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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: Faust on November 07, 2006, 06:19:49 AM
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How do you deal with it?
I just had my heart broken.
It's hard to take, maybe i should go out and try to have a fling or something, get her out of my head...
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you deal with it by dealing with it. A fling or a few drinks won't do anything but temporarily make you feel better. Time is what is needed. It took you time to get feelings for her, it will take time for you feelings to go back to normal. The best thing to do is take time for yourself and do things that you like to do. Little by little the pain goies away. It amy take a longer amount of time than you like, but that is what it takes. Try not to dwel on it, trust me it only makes you feel worse.
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How do you deal with it?
I just had my heart broken.
It's hard to take, maybe i should go out and try to have a fling or something, get her out of my head...
It happens to everyone at some point(well except to Flower shes the heart breaker) Hit the gym extra hard, take the dog for a walk go hang out with friends. Anything to get your mind off things for a while. Everyone go through it and everyone moves on.
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the heart, like any other muscle, needs a lil time to heal when its sore. think of this as your 'off week' and take it easy.
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I dont know her that long, we had a fling couple of months ago. Now i've seen her again at this party and i've never felt this kind of attraction for a girl before (not just physical). I can feel it in my entire body.
We kissed, hugged, touched. But afterwards she kinda left me hanging and started flirting with another guy (i think to blow me off). She just told me she was seeing another guy, but that i do something special to her.
Now we are emailing and text messaging, it's basically self-torture. I'll try to put her out of my head.
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let her go
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let her go
That would probably be best. Now i'm like constantly checking to see if she returned my e-mail, lol.
Too bad, she was exactly what i want in a girl.
Time to man up
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i've been there done that, and have the battle scars. Even now i'll get down on what happened. Jus ttakes time and don't pine over her.
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If it wasnt meant to be then you cannot convince her otherwise so stop texting and emailing. Worst case scenario is she'll take you on for a while and then REALLY break your heart when she dumps you, or worse, cheats on you.
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How do you deal with it?
I just had my heart broken.
It's hard to take, maybe i should go out and try to have a fling or something, get her out of my head...
Fuck her best friend, seriously. You will feel so much better :)
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Flower, sometimes you are the one that has to make the time to regroup. Life continues regardless.
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you have that girl speak thing going on, so no one (guys) can understand what you are talking about. Guys read "life doesnt let you regoup or give you time" not what you meant to say. sheesh ::)
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lol
no speaky english, lol
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I dont know her that long, we had a fling couple of months ago. Now i've seen her again at this party and i've never felt this kind of attraction for a girl before (not just physical). I can feel it in my entire body.
We kissed, hugged, touched. But afterwards she kinda left me hanging and started flirting with another guy (i think to blow me off). She just told me she was seeing another guy, but that i do something special to her.
Now we are emailing and text messaging, it's basically self-torture. I'll try to put her out of my head.
Too bad, she was exactly what i want in a girl.
Faust, it may help you to try to think more objectively.
1) she made out w/you and then went to flirt w/another man (possibly to blow you off)
2) she is now seeing another man, yet she is texting and emailing w/you and telling you that you "do something special to her"
Are you sure that you really consider her "everything you want in a girl?" What if you were seeing her and she was texting and emailing w/another man telling him that he "do[es] something special to her?"
Move on Faust, there are at least 3 billion other women in the world :)
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Faust, it may help you to try to think more objectively.
1) she made out w/you and then went to flirt w/another man (possibly to blow you off)
2) she is now seeing another man, yet she is texting and emailing w/you and telling you that you "do something special to her"
Are you sure that you really consider her "everything you want in a girl?" What if you were seeing her and she was texting and emailing w/another man telling him that he "do[es] something special to her?"
Move on Faust, there are at least 3 billion other women in the world :)
And one of them is her best friend :)
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there are at least 3 billion other women in the world :)
and there has to be at least one good one outta the bunch, lol
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and there has to be at least one good one outta the bunch, lol
Start with her best friend dude, trust me.
