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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: ToxicAvenger on April 07, 2007, 06:40:53 PM
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questions or ephiphanies...pick your poison...
bottom line..first date or the 10th...as a guy if ya just for once friggin go out and hang out with a girl without the intention of having sex with her by the time the nites over...
you'll usually at least score points..and more often then not..get what you want.. ;)
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You're getting wise in your old age Toxie. ;)
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You're getting wise in your old age Toxie. ;)
a yr of sundays ago...when i ws 18 some hippie girl at some rave once said to me " you have old soul"
i still remember that.. :)
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People should have sex a few times before dating.
That would save a lot of wasted time and hurt feelings. :)
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Not bad advice, but for 99% of guys that alone isn't gonna cut.
Besides, creating some sexual tension usually helps tremendously. Makes it more enjoyable for both sides. Doesn't mean you have to have sex straight away.
Faust,
Toxy would rather idealize a woman than have sex with her. He's a romantic that believes the perfect woman exists out there. Attitudes like that make dating pretty difficult. Much of what normal, healthy couples do would make him think she wasn't wifey material. And if she's not wife material having her as a gf is wasted time.
If she puts out too soon.... he thinks she's a whore. If she puts out too late.... he thinks she's controlling him with sex. If she does certain (ahem) variations... he'd judge her on that too wondering how often she's done them in the past and so on.
A person can be too romantic. :)
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a yr of sundays ago...when i ws 18 some hippie girl at some rave once said to me " you have old soul"
She was high on E...
Everybody is your friend...
Hope this helps...
... ;)
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Many, many, many women know within 5 minutes of talking to you, whether they want to end up in your bed or not. The rest is just details, making sure he isn't a secret psycho or something... hence the date. It doesn't really matter what you do or where you go with her... attraction is attraction.
<curtsy>
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Faust,
Toxy would rather idealize a woman than have sex with her
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>:( but unfortunately truish.....remember when i ws slumming..well when i just wanna 'date' someone i automatically pick someone i'm not really into..that way i can dump em on a dime without a second look.
He's a romantic that believes the perfect woman exists out there.
well i sure hope so orr i've wasted a lot of time and ended quite a few relationships prematurely.. :(
Much of what normal, healthy couples do would make him think she wasn't wifey material.
nah i wouldn't go THAT far...
And if she's not wife material having her as a gf is wasted time.
pretty much...then i dont call em my girlfriends..i'm just "dating" em...
i've had VERY few girlfriends in my life..i've dated tonnes..
If she puts out too soon.... he thinks she's a whore.
yes i will...i cant help that...
If she puts out too late.... he thinks she's controlling him with sex.
NO i dont..i usually respect em more for it doc..
If she does certain (ahem) variations... he'd judge her on that too wondering how often she's done them in the past and so on.
no thats where how many relationships you have had versus 1 niters come in..
she coulda done anything with 20 boyfriends and i wont care..20 one niters then..why the fuck am i special??
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She was high on E...
Everybody is your friend...
Hope this helps...
... ;)
umm soo ws i...her an i went on a journey.. :P
ie we walked around in the woods...and ended up outside a church and then made out.. :-\
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I have some twisted friends too. One dude spoiled this chick for years and things just couldn't work out. Why, you ask? Because she didn't feel the same way. For some reason, her saying this to him made spending his money and demanding tons of crap all right. Poor sap took about sixmonths away from his businesses to get over her.
Stuff like that actually hits rich guys harder. Love is the one thing money can't buy. It can be rented, LOL!
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Many, many, many women know within 5 minutes of talking to you, whether they want to end up in your bed or not. The rest is just details, making sure he isn't a secret psycho or something... hence the date. It doesn't really matter what you do or where you go with her... attraction is attraction.
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:o Deedee!!!
Stop squealing about the 5 minute rule! They're not suppose to know this. shhhhh.
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:o Deedee!!!
Stop squealing about the 5 minute rule! They're not suppose to know this. shhhhh.
;). They don't listen anyway. ;D
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I have a friend with a twisted mind as well.
Any girl that sleeps with him is a slut. Any girld that doesn't is a total bitch / frigid lesbian.
I'm a romantic as well, but also a realist. I hope to find my "perfect" girl, but i might as well have some fun during the search.
Believe it or not, there was one guy that actually dumped his fiancé the day of his wedding.
They'd been engaged forever, ...during which time he was constantly pressuring her for sex,
...but as a good little Italian girl, she was expected to remain a virgin til marriage.
The day of the wedding, he pressured her so bad, she finally agreed to a quickie before the ceremony. When he was done, that SOB dumped her right afterwards, called off the wedding and explained to all the family & friends gathered for the ceremony that she wasn't good enough to be his wife since she gave it up before marriage. :o That's seriously messed up.
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Many, many, many women know within 5 minutes of talking to you, whether they want to end up in your bed or not. The rest is just details, making sure he isn't a secret psycho or something... hence the date. It doesn't really matter what you do or where you go with her... attraction is attraction.
<curtsy>
<note to self>
propose sex after 5 mins! ;D
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called off the wedding and explained to all the family & friends gathered for the ceremony that she wasn't good enough to be his wife since she gave it up before marriage. :o That's seriously messed up.
okits one thing when a girl askes to be fisted in your car..
its another what you said.. :-\