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Getbig Main Boards => General Topics => Topic started by: Deicide on April 23, 2009, 07:22:05 AM
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Discuss...
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please direct yourself to the "Marriage dumbest thing a man can do" thread.
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it's a tax writeoff.
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Depends on the woman.
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only with a prenup
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Depends on the woman.
case closed.
Very wise words.
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case closed.
Very wise words.
So be it. If she's hot as hell and richer than yourself, why hestate?
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So be it. If she's hot as hell and richer than you, why hestate?
In that case, only without a marriage contract... ;D ;D
Otherwise i would rather settle for a loving, caring wife. If she also happens to be hot and rich, you got the jackpot.
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In that case, only without a marriage contract... ;D ;D
Otherwise i would rather settle for a loving, caring wife. If she also happens to be hot and rich, you got the jackpot.
Add a few german beers and you got the full package, DK.
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Marriage is a excellent way to screw up a relationship. I'm not speaking from personal experience but I've seen it happen many times, a happy couple that's been together for a long time taking the vows and after 2 years they have split up. Usually with a shitload of legal and financial problems to solve.
Fuck marriage.
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I married a Hungarian Woman, and I'm the happiest man alive. She trains, eats, and likes the
same as I do, and she is beautiful.
My brother is married to a Brazillian girl, and she is the same version of my wife, just not blonde.
She runs marathons and does triathalons.
Most American women, (I'm sorry all!) have eventually after a year of dating, showed their true colors.
Greedy-self centered-lazy bitches.
I would not trade my wife of 10yrs in for anything. She grew up communist, and knows how lucky
we are here in America. When she was a little girl, she couldn't even get oranges or strawberries except
around xmas, and thats because her boyfriends dad was part of the communist party.
As far as my bro's chick, she grew up third world as well, and is grateful, not greedy, or needy.
To answer you're question, I think foreign women are the marryin type. No my daddy didn't love me bullshit.
Chain
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kyomu
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Hungarian Woman
Dude, watch the fuck out. Those are golddiggers.
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Add a few german beers and you got the full package, DK.
hehe, yes.
I also happen to have a wife that drinks no alcohol, which means that she doesn't get drunk and i alsways have a driver when we go out. (normally i don't drink as well tough).
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great arrangement if you want to make the state a party to your personal affairs. never again...
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Quality relationship=good
Marriage=unnecessary step in life and loss of independence, finances and road to misery
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If you MUST get married, make sure she is your best friend.
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great arrangement if you want to make the state a party to your personal affairs. never again...
So fucking true; so true...
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are the pics good guys?
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Dude, watch the fuck out. Those are golddiggers.
All women= potential golddiggers, because women=vicious survivalists...
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are the pics good guys?
Mars, the art you're attempting to portray takes confidence and self-awareness. Don't ask if the pictures are appreciated, it defeats the purpose of them. It's not about attention whoring, it's art.
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great pics mars
my girl wants to get married,i dont cos i know it wont last,we're having 'a talk' tonite actually
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great pics mars
my girl wants to get married,i dont cos i know it wont last,we're having 'a talk' tonite actually
Run. Like the wind.
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great pics mars
my girl wants to get married,i dont cos i know it wont last,we're having 'a talk' tonite actually
dont have a ''talk''.. have a ''sit down and listen to me''
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dont have a ''talk''.. have a ''sit down and listen to me''
Well yeah,I weighin up d pros and cons
Pros:shes really hot,loyal,she might shut the fuck up askin me bout marraige,her family r wealthy
Cons:i dont wanna get married,shes spoiled sulky little bitch,i know sex dries up after marriage
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thanks, i shut up and continue.
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check what i found haha.
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great pics mars
my girl wants to get married,i dont cos i know it wont last,we're having 'a talk' tonite actually
Mate, forget bbing...learn sprinting.
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thanks, i shut up and continue.
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fa-NqGm0-Lk/SZtQDkYrU5I/AAAAAAAALj8/2zJfWr7Ntc8/s400/surprised-animal-15.jpg)
check what i found haha.
Mars is de groote god van oorlog!
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dont ever get married before early 30's
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dont ever get married before early 30's
FIxed.
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HELL NO!
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HELL NO!
8)
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Discuss...
