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I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me. She would not stop calling me or texting me! I told her repeatedly to stop calling and to stop the constant texting (especially the texting). She insisted on texing me at all hours. So I eventually changed my phone number.
She was frustrated and began to gossip about me at work. One person actually told me that she felt that God told her that I was going to marry her!!!! I got creeped out. co-workers told me that she was obsessed with me. She made it a difficult place to work at. So I left.
In an email I told her that she was not my type physically or mentally.
I thought I was free from her!!!!
She knew that I went to church.....so see decided to join to my church (I knew something was very wrong)
She has found out where I work now......and she has insisted on applying there (without telling anyone there that she knew me). She was hired. During introductions, I was shocked when I met the new employee!!!!
She is frigging creepy. She hid the fact that she new me when she got hired.
I told her privately that I found it very odd and very creepy that she chose do insert herself back into my life. I told her that I had no interest in her.
She told me she was interested in me either....she said...."Dont read into it, im persuing a dream"
I tried to ignore the situation. But the other day I learned that she is trying to get transferred to my department. . . .so I spoke up...
Management is now aware that I think that she is crazy and following me. I told them that she has intruded into my life and I dont want to be near her her or even see her.
Management is very concerned about that she made a point to hide the fact that she knew me.
I was told that she was questioned about this. I have no idea what was said.
Has anyone gone through anything like this???
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I'm not reading all that just for a guy w/ 44 posts.
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2 words
RESTRAINING ORDER
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some girl followed me and camped outside my house in her car for a whole night (until morning) after she saw me at Burger King
does that count :-\
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I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me. She would not stop calling me or texting me! I told her repeatedly to stop calling and to stop the constant texting (especially the texting). She insisted on texing me at all hours. So I eventually changed my phone number.
She was frustrated and began to gossip about me at work. One person actually told me that she felt that God told her that I was going to marry her!!!! I got creeped out. co-workers told me that she was obsessed with me. She made it a difficult place to work at. So I left.
In an email I told her that she was not my type physically or mentally.
I thought I was free from her!!!!
She knew that I went to church.....so see decided to join to my church (I knew something was very wrong)
She has found out where I work now......and she has insisted on applying there (without telling anyone there that she knew me). She was hired. During introductions, I was shocked when I met the new employee!!!!
She is frigging creepy. She hid the fact that she new me when she got hired.
I told her privately that I found it very odd and very creepy that she chose do insert herself back into my life. I told her that I had no interest in her.
She told me she was interested in me either....she said...."Dont read into it, im persuing a dream"
I tried to ignore the situation. But the other day I learned that she is trying to get transferred to my department. . . .so I spoke up...
Management is now aware that I think that she is crazy and following me. I told them that she has intruded into my life and I dont want to be near her her or even see her.
Management is very concerned about that she made a point to hide the fact that she knew me.
I was told that she was questioned about this. I have no idea what was said.
Has anyone gone through anything like this???
so how did it feel coming out of the closet? Were your parents ashamed?
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This would make a great episode of The Office.
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Yes.
Use the the police. Trust me, crazy people don't stop being crazy on their own.
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Yes.
Use the the police. Trust me, crazy people don't stop being crazy on their own.
Good point. At least start a paper trail, so some kind of reference point with regards to this problem exists.
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"I'm not gonna be ignored.... Don." >:(
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there was a girl in my police academy class who i de-virginized at the movies who stalked me. the bitch fallowed me to my house, to the gym, even to my sisters house 3 hours away!!!
the bitch wouldn't even get out of her car, she just sat there and watched me. My pshycotic Brazilian girlfriend i got shortly after i de-virginized that bitch fixed all that stalking shit though ;D
bench
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Yes.
Use the the police. Trust me, crazy people don't stop being crazy on their own.
Good point. At least start a paper trail, so some kind of reference point with regards to this problem exists.
Exactly. You have no idea what is going on in her head or what weird/scary/violent shit she'll do in the future. If the shit hits the fan one night... say she kills herself at your house and tries to make it look like you murdered her, to give an extreme example... you think you're going to wish other people + the police had previous knowledge of what's going on? Report this shit immediately. I'd consult a lawyer for advice.
And no. No one ever cared enough to stalk me. :'(
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Yes, twice, I'll tell you about when I return from the gym.
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Yes.......on here daily.
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Chaos stalks me. That boy just wont learn either.
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I'm not reading all that just for a guy w/ 44 posts.
;D
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Pandae is stalked by pumphard--does that count?
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i was stalked once
...................and YES, it was a fucking guy ::)
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nobody has been stalked in getbig, go and research the exact definition
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nobody has been stalked in getbig, go and research the exact definition
benz you know that I can ask for your IP, give it to FBI and have then at your door right?
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benz you know that I can ask for your IP, give it to FBI and have then at your door right?
No worry we use a pool of windows xp machines backdored so...bring it 8)
***edit***
i use eastlink aswel, thats closer to you 8)
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benz you know that I can ask for your IP, give it to FBI and have then at your door right?
FYI.....you're kinda f**king with the wrong person with that crap.
