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Title: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: chainsaw on March 18, 2008, 08:40:37 AM
She Didn't want to go to a restaraunt cause people look at her cause she's fat.
She was lookin for consolment, but I bullshitted enough!
I said well if you'd eat something other than a freakin cheeseburger or pizza
they wouldn't stare.  Hell, you drink cokes that are as big as you're head!
A freakin half gallon double big gulp, and by the way I'm tired of hearin
how you have to lose weight, just stop eating.  Its that easy.
She thinks I don't watch what I eat, I just like chicken breast and fish and
all the other BBing stuff.  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.

I'm sick of it, I'll call it like it is.  I'm tired of fuckin CHRONIC laziness.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Army of One on March 18, 2008, 08:42:20 AM
She Didn't want to go to a restaraunt cause people look at her cause she's fat.
She was lookin for consolment, but I bullshitted enough!
I said well if you'd eat something other than a freakin cheeseburger or pizza
they wouldn't stare.  Hell, you drink cokes that are as big as you're head!
A freakin half gallon double big gulp, and by the way I'm tired of hearin
how you have to lose weight, just stop eating.  Its that easy.
She thinks I don't watch what I eat, I just like chicken breast and fish and
all the other BBing stuff.  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.

I'm sick of it, I'll call it like it is.  I'm tired of fuckin CHRONIC laziness.

Talking to the mirror is Stage 1 of schizophrenia.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: wisconsinBB on March 18, 2008, 08:50:47 AM
YOU TELL THAT BITCH TO BE FAT ON SOMEONE ELSE'S TIME!
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: FrenchFrie on March 18, 2008, 08:52:11 AM
She Didn't want to go to a restaraunt cause people look at her cause she's fat.
She was lookin for consolment, but I bullshitted enough!
I said well if you'd eat something other than a freakin cheeseburger or pizza
they wouldn't stare.  Hell, you drink cokes that are as big as you're head!
A freakin half gallon double big gulp, and by the way I'm tired of hearin
how you have to lose weight, just stop eating.  Its that easy.
She thinks I don't watch what I eat, I just like chicken breast and fish and
all the other BBing stuff.  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.

I'm sick of it, I'll call it like it is.  I'm tired of fuckin CHRONIC laziness.

first mistake here; having a FAT friend.

(except if she plans giving you head and you know it )
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Livewire on March 18, 2008, 08:59:44 AM
yeah, brutal honesty sometimes works
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: gordiano on March 18, 2008, 09:09:48 AM
Sadly....it probably just went over her head..... :-\
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: bodybuilder1234 on March 18, 2008, 09:16:06 AM
I said something to the effect of 'Why are you so scared to lose weight? Men find appearance very important in a woman' to my fat friend. (she is single)
And she responds, 'if a man dosent love me for the way I am, then screw him'...that pissed me off.
I mean, seriously...don't these people look in the mirror?
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Livewire on March 18, 2008, 09:19:21 AM
And she responds, 'if a man dosent love me for the way I am, then screw him'...that pissed me off.

classic defense mechanism here.

no fat girl is happy to be a fat girl.

perhaps use the 'dont you care about your health?' angle.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: bodybuilder1234 on March 18, 2008, 09:22:21 AM
classic defense mechanism here.

no fat girl is happy to be a fat girl.

perhaps use the 'dont you care about your health?' angle.

Well, i told her she wasnt healthy but she seemed to brush it off
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: FrenchFrie on March 18, 2008, 09:23:10 AM
Well, i told her she wasnt healthy but she seemed to brush it off

tell her that you will stop your relationship with her (watehver it is) because he rlack of will and psychological weakness is disgusting and disapoints you .

Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: 4thAD on March 18, 2008, 09:23:29 AM
She Didn't want to go to a restaraunt cause people look at her cause she's fat.
She was lookin for consolment, but I bullshitted enough!
I said well if you'd eat something other than a freakin cheeseburger or pizza
they wouldn't stare.  Hell, you drink cokes that are as big as you're head!
A freakin half gallon double big gulp, and by the way I'm tired of hearin
how you have to lose weight, just stop eating.  Its that easy.
She thinks I don't watch what I eat, I just like chicken breast and fish and
all the other BBing stuff.  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.

I'm sick of it, I'll call it like it is.  I'm tired of fuckin CHRONIC laziness.

Just don't be too hard on her. Make sure you don't destroy her emotionally. Thats no good either.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: FrenchFrie on March 18, 2008, 09:26:51 AM
Just don't be too hard on her. Make sure you don't destroy her emotionally. Thats no good either.
why? 

if she thinks he s wrong, then she'll stop having contact with him , and he ll figure out she s just a dumb weak girl.

He s not losing anything in the process here.

