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K, here is the situation. I know a guy whose girlfriend is on a business trip. She loves him to death. HE has a fantasy. That fantasy consists of his girlfriend getting picked up by another guy and her flirting back and seeing where THAT GOES (if you know what I mean). My friend actually disclosed his fantasy to his girlfriend before her tradeshow and he DARED her to be flirty when on her trip (she's ALL by herself on the trip). She asked him what he wants her to do. So, he told her to let go and be loose because it would REALLY turn him on. This girl is VERY loyal to her man and she wants to please him at all costs. She's supposedly also a really sexual person, SO, she said it would be happy with her to indulge in his fantasy. She then asked him what he wanted her limits to be. He then said whatever feels natural and right at the time. She asked him if he was sure and she reassured him that she loves him and wants to please him and SO, she was going to go through with it. As soon as she said this and he KNEW she would for him, he called her back and told her NOT TO. He said it was just a fantasy in his head and while the thought of her being with another man would turn him on, it would also kill him AFTER the fact. She started crying and said of course she wouldn't. She didn't.
Here is my question:
1. WHO is at fault?
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies?
3. Should HE be mad at her?
4. Should he look at her differently now?
5. Please discuss.
Thanks.
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She has already boned guys on her business trips.
Pretty apparent.
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Brutal getting yourself into this sticky situation and saying its your friend.
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1. WHO is at fault? He is
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies? A bit of both, she is supposed to be loyal to her man, but she is getting a free pass for some new c o c k.
3. Should HE be mad at her? He should be mad at himself when she comes back and says this stranger banged her like a drum.
4. Should he look at her differently now? He won't recover
5. Please discuss. He's a fcuktard for letting this happen, I'm a one c o c k per fantasy kind of guy and mine is the star.
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I say you two are some lame ass bitches. Who the fk cares? Baby games and drama make me sick.
1) The GUY is at fault. No matter what...we are always at fault. Bitches are dumb. They'll do anything and everything a G says. Especially if he mistreats her often.
2) They're all TRICKS.
3) Never. Real G's don't get MAD at a bitch. They lay the smack down and get even. Period.
4) No. Look at her the same. A thirsty ass BITCH!
5). Hope this helps. Oh yea, a real P-I-M-P doesn't have a MySpace.
-Block!
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All chicks are whores and will
bang anyone anytime given a situation.
She bangin everyone anyway,
why worry.
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You should probably send me her number.
I would like to have a face to face talk with her and help rectumfy this situation.
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I say you two are some lame ass bitches. Who the fk cares? Baby games and drama make me sick.
1) The GUY is at fault. No matter what...we are always at fault. Bitches are dumb. They'll do anything and everything a G says. Especially if he mistreats her often.
2) They're all TRICKS.
3) Never. Real G's don't get MAD at a bitch. They lay the smack down and get even. Period.
4) No. Look at her the same. A thirsty ass BITCH!
5). Hope this helps. Oh yea, a real P-I-M-P doesn't have a MySpace.
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Best Advice SO FAR!! Thanks Block. Mucho appreciated bro.
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he's an idiot and she's a slut...period..end of story..get lost
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That dude needs a beat down for cyring like a little bitch.
HTH
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GREAT posts so far in this thread.
First up, she's already out there, but plays the so-so-committed role to avert suspicion. But as long as she doesn't bring any shit home, who cares who she's fucking while he's at home banging the nanny??
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Now what you do is you have a heart to heart talk. Tell her the only way to fix this is if she watches you get "loose" with a stranger.
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I say you two are some lame ass bitches. Who the fk cares? Baby games and drama make me sick.
1) The GUY is at fault. No matter what...we are always at fault. Bitches are dumb. They'll do anything and everything a G says. Especially if he mistreats her often.
2) They're all TRICKS.
3) Never. Real G's don't get MAD at a bitch. They lay the smack down and get even. Period.
4) No. Look at her the same. A thirsty ass BITCH!
5). Hope this helps. Oh yea, a real P-I-M-P doesn't have a MySpace.
-Block!
How's that 'trying to be black' thing working out for you, G ?
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Here is my question:
1. WHO is at fault?
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies?
3. Should HE be mad at her?
4. Should he look at her differently now?
5. Please discuss.
Thanks.
He is just an idiot. Plain and simple. If he didn't want her to do it, he shouldn't have told her to. Deep down, he was probably just testing her, and she failed in his mind. So, now what does he do? Does he go on living with a girl that could cheat on him? Is it acceptable for her to do it once? If only once, why not twice?!
One time I was in a band and the leader was nefarious as hell. He said that I made more than he did. Yeah, I GROSSED 9k that year, and he made less? Paying for hotels, gas (back when it was $1.98) and such? Don't think so...not even after all that was paid.
Anyway, I had a chance to look and see how much he really got paid, due to knowing his SS# from the person that did his taxes.
