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does not exist anymore.. nowadays its all about sex,drugs and money :(
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does not exist anymore.. nowadays its all about sex,drugs and money :(
I disagree................ ...
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I disagree................ ...
Dude how many broads did you have to go through before you found your true love
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I disagree................ ...
you and cher are the exception to the rule ....
congrats ! but now please let us wallow in the romance of our own saddness >:(
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you and cher are the exception to the rule ....
congrats ! but now please let us wallow in the romance of our own saddness >:(
We are pretty lucky Toxi. :)
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does not exist anymore.. nowadays its all about sex,drugs and money :(
Love is alive and well Dude. I know people w/ lots of money who dont care for it. Its just a game acquiring it.
The money is meaningless. And Plenty folks dont do drugs. And as much as I enjoy sex, it's not the end all to a relationship. How many women to go thru to find a real love? Maybee 3-4 1/2 to 2 year relationships that didnt work out, (but those were real Love too, just not a practical match at the time) and scads of short term romances. Got to be realistic and adapt to another person a bit, and them to you, or you join the 3rd time married club.
The best part of a new relationship is learning what makes the other person tick.
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Who needs love when there are so many vagina's in the world to conquer.
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We are pretty lucky Toxi. :)
i said DONT rub it in >:(
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i said DONT rub it in >:(
No ya didn't, you said "you and cher are the exception to the rule ....congrats ! but now please let us wallow in the romance of our own saddness" :P
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I think it's definitely alive and well. I have several friends who are very happy together. I am however, scared to death it will eventually catch up with me... ;D
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I hope that the woman that i'm with right now is my True Love ... I really do. We've been dating for 3 months or so ( i've known her for 2 years ) and I have to say that I really, really love her ... with all my Heart. She's much older than me though ( 24 years older ), but I would do anything for her. The sex is great but that's not what i'm after. She has a big heart and that's what I love about her. I just fear that she'll get tired of me someday because I don't have the financial resources ( not that she needs them ... she said so herself ) or something else or other. She said she loved me first and it took me awhile to tell her I loved her back. I hope it works out for me and for all of you looking for love. If your already married or in some type of relationship then I wish you the best of luck ! :)
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Dear teh shadow,
You'll know true love when it happens, its not something you can bottle up, search, disect or define. Rather, it is 'the' moment in your life, an instanst awakening of the heart, it grabs you so tight you fell like your on a roller coaster. Because of that alon nothing else really matters and you know that you are with that someone who cares for you just as much as you care for them , and being without them is the last thing you want and being with them is the only.
dont hate let the love in!
;D
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Dear teh shadow,
You'll know true love when it happens, its not something you can bottle up, search, disect or define. Rather, it is 'the' moment in your life, an instanst awakening of the heart, it grabs you so tight you fell like your on a roller coaster. Because of that alon nothing else really matters and you know that you are with that someone who cares for you just as much as you care for them , and being without them is the last thing you want and being with them is the only.
dont hate let the love in!
;D
Very well put Jae! :)
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Dude how many broads did you have to go through before you found your true love
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na seriously...how many shedevils sucked the lifeforce out of you, how many fucked up relationships did you go through before you met the one...im on 5 right now....and im 25...i cant put up with this shit for much longer...im gonna give up
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True love DOES exist. And, you will usually find it when you least expect it................
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True love DOES exist. And, you will usually find it when you least expect it................
This is absolutely true. Can happen even when you don't want it to happen. :)
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na seriously...how many shedevils sucked the lifeforce out of you, how many fucked up relationships did you go through before you met the one...im on 5 right now....and im 25...i cant put up with this shit for much longer...im gonna give up
a lot..................... under 100 but over 50
don't give up...................... ..it will happen trust me!
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a lot..................... under 100 but over 50
don't give up...................... ..it will happen trust me!
WTF...Man forget that....i know i have been a player in my life. but im not trying to go through 45more relationships for love...that was what we are talkin about...not chicks u boned...i mean relationships...because if we goin by chicks we boned im up at about 85 give or take...remember im 25 so thats not that bad. i been bonin since was 15...so we talkin 10 years..that 8.5 a year which is like 1 every 6 weeks...not a manwhore at all....
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and from what I have seen/heard, it can happen more than once.
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William Shakespeare
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
Oh, no! it is an ever-fixéd mark,
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come'
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
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I'm soooo relieved that figure didn't include and numbers right of the decimal point. :D
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Love is very much alive and well. The question is will people attempt to find it or will they get married or hook up with the first person the see that shows interest to them despite biological clocks. A modern day reason that leeds to divorce. I think there are tons of people that are together out of convienience rather then love.
PB
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I believe love is very alive I see it almost daily....I, on the other hand, will have time for love when I am in my 30's or 40's....Until then it is just sex, drugs and money for me as shadow pointed out...LoL
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does not exist anymore.. nowadays its all about sex,drugs and money :(
I dissagree.
I've never done drugs, not even weed.
I'm a spc. in the army=dont really make that much money.
and my wife and i waited till we were married to have sex.
its out there, i know several others that have it. But it takes work, and just getting some pussy is easier then being in a relationship.
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does not exist anymore..
I agree wholeheartedly
I don't play the drug game, but I can't count how many men I've sent home to their "True Loves" with her money in my "hands". If it was so I wouldn't have a pair of Jimmy Choo's summer collection walking me out the door.