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The heart wants what it wants...
Le coeur a ses raisons que la raison ne connait pas...
After you have sobbed those two sayings into your tissue a few times... yes, go date her best friend. When she becomes aware of this and suddenly becomes interested in you again (since that's how women often are) you can have the satisfaction of rejecting her instead. Then move on... :)
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Faust, it may help you to try to think more objectively.
1) she made out w/you and then went to flirt w/another man (possibly to blow you off)
2) she is now seeing another man, yet she is texting and emailing w/you and telling you that you "do something special to her"
Are you sure that you really consider her "everything you want in a girl?" What if you were seeing her and she was texting and emailing w/another man telling him that he "do[es] something special to her?"
Move on Faust, there are at least 3 billion other women in the world :)
Her exact words are: "you have something…that really has an effect on me". She has already apologised a couple of times for her behaviour that night and blablaba.
Ok, she might not be perfect, but like i said i've never been so attracted to anybody before. My rational mind must now get a grip on things. I will move on...
And one of them is her best friend :)
She gets along very well with her sister actually ... ;)
Her best friend reminds me of Mr. Ed, so that might be a problem.
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Just because we're all such a curious bunch... exactly how would you say "you have something…that really has an effect on me" in Dutch?
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The heart wants what it wants...
Le coeur a ses raisons que la raison ne connait pas...
After you have sobbed those two sayings into your tissue a few times... yes, go date her best friend. When she becomes aware of this and suddenly becomes interested in you again (since that's how women often are) you can have the satisfaction of rejecting her instead. Then move on... :)
Mon beau deedee, ces jeux sont-ils nécessaires ?
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Just because we're all such a curious bunch... exactly how would you say "you have something…that really has an effect on me" in Dutch?
She doesnt speak dutch. She's Portuguese (half Angolan). I speak with her in english.
You could say it like this: "Jij hebt iets ... dat echt een effect op me heeft".
Mon beau deedee, ces jeux sont-ils nécessaires ?
Tu connais les femmes, Migs. Elle a raison, tu sais.
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She doesnt speak dutch. She's Portuguese (half Angolan). I speak with her in english.
You could say it like this: "Jij hebt iets ... dat echt een effect op me heeft".Tu connais les femmes, Migs. Elle a raison, tu sais.
sounds like a bad case of the hiccups when trying to tell a story, lol
les femmes sont une énigme, mais les gens ne sont jamais un jeu
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sounds like a bad case of the hiccups when trying to tell a story, lol
les femmes sont une énigme, mais les gens ne sont jamais un jeu
C'est vrais, ça fait mal et maintenant je le réalise très bien.
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les femmes sont une énigme, mais les gens ne sont jamais un jeu
women are an enigma, but the people are never funny ???
C'est vrais, ça fait mal et maintenant je le réalise très bien.
That's true, I realize they do bad things now ???
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les hommes de Getbig sont mechants! >:(
Comme c'est ecrit:
Les femmes se rappellent toujours le premier baiser longtemps après que les hommes aient oublié le dernier.
French quote:
Women remember the first kiss long after men have forgotten the last.
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women are an enigma, but the people are never funny ???
women are an enigma, but people should never be treated as toys.
(our Miggy is a Spanish-French poet. :D )
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That's true, I realize they do bad things now ???
It's true, it hurts, but now I realize some things well. (rough translation)
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That's true, I realize they do bad things now ???
That's true, it hurts and right now i realise that very well
(my french isn't that good btw, so i could make mistakes)
les hommes de Getbig sont mechants! >:(
Comme c'est ecrit:
Les femmes se rappellent toujours le premier baiser longtemps après que les hommes aient oublié le dernier.
French quote:
Women remember the first kiss long after men have forgotten the last.
Men love women.
Women love kids.
Kids love hamsters.
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Ma francais est tres pauvre. :(
Mais, maintenant je besoin prendre une douche ;D
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You could say it like this: "Jij hebt iets ... dat echt een effect op me heeft".
