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insecurity.
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and loving food
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brutal small guy that can't get over 150lbs even with juice thread ;D :D ;)
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skinny tits always spend their days pondering the depths of the largeness of others.
The big guys are too busy eating, training, and f**king better p***y.
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to each their own. obvously when one rips on the other it's because of insecurity.
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I have a friend who used to play for the Lions, a lineman, well over 300 pounds. Anyway, he was staying at a buddies house when I was there and he left his underwear on the bathroom floor and I guess they had shitstains all over them. When everyone was ripping on him he said something like "You guys don't know what its like to be big, it's hard to wipe good" :-X Is that true about big dudes? Do you guys shit your pants?
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insecurity.
wrong.. I'm not aiming to get big.. I just love lifting weights
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I have a friend who used to play for the Lions, a lineman, well over 300 pounds. Anyway, he was staying at a buddies house when I was there and he left his underwear on the bathroom floor and I guess they had shitstains all over them. When everyone was ripping on him he said something like "You guys don't know what its like to be big, it's hard to wipe good" :-X Is that true about big dudes? Do you guys shit your pants?
sure you did ::)
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and loving food
who doesn't?
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nice calves
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well bast, you are right; for the overwhelming majority of these guys...their motivation to be HUGE is based out of insecurities.
For me, my motivation to work out is not getting "big", and its not based out of insecurity; at least, not anymore...i work out for one reason= PUSSY!
;D
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P-P-P-P-P-P-P-PPPPPPUSSYY!!!!!!! :D
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guys who aren't muscular get pussy. Being fit is more than enough, no reason to be huge.
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guys who aren't muscular get pussy. Being fit is more than enough, no reason to be huge.
an excellent mindset for a guy born without calves ;)
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well bast, you are right; for the overwhelming majority of these guys...their motivation to be HUGE is based out of insecurities.
For me, my motivation to work out is not getting "big", and its not based out of insecurity; at least, not anymore...i work out for one reason= PUSSY!
;D
Do you remember when you used to be highly delusional?
I am glad I was able to snap you out of it.
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insecurity.
yes there is no reason to be concerned with one's size relative to other people. Once you get past that the optimum size for aesthetics (yes I think that this exists outside of comparison), performance and physical self-control is actually pretty small.
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insecurity.
I have to agree with you Bast, it is a good reason
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I have to agree with you Bast, it is a good reason
well it means you feel you lack in other areas of yourself.
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well it means you feel you lack in other areas of yourself.
actually not right now that much but hey, I learn more and more about myself everyday.
if I am being honnest with myself, it's clear that I started bodybuilding because of insecurity. I was skinny and it was not a good sensation
now my size doesn't bother me at all, a couple of years back if someone told me " hey did you lose weight" I would get depressed
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all human beings have insecurities
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insecurity.
........about how you look or the fact your calves are the size of your wrists?
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all human beings have insecurities
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correct, but to be healthy you shouldn't feel the need to take drugs to enhance your looks.
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correct, but to be healthy you shouldn't feel the need to take drugs to enhance your looks.
and guys shouldn't feel the need to drink alcohol so they would have the courage to talk to chicks or smoke weed to fit in wiht the boys :)
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and guys shouldn't feel the need to drink alcohol so they would have the courage to talk to chicks or smoke weed to fit in wiht the boys :)
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Yea I agree. What society has become is a joke. Having to go to dirty bars to meet women.
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I had always worked out then as i got older and partied more i lost my athletic build and got fat :(
I totally didnt like the way it felt to have a gut and be out of shape running up the stairs. I used to play center in field lacrosse and could run the whole game. the more i started to work out better it felt and the more enrgy i ended up having.Also i work in a labour job and wieghts make it so much easier.
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I have a friend who used to play for the Lions, a lineman, well over 300 pounds. Anyway, he was staying at a buddies house when I was there and he left his underwear on the bathroom floor and I guess they had shitstains all over them. When everyone was ripping on him he said something like "You guys don't know what its like to be big, it's hard to wipe good" :-X Is that true about big dudes? Do you guys shit your pants?
