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Chill Sunday for me, my fiance and some friends . It was really nice and warm outside and a pleasure to escape out of the concrete prison. Getting back in touch with nature should be one of or priorities as of may 2008. My friend's dad is a mathematician so we had an interesting conversation on various topics. :)
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what do you polish your head with?
(http://www.auto-geek.net/video-art/images/Porter-Cable-Video-art.jpg)
??? ??? ??? ??? ???
ta ta
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haha you dont look like you have lifted a weight in your life in clothes.
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Chill Sunday for me, my fiance and some friends . It was really nice and warm outside and a pleasure to escape out of the concrete prison. Getting back in touch with nature should be one of or priorities as of may 2008. My friend's dad is a mathematician so we had an interesting conversation on various topics. :)
I don't see anyone that looks like they work out!!!
jesus, does Romania qualify as 3rd world yet?
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what do you polish your head with?
(http://www.auto-geek.net/video-art/images/Porter-Cable-Video-art.jpg)
??? ??? ??? ??? ???
ta ta
mainly spit.
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I don't see anyone that looks like they work out!!!
jesus, does Romania qualify as 3rd world yet?
You joking right ? See my picture post on Romania from a while back .
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If you went BBQing today..why are you posting pics taken a month ago?
Just wondering
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If you went BBQing today..why are you posting pics taken a month ago?
Just wondering
I just got back like an hour ago...maybe the date on the camera is not set right...
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who's the hot chick in pink with one shoe
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Have you stopped working out?
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who's the hot chick in pink with one shoe
My buddy'smom. But she's taken ( by his dad :-\ )
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he just needs to prove us for some reasons he has a family life after the bashing he got, essentially from me.Talk about having virtual people getting into your head bigtime.
Posting pics of your family doesnt mean you're happy . And you're girlfriend isnt really looking good here.
By the way I guess he polishes his cranium with the attention people give him on the internet.
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Have you stopped working out?
yeah, completely.
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he just needs to prove us he has a family life after the bashing he got, essentially from me.
Posting pics of your family doesnt mean you're happy . And you're girlfriend isnt really looking good here.
By the way I guess he polishes his cranium with the attention people give him on the internet.
Hey loser : I ownedyou so badly it still hurts ... doesn't ? Don't make me put a link to that thread....even yur mom was embarrassed by it.
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My buddy'smom. But she's taken ( by his dad :-\ )
cool, good catch
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"chill" "da woods"
It's nice to know they have ghettos in Europe too. Word to ya Mutha.
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"dude" you have the face of someone who runs into troubles with everyone, you're an angry and frustrated individual, seeking for approval on the internet from strangers;
Unhappy with everything in your life ,you are pathetically trying to get attention from complete strangers posting pics of your insignificant life on a daily basis, so who's the loser here, seriously?
Oh yeah, me. Get a clue haha.
Do I need to post my whole life on a messageboard to feel better about myself? no.
How comes "owning" people on the internet is so important to you exactly?
The more people rip on you, the more you post and the more you try to pretend your life is so great, like you have to convince yourself about it.
Dude, you're a complete loser, and you don't even know it.
Keep amusing us like the mentally disturbed loser you are.
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the intensity of the stare resulted on spontaneous spunking from the dome head
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ta ta
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/improving_your_confidence/feature_attention.shtml
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Attention seeking
Attention seeking is as straightforward as it sounds - it's a simple demand for attention! It sounds simple - but as Ros Taylor shows here, the ways that this over-the-top behaviour manifests itself are many and varied.
In this article
Types of behaviour
Positive steps to change this behaviour
Types of behaviour
Some examples to clarify are: the man who complains loudly in a restaurant so that everyone will notice; the girl who wears the skimpiest of outfits on a cold winter night; the mother who sighs loudly and crashes the dinner dishes about so that the family will hear that she's a martyr to domesticity; the child who has a tantrum in the supermarket as his mother ignores him for a second to count her change; the teenager who feigns illness to obtain sympathy. The list is endless.
What characterises this behaviour is that it lacks genuineness.It plays to the gallery. There are telltale signs like the sideways glance to see who's looking, the exaggerated body language, the overly projected tone of voice.
We have concentrated on what is visible to the onlooker - but what's going on inside our heads to produce this over-the-top response?
