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Title: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: EL Mariachi on April 07, 2009, 05:07:00 PM
it makes sence

Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: CastIron on April 07, 2009, 05:36:41 PM
Thx for the post.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: EL Mariachi on April 07, 2009, 05:51:18 PM
Thx for the post.

thank you too  ;D
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Eisenherz on April 07, 2009, 08:00:32 PM
I'm not sure that its possible to get rid of your ego, maybe for brief moments, so I think what he says is good, watch your ego and dont be defined by it.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: NaturalWonder83 on April 07, 2009, 08:08:28 PM
oh its mr top secret rent man
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on April 08, 2009, 07:11:51 AM
Good tip. So many bad things come from ego.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: lovemonkey on April 08, 2009, 07:30:37 AM
it makes sence sense



fixed.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 07:51:42 AM
you are a strong person if you can turn off your ego.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Sarcastic Deity on April 08, 2009, 07:55:55 AM
when the manson family turned off their egos, it caused them to kill.  so please use caution
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 08:12:41 AM
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Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: lovemonkey on April 08, 2009, 08:13:05 AM
http://rs10.rapidshare.com/files/22654158/Make_Women_Laugh_Martin_Merrill.rar (http://rs10.rapidshare.com/files/22654158/Make_Women_Laugh_Martin_Merrill.rar)

No picture?
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 08:13:47 AM
No picture?
lol
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 08:15:03 AM
Basically, women love to picture things in their minds. This is in
tandem with their inclination to feel.
Paint wonderful picture to women with your words. If you’re also in the
picture, congratulations, she’ll fall for you very soon if not yet.
Use evocative and poetic language to arouse imagination. Intersperse
in your speech words like these:
􀂾 Pounding
􀂾 Pure
􀂾 Wholeness
􀂾 Compassion
􀂾 Throb
􀂾 Swift
􀂾 Quiver
􀂾 Hailstorm
􀂾 Eternity
􀂾 Never-ending stretch
􀂾 Tremor
􀂾 Crush
􀂾 Twist
􀂾 Mind-boggling
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 08:16:31 AM
The 3-Second Rule
I heard about the 3-second rule long ago and it never ceased to amaze
me. Simply stated, the 3-second rule commands you to approach a
woman you like in 3 seconds after noticing her. For example, a hot
babe catches your eyes at a party or a bar. Immediately you should
smile at her and start walking towards her. You are allowed a “buffer
time” of no more than 3 seconds.
If you stick to the 3-second rule, you’ll establish an image of
decisiveness and strong confidence. Women love such
Make Women Laugh – By Martin Merrill © 2006. All Rights Reserved. www.MakeWomenLaugh.com
34
demonstration of masculinity. Also, in 3 seconds you won’t have
time to think of the excuses why you shouldn’t take action.
This rule always brings me pleasant surprises especially when I started
out because women (even the hot ones) reacted so much more
positively than those times when I allowed myself more time to muster
up my courage. Test it out and you’ll never regret it. Maybe for the
first time you’d say, “I really did that! But hey, that’s me… I’m glad I
did it anyway!”
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: lovemonkey on April 08, 2009, 08:19:32 AM
The 3-Second Rule
I heard about the 3-second rule long ago and it never ceased to amaze
me. Simply stated, the 3-second rule commands you to approach a
woman you like in 3 seconds after noticing her. For example, a hot
babe catches your eyes at a party or a bar. Immediately you should
smile at her and start walking towards her. You are allowed a “buffer
time” of no more than 3 seconds.
If you stick to the 3-second rule, you’ll establish an image of
decisiveness and strong confidence. Women love such
Make Women Laugh – By Martin Merrill © 2006. All Rights Reserved. www.MakeWomenLaugh.com
34
demonstration of masculinity. Also, in 3 seconds you won’t have
time to think of the excuses why you shouldn’t take action.
This rule always brings me pleasant surprises especially when I started
out because women (even the hot ones) reacted so much more
positively than those times when I allowed myself more time to muster
up my courage. Test it out and you’ll never regret it. Maybe for the
first time you’d say, “I really did that! But hey, that’s me… I’m glad I
did it anyway!”


lol 3 seconds, epic running all over the place whenever you spot a hot chick.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 08:33:20 AM
http://www.ebookee.com/How-To-Dominate-Women_230563.html (http://www.ebookee.com/How-To-Dominate-Women_230563.html)
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: jaejonna on April 08, 2009, 08:34:25 AM
lol 3 seconds, epic running all over the place whenever you spot a hot chick.
it works and is true ...
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Mars on April 08, 2009, 08:45:08 AM
(http://pixhost.ws/avaxhome/b8/10/000b10b8_medium.jpeg)


"Women are like cats. They don't appreciate anything. The
more you give them, the more they want. And you know it's
true. Despite what we've been told about women by the
media, the endless articles celebrating the wonderfulness of
anything without a penis, the never-ending braying of the
mindless squaws of the "new feminism," women, just like
men, haven't changed one iota since we came down out of the
trees."

