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Title: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: dj181 on July 01, 2008, 12:58:27 PM
that's if they are both straight...
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Stu on July 01, 2008, 12:59:14 PM
"Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?"

Yes, if there is fucking invovled.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: bigmc on July 01, 2008, 12:59:57 PM
yes if the woman is related to the man

or the bitch is ugly
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: candidizzle on July 01, 2008, 01:00:24 PM
maybe, but who wants to hang out with a chick??

that shit aint fun,
unless their is some touching and feeling and rubbing and things going on of course  :D
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: candidizzle on July 01, 2008, 01:01:29 PM
yes if the woman is related to the man

or the bitch is ugly
i dont ever hang out with female relatives
females got nothing to say thats interesting
just noise, useless gossip; stupid shallow shit


ugly girls make me disgusted
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2008, 01:15:09 PM
Depends on the girl, I think. 

Most of my friends are guys.  (save it, debussey, it's played out ::))
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: MB_722 on July 01, 2008, 01:17:07 PM
Depends on the girl, I think. 

Most of my friends are guys.  (save it, debussey, it's played out ::))

LOL

why are women too catty?
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: _bruce_ on July 01, 2008, 01:18:11 PM
If you're not interested in her - maybe.
Friends in a way of knowing each other but not hanging out... etc.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Army of One on July 01, 2008, 01:19:20 PM
Depends on the girl, I think. 

Most of my friends are guys.  (save it, debussey, it's played out ::))


Thats just means you have an insatiable craving for more than one cock, we established this in the lies women tell thread.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: _bruce_ on July 01, 2008, 01:20:46 PM
Depends on the girl, I think. 

Most of my friends are guys.  (save it, debussey, it's played out ::))


Is Alex one of your friends?
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2008, 01:22:21 PM
LOL

why are women too catty?


Some are definitely too catty.  But in general, I think there are "guy's girls" and "girl's girls" out there.  

Guy's girls hang with the guys.  Girl's girls hang with the girls.  I'm a guy's girl.   8)
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Army of One on July 01, 2008, 01:24:14 PM
I'm a guy's girl.   8)

Translation: I like more than one cock per week.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: candidizzle on July 01, 2008, 01:25:38 PM
okay i admit there was one female who i did hang out with as a friend...and she was this kind of girl who hung out with mostly guys.... she played alot of sports and she would always be talking about sex with me..  so really it wasnt like a female at all though it was more like a dude who just happened to have vagina..

Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Earl1972 on July 01, 2008, 01:26:42 PM
I don't think they can be TRUE friends if both are straight

if they aren't fooling around together they will use each other for something like attention or social proof

E
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2008, 01:26:59 PM
okay i admit there was one female who i did hang out with as a friend...and she was this kind of girl who hung out with mostly guys.... she played alot of sports and she would always be talking about sex with me..  so really it wasnt like a female at all though it was more like a dude who just happened to have vagina..




That's a guy's girl!  That's the kind of girl you want to marry!  
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Army of One on July 01, 2008, 01:28:47 PM

That's a guy's girl!  That's the kind of girl you want to marry! 


thats the kind of woman you avoid at all costs, "why do you always complain when I go out with my 50 guy friends....." leads to "Look he's just a friend, thats why I see him 5 nights a week and you 2" which leads to "I need my space". The chance of a woman cheating rises massively with each male "friend" she has, if the woman is even remotely hot then all those male "friends" want to fuck her.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: candidizzle on July 01, 2008, 01:28:54 PM

That's a guy's girl!  That's the kind of girl you want to marry!  

i would like to marry a girl who is hot, rich, worships me, lets me sit at home all day and do nothing but workout and eat and sleep and post on getbig, and a female who is a fantastic cook who does all my meals the night prior..  a female who has an insatiable sex drive ..  :D

i would only MARRY this kind of girl
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2008, 01:32:13 PM
i would like to marry a girl who is hot, rich, worships me, lets me sit at home all day and do nothing but workout and eat and sleep and post on getbig, and a female who is a fantastic cook who does all my meals the night prior..  a female who has an insatiable sex drive ..  :D

i would only MARRY this kind of girl


Let me guess... you are single?  ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Croatch on July 01, 2008, 01:32:21 PM
maybe, but who wants to hang out with a chick??

that shit aint fun,
unless their is some touching and feeling and rubbing and things going on of course  :D
Yeah.  Women aren't really that funny or interesting.  Unless you're doing them, really, kind of pointless. ;)
Sometimes when a woman cracks a joke, I can't help but laugh at how UNfunny they're were made...haah
So, impossible to be friends with a hot female...unless you're some guy who's playing the friend card and waiting for someone else to finish up with her.  Even that, I would never do.  It's on from the start or forget it. :-\
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: candidizzle on July 01, 2008, 01:32:53 PM

