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How do you do it without getting shafted financially?
What are the processes involved?
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Marriage=Financial agreement
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How do you do it without getting shafted financially?
What are the processes involved?
transfer all your money and yourself out of the country. otherwise, she's going to pretty much get half of everything you acquired after the wedding. which she probably deserves anyway
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Marriage=Financial agreement
exactly
marriage isn't about "love"-it's a "contract"
btw, don't buy into that "God wants you to be married" bullshit
I believe in a "higher power" and I know that that "higher power" doesn't care if you are married or not
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How do you do it without getting shafted financially?
What are the processes involved?
Get a good lawyer. If s/he knows what s/he is doing, you can come out a winner. Don't rely on online advice. You'll get fuckked. For a "small" fee, I can get you hooked up. ;D
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The best way you can not get shafted is to stop caring about any of the stuff or money you acquired during said marriage. Kiss it goodbye.
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my ex wife had shitloads more money than I ever hoped to have,....and she let me go without killing me,...I'm fine with the outcome.
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my ex wife had shitloads more money than I ever hoped to have,....and she let me go without killing me,...I'm fine with the outcome.
did she make the money while you guys were married? i think youre entitled to half that.... at least in the US you are
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I am not asking for advice, I am asking what the process is.
How do you get started? How do you cover your ass so a vindictive girl can't ruin as much as possible on the way out?
Josh -- We make equal $$$ but I am worth faaaaar more financially due to years of financial idiocracy on her part.
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I am not asking for advice, I am asking what the process is.
How do you get started? How do you cover your ass so a vindictive #### can't ruin as much as possible on the way out?
Josh -- We make equal $$$ but I am worth faaaaar more financially due to years of financial idiocracy on her part.
Contact a lawyer to get the ball rolling.
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I am not asking for advice, I am asking what the process is.
How do you get started? How do you cover your ass so a vindictive #### can't ruin as much as possible on the way out?
Josh -- We make equal $$$ but I am worth faaaaar more financially due to years of financial idiocracy on her part.
Contact Getbig's very own Special Ed for the legalities of it as far as the process from A-Z.
It isn't that bad. I'm divorced and I agreed to pay my ex-wife about 12K in the agreement.
We agreed to 'irreconcilable differences'.
Now her and I are BFF's with NO benefits.
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Contact Getbig's very own Special Ed for the legalities of it as far as the process from A-Z.
It isn't that bad. I'm divorced and I agreed to pay my ex-wife about 12K in the agreement.
We agreed to 'irreconcilable differences'.
Now her and I are BFF's with NO benefits.
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I gotta ask... was she black?
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"Don't by into the God wants you to be married" LOL, ok dude!
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I gotta ask... was she black?
Hahaha...
No. She wasn't. White bitch.
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how are women and tornados the same? they both moan when they come. and both take the house when they leave
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"Don't by into the God wants you to be married" LOL, ok dude!
It's funny that marriage is supposed to be a holy union but you've had a decent amount of divorces, what gives?
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You might also consider an arrangement with a foreign broad.
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It's funny that marriage is supposed to be a holy union but you've had a decent amount of divorces, what gives?
It was god's plan.....
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how are women and tornados the same? they both moan when they come. and both take the house when they leave
Haha, that's a good one!
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How do you do it without getting shafted financially?
What are the processes involved?
AHAHAHA DUDE YOU CAN MAKE ONE PHONE CALL AND THAT WOULD BE SINCITYS DADDY HE WOULD BEAT HER UP WITH HIS TONGUE RING AND LICK THE FORESKIN OFF OF HIM OR HER :P REMEMBER SINCITYS SMALL GUYS DAD TAKES CARE OF ALL PROBLEMS, HE MADE ME 2.1 MILLION ;D
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Bump for answers from non-dumbasses.
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AHAHAHA DUDE YOU CAN MAKE ONE PHONE CALL AND THAT WOULD BE SINCITYS DADDY HE WOULD BEAT HER UP WITH HIS TONGUE RING AND LICK THE FORESKIN OFF OF HIM OR HER :P REMEMBER SINCITYS SMALL GUYS DAD TAKES CARE OF ALL PROBLEMS, HE MADE ME 2.1 MILLION ;D
where have you been?
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Bump for answers from non-dumbasses.
i'm pretty sure you wouldn't be able to understand the first thing they said
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It's funny that marriage is supposed to be a holy union but you've had a decent amount of divorces, what gives?
read "emotional intelligence" by daniel goleman and you ll figure out.
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where have you been?
ive been a back up dancer for michael jackson ohh waitt????
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I am not asking for advice, I am asking what the process is.
How do you get started? How do you cover your ass so a vindictive #### can't ruin as much as possible on the way out?
Josh -- We make equal $$$ but I am worth faaaaar more financially due to years of financial idiocracy on her part.
I thought you were an out of work psychology major? LOL. Or shit was that Bezerkermoron or someone else? I can keep all you idiots straight.
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my ex wife had shitloads more money than I ever hoped to have,....and she let me go without killing me,...I'm fine with the outcome.
my ex wife had waay more money and I didn't want any of it ...I was 22
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married at 22 oh brother
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Haha gotta love how people are so in love when they first get married then they want to kill each other after while.