When we indulge in this behaviour it's generally due to a crisis of confidence. The man in the restaurant might feel that he's a very important person in the community but the staff did not treat him with the deference he deserved. He raises his voice because suddenly he believes he is a man of little note. He sees himself through their eyes - an ageing 'has-been' passed over for the top job. To redress the balance he puffs himself up and shouts for attention.
Positive steps to change this behaviour
Knowing that these thoughts are there is an important first stage in overcoming attention-seeking behaviour. They will be negative thoughts like: "I fear that I'm not good enough, everyone here is better than me", or "I'm not attractive, nobody loves me". You can stop the whole process right there and then by challenging these beliefs with: "Of course I'm good, I'm just as good as the next person" or 'I'm attractive and loveable but I do need to be bolder and chat to people," for example.
But life is life and perhaps we let these thoughts ferment. All is not lost however. You can recognise the feelings that accompany your thoughts and then take action. If you feel undermined, insecure, ignored or unrewarded then be aware of your particular emotional triggers to attention-seeking behaviour. Go back to thoughts that generated the feeling or simply relax and take some time out to examine what is going on.
Finally, what really works is to talk about how you feel to the person or people causing the problem. The mother who's doing far too much for her family needs to negotiate with them to do more. If she cooks they do the dishes. If not, they may have to fend for themselves. This direct approach is far healthier than acting like a martyr or shouting the odds. At least it provides you with the opportunity of finding a solution.
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Attention Seeking Behavior
by Michael Grose
November 27, 2005
Recently a mother came into my office with her healthy ten-year old daughter crawling on all fours. The girl hadn’t been into the office before so she wasn’t coming into an environment that she was familiar with or amongst company she knew. Her mother was exasperated and whined at her to get up and act her age but she ignored her mother and continued to crawl as if she were a baby.
I stayed out of it. However when the girl crawled under one of the desks and was about to become entangled in computer wiring I thought it was time to intervene. Putting on my best authoritarian voice and I asked her to stand up and move away from the desk. Polite but firm was the approach.
She was on her feet in no time. She pushed the limits with her mum but she wasn’t sure about this strange male so she wasn’t taking any chances. She got the message that this was my territory and she needed to act according to my rules.
It always easier to manage kids behaviorally when they are not your own!
So how to help this mother who was clearly exasperated by her daughter’s behavior?
First, let’s figure what the behavior is about. The behavior was attention-seeking and boy did it work! Her mum noticed her! My office manager noticed her! Everyone present focused their attention on her like laser-beams except me who just kept on working. But this smart little girl even found a way to get me to take notice by crawling amongst the computers! Some things you just can’t ignore.
The behavior was also about power as she let her mother know that there was little she could do to stop her. ‘I’ll crawl if I want, where I want’ was the message she gave her mother by her refusal to stop.
So how to react to attention-seeking, you-can’t-stop-me behaviors? Quite simply, change your reaction. Rather than give loads of B-grade attention to behaviors that don’t warrant it minimize the attention that it gets.
Rather than whine at her daughter to get up this mother could have done a quick double-take and retreated to her car to get a forgotten purse or bag. My bet was that in her absence her daughter would have followed her or waited on two legs for her to return. Alternatively, as soon as her daughter refused to get up she could have politely excused herself and said she would be back later leaving her daughter to deal with the consequences of her behavior.
Maybe her mother could have said nothing about her behavior and left it up to the office owner to deal with. This is a difficult option, as most of us believe our children’s behavior reflects on us so we tend to intervene so that we look like responsible parents. No approach is guaranteed to work but when kids continue to get lots of attention for poor behavior and they don’t get much attention for good behavior then they will generally settle for the negative stuff every time.
Misbehavior becomes cyclical. I misbehave therefore I get attention. I want attention therefore I misbehave. The cycle needs to be broken.
Second, this mother probably needs to ensure she gives her daughter sufficient A-grade attention. That is, interacting with her when she is behaves well and also providing plenty of encouragement. Children who generally resort to attention-seeking behaviors are generally discouraged so they need parents who show confidence in their ability and focus their comments on effort, improvement and contribution.
This mother could try the reward option. That is, give her a reward if she behaves well in public however I have a feeling if this happens then she had better be prepared to give lots of rewards as this can quickly become the norm. “No reward, no cooperation" is the response from some hard-nuts I have met.