Now, the question becomes "What do you do with the information once you know it?" In my case, I did nothing. Because if I did, he'd smear my name about how I went behind his back, fire me and I'd lose a job. No win situation for me.
Your buddy is an idiot. If it really turned him on, he would have let her go through with it. But his first mistake about giving permission, was allowing her to do it while she was away and he wasn't there to "supervise." If it's such a turn on, he should have watched. Or she should have been smart and just told him someone else fucked her raw. If I didn't mention it prior....your friend is an idiot with an IQ of 53.
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That dude's an idiot, he deserves to come home and see his woman enjoying the fuck of her life, just for him suggesting such shit...
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Everybody who post in this thread is gay.
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I'm not gonna read all that crap.can someone tell me if lesbians were involved?
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Here is my question:
1. WHO is at fault? The dude for bring up the subject
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies? A little bit of both
3. Should HE be mad at her? Only if she did anything AFTER he said not to
4. Should he look at her differently now? No he knows what kind of slut she is anyways
5. Please discuss.
Thanks.
Sounds like homeboy is living in a 'fantasy'
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i used to fuck my buddies girl all the time. bareback in all holes. one time i popped in to fuck her while he was picking up his parents from the airport. i came in her and she told me later that he was eating her pussy within two hours of me dumping my load up her ;D i actually told him in a jokey way and we laughed. he obviously thought i was messing and theyd split up . little does he know that he ate his girls pussy filled with my cum ahahahahhahaha ;D
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Walk away from this mess of a relationship. Start fresh and don't even go there next time.
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K, here is the situation. I know a guy whose girlfriend is on a business trip. She loves him to death. HE has a fantasy. That fantasy consists of his girlfriend getting picked up by another guy and her flirting back and seeing where THAT GOES (if you know what I mean). My friend actually disclosed his fantasy to his girlfriend before her tradeshow and he DARED her to be flirty when on her trip (she's ALL by herself on the trip). She asked him what he wants her to do. So, he told her to let go and be loose because it would REALLY turn him on. This girl is VERY loyal to her man and she wants to please him at all costs. She's supposedly also a really sexual person, SO, she said it would be happy with her to indulge in his fantasy. She then asked him what he wanted her limits to be. He then said whatever feels natural and right at the time. She asked him if he was sure and she reassured him that she loves him and wants to please him and SO, she was going to go through with it. As soon as she said this and he KNEW she would for him, he called her back and told her NOT TO. He said it was just a fantasy in his head and while the thought of her being with another man would turn him on, it would also kill him AFTER the fact. She started crying and said of course she wouldn't. She didn't.
Here is my question:
1. WHO is at fault?
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies?
3. Should HE be mad at her?
4. Should he look at her differently now?
5. Please discuss.
Thanks.
Of course its a "good friend" ::) hahah
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i used to fuck my buddies girl all the time. bareback in all holes. one time i popped in to fuck her while he was picking up his parents from the airport. i came in her and she told me later that he was eating her pussy within two hours of me dumping my load up her ;D i actually told him in a jokey way and we laughed. he obviously thought i was messing and theyd split up . little does he know that he ate his girls pussy filled with my cum ahahahahhahaha ;D
I know you think that cool and all, but in fact you act like a real asshole, men don't do that to each other.
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I know you think that cool and all, but in fact you act like a real asshole, men don't do that to each other.
yea, i was an asshole but this bitch was a slut and he was warned. she used to suck us off in the bathroom while he was drinking at the bar. anyway, what he dont know wont hurt him. he just put me on his car insurance too. lol, he lets me fuck his girl and drive his car ;D
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yea, i was an asshole but this bitch was a slut and he was warned. she used to suck us off in the bathroom while he was drinking at the bar. anyway, what he dont know wont hurt him. he just put me on his car insurance too. lol, he lets me fuck his girl and drive his car ;D
but bro (lol) don't you understand you are not fucking her, you are fucking your best buddy, we men have to stick together, learn how
to control your zipper and not only think with your dick is major important.
you're mucn more of a man to tell that slut to go fuck herself than to "fuck" with your buddy.
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i used to fuck my buddies girl all the time. bareback in all holes. one time i popped in to fuck her while he was picking up his parents from the airport. i came in her and she told me later that he was eating her pussy within two hours of me dumping my load up her ;D i actually told him in a jokey way and we laughed. he obviously thought i was messing and theyd split up . little does he know that he ate his girls pussy filled with my cum ahahahahhahaha ;D
bulshit your a cumswallowing homo, nice try
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Walk away from this mess of a relationship. Start fresh and don't even go there next time.
