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Title: Wife abusing husband
Post by: SteelePegasus on January 09, 2007, 07:58:53 PM

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No man should ever admit to this


TRENTON, N.J. -- New Jersey Nets star Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife of 10 years Tuesday, accusing her of "extreme cruelty" throughout their marriage.



Kidd
In the dissolution papers, filed in state Superior Court in Bergen County, Kidd accuses Joumana Kidd of physically and mentally abusing him, threatening to make false domestic violence complaints against him to police and of interfering with his relationship with his children.

"The defendant's extreme and unwarranted jealousy and rage has left the plaintiff concerned about her emotional stability," the papers say.

The divorce filing came less than a day after the 33-year-old NBA player filed a domestic violence complaint seeking a temporary restraining order against his wife.

"Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife today on the grounds of extreme cruelty over a long period of time," Kidd's attorney, Madeline Marzano-Lesnevich, said in a statement Tuesday. "As this is an extremely difficult personal matter, I ask that the privacy of the Kidd family be respected."

The complaint, however, attempts to paint a detailed portrait of Joumana Kidd as a vitriolic, jealous and paranoid wife prone to public outbursts and threats, including during a recent Nets game.

According to the complaint, Joumana Kidd used the couple's 8-year-old son on Dec. 27 to sneak into the Nets locker room and rummage through Jason Kidd's locker to find his cell phone. After looking up the names and numbers on it, the complaint said she left her son to behind as she went upstairs to take a front row seat, where she shouted insults at Kidd throughout the game.

The papers accuse Joumana Kidd of kicking, hitting, punching and throwing household objects at her husband as she became "increasingly controlling and manipulative" in the last few years of their union.

According to Kidd, his wife had tracking devices installed on his cars and computers and has harassed his trainer, friends and family.


The Kidds were married in 1997 and live in Saddle River. They were involved in a domestic violence matter six years ago when he was playing for the Phoenix Suns.

In that incident, Jason Kidd was arrested in January 2001 after his wife told police he hit her during an argument over their son, Trey Jason (T.J.), who was 2 at the time. Kidd pleaded guilty to spousal abuse, was fined $200 and ordered to take anger management training.

Besides 8-year-old T.J., the Kidds have 4-year-old twin daughters, Miah and Jazelle.

Despite the numerous accusations by Kidd in the complaint, he did not ask for sole custody of the children.

"It is in the best interest that the parties share physical and legal custody of the children," the complaint said.

Kidd will make more than $18 million this season.

The Kidds' home phone number is unlisted. An after-hours message left for Joumana Kidd's lawyer was not immediately returned.

Jason Kidd did not make himself available to the media before the Nets' game against the Toronto Raptors on Tuesday night.

Copyright 2007 by The Associated Press

Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: alexxx on January 09, 2007, 08:01:12 PM
She can come and abuse me any time she wants.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: phyxsius on January 09, 2007, 08:02:02 PM
Wife didn't get enough sex from husband?
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: bigdumbbell on January 09, 2007, 08:04:13 PM
another sick relationship...great, a control freak wife out of control
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Kwon on January 09, 2007, 08:10:13 PM
Sounds almost like her plan from the beginning!

Marry rich and then become so obnoxious that he has to divorce her!

Or maybe she's just downright mental.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Sergio Rules 77 on January 09, 2007, 08:13:06 PM
I almost couldn't believe my ears the other day on ESPN, I can't remember if it was a game or Sportscenter but someone called Kidd the greatest point guard to ever play the game ::). Obviously he never saw Magic, Isiah, Stockton, Cousy, Archibald, Maurice Cheeks or Dennis Johnson play the game. How many rings has Kidd won ?.

SERGIO!!!!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: SteelePegasus on January 09, 2007, 08:14:03 PM
lol, what does she expect? he is a high profile millionare in a popular sport

he has pussy thrown at him 24\7....no man can withstand that kind of pressure without falling to temptation
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: SteelePegasus on January 09, 2007, 08:15:42 PM
I almost couldn't believe my ears the other day on ESPN, I can't remmber if it was a game or Sportscenter but someone called Kidd the greatest point guard to ever play the game ::). Obviously he never saw Magic, Isiah, Stockton, Cousy, Archibald, Maurice Cheeks or Dennis Johnson play the game. How many rings has Kidd won ?.