I have always been very limber and. Even now that I weigh as much as I do I can still wipe my ass fine just allot harder now. But I can defintiely see fat people who have been fat most of their lives that do not have some athletic background or at least stretch might have a problem wiping their ass. I figured I must do a pretty good job since my ex loved licking my ass while sucking me. Either that or she liked licking shit. Never had stains though.
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I had always worked out then as i got older and partied more i lost my athletic build and got fat :(
I totally didnt like the way it felt to have a gut and be out of shape running up the stairs. I used to play center in field lacrosse and could run the whole game. the more i started to work out better it felt and the more enrgy i ended up having.Also i work in a labour job and wieghts make it so much easier.
Being muscular and in shape is different than being a drug using bodybuilder.
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1 The main reason i like being big is that i do not get picked on by other Males or they know what will happen.I was bullied mercelesy by a big kid at school.
2 I had muscle dismorphia growing up and that led to steroids and my near death, I am clean for life now.
3 Girls like Athletic physiques so if you use a crappy pick up line they will give you a second chance
4 I am insecure about returning to a buck fifty. ;D
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How is being big make you insecure? No different then a guy who is affraid to eat a cookie because it will ruin is six pack. What ever happened to enjoying working out and challenging yourself? A by productive of years of working out and pushing yourself is to get bigger. If your not getting bigger (relative to your start point) your doing something wrong and wasting time. Even if your goal is to get cut by losing fat you get bigger and sharper.Being a insecure bitch is universal and not related to your body size.
Now short guys have no reason to live though bunch of insecure sissys... ;D
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I like getting big cause im hooked on the whole needle thing....i just love sticking my arms with needles ...big fan of it.
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Good Post.
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well bast, you are right; for the overwhelming majority of these guys...their motivation to be HUGE is based out of insecurities.
For me, my motivation to work out is not getting "big", and its not based out of insecurity; at least, not anymore...i work out for one reason= PUSSY!
;D
Is that really a better reason, for pussy? Is that the same as women getting breast implants for cock? Maybe our insecurities would be better worked out through money, real estate, job, fame power. I mean what does one really get for pussy or cock?
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i dont give a shit what you think of my motivation for working out. personally; i dont really give a shit what you think about ANYTHING. lol.
fuck you!
and adonis...you had nothing to do with my maturing.
a build up of factors, like taking dieting for 6 straight months, getting a case of siystic acne, going on accutane(which causes depression), and having a coke addiction....and then the fast breakdown of all of these factors= going off accutane, getting surgery for the systs, and spending two months in rehab.....all of these things at the age at which a human being normally matures anyways. sort of FORCED me into a socially/emotionally mature state.
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i dont give a shit what you think of my motivation for working out. personally; i dont really give a shit what you think about ANYTHING. lol.
fuck you!
and adonis...you had nothing to do with my maturing.
a build up of factors, like taking dieting for 6 straight months, getting a case of siystic acne, going on accutane(which causes depression), and having a coke addiction....and then the fast breakdown of all of these factors= going off accutane, getting surgery for the systs, and spending two months in rehab.....all of these things at the age at which a human being normally matures anyways. sort of FORCED me into a socially/emotionally mature state.
Ease up Lindsay Lohan
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Extreme self-esteem convention?
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What about the guys who are just naturally are a bigger guy? I was a heavy set kid growing up, not a total fatass but a pretty athletic heavyset kid. I was hooked the first time I lifted weights and figured I knew I'd never be small so here is a way to just go with what nature had already given me and get really big. It became my "thing". It seperated me from my other buddies when we were kids. Lifting for me was NEVER about getting girls, it just became my sport. And I enjoyed it just as I do today.
By the way, i'm 328lbs and yes its a bitch to tie my shoes! Hope that helps.
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insecurity.
maybe for you it is, for some of us it's just fun to work out and a by product of that is you get bigger muscles. I don't remember the last time where I said "man, I'm really unconfortable here, good thing I've got big arms"...lol.
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insecurity.
What's your weight now Bast?