Why would you consider it a mess?? Nothing happened on her part. When he called her back (when HE had second thoughts) and told her that he changed his mind, she started crying and said she won't and that she was only going to do it in the first place, to live out HIS fantasy, NOT hers. She's supposedly ashamed of herself for having entertained the idea NOW that it is all said and done. She knows he feels like an idiot for having brought it up initially, but supposedly SHE feels like an even bigger idiot slut, for almost having gone along with it. She doesn't ever want to talk about it again, because of the way it makes her feel about herself, which is like dog shit.
Why would he end it with her, when he was the idiot to start out with and NOTHING happened anyway (even though it was because of HIM that nothing happened)?
Anwyays, thanks for everyones contributions.
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Why would you consider it a mess?? Nothing happened on her part. When he called her back (when HE had second thoughts) and told her that he changed his mind, she started crying and said she won't and that she was only going to do it in the first place, to live out HIS fantasy, NOT hers. She's supposedly ashamed of herself for having entertained the idea NOW that it is all said and done. She knows he feels like an idiot for having brought it up initially, but I supposedly SHE feels like an even bigger idiot slut, for almost having gone along with it. She doesn't ever want to talk about it again, because of the way it makes her feel about herself, which is like dog shit.
Why would he end it with her, when he was the idiot to start out with and NOTHING happened anyway (even though it was because of HIM that nothing happened)?
Anwyays, thanks for everyones contributions.
its all perception ...if i had a cake and said you can eat it but you never ate it but would, can i seriously call you a fat ass ? even when you didnt have cake ? ....couch fatty cough
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Everybody who post in this thread is gay.
thank for that admission
Why would you consider it a mess?? Nothing happened on her part. When he called her back (when HE had second thoughts) and told her that he changed his mind, she started crying and said she won't and that she was only going to do it in the first place, to live out HIS fantasy, NOT hers. She's supposedly ashamed of herself for having entertained the idea NOW that it is all said and done. She knows he feels like an idiot for having brought it up initially, but supposedly SHE feels like an even bigger idiot slut, for almost having gone along with it. She doesn't ever want to talk about it again, because of the way it makes her feel about herself, which is like dog shit.
Why would he end it with her, when he was the idiot to start out with and NOTHING happened anyway (even though it was because of HIM that nothing happened)?
Anwyays, thanks for everyones contributions.
she needs counseling to see why her self esteem is so low that she would even consider it if it really was against her will
its a fantasy that should stay a fantasy what if she would have gone through with it and caught a disease
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its all perception ...if i had a cake and said you can eat it but you never ate it but would, can i seriously call you a fat ass ? even when you didnt have cake ? ....couch fatty cough
By the same token, if you tell someone to kill for you and they would never have thought of doing that on their own, until you told them to kill for you and they are going to go through with it and then you change your mind and tell them NOT to do it and they don't, are they STILL a killer, even though they didn't commit the crime.
I guess the questions are: Should they have had enough common sense and morals to have decided on their OWN that it would have been wrong to go through with it, rather then being told not to?
Again, is this the DEVOTION to her man, wanting to live out HIS fantasy (knowing the idea didn't come from her), or is it a slut who is being given the green flag to fuck around without incurring any penalties (only rewards in this case) for having done so?
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thank for that admission
she needs counseling to see why her self esteem is so low that she would even consider it if it really was against her will
its a fantasy that should stay a fantasy what if she would have gone through with it and caught a disease
Well, she wasn't exactly held at gun point. Her exact words were: "I wouldn't do it if I wasn't comfortable with it". So, she was a willing participant, even though it was NOT her idea to start out with.
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Why would you consider it a mess?? Nothing happened on her part. When he called her back (when HE had second thoughts) and told her that he changed his mind, she started crying and said she won't and that she was only going to do it in the first place, to live out HIS fantasy, NOT hers. She's supposedly ashamed of herself for having entertained the idea NOW that it is all said and done. She knows he feels like an idiot for having brought it up initially, but supposedly SHE feels like an even bigger idiot slut, for almost having gone along with it. She doesn't ever want to talk about it again, because of the way it makes her feel about herself, which is like dog shit.
Why would he end it with her, when he was the idiot to start out with and NOTHING happened anyway (even though it was because of HIM that nothing happened)?
Anwyays, thanks for everyones contributions.
if you're just having fun, by all means, mix it up.
But if you're trying to build a longterm relationship, you can't introduce shit like that into the mix.
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i used to fuck my buddies girl all the time. bareback in all holes. one time i popped in to fuck her while he was picking up his parents from the airport. i came in her and she told me later that he was eating her pussy within two hours of me dumping my load up her ;D i actually told him in a jokey way and we laughed. he obviously thought i was messing and theyd split up . little does he know that he ate his girls pussy filled with my cum ahahahahhahaha ;D
Heartless. You're the kind of guy who'd steal his friend's wallet and then spend all day helping him look for it.
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Heartless. You're the kind of guy who'd steal his friend's wallet and then spend all day helping him look for it.
