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Getbig Main Boards => General Topics => Topic started by: Pollux on August 23, 2008, 05:59:51 AM
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Well, ladies? Let's hear it. I say emotional is the worse. Sex is sex. Fucking is fucking. But when you develop feelings and/or find yourself giving your heart and soul to someone else other than your significant other, that takes it to another level and makes it worse!
Discuss...
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Can't help the way you feel, sometimes by abstaining from sex it shows how much you truly care about your partner.
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Can't help the way you feel, sometimes by abstaining from sex it shows how much you truly care about your partner.
To nurture an emotional affair would be wrong imo but agree w/danielson also. Emotional affairs are less black and white than physical ones. Once the physical contact has occured there is no question as to if there has been cheating or not.
Plus many women may not feel that sex is just sex because some (most?) women seem to become more emotionally invested before engaging in sex...so we may project our feelings upon a man that in order for him to engage in physical cheating he must be emotionally invested as well.
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Both are seriously wrong IMO. If you feel the need to be involved with someone other than you s/o in either, you don't belong in that relationship as you really don't love/care for that person as much as you should.
I just can't understand why people cheat. There really isn't any good reason to do so. If you are unhappy in your relationship and feel it can't be fixed in a way that would make you happy, then get out of the relationship. The other person may be hurt, but it is less pain than they would endure if they found you betrayed them with someone else (regardless of it being just sexual or emotional) and the end result would still be the same, broken up...but with just more pain and most likely the other would harbor/carry a lot of emotional baggage into their next relationship(s). And that's just not fair. :-[
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To nurture an emotional affair would be wrong imo but agree w/danielson also. Emotional affairs are less black and white than physical ones. Once the physical contact has occured there is no question as to if there has been cheating or not.
And what is "physical contact"?
Is kissing cheating?
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And what is "physical contact"?
Is kissing cheating?
Yes >:(
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Yes >:(
You and Michael have been together for quite some time. Hypothetically speaking, if he kissed a girl - and nothing else - you'd drop him like a hot potato just like that?
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You and Michael have been together for quite some time. Hypothetically speaking, if he kissed a girl - and nothing else - you'd drop him like a hot potato just like that?
Laura kissed a girl and she liked it! It was more the taste of her cherry chapstick though.
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You and Michael have been together for quite some time. Hypothetically speaking, if he kissed a girl - and nothing else - you'd drop him like a hot potato just like that?
I would as there is absolutely no excuse for him doing such. I would also expect him to do the same of me if I ever were to do such.
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Laura kissed a girl and she liked it! It was more the taste of her cherry chapstick though.
LOL they are killing that song over here.
It is starting to give me a cramp now
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LOL they are killing that song over here.
It is starting to give me a cramp now
I must hear it like 6 times a day! Hate that fkn song!
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Hm, i think it's more complicated than that.
When travelling i met a girl and we hung out for 5 days or so. We would be a great couple but i knew she had a bf and we're from differente countries... But at a party we were both a bit drunk and kissed. Basically kissed and talked all night, but nothing more because she had a boyfriend.
If i was her boyfriend i wouldn't like it, but i don't feel we did anything wrong honestly.
It's not complicated at all. It's betrayal (kissing is still an intimate act). Neither of us drink so we couldn't USE that excuse, not that it is a good one anyway (but seems to be the number one excuse ::)). Also, you stated "she" had a boyfriend so you were on the opposite side of the situtation. What if she was your girlfriend and you found out she made out with another guy all night while away....are you saying you would be alright with that? Could you trust her to be traveling again, or would you start assuming that now that you let that go...what would she do next and would you ever find out?
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How about masturbating to porn whilst in a relationship...is that cheating too?
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I would as there is absolutely no excuse for him doing such. I would also expect him to do the same of me if I ever were to do such.
I think it's a lil silly and over-the-top if you invested time and years into the relationship, and just because he made a mistake by kissing a girl - and NOTHING else - that you'd drop him or any other guy for that matter.
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How about masturbating to porn whilst in a relationship...is that cheating too?
Speak on this, Laura. What IF a guy masturbates to porn or has phone sex with someone else while he's in a relationship. You seem to be hung up on the whole "physical contact" issue, surely you don't consider these two things cheating, do ya?
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How about masturbating to porn whilst in a relationship...is that cheating too?