The reason you ask this question is because you are not sure whether you like the cock or vag.
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The reason you ask this question is because you are not sure whether you like the cock or vag.
hes moving to vermont....so it wont matter....he can marry him boyfriend or girlfriend.
Deicide has commitment issues......he is merely trying to look for validation to squelch his self doubt
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hes moving to vermont....so it wont matter....he can marry him boyfriend or girlfriend.
Deicide has commitment issues......he is merely trying to look for validation to squelch his self doubt
You sound like a feminist propagandist...
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You sound like a feminist propagandist...
haha...you sound like a guy that doesnt get laid alot.....
what are your conversations like at dinner on dates?
"i had a great thread about killing myself on getbig" or "i only sleep for an hour every 3 days" or " all women are gold diggers...discuss" LOL
deicide, perhaps its time to change the tune a little.....turn that frown upside down big guy!!!! ;D
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haha...you sound like a guy that doesnt get laid alot.....
what are your conversations like at dinner on dates?
"i had a great thread about killing myself on getbig" or "i only sleep for an hour every 3 days" or " all women are gold diggers...discuss" LOL
deicide, perhaps its time to change the tune a little.....turn that frown upside down big guy!!!! ;D
Those are great topics! ;D
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Me and Deicide agree's this is where you go when you get married.
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Those are great topics! ;D
thought provoking...yes
helping to get into pants.........doubtful
try the puppy dogs and ice cream approach......then impale them with your penis.......THEN come to judgment on their intentions and worthiness
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I married a Hungarian Woman, and I'm the happiest man alive. She trains, eats, and likes the
same as I do, and she is beautiful.
My brother is married to a Brazillian girl, and she is the same version of my wife, just not blonde.
She runs marathons and does triathalons.
Most American women, (I'm sorry all!) have eventually after a year of dating, showed their true colors.
Greedy-self centered-lazy bitches.
I would not trade my wife of 10yrs in for anything. She grew up communist, and knows how lucky
we are here in America. When she was a little girl, she couldn't even get oranges or strawberries except
around xmas, and thats because her boyfriends dad was part of the communist party.
As far as my bro's chick, she grew up third world as well, and is grateful, not greedy, or needy.
To answer you're question, I think foreign women are the marryin type. No my daddy didn't love me bullshit.
Chain
Where did you guys buy them?
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So be it. If she's hot as hell and richer than yourself, why hestate?
Because that woman could be Lucifer with lipstick. As the saying does, "Charm is deceiving and beauty is fleeting!!!"
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I married a Hungarian Woman, and I'm the happiest man alive. She trains, eats, and likes the
same as I do, and she is beautiful.
My brother is married to a Brazillian girl, and she is the same version of my wife, just not blonde.
She runs marathons and does triathalons.
Most American women, (I'm sorry all!) have eventually after a year of dating, showed their true colors.
Greedy-self centered-lazy bitches.
I would not trade my wife of 10yrs in for anything. She grew up communist, and knows how lucky
we are here in America. When she was a little girl, she couldn't even get oranges or strawberries except
around xmas, and thats because her boyfriends dad was part of the communist party.
As far as my bro's chick, she grew up third world as well, and is grateful, not greedy, or needy.
To answer you're question, I think foreign women are the marryin type. No my daddy didn't love me bullshit.
Chain
See the trend here, guys? They are foreigners. Women here suck....it's all about them. Good for you, dude.
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Don't marry a whore and you will be fine.
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my ex brought up marriage a year or so ago, after we graduated college. I did a 20 second max effort tabata sprint.
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Don't marry a whore and you will be fine.
male and female
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can you suck your own dick or at least throw yourself a hand party every now and then?
if so, don't get married.
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Discuss...
Probably depends on the person (s) involved.
If you do want to get married, finding a person who's been through adversity and perhaps lack of resources (which often equals to someone who knows the value of commitment and integrity) might be a good idea. Most people nowdays are spoiled morons that never went through the processes needed to value true commitment and integrity (which means most women).
As they say, the top in almost any area equals to about 1 - 5% of all people (this does not equal to looks. Bitches looking hot with warpaint are a dime a dozen. So are the messed up personalities beneath.. so if ya wanna get married, good luck searching ;D
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken.