"Why do women go for "bad boys?" Why, when there is a
guy willing to slobber all over himself, shining her shoes,
cooking her meals, running the vacuum, et cetera, do they
dump him for a jobless drub addict who beats them ... every,
single time? Because they're all, deep down inside, searching
for someone to dominate them.
You don't believe it? Then you're an idiot. Plain and simple.
It is the natural way of things for men to be in charge, for
men to dominate all situations between a man and a woman.
When a man isn't dominating a woman, telling her what to do,
giving her boundaries and guidelines, she will get herself into
worse and worse trouble, lashing out with ridiculous behavior
until some right-thinking male takes her in hand and lays
down the law."

http://uploading.com/files/W4Z79KJ8/How_To_Dominate.rar.html (http://uploading.com/files/W4Z79KJ8/How_To_Dominate.rar.html)
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Tre on April 08, 2009, 08:47:28 AM

I am an ego slave.

But that is because the gods of the world have given me tremendous gifts and have thereby obligated me to impart wisdom upon the masses who need guidance. 
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: EL Mariachi on April 09, 2009, 07:39:45 AM
(http://pixhost.ws/avaxhome/b8/10/000b10b8_medium.jpeg)


"Women are like cats. They don't appreciate anything. The
more you give them, the more they want. And you know it's
true. Despite what we've been told about women by the
media, the endless articles celebrating the wonderfulness of
anything without a penis, the never-ending braying of the
mindless squaws of the "new feminism," women, just like
men, haven't changed one iota since we came down out of the
trees."

"Why do women go for "bad boys?" Why, when there is a
guy willing to slobber all over himself, shining her shoes,
cooking her meals, running the vacuum, et cetera, do they
dump him for a jobless drub addict who beats them ... every,
single time? Because they're all, deep down inside, searching
for someone to dominate them.
You don't believe it? Then you're an idiot. Plain and simple.
It is the natural way of things for men to be in charge, for
men to dominate all situations between a man and a woman.
When a man isn't dominating a woman, telling her what to do,
giving her boundaries and guidelines, she will get herself into
worse and worse trouble, lashing out with ridiculous behavior
until some right-thinking male takes her in hand and lays
down the law."

http://uploading.com/files/W4Z79KJ8/How_To_Dominate.rar.html (http://uploading.com/files/W4Z79KJ8/How_To_Dominate.rar.html)

yet they cant stand critisizm
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Sam on April 09, 2009, 12:19:47 PM
(http://pixhost.ws/avaxhome/b8/10/000b10b8_medium.jpeg)


"Women are like cats. They don't appreciate anything. The
more you give them, the more they want. And you know it's
true. Despite what we've been told about women by the
media, the endless articles celebrating the wonderfulness of
anything without a penis, the never-ending braying of the
mindless squaws of the "new feminism," women, just like
men, haven't changed one iota since we came down out of the
trees."

"Why do women go for "bad boys?" Why, when there is a
guy willing to slobber all over himself, shining her shoes,
cooking her meals, running the vacuum, et cetera, do they
dump him for a jobless drub addict who beats them ... every,
single time? Because they're all, deep down inside, searching
for someone to dominate them.
You don't believe it? Then you're an idiot. Plain and simple.
It is the natural way of things for men to be in charge, for
men to dominate all situations between a man and a woman.
When a man isn't dominating a woman, telling her what to do,
giving her boundaries and guidelines, she will get herself into
worse and worse trouble, lashing out with ridiculous behavior
until some right-thinking male takes her in hand and lays
down the law."

http://uploading.com/files/W4Z79KJ8/How_To_Dominate.rar.html (http://uploading.com/files/W4Z79KJ8/How_To_Dominate.rar.html)


(https://ourrights.wikispaces.com/file/view/battered_woman_2_large.jpg)
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Sam on April 09, 2009, 12:21:34 PM
Basically, women love to picture things in their minds. This is in
tandem with their inclination to feel.
Paint wonderful picture to women with your words. If you’re also in the
picture, congratulations, she’ll fall for you very soon if not yet.
Use evocative and poetic language to arouse imagination. Intersperse
in your speech words like these:
 Pounding
 Pure
 Wholeness
 Compassion
 Throb
 Swift
 Quiver
 Hailstorm
 Eternity
 Never-ending stretch
 Tremor
 Crush
 Twist
 Mind-boggling