What is said to the face is very different to what is said in the darkness, Don't kid yourselves
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I agree wholeheartedly
I don't play the drug game, but I can't count how many men I've sent home to their "True Loves" with her money in my "hands". If it was so I wouldn't have a pair of Jimmy Choo's summer collection walking me out the door.
What is said to the face is very different to what is said in the darkness, Don't kid yourselves
BAM!!!!!
I knew there was a reason I liked you!!!
I believe in true love....unfortunatly, I think it only happens once. You then spend the rest of your life comparing others to the one that got away. (if you are not with them) You may love other people differently..but NEVER like you do your true love.
(tasha by the way....... :P)
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True Love?
I can't say that I'm an expert in this arena...but this I do know....
true love is being there for & with someone in the darkest hour. Not leaving that person's side, & being loyal & loving to the end.
I look at people like my parents. Sure...they had their ups & downs...but when the chips were down, they pulled in even closer. They had a commitment to themselves that no obstacle could set them apart. Especially when my mother was on her death bed, I could see in my fathers face how he smiled at my mother...He looked upon her & lifted himself up to show that he was strong for her.....I knew that was true love.
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True Love?
I can't say that I'm an expert in this arena...but this I do know....
true love is being there for & with someone in the darkest hour. Not leaving that person's side, & being loyal & loving to the end.
I look at people like my parents. Sure...they had their ups & downs...but when the chips were down, they pulled in even closer. They had a commitment to themselves that no obstacle could set them apart. Especially when my mother was on her death bed, I could see in my fathers face how he smiled at my mother...He looked upon her & lifted himself up to show that he was strong for her.....I knew that was true love.
awwwwwwwwwwwww so sweet.well that type of love is very rare.chicks these days run after guys with ferraris and a fat wallet
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awwwwwwwwwwwww so sweet.well that type of love is very rare.chicks these days run after guys with ferraris and a fat wallet
Ah Shadow, not all of us fair maidens are like that...I much prefer 6-pack abs to a fat wallet and Ferrari...call me crazy but I feel a guy that takes care of himself and works out is much preferable to the playboy, even if he's dead broke...
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awwwwwwwwwwwww so sweet.well that type of love is very rare.chicks these days run after guys with ferraris and a fat wallet
Well I must be the rare type because Mike doesn't have a ferraris or a fat wallet. ;D
Believe me...when it happens, you know it, you feel it, you breath it, you live it.
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Ah Shadow, not all of us fair maidens are like that...I much prefer 6-pack abs to a fat wallet and Ferrari...call me crazy but I feel a guy that takes care of himself and works out is much preferable to the playboy, even if he's dead broke...
Sounds to me that you are a cougar that would pounce on the pool boy Buff LoL.... ;D
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does not exist anymore.. nowadays its all about sex,drugs and money :(
This comes from a virgin 19 year old.
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Okay this is gong to cause a fight, I can feel it...
True Love involves trust. The kind of trust that you can let your mate out of your sight to play with other girls/men and know that he/she will be truthful, trustworthy and honest in their actions.
Some of you who defend true love on here have shown that this isn't the case. you might be strongly in love but the trust issue was claimed to broken and in my opinion that isn't True Love because there would have been no doubts or accusations
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I agree wholeheartedly
I don't play the drug game, but I can't count how many men I've sent home to their "True Loves" with her money in my "hands". If it was so I wouldn't have a pair of Jimmy Choo's summer collection walking me out the door.
What is said to the face is very different to what is said in the darkness, Don't kid yourselves
Your a hooker?!?!?
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Your a hooker?!?!?
We all must aspire to be something... You looking to broaden your horizon's?
In real life there are no glass slippers, but there are wicked witches.
Call me a hooker again (when you damn well know the truth) you may find out.
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Your a hooker?!?!?
lol ...i ws thinking the same thing...
she's ok with taking the money that the hubby made for his poor family, now the son or daughter might not get that special b-day present they wanted..buut she has honour enough not to fuck him...bwwaahaaahaa! ;D
anyhow...i digress...i better..or this post is outta here!
i've said it many a time..girls that are the most sensitive on here have the most to hide! :)
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Okay this is gong to cause a fight, I can feel it...
True Love involves trust. The kind of trust that you can let your mate out of your sight to play with other girls/men and know that he/she will be truthful, trustworthy and honest in their actions.
Some of you who defend true love on here have shown that this isn't the case. you might be strongly in love but the trust issue was claimed to broken and in my opinion that isn't True Love because there would have been no doubts or accusations
It's one thing when another woman is PURSUING your man. You can't trust women like that...especially if they strip for money.
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We all must aspire to be something... You looking to broaden your horizon's?
In real life there are no glass slippers, but there are wicked witches.
Call me a hooker again (when you damn well know the truth) you may find out.
i know ur not a "lady of the evening" i was just playing
don't be so serious................. ...geesh!
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It's one thing when another woman is PURSUING your man. You can't trust women like that...especially if they strip for money.
I agree.
Don't trust anyone, including your "True Love". But if he was your True Love, women like us wouldn't be around.
Yes I know I am jaded, but I see things like girls fucking the groom at the bachelor party for no other reason then they think it is funny. It never about him, it is about what she is going to do.
she's ok with taking the money that the hubby made for his poor family, now the son or daughter might not get that special b-day present they wanted..buut she has honour enough not to fuck him...bwwaahaaahaa! ;D
Honour has nothing to do with it.
