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Title: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: Butterbean on December 30, 2007, 11:25:30 AM
One person said the following:

You don't bring up the infraction w/the "offender" again.
You no longer bring up the infraction to others.
You try not to think about the infraction further yourself.

How do you know if you've truly forgiven someone?
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: MB_722 on December 30, 2007, 11:43:05 AM
forgive and you move on. but forgiving someone doesn't absolve their wrongdoing. So just learn from the experience.
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: windsor88 on December 30, 2007, 11:51:08 AM
Better to get even than to forgive.  >:(
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: Butterbean on December 30, 2007, 12:53:07 PM
lol
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: G.R.H. on December 30, 2007, 06:43:23 PM
when that person no longer rents space in your head. but, the real thing is that you NEVER forgive the person's act. you forgive the person themselves. 
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: Geo on December 30, 2007, 07:08:10 PM
One person said the following:

You don't bring up the infraction w/the "offender" again.
You no longer bring up the infraction to others.
You try not to think about the infraction further yourself.

How do you know if you've truly forgiven someone?

when you can talk about the infraction with the person and understand why it was made (IF it was an infraction at all)

misunderstandings account for a huge percentage of resentments
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: Parker on December 30, 2007, 09:13:20 PM
The Question should be, "How do you know you're forgiven?"
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: CalvinH on December 31, 2007, 11:37:44 AM
Punch them,if you feel bad then you have forgivin them.then it's their turn to forgive. :D
Title: Re: How do you know if you've forgiven someone?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on December 31, 2007, 01:00:10 PM
i kinda pissed in this guys cereal and then told him after he already a good bit...


figured we were even then ..so i forgave him...

true story!


o..and i took all his colongue ...in front of him...i ws hoping he'd try n take a swing at me..bad nah..owell......he had some good shit!