-Hedge
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i dont give a shit what you think of my motivation for working out. personally; i dont really give a shit what you think about ANYTHING. lol.
fuck you!
and adonis...you had nothing to do with my maturing.
a build up of factors, like taking dieting for 6 straight months, getting a case of siystic acne, going on accutane(which causes depression), and having a coke addiction....and then the fast breakdown of all of these factors= going off accutane, getting surgery for the systs, and spending two months in rehab.....all of these things at the age at which a human being normally matures anyways. sort of FORCED me into a socially/emotionally mature state.
Quoted for the 2024 campaign.
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Hey Bast, do you feel insecure about your nose?
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correct, but to be healthy you shouldn't feel the need to take drugs to enhance your looks.
ooooo health and vanity are completely different topics my man :P
but of course im one of the most insecure people i know :P and i can point them out!
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insecurity.
To get chicks.
Call it "insecure" if you want. I would rather be "insecure" and get lots of girls, than be "secure" and lonely and never get any.
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To get chicks.
Call it "insecure" if you want. I would rather be "insecure" and get lots of girls, than be "secure" and lonely and never get any.
yeah some girls go crazy for fat guys......problem is they are all fat
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Quoted for the 2024 campaign.
;D george bush did cocaine. barack obama admittedly inhaled the ganja, and did coke.
i think im okay with this confession.
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yeah some girls go crazy for fat guys......problem is they are all fat
I wouldn't know. :)
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insecurity.
then i'm the most secure guy on this board ;D
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Call me insecure. Life is easier for me and superficial things like being in some kind of shape play a huge role.
Maybe it's just me, but I would rather be an "insecure" fit person than a "secure" person weighing 500 pounds.
Try living the life of a fat or otherwise out of shape person and then tell me how much you enjoy being "secure". I look back and what's so sad is how people used to treat me compared to now had everything to do with how I looked and nothing to do with me as a person. Whether you want to admit it or not, we ALL judge people based on appearances, and better built men get by easier in life - just as better looking women will get picked over out of shape women, even if the better looking women are the most insecure, rude, and caustic women ever with 0 confidence and personality. It's just the way of the world. You WILL get ahead in life, whether you admit it or not, if you are in good shape. I consider being in shape as part of being a diplomat, and it will people far in life.
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I have a friend who used to play for the Lions, a lineman, well over 300 pounds. Anyway, he was staying at a buddies house when I was there and he left his underwear on the bathroom floor and I guess they had shitstains all over them. When everyone was ripping on him he said something like "You guys don't know what its like to be big, it's hard to wipe good" :-X Is that true about big dudes? Do you guys shit your pants?
hahahahahahaha.
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I don't think people get big because of insecurity. I do think though people who have been small growing up and get picked on allot start lifting weights to get bigger and stronger so they can retaliate when getting picked on (like in Sean Rays case). In my case I have always been strong since 3rd grade when I started gymnastics and ballet. My shoulders have always been wide. Even though as a freshman in high school I was only 130 I was still the strongest in my class and pretty good size. I was strong functionally from the gymnastics. It was the summer between my freshman and sophomore year I started weight training when the varsity baseball coach said I needed to put on weight and size to play varsity ball the next year. And from then on I was hooked. I graduated at 5' 11" and 210 lbs. with a 30" waist. Believe me I would much rather be big and stand out in a crowd than be small or normal sized.
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I don't think people get big because of insecurity. I do think though people who have been small growing up and get picked on allot start lifting weights to get bigger and stronger so they can retaliate when getting picked on (like in Sean Rays case). In my case I have always been strong since 3rd grade when I started gymnastics and ballet. My shoulders have always been wide. Even though as a freshman in high school I was only 130 I was still the strongest in my class and pretty good size. I was strong functionally from the gymnastics. It was the summer between my freshman and sophomore year I started weight training when the varsity baseball coach said I needed to put on weight and size to play varsity ball the next year. And from then on I was hooked. I graduated at 5' 11" and 210 lbs. with a 30" waist. Believe me I would much rather be big and stand out in a crowd than be small or normal sized.