As always when parents meet with children’s mystifying behavior in public step back and look at the purpose of misbehavior – it will be about attention, power or retaliation every time. Be prepared to change the way you usually behave so that your child doesn’t get the same old reaction. A tough option but a viable one as long as a child’s safety is not jeopardized.
Vitamin for parents – encouraging risk-taking behavior
Taking risks is an important part of life. It also takes courage to take risks. There are three types of risks that children and young people take – dangerous risks, socially challenging risks and growth risks. Dangerous risks include drug taking, riding a bike without a helmet and taking on the neighbor's pit bull terrier to get a wayward football.
Socially challenging risks include those behaviors that can alienate you with different groups. For instance, teacher-baiting can make you a hero with your peers but put a student on the outer with adults.
Growth risks are those behaviors that are not personally dangerous or alienating but put your ego or esteem on the line. You risk failure and maybe even rejection and derision but usually this comes from groups who don’t take risks themselves.
Parents obviously need to steer children away from dangerous risks and socially-challenging risks but not be afraid of children taking growth risks so that they can stretch themselves into new areas.
Every day children meet new situation that require them to take a risk. Many of these are ‘growth risks’ so it is important that parents be aware of these opportunities for growth and encourage children to step out of their comfort zones.
By arrangement with Parenting Ideas
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and I could go on and on....
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If you went BBQing today..why are you posting pics taken a month ago?
Just wondering
hahaha owned ;D
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sevaste is offseason there, no training for six months. eating and drinking everything he wants.
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absolutely the dumbest post ever :(
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Hahahaha - you've just gotta love the way that Sevastase has absolutely no fear when posting any old stuff that's going on in his life. Brilliant. ;D
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maybe he bbqs alot in the woods?
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Hahahaha - you've just gotta love the way that Sevastase has absolutely no fear when posting any old stuff that's going on in his life. Brilliant. ;D
;D ;D ;D
Agreed. It's like a lunatic who just shouts out anything he's thinking, no matter where he is. Or a bum who just stops in the middle of the street and pisses in his pants and then walks away as if nothing unusual just happened.
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btw
28/4 = monday lol
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;D ;D ;D
Agreed. It's like a lunatic who just shouts out anything he's thinking, no matter where he is. Or a bum who just stops in the middle of the street and pisses in his pants and then walks away as if nothing unusual just happened.
LOL! ;D
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btw
28/4 = monday lol
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looks like you had a great time ... cheers mate 8)
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You seriously quit training? Thought you were getting ready for the Ron Avidan Classic?
Jason
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What did you guys eat?
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Chill Sunday for me, my fiance and some friends . It was really nice and warm outside and a pleasure to escape out of the concrete prison. Getting back in touch with nature should be one of or priorities as of may 2008. My friend's dad is a mathematician so we had an interesting conversation on various topics. :)
lol,,,u r the ugliest of em all , ;D
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"dude" you have the face of someone who runs into troubles with everyone, you're an angry and frustrated individual, seeking for approval on the internet from strangers;
Unhappy with everything in your life ,you are pathetically trying to get attention from complete strangers posting pics of your insignificant life on a daily basis, so who's the loser here, seriously?
Oh yeah, me. Get a clue haha.
Do I need to post my whole life on a messageboard to feel better about myself? no.
How comes "owning" people on the internet is so important to you exactly?
The more people rip on you, the more you post and the more you try to pretend your life is so great, like you have to convince yourself about it.
Dude, you're a complete loser, and you don't even know it.
Keep amusing us like the mentally disturbed loser you are.
Nailed 100 fucking %. 8)
Duuuuuuuuuuuude you just got OWNED big time, on get big this time. ;D ;D ;) ;) ;)
PT ~SAI fucking IDA - INNIT.
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You seriously quit training? Thought you were getting ready for the Ron Avidan Classic?
Jason
He had Ron Love training him, didn't you know ??, yeah that's why he weighs 265 lb off season. ;) ::)
PT ~SAI fucking IDA - INNIT.
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;D ;D ;D
Agreed. It's like a lunatic who just shouts out anything he's thinking, no matter where he is. Or a bum who just stops in the middle of the street and pisses in his pants and then walks away as if nothing unusual just happened.
hahaha lol ;D
Of that guy sitting next to you that starts talking randomly about shit going on in his life.