SERGIO!!!!

in today's sport it is all about what have you done for me lately, those guys are not playing anymore

in 3 years they will claim that LeBron is better than michael jordan...we have a very short memory
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Sergio Rules 77 on January 09, 2007, 08:18:16 PM
in today's sport it is all about what have you done for me lately, those guys are not playing anymore

in 3 years they will claim that LeBron is better than michael jordan...we have a very short memory

Tell me about it. In last year's finals, even Pippen was saying Wade was better than MJ at the same stage of their careers. WTF ?.

SERGIO!!!!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: newmom on January 09, 2007, 08:22:07 PM
did'nt she make the same allegations a few years back if I'm not mistaken and had him arrested of some sort...I remember I was living in e rutherford nj at the time, but I am not a pro basketball fan. I'm sure they both are at fault
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: tommywishbone on January 09, 2007, 08:27:19 PM
Cross-eyed anorexic girls are always the worst. :)
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: SteelePegasus on January 09, 2007, 08:30:10 PM
nasty looking implants, you would think that with all of the money that she has they would have paid for better
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Special Ed on January 09, 2007, 09:26:31 PM
Child support guidelines call for 30% of the Gross Combined Income for 3 children.
18,000,000 x 30%= $5,400,000 a year for "child support"
Joumana will fight for full custody or the entire 5.4M
Jason will fight for shared custody or 2.7M

This whole thing makes me sad.
Sometimes I wish my mother had been raped by an NBA star.

Special "Getbig's Child Support Expert" Ed

Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Dingleberry on January 09, 2007, 09:34:23 PM
Basketball blows goat.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: nycbull on January 10, 2007, 07:06:02 AM
Pro athletes are like big kids, They look mature and can act it up to a point but when it comes down to it they are the most immature people on the planet. And the girls that go after them are worse. Most athletes under educated and don't have a clue about what to do with all the money they make. They have no real life experience and completely collapse when life gets tough. They may be tough on the field but are total pansies with real life problems. I think if fans knew how stunted the mental development of pro athletes is they wouldn't be dressing up in face paint and cheering them on like they are immortal Gods.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 07:22:10 AM
Sounds almost like her plan from the beginning!

Marry rich and then become so obnoxious that he has to divorce her!

Or maybe she's just downright mental.
That really wouldn't surprise me.  She wouldn't have married that guy without the money, period.  No offense though, if you are getting physically abused by a wife that is that tiny, then you have some serious problems.  Neither one should abuse the other but for him to get punked by his wife is hilarious.  I could just see him with his friends and she comes in with a frying pan and starts beating his ass.  Haha.  Go figure they are from Trenton too. 
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: sandycoosworth on January 10, 2007, 07:23:11 AM
apeaking of abusing your wife/gf























HI LEE PRIEST
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Stark on January 10, 2007, 07:26:50 AM
Fact is there are many many man out there that get physically abused on a regular basis by their wifes or girlfriends, some of them may lack the physical strengh to defend themself properly some are just embaressed to call for support but mostly it comes down to the: I don't hit a woman thingy, it's never shamefull to be a victim.

I call it reverse sexism, I mean look into what's going on ATM, men are constantly portrait as weak minded stupid, sex maniac, or cruel... just try to run an add where the woman is shown in the kitchen cooking the food and she calls her husband who is sitting at the bar laughing with his buddies over his stupid wife... doesn't happen... well it did, the difference was: The man was at home looking after the children making a complete fool out of himself, the wife was shopping with friends and laughing at him.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: sandycoosworth on January 10, 2007, 07:33:22 AM
one of my x's hit me in the face

at the time she was claiming she was preggers so instead of hitting her back i told her i really hoped she died during child birth and that working as a stripper left her with no soul







then i tried to anally rape her but i couldnt fit it in :(





yeah i kinda wish i had hit the bitch back >:(
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 07:36:19 AM
I don't think a man would lack the physical strength unless his wife was one strong ass woman or trained to fight.  Just my opinion.  I would be hard pressed to actually fight back.  I would subdue her but not throw punches.  If a woman came at me with a weapon I would put her to the ground.  I actually went to a party once where some girl and guy got into it and she hit the guy hard with a fist.  He told her that if fshe did it again he'd knock her out.  She did it again and he cold clocked her.  Funny.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Stark on January 10, 2007, 07:37:47 AM
one of my x's hit me in the face

at the time she was claiming she was preggers so instead of hitting her back i told her i really hoped she died during child birth and that working as a stripper left her with no soul







then i tried to anally rape her but i couldnt fit it in :(





yeah i kinda wish i had hit the bitch back >:(

My ex hit me in the face too, on the street infront of everybody walking past...screaming in my face like a maniac

