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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Ex Coelis on February 02, 2008, 09:56:21 AM
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too often women in secure relationships put on a tonne of fat
for guys who's wives and girlfriends get fat, how many would tell her to lose weight or just say nothing?
can love really keep a man interested when there is zero sexual attraction?
if there are no kids in the picture, I doubt many would stick around - I probably wouldn't
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Say something?
I would kick her the fuck out..
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It depends on how fat she gets.I like a woman with curves, so thickness is my sickness,lol.Sometimes girl are to skinny, and when they put on 15-20 lbs , they start getting nice hips, a bubble butt, and thick legs.Look at Mariah Carey when she puts on 15lbs, it goes in all the right places.There is nothing wrong with a woman with curves, F.A.T. Fabulous and Thick, lol.Big Poppa J Those girls posted is that picture are just plain flat out fat ass slobs.
There is nothing worse then a "tick body, you know a girl who gets really fat in the middle of her body, and she has fat skinny arms, and skinny but fat legs.To the point she looks like a blood sucking "tick' on a dog that has a huge body, and tiny little legs from drinking to much blood, lol
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unfortunately, the trickery of the woman causes her to have kids first, then get fat. that way you can't leave her.
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If her titties get bigger but she doesn't get toooo fat, I'd be grateful :)
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unfortunately, the trickery of the woman causes her to have kids first, then get fat. that way you can't leave her.
my friend you words are the truth
so many women have used "baby fat" excuse, it is a time honored tradition
and then it is too late to leave..."man trap 101"
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my friend you words are the truth
so many women have used "baby fat" excuse, it is a time honored tradition
and then it is too late to leave..."man trap 101"
naturally.
if girls like pam anderson, demi moore and britney spears can pop clen for a few weeks after pregnancy, why can't other women?
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On top of being a mass of jiggling lard, the lack of willpower is sickening. I couldn't stand for it.
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also, heavens forbid that you mention that she gained a few pounds
then you are an insensitive animal...my ex would get upset if the evil word "exercise" came up.. ::)
her diets usually last in between meals
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my friend you words are the truth
so many women have used "baby fat" excuse, it is a time honored tradition
and then it is too late to leave..."man trap 101"
There should be a statute of limitations on that excuse of, say, 18 months. After the time is up, that sh!t don't fly anymore.
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the trick is never marry, never have a gf
if you dont understand this you deserve everything you get
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There should be a statute of limitations on that excuse of, say, 18 months. After the time is up, that sh!t don't fly anymore.
dude...women stick together...try telling a woman that she will say something like "it is hard pushing a 10 watermellon through your virgina, you wouldn't understand you are a man. Give her a little time, also after giving birth she has to raise the kid which is a 24/7 job..so what if she can't find the to exercise"
my friend, it is a lost cause
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You got to train them early on, thats what I did with my wife. Let them know you go to the gym to look good for them and for yourself. That if they turn into a disgusting fatbody that you will have no problem getting with the local gym hottie. Thats what I did years ago with mine and she hits the gym more than me now and looks damn good to. Women are ALL psychology, got to get in their heads and plant the seeds.... ;)
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i agree with Pegasus.
there's no fighting it. the options are to cheat, abandon her, or kill yourself.
not options: her exercising, you telling her to lose weight (or you'll end up on Oprah with her crying next to you).
a tried and true method which i was an idiot for not following is to look at her mother. if after a couple of kids and a few years she still looks ok, then marry her.
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You got to train them early on, thats what I did with my wife. Let them know you go to the gym to look good for them and for yourself. That if they turn into a disgusting fatbody that you will have no problem getting with the local gym hottie. Thats what I did years ago with mine and she hits the gym more than me now and looks damn good to. Women are ALL psychology, got to get in their heads and plant the seeds.... ;)
i'm trying this method this weekend. i'm going shopping with the wife, just so we don't end up with a bag of chicken breasts for me and "healthy soups" , kudos bars and pasta (again).
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It depends on how fat she gets.I like a woman with curves, so thickness is my sickness,lol.Sometimes girl are to skinny, and when they put on 15-20 lbs , they start getting nice hips, a bubble butt, and thick legs.Look at Mariah Carey when she puts on 15lbs, it goes in all the right places.There is nothing wrong with a woman with curves, F.A.T. Fabulous and Thick, lol.Big Poppa J Those girls posted is that picture are just plain flat out fat ass slobs.
There is nothing worse then a "tick body, you know a girl who gets really fat in the middle of her body, and she has fat skinny arms, and skinny but fat legs.To the point she looks like a blood sucking "tick' on a dog that has a huge body, and tiny little legs from drinking to much blood, lol
I hear you, GetItOnNY - I like my women thick
once they put on weight that obscures their feminine shape tho, attraction PLUMETS
I always feel terrible for guys when I see them walking with their family and they have to slow the pace because their porker of a wife can't waddle fast enough to keep up
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i agree with Pegasus.
there's no fighting it. the options are to cheat, abandon her, or kill yourself.
not options: her exercising, you telling her to lose weight (or you'll end up on Oprah with her crying next to you).
a tried and true method which i was an idiot for not following is to look at her mother. if after a couple of kids and a few years she still looks ok, then marry her.
I actually started a thread like this on the Women's forum. Even the chicks there admitted that there's nothing a guy can do. What you said about checking out her mother is on point. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
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You got to train them early on, thats what I did with my wife. Let them know you go to the gym to look good for them and for yourself. That if they turn into a disgusting fatbody that you will have no problem getting with the local gym hottie. Thats what I did years ago with mine and she hits the gym more than me now and looks damn good to. Women are ALL psychology, got to get in their heads and plant the seeds.... ;)
I told a former female co-worker 3 years ago, that she will have kids and get fat and then complacent, just like a of black women do. She had a nice tight body too. She she said "No I won't, I'll show you." Soon after she joined a Gold's, and she keeps that body bangin' as hell too, she looks like one of those Jamaican dancehall girls now.
Another former co-worker of mine, if you even mention the portion she is eating, she will say, "are you calling me fat", even though, she is not...yet. She is thick, but has everything in the right places, but...keept eating like she does now, she will be fat.
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I told a former female co-worker 3 years ago, that she will have kids and get fat and then complacent, just like a of black women do. She had a nice tight body too. She she said "No I won't, I'll show you." Soon after she joined a Gold's, and she keeps that body bangin' as hell too, she looks like one of those Jamaican dancehall girls now.
Another former co-worker of mine, if you even mention the portion she is eating, she will say, "are you calling me fat", even though, she is not...yet. She is thick, but has everything in the right places, but...keept eating like she does now, she will be fat.
my friend, please don't turn this thread into a racial thing...I think that all men can agree this is across racial barriers.
1. You meet a girl, nice tight body
2. Get involved, she keeps the body tight but not as tight..signs
3. You get married and over night things change..the body is sloppy and gets eats icecream l24/7
4. As you start complaining and magically she gets pregnant
5. Start a thread on getbig about it.
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my friend, please don't turn this thread into a racial thing...I think that all men can agree this is across racial barriers.
1. You meet a girl, nice tight body
2. Get involved, she keeps the body tight but not as tight..signs
3. You get married and over night things change..the body is sloppy and gets eats icecream l24/7
4. As you start complaining and magically she gets pregnant
5. Start a thread on getbig about it.
i've managed to keep biting my tongue so far whenever she puts on some clothes that used to fit and goes "god, i'm getting fat" then looks over at me , waiting for me to say something.