Tu connais les femmes, Migs. Elle a raison, tu sais.
Sounds a tiny bit like German. Could pick out a few words. It's always interesting to hear other languages. :)
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French quote:
Women remember the first kiss long after men have forgotten the last.
hmm, perhaps for some. But for others it still brings up emotion
It's always interesting to hear other languages. :)
very true, i love to hear other languages. If i win th elotto i would go back to school and study language
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Ma francais est tres pauvre. :(
Mais, maintenant je besoin prendre une douche ;D
We all understood what you said! ;D
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lol
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les hommes de Getbig sont mechants! >:(
Comme c'est ecrit:
Les femmes se rappellent toujours le premier baiser longtemps après que les hommes aient oublié le dernier.
French quote:
Women remember the first kiss long after men have forgotten the last.
:-\
You make me think back to when me and the girl first met. We started kissing without saying a word to each other (in a club). I swear it's some weird type of chemical attraction going on. (I'm normally not like that at all, and she said she isnt either.)
Sometimes i wonder about girls' emotions. It's frustrating because men are easier to figure out, women can make things so complex.
I think men have more impulsive emotions. They can love somebody incredibly at first sight, they can get steaming mad for nothing. While women it develops slower but deeper. Not so much highs and lows. Just some thoughts ...
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(our Miggy is a Spanish-French poet. :D )
no just dark lol
viendra là-bas un temps où vous vous rendrez compte que l'amour est une fantaisie des jeunes
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no just dark lol
viendra là-bas un temps où vous vous rendrez compte que l'amour est une fantaisie des jeunes
Don't get cynical. This thread is about lifting up my spirit, ;D.
Sounds a tiny bit like German. Could pick out a few words. It's always interesting to hear other languages. :)
It's a germanic language actually. I can understand some german if they speak slowly.
Other languages are cool. I love to speak french, but i'm not that good at it, most europeans speak english quite well so that's the "lingua franca" around here. I'm def. gonna learn spanish (and/or portuguese).
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:-\
You make me think back to when me and the girl first met. We started kissing without saying a word to each other (in a club). I swear it's some weird type of chemical attraction going on. (I'm normally not like that at all, and she said she isnt either.)
Sometimes i wonder about girls' emotions. It's frustrating because men are easier to figure out, women can make things so complex.
I think men have more impulsive emotions. They can love somebody incredibly at first sight, they can get steaming mad for nothing. While women it develops slower but deeper. Not so much highs and lows. Just some thoughts ...
Yes, men and women are very different creatures. However, when it comes to the pain of heartbreak, there is no gender. :'(
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Yes, men and women are very different creatures. However, when it comes to the pain of heartbreak, there is no gender. :'(
:'(
I actually feel somewhat better now that i've gotten it of my chest.
Moving on...
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How do you deal with it?
I just had my heart broken.
It's hard to take, maybe i should go out and try to have a fling or something, get her out of my head...
Cocaine ...2 grams of
alcohol...lots of
bar....pref a dive...find trashy looking hottie..have conversation with her...mention the coke..
get your jollies...
works sooo much better than the dribble dr phil hands out..
you might think you'll end up feeling crappy the next day...you'd be surprised what a few hours of straight no foreplay coked up intercourse(grrrrr do the women here call their vaginas "their special place?" >:(...keep this up and i'll go bye bye from this board....i said "fucking" and as far as i know all women here are above 12...for c u nts sake..most of yall at some point done much worse....fixing the word "fucking" just comes across a tad hypocritical//unless u r so good that u never use the word "fucking"..only then is the removal of this word appropriate ) can do for your mood..
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Nice Toxie, nice... ::)
LOL!!! ;D
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Nice Toxie, nice... ::)
LOL!!! ;D
seratonin is a helluva neurotransmitter! ;D
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and oh..scroll up 3 or 4 posts..and read the bold.. >:(
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i sense much anger in you toxie, lol
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i sense much anger in you toxie, lol
i dont mind the mods simply del my post...