How about the phrase ''Getbig''?
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: INSOMNIA on April 09, 2009, 10:03:20 PM
The 3-Second Rule
I heard about the 3-second rule long ago and it never ceased to amaze
me. Simply stated, the 3-second rule commands you to approach a
woman you like in 3 seconds after noticing her. For example, a hot
babe catches your eyes at a party or a bar. Immediately you should
smile at her and start walking towards her. You are allowed a “buffer
time” of no more than 3 seconds.
If you stick to the 3-second rule, you’ll establish an image of
decisiveness and strong confidence. Women love such
Make Women Laugh – By Martin Merrill © 2006. All Rights Reserved. www.MakeWomenLaugh.com
34
demonstration of masculinity. Also, in 3 seconds you won’t have
time to think of the excuses why you shouldn’t take action.
This rule always brings me pleasant surprises especially when I started
out because women (even the hot ones) reacted so much more
positively than those times when I allowed myself more time to muster
up my courage. Test it out and you’ll never regret it. Maybe for the
first time you’d say, “I really did that! But hey, that’s me… I’m glad I
did it anyway!”


I agree with this. A real man sees what he wants & goes after it! Shyness/indecisivness in a man is a big turn off... and it suggests to me that he must not be all that interested, or just a total pussy...

I have never been one that is attracted to jerks though.. Confidence is a good thing. Arrogance is not.

Call me old-fashioned... but a woman should never chase or heavily pursue a man, IMO. Goes against the natural order of things. I found a great article on this subject a while back, if I can find it I'll post it.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: clued-up on April 09, 2009, 10:05:17 PM
I agree with this. A real man sees what he wants & goes after it!

true.. I take what I want.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: TechnoViking on April 09, 2009, 10:13:02 PM
when the manson family turned off their egos, it caused them to kill.  so please use caution

It was Manson's ego that provoked his followers to do the action for him...Manson thought he could be a rock star...And was crushed because he got turned down(just once)...And sent his people to the house of the man who turned him down to kill...
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Eisenherz on April 09, 2009, 10:14:51 PM
he must not be all that interested, or just a total pussy...

Call me old-fashioned... but a woman should never chase or heavily pursue a man, IMO. Goes against the natural order of things.

I dunno, wouldnt describe myself as being a total pussy, but sometimes it can be intimidating going after a very attractive chick that you fancy.
The whole "woman should never pursue" I think is BS, it just shows they cant go after what they want either, or are just fucking arrogant.
But thats just me.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: clued-up on April 09, 2009, 10:15:52 PM
*ego*.. as in an inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others.. is bad.. and it will interfere with every aspect of your life in a negative way.

destroy it.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: INSOMNIA on April 09, 2009, 10:28:34 PM
I dunno, wouldnt describe myself as being a total pussy, but sometimes it can be intimidating going after a very attractive chick that you fancy.
The whole "woman should never pursue" I think is BS, it just shows they cant go after what they want either, or are just fucking arrogant.
But thats just me.

I hear you..

I said chase or 'heavily' pursue... IMO, it shouldnt be done. Nothing wrong with a girl showing an interested guy that the feeling is mutual.

Thought a woman's point of view on this subject might be helpful  ;)
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: clued-up on April 09, 2009, 10:31:32 PM
sometimes it can be intimidating going after a very attractive chick that you fancy.

in what way are you intimidated?
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Eisenherz on April 09, 2009, 10:58:03 PM
in what way are you intimidated?

Dont act like you dont know.
When you go to talk to a chick you find interesting and then your mind hits a blank creating an extremely awkward moment and the interaction ends with "haha nice meeting you kthnxbye".
Happens rarely but when it does it sucks and leaves anxiety about future approaches.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: clued-up on April 09, 2009, 11:11:10 PM
Dont act like you dont know.

I honestly dont have that problem.. at all.

you are shooting yourself in the foot.. the one who mentioned * a man goes after what he wants* was dead on.

a woman wants a man thats capable... in a variety of ways.

if you aren't even capable of having an exchange of dialog.. what message do you think that sends to the woman?

you project nothing but awkward fear and nervous energy.. and that is not a desirable quality in a man.