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I actually started a thread like this on the Women's forum. Even the chicks there admitted that there's nothing a guy can do. What you said about checking out her mother is on point. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
link?
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tell her that her current lifestyle is unhealthy
the truth hurts but it needs to be said
if she can't handle it get a new girl
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somebody remind me never to talk shit to "Made in Montana"
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i've managed to keep biting my tongue so far whenever she puts on some clothes that used to fit and goes "god, i'm getting fat" then looks over at me , waiting for me to say something.
dude...9/10 guys have that same experience
so we go food shopping..I tell her that I am getting some icecream..she bitches and complains that I shouldn't. 1 hour after getting home guess who is eating my icecream.
also ever noticed that they refuse to buy bigger jeans? this will do the "shimmy" or they jump up and down until the pants finally it is squeezed on
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my friend, please don't turn this thread into a racial thing...I think that all men can agree this is across racial barriers.
1. You meet a girl, nice tight body
2. Get involved, she keeps the body tight but not as tight..signs
3. You get married and over night things change..the body is sloppy and gets eats icecream l24/7
4. As you start complaining and magically she gets pregnant
5. Start a thread on getbig about it.
It is a racial/cultural thing. I see tons of women of all origins at my gym, but I almost never see black chicks. The last one was in like two weeks ago....and it is a pretty crowded gym.
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It is a racial/cultural thing. I see tons of women of all origins at my gym, but I almost never see black chicks. The last one was in like two weeks ago....and it is a pretty crowded gym.
sounds like racism at the sales counter to me. what gym is that, so we can alert the NAACP?
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Reinforce your message with visual aids. Put your penis on a piece of paper and trace a yellow highletter pen around it. With a blue, black or red marker, write in large bold letters over the top of it: FAT IS NOT A 4 LETTER WORD! and hang it on the fridge. When she asks, "What is that?" Tell her, "It's a riddle. You have to read between the lines." Then...every time she goes to the fridge to eat a snackiepoo or a smidgeon of this or that...she will be reminded of your Dr. Phil talk...and go do her hair and make up instead of stuff her face...
FAT "Forget About This" if you keep stuffing your face.
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my friend, please don't turn this thread into a racial thing...I think that all men can agree this is across racial barriers.
1. You meet a girl, nice tight body
2. Get involved, she keeps the body tight but not as tight..signs
3. You get married and over night things change..the body is sloppy and gets eats icecream l24/7
4. As you start complaining and magically she gets pregnant
5. Start a thread on getbig about it.
Your right, since she is and and i am black as well, I was telling her the diff between a thickums and fatty. And what she might become, because she can't cook. I shouldn't have brought the race thing on here.
I just hate the damn complacency, yes, a gal has kids, I can see the weight gain for that, but when your woman used to be 5'1 and 115-125, and now she is 180-190 after 2 kids, that's a damn ball...and there is no excuse, but yet, she expects you to still her as being 115-125
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Icredible! :o Made in Montana brings out deep sensual feelings burried inside of me. ;D
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lol. That won't work...because nobody ever "forgets about this." If you have a wife and she gets fat after you get married, tell her, "Sweetie, I want you to know I love you unconditionally...no matter if you gain 50 lbs. or get skinny...because it's your beautiful personality and spirit that I fell in love with...and all I care about is that you are happy with the way you look and feel healthy." If you sound sincere when you say it, she will believe it...and surprisingly then you will too. If you can put an effort into making her feel loved and desired the way you did when you first got married, she may want to work harder to take care of herself by eating right and exercising a bit.
I'm a little bit interested in this guy who is fat and does not go to the gym or know anything about bodybuilding. I think he's sexy the way he is with people and I like his personality. I might not ever date him...or marry him, but if I do...I will invite him to work out with me...something fun to do.
If your wife is getting fat, invite her to come work out with you. Train her. Teach her. Show her what to do. Sometimes you can't wait for people to do it on their own because they don't know what to do, so you have to tell them...lay it out...show them.
Rope 'em...bridle 'em...saddle 'em...ride 'em...love 'em...kill 'em...eat 'em...that's what we do...
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Been There done that...it didn't work, well because she was thick when I met her, yet she wanted to lose weight, she was fine to me, but we went on walks, starting off small, but that was a chore in itself. Her discipline sucked and I had the patience of a dead man, but when that person never had discipline to begin with, chances are they won't unless they truly put forth effort
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naturally.
if girls like pam anderson, demi moore and britney spears can pop clen for a few weeks after pregnancy, why can't other women?
britney spears is fat and always was fat off narcotics,,anderson is heptitis c b and a whore that look like a man with fake boobs everything is fake on her,,demi moore was ok in the 90s now too old,,
any of the 3 is horrid now days,,
in any case this is gh15 advice for you fellas,,take pen and paper or save it into your computers,,
NEVER EVER NEVER TELL A GIRL SHE IS HOT,, IM GOING TO TALK NOW ABOTU AMERICAN GIRLS,,THE TYPICAL AMERICAN GIRL IS 160-180LB ,,THEY ONLY GET SMALLER BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO SO THATS WHY YOU SEE THM AT 120LB AT THEIR TEENS AND 20S,,LOOK AT THEIR MOMS ALL FATZOS SITTING AT 220-250LB ,,
YOU NEED TO GET IN YOUR HEAD THAT YOU MUST TELL THE GIRL FROM THE FIRST MOMENT SHE GETS FAT,,IF SHE IS ALREADY FAT YOU NEED TO TELL HER ,,LOOK GIRL LOSE THE FUCKIN WEIGHT YOURE FAT ,,YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE IS FAT AND SHE KNOWS YOU LIKE SMALLER GIRLS,,YOU HAVE TO BE MEAN ABOUT IT BUT WITH WORDS,,YOU HAVE TO SHOW COLD LOVE FOR HER TO CHANGE AND SHE WILL!
NOW THIS IS THE SIZE YOU NEED TO LOOK FOR
AN AMERICAN GIRL USUALLY WALK AROUND AT 120LB BUT WEARING SIZE JEANS 6 8 OR 10! THAT IS FAT!! THEY SAY THEY GOT ASS BUT ITS ALL BULLCRAP EXCUSE,,A GIRL AT 120 OR 130 OR 140 SHOULD HAVE SIZE 3-5 JEANS NOT EVEN TINY MINY BIT BIGGER,,
YOU ALWAYS NEED TO LOOK FOR SIZE 3-5 JEANS ON A GIRL ,,GIRLS IN GOOD SHAPE EVEN AT 140LB WILL HAVE SIZE 4 JEANS! ALSO ALWAYS REMEMBER TO MAKE SURE SHE HAS POSITIVE RATE OF FAT ON HER ,,YOU DO NOT WANT A GIRL WITH OUT IT BECAUSE THEY ARE RUBBERY FEELING AND VERY MUSCULINE AND ITS JUST FEELING LIKE YOU FUCK A 16 YEAR OLD TEEN AGE BOY,,SO MAKE SURE YOU LOOK TWARDS THOSE ASPECTS,,
NOW LASTLY ,,
ALWAYS REMEMBER TO MAKE SURE TO POINT TO HER OTHER GIRLS WETHER IN RESTAURANT OR ANYWHERE,,THEY HATE IT ,,BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS TRY TO SATISFY YOU ,,NOW DONT BE LOUD ABOUT IT BUT MENTION STUFF YOU LIKE AND SHE WILL COMPLY ,,THIS IS GIRLS ,,AMERICAN GIRLS OR ANYOTHER GIRLS IF LOVE YOU ENOUGH ,,AND ANY GIRL WHEN SHE LOVES A GUY WILL DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING FOR THE GUY ,,SO ANY GIRL WILL CHANGE FOR THE GUY ,,ESPECIALLY IF ITS LONG TERM RELASHIONSHIP,,
ALSO DONT GET HER PREGNANT AND MAKE SURE YOU GET HER PREGO WHEN SHE IS UNDER 140LB SO YOU DONT END UP WITH A 200LB GIRL,,I DO BELIEVE AMERICAN GIRLS AFTER PREGNANCY GET TO A HUGE ENOURMOUS WEIGHTS OF 220LB AND MORE AT HEIGHTS OF 5'4...SO BE VERY CAREFUL OF THAT ALWAYS REMIND HER HOW FAT PEOPLE IN HER FAMILY MAY BE AND SHE WILL LEARN YOU LIKE THEM IN SHAPE OR ATLEAST DECENT SHAPE,,
DONT FORGET TO BE NICE ABOUT OTHER THINGS THOUGH SO SHE SEE YOU DO CARE AND NOT ONLY ASS ;)
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Hey GH, what would you say the heaviest chick you have ever porked has weighed. I'll admit I have banged a few slobs!
