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Title: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: QuakerOats on May 15, 2009, 12:27:12 PM
does that mean that POSSIBLY she was pregnant at 14? ???
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: drkaje on May 15, 2009, 12:36:12 PM
Yes.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: BigKevinD on May 15, 2009, 12:36:55 PM
does that mean that POSSIBLY she was pregnant at 14? ???

That's the type of thing you hear on Jerry Springer,  ;)  I bet you have quite the circus. Does everyone share a bathroom?
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: QuakerOats on May 15, 2009, 01:18:46 PM
That's the type of thing you hear on Jerry Springer,  ;)  I bet you have quite the circus. Does everyone share a bathroom?
girl at the gym.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: drkaje on May 15, 2009, 01:21:51 PM
Still doesn't mean you shouldn't hit it.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Original Sin on May 15, 2009, 02:54:52 PM
does that mean that POSSIBLY she was pregnant at 14? ???

No, it just means she drives her Delorian at 88 MPH.

Teenage girls never get pregant, only in Hollywood.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: windsor88 on May 15, 2009, 03:22:56 PM
my mom had me at 15 dad was 19.  they are still together.
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Post by: Andy Griffin on May 15, 2009, 03:38:28 PM
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Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: QuakerOats on May 15, 2009, 04:43:36 PM
my mom had me at 15 dad was 19.  they are still together.
damn. :o
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 15, 2009, 08:05:09 PM
at least you know she'll go bareback
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: QuakerOats on May 15, 2009, 08:05:25 PM
at least you know she'll go bareback
;D
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 15, 2009, 08:06:05 PM
there is almost always a silver lining
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Parker on May 16, 2009, 04:09:25 PM
my mom had me at 15 dad was 19.  they are still together.

Isn't that stat. rape? or did they have that back then?
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Andy Griffin on May 16, 2009, 05:27:36 PM
Isn't that stat. rape? or did they have that back then?

Different states have different ages of consent, but like you infer, such laws may not have even been in existence years ago. 
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Deicide on May 16, 2009, 05:47:22 PM
That's the trend. Couple years back in Berlin some chick had a kid at 12. Good times.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 16, 2009, 07:50:51 PM
damn too young
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Geo on May 17, 2009, 05:50:31 PM
   
If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............ does that mean that POSSIBLY she was pregnant at 14? ???


no....

it means she was POSSIBLY pregnant at 13...



which is good news for you because all you'll probably need to get laid is a happy meal and a king sized snickers bar !
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 17, 2009, 06:17:13 PM
barumpbump
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: QuakerOats on May 18, 2009, 12:26:12 PM

no....

it means she was POSSIBLY pregnant at 13...



which is good news for you because all you'll probably need to get laid is a happy meal and a king sized snickers bar !
hahahaha, you're a sick man Geo. ;D
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: 24KT on May 18, 2009, 07:00:02 PM

no....

it means she was POSSIBLY pregnant at 13...



which is good news for you because all you'll probably need to get laid is a happy meal and a king sized snickers bar !

I knew a guy who produced a travel show in Cuba, ...he said all it took was a 6 pack of Coke.  :o
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Original Sin on May 18, 2009, 07:31:19 PM
I knew a guy who produced a travel show in Cuba, ...he said all it took was a 6 pack of Coke.  :o

I believe it.

I travel to Cuba a fair amount and I tip with toiletries and cosmetics.  You wouldn't believe what you can get with simple items like that.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 18, 2009, 08:43:10 PM
I believe it.

I travel to Cuba a fair amount and I tip with toiletries and cosmetics.  You wouldn't believe what you can get with simple items like that.

do tell more...
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Original Sin on May 18, 2009, 09:56:13 PM
We can't compare notes since you won't travel....  :-\
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: SamoanIrishman on May 19, 2009, 08:07:53 AM
damn too young


As a father of daughters...I agree. This is unique to society these days though don't you think? Back in biblical times you were married by 13-14. In most cultures you started learning your fathers trade at 13 and started a family shortly there after. At least the chick you know had a baby by a dude SHE chose to sleep with..not an arranged one. :-\

Either way it still  sickens me to hear about a baby having a baby.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 19, 2009, 09:15:13 AM
We can't compare notes since you won't travel....  :-\

it's not that I won't travel, I just can't currently.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: SamoanIrishman on May 19, 2009, 09:17:01 AM
it's not that I won't travel, I just can't currently.

swine flu or probation? ;D
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 19, 2009, 09:23:39 AM
both!  Plus i'm also one of those Maury shut-ins.  Maybe they can cut the siding off the double wide so i can see the walmart from my bed.  I love the smell of walmart in the morning, it reminds me of my sideshow days.