Stripping is manipulation plain and simple. I have no problem taking her money. I would even take it from her hand directly. I don't make them come to the club. They come to me and I will take their money and leave them with hollow hopes and I get paid very well to do it. if it was so important for their child to have that special B-day gift, nobody forced him to give it to a slutty stripper.
I sleep on my back, I don't work on it.
Now the closest thing to True love on here is Tasha and little Milania, but that isn't the type of love shadow was talking about. There is no True Love in the way Disney tell littles girls that it may come true or the way Byron or Keats describe it in faded pages. Those are more hollow then the little hopes I supply.
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I agree.
Don't trust anyone, including your "True Love". But if he was your True Love, women like us wouldn't be around.
Yes I know I am jaded, but I see things like girls fucking the groom at the bachelor party for no other reason then they think it is funny. It never about him, it is about what she is going to do.
Honour has nothing to do with it.
Stripping is manipulation plain and simple. I have no problem taking her money. I would even take it from her hand directly. I don't make them come to the club. They come to me and I will take their money and leave them with hollow hopes and I get paid very well to do it. if it was so important for their child to have that special B-day gift, nobody forced him to give it to a slutty stripper.
I sleep on my back, I don't work on it.
Now the closest thing to True love on here is Tasha and little Milania, but that isn't the type of love shadow was talking about. There is no True Love in the way Disney tell littles girls that it may come true or the way Byron or Keats describe it in faded pages. Those are more hollow then the little hopes I supply.
You can find true love here!!
http://www.womenbehindbars.com/nl/w43026.html
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I agree.
Don't trust anyone, including your "True Love". But if he was your True Love, women like us wouldn't be around.
Yes I know I am jaded, but I see things like girls fucking the groom at the bachelor party for no other reason then they think it is funny. It never about him, it is about what she is going to do.
Honour has nothing to do with it.
Stripping is manipulation plain and simple. I have no problem taking her money. I would even take it from her hand directly. I don't make them come to the club. They come to me and I will take their money and leave them with hollow hopes and I get paid very well to do it. I sleep on my back, I don't work on it.
Now the closest thing to True love on here is Tasha and little Milania, but that isn't the type of love shadow was talking about. There is no True Love in the way Disney tell littles girls that it may come true or the way Byron or Keats describe it in faded pages. Those are more hollow then the little hopes I supply.
Ya know I see alot of the middle-aged guys in strips clubs throwing that money out just for some hollow hopes...Now, I go to higher-end strip clubs just when I want to have a good time with my friends and see beautiful women nude...(The reason I said "higher-end" clubs is because I don't want to toss money at a saggy heifer)..I never have hopes of screwing a stripper though LoL...I can go to dance clubs and spend more money on bar tabs that will land me some nice ass guaranteed...I guess its that old saying "either way you look at it you are paying for sex".... ;D
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This thread is useless without pictures!
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I remember being at a Catholic wedding about 10 years ago, and something the priest said during the service really stuck with me. He said, "Love isn't just a feeling--it's a decision"....and I think there's a lot of truth to that.
If that feeling of overwhelming passion (or butterflies, or however you wanna describe it) were all it took to make a relationship work, there would be no such thing as divorce. I believe that if you TRULY love someone, you accept them.......faults and all..........and you learn to live with their bad habits, their MISTAKES....and they do the same for you.
Sure, there are jaded strippers, men who are serial cheaters, and insecure, narcissistic women who screw the groom at bachelor parties.............but there are ALSO people in this world who are kind, sincere, and TRULY know how to love another. And, thank God, I happen to be married to one of those men.
I believe that you NEVER really know TRUE love until its limits are tested. It's EASY to love someone who appeases your every whim and NEVER makes mistakes...........unfor tunately, none of us is perfect.
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I remember being at a Catholic wedding about 10 years ago, and something the priest said during the service really stuck with me. He said, "Love isn't just a feeling--it's a decision"....and I think there's a lot of truth to that.
If that feeling of overwhelming passion (or butterflies, or however you wanna describe it) were all it took to make a relationship work, there would be no such thing as divorce. I believe that if you TRULY love someone, you accept them.......faults and all..........and you learn to live with their bad habits, their MISTAKES....and they do the same for you.
Sure, there are jaded strippers, men who are serial cheaters, and insecure, narcissistic women who screw the groom at bachelor parties.............but there are ALSO people in this world who are kind, sincere, and TRULY know how to love another. And, thank God, I happen to be married to one of those men.
I believe that you NEVER really know TRUE love until its limits are tested. It's EASY to love someone who appeases your every whim and NEVER makes mistakes...........unfor tunately, none of us is perfect.
I have gas..................... ...
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I have gas..................... ...
When don't you? ;D
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I believe that you NEVER really know TRUE love until its limits are tested. It's EASY to love someone who appeases your every whim and NEVER makes mistakes...........unfor tunately, none of us is perfect.
In all seriousness I am very glad you have somebody that you love and whom loves you this much.
I feel that Laura and Mike have the same type of love between them.
but this isn't the true love of the great poets and the bad script writers that slays the beast because it is the most powerful force in the Universe. That True Love doesn't exist.
