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Okay currently I live in an apartment with two roomates and our lease is up in august. The truth is I almost never stay there but sleep at my girlfriends house nearly every night. Her parents are letting her use her grandmothers house free of rent because she is in a nursing home and they don't feel like selling the house.
Im thinking that when my lease is up just staying there because no rent would kick ass until I finish school. Only problem is her parents are old fashion and if they found out I was staying there they would probably be pretty pissed. They almost never come over, about a 40 minute drive from their place and they are pretty old, but there has been a couple of times I had to leave early because her mom was coming over in the morning.
Long story short, you guys think it is worth it?
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If you like this girl and see any future with her respect her parents. Don't be a mooch. Get your own place and be a man.
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Yes
You can buy once of those dressers made of cloth and held together by aluminum rods and velcro at the Home Depot and it's purpose would be hide your ass during an emergency. You could stock it with the essentials: beer, canned tuna, light mayo, and quaker instant oatmeal and several 1 gallon water jugs
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Yes
You can buy once of those dressers made of cloth and held together by aluminum rods and velcro at the Home Depot and it's purpose would be hide your ass during an emergency. You could stock it with the essentials: beer, canned tuna, light mayo, and quaker instant oatmeal and several 1 gallon water jugs
Classic call ;D
Have u given a thought to where ur gonna bang all the random pussy that comes the way of the getbig stud living in his own apartment?
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sleeping some place and living there are different things..living with someone means that you will actively take part in the household duties. And this my friend is where everything changes, and this may cause a strain on the relationship.
technically this would be her place and you would be the free loading guest that never leaves.
do a test run..trying living with her until your lease is up.
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If you like this girl and see any future with her respect her parents. Don't be a mooch. Get your own place and be a man.
I could do that, but the way me and her see it is that we have been together 2 years and do plan to get married, right now though we are really poor, Im in nursing school and she is getting her Masters in education to teach college, so neither one of us works full time.
If I get my own place I would have to go back to working full time just to pay the rent, and trying to find time to study is a bitch when you put in 40+ hours.
I don't want to disrespect her parents, but at the end of the day I have to do what's best for me and her right? And for us it is best if we finish school so we're not broke, than I won't have to waste my time robbing chiropracters when they go to their bank.
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I could do that, but the way me and her see it is that we have been together 2 years and do plan to get married, right now though we are really poor, Im in nursing school and she is getting her Masters in education to teach college, so neither one of us works full time.
If I get my own place I would have to go back to working full time just to pay the rent, and trying to find time to study is a bitch when you put in 40+ hours.
I don't want to disrespect her parents, but at the end of the day I have to do what's best for me and her right? And for us it is best if we finish school so we're not broke, than I won't have to waste my time robbing chiropracters when they go to their bank.
Then hit the Home Depot to make your temporary hiding bunker, dummy
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yes. when they catch you tell them you stay in the basement.
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Classic call ;D
Have u given a thought to where ur gonna bang all the random pussy that comes the way of the getbig stud living in his own apartment?
I guess I can bang them in my home depot closet/hideaway when my girl goes to school.
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Better to keep your own place - just in case. Call it a refuge, or a fallback in case things don't go right - ie. until you get serious or her parents come around.
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don't do it...after a couple of more months you will get bored with that girl
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Why on earth people come on here asking for getbiggers "perspective" is beyond me?
People that ask for life advice oh here scare me.
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Why on earth people come on here asking for getbiggers "perspective" is beyond me?
People that ask for life advice oh here scare me.
Why? Getbig has the largest stable of intelligent, good looking, financially successful people in the entire world.
The real question is why doesn't everyone use Getbig to answer all of lifes tough questions.
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just move in with your girlfriends....girlfrien d & get it over with
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maybe you can do g4p it has worked for others, why not you
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I guess I can bang them in my home depot closet/hideaway when my girl goes to school.
That is a great idea, discreet, space saving and energy efficient, great for giving post coital dutch ovens in as well....however, you will need to add a few more essential items to the camel jockey comesable list of beer, canned tuna, light mayo, and quaker instant oatmeal and several 1 gallon water jugs
You need to add Ky gel, assorted porn mags(get urself in the mood), kleenex wipes, viagra and antibiotics(you never know where half the sluts come from that tend to impale themselves on the getbiggers adventure cigar) and u dont wanna pass on anything nasty to ur girl, cause then u can surely kiss the free room n board goodbye.