I did not hit her but asked a girl out that just walked past... that made my ex even more angry :D
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: sandycoosworth on January 10, 2007, 07:39:16 AM
My ex hit me in the face too, on the street infront of everybody walking past...screaming in my face like a maniac

I did not hit her but asked the girl out that just walked past... that made my ex even more angry :D

well played ;D

you know what the funyn part is ... she had told me about how her x bf's used to hit her and i was furious, i wanted to find them and fuck them up cause i think hitting women is dispicable (ATTN LEE PRIEST) ... and then the c unt hits me ::)
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Stark on January 10, 2007, 07:47:53 AM
well played ;D

you know what the funyn part is ... she had told me about how her x bf's used to hit her and i was furious, i wanted to find them and f**k them up cause i think hitting women is dispicable (ATTN LEE PRIEST) ... and then the c unt hits me ::)

yeah the girl did not go put with me tho, must have looked bad, the ex hittingh me in the face dumbping all the rest of the my shit from the car onto the sideway  :-\
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 07:50:03 AM
I know some fiesty women but damn, never had a girlfriend hit me.  Been slapped once but I laughed in her face so hard she just about cried.  Fuuny stuff.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 08:43:47 AM
Oh the stories I could tell :-X!!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 08:44:39 AM
This should be moved to the general board!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: alexxx on January 10, 2007, 08:48:33 AM
This should be moved to the general board!

I agree. His built is to overbearing for you to handle.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Triple-H_2005 on January 10, 2007, 08:50:42 AM
...mostly it comes down to the: I don't hit a woman thingy, it's never shamefull to be a victim.

I agree with this.  I mean, if he belted her, whether she deserved it or not, he would be the bad guy.  So either fight back and be an abusive husband, or file s complaint ans be seen as a pussy.

Porr guy's in a no-win.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Army of One on January 10, 2007, 09:16:33 AM
Looks like a way to just divorce her and keep most of his money to me.About Kidd, great player, you forget he took the nets to the finals 2 years in a row, its more than Steve Nash has done who is looking to win his 3rd MVP this year.Also I think Michael Jordan is the one man people WONT forget about, its been 10 years  and I havnt heard a credible news source say anyone is anywhere near Jordans Level.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 09:19:19 AM
She should forfeit all alimony and he should only pay for her wing in the psycho ward.  She shouldn't suck him dry for "x" amount of years, beat his ass and then clean him out.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: slaveboy1980 on January 10, 2007, 09:20:13 AM
Pro athletes are like big kids, They look mature and can act it up to a point but when it comes down to it they are the most immature people on the planet. And the girls that go after them are worse. Most athletes under educated and don't have a clue about what to do with all the money they make. They have no real life experience and completely collapse when life gets tough. They may be tough on the field but are total pansies with real life problems. I think if fans knew how stunted the mental development of pro athletes is they wouldn't be dressing up in face paint and cheering them on like they are immortal Gods.
very true
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: slaveboy1980 on January 10, 2007, 09:22:40 AM
one of my x's hit me in the face

at the time she was claiming she was preggers so instead of hitting her back i told her i really hoped she died during child birth and that working as a stripper left her with no soul







then i tried to anally rape her but i couldnt fit it in :(





yeah i kinda wish i had hit the bitch back >:(


buhuhuuu....trying to get some attention with your daydreams?

barbellosis
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Tapeworm on January 10, 2007, 09:22:53 AM
She should forfeit all alimony and he should only pay for her wing in the psycho ward.  She shouldn't suck him dry for "x" amount of years, beat his ass and then clean him out.