DONT change my words....cause then you r chaging my preceived personality..
thanx!
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i dont mind the mods simply del my post...
DONT change my words....cause then you r chaging my preceived personality..
thanx!
What's going on? Are you saying someone changed the f word in one of your posts Toxy? I don't think we have enough time to change all the f words lol! The only thing I changed recently was about you and that girl peeing on each other in the shower. That stuff should really be on the sex board instead. :-\
Are you saying you'd rather I'd have deleted your whole post instead of just that part? If so, no problem at all. Let me know. Don't get mad...just talk to ol' Stella :)
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What's going on? Are you saying someone changed the f word in one of your posts Toxy? I don't think we have enough time to change all the f words lol! The only thing I changed recently was about you and that girl peeing on each other in the shower. That stuff should really be on the sex board instead. :-\
yeah i know and i know that wus u soo i ws kinda fine with it...you straight up del em..which is cool.. 8)
(2 other mods)just dont change my words..apparently some mod here has never used the word 'fucking' ...wayy too 'pious' for me..there r skeletons in that closet...anyhooo...
i'll keep posting in exactly the way i usually do...if ya dont like my post..just nix it.....just dont change it...pop a midol or something instead..
changing of the posts i tolerate (actually welcome) on the X
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(2 other mods)just dont change my words..apparently some mod here has never used the word 'fucking' ...wayy too 'pious' for me..there r skeletons in that closet...anyhooo...
who knows I could have done it when I was drunk :-[ ;D
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i was wondering why you were stumbling around
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i was wondering why you were stumbling around
lol!
Bad >:(
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MUAH
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who knows I could have done it when I was drunk :-[ ;D
i know ya stells..at least on getbig...no ya wouldn't... :)
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RHCP - I could have lied
There must be something
In the way I feel
That she dont want me to feel
The stare she bares cut me
I dont care
You see so what if I bleed
I could never change
Just what I feel
My face will never show
What is not real
A mountain never seems to have
The need to speak
A look that shares so many seek
The sweetest feeling
I got from you
The things I said to you were true
I could never change
Just what I feel
My face will never show
What is not real
I could have lied Im such a fool
My eyes could never never never
Keep their cool
Showed her and I told her how
She struck me but Im fucked up now
But now shes gone yes shes gone away
A soulful song
That would not stay
You see she hides cause she is scared
But I dont care
I wont be spared
I could have lied Im such a fool
My eyes could never never never
Keep their cool
Showed her and I told her how
She struck me but Im fucked up now
I could have lied Im such a fool
My eyes could never never never
Keep their cool
Showed her and I told her how
She struck me but Im fucked up now
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Faust- go get laid, and drunk well, not in that order time to start moving on big guy!
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Yep, Faust, a bunch of songs are going to really be having more meaning now. Sorry you're hurting bro :(
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there are othe fish in the sea.
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Faustus,
:'( . If you need more music that will make you want to sob hysterically, try Suart A. Staples, Leaving Songs. After the first song and a half a bottle of jack, you'll be guaranteed to defenestrate yourself.
http://www.emusic.com/album/10913/10913049.html
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Faustus,
:'( . If you need more music that will make you want to sob hysterically, try Suart A. Staples, Leaving Songs. After the first song and a half a bottle of jack, you'll be guaranteed to defenestrate yourself.
http://www.emusic.com/album/10913/10913049.html
thanks deedee, now i'm depressed.
Hold me....
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thanks deedee, now i'm depressed.
Hold me....
Come here puddin' :)
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Come here puddin' :)
coming love button
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Come here puddin' :)
Group hug!
Faust- go get laid, and drunk well, not in that order time to start moving on big guy!
I'm ok. It's getting better. I can't say i don't feel anything any more, but at least my mind is clear now. She's not all that, life goes on.
I've stopped replying to her emails. I'm not gonna get played with.
This is closure.