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Its like buying for example a Ferrari, you bought it cause it looks hot, and performs well, if after a year or 2 it fell apart and stopped performing you better believe im getting a Refund
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Hey GH, what would you say the heaviest chick you have ever porked has weighed. I'll admit I have banged a few slobs!
umm its hard to be heavy next to me ,,i had couple 160-170s 5'6 5'7 but they looked small next to me,,also made them both 120-130 within 6 months on phentermine and some mild duretic and t3/clen ,,3 months they were 130 then again i did fuck them when they were 160 becuase they wer epretty girls and good girls
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told her when i met her..
if i'm busting my ass in the gym to look good and you get fat you're gone...period. If i'm not sexually attracted to you there's no amount of love will keep you around. BUT if I gain weight you can too...
HAHA and I've gotten thicker alright...so it's sliding. The moment she wears the same size jeans as me she's out of here.
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What's with all of you saying you "can't mention it" or "can't say anything?" If you can't talk about simple issues like this with your wife or gf, you two have much bigger problems than her weight gain.
The mother is an excellent gauge however, which is why you should always fuck her to see what the gf's poon will be like in 25 yrs.
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When wives get fat, you stick it out and work with them as much as possible...Hopefully your marriage lasts long enough where your looks will be the last thing on both of your minds...
If its a girlfriend, you work with them a bit and if that don't work, just move on...Girlfriends aren't worth the trouble...
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Not many of you guys live in the real world. In America 1/3 of you will end up married to an obese woman. 2/3 of you will be married to an overweight woman (which includes the obese women). Bodybuilders think they know all about keeping their bodies however they like it but those principles don't always apply to woman and especially not to already obese people. Once you get fat it is very difficult to get it off and even more difficult to keep it off. Be smug but know you probably wouldn't be able to change the body composition of fat people.
Fat distributes differently on women and some are pear shapes while others are hourglass and the rest variations of apple shapes. The pears seem to have fat that isn't too dangerous for health. The apples pose a risk and this shape is what most men look like when obese.
A lot of bodybuilders secretly fancy larger women but seldom come out of the closet and admit it.
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A lot of bodybuilders secretly fancy larger women but seldom come out of the closet and admit it.
Why is it that bodybuilders secretly fancy fat women?
This statement suggests the attraction to fat women is greater in men who want more muscle.
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:D
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Not many of you guys live in the real world. In America 1/3 of you will end up married to an obese woman. 2/3 of you will be married to an overweight woman (which includes the obese women). Bodybuilders think they know all about keeping their bodies however they like it but those principles don't always apply to woman and especially not to already obese people. Once you get fat it is very difficult to get it off and even more difficult to keep it off. Be smug but know you probably wouldn't be able to change the body composition of fat people.
Fat distributes differently on women and some are pear shapes while others are hourglass and the rest variations of apple shapes. The pears seem to have fat that isn't too dangerous for health. The apples pose a risk and this shape is what most men look like when obese.
A lot of bodybuilders secretly fancy larger women but seldom come out of the closet and admit it.
You love fat cows Vince you old fuck, not us.
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One time I was in bed with this chick and I couldn't keep a boner at all. She was overweight but not obese. So I said I will be right back. I went downstairs put on some porn and after a few minutes went back upstairs and closed my eyes and banged like no end.
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One time I was in bed with this chick and I couldn't keep a boner at all. She was overweight but not obese. So I said I will be right back. I went downstairs put on some porn and after a few minutes went back upstairs and closed my eyes and banged like no end.
haha, Nice. No sense in wasting a willing victim. ;D
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Not many of you guys live in the real world. In America 1/3 of you will end up married to an obese woman. 2/3 of you will be married to an overweight woman (which includes the obese women). Bodybuilders think they know all about keeping their bodies however they like it but those principles don't always apply to woman and especially not to already obese people. Once you get fat it is very difficult to get it off and even more difficult to keep it off. Be smug but know you probably wouldn't be able to change the body composition of fat people.
Fat distributes differently on women and some are pear shapes while others are hourglass and the rest variations of apple shapes. The pears seem to have fat that isn't too dangerous for health. The apples pose a risk and this shape is what most men look like when obese.
A lot of bodybuilders secretly fancy larger women but seldom come out of the closet and admit it.
you still banging those fatties Vince? Someone got to do it right?
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Arnold, Chester Yorton, the list goes on. Women come in all shapes and sizes. Good thing most women aren't too fussy about us men otherwise musclemen would lose out. The amount of intolerance among muscleheads is sickening. Most of the flotsam here are too thick to instruct or improve. Oops, I forgot, when all is lost they listen to gurus like gh15.
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The think i hate is when i'm trying to keep my cutting diet plan.
I don't have her support. Sh thinks that it dosent matter if ia eat 120 gr. of chicken or 150 gr.!
No big deal if i don't train...
But always, ALWAYS she tells me "I want to lose soma weight, please help me!"... one day after she eats shit again...
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I lot of men actively encourage their wives to put on a little weight as it decreases the chances and opportunities for them to be unfaithful and to do the very worst thing that our selfish gene can handle: end up making us sire another man's child while we think it's our own.
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Mine put on weight and it sucks. However she makes allot more money than I do so I am staying. She pays for my food, that way I can pay for my juice.
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lol, are you on the level?
If you can't afford food on your own you might want to re-examine your career choices.
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Sadly, I am on the level. I am a 39 year old security guard. My looks that I used to get by on are fading. I pretty much wasted my life up to this point, and now I figure there is no going back now. If it were not for my girlfried I would be living in a box. Of course that does not stop me from messing around. Unfortunately she suspects, and sometimes her crying keeps me awake at night. I am not proud of what I am. I only hope that I can be a warning for others before my D-Boll induced heart attack, and sweet death takes me.
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I lot of men actively encourage their wives to put on a little weight as it decreases the chances and opportunities for them to be unfaithful and to do the very worst thing that our selfish gene can handle: end up making us sire another man's child while we think it's our own.
What a positive person you are. ::)
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Granted that most men dont need a reason to cheat but it is hard having a fat sloppy wife while seeing tons of young tight body spanish chicks running around
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Granted that most men dont need a reason to cheat but it is hard having a fat sloppy wife while seeing tons of young tight body spanish chicks running around
i'm pretty confident youre not into chicks, "Steeley".
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If you don't have the guts to tell your significant others that they are getting chunky, post their picture here and we'll take care of it.
