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Ouch. But if she was smart she would hit him how it hurts. Through a lawyer.
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Brilliant thread. What about the American woman (Bob ich or something), who cut her hubby's dick off? Or the British woman who shredded all of her partners suits and shirts and gave away his entire wine cellar (after he went off with his secretary after 30 years and two grown up children) I'll google them later and we could do a thread about the best way to deal with a cheating spouse...
(I'm fairly certain that's why I never got married !
Gotta go to a party, back in 3 hours
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20 years ago I spray painted DRUG DEALER on the car of a boyfriend who wouldn't leave.
He did after that.
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I once sprayed DRUG DEALER on the car of a boyfriend who wouldn't leave. He did after that.
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Your lucky you didn't get sued for property damages. Thats why I said hit how it hurts....with a lawyer. Not revenge.
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oh come on!
>>>I have a sense of humour but very little money. i couldn't have afforded a solicitor. anyways, he quit and after that he sorted himself out, so i'm pleased.
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oh come on!
>>>I have a sense of humour but very little money. i couldn't have afforded a solicitor. anyways, he quit and after that he sorted himself out, so i'm pleased.
I hear you.
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amazing photo STella. fantastic really.
She shoulda hacked his boat in half.
But what troubles me is the stuff on the front lawn.
Are those childrens toys thrown out of the window into the street? that's scary.
If it's just the toaster and kettle and iron and vacuum cleaner it's okay. Glad someone took a pic.
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Ouch. But if she was smart she would hit him how it hurts. Through a lawyer.
Sometimes, ...just leaving them is enough, and will hurt them more than any lawyer ever could.
I heard about one woman who knew her husband was messing around, so while he slept, using a child like script, she wrote across his buttocks in permanent marker "Please send our Daddy home."
Apparently that did the trick. The first woman who saw that, immediately kicked him out of her bed, and sent him home, ...and he was forced to keep his pants on for many months until all the skin sloughed off. ;D
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Sometimes, ...just leaving them is enough, and will hurt them more than any lawyer ever could.
I heard about one woman who knew her husband was messing around, so while he slept, using a child like script, she wrote across his buttocks in permanent marker "Please send our Daddy home."
Apparently that did the trick. The first woman who saw that, immediately kicked him out of her bed, and sent him home, ...and he was forced to keep his pants on for many months until all the skin sloughed off. ;D
Hahahahaha!!!! Thats priceless! My way of dealing with a cheating spouse was even better....I let him keep all the crap, I traded up! New man, new house, new car, getting spoiled rotten...ahhhhh..revenge was sweet....and fun! Memories...
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As long as men are allowed to do the same back to their cheating spouses I am cool with it ;)
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As long as men are allowed to do the same back to their cheating spouses I am cool with it ;)
Whats good for the goose...we aren't sexist here...by all means turn about is fair play...
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As long as men are allowed to do the same back to their cheating spouses I am cool with it ;)
Right.
If dudes did the same we'd get in BIGTIME trouble with the law. The law is set up in America where a woman can go buck-wild to and aginst their men and it's okay. They can do whatever they want and get away with it. A man? If a man breathes the wrong way he can get hit with an Order of Protection and go to jail.
I know someone 'very close' to me who got into a domesto with his wife. dumb argument turned her going into apsychotic rage dousing him with hot water and punching, clawing, scratching, biting him until he bled. He simply pushed her off of him and restrained her on the floor until she calmed down.
She quietly calls the cops. Cops come and HE gets arrested despite the visbile claw amrks, bite marks, skin redness and swollen eyes from the hot water splashed in his face. Then he spends 3 days in county.
Too many liberal judges and laws got created to set it up to where they think they're above the law and got us men by the balls.
I know so many men who had their lives ruined by a stupid girl with emotional problems.
"Oh, judge...he threatend me". Then he gets hit with an O/P and loses his job abd gets a criminal record. Let ME go in a courthouse telling a judge..."Your honor, I am being stalked by a woman who I was in a relationship with that I ended. I am fearful. I request an O/P"
I'd be escorted out and denied.
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Could that be because you are a 'Blockhead'?
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Classic blame-liberals-for-everything kneejerk response.
Judicial stupidity knows no ideological boundaries.
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The laws were put in place to protect women from abusive partners, but as we all know, men can be abused as well. Men should have the same rights and protection that women enjoy, it's kind of a reverse discrimination. My opinion is not very PC on this subject, but if a woman raises her hand and hits a man, she shouldn't expect him to just take it, but also the man should not beat her up if all she did was "bitch slap" him either. The ideal situation is for everyone to respect each other, and for domestic violence to become a thing of the past.