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women are an enigma, but people should never be treated as toys. ...unless they wanna be! :P
Post corrected in bold. (some of my favourite play toys have been Men) ;)
(our Miggy is a Spanish-French-Polish poet. :D )
...you're forgetting the Kielbassa. He's gotta be part Polish! :P
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Post corrected in bold. (some of my favourite play toys have been Men) ;)
...you're forgetting the Kielbassa. He's gotta be part Polish! :P
Kielbassa is actually from Hungary, and its spelled kolbass. For the record im half Hungarian Jag ;). Kolbass, the other white meat!
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Kielbassa is actually from Hungary, and its spelled kolbass. For the record im half Hungarian Jag ;). Kolbass, the other white meat!
Am pretty sure there are two different kinds of sausage. One's from Hungary but Kielbassa originated in Krakow. Not sure which one we meant. :P
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Am pretty sure there are two different kinds of sausage. One's from Hungary but Kielbassa originated in Krakow. Not sure which one we meant. :P
Ill show you mine Dee and you can make your own judgement, until then the debate rages on!!
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Kielbassa is actually from Hungary, and its spelled kolbass. For the record im half Hungarian Jag ;). Kolbass, the other white meat!
That's what I originally thought. But when DeeDee spelled it kielbassa, I deferred to her.
Not sure which one is correct. Perhaps you should send me a graphic, ...so I can decide? :P
(strictly for education and illustration purposes I mean) ;)
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That's what I originally thought. But when DeeDee spelled it kielbassa, I deferred to her.
Not sure which one is correct. Perhaps you should send me a graphic, ...so I can decide? :P
(strictly for education and illustration purposes I mean) ;)
ok but you go first, lol
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Ill show you mine Dee and you can make your own judgement, until then the debate rages on!!
Lol, I still say kolbassa is Hungarian, and Kielbassa is Polish. I'm sure Miggly doesn't care, as long as we don't compare him to a breakfast sausage. :-X
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Lol, I still say kolbassa is Hungarian, and Kielbassa is Polish. I'm sure Miggly doesn't care, as long as we don't compare him to a breakfast sausage. :-X
or cocktail weiny
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Lol, I still say kolbassa is Hungarian, and Kielbassa is Polish. I'm sure Miggly doesn't care, as long as we don't compare him to a breakfast sausage. :-X
I have to insist that you drop the a from kolbassa Deedee! KOLBASS!! . The Hungarian version in much bigger than the Polish one! ;)
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lol.
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I have to insist that you drop the a from kolbassa Deedee! KOLBASS!! . The Hungarian version in much bigger than the Polish one! ;)
Kolbass it is then.
(Our family is German so I only know about bratwursts... we'll have to take your word on the humungous Hungarian sausages. :))
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Kolbass it is then.
(Our family is German so I only know about bratwursts... we'll have to take your word on the humungous Hungarian sausages. :))
size queen, lol
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You of all people should know your sausages, Monsieur le Chef. So what's the diff between Kielbassa and Kolbass... ???
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I always say with women
The best way to get over one woman is to get another one. It takes your mind off the first one.
I had my heart broken in like aug 2005. I was messed up until feb 2006. I lost 40lbs. Seriously going through it. Trying my hardest to get back with her and she was loving every min of it. I went home once in feb for like 1.5 week. I got much needed confidence boost from many women in LA and i went back to atl like "fvck that broad" and since then she has been hounding me to get back with me.
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I always say with women
The best way to get over one woman is to get another one. It takes your mind off the first one.
I had my heart broken in like aug 2005. I was messed up until feb 2006. I lost 40lbs. Seriously going through it. Trying my hardest to get back with her and she was loving every min of it. I went home once in feb for like 1.5 week. I got much needed confidence boost from many women in LA and i went back to atl like "fvck that broad" and since then she has been hounding me to get back with me.
Sorry to hear that.