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i'm pretty confident youre not into chicks, "Steeley".
Because I post on getbig?
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Because I post on getbig?
no. because you sound like a closet homosexual in all your posts.
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no. because you sound like a closet homosexual in all your posts.
*ding* *ding* *ding* *ding* *ding* :D
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1- "I don't like the way that outfit looks on you anymore."
Every woman has a go-to getup. If you don't know it, you don't know her well enough to discuss her flabby stomach. The only thing that could ever change the way an outfit looks is the way it fits. Tell her you aren't sure why it looks odd, suggest a looser knit, and watch her forever skip the nachos with cheese.
2- "I can't get over how fat I feel."
Women have been commiserating with each other for eons about the thickness of their thighs. If you launch a pity party of your own about how heavy you feel, and let her know at every turn, she'll become fat-obsessed by osmosis. Women have been doing it to each other since the dawn of public washrooms.
3- "Your friend isn't nearly as attractive since she gained that weight."
Be careful. Delivery is everything. Pick her homeliest friend and you can let your most outrageous BS fly. Pick an attractive pal and you'll be explaining your wandering eye until you give her a ring. Focus on the improbable target, and she'll be thinking that if you find her bookworm buddy hefty, perhaps a diet should be on her docket.
4- "I have a new female trainer at the gym."
She won't suggest fewer trips to the gym, but it will drive her bonkers to think that another woman is spotting your squat thrusts. She'll sign up and be there within 24 hours just to keep an eye on you.
5- "The saleswoman said it was for smaller women."
If you want your girl to shed some baby fat, spend a couple of bucks on a nice little fashion piece a couple of sizes out of her reach. If she thinks she is thin in your eyes, and the only thing telling her otherwise is a piece of clothing, she'll work morning, noon and night to fit into that cursed thing.
6- "Let's help each other lose a couple of pounds?"
Let's face it. If you tell your girlfriend to lose some weight, she'll withdraw your all-access pass to her wonderful folds. But an honest commitment to work together to become fitter and shed some unwanted girth can only be met with the excitement that your investment in her is the same as what she is willing to invest in you. Losing weight is no small task. Make her sure you're worth it.
keep her thin
Remember men: To influence her decision to lose weight while avoiding any sore feelings is to make everything about you. How you feel, what you think, what your opinion is -- these are the things that will separate you just enough from the battle that is ultimately hers. The minute you make it about what you think she's doing wrong, you're dead meat, and we're all coming after you.
Weight loss takes time, so be patient. Now, all you have to do is keep that weight off yourself so you have a leg to stand on.
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no. because you sound like a closet homosexual in all your posts.
No big boy, I am not interested
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No big boy, I am not interested
you have been outed. accept it.
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you have been outed. accept it.
You outing out bruthas now? :D
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You outing out bruthas now? :D
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You outing out bruthas now? :D
Brutal attempt to identify with skincolor.
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Brutal attempt to identify with skincolor.
Epic failure? ???
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my friend, please don't turn this thread into a racial thing...I think that all men can agree this is across racial barriers.
1. You meet a girl, nice tight body
2. Get involved, she keeps the body tight but not as tight..signs
3. You get married and over night things change..the body is sloppy and gets eats icecream l24/7
4. As you start complaining and magically she gets pregnant
5. Start a thread on getbig about it.
Blacks are the most overweight demographic on earth, and have the largest increase in obesity than any other group (source: Source: CDC, National Center for Health Statistics, National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey).
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Blacks are the most overweight demographic on earth, and have the largest increase in obesity than any other group (source: Source: CDC, National Center for Health Statistics, National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey).
Do you think porkchops and KFC is a cause of this?
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Do you think porkchops and KFC is a cause of this?
As in, diet as it relates to poverty? Yes, I am considering that. Still researching though.
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1- "I don't like the way that outfit looks on you anymore."
Every woman has a go-to getup. If you don't know it, you don't know her well enough to discuss her flabby stomach. The only thing that could ever change the way an outfit looks is the way it fits. Tell her you aren't sure why it looks odd, suggest a looser knit, and watch her forever skip the nachos with cheese.
2- "I can't get over how fat I feel."
Women have been commiserating with each other for eons about the thickness of their thighs. If you launch a pity party of your own about how heavy you feel, and let her know at every turn, she'll become fat-obsessed by osmosis. Women have been doing it to each other since the dawn of public washrooms.
3- "Your friend isn't nearly as attractive since she gained that weight."
Be careful. Delivery is everything. Pick her homeliest friend and you can let your most outrageous BS fly. Pick an attractive pal and you'll be explaining your wandering eye until you give her a ring. Focus on the improbable target, and she'll be thinking that if you find her bookworm buddy hefty, perhaps a diet should be on her docket.
4- "I have a new female trainer at the gym."
She won't suggest fewer trips to the gym, but it will drive her bonkers to think that another woman is spotting your squat thrusts. She'll sign up and be there within 24 hours just to keep an eye on you.
5- "The saleswoman said it was for smaller women."
If you want your girl to shed some baby fat, spend a couple of bucks on a nice little fashion piece a couple of sizes out of her reach. If she thinks she is thin in your eyes, and the only thing telling her otherwise is a piece of clothing, she'll work morning, noon and night to fit into that cursed thing.
6- "Let's help each other lose a couple of pounds?"
Let's face it. If you tell your girlfriend to lose some weight, she'll withdraw your all-access pass to her wonderful folds. But an honest commitment to work together to become fitter and shed some unwanted girth can only be met with the excitement that your investment in her is the same as what she is willing to invest in you. Losing weight is no small task. Make her sure you're worth it.
keep her thin
Remember men: To influence her decision to lose weight while avoiding any sore feelings is to make everything about you. How you feel, what you think, what your opinion is -- these are the things that will separate you just enough from the battle that is ultimately hers. The minute you make it about what you think she's doing wrong, you're dead meat, and we're all coming after you.
Weight loss takes time, so be patient. Now, all you have to do is keep that weight off yourself so you have a leg to stand on.
http://uk.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/144b_dating_advice.html
that's all nonsense written by some fat woman who wants to be accepted. Someone with a major overeating problem is too mentally fucked up to need just a little encouragement.
'If she thinks she is thin in your eyes, and the only thing telling her otherwise is a piece of clothing, she'll work morning, noon and night to fit into that cursed thing.' ::)
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that's all nonsense written by some fat woman who wants to be accepted. Someone with a major overeating problem is too mentally fucked up to need just a little encouragement.
'If she thinks she is thin in your eyes, and the only thing telling her otherwise is a piece of clothing, she'll work morning, noon and night to fit into that cursed thing.' ::)
HAHA I never said I agreed with it, the comments at the bottom of the article are funny, lots of fat bitter women there.
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Have you ever seen it when a girl used to be fat in college, but slimmed down to just thick, and slimmed down to a size 4, but looked better at "the in between weight"....She just wants to keep losing weight, but the "middle ground" was the best weight? I knew a woman liked that. Slamming thick body, red beans and rice type of body, but she kept wanting to lose more weight and I was like ???. Now she looks like a stick with big boobs---so all is not lost ;D
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Have you ever seen it when a girl used to be fat in college, but slimmed down to just thick, and slimmed down to a size 4, but looked better at "the in between weight"....She just wants to keep losing weight, but the "middle ground" was the best weight? I knew a woman liked that. Slamming thick body, red beans and rice type of body, but she kept wanting to lose more weight and I was like ???. Now she looks like a stick with big boobs---so all is not lost ;D
Same problem in UK, all the voluptuous women want to look like this woman
(http://static.flickr.com/64/172587287_a6e4979faf.jpg)
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http://www.guzer.com/videos/mom_jeans.php
Dude, that is fucking FUNNY!!
