No complaining is controlling?
No complaining is an attempt to regain some degree of equilibrium.
The rule applies to me too. Don't put words in my mouth ma'am.[/quote]
You called me ma'am. I like that.
A guy like me? You don't know me. Money is a big deal and women who marry men who work still control everything so the least that can happen is a little repsect and peace and quiet at times, just like a woman should expect to receive. Like I said, women see their work as more important than the financial responsibility of a man and that is also a problem.
It's only a problem if you fail to recognize this as fact.
So should all men stay home? There are only so many hours in a week...should a guy work his ass off and then spend every waking moment after pampering wife and kid? No. Any sane MAN or WOMAN would get burnt out. There needs to be nurturing and time away for mom but be reasonable.
Hence the complaining. 'cause that's exactly what stay-at-home Moms do, only they don't stop at 40 hrs[/quote]
And yes, money=control and women do the same shit men do in that regard.
Just because women sometimes make the same mistakes men do or participate in the
'money=control' dysfunction paradigmn, doesn't make it right.
Not in America. My feelings are that I need to provide and if she makes more then so be it, will that give a reason to bitch about spending more time with the kids?
No, not spending more time with the kids is a reason to bitch about spending more time with the kids.
Gee Whiz, where is Old School in this thread, ...he can set you straight on a few things