Although one would hope that they take care of their partner sexually enough that they wouldn't have the need to view porn (alone), but if you're just masterbating at the excitement of sex...I think that is one thing (just a release), but if your actually desiring/fantasizing about having sex with who ever is in the porn...well, although it's not cheating, I do think there might be a problem with the "intimate" part of their relationship and should be address BEFORE it ends up being something that's eventually "acted" upon.
If that makes any sense (it did while I was writing it, lol).
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Well, ladies? Let's hear it. I say emotional is the worse. Sex is sex. Fucking is fucking. But when you develop feelings and/or find yourself giving your heart and soul to someone else other than your significant other, that takes it to another level and makes it worse!
Discuss...
Not a lady, but thought I'd chime in on this one...
Either way is wrong on the most deepest levels. If a woman is 'emotionally' interested in another person it is only a matter of time before she physically cheats on her mate.
In the world today, cheating has become the norm, whether physical, emptional or otherwise. Some people can work thru the temptation, most cannot.
And also of note.... If you cheat... you WILL get caught sooner or later.
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Not a lady, but thought I'd chime in on this one...
Either way is wrong on the most deepest levels. If a woman is 'emotionally' interested in another person it is only a matter of time before she physically cheats on her mate.
In the world today, cheating has become the norm, whether physical, emptional or otherwise. Some people can work thru the temptation, most cannot.
And also of note.... If you cheat... you WILL get caught sooner or later.
Word...word...word...
Last year I unwittingly had an affair with a girl who was engaged; midway into it I found out it was engaged but by then the feelings were too intense to resist; it kept promising me it would leave the dude for me and I was the one it really loved...eventually it left and MARRIED him, after a year long affair with me. And now it stalks the hallowed halls of Columbia university in MY home town whilst the husband (wholly unaware of the whole affair to this day) is paying for half of its studies (can we say marriage of convenience?). It kept on writing me e-mails THIS year...up until June or thereabouts, how it couldn't forget me even though it wanted to, blah, blah, blah...it got off scot free, but eventually it will cheat again; it's in its nature. It wanted the breadwinner (the husband) and the interesting, unusual guy (me) at the same time but ultimately it chose the bread winner...good riddance to bad rubbish. I just hope something comes to light...haha...husband withdraws financial support...something like that...
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Word...word...word...
Last year I unwittingly had an affair with a girl who was engaged; midway into it I found out it was engaged but by then the feelings were too intense to resist; it kept promising me it would leave the dude for me and I was the one it really loved...eventually it left and MARRIED him, after a year long affair with me. And now it stalks the hallowed halls of Columbia university in MY home town whilst the husband (wholly unaware of the whole affair to this day) is paying for half of its studies (can we say marriage of convenience?). It kept on writing me e-mails THIS year...up until June or thereabouts, how it couldn't forget me even though it wanted to, blah, blah, blah...it got off scot free, but eventually it will cheat again; it's in its nature. It wanted the breadwinner (the husband) and the interesting, unusual guy (me) at the same time but ultimately it chose the bread winner...good riddance to bad rubbish. I just hope something comes to light...haha...husband withdraws financial support...something like that...
I'm guessing you know "it's" husband's name. Why not forward all those emails to him? And I don't mean for revenge (although that would be dessert) but because he shouldn't be used like such. >:(
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KATY PERRY LYRICS
I Kissed A Girl
This was never the way I planned,
not my intention.
I got so brave,
drink in hand.
Lost my discresion
Its not what, I'm used to.
Just wanna try you on.
I'm curi-ous for you,
caught my attention.
I kissed a girl and I liked it,
the taste of her cherry chapstick.
I kissed a girl just to try it,
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it.
It felt so wrong,
it felt so right.
Don't mean I'm in love tonight.
I kissed a girl and I liked it.
(I liked it)
No, I dont even know your name,
it doesn't matter.
Your my experimental game,
just human nature.
It's not what good girls do.
Not how they should behave.
My head gets, so confused.
Hard to obey.
I kissed a girl and I liked it,
the taste of her cherry chapstick.
I kissed a girl just to try it,
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it.
It felt so wrong,
it felt so right.
Don't mean I'm in love tonight.
I kissed a girl and I liked it.
(I liked it)
Us girls we are so magical.