You may look down upon me and my kind and I won't begrudge you that choice but not all us are out to "steal" men away or cause marriages to breakdown. Some of us do it for the money and can't play the 9-5 political game.
i know ur not a "lady of the evening" i was just playing
don't be so serious................. ...geesh!
Mom said we can't play in the same sandbox anymore ;D
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Honour has nothing to do with it.
Stripping is manipulation plain and simple. I have no problem taking her money. I would even take it from her hand directly. I don't make them come to the club. They come to me and I will take their money and leave them with hollow hopes and I get paid very well to do it. if it was so important for their child to have that special B-day gift, nobody forced him to give it to a slutty stripper.
I sleep on my back, I don't work on it.
ya coulda avoided all this bullshit by simply mentioning that you strip.. :-\
nothing wrong with that...you didn't do anything wrong..
carry on..
Now the closest thing to True love on here is Tasha and little Milania, but that isn't the type of love shadow was talking about. There is no True Love in the way Disney tell littles girls that it may come true or the way Byron or Keats describe it in faded pages. Those are more hollow then the little hopes I supply
as for true love goes..the poem i posted on page 1 best describes it best as far as i'm concerned
....another that comes close and one of my Favs by Oscar Wilde and the last stanza is one famous in all of poetry..
Could we dig up this long-buried treasure,
Were it worth the pleasure,
We never could learn love's song,
We are parted too long.
Could the passionate past that is fled
Call back its dead,
Could we live it all over again,
Were it worth the pain!
I remember we used to meet
By an ivied seat,
And you warbled each pretty word
With the air of a bird;
And your voice had a quaver in it,
Just like a linnet,
And shook, as the blackbird's throat
With its last big note;
And your eyes, they were green and grey
Like an April day,
But lit into amethyst
When I stooped and kissed;
And your mouth, it would never smile
For a long, long while,
Then it rippled all over with laughter
Five minutes after.
You were always afraid of a shower,
Just like a flower:
I remember you started and ran
When the rain began.
I remember I never could catch you,
For no one could match you,
You had wonderful, luminous, fleet,
Little wings to your feet.
I remember your hair--did I tie it?
For it always ran riot--
Like a tangled sunbeam of gold:
These things are old.
I remember so well the room,
And the lilac bloom
That beat at the dripping pane
In the warm June rain;
And the colour of your gown,
It was amber-brown,
And two yellow satin bows
From your shoulders rose.
And the handkerchief of French lace
Which you held to your face--
Had a small tear left a stain?
Or was it the rain?
On your hand as it waved adieu
There were veins of blue;
In your voice as it said good-bye
Was a petulant cry,
'You have only wasted your life.'
(Ah, that was the knife!)
When I rushed through the garden gate
It was all too late.
Could we live it over again,
Were it worth the pain,
Could the passionate past that is fled
Call back its dead!
Well, if my heart must break,
Dear love, for your sake,
It will break in music, I know,
Poets' hearts break so.
But strange that I was not told
That the brain can hold
In a tiny ivory cell
God's heaven and hell.
...but remember " Love is a dog from hell" charles bukowski.
cheers..
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ya coulda avoided all this bullshit by simply mentioning that you strip.. :-\
nothing wrong with that...you didn't do anything wrong..
carry on..
Honestly I thought everybody knew. I have never tried to hide that.
I guess I am just not internet famous yet ;D
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Honestly I thought everybody knew. I have never tried to hide that.
I guess I am just not internet famous yet ;D
i'm usually in my own little world...sorry.. :-\
hope you have read wuthering heights..i've read it multiples times..but hardly beyond where catherine dies..
"If all else perished, and he remained, I should still continue to be" Catherine Earnshaw
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Honestly I thought everybody knew. I have never tried to hide that.
I guess I am just not internet famous yet ;D
Work a little harder than you'll get there.
I reccomend you institute a seek and destroy mission on the G&O consistently.
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Work a little harder than you'll get there.
I reccomend you institute a seek and destroy mission on the G&O consistently.
lol being famous on getbig isn't exactly a good thing always..
lol hello..i'm the getbig drunk !
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lol being famous on getbig isn't exactly a good thing always..
lol hello..i'm the getbig drunk !
Haha! You do have that rep. I remember when you came in the getbig chat room a couple of times totally wasted ;D
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Haha! You do have that rep. I remember when you came in the getbig chat room a couple of times totally wasted ;D
o good god..
i dont remember but i'm pretty sure an apology is in order cause back when the chat ws alive i ws also a cokehead..what did i say??
no wait..i dont wanna know..
my apologies :-[
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Now the closest thing to True love on here is Tasha and little Milania.
My one TRUE LOVE!!! She could never break my heart!
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My one TRUE LOVE!!! She could never break my heart!
she's got grey eyes..thats gorgeous! 8) i love little girls as much as i HATE most little boys..
i want a little daughter one day..one that will have little pigtails and pull me here and there calling me daddy and make me buy her stuff..
mum will hafta be the bad guy cause i've already made up my mind to spoil her rotten
if i have boys i'll sell em for steroids..i'm serious.. :-\
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she's got grey eyes..thats gorgeous! 8) i love little girls as much as i HATE most little boys..
i want a little daughter one day..one that will have little pigtails and pull me here and there calling me daddy and make me buy her stuff..
mum will hafta be the bad guy cause i've already made up my mind to spoil her rotten
if i have boys i'll sell em for steroids..i'm serious.. :-\
You are a bit warped it seems.