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The laws were put in place to protect women from abusive partners, but as we all know, men can be abused as well. Men should have the same rights and protection that women enjoy, it's kind of a reverse discrimination. My opinion is not very PC on this subject, but if a woman raises her hand and hits a man, she shouldn't expect him to just take it, but also the man should not beat her up if all she did was "bitch slap" him either. The ideal situation is for everyone to respect each other, and for domestic violence to become a thing of the past.
Bullseye.
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OOOOOOHHHHH ouch....but I wouldn't advertise it...Better to settle it behind closed doors...
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Yep..if a man is cheating he is a scumbag. If a woman is cheating, it's because the man is a scumbag :-\
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Yep..if a man is cheating he is a scumbag. If a woman is cheating, it's because the man is a scumbag :-\
True that!
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Yep..if a man is cheating he is a scumbag. If a woman is cheating, it's because the man is a scumbag :-\
What ???
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What ???
Just refering to the epic double standard that exists among some women. If a man is cheating he is a horrible person...but if a woman is cheating...it must be the man's fault somehow. He must be mistreating her or something.
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Just refering to the epic double standard that exists among some women. If a man is cheating he is a horrible person...but if a woman is cheating...it must be the man's fault somehow. He must be mistreating her or something.
Sorry my bad ;)
Even my own Mother runs by that philosophy that is a man cheats it is his fault and if a woman cheats it is also the guys fault LOL
I have had a few girl friends cheat on me in my time AND THEIR FRIENDS would ask me what I did to cause it :-\ :-\ :-\
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Okay OMG I was joking...Nobody should cheat! I was just saying I agreed because the way it was said was funny...I would not cheat on my man just as I would expect him to not cheat on me...
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It's better to cheat on your woman before she cheats on you..
and then I bet you would be mad as all get out when she does it to you. ;D
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Sorry my bad ;)
Even my own Mother runs by that philosophy that is a man cheats it is his fault and if a woman cheats it is also the guys fault LOL
I have had a few girl friends cheat on me in my time AND THEIR FRIENDS would ask me what I did to cause it :-\ :-\ :-\
That's because most often when men cheat, it's because they can, ...and it's usually for sex.
Most often when women cheat, it's because her emotional needs are not being met by her partner.
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No good excuse, if your needs aren't being met, then just leave the person.
It is ALWAYS the person who cheated fault for cheating no matter what the other person did. Unhappy? Dump em.
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No good excuse, if your needs aren't being met, then just leave the person.
It is ALWAYS the person who cheated fault for cheating no matter what the other person did. Unhappy? Dump em.
I agree, ...I'm simply pointing out why the double standard exists.
Besides, ...if something is broken, ...chances are, ...it was a man who broke it. ;D
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I agree, ...I'm simply pointing out why the double standard exists.
Besides, ...if something is broken, ...chances are, ...it was a man who broke it. ;D
Not really. I have seen married women at my work have flings with others and when I was a lot younger I was one of the others. It goes both ways.
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I agree, ...I'm simply pointing out why the double standard exists.
Besides, ...if something is broken, ...chances are, ...it was a man who broke it. ;D
Hah! Lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of woman screw up their own marriages and relationships.
And it is nice to see you admit that there are double standards ;)
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That's because most often when men cheat, it's because they can, ...and it's usually for sex.
Most often when women cheat, it's because her emotional needs are not being met by her partner.
This one always got to me. I always found it odd that someone (man or woman) would claim that their emotional needs were being met in the sack. If you are feeling neglected emotionally there are better ways to deal with it. If you think your emotional needs will never be met by your partner then you should find someone new. If you are a freak in bed and want a new position, just tell the dude because I bet he will do just about anything to please you. Emotional things are tough with guys but I definitely think we get blamed for a lot more than we deserve.
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I agree, ...I'm simply pointing out why the double standard exists.
Besides, ...if something is broken, ...chances are, ...it was a man who broke it. ;D
I blame the woman the man is cheating with for tempting him when he is weak and vulnerable.
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I blame the woman the man is cheating with for tempting him when he is weak and vulnerable.
VIVA! ;D ;D ;D
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This one always got to me. I always found it odd that someone (man or woman) would claim that their emotional needs were being met in the sack. If you are feeling neglected emotionally there are better ways to deal with it. If you think your emotional needs will never be met by your partner then you should find someone new. If you are a freak in bed and want a new position, just tell the dude because I bet he will do just about anything to please you. Emotional things are tough with guys but I definitely think we get blamed for a lot more than we deserve.
1st A woman's emotional needs aren't met in the sack. But once her emotional needs are met, that can often be one of the places she expresses herself.
As for the 2nd highlight, ...I suppose that'd be exactly what the cheating woman would be doing, no?