Everyone needs to watch that. I would joke about that all the time with my g/f saying that soon she would be converting to mom jeans.
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Have you ever seen it when a girl used to be fat in college, but slimmed down to just thick, and slimmed down to a size 4, but looked better at "the in between weight"....She just wants to keep losing weight, but the "middle ground" was the best weight? I knew a woman liked that. Slamming thick body, red beans and rice type of body, but she kept wanting to lose more weight and I was like ???. Now she looks like a stick with big boobs---so all is not lost ;D
Kind of like when a bodybuilder gets to a point when he looks great but keeps pushing the line and while he is bigger doesn't look as good?
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When I am presented with this problem I just say straight out: you are fat, either lose the weight or you'll be single very soon... I follow by showing her my logic: I bust my ass in the gym 5-6 days a week to have the body I have that you and all your girlfriends drool over, the least you can do is stay in decent shape. I'm not asking for a hardcore fitness girl but I won't tolerate fat, anything over 120lbs. / and over size 1 is unaceptable.
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Desperate times call for desperate measures...
Let me outline this for the flotsom, Vince Basile at leasts F*CKS women but Vince GOODRUM fucks men ANUS. Therefore we must respect Vince Basile because in the very LEAST he is using his sexuality for the correct biological means(or potential thereof). Not to mention Basile has a bodybuilding title up his sleeve and he says he runs a gym business.
No need to justify an attraction... just carry on with it.
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I'm not asking for a hardcore fitness girl but I won't tolerate fat, anything over 120lbs. / and over size 1 is unaceptable.
pretty demanding
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They say that if you want to know what a girl ooks like in 20 or 30 years...look at her mom.
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Your right, since she is and and i am black as well, I was telling her the diff between a thickums and fatty. And what she might become, because she can't cook. I shouldn't have brought the race thing on here.
I just hate the damn complacency, yes, a gal has kids, I can see the weight gain for that, but when your woman used to be 5'1 and 115-125, and now she is 180-190 after 2 kids, that's a damn ball...and there is no excuse, but yet, she expects you to still her as being 115-125
how you get a man is how you keep him.
You should work off those extra pounds. I used to exercise at home when my kids were younger. As they got older, I bribed them to let me have an hour alone, no phone, no answering of the door until I got my hour of exercise in.
Years later, joined a gym and never looked back.
Now, when a man starts putting on the pounds he should be worried about her dumping him for a gym rat and getting alimony...
Sandra
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Dude, that is fucking FUNNY!!
Everyone needs to watch that. I would joke about that all the time with my g/f saying that soon she would be converting to mom jeans.
I see you're easily amused.
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lol. That won't work...because nobody ever "forgets about this." If you have a wife and she gets fat after you get married, tell her, "Sweetie, I want you to know I love you unconditionally...no matter if you gain 50 lbs. or get skinny...because it's your beautiful personality and spirit that I fell in love with...and all I care about is that you are happy with the way you look and feel healthy." If you sound sincere when you say it, she will believe it...and surprisingly then you will too. If you can put an effort into making her feel loved and desired the way you did when you first got married, she may want to work harder to take care of herself by eating right and exercising a bit.
I'm a little bit interested in this guy who is fat and does not go to the gym or know anything about bodybuilding. I think he's sexy the way he is with people and I like his personality. I might not ever date him...or marry him, but if I do...I will invite him to work out with me...something fun to do.
If your wife is getting fat, invite her to come work out with you. Train her. Teach her. Show her what to do. Sometimes you can't wait for people to do it on their own because they don't know what to do, so you have to tell them...lay it out...show them.
Rope 'em...bridle 'em...saddle 'em...ride 'em...love 'em...kill 'em...eat 'em...that's what we do...
(http://mywebpage.netscape.com/IronGameLegendsF/stevebull.JPG)
That's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever heard.
So, she should need me to coddle her and lie to her? I should try to convince myself that her fat ass is still okay?
When she dies from her obesity related illnesses, should I tell my kids that it was okay for her to have zero will power?
You can't invite a fat wife to come workout with you. That will never work. Why to people say that? Has any heifer of a wife every turned into a hottie because of that?
If any lard ass baby shooter has ever gotten in shape, it is NOT because her husband "helped" her by taking her to the gym. It's because she decided to stop being fat.....a decision that had nothing to do with the husband.
If my wife got fat, I'd lover her as a family member, but there's not way in hell I'm going to find here attractive. I'm not going to try to convince myself that I do either. I'll still be able to look at porn and know what isn't disgusting, so convincing myself that my hog wife isn't disgusting would be a moot point.
Have you ever seen the ass crack of fat chicks? You can see it on the fat shit porns people send you as a joke. It's all calloused looking....hardened and leathered where the skin of their ass crack rubs together with every step. It's thicker and more calloused than the most grizzled lumberjack's palm.
Add to that the fact that their entire perineal region has that darkened leather skin look that fat people get under their armpits.
Fuck that, I'm not even going to pretend that is attractive. Women know it isn't either, I don't see the point of deluding themselves into any other belief.
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Have you ever seen the ass crack of fat chicks? You can see it on the fat shit porns people send you as a joke. It's all calloused looking....hardened and leathered where the skin of their ass crack rubs together with every step. It's thicker and more calloused than the most grizzled lumberjack's palm.
hahahahahhaahahaha. . . that's some funny shit right there!!! ;D ;D
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Guys, this is exactly the kind of thing to tell your girl. It will motivate her to do everything because it will make her feel good. Alex, you have a very nice body. You will have no problem finding a girl who appreciates it...especially if you keep talking like that.
A fat wife or girlfriend doesn't need to be told she is fat...just look at her...check out her entire body very slowly, make sure she is watching you do it. Take your time. Stare at every body part...especially her eyes. That will make her more aware and self conscious than anything else you can say. It tells her you notice everything...and she will start to listen and pay attention.
Touch her often...gently...softly. ..put your arms around her...tell her: "Your body belongs to me. It is mine. Tomorrow I am going to train it. Be ready at 7:00." And this isn't just about being sexual...it's more about ownership. Your spirit must dominate...not by force, but by invitation and strong interest.
People are like animals...if you treat them gently and earn their trust...they will follow you anywhere.
If all your attempts to connect with or help her improve do not succeed, then you either have to learn to live with it or cut her loose because you're not going down the same road. It's no longer about fat then...it might be a problem with a bad attitude, bad connection with you emotionally or not caring--about herself or you. If she's really trying and making an effort to be healthy, then the fat will eventually no longer be an issue. You will either no longer care if she loses all the weight or she will lose it--or both...because she is trying and wanting to be on the same program with you. That's the main thing--it's about health and attitude more than anything.
Epic Dr. Phill advice following waste of time.
You are clueless if you think any of that is going to make a difference.
Men need to be men. In the very beginning I let them know that if they want to gain weight, I will find someone else.
With my old g/f I had her weigh in every so often. I was just teasing, but she knew deep down I was serious.
And for the record, stop using the "Health" card to discourage her being fat. I could give a shit if my chick has to throw up her meals, as long as she stays thin and does what she has to.
I will end with this caveat, if you marry and have kids, you are screwed. I guess that is why I'll wait until I'm 45 and marry a 25 or 30 year old.
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Desperate times call for desperate measures...