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You are a bit warped it seems.
"Abashed the Devil stood and felt how awful Goodness is." - T-Bird
i never said i wasn't...
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"Abashed the Devil stood and felt how awful Goodness is." - T-Bird
i never said i wasn't...
Quoting characters from "The Crow" definitely proves the point.
:D
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Quoting characters from "The Crow" definitely proves the point.
:D
you know your classics.. :)
"It can't rain all the time" - Eric Draven
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you know your classics.. :)
"It can't rain all the time" - Eric Draven
I actually love the movie... and the poem T-Bird quoted was originally written by Draven's girl in the movie.
In the book, he had to shoot heroine to keep dying so he can be reborn.
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I actually love the movie... and the poem T-Bird quoted was originally written by Draven's girl in the movie.
In the book, he had to shoot heroine to keep dying so he can be reborn.
i have yet to read the book...
take my advice my friend ..and read stephen kings "the dark tower" BUT..find yourself one of the original first books before the old guy changed it post accident...you'll love it..
if you cant pm me and i'll mail you a photocopy.. DO NOT READ THE CHANGED VERSION..DO NOT..the changed version ws changed by a post accident "afraid of death" stephen king..
http://www.stephenking.com/DarkTower/
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We all must aspire to be something... You looking to broaden your horizon's?
In real life there are no glass slippers, but there are wicked witches.
Call me a hooker again (when you damn well know the truth) you may find out.
{ROTFLMAO}
OS, I know that comment was directed towards Mike, ...but it sent a scary chill up my spin just reading it. ;D
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My one TRUE LOVE!!! She could never break my heart!
Oooooh... I'm just melting. Look at those cheeks, and those widdle lips, and tiny little fingers. awwww. :)
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My one TRUE LOVE!!! She could never break my heart!
I don't think I have ever seen anything cuter!
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My one TRUE LOVE!!! She could never break my heart!
She is the cutest...and the baby....just beautiful. :)
My darling "T", I have to chime in here on that quote above. I am sorry, but your darling Milania will break your heart. There are many small scars like when they cry as you leave them on their first day of school, etc., but the real heart breaker is when they leave home and venture on their own. It is heart wrenching, I must confess. So although she will never "purposely" attempt to break your heart, you will at one time or another have to deal with a broken heart. I will say this though...it is the best feeling when you have seen what a great job you have done raising them and preparing them for the world. It mends that break in such a warming way.
xoxo
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Could not agree with you more Laura, for all the reasons you posted. It was the first thing I thought when I read the post.
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In real life there are no glass slippers, but there are wicked witches.
Wiccan?
if so...oo noo...Wiccan girls are usually gorgeous...well read...and totally undatable..some jerk in the past (high skool rockstar BF for the one i dated..no make that non-dated) broke it...and all the kings men..so on and so forth..
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She is the cutest...and the baby....just beautiful. :)
My darling "T", I have to chime in here on that quote above. I am sorry, but your darling Milania will break your heart. There are many small scars like when they cry as you leave them on their first day of school, etc., but the real heart breaker is when they leave home and venture on their own. It is heart wrenching, I must confess. So although she will never "purposely" attempt to break your heart, you will at one time or another have to deal with a broken heart. I will say this though...it is the best feeling when you have seen what a great job you have done raising them and preparing them for the world. It mends that break in such a warming way.
xoxo
Could not agree with you more Laura, for all the reasons you posted. It was the first thing I thought when I read the post.
Wet blanket alert! ;D
Which is slightly worse then a wet diaper ;D
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Wiccan?
if so...oo noo...Wiccan girls are usually gorgeous...well read...and totally undatable..some jerk in the past (high skool rockstar BF for the one i dated..no make that non-dated) broke it...and all the kings men..so on and so forth..
Nope not Wiccan, to many "dietary" restrictions for me ;D
And I will claim two out of three, I'll let you decide which ones.
It makes for a more interesting vision (Fantasy ;) ) if you get to choose. 8)
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Wet blanket alert! ;D
Which is slightly worse then a wet diaper ;D
Haha! More like "identify the mothers" on the thread alert ;D
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if you get to choose. 8)
there is no 'get' as in a possibility about me..
i always get what i want...
but since i'm spoiled/extremly laid back, its pretty hard to make me really want something....
i however admire that you r well read.. 8)
such people can usually hold a conversation beyond the weather and other trivialities...which is important...
any hot girl with a vagina can get wet....that isn't exactly an accomplishment...but to sit down to dinner and entertain and be entertained...now we r fleeitng the edges of romance :)
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She is the cutest...and the baby....just beautiful. :)
My darling "T", I have to chime in here on that quote above. I am sorry, but your darling Milania will break your heart. There are many small scars like when they cry as you leave them on their first day of school, etc., but the real heart breaker is when they leave home and venture on their own. It is heart wrenching, I must confess. So although she will never "purposely" attempt to break your heart, you will at one time or another have to deal with a broken heart. I will say this though...it is the best feeling when you have seen what a great job you have done raising them and preparing them for the world. It mends that break in such a warming way.
xoxo
i know...i know... I don't want to think about those days!!! The "purposely" is what I truely meant. Love for a man may come and go....but love for your baby is forever. This little girl is my heart in baby form!!