Introduce her to slaveboy.  They'll get along.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 09:34:34 AM
I agree. His built is to overbearing for you to handle.

Your right, it should be moved to the Mr.GetBig board!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: alexxx on January 10, 2007, 09:39:55 AM
Your right, it should be moved to the Mr.GetBig board!

He would own ta!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: RUDE BUOY on January 10, 2007, 09:42:26 AM
I almost couldn't believe my ears the other day on ESPN, I can't remember if it was a game or Sportscenter but someone called Kidd the greatest point guard to ever play the game ::). Obviously he never saw Magic, Isiah, Stockton, Cousy, Archibald, Maurice Cheeks or Dennis Johnson play the game. How many rings has Kidd won ?.

SERGIO!!!!
shit i think chauncey billups is better than kidd
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Army of One on January 10, 2007, 09:44:10 AM
I agree. His built is to overbearing for you to handle.

Talking of Builds David Robinson had the Best NBA build Ever, Imagine if this guy had tried at Bodybuilding 7 feet tall and Naturally this big.

(http://www2.mysanantonio.com/specials/dr/wallpaper/DR1_1280x1024.jpg)
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Army of One on January 10, 2007, 09:46:38 AM
shit i think chauncey billups is better than kidd
HHAAHHAHAHA No.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 09:50:12 AM
Let's just put it this way, Jason Kidd got his ass beat by a woman who doesn't look a pound over 100.  What a dickhead.  Mentally abused huh?  Maybe he couldn't get it up and she called him a pussy.  Big whoop.  Physically?  No excuse.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: SteelePegasus on January 10, 2007, 09:52:14 AM
HHAAHHAHAHA No.

yeah, his wife doesn't beat him
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: alexxx on January 10, 2007, 09:53:12 AM
Talking of Builds David Robinson had the Best NBA build Ever, Imagine if this guy had tried at Bodybuilding 7 feet tall and Naturally this big.

(http://www2.mysanantonio.com/specials/dr/wallpaper/DR1_1280x1024.jpg)

Yeah he looks great. Made a good decision to go with basketeball $$$
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: RUDE BUOY on January 10, 2007, 09:53:30 AM
HHAAHHAHAHA No.
dude how can you even laugh how many rings does billups have thats what it boils down to more than kidd
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Army of One on January 10, 2007, 09:59:56 AM
dude how can you even laugh how many rings does billups have thats what it boils down to more than kidd

Look at the team Billups had, Prince should have been an allstar so you essentially had an allstar starting 5, Pistons were a sum of their parts not a one man show.Kidd Single handidly took a bum team to the finals twice.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: RUDE BUOY on January 10, 2007, 10:02:53 AM
Look at the team Billups had, Prince should have been an allstar so you essentially had an allstar starting 5, Pistons were a sum of their parts not a one man show.Kidd Single handidly took a bum team to the finals twice.
how can you say with in the last couple years that jason kidd had a bum team give me a break new jersy always have great player they under achive! man we need a sports board  >:(
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mydavid on January 10, 2007, 10:24:19 AM
And it took 10 years :-[

Lisa
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 11:03:46 AM
Let's just put it this way, Jason Kidd got his ass beat by a woman who doesn't look a pound over 100.  What a dickhead.  Mentally abused huh?  Maybe he couldn't get it up and she called him a pussy.  Big whoop.  Physically?  No excuse.

Yes, he might have got his beat and not reataliating is the best thing he could have done, it's not because he was a dickhead or a pussy....it's because he was smart, there are alot men who would rather get beat by a woman than retaliate aginst her....why? because if the cops are called HE's going to be the one to go to jail and not her but if it's the opposite, and she leaves marks or brusis, she'll be the one to get hauled off.

Women always want to play the victom, and men are the opposite because of one reason......PRIDE, but if men keep playing the pride game, they lose....BIGTIME. There's more women beating on men then men beating on women but you will rarely hear about it. So props to him for taking it like a man!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 01:28:15 PM
Yes, he might have got his beat and not reataliating is the best thing he could have done, it's not because he was a dickhead or a pussy....it's because he was smart, there are alot men who would rather get beat by a woman than retaliate aginst her....why? because if the cops are called HE's going to be the one to go to jail and not her but if it's the opposite, and she leaves marks or brusis, she'll be the one to get hauled off.

