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Title: Cheaters....
Post by: Bigger Business on November 26, 2006, 06:32:11 AM
The current topics are kinda boring...IMO.  So I want to get some good opinions on a very HOT topic.

I'm watching Dr. Phil yesterday on a show about cheaters.  These particular couples were married...which really strikes a nerve with me...but were still together.  One woman on the show whom had two affairs was admitting "if I did not get caught, I would still be doing it".  Her husband just sat there...wanting to work on the relationship.  As sorry as I felt for this man...I felt that if he was taking the abuse, then he deserved it.  The same for the wives that were on the same show.

Where do you draw the line between LOVE and RATIONALITY?  Personally, I am a 1 strike and your out.  Bob and I have had the discussion, he knows my views on this topic.  He messes up ONCE and he is gone...no questions asked!!  I am the type of woman that would much rather be alone, and split custody than constantly worrying whether my husband is being faithful.  I'm not a snooper, and I don't check up on my husband...I don't feel I should have to.  But why is it that women...and men...feel that its something that they should put up with.  There are so many great people in this world....THAT STAY FAITHFUL.  I cant see wasting my time on someone who doesn't.

Am I being unreasonable?
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: sandycoosworth on November 26, 2006, 06:38:23 AM
Despite the fact hes googli eyed and probably smells bad, Bob (like every other guy) is fucking around on you.

Cheers!
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: Bigger Business on November 26, 2006, 06:45:54 AM
youre probably right

good thing he got her knocked up so she can take half his shit
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: Deedee on November 26, 2006, 06:52:42 AM
Isn't it a little early to be drinking so heavily  ???
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: sandycoosworth on November 26, 2006, 06:54:25 AM
LOL, Actually BB is Australian and has been drinking since this evening :D
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: Bigger Business on November 26, 2006, 06:55:19 AM
I actually just worked out

so only been drinking for 30 minutes
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: sandycoosworth on November 26, 2006, 06:56:12 AM
Watching some dude shower for 20 minutes is not working out >:(
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: Bigger Business on November 26, 2006, 06:58:19 AM
it was 45 mins

and he was on the adductor!  >:(
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: sandycoosworth on November 26, 2006, 07:06:39 AM
I think I just started ovulating. Excuse me :-[
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: sandycoosworth on November 26, 2006, 07:17:05 AM
Guys just need to go through a learning curve. Once they get busted and they see how bad it affects a chick when they cheat I doubt there would be many that would do it again.
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: Livewire on November 26, 2006, 09:55:11 AM
Guys just need to go through a learning curve. Once they get busted and they see how bad it affects a chick when they cheat I doubt there would be many that would do it again.

sounds like your man was into tapping the A-ring and you weren't.

I hope you learned your lesson.
Title: Re: Cheaters....
Post by: sandycoosworth on November 26, 2006, 09:58:51 AM
actually i was goona do it for myself.  just to learn how to dance better.  I'll let the girls thing work itself out on its own