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Getbig Bodybuilding Boards => Positive Bodybuilding Discussion & Talk => Topic started by: linden on November 19, 2008, 05:09:08 AM
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I don't talk to anybody when I am at the gym. I keep my headphones on and focus on the task at hand I hate to be interupted. But last night I was doing abs and this new chick at my gym came over and started working out right next to me she kept looking over I kept getting the feeling she wanted me to say Hi or something like that but I just kept working out like I always do. But now I feel like I probally just came off like a total dick. Which is not how I wanted to come off but when Im at the gym I am there to work out if I want to pick up chicks Ill go to a bar.
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one doesnt rule out the other
for instance, when im at the gym im all business, but when i leave girls from the gym are waiting outside the locker room and we hook up then
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I don't talk to anybody when I am at the gym. I keep my headphones on and focus on the task at hand I hate to be interupted. But last night I was doing abs and this new chick at my gym came over and started working out right next to me she kept looking over I kept getting the feeling she wanted me to say Hi or something like that but I just kept working out like I always do. But now I feel like I probally just came off like a total dick. Which is not how I wanted to come off but when Im at the gym I am there to work out if I want to pick up chicks Ill go to a bar.
I dress like shit when I'm at the gym - i like to train in old pants, and tight stretchable semi-torn old top...I also train in the mornings straight out of bed
so, not a good look for chatting up women....
esp my gym (i go to the branded chain of fitness clubs) where ppl there are all gelled up and wearing tidy designer label training clothes, sipping up the water while watching CNN on the tredmill.....
so - no chance :)
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I talk briefly to folk in the gym but never fully 'hit' on the ladies. Besides,the owner makes a point of 'looking out' for the girls so they don't feel uncomfortable in his place, we need more girls there tbh. They make the moves first.
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CHICKS HIT ON ME
not the other way around
8)
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Only once, she was in my way I asked her to move and she didn't so I started hitting on her with a 5 lb plate.
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CHICKS HIT ON ME
not the other way around
8)
Must feel good going from that chubby little outcast we used to see in that pic of you on the motorcycle to being the object of women's attention. Do you feel more secure these days or will nothing you do help with that?
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Must feel good going from that chubby little outcast we used to see in that pic of you on the motorcycle to being the object of women's attention. Do you feel more secure these days or will nothing you do help with that?
i have my good days and my bad days
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Although I'm currently in Iraq, I normally work out of Kuwait. There are no chicks to hit on in our gyms. Most of the gyms are segregated. Men have their own and women have their own. In the large hotels and resorts the facilities are mixed.
Pat
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i have my good days and my bad days
Well, you've made a great physical transformation. You've become knowledgable in a lot of areas like nutrition and pharmacology.Just try to keep improving your intellect along with your physical development and strive toward having that inner peace and confidence. Oh... and keep banging those hotties like the Nigerian girl! ;)
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Well, you've made a great physical transformation. You've become knowledgable in a lot of areas like nutrition and pharmacology.Just try to keep improving your intellect along with your physical development and strive toward having that inner peace and confidence. Oh... and keep banging those hotties like the Nigerian girl! ;)
thanks man will do
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Yes. My workouts are never so serious that I can't make time to hit on a girl if I feel like it. I won't stop a set or a circuit, nothing like that, but afterwards or inbetween sets is Ok USA!
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There is no such thing as "chicks" in my gym.
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I don't talk to anybody when I am at the gym. I keep my headphones on and focus on the task at hand I hate to be interupted. But last night I was doing abs and this new chick at my gym came over and started working out right next to me she kept looking over I kept getting the feeling she wanted me to say Hi or something like that but I just kept working out like I always do. But now I feel like I probally just came off like a total dick. Which is not how I wanted to come off but when Im at the gym I am there to work out if I want to pick up chicks Ill go to a bar.
You shouldn't try to make it happen, stay focused on your workout, zero in on it while still realizing that there will be opportunities. In your case, that definitely sounded like an opportunity.
If she's obviously looking, definitely talk to her or at least say hi and see how she responds.
You'll get a sense for what she wants.
I wouldn't blame you for not acting, you were probably at extreme focus with your workout.
You went to the gym for a reason.
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Nothing more than a smile or a helpful tip or something.
I was working out at another gym because mine was closed for the day, and I saw some gorgeous broad doing cardio and sipping on a Redbull and Powerade. She told me about her goals and whatnot and I gave her a few primers. If I didn't have a gf I would have asked for a number. I wouldn't just walk up to a girl and start busting out horrible pick up lines though. I've actually seen dumbasses say the most cliche stuff to girls and get shot down horribly LOL
The gym just isn't the place... grocery stores is where it's at. Everyone needs to eat. I've met the most grounded girls at the grocery store. Fuck the gym or a gross bar/club.. grocery stores are goldmines. You can take a look at their shopping cart too.
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thanks man will do
I have to give you that one. She is HOT! Any new pics? ;D
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I have to give you that one. She is HOT! Any new pics? ;D
I have never seen an ebony cooter IRL. We have like 30 black people in town at most. I vote for more pics as well. She's HOT!! 8)
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I have never seen an ebony cooter IRL. We have like 30 black people in town at most. I vote for more pics as well. She's HOT!! 8)
It they are hot... They are HOT! I love all women... Thats why I just do not under any circumstances understand gay men? WTF?