It's hard to keep your mind focussed, i could hardly think about anything and didn't eat much for a couple of days. I hope i never get it that serious like you, i didn't even know this girl well but she just struck me. In retrospect it's stupid, but feelings can win over logic easily.
I got an email from her saying she wants "to be with me". Not sure what she exactly means by this, but i'm not seeing her again. Don't need the drama. The line has been drawn. Funny, had she played honest with me from the start i would have given her anything. Maybe it's for the best.
I'm interested in other girls again, so that's a good sign. Came pretty close to picking up a chick, but was too drunk to close the deal ;D. Talked with her for almost an hour, but then i called her by a wrong name :-\.
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I'm interested in other girls again, so that's a good sign. Came pretty close to picking up a chick, but was too drunk to close the deal ;D. Talked with her for almost an hour, but then i called her by a wrong name :-\.
Major party foul. funny though. i am just thinking of her reaction.
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I always say with women
The best way to get over one woman is to get another one. It takes your mind off the first one.
I had my heart broken in like aug 2005. I was messed up until feb 2006. I lost 40lbs. Seriously going through it. Trying my hardest to get back with her and she was loving every min of it. I went home once in feb for like 1.5 week. I got much needed confidence boost from many women in LA and i went back to atl like "fvck that broad" and since then she has been hounding me to get back with me.
Holy sh*t... that's a lot of weight. That must have been some major heartbreak!
But revenge is always sweet. 8)
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YEah i went from eating 5 times a day to once every 2 days. I had no appetite so you could imagine, i wasnt lifting at all. I just moped around the house for months, Listening to Stevie Ray Vaughn.
The funny thing is when you look back at it after it is all over you think "What in the hell was wrong with me"
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i'm gonna do the big_mal diet!
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The Big_mal Heart Break diet. LOL
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Lol.
It is true though that while you're in it you think the world is going to end any minute... but then one day out of nowhere the cloud lifts and you wonder why you ever spent two seconds thinking about the person.
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The Big_mal Heart Break diet. LOL
let write a book and do the Dr. Phil and Oprah circuit!
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Kolbass it is then.
(Our family is German so I only know about bratwursts... we'll have to take your word on the humungous Hungarian sausages. :))
You wicked wicked woman ;)
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let write a book and do the Dr. Phil and Oprah circuit!
;D
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Kolbass it is then.
(Our family is German so I only know about bratwursts... we'll have to take your word on the humungous Hungarian sausages. :))
No we won't! WE WANT PROOF!!! :P (gotta pic... or two) ;)
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No we won't! WE WANT PROOF!!! :P (gotta pic... or two) ;)
perv!
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No we won't! WE WANT PROOF!!! :P (gotta pic... or two) ;)
Jag im so surprised at you !! ;D Sorry, its only standard equipment, a little over weight like me, and very handsome!
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8) LOL 8)
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perv!
uh-huh. ;D
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Jag im so surprised at you !! ;D
Why are you so surprised? I've never been one to accept things at face value.
Sorry, its only standard equipment, a little over weight like me, and very handsome!
Again I say... Show us some proof! :P
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Again I say... Show us some proof! :P
A PM, wouldn't that be cool for you? Don't want to see any sausages per accident, I'm sorry.
I'm going to see this one particular woman I have known in the past. Time to catch up, it's been almost 5 years. Hopefully she won't give me the blues. Looking forward to it, but plan to take it easy. :)
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A PM, wouldn't that be cool for you? Don't want to see any sausages per accident, I'm sorry.
PM's = good
PMS = bad
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PM's = good
PMS = bad
jag, you're haitian english is so quaint . . . and lovely. :-*
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8) LOL 8)
Gina,
you look much to sweet to be part of this thread!! ;)
Its almost Thanksgiving here in the US, you better keep Cheekytoots and the gang away from US soil ;D
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Why are you so surprised? I've never been one to accept things at face value.
Again I say... Show us some proof! :P
Sorry Jag, Only Flower has been blessed with my photos (ABOVE THE WAIST ;D). If she still has one she might forward it to you.