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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Stark on July 29, 2008, 10:01:15 AM
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Just recently I overheard this conversation in the office while making myself a coffee...
She: I know what you mean, but I still prefer a man that is slim and doesn't work out
Other: But I don't mean these Bodybuilders I mean a good figure...
She: Nah still don't like them, I prefer a men with some brain...
Yeah great right?
It's total bullshit of course, EVERY WOMAN likes their man to look healthy and fit, it's racial memory for fucks sake, somebody
who looks like he cannot survive the coming winter because he looks like has just been released out of Auschwitz will always
have a hardtime convincing reptilian brain of a woman that he makes a good and strong partner.
But the reason for them "pretending" they don't like men that workout is pretty simple, you never hear the "goodlooking" girls say that right?
It's always these fucking elephant babies that "pretend" they are only interested in Mr Skinny.
Bullshit!!!!
They simply set them up and try to convince themself that they are not attracted to men that look like they are workout because they know they would have a very slim chance to be considered in the first place. So why try if you cannot win ::)
Clever woman know that people like us who work out generaly spend time to take care of themself, greater hygenic, and even flexing in the mirror ensures that we are never really out of touch with ourself and our body, it's healty and these woman know it.
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For fucking - good game and body are wanted.
For raising children, keeping bills in check, everyday grind... any man will do.
p.s.: wird Zeit dass du dich mal duscht :D
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For fucking - good game and body are wanted.
For raising children, keeping bills in check, everyday grind... any man will do.
p.s.: wird Zeit dass du dich mal duscht :D
but the clever one strive for both :)
Why do you think the fucking devorce rates are that high? All these woman out there with their inner clock ticking wake up one
morning drenched in their sweat heart racing.... OH MU LORD I'M NEARLY 30!!!!!
I have no man no kids, and than they get married to the first fucking bloke that comes along.
Of course after a year or two when the guy gets fat and she has trippled her size and he cheets on her with a prostitue they get
divorced.
People have no more roles in relationships, it has to be all equal ::)
BULLSHIT!!!!! nobody is equal, my wife cooks better so she does the cooking, I carry the fucking rucksack when we go out hicking because I'm about 50kilos heavier than her and work out on a daily basis, there HAS to be certain rules and roles in a relationship.
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relationships??
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have fun with that :D
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generally speaking the more attractive and fit the woman is, the more she wants a muscular man, that being said a hot woman still wants a musclebound man to bring home the bacon ( in more ways than one!), that's why you see alot of drop dead gorgeous women with great bodies with average looking, average size men, because they got the moolah, the large house, fancy cars, bank account women crave!
you rarely will see a handsome, very muscular man with an average looking, built woman
women's power in society are the looks and body, for a man it's their money!
things are changing slowly in society, and these generalizations are just that but for the most part that's the way it is!
for instance there's a guy at my gym, built like a brickshit house whose first wife was drop dead beautiful, blonde, tall, awesome body etcetera, turns out she was also a money grubbing bitch! his new wife very average looking, by no means a head turner,but she is a nice girl with a nice personality. so they both got what they wanted. he gets a nice girl who will worship him and kiss his ass, and she, mrs. average looking, get a musclebound stud who will take care of her financially and in the bedroom.
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relationships??
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have fun with that :D
I know you are dating black woman, they are a complete different game all together I have never dated a black woman (not that I did't want to)
Releationships are great, I'm together with my wife now uhh 4 years?
She still gets up every morning when I eat my Oats and troll the board at 08:00 ;D before I leave for work and jumps on my lap demanding
a cudle and a kiss.
I have no reason to believe this will stop soon, and this is only one excample of many.
No man relationship beats the hell out of dating and redating.
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Just recently I overheard this conversation in the office while making myself a coffee...
She: I know what you mean, but I still prefer a man that is slim and doesn't work out
Other: But I don't mean these Bodybuilders I mean a good figure...
She: Nah still don't like them, I prefer a men with some brain...
Yeah great right?
It's total bullshit of course, EVERY WOMAN likes their man to look healthy and fit, it's racial memory for fucks sake, somebody
who looks like he cannot survive the coming winter because he looks like has just been released out of Auschwitz will always
have a hardtime convincing reptilian brain of a woman that he makes a good and strong partner.