(tasha btw)
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Men love their women.
Women love their kids.
Kids love their pets.
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In all seriousness I am very glad you have somebody that you love and whom loves you this much.
I feel that Laura and Mike have the same type of love between them.
but this isn't the true love of the great poets and the bad script writers that slays the beast because it is the most powerful force in the Universe. That True Love doesn't exist.
You may look down upon me and my kind and I won't begrudge you that choice but not all us are out to "steal" men away or cause marriages to breakdown. Some of us do it for the money and can't play the 9-5 political game.
Mom said we can't play in the same sandbox anymore ;D
You know what is odd, even Princess Diana never found true love. But many women believe in this fairy tale of a man on a white horse ( or a white porsche!) coming to sweep them up and all problems solved.
Ya'll been lied to...
And I'm listening to "It Never Rains( in Southern California)", talk about being in Tru Luv!!!
True love exists, just not in the Hollywood package that has been handed to us.
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So if my True Love is Ferrari's and fat wallets do I win? ;D
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You know what is odd, even Princess Diana never found true love. But many women believe in this fairy tale of a man on a white horse ( or a white porsche!) coming to sweep them up and all problems solved.
Ya'll been lied to...
And I'm listening to "It Never Rains( in Southern California)", talk about being in Tru Luv!!!
True love exists, just not in the Hollywood package that has been handed to us.
Did we not talk about you always being negative? Even though this isn't a thread about abused women in the system, you still bring it up somehow in some way. :-\ Not everyone is miserable. Actually, I doubt any woman who has riden a white horse, would compare that to anything with a man you love. :)
And Tasha's baby is beautiful. :) As I said before... you did good. :)
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Did we not talk about you always being negative? Even though this isn't a thread about abused women in the system, you still bring it up somehow in some way. :-\ Not everyone is miserable. Actually, I doubt any woman who has riden a white horse, would compare that to anything with a man you love. :)
And Tasha's baby is beautiful. :) As I said before... you did good. :)
I was agreeing with O.S. she made a point about the true love of what the poets such talk about. I agreed. Two post before mine.
I even said that true love does exist, just not in the Hollywood package. Man, I can't win can I? Maybe it wa the slight sarcastic overtone? 'Cause I really was listening the "It Never Rains in Southern California".
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True loves exists, I watch it daily... I "felt" Knny's post earlier. My parents have been married 40 years, and are literally devoted to each other, I cannot express how much. I switch between being totally grossed out by them, to thinking it's sweet 8)
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I was agreeing with O.S. she made a point about the true love of what the poets such talk about. I agreed. Two post before mine.
I even said that true love does exist, just not in the Hollywood package. Man, I can't win can I? Maybe it wa the slight sarcastic overtone? 'Cause I really was listening the "It Never Rains in Southern California".
Yeah stop being so negative ;)
If you agree with me you will end up on the bad girl stool in the corner for a time out.
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Yeah stop being so negative ;)
If you agree with me you will end up on the bad girl stool in the corner for a time out.
parker and original sittin in a tree...playing " i'm the spectator of my own tragedies, oh so caught up in the romance of my own sadness"
;D
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parker and original sittin in a tree...playing " i'm the spectator of my own tragedies, oh so caught up in the romance of my own sadness"
;D
That sounds like a song.... Too melancholy for me, sounds like a Babyface or Sade song. Just give me Sunshine by Enchantment.
Yeah stop being so negative ;)
If you agree with me you will end up on the bad girl stool in the corner for a time out.
Maybe it's because see things due to our professions. :-\
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That sounds like a song.... Too melancholy for me, sounds like a Babyface or Sade song. Just give me Sunshine by Enchantment.
lol..wasn't meant to be...i ws going for obtuse..
i failed :-[
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That sounds like a song.... Too melancholy for me, sounds like a Babyface or Sade song. Just give me Sunshine by Enchantment.
Maybe it's because see things due to our professions. :-\
Your a hooker?!?!?
Couldn't resist ;D
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I was agreeing with O.S. she made a point about the true love of what the poets such talk about. I agreed. Two post before mine.
I even said that true love does exist, just not in the Hollywood package. Man, I can't win can I? Maybe it wa the slight sarcastic overtone? 'Cause I really was listening the "It Never Rains in Southern California".
I know but it depresses me that you have a bit of a pessimistic view about women. :'(
Since we span all four corners of the continent, maybe the getbig girls should pool our energies and find you the perfect woman. I'm sure the right one is out there, waiting for you.* :D
* But only if you promise to write the whole romantic story for us in detail here on the girl talk board. ;)
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I know but it depresses me that you have a bit of a pessimistic view about women. :'(
Since we span all four corners of the continent, maybe the getbig girls should pool our energies and find you the perfect woman. I'm sure the right one is out there, waiting for you.* :D
* But only if you promise to write the whole romantic story for us in detail here on the girl talk board. ;)
Thanks Dees, but i am having a change of jobs, sooo, I might not be as pessimistic. I'm actually happy, to get away from the courthose atmosphere. You know at work, i'm the dude who people always ask, "Why are you happy?" And I didn't realize I gave off such a pessimistic vibe (read "Grumpy Carebear" or E-ore).