He s basically here to tell her to change, if he wasnt here maybe nobody would do it for her.

How is she suposed to be sucesful in life (work having a family etc) if she doesnt even care about her appearence and health?

Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: The Master on March 18, 2008, 09:34:03 AM
why? 

if she thinks he s wrong, then she'll stop having contact with him , and he ll figure out she s just a dumb weak girl.

He s not losing anything in the process here.

He s basically here to tell her to change, if he wasnt here maybe nobody would do it for her.

How is she suposed to be sucesful in life (work having a family etc) if she doesnt even care about her appearence and health?



fecesinUrFace
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Barracuda on March 18, 2008, 09:43:50 AM
The problem with most obese people is that they try a crash diet for 2 weeks expecting to lose 50lbs and when they don't see immediate results they either drop the whole thing and go back to their old habits or they look for the next fantastic fat loss program.  The key factors are patience and determination even when you don't see results immediately.

One person I knew in college was so determined to lose weight that he would run a couple of miles everyday before class. At first he could barely manage a quarter of a mile and people would snicker when he went jogging. He kept at it and eventually ended up running close to 3-4 miles every morning - rain,snow or shine. He eventually lost a huge amount of weight. Now that was dogged determination.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: 240 is Back on March 18, 2008, 09:48:03 AM
There is an easy solution for fat people.

Don't give them all of that stuff about diet, weights, cardio, LBM, protein grams, etc.  It will only boggle their mond and frustrate them when they take 8 pills at once, try to bench 135 on Day 1, and burn out on cardio in about 2 days.

Solution... tell them to walk.  1 hour.  Every day.  That's it.  Do it anytime you want, just do one hour.  Spoil yourself with an ipod to pass the time.  Talk on the cell with your fat friends.  Don't change your diet a bit, hell, bring a mountain dew with you on the walk if you must.  But walk. 

They'll see slow success without burning out, and they'll then be open to new things like diet and weights.  If they say they don't have one hour to walk, remind them that they'll likely have a heart attack in their late 30s, and it's cruel to leave behind loved ones like that, and walk away from them.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Thin Lizzy on March 18, 2008, 09:48:31 AM
The problem with most obese people is that they try a crash diet for 2 weeks expecting to lose 50lbs and when they don't see immediate results they either drop the whole thing and go back to their old habits or they look for the next fantastic fat loss program.  The key factors are patience and determination even when you don't see results immediately.


Exactly. They can't seem to get it through their heads that what is needed is a lifestyle change.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: wisconsinBB on March 18, 2008, 09:50:33 AM
Tell her she needs to try the PerkiSystem!!!  You can find it at your local fat camp!
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Stavios on March 18, 2008, 09:56:12 AM
tell her to get a lypo
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: chainsaw on March 18, 2008, 11:47:23 AM
Just don't be too hard on her. Make sure you don't destroy her emotionally. Thats no good either.

Thats what I've been doing far too much and nothing changed.
I had to just call it how I see it.  Maybe shell not want to hang out,
Maybe she'll thank me in a year or 2.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Stark on March 18, 2008, 12:00:59 PM
Tell her she needs to try the PerkiSystem!!!  You can find it at your local fat camp!



lol what movie is that from?
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: vonraider on March 18, 2008, 12:09:46 PM
Are you "doing" this fat friend?
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Swedish Viking on March 18, 2008, 12:16:14 PM
I said something to the effect of 'Why are you so scared to lose weight? Men find appearance very important in a woman' to my fat friend. (she is single)
And she responds, 'if a man dosent love me for the way I am, then screw him'...that pissed me off.
I mean, seriously...don't these people look in the mirror?

  Funny, people don't seem to realize that how they look on the outside is often a pretty good reflection of how they look on the inside.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: dr.chimps on March 18, 2008, 12:17:34 PM
She Didn't want to go to a restaraunt cause people look at her cause she's fat.
She was lookin for consolment, but I bullshitted enough!
I said well if you'd eat something other than a freakin cheeseburger or pizza
they wouldn't stare.  Hell, you drink cokes that are as big as you're head!
A freakin half gallon double big gulp, and by the way I'm tired of hearin
how you have to lose weight, just stop eating.  Its that easy.
She thinks I don't watch what I eat, I just like chicken breast and fish and
all the other BBing stuff.  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.

I'm sick of it, I'll call it like it is.  I'm tired of fuckin CHRONIC laziness.
Sounds like there's trouble in the chainsaw relationship.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: wisconsinBB on March 18, 2008, 12:28:47 PM

lol what movie is that from?