Women always want to play the victom, and men are the opposite because of one reason......PRIDE, but if men keep playing the pride game, they lose....BIGTIME. There's more women beating on men then men beating on women but you will rarely hear about it. So props to him for taking it like a man!
Oh he's gonna take it like a man, a man in prison getting ass raped.  What I mean is she gonna ass rape him when it comes to the divorce.  He should have reported it.  If the police come to the house and he has bruises and cuts and she does not then she will get busted.  He just didn't want the bad press at the time but he is getting it just as bad now.  He is a dickhead for letting it get to this point.  I never said he should hit her but if he would have reported it he would have a better chance getting his kids and not having to pay her gold digging ass.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Sergio Rules 77 on January 10, 2007, 02:50:40 PM
Look at the team Billups had, Prince should have been an allstar so you essentially had an allstar starting 5, Pistons were a sum of their parts not a one man show.Kidd Single handidly took a bum team to the finals twice.

That's a very good point. However, if the roles were reversed, I honestly don't think the Pistons would have won the '04 Finals if Kidd was on that team. Billups was a perfect fit for the Pistons that year, I think Kidd is definitely a better player. On another note, has this year so far been the worst in memory ?. I just watched the Pistons-Sixers game yesterday and it was shite, except for Prince who was awesome, every game I've seen this year has been the same. I honestly believe if the '83 Sixers, '86 Celtics, '85/'87 Lakers or '92 Bulls were playing today, they would not lose a game all year.

SERGIO!!!!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 03:42:19 PM
Oh he's gonna take it like a man, a man in prison getting ass raped.  What I mean is she gonna ass rape him when it comes to the divorce.  He should have reported it.  If the police come to the house and he has bruises and cuts and she does not then she will get busted.  He just didn't want the bad press at the time but he is getting it just as bad now.  He is a dickhead for letting it get to this point.  I never said he should hit her but if he would have reported it he would have a better chance getting his kids and not having to pay her gold digging ass.

I'd rather have the kids than the money.....somethings are much more valuable than money!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Fury on January 10, 2007, 03:44:11 PM
From baseballmom's posts, I wonder if Mr.Intenseone was ever physically abused or if it was just psychological warfare.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 03:44:45 PM
I'd rather have the kids than the money.....somethings are much more valuable than money!
He could have had both if he had made the report.  Making the allegations now in the divorce makes it look like a ploy to get custody.  You know?  I would fight her on alimony every step of the way.  I would give her the bare ass minimum.  She shouldn't get anything to fulfill a lavish lifestyle, just to survive and he should get the kids because he can better provide for them monetarily but that's not how the US works.
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 03:46:35 PM
He could have had both if he had made the report.  Making the allegations now in the divorce makes it look like a ploy to get custody.  You know?  I would fight her on alimony every step of the way.  I would give her the bare ass minimum.  She shouldn't get anything to fulfill a lavish lifestyle, just to survive and he should get the kids because he can better provide for them monetarily but that's not how the US works.

I should give him my Attny's number!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Cap on January 10, 2007, 04:21:13 PM
I should give him my Attny's number!
Haha.  Joe laid the smacketh down on her money hungry ass!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Richard2004 on January 10, 2007, 04:25:22 PM
Gee golly gosh, Ray McNeil abused his wife Sally McNeil; but then Sally GOT EVEN by abusing Ray in return...permanently...R .I.P. Ray!!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Richard2004 on January 10, 2007, 04:59:34 PM
Yeah...uhhh...BUT, I guess a lot of us guys could tell plenty of "war stories" of abuse we received at the hands of our EX-wives!!

I sure can...like the time my "ex-wife-to-be" "abused me" by wanted to meet MY attorney (who was to represent me in our upcoming diviorce)...she did, and then seduced him and turned him against me!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on January 10, 2007, 05:11:47 PM
From baseballmom's posts, I wonder if Mr.Intenseone was ever physically abused.

Dude, if you only knew, that was just the half of it!
Title: Re: Wife abusing husband
Post by: slaveboy1980 on January 11, 2007, 06:29:06 AM
Dude, if you only knew, that was just the half of it!


did she try to use a strap on you?