But the reason for them "pretending" they don't like men that workout is pretty simple, you never hear the "goodlooking" girls say that right?
It's always these fucking elephant babies that "pretend" they are only interested in Mr Skinny.
Bullshit!!!!
They simply set them up and try to convince themself that they are not attracted to men that look like they are workout because they know they would have a very slim chance to be considered in the first place. So why try if you cannot win ::)
Clever woman know that people like us who work out generaly spend time to take care of themself, greater hygenic, and even flexing in the mirror ensures that we are never really out of touch with ourself and our body, it's healty and these woman know it.
calm down gloria.
this isn't the dark ages, being big and muscular has fuck all to do with being a good partner/"surviving the winter".
:D
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Just recently I overheard this conversation in the office while making myself a coffee...
She: I know what you mean, but I still prefer a man that is slim and doesn't work out
Other: But I don't mean these Bodybuilders I mean a good figure...
She: Nah still don't like them, I prefer a men with some brain...
Yeah great right?
It's total bullshit of course, EVERY WOMAN likes their man to look healthy and fit, it's racial memory for fucks sake, somebody
who looks like he cannot survive the coming winter because he looks like has just been released out of Auschwitz will always
have a hardtime convincing reptilian brain of a woman that he makes a good and strong partner.
But the reason for them "pretending" they don't like men that workout is pretty simple, you never hear the "goodlooking" girls say that right?
It's always these fucking elephant babies that "pretend" they are only interested in Mr Skinny.
Bullshit!!!!
They simply set them up and try to convince themself that they are not attracted to men that look like they are workout because they know they would have a very slim chance to be considered in the first place. So why try if you cannot win ::)
Clever woman know that people like us who work out generaly spend time to take care of themself, greater hygenic, and even flexing in the mirror ensures that we are never really out of touch with ourself and our body, it's healty and these woman know it.
So your dating the first girl ??? :D
but I thought she wanted a guy with a brain ??? :D
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So your dating the first girl ??? :D
;D
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I know you are dating black woman, they are a complete different game all together I have never dated a black woman (not that I did't want to)
Releationships are great, I'm together with my wife now uhh 4 years?
She still gets up every morning when I eat my Oats and troll the board at 08:00 ;D before I leave for work and jumps on my lap demanding
a cudle and a kiss.
I have no reason to believe this will stop soon, and this is only one excample of many.
No man relationship beats the hell out of dating and redating.
im not dating anybody...
sounds like your happy..
awesome..
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I've noticed lot heavy women DO like very muscular men. They are a lot more likely to approach big lifters than smaller women.
Thinner women are curious and would like to see "what all that muscle can do" but are not likely to want a bodybuilder for a serious relationship.
A roll in the hey is all we're good for :-\
;D
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I've noticed lot heavy women DO like very muscular men. They are a lot more likely to approach big lifters than smaller women.
Thinner women are curious and would like to see "what all that muscle can do" but are not likely to want a bodybuilder for a serious relationship.
A roll in the hey is all we're good for :-\
;D
Poor fella :'(
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calm down gloria.
this isn't the dark ages, being big and muscular has fuck all to do with being a good partner/"surviving the winter".
:D
and I never said that, if you'd take the time to read my thread carefully you would have noticed that I said... that the reptilian brain or racial memory thousands and thousands of years ago have a lot to do that woman feel generally speaking more attracted to stronger build men.
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heavy weight women and older women go apeshit over bodybuilders, and you would think if anything these type of women would be more insecure than the fit younger women? of course one could say that fit young women "dont need" a musclebound man to make them feel alive, worthy,sexual, attractive, etcetera whereas a overweight or older woman do?
all i know is of the many bb shows i've gone too, older women i'm talking in their 40's, 50's and even in the 60's and 70's love muscle and more the better and if the bber is handsome, they will go crazy even more so! same with overweight women!
lastly, i will say besides overweight and older women, if the woman is in great shape and attractive and yes competes in bikini or fitness shows she will for the most part usually hook up with a bodybuilder guy since they have so much in common.