 ;D
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 19, 2009, 10:09:38 AM
Hustle has laid down the law! No sexual intercourse/relationshions of any kind before 22yrs of age nor before finishing college and definetly not before marriage or I will not foot the bills for the wedding or give them away (properly that is).

So let it be written, so let it be done!

HM has spoken
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: QuakerOats on May 19, 2009, 01:03:07 PM
Hustle has laid down the law! No sexual intercourse/relationshions of any kind before 22yrs of age nor before finishing college and definetly not before marriage or I will not foot the bills for the wedding or give them away (properly that is).

So let it be written, so let it be done!

HM has spoken
hahahahhaa, then your daughter would be the one in 635,568,965,457 women who doesn't lose her virginity before age 18. :D
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 19, 2009, 01:10:39 PM
Hustle has laid down the law! No sexual intercourse/relationshions of any kind before 22yrs of age nor before finishing college and definetly not before marriage or I will not foot the bills for the wedding or give them away (properly that is).

So let it be written, so let it be done!

HM has spoken

denial ain't a river in Egypt.  She is goona be a porn queen if yo try to enforce that.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 20, 2009, 11:08:12 AM
denial ain't a river in Egypt.  She is goona be a porn queen if yo try to enforce that.

I use reverse psychology; I tell her to become a porn queen that way she won't do it?

Seriously she has a high level of self-respect, home training, morals, dreams and goals so she knows being a piece of meat for men is not what she was put on this earth for.

Yes she is still a virgin at 18 1/2, rarity yes we know this but she has a good head on her shoulders and she knows Hustle Dad don't play that screwing before marriage crap.

HM (Protective father)
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: ToxicAvenger on May 20, 2009, 11:18:02 AM


Yes she is still a virgin at 18 1/2, rarity yes we know this but she has a good head on her shoulders and she knows Hustle Dad don't play that screwing before marriage crap.



i waited till i ws 21 and to fall in love!

now what do i win?  >:(
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 20, 2009, 11:19:48 AM
i was a late bloomer.  hopefully i can make up for lost time
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: ToxicAvenger on May 20, 2009, 11:37:23 AM
i was a late bloomer.  hopefully i can make up for lost time

i never understood why everyone around me ws soo pressed for sex...guys in college seemed to jump at the first opportunity they got...  :-\

i guess they thought another opportunity would never present itself..
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 20, 2009, 12:07:25 PM
well especially here (US) the culture is sexually repressive.  Sex is part of the rebellion as is underage drinking.  I just want to be a man whore now.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: windsor88 on May 20, 2009, 12:35:06 PM
Hustle has laid down the law! No sexual intercourse/relationshions of any kind before 22yrs of age nor before finishing college and definetly not before marriage or I will not foot the bills for the wedding or give them away (properly that is).

So let it be written, so let it be done!

HM has spoken

good luck with that pipe dream.   ;D

 Your desire for a better future for your kids are commended though and hopefully she will stay on the road that can reward you and herself with a clean, stable and respectable life.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 20, 2009, 12:37:40 PM
if not, make sure she becomes a vivid contract girl and becomes the next jenna jameson, but without bitch boy tito ortiz
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: SamoanIrishman on May 20, 2009, 02:42:04 PM
i was a late bloomer.  hopefully i can make up for lost time

I became a man-whore at 13.  ;D
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 20, 2009, 02:46:53 PM
I became a man-whore at 13.  ;D

i hate you.  lol.

seriously i think i am going to go back to the strip clubs and pick up dancers etc.  Maybe join one of those clubs that you bang wives.  Thinking that relationships are overrated and too much trouble. 
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 20, 2009, 03:04:18 PM
good luck with that pipe dream.   ;D

 Your desire for a better future for your kids are commended though and hopefully she will stay on the road that can reward you and herself with a clean, stable and respectable life.