Its from the movie "Heavyweights"   Its about a summer camp for fat kids.  Ben Stiller buys the camp and runs it like boot camp.  Its a pretty funny movie.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: saucetradomous on March 18, 2008, 12:36:06 PM
Direct her attention to the "Fat people's lack of willpower is sickening" thread.  That should provide her with some ambition to get working on it.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: tommywishbone on March 18, 2008, 12:37:04 PM
One word............ methanphetamines  (or however it's spelled)
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Croatch on March 18, 2008, 12:45:02 PM
Nothing worse than someone crying about being fat and doing.....NOTHING about it.  If one is unhappy with how they look...fucking change it.  It's very simple.  Expend more energy, consume fewer calories....not for a week or 3 months, but the rest of your life. ;D  I can't imagine complaining about something regarding myself and never changing it, utterly pointless.  I think it's usually a fat person's way of rationalizing their actions, such as:
"Well, I lost 10lbs.  I've been dieting for 2 months."
Translation: I'm going to start eating shitty and cutback on my workouts next week. :o

Personally, I don't care if a person is fat or thin, but for God sakes, quit crying and taking weak measures to get to where you want to be.  Women of course, are the most guilty here.  A girl can be overweight and still get tons of dick, hence the lack of motivation to drop the pounds.  A little chubby isn't so bad, with some big titty that is.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: wolfgang187 on March 18, 2008, 12:50:57 PM
She Didn't want to go to a restaraunt cause people look at her cause she's fat.
She was lookin for consolment, but I bullshitted enough!
I said well if you'd eat something other than a freakin cheeseburger or pizza
they wouldn't stare.  Hell, you drink cokes that are as big as you're head!
A freakin half gallon double big gulp, and by the way I'm tired of hearin
how you have to lose weight, just stop eating.  Its that easy.
She thinks I don't watch what I eat, I just like chicken breast and fish and
all the other BBing stuff.  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.

I'm sick of it, I'll call it like it is.  I'm tired of fuckin CHRONIC laziness.



THAT MIGHT HELP HER, YOU JUST LIGHTED A FIRE UNDER HER FAT ASS, SHE MAY WANT TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT NOW!




GOOD JOB chainsaw
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on March 18, 2008, 12:57:00 PM
I'd hit it.
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Moosejay on March 18, 2008, 04:25:38 PM
There is an easy solution for fat people.

Don't give them all of that stuff about diet, weights, cardio, LBM, protein grams, etc.  It will only boggle their mond and frustrate them when they take 8 pills at once, try to bench 135 on Day 1, and burn out on cardio in about 2 days.

Solution... tell them to walk.  1 hour.  Every day.  That's it.  Do it anytime you want, just do one hour.  Spoil yourself with an ipod to pass the time.  Talk on the cell with your fat friends.  Don't change your diet a bit, hell, bring a mountain dew with you on the walk if you must.  But walk. 

They'll see slow success without burning out, and they'll then be open to new things like diet and weights.  If they say they don't have one hour to walk, remind them that they'll likely have a heart attack in their late 30s, and it's cruel to leave behind loved ones like that, and walk away from them.

very good advice...among the best I've heard
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: candidizzle on March 18, 2008, 04:29:26 PM
way to go!

 im always way too nice to people...and people always want advice on how to lose weight...they think that because i lost weight, i know some secret..lol.. nope, its called diet and cardio fatass!  ;D

but i dont say that..im always like "well, reduce your carbs, eat smaller more frequent meals, and try doing some light exercise. but you really dont need to lose that much weight"..  im a pussy,  lol
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Earl1972 on March 18, 2008, 04:41:15 PM
  I said instead of driving around for 15minutes lookin
for a closer parking spot, just walk in the store for petes sake.



haha why do so many chicks do this? 

they will literally drive around the parking lot for 15 minutes, like a shark stalking its prey

just so they won't have to walk an extra 20 feet ???

E
Title: Re: Had to unleash on a Fat Friend.
Post by: Lurker79 on March 18, 2008, 04:43:39 PM
Nothing worse than someone crying about being fat and doing.....NOTHING about it.  If one is unhappy with how they look...fucking change it.  It's very simple.  Expend more energy, consume fewer calories....not for a week or 3 months, but the rest of your life. ;D  I can't imagine complaining about something regarding myself and never changing it, utterly pointless.  I think it's usually a fat person's way of rationalizing their actions, such as:
"Well, I lost 10lbs.  I've been dieting for 2 months."
Translation: I'm going to start eating shitty and cutback on my workouts next week. :o

Personally, I don't care if a person is fat or thin, but for God sakes, quit crying and taking weak measures to get to where you want to be.  Women of course, are the most guilty here.  A girl can be overweight and still get tons of dick, hence the lack of motivation to drop the pounds.  A little chubby isn't so bad, with some big titty that is.

Just tell them to take steroids ;D