banker.
4. Enjoys morning sex, unlike my last wife, who wanted to screw late at night.
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What i'm saying bigmc, is that Arnie of bumfun is about as funny as Lee Rigby's memorial cards
K bro, keep throwing comedy duds in like this along with your recipes, poems and emotional leaving getting threads :-*
It's not a bird, I told you guys before - it's the guy who wanks from his high rise balcony, he just got a place at Old Trafford
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are you inferring cyp that swarming round bums is as effective at telling jokes as Rotherham council are at investigating Asians
Haha yes bigmc!!! Harmed by his mum is as funny as the mexican chainsaw video
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K bro, keep throwing comedy duds in like this along with your recipes, poems and emotional leaving getting threads :-*
You come across as someone who washes his hands every 5 minutes, tries to 'get big' but never can, tries to have sex with young females but never does, lives by himself, watches porn every single day and goes tanning.
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You come across as someone who washes his hands every 5 minutes, tries to 'get big' but never can, tries to have sex with young females but never does, lives by himself, watches porn every single day and goes tanning.
You come across as a guy with an ugly wife so he has to white knight cam girls online,boring low wage job that is desperate to get out of, inflated ego that was torn down when realised no one gave a fuck he left, hides a feminine side that likes to write poetry, bake and be the beta in the relationship.
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Haha yes bigmc!!! Harmed by his mum is as funny as the mexican chainsaw video
its clear that charmed by man come is as light hearted as an isis propaganda video
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its clear that charmed by man come is as light hearted as an isis propaganda video
Talking of funny, every comment you have made in this thread is a dud, the uk banter thing has gone to your head, being British isn't enough, need some creativity and brains too to create humour.
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You come across as a guy with an ugly wife so he has to white knight cam girls online,boring low wage job that is desperate to get out of, inflated ego that was torn down when realised no one gave a fuck he left, hides a feminine side that likes to write poetry, bake and be the beta in the relationship.
Lol, you are so bitter bro.
My wife is gorgeous, I am twice your size, and if I spat in your little metrosexual face you would apologise for not saying thank you.
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Talking of funny, every comment you have made in this thread is a dud, the uk banter thing has gone to your head, being British isn't enough, need some creativity and brains too to create humour.
don't hate me because im better than this at you
might be an idea to learn from the sick lyrical whirlwind that me and cyp are laying on you
you are coming across like shizzo in this thread
wtf happened to you ???
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Lol, you are so bitter bro.
My wife is gorgeous, I am twice your size, and if I spat in your little metrosexual face you would apologise for not saying thank you.
When you get my age, you no longer care about internet insults.
I'm just glad to have any wife with a working vajaja and no butt or back hair.
For the record, my waist size is like my age...over 50. :o
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don't hate me because im better than this at you
might be an idea to learn from the sick lyrical whirlwind that me and cyp are laying on you
you are coming across like shizzo in this thread
wtf happened to you ???
Exactly, the guy is close to tears when he posts these days. Maybe he's depressed because he almost had sex with someone from plenty of fish and they turned him down last minute when they found out he looked like Marlon from Emmerdale?
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Don't worry bro, one day you'll see a real vagina up close and you will be so happy that attacking females on the internet will not even occur to you
You sure about that? Remember that Jodi Arias pic someone posted here? I think I turned gay for about 45 seconds after I saw that.
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I'd like to say she's my 11th wife ;D, but this one is only #4.
She's the perfect woman for me and I plan on staying with this one.
Good grief, Howard! Four wives in one lifetime? You are a very slow learner. :o
You know what your problem is? You keep getting married. :(
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I reckon some people take marriage...and motherhood...more seriously than others.
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ahhhhh yea tits looking nice and big just jacked off
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i'm more of an ass man
let me know when there is ass pics
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Booty post the Motorcycle-pic!
It's the best one!
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Good grief, Howard! Four wives in one lifetime? You are a very slow learner. :o
You know what your problem is? You keep getting married. :(
My last divorce was 2006 and I thought , 3 wives was it.
Ya know, the old , 3 strikes and you're out.
I met wife #4 shortly after signing the divorce papers for #3
She was my 5th ,post divorce date ,on match.com.
We got interviewed by Issac Hinds of Lift Studios /getbig.com, while watching the 2007 NPC Jr USA.