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1st A woman's emotional needs aren't met in the sack. But once her emotional needs are met, that can often be one of the places she expresses herself.
As for the 2nd highlight, ...I suppose that'd be exactly what the cheating woman would be doing, no?
True but I guess my point would be if you want something new then it is time to completely end the relationship and move on. If your needs are being met somewhere else, why not just break up or divorce? As far as needs being met emotionally first then sexually second, I guess I really don't know where women go to meet guys quickly except bars and clubs, but it seems that many I have known have looked for the sex. Just my experience.
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1st A woman's emotional needs aren't met in the sack. But once her emotional needs are met, that can often be one of the places she expresses herself.
As for the 2nd highlight, ...I suppose that'd be exactly what the cheating woman would be doing, no?
I can't believe you are basically saying it is ok for a woman to cheat. ..or at least that the man is to blame. ::)
Many scumbag men use that same excuse..that they aren't getting it at home so they will look elsewhere. Still wrong.
You know Jag...some women are just sluts. simple as that. I would agree that there are probably more men who are scumbags than there are women...but sometimes,Jag, it isn't the man's fault.
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It's better to cheat on your woman before she cheats on you..
HAHAHAHA cool!!
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I can't believe you are basically saying it is ok for a woman to cheat. ..or at least that the man is to blame. ::)
Many scumbag men use that same excuse..that they aren't getting it at home so they will look elsewhere. Still wrong.
You know Jag...some women are just sluts. simple as that. I would agree that there are probably more men who are scumbags than there are women...but sometimes,Jag, it isn't the man's fault.
At the risk of sounding like an absent minded jerk, it's tough for me to understand a person feeling the need to cheat in a marriage. More specifically (and I am sure women have their stories) I have heard about women dating/married to men in highly stressful jobs that require a lot of time and energy, the wife/gf feels neglected while the guy is out working and possibly providing for the wife and he ends up getting cheated on after all the hard work. I can't tell you the number of stories I have heard from cops, fire fighters, business men and military men who have had this happen. I understand the stressors for women but at the same time, what does that say about an individual's level of devotion?
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At the risk of sounding like an absent minded jerk, it's tough for me to understand a person feeling the need to cheat in a marriage. More specifically (and I am sure women have their stories) I have heard about women dating/married to men in highly stressful jobs that require a lot of time and energy, the wife/gf feels neglected while the guy is out working and possibly providing for the wife and he ends up getting cheated on after all the hard work. I can't tell you the number of stories I have heard from cops, fire fighters, business men and military men who have had this happen. I understand the stressors for women but at the same time, what does that say about an individual's level of devotion?
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When I had to do national service 23 years ago the majority of the guys had girl friends and a small few wives( 230 men in a company)
But by the time we had finished training nearly EVERY SINGLE GUY had received a dear Johnny.
Every 2 years I had to do 1 to 3 months military service and every single girl I had cheated on me some time during that period.
In the end I got so paranoid I actually dumped the woman I was with before my last army camp.
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When I had to do national service 23 years ago the majority of the guys had girl friends and a small few wives( 230 men in a company)
But by the time we had finished training nearly EVERY SINGLE GUY had received a dear Johnny.
Every 2 years I had to do 1 to 3 months military service and every single girl I had cheated on me some time during that period.
In the end I got so paranoid I actually dumped the woman I was with before my last army camp.
Seriously though, what do these men have to do? If I was in any of these professions, especially military I would just stay completely single and just have fun. It's pretty bad when an individual can't do his/her job without worrying that they are neglecting their partner.
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How can a soldier defend his country when he is worried about defending his woman?
Makes ya wish they still had chastity belts. :P
but with my luck,my wife would cheat with a locksmith. :(
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How can a soldier defend his country when he is worried about defending his woman?
Makes ya wish they still had chastity belts. :P
but with my luck,my wife would cheat with a locksmith. :(
Haha. It's like a STA buddy once told me, "trust em with your life but not your money or your wife". Honestly though, if you think about cheating outside of just the "screwing" realm, then you are talking about establishing another relationship completely. If that is the case then just end the marriage, especially if you are actively looking for someone to fill that role of "partner". Men cheat for dumb reasons too but screwing a new guy because he "listens" isn't really a good reason for me.
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screwing a new guy because he "listens" isn't really a good reason for me.
If they are doing that, then I'm all ears. :D
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I can't believe you are basically saying it is ok for a woman to cheat.
::) That wasn't what I was saying.
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How can a soldier defend his country when he is worried about defending his woman?
Makes ya wish they still had chastity belts. :P
but with my luck,my wife would cheat with a locksmith. :(