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you rarely will see a handsome, very muscular man with an average looking, built woman
women's power in society are the looks and body, for a man it's their money!
Need to disagree with that...not being a smartass but have you ever been to a bodybuilding competition and seen the couples?
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another way of looking at this, is why straight guys well not all of them, but alot of them are out of their minds either jealous, or downright hating if a bber is around in a social setting (i.e. meat market)
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Need to disagree with that...not being a smartass but have you ever been to a bodybuilding competition and seen the couples?
having a great phsyqiue/sexy body doesnt necessarily make you 'handsome'... isnt that much more to do with facial features/ teeth/eyes/ general attitude ???
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mydavid, i was more or less commenting on couples in general society, not so much at a bb show. yes, i've been to quite a few shows. and depending on the show, i've seen both, musclebound bber's with gorgeous female bikini/fitness women and the same bber with average looking women, the question is in the second case why is that? perhaps the bber wants a woman whose nice to him, understands his dedication, and once she got to know him (said bber) realize he wasn't a stuck on himself, asshole, jerk. something he might not necessarily get from a very attractive woman.
for the average looking woman, she gets i guess respect and someone to protect her, plus for some average looking women, a big handsome bber in her bed would be seen as a "prize" some kind of power issue victory.
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having a great phsyqiue/sexy body doesnt necessarily make you 'handsome'... isnt that much more to do with facial features/ teeth/eyes/ general attitude ???
Well yes that's what i'm basically thinking and general attitude is the key
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mydavid, i was more or less commenting on couples in general society, not so much at a bb show. yes, i've been to quite a few shows. and depending on the show, i've seen both, musclebound bber's with gorgeous female bikini/fitness women and the same bber with average looking women, the question is in the second case why is that? perhaps the bber wants a woman whose nice to him, understands his dedication, and once she got to know him (said bber) realize he wasn't a stuck on himself, asshole, jerk. something he might not necessarily get from a very attractive woman.
for the average looking woman, she gets i guess respect and someone to protect her, plus for some average looking women, a big handsome bber in her bed would be seen as a "prize" some kind of power issue victory.
Definately agree with you and didn't realize you were talking about general society...a bodybuilder is a different type of person...not necessarily selfish but completely dedicated and to find a woman that stands behind the many hours of "dedication" is great. Woman love attention but when their man is spending hours at the gym, eating 2 chicken breasts prior to a show they need to understand.
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It's a proven fact that someone who is thin and doesn't work out will have more health problems and a shorter life than someone who is more plump and exercises regularly.
If one of her pre-requisites for a mate is having a brain then maybe it should be only fair that she has one too? Fucking women.
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I've noticed lot heavy women DO like very muscular men. They are a lot more likely to approach big lifters than smaller women.
Thinner women are curious and would like to see "what all that muscle can do" but are not likely to want a bodybuilder for a serious relationship.
A roll in the hey is all we're good for :-\
;D
A lot of heavier black women like muscular dudes, many of times white. A lot of in shape white women like muscular black men, has something to do with the Big Black Buck image. I noticed this quite many a times.
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Nico,your wife has seemed to have settled for less it seems.........the girls chatting it up might be on to something
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Nico,your wife has seemed to have settled for less it seems.........the girls chatting it up might be on to something
try harder asshat :D
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all girls deep down want to be totaly hammerd by big muscular men,,, at one time in there life anyway,,, as a heavily muscled man is the ultimate male,,
just as the little sex bomb, with the tiny waist, huge tits and peachy bum is the ultimate object for all men,,,
now most male and females have to lower there standards and try and convince them selves and everyone else other wise, whilest all along ..............
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well, there is a stereotype that bodybuilders are dumb, and dumb people usually don't have a lot of money, and women prefer guys who have a lot of money over anything.
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You guys are wrong on so many levels. "Hot" to a woman and "sexy" has nothing to do with the size of your biceps or how much you can bench. Women are attracted to "fit", and good looks and great personality. If you have an amazing personality and seem like you are the type of guy that has a great outlook on life and have fun and make women laugh well there ya go. Most "bodybuilder" type physiques are a huge turn off for women. The fitness model look is what women really like, i.e. six pack abs etc. If you think chicks dig a bloated red face, vascularity, and short guys who walk like their legs are rubbing together you're crazy. Being tall is a huge plus with women, short and stocky muscular men is a huge turn off. So is balding. Some of you sound like you haven't been around women since the 80s! LOL. And of course money trumps everything in the end.