I don't think it's a pipe dream and I hear ya man. I don't want my kids caught up in the BS of life chasing, emotions or sexual pleasures until they are in a committed relationship.

They have the tools and I know all I can do is hope that when they get to those crossroads they employ the tools given them.

HM (Lawmaker)
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: SamoanIrishman on May 20, 2009, 05:11:11 PM

They have the tools and I know all I can do is hope that when they get to those crossroads they employ the tools given them.

HM (Lawmaker)

This is ALL you can really do as a parent...pray you did a good job teaching them morals, respect, work ethic ect..  :-\
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Deedee on May 21, 2009, 03:42:51 PM
I don't think it's a pipe dream and I hear ya man. I don't want my kids caught up in the BS of life chasing, emotions or sexual pleasures until they are in a committed relationship.

They have the tools and I know all I can do is hope that when they get to those crossroads they employ the tools given them.

HM (Lawmaker)

Since you have often come to getbig as a religiously in denial person to watch porn, you're only projecting your own faults on your daughter(s). ;) Just because you can't stop from thinking all women who aren't closely watched are porn whores, doesn't mean there isn't a soft velvet band of common sense among others. Also, aren't you divorced? Shame on thou. And well, even if your daughter came home hugely preggo, yeah sure, you'd throw her out.  ::)

You go Moses.  ;D




Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 21, 2009, 05:33:22 PM
Since you have often come to getbig as a religiously in denial person to watch porn, you're only projecting your own faults on your daughter(s). ;) Just because you can't stop from thinking all women who aren't closely watched are porn whores, doesn't mean there isn't a soft velvet band of common sense among others. Also, aren't you divorced? Shame on thou. And well, even if your daughter came home hugely preggo, yeah sure, you'd throw her out.  ::)

You go Moses.  ;D


Very immature of you young lady now go wash up and off to bed with you!

That said, I raise my kids my way you raise your's your way; that's if you are blessed with kids.

Divorced and remarried yes; much happier now and better off. Ask me anything about me and I will tell you. If you want to know why there was a divorce just ask.

Silly to think I would turn my back on my daughter if she get's preggo out of wed-lock.

You missed the point of my post but that's ok rock on hater!
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Deedee on May 21, 2009, 06:19:18 PM
Very immature of you young lady now go wash up and off to bed with you!

That said, I raise my kids my way you raise your's your way; that's if you are blessed with kids.

Divorced and remarried yes; much happier now and better off. Ask me anything about me and I will tell you. If you want to know why there was a divorce just ask.

Silly to think I would turn my back on my daughter if she get's preggo out of wed-lock.

You missed the point of my post but that's ok rock on hater!

No I didn't mss a thing.  :) Also, I hope your girls get away from you. Nothing bad, just  a hope.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 21, 2009, 06:23:44 PM
No I didn't mss a thing.  :) Also, I hope your girls get away from you. Nothing bad, just  a hope.


Shame you feel the way you do but this is what haters do (start shit) lol.

I will leave this alone before I end up hurting your feelings.

Trying REAL hard to be nice here take heed!
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Deedee on May 21, 2009, 06:28:09 PM
Shame you feel the way you do but this is what haters do (start shit) lol.

I will leave this alone before I end up hurting your feelings.

Trying REAL hard to be nice here take heed!

okay, don't, be your real self. I swear I can take it Moses.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 21, 2009, 06:33:27 PM
okay, don't, be your real self. I swear I can take it Moses.

One last question for you.

Do you think it's bad advice to tell your kids to get their education first and not to have sex before marriage?

I am being me and it's sad that you don't get that I have layers and I have never purported to be perfect, yes I have my faults so of course I educate my children with my mistakes. Is that wrong to you?

Help me understand your beef with me.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Deedee on May 21, 2009, 06:47:39 PM
One last question for you.

Do you think it's bad advice to tell your kids to get their education first and not to have sex before marriage?

I am being me and it's sad that you don't get that I have layers and I have never purported to be perfect, yes I have my faults so of course I educate my children with my mistakes. Is that wrong to you?

Help me understand your beef with me.

Okay, I have time now.  I don't care if you secretly enjoy pornography, or are living in sin, or commit adultery by being divorced.  If those things are wrong, then it's a function of the rigid rules you've set up for yourself, based on your religion. But you've come to a women's board to discuss female sexuality, yes? You've made an assumption that women having sex outside of marriage are basically "meat for men."  That's a little weird to me.  There are extremes but a whole lot to fill in the middle.  Not every woman who has sex outside of marriage feels, or is being, used. You're just projecting your unhealthy attitudes onto others.