Soft skin, red lips, so kissable.
Hard to resist,
so touchable.
To good to deny it.
Ain't no big deal,
it's innocent.
I kissed a girl and i liked it,
the taste of her cherry chapstick.
I kissed a girl just to try it,
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it.
It felt so wrong,
it felt so right.
Don't mean I'm in love tonight.
I kissed a girl and I liked it.
(I liked it)
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I'm guessing you know "it's" husband's name. Why not forward all those emails to him? And I don't mean for revenge (although that would be dessert) but because he shouldn't be used like such. >:(
I'm a bit paranoid about shaking things up; I think it is terrified of me for this reason; I have the power to ruin its life, but I am trying to be a man and just walk away; it is not worth it.
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I'm a bit paranoid about shaking things up; I think it is terrified of me for this reason; I have the power to ruin its life, but I am trying to be a man and just walk away; it is not worth it.
If you were the other guy who married her, would you want "it" exposed? I certainly would. I wouldn't want to put to much time, love and effort into a person that didn't love and respect me and only used me for my $. But that's me.
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If you were the other guy who married her, would you want "it" exposed? I certainly would. I wouldn't want to put to much time, love and effort into a person that didn't love and respect me and only used me for my $. But that's me.
That man is not my friend; granted I feel bad for him, but he is a bit of a dick I think anyway...so maybe the two deserve each other...
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That man is not my friend; granted I feel bad for him, but he is a bit of a dick I think anyway...so maybe the two deserve each other...
Dude, tell this fool what is going on woth his lay. That's rediculous. If you aren't going to get any more play with this female, he gets to know. Even if the guy's a dick he shouldn't be run thru by a female like this.
How did it get away with this activity for over a year now? Must be a good operator....
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That man is not my friend; granted I feel bad for him, but he is a bit of a dick I think anyway...so maybe the two deserve each other...
You "think" he's a bit of a dick and presume they might deserve each other. I hope you aren't basing your opinion of him on "its" words because I'm sure that "it" would say what ever it took to make you think that "its" a victim...which is probably why you stayed in the relationship with it even after knowing they were engaged. It used you and is still using the other guy. And I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that "its" probably got another sucker on the side now.
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I agree.
This is kind of like when you have a buddy that has a girl that he got because she left her previous guy... and then it doesn't cross their mind that the female is probably going to eventually cheat on them for the next guy.
Everyone thinks their situation is 'different'.
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You "think" he's a bit of a dick and presume they might deserve each other. I hope you aren't basing your opinion of him on "its" words because I'm sure that "it" would say what ever it took to make you think that "its" a victim...which is probably why you stayed in the relationship with it even after knowing they were engaged. It used you and is still using the other guy. And I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that "its" probably got another sucker on the side now.
Of course it used me; I let myself be used in a way. My emotional need for love and affection got the better of me. This makes me all the more angry. Actually right now it's in graduate school in Columbia so it doesn't have much time; maybe later it will have a new affair. Sure it's a user; it once told me it loves its husband as a friend...whatever that means. Honestly, though I have some pangs and feelings I know it is better for me to move and get away from the whole sordid affair.
I asked Kirsten once if it regretted the whole thing with me, it replied: "No, all in all it was very interesting."
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Of course it used me; I let myself be used in a way. My emotional need for love and affection got the better of me. This makes me all the more angry. Actually right now it's in graduate school in Columbia so it doesn't have much time; maybe later it will have a new affair. Sure it's a user; it once told me it loves its husband as a friend...whatever that means. Honestly, though I have some pangs and feelings I know it is better for me to move and get away from the whole sordid affair.
I asked Kirsten once if it regretted the whole thing with me, it replied: "No, all in all it was very interesting."
"Interesting"? I thought it loved you? ::) Dude, she totally used you and will most likely use many others if never brought out into the open. It's husband would do well to kick it's ass to the curb...penniless. >:(
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Obviously Mr. Deicide still has feelings for it.
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Obviously Mr. Deicide still has feelings for it.
Ebbing, my friend, ebbing...I happen to be an emotional guy, to my consternation. Soon it will be a year since I have seen it and it matters naught, with time all feelings fade. In truth we don't really choose whom we love...
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Ebbing, my friend, ebbing...I happen to be an emotional guy, to my consternation. Soon it will be a year since I have seen it and it matters naught, with time all feelings fade. In truth we don't really choose whom we love...