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Okay, I live in an apartment with two roomates and our lease is up in August. I almost never stay there but sleep at my girlfriend's house nearly every night. Her parents are letting her use her grandmother's house free of rent because she is in a nursing home and they don't feel like selling the house.
I'm thinking that when my lease is up, I may stay there because no rent would kick ass until I finish school. The only problem is that her parents are old-fashioned; if they found out I was staying there they would probably be pissed. They almost never come over, as the house is about a 40 minute drive from their place, and they are pretty old. However, there has been a couple of occasions that I had to leave early because her mom came over in the morning.
Long story short, you guys think it is worth it?
I have taken the liberty of editing your post for both grammar and brevity. As far as your dilemma goes, pull a Jack Tripper and tell the parents that you're gay, (which may not be a stretch), and you may find yourself in everybody's good graces.
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Donna and David went through the same exact thing, except they had Kelly for a third roommate. Mr. Pitts had no problem with it, nor did Davids dad and Kellys mom. The problem was Felice Martin, they hid it from her for a while, but she eventually found out and it wasn't pretty. Your best bet is to be honest about it with her parents from the start.
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i didn't read the question, but my answer would be to up the dosage and lower carbs after 7 pm.
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yes if you love her
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yes if you love her
there is nothing like "love"
you can only have a crush for let's say 1-2 years
after that the bitch gets boring
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I don't want to disrespect her parents, but at the end of the day I have to do what's best for me and her right? And for us it is best if we finish school so we're not broke, than I won't have to waste my time robbing chiropracters when they go to their bank.;D
If you respect the parents, then you will be a man. If you really feel you have earned the privilege of staying there (rent free or even a couple hundred a month), you would ask them to stay there.
Put an offer on the table to them to think about. Don't be a cheap bastard, and don't undercut them. If houses in the area are going for $500, don't offer a $100 for use of the whole place.
Make it worth their time and money. If the two of you have been dating for 2+ years and plan on marriage, they most likely won't mind if you are wise about it.
Present your case well and you could be surprised at the results.
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If you respect the parents, then you will be a man. If you really feel you have earned the privilege of staying there (rent free or even a couple hundred a month), you would ask them to stay there.
Put an offer on the table to them to think about. Don't be a cheap bastard, and don't undercut them. If houses in the area are going for $500, don't offer a $100 for use of the whole place.
Make it worth their time and money. If the two of you have been dating for 2+ years and plan on marriage, they most likely won't mind if you are wise about it.
Present your case well and you could be surprised at the results.
The only thing you need to respect is the power of the booty. You need to get the panties around her ankles, as well as free use of the coffee maker, washing machine, heat, a/c etc...parents be damned!
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Classic call ;D
Have u given a thought to where ur gonna bang all the random pussy that comes the way of the getbig stud living in his own apartment?
Hahahah great Post man! hahahaha i got kicked outta my apartment for noise and had to move in with my girlfriend i coulda gave to shits i got kicked out. I just was worried what the fuck i was gonna do with my side pussy. Had to find chicks with there own cribs cause my car is a small two door.
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Okay currently I live in an apartment with two roomates and our lease is up in august. The truth is I almost never stay there but sleep at my girlfriends house nearly every night. Her parents are letting her use her grandmothers house free of rent because she is in a nursing home and they don't feel like selling the house.
Im thinking that when my lease is up just staying there because no rent would kick ass until I finish school. Only problem is her parents are old fashion and if they found out I was staying there they would probably be pretty pissed. They almost never come over, about a 40 minute drive from their place and they are pretty old, but there has been a couple of times I had to leave early because her mom was coming over in the morning.
Long story short, you guys think it is worth it?
Marry her.
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PM me
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Getbig Answer: If her mom stops by for a surprise visit have a 3 way.
Real answer: Only losers live with their girlfriend rent free. Come on. You don't want to be one of those guys. Get your own place so you can bang you girl and any other girl. Also you don't want to begin lying to your future inlaws already, it won't be worth it.
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Use the backdoor.
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Marry her.
haha
why not commit suicide then?
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haha
why not commit suicide then?
The funny thing is that we(my wife and me) were in the same kind of situation.