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you guys need to relax. Who cares why he posted his pics... same reason why any of us even post here.
What did you guys eat?
and this is in romania?
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what do you polish your head with?
mainly spit.
I just wanted you to know that despite all our banter, if you ever run dry when polishing your head.
I will stay up all day and all night just to keep you in saliva.
We couldn’t have that head getting a dull sheen to it, now coulod we.
Just call me and i will send you a ticket for Faro airport, & i will spit on your fucking head ALL DAY LONG MATE !!. ;) ;) ;)
PT ~SAI fucking IDA - INNIT.
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you guys need to relax. Who cares why he posted his pics... same reason why any of us even post here.
What did you guys eat?
and this is in romania?
You are on the wrong forum !! ::) ::), if you want to hug trees and be nice, fuck off to muscletalk.co.uk ;D ;D
PT
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you guys need to relax. Who cares why he posted his pics... same reason why any of us even post here.
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Pics were taken a few hours ago, it's sunday, it's almost midnight here in Romania, and we grilled various types of meat, bread ( toast ), I made a salad, my buddy's mom made one. They drank beer. It was a swell afternoon. At night we went to a restaurant and drank some wine and talked....As I said, it was a nice Sunday to relax outside the city in da woods.
I have not trained in months, I'm vegetarian now and I make my own bread daily. I like feeling good and not having to worry about my next meal, I also try to fast as much as I can.
I took my physical exploits to my natural limits, playing competitive tennis, squash, raquetball, and of course bodybuilding which I absolutely loved, basketball ( played for the local team in the first national division for a season in 2005 )\.But this is it.
I am looking forward to developing myself spiritually. And detoxing my body after years of abuse.
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Pics were taken a few hours ago, it's sunday, it's almost midnight here in Romania, and we grilled various types of meat, bread ( toast ), I made a salad, my buddy's mom made one. They drank beer. It was a swell afternoon. At night we went to a restaurant and drank some wine and talked....As I said, it was a nice Sunday to relax outside the city in da woods.
I have not trained in months, I'm vegetarian now and I make my own bread daily. I like feeling good and not having to worry about my next meal, I also try to fast as much as I can.
I took my physical exploits to my natural limits, playing competitive tennis, squash, raquetball, and of course bodybuilding which I absolutely loved, basketball ( played for the local team in the first national division for a season in 2005 )\.But this is it.
I am looking forward to developing myself spiritually. And detoxing my body after years of abuse.
100mg of dbol to weigh 180lbs.
I'd be a vegetarian too.
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"HARDEN THE FUK UP"What does this BBQ have to do with BB and why is it on G&O?????
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;D
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"HARDEN THE FUK UP"What does this BBQ have to do with BB and why is it on G&O?????
BodyBuildingQology....
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I am looking forward to developing myself spiritually. And detoxing my body after years of abuse.
You = wise man.
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Pics were taken a few hours ago, it's sunday, it's almost midnight here in Romania, and we grilled various types of meat, bread ( toast ), I made a salad, my buddy's mom made one. They drank beer. It was a swell afternoon. At night we went to a restaurant and drank some wine and talked....As I said, it was a nice Sunday to relax outside the city in da woods.
I have not trained in months, I'm vegetarian now and I make my own bread daily. I like feeling good and not having to worry about my next meal, I also try to fast as much as I can.
I took my physical exploits to my natural limits, playing competitive tennis, squash, raquetball, and of course bodybuilding which I absolutely loved, basketball ( played for the local team in the first national division for a season in 2005 )\.But this is it.
I am looking forward to developing myself spiritually. And detoxing my body after years of abuse.
dude, does this have anything to do with your lower spine injury?
just wondering.. kinda shocking...
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dude, does this have anything to do with your lower spine injury?
just wondering.. kinda shocking...
Spine Injury? From lifting? I didnt know that. It was always fun talking shit to you, but I hope your allright.
Jason
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mainly spit.
Cock Spit?
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100mg of dbol to weigh 180lbs.
I'd be a vegetarian too.
No my friend. 5 weeks of dbol at 100 mg a day takes me from 180 lbs to 217 lbs. Add test at 250 mg EOD and it takes me to 230 lbs...add deca at 600 mg a week and I get to 240-245 . That's how it worked always for me and it's the staple to add mass . Ask gh15 .