Let me outline this for the flotsom, Vince Basile at leasts F*CKS women but Vince GOODRUM fucks men ANUS. Therefore we must respect Vince Basile because in the very LEAST he is using his sexuality for the correct biological means(or potential thereof). Not to mention Basile has a bodybuilding title up his sleeve and he says he runs a gym business.
No need to justify an attraction... just carry on with it.
Horseshit.
Vince Goodrum can't do squat about being gay.
Vince Goodrum probably goes for men of higher quality relative to the fat hags Vince Basile goes for.
Thus, Vince Goodrum wins.
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Horseshit.
Vince Goodrum can't do squat about being gay.
Vince Goodrum probably goes for men of higher quality relative to the fat hags Vince Basile goes for.
Thus, Vince Goodrum wins.
Epic coming out of the closet...
Congratulations man.
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Blacks are the most overweight demographic on earth, and have the largest increase in obesity than any other group (source: Source: CDC, National Center for Health Statistics, National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey).
Matt, Bussey is partly right..bad dietary habits don't help
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So I am telling a married friend of mine about this thread
and here is his response:
"John C says: you know the best thing about being married?
Steele 3.0 says: ?
John C says: Not having to read posts like this and accepting and liking your life the way it is :)
John C says: you get to a level where relationship moves past physical point
John C says: and if she gains a few more pounds then its more to love ;)
Steele 3.0 says: do you find baby shamu sexy?
John C says:hmmm
John C says:cute, not sexy ;)
John C says:but c'm on, nobody baloons that way overnight
John C says:in any case, whats your point in this
Steele 3.0 says:no point my friend, you are already on the dark side
John C says:whats so dark about it
John C says:i come home, there is wife kids and a babysitter"
Feel free to discuss :(
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if she gets fat buy some liquid clen and start dropping it in her drink...thats what i would do, actually id drop some t3 in there as well
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I just tell her straight up. If she hasnt been to the gym in over a week im onto her like a hawk. until she goes the next day.
She keeps saying "so you would dump me if i got fat" and i just go "yes". Truth hurts but I say I got first impressions because of her sexy arse and body, I wouldnt have come up to her otherwise.
Be strong!
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I just tell her straight up. If she hasnt been to the gym in over a week im onto her like a hawk. until she goes the next day.
She keeps saying "so you would dump me if i got fat" and i just go "yes". Truth hurts but I say I got first impressions because of her sexy arse and body, I wouldnt have come up to her otherwise.
Be strong!
Welcome to getbig boy!
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What is all this crap about making sure wife goes to gym, for a woman who doesnt put on muscle, unlike a man, the gym should be WAY behind making sure your wifes diet is in order.
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What is all this crap about making sure wife goes to gym, for a woman who doesnt put on muscle, unlike a man, the gym should be WAY behind making sure your wifes diet is in order.
True, if the girl puts on 2-3kgs she gets a warning, after that its over, if she goes over 5kg then when i first met her then im to blame cause i let it go, So the rule is tell them early.
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pretty demanding
That's why Captain Equipoise is single and hang'n out in the "jack shack".
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I will only except Fatness is if my girl is Pregnant and after birth i will look after the kid so she can go to the gym to lose the baby fatness ;D
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No. The f. dumbest thing is you bitch and whine because you can't stay away from pics that have "entire perineal region has that darkened leather skin look" (spending more time relishing describing it than necessary) and are angry that people expect you to "pretend that is attractive" when no one here asked you to become a black belt fat porn butt hole connoisseur or give lectures about acquiring an appetite for them. If you want to have sex and live with someone you project will become "disgusting" to you and would not even care to be nice or try to help her, than by all means have your fat & porn cake and eat it too. To live the rest of your life with someone who you "no way in hell are going to find her attractive...I'll still be able to look at porn and know what isn't disgusting, so convincing myself that my hog wife isn't disgusting would be a moot point" is no big victory to pin a rose on your nose. At least I TRIED to help by offering a women's point of view with some creative suggestions--your solution had all the hope of a dirty ashtray at a funeral. Yes. A lot of what I wrote was metaphorical. You misinterpreted it and reacted offended as if I wished you an unhappy fat wife life. Pull your head out of the "hardened and leathered where the skin of their ass crack rubs together with every step" rusted butt crack you found when you used the search engine to send your friends emails of fat porn. If you don't get what I wrote, it's because you have no poetry...lack soul...and you expect women to be men--void of feeling. News Flash--if you can make a woman feel good about herself--you will have a better friend AND a better lover.
That time of the month, huh?
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No. The f. dumbest thing is you bitch and whine because you can't stay away from pics that have "entire perineal region has that darkened leather skin look" (spending more time relishing describing it than necessary) and are angry that people expect you to "pretend that is attractive" when no one here asked you to become a black belt fat porn butt hole connoisseur or give lectures about acquiring an appetite for them. If you want to have sex and live with someone you project will become "disgusting" to you and would not even care to be nice or try to help her, than by all means have your fat & porn cake and eat it too. To live the rest of your life with someone who you "no way in hell are going to find her attractive...I'll still be able to look at porn and know what isn't disgusting, so convincing myself that my hog wife isn't disgusting would be a moot point" is no big victory to pin a rose on your nose. At least I TRIED to help by offering a women's point of view with some creative suggestions--your solution had all the hope of a dirty ashtray at a funeral. Yes. A lot of what I wrote was metaphorical. You misinterpreted it and reacted offended as if I wished you an unhappy fat wife life. Pull your head out of the "hardened and leathered where the skin of their ass crack rubs together with every step" rusted butt crack you found when you used the search engine to send your friends emails of fat porn. If you don't get what I wrote, it's because you have no poetry...lack soul...and you expect women to be men--void of feeling. News Flash--if you can make a woman feel good about herself--you will have a better friend AND a better lover.
Stop being a fat ass and you won't need me to lie to you so you can feel good about yourself.
Why should I need a degree in psychology to learn how to help some lard laden skank feel good about herself? You wouldn't need to take a metaphorical approach if you would just take a somatic approach to things.
Push your tubby ass away from the comfort food and quit blaming your husband for not helping you feel good about yourself.
I could hold back my vomit long enough to lie to a walrus that she should feel good about being a willpower-void slob, but to the rest of the world she's still a walrus.
Post some pics Made in Montana. If you're a slob, I'll let you know. But, if you're worth dropping a round of spunk on I'll try to meet up with you sometime.
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My pictures have already been posted...in the history forum.
My dad used to weigh himself every day and mark it on a calendar. So, my mom learned to do it too. My mom has never weighed more than 115 lbs. except when she was pregnant...so maybe that helps her keep it in check before it gets out of hand.
When you walk around at a shopping mall you'll see as many men as women who gain weight over the years...so it's not a gender specific thing...and it's more complicated than counting calories sometimes...it's about chemistry and hormones...some people have faster metabolism...and some may have had several rounds of antibiotics (and so have a candida yeast imbalance that causes bloating/indigestion...and need pau d'arco/biotin and other herbs and to avoid bread and beer for a little while)...and maybe to go to a naturopath and get balanced out to check to see if their parotid or thyroid is down and see if they can digest dairy (need lactase enzyme with it), need betaine HCl, pancreatin and/or B-12 subligual to digest protein, enzymes, check for food sensitivities, need pre-acidified calcium, acidophilus and/or some detox herbs that clean the system out. You don't need drugs to lose weight, you just need to digest your food well, balance your hormones, control the portions and don't eat poisons, preservatives and junk that plugs up your illeocecal valve.