As A woman told me once, "there is a lid for every pot". As far as romance, the novel might rival anything from Ovid....
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True loves exists, I watch it daily... I "felt" Knny's post earlier. My parents have been married 40 years, and are literally devoted to each other, I cannot express how much. I switch between being totally grossed out by them, to thinking it's sweet 8)
Felt?
I feel like I'm a Jedi now - lol
But seriously....It was something that when I witnessed it....I was floored. Sure....I knew my parents loved one another & were married for over 43 years. It's just at that instance I saw something that was unbelievable. Can't really put the words to describe the emotions, but I knew that real "true love" existed in humanity.
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So if my True Love is Ferrari's and fat wallets do I win? ;D
I have a fat wallet, and will buy you a Ferrari.
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I have a fat wallet, and will buy you a Ferrari.
But then you wouldn't have a fat wallet anymore... :-[
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Felt?
I feel like I'm a Jedi now - lol
But seriously....It was something that when I witnessed it....I was floored. Sure....I knew my parents loved one another & were married for over 43 years. It's just at that instance I saw something that was unbelievable. Can't really put the words to describe the emotions, but I knew that real "true love" existed in humanity.
Knny the Jedi :D
Me too. My dad got very ill and was air-ambulanced away to hospital. My mom refused to leave his side, told the hospital call the police is the only way she will leave. She slept in a plastic chair for days. Never left his side....
I, of course, stayed in a nice comfortable hotel and just visited :D
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Knny the Jedi :D
Me too. My dad got very ill and was air-ambulanced away to hospital. My mom refused to leave his side, told the hospital call the police is the only way she will leave. She slept in a plastic chair for days. Never left his side....
I, of course, stayed in a nice comfortable hotel and just visited :D
It's cruel the way they try an throw us out of the hospital like that.
My grandfather never really recovered after his wife passed on. He was just empty. Tough old German farmer too.
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It's cruel the way they try an throw us out of the hospital like that.
My grandfather never really recovered after his wife passed on. He was just empty. Tough old German farmer too.
When my mother died, my dad deflated completely, but at least, she had a good place to die in a private room with me, my sister, my dad, all the friends, and people on the phone. He survived, although he always was a bit of the Alec Baldwin school ::) So his grief was the worst.
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I had gone to the doctor and i saw an elderly woman giving a blood sample. Well, I saw her and her husband at a the grocery store. I was behind them, walking thru the doors. He grabs a cart and say, "Ya wanna ride...I'll push". She laughed. They were about 85-90 years old. I thought, now that is touching. They still had a sense humor and a playfulness to them after all these years, they seemed like newlyweds.
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That's just so sweet and special to witness elderly couples still in love. My friend Al who was my sponsor in a company I was with a few years ago is like that with his wife. We had a huge Christmas party for all our Toronto distributors, and we had people from all ages, backgrounds etc., attending. Al was there with his wife, and they sat cuddled in each others arms. She with her head on his shoulder with this giddy smile pasted on her face. Half the night they were holding hands under the table. It was so sweet, they looked like little 13 yr. olds in the throes of puppy love.
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But then you wouldn't have a fat wallet anymore... :-[
Oh, you are worth it.......
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I think true love is PASSION, and butterflyes....It's not a decision. Not something you need to talk yourself into. It's that overwhelingming feeling that you want and need to be with that other person, and that you would do anything for them, putting them in front of even your own needs.
YOU DON'T DECIDE TO BE IN LOVE, IT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN'T STOP, YOU ARE DRAWN TO IT.
TRUE LOVE IS SOMETHING YOU CAN'T CONTROL...........AND YOU SHOULD NOT EVEN TRY TO.
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I think true love is PASSION, and butterflyes....It's not a decision. Not something you need to talk yourself into. It's that overwhelingming feeling that you want and need to be with that other person, and that you would do anything for them, putting them in front of even your own needs.
YOU DON'T DECIDE TO BE IN LOVE, IT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN'T STOP, YOU ARE DRAWN TO IT.
TRUE LOVE IS SOMETHING YOU CAN'T CONTROL...........AND YOU SHOULD NOT EVEN TRY TO.
there we go...
for shame girls....this is a fem board and a 300 lb guy hits it it on the nail! 8)
you're right on mate!
sonnet 29
When, in disgrace with fortune and men's eyes,
I all alone beweep my outcast state
And trouble deaf heaven with my bootless cries
And look upon myself and curse my fate,
Wishing me like to one more rich in hope,
Featured like him, like him with friends possess'd,
Desiring this man's art and that man's scope,
With what I most enjoy contented least;
Yet in these thoughts myself almost despising,
Haply I think on thee, and then my state,
Like to the lark at break of day arising
From sullen earth, sings hymns at heaven's gate;
For thy sweet love remember'd such wealth brings
That then I scorn to change my state with kings
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there we go...
for shame girls....this is a fem board and a 300 lb guy hits it it on the nail! 8)
you're right on mate!
sonnet 29
When, in disgrace with fortune and men's eyes,
I all alone beweep my outcast state
And trouble deaf heaven with my bootless cries
And look upon myself and curse my fate,
Wishing me like to one more rich in hope,
Featured like him, like him with friends possess'd,
Desiring this man's art and that man's scope,
With what I most enjoy contented least;
Yet in these thoughts myself almost despising,
Haply I think on thee, and then my state,
Like to the lark at break of day arising
From sullen earth, sings hymns at heaven's gate;
For thy sweet love remember'd such wealth brings
That then I scorn to change my state with kings
Thanks! I have some experiience here. Although some people try to talk themselves into staying with their partner, I believe this to be true. Love is all about this, it's about feeling.