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I know you are dating you pretend to date black woman
relationships??
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have fun with that :D
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but the clever one strive for both :)
Why do you think the fucking devorce rates are that high? All these woman out there with their inner clock ticking wake up one
morning drenched in their sweat heart racing.... OH MU LORD I'M NEARLY 30!!!!!
I have no man no kids, and than they get married to the first fucking bloke that comes along.
hahaha thats where i come along..
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all girls deep down want to be totaly hammerd by big muscular men,,, at one time in there life anyway,,, as a heavily muscled man is the ultimate male,,
just as the little sex bomb, with the tiny waist, huge tits and peachy bum is the ultimate object for all men,,,
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he said it all.
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You guys are wrong on so many levels. "Hot" to a woman and "sexy" has nothing to do with the size of your biceps or how much you can bench. Women are attracted to "fit", and good looks and great personality. If you have an amazing personality and seem like you are the type of guy that has a great outlook on life and have fun and make women laugh well there ya go. Most "bodybuilder" type physiques are a huge turn off for women. The fitness model look is what women really like, i.e. six pack abs etc. If you think chicks dig a bloated red face, vascularity, and short guys who walk like their legs are rubbing together you're crazy. Being tall is a huge plus with women, short and stocky muscular men is a huge turn off. So is balding. Some of you sound like you haven't been around women since the 80s! LOL. And of course money trumps everything in the end.
Yes.
And most of the people here aren't what you'd call big. Natural bodybuilders aren't huge.
Most of the guys here(including Stark) are perma bulkers who probably look as though they don't even lift; this is if you exclude certain exceptional people.
Even a guy like Mesomorph would be considered "fit" and "athletic" by most women and not big or too muscular.
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well, there is a stereotype that bodybuilders are dumb, and dumb people usually don't have a lot of money, and women prefer guys who have a lot of money over anything.
I dont think thats true, everyone says girls love money, maybe, but guys do to, i dont have a lot of money, but i pull girls easily, there are a lot of single lonely rich guys out there that splurge on girls and get nothing..my uncle..
maybe the females here can chime in.
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I dont think thats true, everyone says girls love money, maybe, but guys do to, i dont have a lot of money, but i pull girls easily, there are a lot of single lonely rich guys out there that splurge on girls and get nothing..my uncle..
maybe the females here can chime in.
Rich old men want to stay rich, so why would they go out of their way to pull women who could potentially damage their careers or assets?
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just as the little sex bomb, with the tiny waist, huge tits and peachy bum is the ultimate object for all men,,,
Lela star
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Rich old men want to stay rich, so why would they go out of their way to pull women who could potentially damage their careers or assets?
Good point and your right, but there are a lot of rich dudes wanting to get married and have kids and all that, and cant find a girl.
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I dont think thats true, everyone says girls love money, maybe, but guys do to, i dont have a lot of money, but i pull girls easily, there are a lot of single lonely rich guys out there that splurge on girls and get nothing..my uncle..
maybe the females here can chime in.
Maybe your uncle just wants companionship? To make his buddies drool with envy?
depending on the age and health of older people, even with money you might have to close your eyes and do the deed.
Can you imagine being in bed with Hugh Hefner or a the late Barbra Walters? Tons of money but when the clothes come off.....
Sandra
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not the "late" barbra walters...lol
But remember looks fade and the body changes as we grow older. Look at Arnold S.
Sandra
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Maybe your uncle just wants companionship? To make his buddies drool with envy?
depending on the age and health of older people, even with money you might have to close your eyes and do the deed.
Can you imagine being in bed with Hugh Hefner or a the late Barbra Walters? Tons of money but when the clothes come off.....
Sandra
My uncle subscibes to the same shit most guys do, he cares to much for the lady he is with and gets heart-broken, lucky his deep $$ helps him recover quickly, he is a loser with women, his socially awkward, he wont listen to a word i say..theres always hookers