LMAO... then lend the guy $10 of his own money to buy himself lunch...
then ask him on Friday for the $10 he owes you.
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1. WHO is at fault? whats there to be "at fault" for ?
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies? The latter
3. Should HE be mad at her? What the fuck? why would he have any right to be mad at her ???
4. Should he look at her differently now? what?? wy??? he asked her to do it and she said yes then he said dont do it and she said no
5. Please discuss.
it seems to me like the dude is fucked up in the head and also is making this out to be something bad or more than it is
Thanks.
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benz told me to send this message to danimal77 (he's now in timeout):
danimal77 is a pussy and a liar
http://www.connectingsingles.com/free-dating-danimal77.htm
Also he said he's gonna pay him a visit at 5821 chemin de la cote
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Hi Benz ;)
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Hi Benz ;)
hello cartel, i´m a gimmick but not benzino's :P
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hello cartel, i´m a gimmick but not benzino's :P
Tell Benz he is missed :'(
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Tell Benz he is missed :'(
He's checking right now as Guest , waiting for another meltdown from "Danimal77" ;D
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yea, i was an asshole but this bitch was a slut and he was warned. she used to suck us off in the bathroom while he was drinking at the bar. anyway, what he dont know wont hurt him. he just put me on his car insurance too. lol, he lets me fuck his girl and drive his car ;D
so lets see...
you don't own your own car and need to be on someone else's insurance...?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHA
LOSER.
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lol at this thread ;D
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so lets see...
you don't own your own car and need to be on someone else's insurance...?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHA
LOSER.
I do own my own car. I'm also insured to drive 3 other people's cars. See there you go jumping to conclusions and thinking that everyone is a deadbeat who spends all day on here talking cybertrash, like you HAHAHAH ;D
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I do own my own car. I'm also insured to drive 3 other people's cars. See there you go jumping to conclusions and thinking that everyone is a deadbeat who spends all day on here talking cybertrash, like you HAHAHAH ;D
It does seem like you are a freeloading, backstabbing son of a bitch though.
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It does seem like you are a freeloading, backstabbing son of a bitch though.
Hell yes I am, but I do own my own car ;D What he dont know dont hurt and he was warned . He knew she had a history. Only recently he was saying that he should never have had a relationship with here. I know that two of my friends also banged her. She was the one that made it happen. Always ringing me for sex and wanting to screw. I just obliged ;D
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Karma's a bitch.
Watch out.
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It does seem like you are a freeloading, backstabbing son of a bitch though.
well he says he's not, so it must be true.
::)
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K, here is the situation. I know a guy whose girlfriend is on a business trip. She loves him to death. HE has a fantasy. That fantasy consists of his girlfriend getting picked up by another guy and her flirting back and seeing where THAT GOES (if you know what I mean). My friend actually disclosed his fantasy to his girlfriend before her tradeshow and he DARED her to be flirty when on her trip (she's ALL by herself on the trip). She asked him what he wants her to do. So, he told her to let go and be loose because it would REALLY turn him on. This girl is VERY loyal to her man and she wants to please him at all costs. She's supposedly also a really sexual person, SO, she said it would be happy with her to indulge in his fantasy. She then asked him what he wanted her limits to be. He then said whatever feels natural and right at the time. She asked him if he was sure and she reassured him that she loves him and wants to please him and SO, she was going to go through with it. As soon as she said this and he KNEW she would for him, he called her back and told her NOT TO. He said it was just a fantasy in his head and while the thought of her being with another man would turn him on, it would also kill him AFTER the fact. She started crying and said of course she wouldn't. She didn't.
Here is my question:
1. WHO is at fault?
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies?
3. Should HE be mad at her?
4. Should he look at her differently now?
5. Please discuss.
Thanks.
Wow. How old is this "guy"?
Silly fucking games.... :-\
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1. WHO is at fault?
It's not about fault. Human sexuality is a weird and warped thing. As regards a sexual fantasy, no one is to blame.
2. Is she a slut, or just a girl who wants to fulfill her man's sexual desires and fantasies?
Neither. You're oversimplifying things and missing the point.
3. Should HE be mad at her?
No. Being angry at her for agreeing to indulge his fantasy is unfair. Believing she never fantasized about fucking someone else until now is naive.
4. Should he look at her differently now?
Relationships adapt to incorporate changes. Solid relationships grow stronger, poor ones grow weaker.
Is the relationship a happy one or does "your friend" want to see it end? Or has he recently discovered that he gets off on humiliation and it's freaking him out?
The important thing is not to be judgemental about fantasies. Everyone has warped ones whether they're willing to admit it or not. Sexuality touches a lot of aspects of being, including darker ones like violence and destruction (of others or yourself). Just try not to panic, be glad you can discuss these things with the woman, and realize that you don't have to act on every fantasy if its risks or downsides are excessive.