And her mom didnt want us to live together unless we were married.
Then we got married.
If you love each other, what the problem?
Insecurity cause the fear to marry a person?
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Is your wife spanish or japanese?
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The funny thing is that we(my wife and me) were in the same kind of situation.
And her mom didnt want us to live together unless we were married.
Then we got married.
If you love each other, what the problem?
Insecurity cause the fear to marry a person?
Hey Kyomu we do plan to get married, only problem like I said they are old fashion so I need to buy here a decent size ring, don't think I will be able to afford that until I finish nursing school which is still about a year away. For all intensive purposes we already feel married.
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there is nothing like "love"
you can only have a crush for let's say 1-2 years
after that the bitch gets boring
yes theres love
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Hey Kyomu we do plan to get married, only problem like I said they are old fashion so I need to buy here a decent size ring, don't think I will be able to afford that until I finish nursing school which is still about a year away. For all intensive purposes we already feel married.
Oh..... thats tough..... Let me think more.
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Any parents who are more concerned with ring size than their girl finding a GOOD MAN are gold diggers themselves. Buy her a $1k ring and if they don't like it, run. Run like the wind.
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Any parents who are more concerned with ring size than their girl finding a GOOD MAN are gold diggers themselves. Buy her a $1k ring and if they don't like it, run. Run like the wind.
Yep. Good answer.
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Hey Kyomu we do plan to get married, only problem like I said they are old fashion so I need to buy here a decent size ring, don't think I will be able to afford that until I finish nursing school which is still about a year away. For all intensive purposes we already feel married.
'to all intents and purposes' ;)
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Is your wife spanish or japanese?
Spanish
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Any parents who are more concerned with ring size than their girl finding a GOOD MAN are gold diggers themselves. Buy her a $1k ring and if they don't like it, run. Run like the wind.
I think part of the problem is too that they are kind of crusty upper class, they are pretty rich. Also I don't think being half asian has helped my cause. Here parents are pretty WASPY, always nice to my face, but I bet they talk shit behind my back.
Oh well, what are you gonna do.
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I think part of the problem is too that they are kind of crusty upper class, they are pretty rich. Also I don't think being half asian has helped my cause. Here parents are pretty WASPY, always nice to my face, but I bet they talk shit behind my back.
Oh well, what are you gonna do.
Years ago I was living in Japan and one of the chicks I had been seeing started talking engagement(which put me in a cold sweat), so I said ok darling go and ask your father first(I knew what he would say of course), its the honourable thing. She did, the guy locked himself in a room for a day, didnt speak, came out and said that if she married some foriegn offal he would dissown her. Thank god for cultural intolerance I say hahaha
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Why don't you just set her parents on fire and put them in your trunk?
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Years ago I was living in Japan and one of the chicks I had been seeing started talking engagement(which put me in a cold sweat), so I said ok darling go and ask your father first(I knew what he would say of course), its the honourable thing. She did, the guy locked himself in a room for a day, didnt speak, came out and said that if she married some foriegn offal he would dissown her. Thank god for cultural intolerance I say hahaha
Thats how i hate japanese society! >:(
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Thats how i hate japanese society! >:(
That can be any society.
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Thats how i hate japanese society! >:(
Are the Japs generally quite racist?
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Are the Japs generally quite racist?
No racist. Old style stupid japanese descriminate all the foreigners(chinese, Korean...etc are included. So its not racism).
They discriminate you but they dont hate you.
Got it?
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That can be any society.
Spanish wont do that.
Spain is not progressed like Japan. But I like Spanish people much more than Japanese people.
(Note: Here i am talking about the society. So When it comes to individual, its whole different story...)
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Spanish wont do that.
Spain is not progressed like Japan. But I like Spanish people much more than Japanese people.
(Note: Here i am talking about the society. So When it comes to individual, its whole different story...)
Do Spaniards still have a siesta in the afternoon?
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Do Spaniards still have a siesta in the afternoon?
In this decade, they are changing alot. But they still close their shop from 2pm-5pm.
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No racist. Old style stupid japanese descriminate all the foreigners(chinese, Korean...etc are included. So its not racism).
They discriminate you but they dont hate you.
Got it?
"They discriminate you but they dont hate you." unless you may pollute the family bloodlines.
And you never want to be a korean in japan.
