I actually think you are probably a pretty nice guy.
I like to think that I am....I always aim to be to everyone. I have missteps sometimes.
I don't think atheists/agnostics are bad people either. Or people of other faiths.
I genuinely care about folks and want to see them enter into relationship with God.
I don't want people ending up in hell separated from God and having to deal with that reality for an eternity.
I realize at times that I'm perceived as arrogant, but I'm really not. Unfortunately when a person puts forth answers to objections and does so with confidence it often gets interpreted as arrogance. Not my intention.
I'm no scholar. I'm really just a lifelong student consistently in search of answers to questions.
I learn from more mature believers. I learn from sermons. I learn from experience. I learn from books. I learn online. I learn via conversation. I learn from independent bible study.
And at times I'm nothing more than a glorified parrot reciting answers I've learned/read from someone else along the way.