180 lbs
5 weeks of dbol later ... 215 lbs
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I did injure my back but either way I would've stopped bodybuilding and eating like crazy...you guys should try detoxing your bodies sometimes . Here's what I have my clients do :
3 days of nuthin but apples peeled and spring water, at the end of the 3rd day, 50 ml of olive oil. 20 hour fast with nothing but spring water then a colon cleansing. Try it and let me know how you feel. There's literally a ton of bad shit inside you that you need to get out.
( you need to find a spring for water since both tap and bottled water are contaminated with agents that are pounding you psyche into submission )
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I did injure my back but either way I would've stopped bodybuilding and eating like crazy...you guys should try detoxing your bodies sometimes . Here's what I have my clients do :
3 days of nuthin but apples peeled and spring water, at the end of the 3rd day, 50 ml of olive oil. 20 hour fast with nothing but spring water then a colon cleansing. Try it and let me know how you feel. There's literally a ton of bad shit inside you that you need to get out.
( you need to find a spring for water since both tap and bottled water are contaminated with agents that are pounding you psyche into submission )
i take lime lemon juice mixed with tabasco, black pepper and a 1 tea spoon of extra virgin olive oil, 3 times/week @ morning.
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Tabasco and black pepper are anything but detoxing agents....think alkaline not acidic...the simple most effective way is fasting.
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Did he really post a picture of his gf sucking his cock on here, that is so rude lol
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LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLZ...... ...................
PT ~ OUT.
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Pics were taken a few hours ago, it's sunday, it's almost midnight here in Romania, and we grilled various types of meat, bread ( toast ), I made a salad, my buddy's mom made one. They drank beer. It was a swell afternoon. At night we went to a restaurant and drank some wine and talked....As I said, it was a nice Sunday to relax outside the city in da woods.
I have not trained in months, I'm vegetarian now and I make my own bread daily. I like feeling good and not having to worry about my next meal, I also try to fast as much as I can.
I took my physical exploits to my natural limits, playing competitive tennis, squash, raquetball, and of course bodybuilding which I absolutely loved, basketball ( played for the local team in the first national division for a season in 2005 )\.But this is it.
I am looking forward to developing myself spiritually. And detoxing my body after years of abuse.
Sebastian you are a flamers dream !!, LOLZ, it just gets better & better with you, every post is something new.
Well if it's attention you wanted, it's attention you are getting.
That last pic (with the caption) makes you look very good (muffled laughter).
I better not even get into the last line of the quote above.
PT ~OUT
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PT ~SAI fucking IDA - INNIT.
WTF is all that code shit at the end of your posts? ??? I know PT = Pillow talk but whats that other stuff?
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WTF is all that code shit at the end of your posts? ??? I know PT = Pillow talk but whats that other stuff?
Saida = Exit in Portuguese.
Sai fucking ida = sarcasm !! ;)
PT ~ SAIDA.
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I notice this with Europeans who immigrate and live near me. They all set up picnics in parks. What's with that shit? You live in America so you can eat fast food and not deal with messy shit like bugs and trees.
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I notice this with Europeans who immigrate and live near me. They all set up picnics in parks. What's with that shit? You live in America so you can eat fast food and not deal with messy shit like bugs and trees.
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Someof us like nature and living healthy dude...you should give it a try.
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Dude...Why are you wearing Capri pants...Are they hers?...lol
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sevaste is a great athlete.
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I did injure my back but either way I would've stopped bodybuilding and eating like crazy...you guys should try detoxing your bodies sometimes . Here's what I have my clients do :
3 days of nuthin but apples peeled and spring water, at the end of the 3rd day, 50 ml of olive oil. 20 hour fast with nothing but spring water then a colon cleansing. Try it and let me know how you feel. There's literally a ton of bad shit inside you that you need to get out.
( you need to find a spring for water since both tap and bottled water are contaminated with agents that are pounding you psyche into submission )
Dude that sounds to me like a crap your brains out recipe.......
WHY on earth would I want to do that.?
If you just learn moderation in the first place, you wouldn't have let the Body building pendulum swing too far in one direction, and now to correct I think you are letting it swing too far in the other...
Moderation - key to a happy life....
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maybe he bbqs alot in the woods?
I think his pics are real as it gets and pretty cool.
Here in North Georgia, we like to BBQ and then take fat guys into the mudhole and make 'em squeel.