One night me and an Aussie mate were in kabuki cho in Tokyo and some skinny yakusa wannabes started yelling shit in Japanese to my mate. His Japanese was fluent so they started insulting eachother. Next thing my mate starts clobbering this mouthy guy. He comes close to knocking him out then starts laying in the boot. Japanese coppers come running around the corner, they get my mate up against the wall and he is thinking shit hes going to get deported for beating up this peice of shit. Its all looking pretty grim till they pull out the other guys ID and find out he is Korean. The cops then give my mate a pat on the back, were super polite and told us to have a good night hahahaha
Just for Kyomu here, I am not trying to paint a picture of Japan being all bad, I stayed there like 4 years. However the word for foriegner "gaijin" means outsider by definition, and thats what you are and will always remain as one. I have had friends that have been there 20 years(have gone a bit nuts) can read n speak, read and write better than the average Japanese and they are even more ostrasized because of it, and treated with great suspicion by Japanese aquaintences.
That being said I do miss the imo shochu, cha shu men and the shio fuku girls haha
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"They discriminate you but they dont hate you." unless you may pollute the family bloodlines.
And you never want to be a korean in japan.
One night me and an Aussie mate were in kabuki cho in Tokyo and some skinny yakusa wannabes started yelling shit in Japanese to my mate. His Japanese was fluent so they started insulting eachother. Next thing my mate starts clobbering this mouthy guy. He comes close to knocking him out then starts laying in the boot. Japanese coppers come running around the corner, they get my mate up against the wall and he is thinking shit hes going to get deported for beating up this peice of shit. Its all looking pretty grim till they pull out the other guys ID and find out he is Korean. The cops then give my mate a pat on the back, were super polite and told us to have a good night hahahaha
Just for Kyomu here, I am not trying to paint a picture of Japan being all bad, I stayed there like 4 years. However the word for foriegner "gaijin" means outsider by definition, and thats what you are and will always remain as one. I have had friends that have been there 20 years(have gone a bit nuts) can read n speak, read and write better than the average Japanese and they are even more ostrasized because of it, and treated with great suspicion by Japanese aquaintences.
That being said I do miss the imo shochu, cha shu men and the shio fuku girls haha
Hahaha! You are very right. Shiofuki girls are in every places no? I have never seen one of them in my life though...
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"They discriminate you but they dont hate you." unless you may pollute the family bloodlines.
And you never want to be a korean in japan.
One night me and an Aussie mate were in kabuki cho in Tokyo and some skinny yakusa wannabes started yelling shit in Japanese to my mate. His Japanese was fluent so they started insulting eachother. Next thing my mate starts clobbering this mouthy guy. He comes close to knocking him out then starts laying in the boot. Japanese coppers come running around the corner, they get my mate up against the wall and he is thinking shit hes going to get deported for beating up this peice of shit. Its all looking pretty grim till they pull out the other guys ID and find out he is Korean. The cops then give my mate a pat on the back, were super polite and told us to have a good night hahahaha
Just for Kyomu here, I am not trying to paint a picture of Japan being all bad, I stayed there like 4 years. However the word for foriegner "gaijin" means outsider by definition, and thats what you are and will always remain as one. I have had friends that have been there 20 years(have gone a bit nuts) can read n speak, read and write better than the average Japanese and they are even more ostrasized because of it, and treated with great suspicion by Japanese aquaintences.
That being said I do miss the imo shochu, cha shu men and the shio fuku girls haha
Being german helps a bit.
Germans are "Class A outsiders" ;D ;D
Sure you always stay an outsider on the first view (like blacks in germany) but from my own experience i can say that everyone was extremly friendly to me when they realized that i was NOT american and could speak japanese.
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Being german helps a bit.
Germans are "Class A outsiders" ;D ;D
Sure you always stay an outsider on the first view (like blacks in germany) but from my own experience i can say that everyone was extremly friendly to me when they realized that i was NOT american and could speak japanese.
Thats why i wrote "They discriminate you, but they dont hate you.". You will be disriminated in good manner and bad. Cus you are different.
Maybe your wife is not from a very traditional house of japan isnt she? (Like my family)
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Thats why i wrote "They discriminate you, but they dont hate you.". You will be disriminated in good manner and bad. Cus you are different.