But you are a genetic Freak Benching 500 pounds on a stack of liver tablets.
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BULLSHIT, ALTHOUGH INSECURITY MIGHT BE TRUE FOR U , IT NOT TRUE FOR EVERYONE. tAKE A CAR, ADD A SPOILER, A NICE BODYKIT SOME SHINY WHEELS, IT LOOKS GOOD. u LIKE THE LOOK OF IT. nOW YOUR BODY IS THE CAR UR STUCK WITH FOR LIFE. aDD A NICE BIT OF MUSCLE, AND U LIKE IT . NOT BECAUSE UR INSECURE, BECAUSE U LIKE IT. dO U EAT MCDONALDS COS UR INSECURE? NO COS U LIKE IT.
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But you are a genetic Freak Benching 500 pounds on a stack of liver tablets.
yep about 70 or so a day plus a lot of tuna and at a bodyweight of 247. Now I weigh twice the amount and lift half that much. Well on each.
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BULLSHIT, ALTHOUGH INSECURITY MIGHT BE TRUE FOR U , IT NOT TRUE FOR EVERYONE. tAKE A CAR, ADD A SPOILER, A NICE BODYKIT SOME SHINY WHEELS, IT LOOKS GOOD. u LIKE THE LOOK OF IT. nOW YOUR BODY IS THE CAR UR STUCK WITH FOR LIFE. aDD A NICE BIT OF MUSCLE, AND U LIKE IT . NOT BECAUSE UR INSECURE, BECAUSE U LIKE IT. dO U EAT MCDONALDS COS UR INSECURE? NO COS U LIKE IT.
Good point.
So anyone who does anything they think is cool is doing it because they are insecure? uh no.
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yep about 70 or so a day plus a lot of tuna and at a bodyweight of 247. Now I weigh twice the amount and lift half that much. Well on each.
Do you plan getting back into shape or motivation a problem sometimes i take a few days off training cause i cannot get out of bed and get motivated ,Itrain early in the morning less people.Best of luck.
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insecurity.
There is some truth in this. I started lifting because I was fat and didn't want to be the fat kid at school anymore.
A funny thing happens though where after a point your priorities change as you leave school and the gym becomes the new environment you care about. Somewhere along the line many people, including myself to a certain extent, start to prioritise being powerful over simply 'being in shape' or whatever. I mean who cares if you have the 'six pack' you thought you always wanted if you're the skinniest weekest guy in the gym and you can't hang with the group of big guys who can bench/squat a shitload?!?
It seems at school lots of kids start off with a degree of natural muscle tone because they haven't discovered beer properly yet and they play sports regularly, but most guys lose that best ever high school shape they used to have. Once you start getting girls anyway and worry less about puppy fat and develop other interests being a kid with a 'six pack' seems less important than being a big strong man who actually looks muscular in cloths, or could stand up for himself in a situation, or whatever it is.
Sorry for the stream of consciousness, but to sum up, being big is cool if you're being honest with yourself about why you want it. For me it started off as insecurity but only up to a point. Once I was in good shape I started reading Flex and thought 'these guys are fucking huge, powerful and impressive looking'. It becomes its own thing away from insecurity, like a hobby or (arguably) sport of some kind. These days the skinny six pack kids from when I was 15 are small little guys, not a bad thing necessarily, but then neither is being big.
I know, 'epic insecurity post' or whatever, lol
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I first started working out and trying to get big out of insecurity and feeling uncomfortable talking to girls. I thought that I could make up for what I lacked in other areas of my life by being big.
I thought that and was 100% right about it. I was never a dumb person and knew full well how the world worked and what I would need to do to get what I wanted out of life and I did it and got the results I wanted and have no regrets. I don't think there was ever a time in my life that I could be properly classified as insecure though (from a psychological perspective). I was always grounded and had always accepted myself. I just knew I would get more out of life not being 130 pounds. In university I studied psychology and had a huge interest in the subject of interpersonal attraction. Whether women are consciously aware of it or not, on the average they do prefer fit males - I don't say pro bodybuilder size, but athletic and healthy looking.