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Title: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Big N on October 13, 2007, 01:30:57 PM

Alright, i've met this nice educated pretty tall girl with good genetics at a wedding. We exchanged #'s, after the wedding we spoke for about a week. Then we went out on a date, had a good time. The day after the date i text her and she text me back, everything was cool. Same day of the text message, later that night i called her left a voice message just a regular one. She didn't call back?
A week went by, and still no calls from her. So then i'm thinking hmm alright maybe she's one of those chicks that'd like to get chased a bit no? So i called her up again after 1 week, left a message and a day after she still didn't call back?


What's the deal with this girl?

Thanks
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: MB_722 on October 13, 2007, 01:36:31 PM
forget about her
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Post by: Big N on October 13, 2007, 01:52:56 PM
Same thing some of my friends told, let her come to me and all this. Or dont call, text message her a last time to figure out what the deal is with something like "I'm not looking for anything serious right now, and i dont want you get the wrong idea but you got me worried since i haven't heard anything from you since we hung out". Now i could do that part, but then that'd be like 3 attempts for going after her too much, i probably should've just text her that message the 2nd time instead of calling.

But the question is, what do you think is the deal here? Could it be that she's 4yrs older than me? But then again she knew my age before she even gave me her #.

On 2nd thought what really caught me off guard is, this has never happened to me? Strange
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Post by: JediKnight on October 13, 2007, 02:17:11 PM
Big Nav, She is over you. You shouldn't call her anymore, your probably scaring her. Your breath must of stunk and she is over you. She didn't even put out, so it's unlikely that she wanted even a one night stand. You turned her off somehow on your date. Or better yet, she was probably drunk at thde wedding and you looked like a decent guy when she was 6 bottles of cheap champange under, so when she was sober, you looked like your picture, a big piece of hanging shit.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Big N on October 13, 2007, 02:21:20 PM
Big Nav, She is over you. You shouldn't call her anymore, your probably scaring her. Your breath must of stunk and she is over you. She didn't even put out, so it's unlikely that she wanted even a one night stand. You turned her off somehow on your date.

True, might be a point there. But i treated her like a nice humble guy i am, made her laugh and what not. So yeah she probably played it off for having a good time until the next day after the date and still responded to my text message but not my call? Hmm

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Post by: Butterbean on October 13, 2007, 02:27:22 PM
forget about her
agree.

Big Nav, there are billions of other girls in this world, don't worry about this one. 
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Rearden Metal on October 13, 2007, 02:57:17 PM
It's unfortunate but it is what it is. She either met someone else, or something bothered her, or maybe she just got busy or had an emergency.

Any way you cut it, just letting it go is healthiest. Maybe she'll come around, maybe not. At this point, you don't have much invested so don't be a stalker...just move on.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on October 13, 2007, 04:22:11 PM
if she doesnt contact you for a week despite you leaving messages she isnt interested period
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Post by: danielson on October 13, 2007, 04:24:55 PM
No one is too busy that they can't make time for a simple phone call. Forget about her and find someone else. It happens to the best of us.
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Post by: benchmstr on October 13, 2007, 05:20:51 PM
Same thing some of my friends told, let her come to me and all this. Or dont call, text message her a last time to figure out what the deal is with something like "I'm not looking for anything serious right now, and i dont want you get the wrong idea but you got me worried since i haven't heard anything from you since we hung out". Now i could do that part, but then that'd be like 3 attempts for going after her too much, i probably should've just text her that message the 2nd time instead of calling.

But the question is, what do you think is the deal here? Could it be that she's 4yrs older than me? But then again she knew my age before she even gave me her #.

On 2nd thought what really caught me off guard is, this has never happened to me? Strange
maybe she couldnt handle your monster 3 inch dick :o

bench
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: WOOO on October 13, 2007, 08:46:30 PM
either forget her or stalk her
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Post by: gtbro1 on October 13, 2007, 08:56:58 PM
She is just playing hard to get.Keep calling her everyday......eventually she will answer to tell you to stop calling and then you can ask her what is up. ;D
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Post by: chaos on October 13, 2007, 09:28:32 PM
either forget her or stalk her
;D
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Post by: youandme on October 13, 2007, 10:18:42 PM
she's playing hard to get....go for it
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Post by: freespirit on October 14, 2007, 02:38:24 AM
she's playing hard to get....go for it

You mean she's delusional?
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: TopTraining on October 14, 2007, 07:03:11 AM
Alright, i've met this nice educated pretty tall girl with good genetics at a wedding. We exchanged #'s, after the wedding we spoke for about a week. Then we went out on a date, had a good time. The day after the date i text her and she text me back, everything was cool. Same day of the text message, later that night i called her left a voice message just a regular one. She didn't call back?
A week went by, and still no calls from her. So then i'm thinking hmm alright maybe she's one of those chicks that'd like to get chased a bit no? So i called her up again after 1 week, left a message and a day after she still didn't call back?


What's the deal with this girl?

Thanks

She thinks you're a creep
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: WOOO on October 14, 2007, 09:52:38 AM
She thinks you're a creep


bang her best friend and send her pictures of it
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: YoungBlood on October 14, 2007, 01:17:44 PM
A) She saw the pictures of you oiled up and posing all over the net...or

B) Something you said, or how you reacted to something she talked about made her view you as a turn off rather than someone that she'd like to date.