Maybe your wife is not from a very traditional house of japan isnt she? (Like my family)
No, she is from a VERY traditional house. 家はお寺ですよ。
But i was told a lot of times that i am "more japanese than any japanese". I know that's exaggerated, but i have to say that i really go along with people very good.
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No, she is from a VERY traditional house. 家はお寺ですよ。
But i was told a lot of times that i am "more japanese than any japanese". I know that's exaggerated, but i have to say that i really go along with people very good.
Wow. What style of budism?? Thats impressive.
Maybe her dad(Priest) knows real budism huh? ;D
(Cus I ackowledge real budism as the crucial liberty)
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Wow. What style of budism?? Thats impressive.
Maybe her dad(Priest) knows real budism huh? ;D
(Cus I ackowledge real budism as the crucial liberty)
Zen school.
Yes, he is a very wise man who also knows his daughter very good.
But my experience with foreigners in Japan is that it all comes down to how you feel yourself. A friend of mine got pissed everytime he was spoken to in english or regarded as an american. At sometime, he was pissed all the time because EVERY japanese assumed that any gaijin MUST BE american.
For me, it never was a problem. If someone talks to me in english, i answer in japanese very politly, telling the person i cannot understand english because i'm german. That's normally enough to win them over.
You just have to be relaxed, calm and live your life moment by moment, never dragging along the frustration of yesterday, than it's no problem, lol. (Easily said, it's actually quite hard to do so, but you get what i mean.) ;D
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Zen school.
Yes, he is a very wise man who also knows his daughter very good.
But my experience with foreigners in Japan is that it all comes down to how you feel yourself. A friend of mine got pissed everytime he was spoken to in english or regarded as an american. At sometime, he was pissed all the time because EVERY japanese assumed that any gaijin MUST BE american.
For me, it never was a problem. If someone talks to me in english, i answer in japanese very politly, telling the person i cannot understand english because i'm german. That's normally enough to win them over.
You just have to be relaxed, calm and live your life moment by moment, never dragging along the frustration of yesterday, than it's no problem, lol. (Easily said, it's actually quite hard to do so, but you get what i mean.) ;D
Zen school.....Sotoshu?Rinzaishu? Singonshu?Tendaishu?
Zenshu..now i understand. Satori is the biggest theme. Near from real budism.
Thats why you refered to living in the present. That is Satori no kyouchi.
In reality, its not hard. Just its impossible. When you give it up, you wil do it automaticaly. And you will notice that you have been doing it already since before.
Ask your father in law. ;D
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Zen school.....Sotoshu?Rinzaishu? Singonshu?Tendaishu?
Zenshu..now i understand. Satori is the biggest theme. Near from real budism.
Thats why you refered to living in the present. That is Satori no kyouchi.
In reality, its not hard. Just its impossible. When you give it up, you wil do it automaticaly. And you will notice that you have been doing it already since before.
Ask your father in law. ;D
Thanks a lot kyomu, that was really really good!
Sotoshu.
Shingon and Tendai are mikkyo, not zen, although they also do a sort of zazen.
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Thanks a lot kyomu, that was really really good!
Sotoshu.
Shingon and Tendai are mikkyo, not zen, although they also do a sort of zazen.
no doubt. Sotoshu is the nearest from ancient budism.
Who is your father in law? Sekkei Harada? ;D
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no doubt. Sotoshu is the nearest from ancient budism.
Who is your father in law? Sekkei Harada? ;D
lol, no names here.
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Hahaha! You are very right. Shiofuki girls are in every places no? I have never seen one of them in my life though...
I am not sure on that score. I think it is genetic. I have seen it only in Japanese girls, and some Chinese girls. My friend said he had a Canadian girl that did also once.
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Be honest to the parents, show some balls, go by them with something they like Food good wine and
explain to them your situation.
Tell them you have no desire to have a sexual relationship with their daughter that you respect their values and so forth.
Than go back and bang the shit out of your gf ;)
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I am not sure on that score. I think it is genetic. I have seen it only in Japanese girls, and some Chinese girls. My friend said he had a Canadian girl that did also once.
I saw an caucasian porno actriz did it once. Honestly, I dont want to sleep with this kind of woman who makes me to change and wash and clean my bed after making love with her. :-\
Ok, Love overcomes everything though... ;D
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HAHA yeah even a soaking futon ;D