I was actually laughing at your pronouncements, which you took the wrong way.  How does it work anyway, when you say you'd refuse to contribute to your daughter's marriage if she has sex?  Do you keep her locked in the house? Interrogate her about what she's doing with her boyfriend...like, when she's 20?  If she falls from grace, do you show up at the wedding and tell everyone why you're not giving her away?  Or just not show up? It's silly, and that's why I laughed.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 21, 2009, 08:16:55 PM
deedles!



 >:(
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Deedee on May 22, 2009, 07:22:32 AM
deedles!



 >:(

What Miggly?  :)
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Hustle Man on May 22, 2009, 08:05:36 AM
Okay, I have time now.  I don't care if you secretly enjoy pornography, or are living in sin, or commit adultery by being divorced.  If those things are wrong, then it's a function of the rigid rules you've set up for yourself, based on your religion. But you've come to a women's board to discuss female sexuality, yes? You've made an assumption that women having sex outside of marriage are basically "meat for men."  That's a little weird to me.  There are extremes but a whole lot to fill in the middle.  Not every woman who has sex outside of marriage feels, or is being, used. You're just projecting your unhealthy attitudes onto others.

I was actually laughing at your pronouncements, which you took the wrong way.  How does it work anyway, when you say you'd refuse to contribute to your daughter's marriage if she has sex?  Do you keep her locked in the house? Interrogate her about what she's doing with her boyfriend...like, when she's 20?  If she falls from grace, do you show up at the wedding and tell everyone why you're not giving her away?  Or just not show up? It's silly, and that's why I laughed.

I will only address those comments I made that I feel you misinterpreted.
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...commit adultery by being divorced.
She divorced me, she wrote the paper of divorcement not me so I am free in God's eyes

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You've made an assumption that women having sex outside of marriage are basically "meat for men."
Incorrect interpretation on your part, the "meat for men" comment was in-reply to someone jokingly suggesting that she may become a porn queen because I may be to rigid with my rules and/or standards (I took the ribbing with no harm no foul). BTW I do think women in porn are "meat for men"  they are not looked upon as classy "bring home to mom types" and I think my daughter is a classy young lady. Now, are there any guarantees she will remain that way? No! More than likely women in porn missed a few hugs as little girls nuff said on that!
Like I said read the post clearly stay on track girl.

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How does it work anyway, when you say you'd refuse to contribute to your daughter's marriage if she has sex?
Again I was joking, ease up baby girl have a laugh this is Hustle Man I was joking. Listen I want the best for my kids no matter the gender and I will love them no matter how they turn out! I have given them the tools to be law abiding, well respected and productive citizens I am doing my job as a dad. I have open dialog with my kids they talk to me about everything. My kids trust my judgement even though they know I have made many mistakes, they understand that one can learn from others mistakes.

My daughter would tell you that I am the coolest of cool dads and she knows whatever advice I give is always given in love and with her best interest in mind, anyway have a nice day young lady!

You need some advice, I can help you?

You never answered my question to you:
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Do you think it's bad advice to tell your kids to get their education first and to not have sex before marriage? If so why or if not why?
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 22, 2009, 11:01:58 AM
sent ya somehting and got nothing back.  Bad deedles, very very bad!

smack....on the tush
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: 24KT on May 26, 2009, 11:38:34 PM
Hustle, ...how old are you?
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: drkaje on May 27, 2009, 04:36:35 AM
Marriage is a creation of the state anyways. I'd be more concerned about people's emotional maturity levels when having sex but considering how long it takes most people to develop the the capacity for being in a balanced relationship, marriage itself is pretty much useless as a guide beyond giving children a certain level of protection.
Title: Re: If a woman is 22 and she has a 7 year old............
Post by: Migs on May 27, 2009, 09:44:45 AM
Marriage is a creation of the state anyways. I'd be more concerned about people's emotional maturity levels when having sex but considering how long it takes most people to develop the the capacity for being in a balanced relationship, marriage itself is pretty much useless as a guide beyond giving children a certain level of protection.


very true