Just remember that this seems to be a pattern w/this girl. Maybe you aren't missing anything but a few thrills and a lot of misery. There is probably someone out there for you that is thrilling AND trustworthy!
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Ebbing, my friend, ebbing...I happen to be an emotional guy, to my consternation. Soon it will be a year since I have seen it and it matters naught, with time all feelings fade. In truth we don't really choose whom we love...
Oh believe me, I understand your situation.
To this day I have failed to rationalize the effect a female can have on a guy. I have seen some of the best men around mindfuccked by women that, when one looked at them from an objective position, had little to offer in the general scheme of things.
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"Interesting"? I thought it loved you? ::) Dude, she totally used you and will most likely use many others if never brought out into the open. It's husband would do well to kick it's ass to the curb...penniless. >:(
Samples...
Sorry to hear you have had health problems, I hope it hasn't been anything too serious besides the sleep problems. It's probably best to deal with the source of the problem rather than treat the symptoms (surely you've been told this already many times). My health hasn't been great since my return- mental health, that is. Physically I'm fine, just having issues wth stress and readjusting maybe. Mostly panic attacks, which as I'm learning can be quite debilitating. I've also been trying to sort through things the past few months. I thought what happened between us would go away after some time, but it seems it hasn't...You should know the reason I did not go home alone was one based mostly on practicality. I am not in at point in my life where I can overlook the need to be practical and secure. You probably already know this and it may sound ridiculous, but that's what it is. I still think of you often, and I don't know why it hasn't faded more...My feelings are still as they were when we weren't apart. You said you want closure; tell me what I can do to give you that.I miss you too.
Then...
Know that I do have regret over much of the way things went, and wish I could have found a way to make the situation different. I'm sorry I made you feel used, I never intended to...And I'm sad that you're cutting off contact, but I'll respect it. When you do decide to contact me, if ever-
Love, Kirsten
Then...it saw me on yahoo messenger and chatted me up and gave me the new line with the regret thing being interesting. Hell, I am glad I am rid of it. Good riddance to bad rubbish...feelings get weaker every day...thankfully...
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Oh believe me, I understand your situation.
To this day I have failed to rationalize the effect a female can have on a guy. I have seen some of the best men around mindfuccked by women that, when one looked at them from an objective position, had little to offer in the general scheme of things.
Yes, women have too much power over us. I don't like it.
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Just remember that this seems to be a pattern w/this girl. Maybe you aren't missing anything but a few thrills and a lot of misery. There is probably someone out there for you that is thrilling AND trustworthy!
Unlikely...or I am not counting on it...certainly not in the West.
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Samples...
Then...
Then...it saw me on yahoo messenger and chatted me up and gave me the new line with the regret thing being interesting. Hell, I am glad I am rid of it. Good riddance to bad rubbish...feelings get weaker every day...thankfully...
It will get easier as time passes and you do not maintain any contact with it.
btw...it was playing you in those emails as well. I'm not sure what you wanted to hear for closure...but "I miss you too" and "when/if you ever decide to contact me".... isn't it. It's a "i want my cake and eat it too" kind of person.
and Hereford, I believe it's like that on both sides. There are a lot of men that have too much power over women as well. ;)
People need to stop playing with other peoples hearts. >:(
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Relationship thread without me?? hell no.
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Hereford, I believe it's like that on both sides. There are a lot of men that have too much power over women as well. ;)
People need to stop playing with other peoples hearts. >:(
Ok, I'll conciede that.
But see.... nobody really gives a shit about anyone else in society today that's outside of their little clique. Guys seek out random females (and vice versa) because they can play with them and ruin them psychologically and not have any real consequences, emotional or otherwise.
There is a SERIOUS shortage of quality people these days that would be feasible in a quality, long term relationship. Especially past age 25 or so...
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Relationship thread without me?? hell no.
Hell yes
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It will get easier as time passes and you do not maintain any contact with it.
btw...it was playing you in those emails as well. I'm not sure what you wanted to hear for closure...but "I miss you too" and "when/if you ever decide to contact me".... isn't it. It's a "i want my cake and eat it too" kind of person.
and Hereford, I believe it's like that on both sides. There are a lot of men that have too much power over women as well. ;)
People need to stop playing with other peoples hearts. >:(
No, women have much more power over men; I am realising though, they only have as much power as we grant to them or allow ourselves to feel...limit that and you limit the power though going through life like a block of ice isn't my idea of fun...nor sticking random women like our resident gangsta Quickerblade (just for you G!)....