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken a load of shit.
Fixed
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Fixed
Clever beyond measure.
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken.
u make it sound like it's misery loves company
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u make it sound like it's misery loves company
That wasn't my intention. I apologize if I have miscommunicated.
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I'm happily married :)
Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end
with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,
but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation
and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,
understanding and a sense of humor.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
PS: I love you honey :-*
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken.
Why do so many people expect it to be a 'lifelong' deal?
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no
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That wasn't my intention. I apologize if I have miscommunicated.
never apologize for expressing yourself sweetie
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Why do so many people expect it to be a 'lifelong' deal?
Because for people who don't marry whores, it is.
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Why do so many people expect it to be a 'lifelong' deal?
The presence of " 'til death do us part" in the vows leads to that expectation.
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my ex brought up marriage a year or so ago, after we graduated college. I did a 20 second max effort tabata sprint.
LOL
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken.
Hot off the marriage propaganda press.... :-X
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Fixed
LOL
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I love my wife. Known each other for 15 years, been married for 2. Absolutely beautiful with olive skin, nice tits and ass. She's my best friend and the only person I trust. Our relationship is solid and we have each other's back.
A happy marriage absolutely depends on the woman(and the man). To have everyone on here generalize it seems pretty short-sighted, in my opinion. Yeah, i've seen many marriages blow up but I could see the failure way in advance. Some guys just don't know what the fuck they're getting into with certain types of women.
But I will say that we don't have any kids and that's just fine with us.
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Hot off the marriage propaganda press.... :-X
I am only answering the question you asked. I am not trying to "sell" you or anyone else on the idea. I realize, of course, that marriage may not be for everyone. Imagine the mass hysteria that would result from taking a "catch" like yourself off the market.
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Because for people who don't marry whores, it is.
But don't many people change over time?
Isn't it more normal (than not) for couples to grow in different directions?
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Most of the advice here appears to be generated from kids who have never been married. Loners with no one, furiously pounding their keyboard in the basement.
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Most of the advice here appears to be generated from kids who have never been married. Loners with no one, furiously pounding their keyboard in the basement.
I think your an idiot most of the time, but your words in this post ring true.
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Most of the advice here appears to be generated from kids who have never been married. Loners with no one, furiously pounding their keyboard in the basement.
it's an open question
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But don't many people change over time?
Isn't it more normal (than not) for couples to grow in different directions?
Excellent point. People inevitably change over time. That is where communication, commitment, and patience come in.
I don't mean to come off as pushing "easy answers" because these things are certainly not easy.
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Not worth it.... but the steady ass was nice.
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Honestly the bottom line on marriage is the same as the bottom line on being single, when you are married sometimes you wish you were not and when you are single sometimes you wish you were married...Case Closed
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I love my wife. Known each other for 15 years, been married for 2. Absolutely beautiful with olive skin, nice tits and ass. She's my best friend and the only person I trust. Our relationship is solid and we have each other's back.
A happy marriage absolutely depends on the woman(and the man). To have everyone on here generalize it seems pretty short-sighted, in my opinion. Yeah, i've seen many marriages blow up but I could see the failure way in advance. Some guys just don't know what the fuck they're getting into with certain types of women.
But I will say that we don't have any kids and that's just fine with us.
Good tits
Good ass
No kids
Got it.
Thanks. ;D
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If you MUST get married, make sure she is your best friend.
Hahaha...marriage is a great way to ruin a great friendship.....
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do not get married.
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If you MUST get married, make sure she is your best friend.
Very good point. My wife actually was my best friend for about two years before we fell in love.
Basing a marriage only on "love" is not a good thing, you need a partner you can rely on. We have worked together all through university, that was a good base for a relationship.
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Honestly the bottom line on marriage is the same as the bottom line on being single, when you are married sometimes you wish you were not and when you are single sometimes you wish you were married...Case Closed
Single people wishing they were married? ??? :-X
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Very good point. My wife actually was my best friend for about two years before we fell in love.
Basing a marriage only on "love" is not a good thing, you need a partner you can rely on. We have worked together all through university, that was a good base for a relationship.
One point I should add is that marriage just seems like a technicality. You can just have a relationship with someone, it doesn't need to be marriage...unless you are after state offered tax benefits...