If you "think" and don't "feel"...then it's not true love.....
THIS I KNOW....
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Thanks! I have some experiience here. Although some people try to talk themselves into staying with their partner, I believe this to be true. Love is all about this, it's about feeling.
If you "think" and don't "feel"...then it's not true love.....
THIS I KNOW....
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well deedee i think we got out 3rd romantic here on getbig!
either that or he forgot his arimidex :D ...j/k mate!
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well deedee i think we got out 3rd romantic here on getbig!
either that or he forgot his arimidex :D ...j/k mate!
No, I 'm a hopeless romantic.
I want to be IN LOVE....you know, like that feeling you get. Although falling in love to fast was one of the signs of an abusive person(LOL)!!)....
seriously though, I want love, and romance, and you know all that stuff, not just a roomate to share responsiblities with. I thought I had that....I mean I was REALLY in love......I had that feeling, unfortunately-it seems that it was only one way.
I WILL NEVER SETTLE FOR THAT.(just having a roomate I mean)
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No, I 'm a hopeless romantic.
i sence that mate.. :)i ws just not verbalizing it...
I want to be IN LOVE....you know, like that feeling you get. Although falling in love to fast was one of the signs of an abusive person(LOL)!!)....
when ya wake up thinking about her first thing in the morning and your last thought is her...when you smell some random shampoo and it makes you miss her so bad that it leave a hollow feeling in your gut and HAVE to know she is ok and happy..yeah..i know that feeling :) when you'd rather go in rags...and see to her every wish just to you'd be blessed with her smile...yeah.. :)
seriously though, I want love, and romance, and you know all that stuff, not just a roomate to share responsiblities with. I thought I had that....I mean I was REALLY in love......I had that feeling, unfortunately-it seems that it was only one way.
bide your time mate..dont settle..its gotta be harder for you..you're a big dood..soo unfortunately you must attract a lot of the wrong type of girls..i 'm gonna get blasted for saying that...but all the big guys i know are with really hot women they dont love :-\...if ya want it bad enough man..it'll happen! :)
I WILL NEVER SETTLE FOR THAT.(just having a roomate I mean)
Bravo! 8)
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i sence that mate.. :)i ws just not verbalizing it...
when ya wake up thinking about her first thing in the morning and your last thought is her...when you smell some random shampoo and it makes you miss her so bad that it leave a hollow feeling in your gut and HAVE to know she is ok and happy..yeah..i know that feeling :) when you'd rather go in rags...and see to her every wish just to you'd be blessed with her smile...yeah.. :)
bide your time mate..dont settle..its gotta be harder for you..you're a big dood..soo unfortunately you must attract a lot of the wrong type of girls..i 'm gonna get blasted for saying that...but all the big guys i know are with really hot women they dont love :-\...if ya want it bad enough man..it'll happen! :)
Bravo! 8)
Thanks, I used to say to a certian someone, that she was the first thing I thought of when I woke up, and the last thing I thought about before I went to sleep..........
For that I was called manipulative....?????
I thought I had it......
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For that I was called manipulative....?????
a woman should accept you for who you r NOT for who she wants you to be....she should want you to be a better man for the person she is...not manipulate you into something pallable.. ..
DONE...
anything less..is not acceptable to me..nor is it love mayne..
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She is the cutest...and the baby....just beautiful. :)
My darling "T", I have to chime in here on that quote above. I am sorry, but your darling Milania will break your heart. There are many small scars like when they cry as you leave them on their first day of school, etc., but the real heart breaker is when they leave home and venture on their own. It is heart wrenching, I must confess. So although she will never "purposely" attempt to break your heart, you will at one time or another have to deal with a broken heart. I will say this though...it is the best feeling when you have seen what a great job you have done raising them and preparing them for the world. It mends that break in such a warming way.
xoxo
OMG I LOVE this post. As I read Tasha's quote I thought "Oh my, she will break your heart more than any man". I am a mother to a young woman who just turned 18 one week ago today and it breaks my heart to know she will be leaving me for college in a few months. Never have I cried like I have just thinking about this, a hurt you can't explain. Happiness and excitement followed by fear.
Thanks for the post, you made me feel "normal".
And on another note, I believe in true love. I have been with my husband since the 7th grade and we are still happily married, with a beautiful young woman who we raised together and yes, lots of passion. True love is alive and it is beautiful! :)
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OMG I LOVE this post. As I read Tasha's quote I thought "Oh my, she will break your heart more than any man". I am a mother to a young woman who just turned 18 one week ago today and it breaks my heart to know she will be leaving me for college in a few months. Never have I cried like I have just thinking about this, a hurt you can't explain. Happiness and excitement followed by fear.
Thanks for the post, you made me feel "normal".
And on another note, I believe in true love. I have been with my husband since the 7th grade and we are still happily married, with a beautiful young woman who we raised together and yes, lots of passion. True love is alive and it is beautiful! :)
OMG, You guys have been together since the 7th grade? ??? Now that is just fabulous!!! That's growing together! :)