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Ok, I'll conciede that.
But see.... nobody really gives a shit about anyone else in society today that's outside of their little clique. Guys seek out random females (and vice versa) because they can play with them and ruin them psychologically and not have any real consequences, emotional or otherwise.
There is a SERIOUS shortage of quality people these days that would be feasible in a quality, long term relationship. Especially past age 25 or so...
Brother, you are speaking the Gospel. That is why I have given up on Western women; all selfish, egotistical, self-serving, fickle...done with that...at least I hope, forever.
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nor sticking random women like our resident gangsta Quickerblade (just for you G!)....
Thanks Playboy.
I love woman, I love the way they make you feel.
Ever receive a text message from a chick you just met a few days ago "Hey Hottie, wanna catch up 4 a drink 2nite?"
It's a awesome feeling, but what most guys tend to do is make movies in there heads on how the relationship will pan out instead of taking it day by day, and when the movies does not come out as scritpted the guys become bitter.
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Thanks Playboy.
I love woman, I love the way they make you feel.
Ever receive a text message from a chick you just met a few days ago "Hey Hottie, wanna catch up 4 a drink 2nite?"
It's a awesome feeling, but what most guys tend to do is make movies in there heads on how the relationship will pan out instead of taking it day by day, and when the movies does not come out as scritpted the guys become bitter.
You love fucking women; you have no sense of genuine feeling or obligation. I know your kind (minus the wannabe gangster bullshit) because I have friends just like you; every time they meet a girl they start have feeling for they fuck it off...before it is too late. Pretty hollow, but I guess that's how 'playaz' are...just too cool for the rest of us... ::)
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Woman make the world go around, Quicker is a man of passion and i also love meeting new woman, Im not on lockdown, Im not married so I can date anyone I please with no guilt.
Nothing beats the feeling of meeting a new girl..Bliss
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Thanks Playboy.
I love woman, I love the way they make you feel.
Ever receive a text message from a chick you just met a few days ago "Hey Hottie, wanna catch up 4 a drink 2nite?"
It's a awesome feeling, but what most guys tend to do is make movies in there heads on how the relationship will pan out instead of taking it day by day, and when the movies does not come out as scritpted the guys become bitter.
Sorry Quick, but no woman that's worth keeping around long term is gonna text "Hey Hottie, wanna catch up 4 a drink 2nite" to you.
Maybe for a night.... That's a different story....
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Sorry Quick, but no woman that's worth keeping around long term is gonna text "Hey Hottie, wanna catch up 4 a drink 2nite" to you.
Maybe for a night.... That's a different story....
Im actually doing well without Getbig advice, but thanks.
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Sorry Quick, but no woman that's worth keeping around long term is gonna text "Hey Hottie, wanna catch up 4 a drink 2nite" to you.
Maybe for a night.... That's a different story....
Quickerblade just wants random; that's fine but given that fact he has nothing to contribute in this thread.
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feelings get weaker every day...thankfully...
You should be glad.
I could be wrong but this seems to say she needs someone to take care of her financially:
"You should know the reason I did not go home alone was one based mostly on practicality. I am not in at point in my life where I can overlook the need to be practical and secure."
and this:
"My feelings are still as they were when we weren't apart."
......does this mean her feelings are still that she wants to cheat on her fiance with you while cheating on you w/her fiance?
Seems like you dodged a bullet D.
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Im actually doing well without Getbig advice, but thanks.
He is talking about something else...a relationship...I know it's a foreign concept to you but hell, even a master like you can learn... ::)
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Relationships are vital in life, life is to short to be alone, Im 100% for Relationships.
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You should be glad.
I could be wrong but this seems to say she needs someone to take care of her financially:
"You should know the reason I did not go home alone was one based mostly on practicality. I am not in at point in my life where I can overlook the need to be practical and secure."
and this:
"My feelings are still as they were when we weren't apart."
......does this mean her feelings are still that she wants to cheat on her fiance with you while cheating on you w/her fiance?