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okay fellas i got a bunch more pics on my phone ill upload em a bit later today
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No, I just stare at them.
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okay fellas i got a bunch more pics on my phone ill upload em a bit later today
Still waiting................. ......
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:)
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Very nice! Dude, straight up. How can you want to suck a guys dick after being with a fine ass female? It just doesnt make sense???? Those other pics were NICE!
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i cant choose who im attracted to , sometimes i see a guy and i feel attracted to him, i dont know why the fact i also am attracted to females would make a difference.
the frequency that i see a guy that i am attrcated to is far less than the frequency that i see a woman i am attraced to though..
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i cant choose who im attracted to , sometimes i see a guy and i feel attracted to him, i dont know why the fact i also am attracted to females would make a difference.
the frequency that i see a guy that i am attrcated to is far less than the frequency that i see a woman i am attraced to though..
Whatever man.... Post more pics Please! :D
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Only once, she was in my way I asked her to move and she didn't so I started hitting on her with a 5 lb plate.
you could have used something else...lol
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I don't talk to anybody when I am at the gym. I keep my headphones on and focus on the task at hand I hate to be interupted. But last night I was doing abs and this new chick at my gym came over and started working out right next to me she kept looking over I kept getting the feeling she wanted me to say Hi or something like that but I just kept working out like I always do. But now I feel like I probally just came off like a total dick. Which is not how I wanted to come off but when Im at the gym I am there to work out if I want to pick up chicks Ill go to a bar.
I've always been the same way, bro. I can sometimes tell when chicks want to start up a conversation with me or go out of their way to get my attention, but I just can't get into socializing mode when I train. It doesn't work for me. Sometimes I relax and make small talk...usually when I go to the gym without a game plan. But I am pretty anti-social while training. LOL
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:)
This is by far the most inspiring post ever on the Positive board.
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When I was in my twenties seeing a girl in a bodybuilding gym was a rare site. I'm 50 now. I train in my basement now and on occasion non commercial gyms associated with my job.
My wife goes to a gym that use to be a world gym but it changed its name to something else. I went a couple of times with her and I can't believe how there are more women training than men in the AM hours. What I was impressed with was how hard some of the girls were training. One was doing squats in a power rack next to me doing squats. How many guys even train legs today? If they do it's a pansy effort to get back to curls and benches. Another thing was how super hot many of the women were. If I was a single guy and I wanted to meet women it would be training in the AM hours at this gym.
Maybe I should take a break from basement training to check out the sights!
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When I was in my twenties seeing a girl in a bodybuilding gym was a rare site. I'm 50 now. I train in my basement now and on occasion non commercial gyms associated with my job.
My wife goes to a gym that use to be a world gym but it changed its name to something else. I went a couple of times with her and I can't believe how there are more women training than men in the AM hours. What I was impressed with was how hard some of the girls were training. One was doing squats in a power rack next to me doing squats. How many guys even train legs today? If they do it's a pansy effort to get back to curls and benches. Another thing was how super hot many of the women were. If I was a single guy and I wanted to meet women it would be training in the AM hours at this gym.
Maybe I should take a break from basement training to check out the sights!
EXACTLY.
The thing females are starting to realize is that the fit look is far more sexy than the anorexic look... It was always "the skinnier the better" in the eyes of the female but right now a transition is occuring towards more of a fitness model look. If you don't train and don't eat you'll look bad, you'll look "skinny fat." :-\ BUT, if you train and eat healthy you will look fucking irresistible! And I think as females see pictures of "fit" looking women--NOT thick or masculine, but FIT--they can see the difference between a female who is obviously starving herself and it becomes VERY VERY clear that the one who looks fit rather than like a twig is multiple times sexier. You don't want to look masculine, but you do want to look like you're not going to crumble or collapse from the physical demand of simply existing. :-\
So, I think we'll see progressively more and more females in the gym through time as they realize more and more that the gateway to being sexy as a mofo is to train with weights. ;)
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EXACTLY.
The thing females are starting to realize is that the fit look is far more sexy than the anorexic look... It was always "the skinnier the better" in the eyes of the female but right now a transition is occuring towards more of a fitness model look. If you don't train and don't eat you'll look bad, you'll look "skinny fat." :-\ BUT, if you train and eat healthy you will look fucking irresistible! And I think as females see pictures of "fit" looking women--NOT thick or masculine, but FIT--they can see the difference between a female who is obviously starving herself and it becomes VERY VERY clear that the one who looks fit rather than like a twig is multiple times sexier. You don't want to look masculine, but you do want to look like you're not going to crumble or collapse from the physical demand of simply existing. :-\
So, I think we'll see progressively more and more females in the gym through time as they realize more and more that the gateway to being sexy as a mofo is to train with weights. ;)
Yep I agree, thing is most chicks are training not just legs but Ass, that is why they are in the squat rack. Legs and Ass are problem areas for women, and many women (white women) have no ass, the best way to get it...other than genetics, is Squatting. When I was at the gym in the morning hrs (as was stated), at my former gym, you had to buy time at the squat rack because that is where the women were, that and the Smith machine, standing leg curl. machine