I posted it a few years ago and will repost it now.
Wife #4 appears at the 2 min mark
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I will never get married without a serious prenupt. In Texas you are just plain fucked no matter who is at fault if you don't have one. A lot of my friends have lost their ass to women, similar to the stories in this thread. It's a 50/50 deal, about half of my friends are happy in marriage and the others are miserable or divorced and broke.
The last 3 girls i had a serious relationship with went nuts when i mentioned a prenupt. Go figure; I've worked hard my entire life and have a nice retirement waiting for me many years down the road. I'm not losing all my assets over some bullshit legal bondage.
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So this is why RONNIE COLEMAN married that armenian girl,just to avoid paying more money to a girl who got his triplets!!! they say in texas you pay child maintence how much you want it is not calculated by your earnings
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So this is why RONNIE COLEMAN married that armenian girl,just to avoid paying more money to a girl who got his triplets!!! they say in texas you pay child maintence how much you want it is not calculated by your earnings
Since big Ronnie wanted kids, I always hoped he would reproduce with Vicky Gates .
I know he dated her for awhile and imagine the power athlete kids they would make!
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i'm more of an ass man
let me know when there is ass pics
x2
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Booty post the Motorcycle-pic!
It's the best one!
My laptop isn't working so I can't. I am tired of computers.
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My laptop isn't working so I can't. I am tired of computers.
Damn :-[ we need to see a booty pic of ms booty
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My last divorce was 2006 and I thought , 3 wives was it.
Ya know, the old , 3 strikes and you're out.
I met wife #4 shortly after signing the divorce papers for #3
She was my 5th ,post divorce date ,on match.com.
We got interviewed by Issac Hinds of Lift Studios /getbig.com, while watching the 2007 NPC Jr USA.
I posted it a few years ago and will repost it now.
Wife #4 appears at the 2 min mark
But why keep getting married when you could have lived with the women?
I know I have divorce ptsd.
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So Howard is on his 4th marriage?
That is the definition of this thread.
Oh fucking brother.
Marriage obviously means nothing to him.
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Not read any of the posts, will say this, fuck that noise, dont get married, dont have kids, dont leave yourself open tonthe legal system, dont leave yourself open to the female population which has been proven to be mentally unstable, manipulative, unloving, cold and greedy. The only woman that loved you unconditionally was your mother. They never want younfor what you are, they want you for what they believe you can provide.
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Not read any of the posts, will say this, fuck that noise, dont get married, dont have kids, dont leave yourself open tonthe legal system, dont leave yourself open to the female population which has been proven to be mentally unstable, manipulative, unloving, cold and greedy. The only woman that loved you unconditionally was your mother. They never want younfor what you are, they want you for what they believe you can provide.
soooooo true brother
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Those babies mamas aye
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Those babies mamas aye
i really wish i was prince dianabol
the way she loves him is like nothing i ever imagined
true love = mothers love
evrything else is scammin for dollars
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I can't believe I'm the only one here who ever married for money - and got a guaranteed payout on the back end in the prenup for myself for once it was over. ;D
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More Booty pics, please.
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More Booty pics, please.
This is recent... A few weeks ago.
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This is recent... A few weeks ago.
Jutst like I said - obese.. visible even on the face.
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Jutst like I said - obese.. visible even on the face.
Clean the sperm off your monitor. Nothing obese about her.
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Jutst like I said - obese.. visible even on the face.
I don't like my face really lean like when I competed. It's very aging. Going on 45 in nov I think
My face looks good.
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Very nice! Good to know an attractive female actually posts here.
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Very nice! Good to know an attractive female actually posts here.
Thanks MP.
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Very nice! Good to know an attractive female actually posts here.
A lot of pretty gals here down under.
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A lot of pretty gals here down under.
Chadwick stop pretending to be an Aussie female.
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I don't like my face really lean like when I competed. It's very aging. Going on 45 in nov I think
My face looks good.
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I don't like my face really lean like when I competed. It's very aging. Going on 45 in nov I think
My face looks good.
looks great for ur age :)
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I see what you did there.
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Looking great for 45 Karen!
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booty is a fine woman
would love to make sweet love to her by the fire
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booty is a fine woman
would love to make sweet love to her by the fire
She's very sexy and a real sweet lady.