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I think.. for some reason.. if I had a wife - she would kill me somehow when i was sleeping.
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I think.. for some reason.. if I had a wife - she would kill me somehow when i was sleeping.
Many reported cases of that...
Marriage=
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Many reported cases of that...
Marriage=
holy shit! that vid was full of twinks.
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holy shit! that vid was full of twinks.
Amen
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The first of all, The marriage means the smallest basic part of the society.
Its like atom. So, if there is a lot of divorce happen, the society collapse.
Then why society exists? Its because of ensuring the survival of the individual.
When there is unhappy situation in the society like war,poverty...etc. There is way less divorces.
Because, we must colaborate each other to survive.
But, now a day, at least we have food and house.....
Worth or not worth is out of question. Its just a phenomenon.
So, if you cant live without your partner in any reasons(mental,spiritual,material...whatever), your marriage will work well. And you should get married. If not, there will be problem for sure.
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The first of all, The marriage means the smallest basic part of the society.
Its like atom. So, if there is a lot of divorce happen, the society collapse.
Then why society exists? Its because of ensuring the survival of the individual.
When there is unhappy situation in the society like war,poverty...etc. There is way less divorces.
Because, we must colaborate each other to survive.
But, now a day, at least we have food and house.....
Worth or not worth is out of question. Its just a phenomenon.
So, if you cant live without your partner in any reasons(mental,spiritual,material...whatever), your marriage will work well. And you should get married. If not, there will be problem for sure.
大きい知恵 8)
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Very good point. My wife actually was my best friend for about two years before we fell in love.
Basing a marriage only on "love" is not a good thing, you need a partner you can rely on. We have worked together all through university, that was a good base for a relationship.
honestly I think that is bullshit, and all other so-called 'platonic' relationships. She wasn't your best friend, you had a crush on her, you liked her company because you knew romance was possible. if you knew for a fact romance wasnt possible, or she was ugly as hell she wouldn't have been your friend let a lot your 'best' friend. men don't like female friends, period, only girls they have a crush on, and thats not a real friendship. i have a lot of girls who think I am their friend, but I do not consider them friends at all, maybe acquaintances.
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I wouldn't trade my wife for anything. She is my best friend and someone I can always count on.
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honestly I think that is bullshit, and all other so-called 'platonic' relationships. She wasn't your best friend, you had a crush on her, you liked her company because you knew romance was possible. if you knew for a fact romance wasnt possible, or she was ugly as hell she wouldn't have been your friend let a lot your 'best' friend. men don't like female friends, period, only girls they have a crush on, and thats not a real friendship. i have a lot of girls who think I am their friend, but I do not consider them friends at all, maybe acquaintances.
yes, you are right to a certain point. But it took time. We agree totally, we just have a different idea of the factor "time".
I found her attractive and we liked being around each other but i wasn't direclty interested in her in the beginning. Sometimes other things in life come first. When we were clear with the other stuff, we got together.
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remember this well, young friends
and this was told to me persoanlly, in person by Gh15 himself
a women
is the only entity that has the
UNILATERAL
ability and power to take from you
and deprive from you
everything you think you hold dear
house
money
status
friends
children
even job, if she really wants to wreck you
and you have little, if any, ammo or rights to fight back
jerk off more
sAVE YOUR SHIT
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honestly I think that is bullshit, and all other so-called 'platonic' relationships. She wasn't your best friend, you had a crush on her, you liked her company because you knew romance was possible. if you knew for a fact romance wasnt possible, or she was ugly as hell she wouldn't have been your friend let a lot your 'best' friend. men don't like female friends, period, only girls they have a crush on, and thats not a real friendship. i have a lot of girls who think I am their friend, but I do not consider them friends at all, maybe acquaintances.
I have to say I agree with much of this. All my closest friends are guys, have the best times and conversations with fellow males. Usually having female friends has some sort of ulterior motive...definitely true. There is also a lot fo science to back this up, basically saying that men and women simply don't mix other than in a sexual/reproductive way.