Plenty of other fish in the sea dude....
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: blinky on October 14, 2007, 01:29:39 PM
either forget her or stalk her

She is just playing hard to get.Keep calling her everyday......eventually she will answer to tell you to stop calling and then you can ask her what is up. ;D

these 2 had me rolling on the floor laughing  ;D
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: benz on October 14, 2007, 01:37:49 PM
Big Nav, She is over you. You shouldn't call her anymore, your probably scaring her. Your breath must of stunk and she is over you. She didn't even put out, so it's unlikely that she wanted even a one night stand. You turned her off somehow on your date. Or better yet, she was probably drunk at thde wedding and you looked like a decent guy when she was 6 bottles of cheap champange under, so when she was sober, you looked like your picture, a big piece of hanging shit.

LOL
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Al-Gebra on October 14, 2007, 04:30:48 PM

hire some dudes to "menace" her, and then jump out from behind a parked car and rescue her.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: haider on October 14, 2007, 04:43:43 PM
hire some dudes to "menace" her, and then jump out from behind a parked car and rescue her.
LOL!
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Post by: Camel Jockey on October 14, 2007, 05:18:36 PM
Move on.

They want you to play chase and stuff and it's not worth it bro.. Or they might not even like you.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: youandme on October 14, 2007, 09:28:46 PM
You mean she's delusional?

well see if it does not work then he asks her for the number of her friend (which he makes out to be the main reason he wanted to get with her in the first place) we see if the bitch is crazy or not and get revenge if things don't sway in our favor


It will ruin thier friendship, the girls figh tfor dominance of beauty, and she will look at her friend as a threat to her selection (Herbert spencer and darwins sexual selection)

BOOOOOOOM
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Dr. D on October 15, 2007, 10:23:00 AM
Read It, Learn It, Live it!!!   ;D
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Big N on October 17, 2007, 11:31:52 AM
lol awesome replies! I'm surprised nobody said "set up a tent outside her apartment"  :-\


Well i've spoken to a very close source of mine, and oh boy was it monster surprising. I was going to give you guys a brief intro. about why me and her, still to this date haven't talked. But then again i gotta get ready for work unlike some of you bastards.

In the meanwhile, what do you think was the response that i've found out about this chick? (this is going to be interesting)
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: dkf360 on October 17, 2007, 01:30:48 PM
...That she stopped responding cause you displayed homosexual tendencies during the date?
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: JediKnight on October 17, 2007, 01:47:25 PM
Have a good day at GNC.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Andre Nickatina on October 17, 2007, 07:44:49 PM
Dude if she didn't call back fter a week shes not into you. period. No offense but cmon!

Just leave it alone.

You're castin your bait in the wrong waters. Time to reel it in, put on more bait and cast somwehere else  ;D

You'll catch something sooner or later. Hopefully not a whale.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Camel Jockey on October 17, 2007, 08:14:36 PM
Seek new pussy or swallow your pride and call her ass up.
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Post by: beatmaster on October 17, 2007, 08:22:06 PM

forget the girl man.......... she didn't call back, one thing for sure her attention is somewhere else or someone else!
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: chaos on October 17, 2007, 08:30:38 PM
Take a picture of a different girl blowing you, then send her a text message with that pic attached sayin " Wish you were here"


She'll call..........
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Geo on October 17, 2007, 08:39:12 PM
Alright, i've met this nice educated pretty tall girl with good genetics at a wedding. We exchanged #'s, after the wedding we spoke for about a week. Then we went out on a date, had a good time. The day after the date i text her and she text me back, everything was cool. Same day of the text message, later that night i called her left a voice message just a regular one. She didn't call back?
A week went by, and still no calls from her. So then i'm thinking hmm alright maybe she's one of those chicks that'd like to get chased a bit no? So i called her up again after 1 week, left a message and a day after she still didn't call back?


What's the deal with this girl?

Thanks

if you hit it off with her in any way, shape, or form she probably had a boyfriend or another "interest" before you came along and is thinking about that !
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Post by: gtbro1 on October 19, 2007, 10:42:32 AM
hire some dudes to "menace" her, and then jump out from behind a parked car and rescue her.

That's brilliant!! Would be even better if they "agreed" to it,took his money,and then kicked his ass right in front of her when he attemted the rescue!! hahaha That situation could work both ways.
          1) she could think he was a schmoe and laugh her ass of at him bleeding
          2) she could view him a hero for being so brave as to take on two guys(this could result in the very pitiful,but perfectly acceptable, sympathy f$%K)
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: SinCitysmallGUY on October 20, 2007, 10:30:47 PM
lol awesome replies! I'm surprised nobody said "set up a tent outside her apartment"  :-\


Well i've spoken to a very close source of mine, and oh boy was it monster surprising. I was going to give you guys a brief intro. about why me and her, still to this date haven't talked. But then again i gotta get ready for work unlike some of you bastards.

In the meanwhile, what do you think was the response that i've found out about this chick? (this is going to be interesting)

She is white has a kid and doesnt want her kids to thnk that a fat mexicansamoan is thier dad...... just fucking with you.
Title: Re: An usual date i'd like to share with the bros...
Post by: Get Rowdy on October 20, 2007, 10:50:38 PM
Hold her parents as hostages