Seems like you dodged a bullet D.
Yeah, in the long run...you are right. But I tell you, Kirsten was the straw that broke the camel's back. I am finished with its ilk now.
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Relationships are vital in life, life is to short to be alone, Im 100% for Relationships.
Having sex once every 6 months is not a relationship Quickerblade... ::)
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Why does this person keep being called "it"?
Are we all Silence of the Lambs fans ???
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I love Woman, nothing better then a tender hug, or even a kiss on a cheek wishing you the best.
Ladies make a man go crazy, will do things we dont usually do if were head over heels.
Quickerblade for relationships.
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Why does this person keep being called "it"?
Are we all Silence of the Lambs fans ???
Because it is scum and has lost the right to be referenced with the English feminine personal pronoun.
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I love Woman, nothing better then a tender hug, or even a kiss on a cheek wishing you the best.
Ladies make a man go crazy, will do things we dont usually do if were head over heels.
Quickerblade for relationships.
You used to have a cool avatar with Wesley Snipes...now it is... :-X
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Because it is scum and has lost the right to be referenced with the English feminine personal pronoun.
I see ;)
No woman it is worth the hate brotha... karma will catch up with it one day.
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I see ;)
No woman it is worth the hate brotha... karma will catch up with it one day.
BULLLSHIIT!!!!!!
Karma does not exist.
Half the people around would be dead by now if it did!
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BULLSHIT!!!!!!
Karma does not exist.
Half the people around would be dead by now if it did!
Yes, Karma is a myth.
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Still, no biach is worth having hate for.
If you hate she = win.
Just get a hot new piece of ass and send it pics of you having sex. Works for me.
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Still, no biach is worth having hate for.
If you hate she = win.
Just get a hot new piece of ass and send it pics of you having sex. Works for me.
Hmmm...ever been in love?
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Hmmm...ever been in love?
I lived with a stripper for 3 years, does that count ;D
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I lived with a stripper for 3 years, does that count ;D
No.
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the worst form of cheating?hands down a bitch that fuks another guy then gets pregnant and tells her boyfriend its his.
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I love being in Love, would not trade it for a Million dollars.
(http://thesituationist.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/thing-called-love.jpg)
With Love in your life, you cannot go wrong-Quickerblade.
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the worst form of cheating?hands down a bitch that fuks another guy then gets pregnant and tells her boyfriend its his.
I have seen that happen in real life.
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I love being in Love, would not trade it for a Million dollars.
(http://thesituationist.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/thing-called-love.jpg)
With Love in your life, you cannot go wrong-Quickerblade.
you probably listen R&B all day
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you probably listen R&B all day
He a gangsta...
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To be loved you must have love in your heart and give love, you need to give to recieve,
Most men look for that perfect woman (not every man, lot of guys settle for anything) to find the perfect lady you must be the perfect man
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To be loved you must have love in your heart and give love, you need to give to recieve,
Most men look for that perfect woman (not every man, lot of guys settle for anything) to find the perfect lady you must be the perfect man
Man...the nauseating hypocrisy... :-X
Indescribable....
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Dude.
Stella left, Deceide and I are dudes.
There are no dumb women here to schmooze at the moment....
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To be loved you must have love in your heart and give love, you need to give to recieve,
Most men look for that perfect woman (not every man, lot of guys settle for anything) to find the perfect lady you must be the perfect man
look deep within yourself....your gay
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The scent of a beautiful woman calms the heart, the sight of her I fall apart.
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The scent of a beautiful woman calms the heart, the sight of her I fall apart.
fudge packer
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And what is "physical contact"?
Is kissing cheating?
Define "is"
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The scent of a beautiful woman calms the heart, the sight of her I fall apart.
So full of it...
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Define "is"
;D
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So full of it...
Im full of Positivity, Love and Happiness..
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Im full of Positivity, Love and Happiness..
No, your head is full of too much silly rap music and your wannabe gangsta routine is just ridiculous.
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Without Love, Hugs and kisses i would not want to live...Thank you Jesus for giving me the power to love and be loved
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Without Love, Hugs and kisses i would not want to live...Thank you Jesus for giving me the power to love and be loved
OK...
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The ultimate experience is a beautiful lady that hugs me at night, cuddles me in the morning,I Praise The Lord Above for sending me her love.