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remember this well, young friends
and this was told to me persoanlly, in person by Gh15 himself
a women
is the only entity that has the
UNILATERAL
ability and power to take from you
and deprive from you
everything you think you hold dear
house
money
status
friends
children
even job, if she really wants to wreck you
and you have little, if any, ammo or rights to fight back
jerk off more
sAVE YOUR SHIT
QFT
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yes, you are right to a certain point. But it took time. We agree totally, we just have a different idea of the factor "time".
I found her attractive and we liked being around each other but i wasn't direclty interested in her in the beginning. Sometimes other things in life come first. When we were clear with the other stuff, we got together.
Men and women=never true friends (always something else going on, else no reason to have anything to do with each other).
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QFT
SORRY
WHAT DOES qft MEAN?
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This thread makes me want to write a book about a blind man and a sighted woman who were best friends, but never went anywhere romantically because she didn't want to marry a blind guy and his friends told him she is ugly. Till one day he regains his sight and sees her for the first time realizing she is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and they fall in love and get married...and stay married. :'(
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SORRY
WHAT DOES qft MEAN?
Quoted For Truth
Welcome to Getbig friend :)
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Men and women=never true friends (always something else going on, else no reason to have anything to do with each other).
True, otherwise i wouldn't have married her, but we would still be friends.
::) ::)
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This thread makes me want to write a book about a blind man and a sighted woman who were best friends, but never went anywhere romantically because she didn't want to marry a blind guy and his friends told him she is ugly. Till one day he regains his sight and sees her for the first time realizing she is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and they fall in love and get married...and stay married. :'(
???
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True, otherwise i wouldn't have married her, but we would still be friends.
::) ::)
Point is that the closest friendships of any lasting value are always within the same gender. Your motivation to be friends with your wife was sexual/romantic, once those options are off the table, motivation to maintain said friendship diminishes.
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???
>:(
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Quoted For Truth
Welcome to Getbig friend :)
DANKE FRIEND DEICIDE
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Point is that the closest friendships of any lasting value are always within the same gender. Your motivation to be friends with your wife was sexual/romantic, once those options are off the table, motivation to maintain said friendship diminishes.
I disagree, like i told you before it's stupid to base a relationship on sex and romance.
Anyone in a happy relationship will tell you this. Sex and romance are a part of it, but like kyomu said that's not where it ends, otherwise humans would be like animals, only meeting in a mating period.
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I disagree, like i told you before it's stupid to base a relationship on sex and romance.
Anyone in a happy relationship will tell you this. Sex and romance are a part of it, but like kyomu said that's not where it ends, otherwise humans would be like animals, only meeting in a mating period.
We like to delude ourselves to think we are further along than that but I honestly don't think we are... ;)
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We like to delude ourselves to think we are further along than that but I honestly don't think we are... ;)
But, if you say "Flower and Bee", sounds beautiful.
Its a point of view.
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We like to delude ourselves to think we are further along than that but I honestly don't think we are... ;)
I didn't mean to put mating periods down, actually i think human life would be easier this way.
But i like it the way it is, and i am happy in my marriage.
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I didn't mean to put mating periods down, actually i think human life would be easier this way.
But i like it the way it is, and i am happy in my marriage.
Ich wollte dir dein eigenes Glueck in deiner Ehe nie missgoennen. Der Thread sollte das Thema Ehe unabhaengig von deiner behandeln. Du bist ja ein Freund von mir, und meinen Freunden wuensche ich nur alles Glueck der Welt. :)
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Ich wollte dir dein eigenes Glueck in deiner Ehe nie missgoennen. Der Thread sollte das Thema Ehe unabhaengig von deiner behandeln. Du bist ja ein Freund von mir, und meinen Freunden wuensche ich nur alles Glueck der Welt. :)
marriage=cultivating the grounds of future sorrow, despair and loss
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marriage=cultivating the grounds of future sorrow, despair and loss
So everything desapear and loss.
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Ich wollte dir dein eigenes Glueck in deiner Ehe nie missgoennen. Der Thread sollte das Thema Ehe unabhaengig von deiner behandeln. Du bist ja ein Freund von mir, und meinen Freunden wuensche ich nur alles Glueck der Welt. :)
Weiss ich doch! Ich will ja nur eine andere Seite aufzeigen. Die Ehe ist ja nicht nur negativ, auch wenn es viele Ehen gibt, die scheitern.