Let me guess... you are single?  ;)

stop hitting on me, rip.
 8)
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: G o a t b o y on July 01, 2008, 01:35:06 PM
"Friends with benefits", sure.   Other than that, no.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: dj181 on July 01, 2008, 01:37:15 PM
If you're not interested in her - maybe.
Friends in a way of knowing each other but not hanging out... etc.

i tend to agree with you, and if you do start hanging out with each other then it definitely can get more difficult to remain only "friends" because it's that much easier for other things to interfear with your "friendship"
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: calfzilla on July 01, 2008, 01:38:06 PM
Only if she is ugly or one of your buddies girlfriend.  But even though, you shouldn't be friends with too many ugly chicks because that's not how you should be representing yourself.  It is pointless to be friends with an attractve female if you are not fucking her.  I will not tolerate it, why would you put yourself through that?  
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: dj181 on July 01, 2008, 01:44:42 PM
It is pointless to be friends with an attractve female if you are not fucking her.  I will not tolerate it, why would you put yourself through that?  
what about if she is really smart and deep? yeah, i know most you fellas think that chicks aren't smart or deep, but some of them are... believe me ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: _bruce_ on July 01, 2008, 01:45:43 PM
Only if she is ugly or one of your buddies girlfriend.  But even though, you shouldn't be friends with too many ugly chicks because that's not how you should be representing yourself.  It is pointless to be friends with an attractve female if you are not fucking her.  I will not tolerate it, why would you put yourself through that?  

Quite a delicate issue - these m/f "friendships".
Agree... as a guy with some self-esteem being  friends with a female who's in her best years and looking hot is a no-no.


Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: saucetradomous on July 01, 2008, 01:46:37 PM
Gayer than this statement...

what about if she is really smart and deep? yeah, i know most you fellas think that chicks aren't smart or deep, but some of them are... believe me ;)
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Monster_Everything on July 01, 2008, 01:47:17 PM
I used to think this was impossible but i had ended up working with some chick on projects at work and we both have the same humor, she is ugly as hell but a cool ass person. I guess im growing up huh ?
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Army of One on July 01, 2008, 01:48:24 PM
Only if she is ugly or one of your buddies girlfriend. But even though, you shouldn't be friends with too many ugly chicks because that's not how you should be representing yourself.  It is pointless to be friends with an attractve female if you are not fucking her.  I will not tolerate it, why would you put yourself through that? 

HAHA, you cant care about your self image that much can you?
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: candidizzle on July 01, 2008, 01:51:23 PM
i dont think it works like that actually

i think females dont know how attractive or unattractive they actually are.

seeing you with any female, as long as they are not like truly hideous, will only be positive thing.

its like bodybuilders comparing other dudes physique to our own...   i can see a 160 lb ecto 15 year old and think to myself " damn ! my genetics suck ass that kid is as muscular as am i ! ", then 2 minutes later see a 260 lb juiced up national level competitor and thin to myself " damn ! i am almost as big as he is, hes not that big really, i could compete on his level no problem ! "   ;D

i think thats how it is for girls to..
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Ron on July 01, 2008, 01:54:31 PM

Of course they can be friends... you remind me of the Billy Crystal movie...

It is all on how secure and happy you are in your own life.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2008, 01:55:25 PM
Of course they can be friends... you remind me of the Billy Crystal movie...

It is all on how secure and happy you are in your own life.



Ron and I are friends.  :)

Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: The Master on July 01, 2008, 01:56:25 PM

Ron and I are friends.  :)




That's because you're technically a man. We all know Ron bang hot fitness chicks.

 :D
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Moosejay on July 01, 2008, 01:57:29 PM
As long as the possibility for sex exists...there can be NO friends
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: _bruce_ on July 01, 2008, 01:57:35 PM

That's because you're technically a man. We all know Ron bang hot fitness chicks.

 :D

 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2008, 02:02:09 PM

That's because you're technically a man. We all know Ron bang hot fitness chicks.

 :D


Well, you are technically a Norwegian basement dwelling little bitch obsessed with a D list actor...so I guess in the grand scheme of things, I'm still doing better than you!  Now go fetch!  :D


Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Army of One on July 01, 2008, 02:03:57 PM

Ron and I are friends.  :)



....and you can bet Ron has thought about fucking you or has jerked off over your pictures.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: The Master on July 01, 2008, 02:04:55 PM

Well, you are technically a Norwegian basement dwelling little bitch obsessed with a D list actor...so I guess in the grand scheme of things, I'm still doing better than you!  Now go fetch!  :D





It seems like you are finally coming to terms with the simple fact that you = a transexual freak (named SlimJim), leaning more towards "man" than "woman". Debussey = happy for you coming to terms with who you are, and your platonic friendship with Yaroni :-*
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Earl1972 on July 01, 2008, 03:09:47 PM
I used to think this was impossible but i had ended up working with some chick on projects at work and we both have the same humor, she is ugly as hell but a cool ass person. I guess im growing up huh ?

this isn't the same thing, you are forced to interact with her due to work

if one of you leaves this job, will you keep in touch?