(http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a93/SOLISNNYC/AMOROSA/JANET/elba/love3.jpg)
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The ultimate experience is a beautiful lady that hugs me at night, cuddles me in the morning,I Praise The Lord Above for sending me her love.
(http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a93/SOLISNNYC/AMOROSA/JANET/elba/love3.jpg)
I envy a man like you. Lucky bastard :)
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Brix..
It takes years of refinement to achieve this level of bullshit....
But keep working at it.... you too, can be a playa
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Brix..
It takes years of refinement to achieve this level of bullshit....
But keep working at it.... you too, can be a playa
the "playa" level has already been achieved.. it's the levels above it that I'm concerned about.
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the "playa" level has already been achieved.. it's the levels above it that I'm concerned about.
When you're the king of all womankind.... what else is there to aspire to?
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When you're the king of all womankind.... what else is there to aspire to?
The world is full of hos that mean next to nothin and can be swayed with lessons any man can learn, but finding someone who makes you forget about the rest and being able to SUCCESSFULLY be their everything is a fate I haven't achieved yet.
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The world is full of hos that mean next to nothin and can be swayed with lessons any man can learn, but finding someone who makes you forget about the rest and being able to SUCCESSFULLY be their everything is a fate I haven't achieved yet.
I can help you get this girl, I too was looking for that special someone, I found it..Thank you Jesus christ
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Only physical is cheating.
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I can help you get this girl, I too was looking for that special someone, I found it..Thank you Jesus christ
Jesus ain't gonna cut it. Only me with a little help from his Dad, maybe.
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Only physical is cheating.
I was seeing this chick that was engaged and her other half found out, went nuts started calling my fone and wanted to hunt me down. Until the girl told him it was just an emotional affair and there was no sex. He was fine after that.
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I was seeing this chick that was engaged and her other half found out, went nuts started calling my fone and wanted to hunt me down. Until the girl told him it was just an emotional affair and there was no sex. He was fine after that.
hahahaha he sounds like a loser, he probably posts on getbig.
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hahahaha he sounds like a loser, he probably posts on getbig.
Grade A loser!
Just another example of dudes that can't keep their woman happy.... good thing there be playas like us to help those girls out ;)
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Grade A loser!
Just another example of dudes that can't keep their woman happy.... good thing there be playas like us to help those girls out ;)
For Real, Girls love badboys, some dudes will never get it unfortunately, for every nice guy there is a bad boy behing his Mrs.
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I was seeing this chick that was engaged and her other half found out, went nuts started calling my fone and wanted to hunt me down. Until the girl told him it was just an emotional affair and there was no sex. He was fine after that.
Exactly, emotional cheating is just another word for having a friend of the opposite sex. I could care less if my girl has a guy friend as long as she's not fucking him.
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Define "is"
Explain "define"
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Explain "define"
Clarify "explain"
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hahaha
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Stella what is your take on this topic?
Does quickerblade make you weak in the knees?
He can, after all, get any female he desires with just a mere glance......
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Stella what is your take on this topic?
Does quickerblade make you weak in the knees?
He can, after all, get any female he desires with just a mere glance......
No man makes me "weak in the knees" except my husband :)
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But said gentlemen has before mentioned that husbands/signifigant others are irrlevant because the charms are so strong.
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But said gentlemen has before mentioned that husbands/signifigant others are irrlevant because the charms are so strong.
Then my husband must have the kevorka
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I have been in a relationship for two years. We both love each other very much, know each other very well. I always crave his touch and I always want to be near him. But every now and then I want to be with other people, not a well thought through, logical decision, but a nearly uncontrollable urge. I usually don't pay attention to wanting to be with other people, but still. . .once is too much in my book. The worst time this happened was during one of our fights, and I considered IMMing my ex to start something. Then I was like, no, I should break up with my current boyfriend first. But the thought passed and I am still with my boyfriend, who I do not want to leave. But I imagined me and my ex together for a couple seconds. So yeah I feel horrible about that. I want the truth, is that cheating? Like cheating worse than or on par with just fucking a guy I don't love? Me and my boyfriend both said we have feelings for our exes that we can't control, but we try to push them away. But, what I did is more than that. And I can't just get over it. Should I tell him? Also, I have this happen a lot, me considering being with other people and liking it. I've never been that close before though.