What goes wrong for some women is that they may be trying hard to lose weight, but they don't know what they are doing...and they do it continuously seeing no results anyway....and then figure it's no good to try because it doesn't work and they give up and pig out...for instance, they might have a bagel for breakfast with cream cheese and a glass of orange juice, a salad with pasta for lunch, do aerobics in the afternoon and have weight watchers mac-n-cheese for dinner.
The reason this doesn't work is that they are eating too many carbs which make you retain water and even if it says fat free or diet on it, it drives up insulin which stores fat. The aerobics only burns blood glucose and doesn't build muscle much, so they are just hungrier when they are done and eat more because of it. Many women think that if it is a "diet food" that you can eat unlimited quantities of it. But without adequate protein, blood sugar levels are not stabilized, and optimum muscle tissue isn't built.
So it's important that ladies eat protein and vegetables for lunch and dinner and weight train a little bit and not just do aerobics. Having a little bit of fat is good too because it makes you feel full and not eat as much carbs.
Also...no one "needs a psychology degree" to understand that most women like to feel attractive...and if you can give her compliments about anything...even if it's her hair or outfit or her eyes...she will think you find her attractive...and that will make her try harder. It's not about lying or feeding her b.s...it's about being nice...and everyone has something attractive about them--both men and women. If you walked the aisle with someone...you can certainly find a way to give them a compliment.
Wow, what a turn around!
I would never have expected you to admit women were neurotic morons. I can appreciate your admission of defeat. I accept your weakminded blabbering as an apology.
You do understand that insulin's fat blunting effect is secondary to its agonism to the receptor. The oxidation of fatty acids for fuel is inversely proportional to the insulin receptor saturation.
If these sad, dellusioned, weak-minded women would just stop strapping on a feed bag of sugar you would have never needed to recind your original stance.
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Wow, what a turn around!
I would never have expected you to admit women were neurotic morons.
thats why you choose to fuck men I ETA PI?? ;D ;D
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The think i hate is when i'm trying to keep my cutting diet plan.
I don't have her support. Sh thinks that it dosent matter if ia eat 120 gr. of chicken or 150 gr.!
No big deal if i don't train...
But always, ALWAYS she tells me "I want to lose soma weight, please help me!"... one day after she eats shit again...
I feel your pain Bro. I was dieting for a show and my wife would sit next to me and eat oreo's. She would always say shit like you can skip a day, or it doesn't have to wiegh exactly 8 ounzes and then complain all the fucking time about, "I don't know why I can't lose wieght". I'm thinking to myself, make a plate of what i'm eating, take your ass in the garage and wlk on the treadmill.
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My pictures have already been posted...in the history forum.
My dad used to weigh himself every day and mark it on a calendar. So, my mom learned to do it too. My mom has never weighed more than 115 lbs. except when she was pregnant...so maybe that helps her keep it in check before it gets out of hand.
When you walk around at a shopping mall you'll see as many men as women who gain weight over the years...so it's not a gender specific thing...and it's more complicated than counting calories sometimes...it's about chemistry and hormones...some people have faster metabolism...and some may have had several rounds of antibiotics (and so have a candida yeast imbalance that causes bloating/indigestion...and need pau d'arco/biotin and other herbs and to avoid bread and beer for a little while)...and maybe to go to a naturopath and get balanced out to check to see if their parotid or thyroid is down and see if they can digest dairy (need lactase enzyme with it), need betaine HCl, pancreatin and/or B-12 subligual to digest protein, enzymes, check for food sensitivities, need pre-acidified calcium, acidophilus and/or some detox herbs that clean the system out. You don't need drugs to lose weight, you just need to digest your food well, balance your hormones, control the portions and don't eat poisons, preservatives and junk that plugs up your illeocecal valve.
What goes wrong for some women is that they may be trying hard to lose weight, but they don't know what they are doing...and they do it continuously seeing no results anyway....and then figure it's no good to try because it doesn't work and they give up and pig out...for instance, they might have a bagel for breakfast with cream cheese and a glass of orange juice, a salad with pasta for lunch, do aerobics in the afternoon and have weight watchers mac-n-cheese for dinner.
The reason this doesn't work is that they are eating too many carbs which make you retain water and even if it says fat free or diet on it, it drives up insulin which stores fat. The aerobics only burns blood glucose and doesn't build muscle much, so they are just hungrier when they are done and eat more because of it. Many women think that if it is a "diet food" that you can eat unlimited quantities of it. But without adequate protein, blood sugar levels are not stabilized, and optimum muscle tissue isn't built.
So it's important that ladies eat protein and vegetables for lunch and dinner and weight train a little bit and not just do aerobics. Having a little bit of fat is good too because it makes you feel full and not eat as much carbs.
Also...no one "needs a psychology degree" to understand that most women like to feel attractive...and if you can give her compliments about anything...even if it's her hair or outfit or her eyes...she will think you find her attractive...and that will make her try harder. It's not about lying or feeding her b.s...it's about being nice...and everyone has something attractive about them--both men and women. If you walked the aisle with someone...you can certainly find a way to give them a compliment.
my friend,,
in america IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF THE FOOD!,,read what gh15 tellin you here carefully and remember it and apply it to femiliar individuals
up to age 8-10 in america ,,everyone is thin or used to be thin in the 80s 90s ,,now days its up to age 5-6,,then at age 8-10 out of no where they blow up...no its not hormones,,,the hormones come into play at ages 12-20,,,what happens in america is this
ages 10-20 the mom give the kid either junk food everyday if she is single and work all the time,,or if its a family in some alabama country place they eat pork chops and meat loaf and 10% milk and lots lots of cheeese on the 3 big pizza they order daily from pizza hut double the cheeze is phraze known in america! americans love to eat! AMERICAN WOMEN ARE NOT AS ACTIVE AS AMERICAN MEN SO THEY GET FAT VERY VERY FAST,,,THEIR ORIGINAL SIZE IS LIKE 125-140LB THEY ARE NO 100LB CHINEASE OR 110 LB HOTTIE FROM MIDDLE EAST OR EUROPE,,SO THEY START AT 125-140 AND BY THEIR 25TH BIRTHDAY THEY NEEVR SEEN THE NUMBER 140LB AGAIN THEY ALWAYS AT 160 170 180,,AND IN MANY CASES THIS DAYS IT IS OVER 200LB ESPECIALLY LITTLE COUNTRY TOWNS IN USA IT IS AVERAGE WEIGHT FOR WOMEN OF 220-240LB,,
this indeed is the situation as result of the food and only the food with hormones coming to play with the horrid food that have hormones in it too,,all come to play at ages 10-20,,after that it is hell to lose the wieght and some do it but it usuall takes living with bodybuilder and a lot of verbal abuse from that bodybuilder that is done out of love believe it or not!
so in conclusion i will tell you this my friend,,
if any american woman follow the diet i gave her,,or follow strict diet,,,many of them as in 90% would lose from 200lb to 130lb in a matter of 3 months!!,,thats how much food has to do with there obsesity and there is no other word for their weight but obesity,,they clal it big i call it obese!