E
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: bigmikecox on July 01, 2008, 03:24:21 PM
LMFAO!!!  NO >:(
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: kyomu on July 01, 2008, 03:28:27 PM
Yes. I have only one and she is very ugly. But we talk hours and hours.
Other female friends are all related to sexual aspects.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Figo on July 01, 2008, 03:34:39 PM
Its only a matter of time till the guy accidentally slips, and lands cock-first between her coincidentally open legs.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: wes on July 01, 2008, 03:35:53 PM
I guess im growing up huh ?
Doubtful !!
 ::)
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: 240 is Back on July 01, 2008, 03:40:20 PM
not possible.

both parties will say it is.

and within 7 days, one of the parties will be completely solidified that "this is just for friendship or sex and I never want to date this person"

and within 7 days, the other party (her) will be completely solidified in her thinking that "giving him sex means he'll fall for me... we're going to make the best couple".
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Thin Lizzy on July 01, 2008, 03:41:34 PM
i dont ever hang out with female relatives
females got nothing to say thats interesting
just noise, useless gossip; stupid shallow shit


Apparently, you've met my mother and sister :'(
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: kyomu on July 01, 2008, 03:43:34 PM
Of course they can be friends... you remind me of the Billy Crystal movie...

It is all on how secure and happy you are in your own life.

Well This is not BBing related topic...
But good thread huh? ;D
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: ibfasport on July 01, 2008, 04:02:18 PM
the answer to the question is NO
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Cap on July 01, 2008, 04:34:48 PM

Some are definitely too catty.  But in general, I think there are "guy's girls" and "girl's girls" out there. 

Guy's girls hang with the guys.  Girl's girls hang with the girls.  I'm a guy's girl.   8)
You know I like you Rip but this trend has seriously fucked the dating world in my generation.

Watch "When Harry Met Sally"...they couldn't just be friends.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: FLYLO on July 01, 2008, 04:52:03 PM
Some divorces end in better friendship.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Man of Steel on July 01, 2008, 04:58:42 PM
It is possible for woman to be friends with a man.  It is impossible for a man to be friends with woman.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: bebop396 on July 01, 2008, 05:27:26 PM
Ive never had one girl as a friend that i didnt want to screw....If your sitting there wondering what she looks like naked while she is talking about her problems, then i guess you are not much of a friend....

Any man that says otherwise, is a liar....And dont bring up that maturity stuff....The maturity factor only comes into play in a professional nature, like a job....Even in those times its not possible most the time....Doctors treating patients? Doctors see so much stuff that they get immune i think....

You want proof for yourself? After you have had your mature one on one talk with your female friend, and she walks away, do you look at her ass? BE HONEST!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: kh300 on July 01, 2008, 05:30:44 PM
neve had a female friend. just girls i havnt fucked yet
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: FLYLO on July 01, 2008, 05:35:10 PM
Ive never had one girl as a friend that i didnt want to screw....If your sitting there wondering what she looks like naked while she is talking about her problems, then i guess you are not much of a friend....

Any man that says otherwise, is a liar....And dont bring up that maturity stuff....The maturity factor only comes into play in a professional nature, like a job....Even in those times its not possible most the time....Doctors treating patients? Doctors see so much stuff that they get immune i think....

You want proof for yourself? After you have had your mature one on one talk with your female friend, and she walks away, do you look at her ass? BE HONEST!!!!!!!!!

....or look at her titties while she's yapping.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: Dballn247 on July 01, 2008, 05:36:14 PM
What does this thread have to do with guys in thongs? Should the thread creator not be put in timeout?  ???
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: bebop396 on July 01, 2008, 05:37:57 PM
What does this thread have to do with guys in thongs? Should the thread creator not be put in timeout?  ???

If i recall right, you get a warning first....
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: tu_holmes on July 01, 2008, 05:38:48 PM
If you're not interested in her - maybe.
Friends in a way of knowing each other but not hanging out... etc.


I agree with bruce... FTW.
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: G o a t b o y on July 01, 2008, 05:44:41 PM
What does this thread have to do with guys in thongs? Should the thread creator not be put in timeout?  ???


Damn good point!   


Yaroni!


"dj181" needs a Time-Out.  Clearly this thread is not about oiled men in thongs, as per your edict.  >:(
Title: Re: Is it possible for a man and woman to just be friends?
Post by: genrommel74 on July 01, 2008, 09:13:41 PM
casual friends yes, but not good friends, even if you are comfortable in your relationships. Eventually you will start thinking "what if"