So how do I stop?
This problem of mine happens for a few reasons
1. I don't see him every day, I am at college. He doesn't have a phone sometimes and thus rarely calls me anymore. He has a life and a job, so it's not like we IM a lot. We usually see each other every weekend. And during the last summer it's been somewhat more, but not every day. I feel like we don't have much time to bond together anymore.
2. We fight a lot. Like, every time we see each other. Often very big fights that involve yelling and crying and feeling horrible afterwards.
3. curiosity. I have only had sex with him, and never had a very deep relationship with anyone else either. I often wonder what it would be like to have that with someone else. I am like a guy in the way that my instinct tells me to spread my seed. But I don't feel right about it.
4. maybe the biggest one and the worst. . .I have baggage with him. I feel so bad about this whole thing, and other things that are anywhere close to it. It builds up and I feel like...maybe I should be with someone who won't give me the exclusivity he gives me. maybe I'm not made to be like this. If I start with someone new, for a short while at least, I will not have as much to feel bad about. And, I have learned so much over the past two years that some mistakes I may not make again.
Please tell me if my situation is really bad. Is this full blown cheating? Should I tell him? Should I even be with this person?
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You should pm this guy we know named Quickerblade.
He can help you.
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Brother, you are speaking the Gospel. That is why I have given up on Western women; all selfish, egotistical, self-serving, fickle...done with that...at least I hope, forever.
Hey! Funny, women say the same thing about men. It's not a gender thing, it's a human thing. I think people are people and people have problems.
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Hey! Funny, women say the same thing about men. It's not a gender thing, it's a human thing. I think people are people and people have problems.
No, it is feminist propaganda...
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I have been in a relationship for two years. We both love each other very much, know each other very well. I always crave his touch and I always want to be near him. But every now and then I want to be with other people, not a well thought through, logical decision, but a nearly uncontrollable urge. I usually don't pay attention to wanting to be with other people, but still. . .once is too much in my book. The worst time this happened was during one of our fights, and I considered IMMing my ex to start something. Then I was like, no, I should break up with my current boyfriend first. But the thought passed and I am still with my boyfriend, who I do not want to leave. But I imagined me and my ex together for a couple seconds. So yeah I feel horrible about that. I want the truth, is that cheating? Like cheating worse than or on par with just fucking a guy I don't love? Me and my boyfriend both said we have feelings for our exes that we can't control, but we try to push them away. But, what I did is more than that. And I can't just get over it. Should I tell him? Also, I have this happen a lot, me considering being with other people and liking it. I've never been that close before though.
So how do I stop?
This problem of mine happens for a few reasons
1. I don't see him every day, I am at college. He doesn't have a phone sometimes and thus rarely calls me anymore. He has a life and a job, so it's not like we IM a lot. We usually see each other every weekend. And during the last summer it's been somewhat more, but not every day. I feel like we don't have much time to bond together anymore.
2. We fight a lot. Like, every time we see each other. Often very big fights that involve yelling and crying and feeling horrible afterwards.
3. curiosity. I have only had sex with him, and never had a very deep relationship with anyone else either. I often wonder what it would be like to have that with someone else. I am like a guy in the way that my instinct tells me to spread my seed. But I don't feel right about it.
4. maybe the biggest one and the worst. . .I have baggage with him. I feel so bad about this whole thing, and other things that are anywhere close to it. It builds up and I feel like...maybe I should be with someone who won't give me the exclusivity he gives me. maybe I'm not made to be like this. If I start with someone new, for a short while at least, I will not have as much to feel bad about. And, I have learned so much over the past two years that some mistakes I may not make again.
Please tell me if my situation is really bad. Is this full blown cheating? Should I tell him? Should I even be with this person?
I feel bad for your male slave; however if you do break up with him you will be doing him a favour since he won't have to countenance scum like you anymore and you can suck all the new dicks you crave. Hope this helps. :)
PS...
PM Quickerblade...he can help!
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PM Quickerblade...he can help!
Thanks Deicide :-\ I dont mind helping Gay people, but Not gay gimmicks
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Thanks Deicide :-\ I dont mind helping Gay people, but Not gay gimmicks
It's a woman I think.
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It's a woman I think.
Well, its a gimmick anyway, who the fuck opens a account with getbig to ask for love advice?