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No worry we use a pool of windows xp machines backdored so...bring it 8)
you're seriously an idiot, you take the "internet" way too seriously kid
you take getbig into real life, one day getbig is gonna come into your real life
with a half dozen FBI agents, arresting you for stalking
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you're seriously an idiot, you take the "internet" way too seriously kid
you take getbig into real life, one day getbig is gonna come into your real life
with a half dozen FBI agents, arresting you for stalking
An idiot? im not the one insulting mothers here, i told you several times to keep it between us but people never learn.
One more thing, a "dozen" fbi agents is old, these days the way you notify people is by calling the isp, get raw logs, match day and # and then the isp must take actions, it is not like in the movies but hey, dont stop trying :)
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Pandae is stalked by pumphard--does that count?
And don't forget that jap fag "KYOMU" That creepy bastard has been following me all over the boards lately using such creative insults as "You are not human" ::) ;D
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I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me. She would not stop calling me or texting me! I told her repeatedly to stop calling and to stop the constant texting (especially the texting). She insisted on texing me at all hours. So I eventually changed my phone number.
She was frustrated and began to gossip about me at work. One person actually told me that she felt that God told her that I was going to marry her!!!! I got creeped out. co-workers told me that she was obsessed with me. She made it a difficult place to work at. So I left.
In an email I told her that she was not my type physically or mentally.
I thought I was free from her!!!!
She knew that I went to church.....so see decided to join to my church (I knew something was very wrong)
She has found out where I work now......and she has insisted on applying there (without telling anyone there that she knew me). She was hired. During introductions, I was shocked when I met the new employee!!!!
She is frigging creepy. She hid the fact that she new me when she got hired.
I told her privately that I found it very odd and very creepy that she chose do insert herself back into my life. I told her that I had no interest in her.
She told me she was interested in me either....she said...."Dont read into it, im persuing a dream"
I tried to ignore the situation. But the other day I learned that she is trying to get transferred to my department. . . .so I spoke up...
Management is now aware that I think that she is crazy and following me. I told them that she has intruded into my life and I dont want to be near her her or even see her.
Management is very concerned about that she made a point to hide the fact that she knew me.
I was told that she was questioned about this. I have no idea what was said.
Has anyone gone through anything like this???
I didn't read all this shit, but it sounds like you're a pussy and you should have fucked that chick, a few times.
Comes across like you are running from the puss, why not just come out of the closet?
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I didn't read all this shit, but it sounds like you're a pussy and you should have fucked that chick, a few times.
Comes across like you are running from the puss, why not just come out of the closet?
fuckign stalker
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fuckign stalker
Slander.
You're sewd.
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Slander.
You're sewd.
Ok "el pajero"
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One business (customer) of mine had this guy there one time, so i sold him a few products direct just to try them out.
He did not leave me alone, texting and texting, i thought he was ok at first it was nothing out of the ordinary, and thought it might help make contacts for my business in the future. But then he started with all this gay shit over and over. I texted back that he was fucking nuts and that ended it.
In my part time job i have this fat whale, ok to talk to as it is a boring call centre job, but for some reason some of these girls have never had a good looking guy talk to them (ever!) so they become infatuated with them and think they are interested. It happened a few times but this one in particular just kept texting a friend of mine that worked there over and over and i didn't want her to end up with my number because i knew i would be next. She did get it through someone else because we all do shift swaps there and i just never replied, every text is a question to get you to respond. I have no idea where her confidence came from she is disgusting. I almost don't even want to talk to chicks i'm not interested in ever again (shouldn't anyway!).
I gotta say i feel sorry for chicks that have guys that do this, at least as a BBer guy i can tell someone to fuck off and no-one's going to take the risk and fuck with me.
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Ok "el pajero"
Relax "MemberX". ;)
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Ok, it doesn't qualify as stalking but I had 2 dates with a woman who was basically DESPERATE for a man (doesn't say much for me, does it :D). It was clear to me there was no future in it so I cut it off. There were tears, can I come to your house to talk about it, texts, generally freaky behavior. I didn't even fuck her. It was strange and offputting. I feared teh stalk (you start thinking about the security of your property, pets, job, etc) but thankfully it didn't happen.
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Sorry Chemfit, Rocco is totally media made. Nothing special.
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I'm currently stalking someone right now.
http://www.roccodispirito.com/ (http://www.roccodispirito.com/)
That guy sucked on that show he was on. That guy who owned that restaurant should have fired his ass long time ago, Rocco has no business running a restaurant
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I agree, I watched every episode and this guy was a business disaster.
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I worked with an older woman (early 40's) back 2006. We worked together and I was her personal trainer on the side. She wanted to be a couple and I said no. She wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I said no. I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit. But we never had any sexual contact what so ever. I told her that I was sorry for leading her on but she wasnt for me.
You're not telling us the whole story, baby Dada.
Either you fucked her or you let her suck your cock, because there's no way a woman stalks you without some type of reassurance.....
If you wanted her to leave you alone, you should have had some rough anal with her and brutalized her....
She'd have never spoke to you again. ::)
DIV
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i was stalked once
...................and YES, it was a fucking guy ::)
hahahaha, I feel you bro. ;D ;D
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I did kiss her a few times....perhaps I led her on a bit.
Reminds me of a Jerry Seinfeld line, "I think that by sleeping with her I may have sent the wrong message."