Another interesting thing is that (at least from my experience and my studies) marriage as "marriage between families" tend to work better than "marriage between 2 persons".
If the family reagrds the partner as a part of their familiy, and the partners familiy as part of their family, a marriage gives everyone in this big family a big plus.
When it's between two people that do not like the partner's family, it's extremly difficult.
So everything desapear and loss.
Yes, that's life. It's an illusion to think that there's a thing in life to which this pattern doesn't extend.
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I had money
I had friends
I gave my money to my friends
now
I have no money or friends
Fellows
Just supplant 'wife'
in that little ditty wherever you deem appropriate
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Good tits
Good ass
No kids
Got it.
Thanks. ;D
I forgot to mention DD cups, bro....
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So what happens if the woman you married turns into a completely different person?
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But don't many people change over time?
Isn't it more normal (than not) for couples to grow in different directions?
Very true. I think that's where communication, as Andy said, comes in. You can grow in the same direction (Man, I sound like Dr. Phil) or you can grow apart.
I will say though, that most peoples core values are instilled fairly early and for most, don't change that much over time. I think people should wait until later in life to get married. Be who you are before you do it, if that makes any sense.
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No
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Guys, I've been with my wife since 1977. Seriously!! Our first date was to see the movie Rocky. I'll be fifty in july and together we have raised a son, bought a home etc.. When some of you dudes grow up(maybe) you will understand that it ain't all about getting ass. Look at arnold and maria, long term marriage, kids etc. He knows.....
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Very true. I think that's where communication, as Andy said, comes in. You can grow in the same direction (Man, I sound like Dr. Phil) or you can grow apart.
I will say though, that most peoples core values are instilled fairly early and for most, don't change that much over time. I think people should wait until later in life to get married. Be who you are before you do it, if that makes any sense.
Makes perfect sense. I love my daughter, god is she such a wonderful blessing.
But despite both of us being 30 when we hooked up, her mother and I just weren't meant to be together. Our core values are very different and we've become increasingly polarized during the 8+ years we've known one another. It'll be interesting to see where we're at when the kid finishes high school.
In addition to the different values, we also speak a completely different language and she doesn't listen very well. I'm a patient person by nature, but hate repeating myself, because when you have to do it constantly, it means the other person doesn't respect you enough to listen the first time.
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A series of short lived shallow relationships is ideal. No one will have to discover who you really are.
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When I first married my wife, we had just started a business.
We were almost not able to pay our employee's one week, and she was
panicing. She said "what are we going to do to pay them" I said "dont worry, I have that covered."
she aske how, and I said "well, I'm going to sell you're car if I have to." She said O.K. and I never had
to do it, but she was ready and willing to do what had to be done. Thats a woman you want to marry.
Been 10yrs..
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Guys, I've been with my wife since 1977. Seriously!! Our first date was to see the movie Rocky. I'll be fifty in july and together we have raised a son, bought a home etc.. When some of you dudes grow up(maybe) you will understand that it ain't all about getting ass. Look at arnold and maria, long term marriage, kids etc. He knows.....
Gotta love guys who tell people to grow up then produce a simplistic, subjective argument: my marriage worked; therefore, marriage is good.
There have also been marriages that have ended in murder, kidnapping, and suicide, not to mention, financial ruin.
It's great that your marriage worked out, but, under current conditions there's no denying it's a very risky "proposition."
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I have a girl who would be good marriage material but im plagued by the thoughts of never getting to fuck or go out with anyone else for the rest of my life,im confused so therefore will not marry ever until I am sure(or as sure I can be) that it'll work
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No matter how good your relationship in the bedroom is, when you get married it will completely die within 2 years.
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken.
Four words that scare the dickens out of Deicide!
Guys, I've been with my wife since 1977. Seriously!! Our first date was to see the movie Rocky. I'll be fifty in july and together we have raised a son, bought a home etc.. When some of you dudes grow up(maybe) you will understand that it ain't all about getting ass......
....nor is it about paranoia about women taking from them money that half of them probably don't have, anyway.
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Gotta love guys who tell people to grow up then produce a simplistic, subjective argument: my marriage worked; therefore, marriage is good.
There have also been marriages that have ended in murder, kidnapping, and suicide, not to mention, financial ruin.