I mean.. its just a woman... what are you scared of?

if you cant even talk to her.. then how will you do anything else?

a woman wants you to take her... take her mind.. and take her body.

there is nothing to fear. she is a person.. who you want.. so act like it.

my advice would be to treat your anxiety... because you really shouldn't introduce yourself to a woman you're interested in.. overcome with anxiety.

anxiety = incompetent.. that's the way it will translate in her mind.. even if she doesn't realize why - she will lose interest.

unless she happens to have more baggage than you  :)

 
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Eisenherz on April 09, 2009, 11:16:45 PM

unless she happens to have more baggage than you  :)
 

I think you are spot on, the above goes for every woman I've been with lulz.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: INSOMNIA on April 09, 2009, 11:27:34 PM
I honestly dont have that problem.. at all.

you are shooting yourself in the foot.. the one who mentioned * a man goes after what he wants* was dead on.

a woman wants a man thats capable... in a variety of ways.

if you aren't even capable of having an exchange of dialog.. what message do you think that sends to the woman?

you project nothing but awkward fear and nervous energy.. and that is not a desirable quality in a man.

I mean.. its just a woman... what are you scared of?

if you cant even talk to her.. then how will you do anything else?

a woman wants you to take her... take her mind.. and take her body.

there is nothing to fear. she is a person.. who you want.. so act like it.

my advice would be to treat your anxiety... because you really shouldn't introduce yourself to a woman you're interested in.. overcome with anxiety.

anxiety = incompetent.. that's the way it will translate in her mind.. even if she doesn't realize why - she will lose interest.

unless she happens to have more baggage than you  :)

 

James speaks the truth!!! Preach on!!!  ;D
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: kiwiol on April 09, 2009, 11:31:15 PM
Call me old-fashioned... but a woman should never chase or heavily pursue a man, IMO.

There are some who disagree

(http://img5.allocine.fr/acmedia/medias/nmedia/18/36/22/83/18463687.jpg)
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: INSOMNIA on April 09, 2009, 11:34:10 PM
There are some who disagree

(http://img5.allocine.fr/acmedia/medias/nmedia/18/36/22/83/18463687.jpg)

yea. and see how that one worked out??  ;D
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: clued-up on April 09, 2009, 11:44:35 PM
James speaks the truth!!! Preach on!!!  ;D

I should really talk about sex itself.. I could say a lot.. its one of my favorite activities.

maybe when i take another break.. museum quality artwork doesn't paint itself.. so I must be off to paint for a while  :)
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: kiwiol on April 09, 2009, 11:45:03 PM
yea. and see how that one worked out??  ;D

I'd say it was a happy ending, what with them wanting to kill each other and all, like a lot of married couple do a few years down the line...
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: EL Mariachi on April 10, 2009, 02:05:26 PM
Have you tried any of the mantras he suggests? I did and they work...I did Japa i believe it's called with the sound KLEEM. Supposedly it's for attracting women but it can be used for all thing material as well. It felt as if all the stress in the world melted off of my mind and I was "washed" in pure peace..It totally changed my outward aura and people notice it. That may be the "attractive force" you project and women notice it.


hmm are you sure it wasnt just the meditation that made the change? today i tried the sound AAHH, didnt like it and continued soundless meditation. you sure about the sound? how long have you been meditating?
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: Sarcastic Deity on April 18, 2009, 03:03:06 PM
It was Manson's ego that provoked his followers to do the action for him...Manson thought he could be a rock star...And was crushed because he got turned down(just once)...And sent his people to the house of the man who turned him down to kill...

hhaha..i'll bet melcher got the shivers when he figured out what'd happened   :o



Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: kyomu on April 18, 2009, 03:29:28 PM
I'm not sure that its possible to get rid of your ego, maybe for brief moments, so I think what he says is good, watch your ego and dont be defined by it.
Spot on.
This guy dont understand what the budism is.

In the budism, there is no such a thing like instruccion.

About ego, Its totaly impossible to get rid of it. HOW CAN THE EGO GET RID OF THE EGO ITSELF?

Give it up the stupid doctrine and live your life. Whatever you do, you win and lose. Its depend on the point of view.

About Taoism and Budism, When you are far from Budism, you are more budist.
Title: Re: tip of the day ''totally free from ego''
Post by: hipolito mejia on April 18, 2009, 04:19:10 PM
If theres a site that needs that advice is this one....


If we could get folks like Flex Wheeler, G. Kovaks and Bob (laughing-on-the-way-to-that-bank-) Chickerillo to read it and use it in their lives.

Imagine Flex Wheeler "totally free from ego".  lol

1-Ego its just the icing of the cake"

2-You can't turn a chihuauhua in to a pitbull by inflating his ego.

3-Everybody wants to be a bb, but nobody wants to do it EGO free".

4-I dont knock on doors ...etc,etc