the other 10% have problems and syndroms and health issues developed from the bad eating in their childhood,,,like tyroid,,and all kinda female organs ,,sex organs problems that lead to incease weight,,all this can also be solved if you go to your doctor and get on phentarmine ,,,good birth control to put hormones in place since those women usually dont have regular periods but its always come and go,,,so they need to stabelize the period via good birth control then they start losing weight ,,and ofcourse mild duretic since with women its always a lot of water wieght especially american women,,t3 and clen is optional and can help when the other things are in place in addition to working out regularly and doing cardio for life! since they can not allow themselves not doing it becasue they ate like fat pigs ages 10 -20
ONLY THEN EVERYTHING WILL GO BACK TO WORLD POPULATION NORMAL WEIGHTS OF 110-130LB ,,IT MAY TAKE A YEAR OR 2 BUT IT WILL DROP FROM 200LB BACK TO 130 -140LB WITHIN FIRST YEAR AND FROM THERE EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE,,BOOBS GET SAGGY? GET A BOOB JOB,,MOST WOMEN LOOK SO MUCH BETTER AT THE NEW WEIGHTS AND ALL THE 3 CHINS BECOME ONE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN SO THEY DONT CARE MUCH ABOUT THE BOOBS FOR ANOTHER YEAR AND THEN GO GET A LIFT OR SOMETHING
this! is reality 2008 in america friend,,copy and save because this is the only way to put yuor woman at the normal world wide weight zones
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I'm helping one of Serge's clients who is 225 lbs. lose weight. She wants to lose 90-100 lbs. So far she's lost 30 lbs. I am going to post her before and after pictures on his website after she is done with her transformation. She has a specific health problem and so she needs to put more effort and consideration into making specific diet choices. Her husband is 190 lbs. and looks competition shape right now and we're going to post his pictures too. What is remarkable about him is that he is very patient, has a good sense of humor and is supportive. I think it makes a difference.
I laugh when I read what you write because I'm not fat or married, never have been, but you tell me I'm a "fat ass" and need to "push your tubby ass away from the comfort food and quit blaming your husband for not helping you feel good about yourself." http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=185814.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=185814.0)
There are as many men who drink beer, eat chips and pizza and sit on the couch and do nothing who have the exact same problems as wives out there who are fat. Fat is not a gender specific problem. The main thing that makes a difference in whether someone is willing to make a change is their attitude. A good attitude that does not give up has more chance of being successful.
I didn't know you were a physician.
Where did you go to school? Do you have any specialized degrees in nutrition?
I'm sorry for attacking you earlier, I had no idea you were in such a bad state of affairs. I'm proud of you for admitting your lack of knowledge, although I'm saddened that you would strive to pour that lack of knowledge on to unsuspecting people.
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Easy. The day you're not happy, is the day you walk out.
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this is y i am single still at age 40 dudes! i don't know if i can promise to love a woman the rest of my life, then watch her balloon up to 300lbs as she bears 3 kids at once! ;D
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this is y i am single still at age 40 dudes! i don't know if i can promise to love a woman the rest of my life, then watch her balloon up to 300lbs as she bears 3 kids at once! ;D
Just have made in montana instruct you both on how to softly guide her to weight loss.
Of course, she is not the problem.
You are the problem, so tread lightly in your discussions.....and shame on you for not being attracted to her body so fully covered with the softened mass of adipose.
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You won't live long enough to see your wife get that fat cause she's gonna put arsenic in your coffee and bury your body out back.
Now, now, why all the anger?
All right, I haven't read the thread.......so it might be merited. :P You should post your pics in this thread. I'm sure "I ETA PI" will suddenly get a whole lot more polite.
..............you are a little long-winded for someone who likes you do............
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RIP FAT BRIDE
The only thing Kim Sjostrom wanted more than a real-life reenactment of My Big, Fat Greek Wedding was the Greek-American husband who came with it: Teddy Efkarpides.
By the time the 36-year-old Davie Elementary School teacher married the 43-year-old Sunrise carpenter on Jan. 19 -- three years to the day after their first date -- she had had a Greek-themed bridal shower, gotten a ''Greek by Marriage'' T-shirt and practically memorized the movie, which played while friends did her hair and makeup before the ceremony.
''She couldn't wait,'' Efkarpides says.
The Hollywood version has a happy ending; the South Florida version doesn't. As 60 disbelieving guests looked on, Kimberly Sjostrom Efkarpides crumpled during the first dance at the reception and died in her new husband's arms.
They had been married for less than an hour
Blockages and premature hardening of the arteries, doctors told him. Logically, the wedding guests who knew her well suspected a diabetic complication -- her condition was hardly a secret -- that some sugar could fix.
Please check out the slideshow fellow getbiggers
http://www.miamiherald.com/multimedi...ide/index.html
QUICKERBLADE'S REPORT
You know, this is very sad, i dislike the fat lifestyle, but this is what happens: Live unhealthy lifestyle, especially with diabetes, You will die.. :(
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You won't live long enough to see your wife get that fat cause she's gonna put arsenic in your coffee and bury your body out back.
Or maybe he would just marry someone who doesn't lack willpower.
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You won't live long enough to see your wife get that fat cause she's gonna put arsenic in your coffee and bury your body out back.
My wife is as disgusted by slothfulness and gluttony as I am.
Women don't stay thin for their "man." Women try to stay thin to impress other women. As long as their women are splaying their slits and cooking a few meals, men will put up with a lot of shit.
Fat women that don't realize their laziness should be cause for meekness and feelings of worthlessness are the ones that lose their men.
Why women feel they can lose all self control, stop being agreeable, stop showing love and care, turn into disgusting manatees and then expect their men's feelings and desires to remain unchanged is beyond me.
But, where would the dozens of top women's magazines be if there wasn't a tremendous market for telling worthless slobs that it's "not their fault."
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My wife is as disgusted by slothfulness and gluttony as I am.
Women don't stay thin for their "man." Women try to stay thin to impress other women. As long as their women are splaying their slits and cooking a few meals, men will put up with a lot of shit.
Fat women that don't realize their laziness should be cause for meekness and feelings of worthlessness are the ones that lose their men.
Why women feel they can lose all self control, stop being agreeable, stop showing love and care, turn into disgusting manatees and then expect their men's feelings and desires to remain unchanged is beyond me.
But, where would the dozens of top women's magazines be if there wasn't a tremendous market for telling worthless slobs that it's "not their fault."
sounds like both of you are in incredible shape, you should post pictures.
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we need to see some picks of your fat wives to share in your anger
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My wife is as disgusted by slothfulness and gluttony as I am.
Women don't stay thin for their "man." Women try to stay thin to impress other women. As long as their women are splaying their slits and cooking a few meals, men will put up with a lot of shit.
Fat women that don't realize their laziness should be cause for meekness and feelings of worthlessness are the ones that lose their men.
Why women feel they can lose all self control, stop being agreeable, stop showing love and care, turn into disgusting manatees and then expect their men's feelings and desires to remain unchanged is beyond me.
But, where would the dozens of top women's magazines be if there wasn't a tremendous market for telling worthless slobs that it's "not their fault."
lets put it this way ,,,if a woman gets fat she beter look good fat as in fat boobs and fat ass,,if not she should get to 140lb or under otherwize the typical american male or any male will never be satisfoied with her,,,
*the only dif is if the woman is sick and gain weight due to severe sickness,,other wize i agree with this fella post
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I agree with Squadfather. It's your turn now, I ATE A PIE, to step up to the plate and show pics of you and your wife. I weigh 114 and you say I'm fat. I'm not exactly short, so it'll be interesting to see what you two look like.
You're still not getting it. I never said you're fat. I said you're a moron.
I have no care whether or not you're fat. Your woeful lack of intelligence is why I could never be with you. You can try to convince me that you're beautiful, but I still won't open up your gap.
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Fuck fat bitches and anyones that fat
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You can try to convince me that you're beautiful, but I still won't open up your gap.
ROFL