It's great that your marriage worked out, but, under current conditions there's no denying it's a very risky "proposition."
That's why you minimize those risks by choosing the women you date carefully. Learn about their character, their morals, their values. Get to know their families.
And, if you do consider marriage, get some marriage counseling beforehand.
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Another interesting thing is that (at least from my experience and my studies) marriage as "marriage between families" tend to work better than "marriage between 2 persons".
If the family reagrds the partner as a part of their familiy, and the partners familiy as part of their family, a marriage gives everyone in this big family a big plus.
That is one of the biggest pieces of BULLSHIT I've ever read...
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this song sucks man
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I disagree, like i told you before it's stupid to base a relationship on sex and romance.
Anyone in a happy relationship will tell you this. Sex and romance are a part of it, but like kyomu said that's not where it ends, otherwise humans would be like animals, only meeting in a mating period.
I agree with DK here. Not married, fortunately. ;D
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For God sake, stop this "MY BEST FRIEND bla bla bla" bullshit!!!!!
She may have a great personality, a great ass, you can trust each other etc., but YOU CAN'T LICK AND FUCK THE SAME PUSSY FOR DECADES!!!
Life is too short for that! >:( >:(
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For God sake, stop this "MY BEST FRIEND bla bla bla" bullshit!!!!!
She may have a great personality, a great ass, you can trust each other etc., but YOU CAN'T LICK AND FUCK THE SAME PUSSY FOR DECADES!!!
Life is too short for that! >:( >:(
A very short-sided viewpoint.
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For God sake, stop this "MY BEST FRIEND bla bla bla" bullshit!!!!!
She may have a great personality, a great ass, you can trust each other etc., but YOU CAN'T LICK AND FUCK THE SAME PUSSY FOR DECADES!!!
Life is too short for that! >:( >:(
You keep acting on those foolish impulses and your life may indeed be short.
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For God sake, stop this "MY BEST FRIEND bla bla bla" bullshit!!!!!
She may have a great personality, a great ass, you can trust each other etc., but YOU CAN'T LICK AND FUCK THE SAME PUSSY FOR DECADES!!!
Life is too short for that! >:( >:(
LOL
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Guys, I've been with my wife since 1977. Seriously!! Our first date was to see the movie Rocky. I'll be fifty in july and together we have raised a son, bought a home etc.. When some of you dudes grow up(maybe) you will understand that it ain't all about getting ass. Look at arnold and maria, long term marriage, kids etc. He knows.....
Of course Arnold is happy....he's stays married so he won't lose hundreds of millions, all while having affair after affair....bad example, dude. But good for you...
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Of course Arnold is happy....he's stays married so he won't lose hundreds of millions, all while having affair after affair....bad example, dude. But good for you...
True, you cannot use Arnold or any hollywood star as an example, they are always fucking other chicks....Mel gibson
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Of course Arnold is happy....he's stays married so he won't lose hundreds of millions, all while having affair after affair....bad example, dude. But good for you...
He married a Kennedy so he fits in perfectly with his in-laws.
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marriage....it is kinda nice to roll over in the morning when you've got wood and get pussy!
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marriage....it is kinda nice to roll over in the morning when you've got wood and get pussy!
Is that right.. ::)
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Maybe he's not talking about HIS wife...
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Maybe he's not talking about HIS wife...
Mexicanes odit.
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Marriage is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work, communication, patience, and sacrifice. If you are not man enough, or if she is not woman enough, to handle that truth, then no, marriage is not worth it. However, there is no more rewarding relationship than the one between a man and his wife when they know what they are getting into and are willing to take the good and the bad. I have spoken.
But what about same-sex marriage between training partners at the gym?
What about a gym 'partner' who calls you up everyday from his work at 3PM no fail to discuss training session for the night, next anabolic cycle??
No female-2-male complexity crap, just ass injecting each other and getting down to business - master yates style?
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For God sake, stop this "MY BEST FRIEND bla bla bla" bullshit!!!!!
She may have a great personality, a great ass, you can trust each other etc., but YOU CAN'T LICK AND FUCK THE SAME PUSSY FOR DECADES!!!
Life is too short for that! >:( >:(
Exactly head on the nail!
Different puss each week by law should be allowed for every guy.