"To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part."
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married at 20 oh brother
fixed
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Haha gotta love how people are so in love when they first get married then they want to kill each other after while.
"To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part."
to that I say
"bah"
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Just make sure there are no fingerprints and wipe everything down with bleach.
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I got married last month ???
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I got married last month ???
Good luck.
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Good luck.
Thanks man,so far so good anyway
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Talk to her and come to an agreement first and foremost. Get a lawyer if you need one. Give her what she wants and move on if it comes to it. Dont go back...
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I am not asking for advice, I am asking what the process is.
How do you get started? How do you cover your ass so a vindictive #### can't ruin as much as possible on the way out?
Josh -- We make equal $$$ but I am worth faaaaar more financially due to years of financial idiocracy on her part.
Hire a lawyer
She will hire a lawyer
And then it's on...once money is involved the fucking claws come out.
And if you haven't seen this coming for a while and VERY THOROUGHLY insulated yourself by being "broke' on paper for the last few years, you can forget trying to pull a fast one. Forensic accountants will get involved and ram it up your ass.
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women you can't live with them , you can't kill them. unless your o j simpson of course.
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Hire a lawyer
She will hire a lawyer
And then it's on...once money is involved the fucking claws come out.
And if you haven't seen this coming for a while and VERY THOROUGHLY insulated yourself by being "broke' on paper for the last few years, you can forget trying to pull a fast one. Forensic accountants will get involved and ram it up your ass.
my guess is "hereford" barely has enough to hire a lawyer much less a forensic accountant. let me make it easy for you "hereford", you can keep the 2001 VW Golf sportin 20's and the system, she can keep the ipod, the motorcycle helmet (for which you no longer own a motorcycle) and the dog. there, you are even. now each of you take all of your aeropostle clothes and get on with the rest of your life.
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my guess is "hereford" barely has enough to hire a lawyer much less a forensic accountant. let me make it easy for you "hereford", you can keep the 2001 VW Golf sportin 20's and the system, she can keep the ipod, the motorcycle helmet (for which you no longer own a motorcycle) and the dog. there, you are even. now each of you take all of your aeropostle clothes and get on with the rest of your life.
lol
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my guess is "hereford" barely has enough to hire a lawyer much less a forensic accountant. let me make it easy for you "hereford", you can keep the 2001 VW Golf sportin 20's and the system, she can keep the ipod, the motorcycle helmet (for which you no longer own a motorcycle) and the dog. there, you are even. now each of you take all of your aeropostle clothes and get on with the rest of your life.
;D ;D
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Take the dog, leave everything else. Unless you're talking big sums who cares.
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I've been married 10+ years. I got married at 19. Def not easy but worth it overall. Don't have any children though.
24/7 vaults.com and you'll be fine. Always keep money hidden. 8)
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Hire a good lawyer. Then figure out ways to hide as much money as possible and any liquid assets. What the law can't prove you have doesn't exist, so it is imposssible for her to come after it.
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I thought you were an out of work psychology major? LOL. Or shit was that Bezerkermoron or someone else? I can keep all you idiots straight.
That ain't me bro. You're thinking of BFury...
Pay more attention! lol.
Douche.
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my guess is "hereford" barely has enough to hire a lawyer much less a forensic accountant. let me make it easy for you "hereford", you can keep the 2001 VW Golf sportin 20's and the system, she can keep the ipod, the motorcycle helmet (for which you no longer own a motorcycle) and the dog. there, you are even. now each of you take all of your aeropostle clothes and get on with the rest of your life.
Ok, but do the spinnas stay on the Golf ... cause if they come off I can't roll in style no mo.
And what about the pirated gangsta rap CD collection?
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exactly
marriage isn't about "love"-it's a "contract"
btw, don't buy into that "God wants you to be married" bullshit
I believe in a "higher power" and I know that that "higher power" doesn't care if you are married or not
in good old times kids born without marrage called bastards but it all changed now is not it.
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Don't get married EVa...If you feel the need to get married, then why not over eat and get yourself over 30% bodyfat like the rest of society...There are more women in the world then men...With that said, there is no need to ever get married...Its a fucking trap...Look at Coach's mess of a life...Its like he gets off on being married and getting divorced...Fly solo and die relatively young... Don't fall for the trap and for christ sakes do not have kids...You won't move on to the next dimension by having kids in this one...As soon as you die, you will become your kid in this world with no knowledge of your past...You need to cut off your bloodline to move to the next dimension...
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I got married last month ???
doh!
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"Don't by into the God wants you to be married" LOL, ok dude!
does "god" want you to marry multiple women, joe?
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does "god" want you to marry multiple women, joe?
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haha
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Prenup baby!! ;D
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My buddy just got a POSTnup... His wife refuses to sign divorce papers but is willing to sign one of these. (Doesn't help OP who sounds like they want to have everything arranged before letting the other half know.)
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my ex wife had waay more money and I didn't want any of it ...I was 22
http://www.romancium.com/Romanian_Women.htm
I bett those marriage deals are even more expensive then the average hookers? ??? ???
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simple don't make any money :D
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exactly
marriage isn't about "love"-it's a "contract"
btw, don't buy into that "God wants you to be married" bullshit
I believe in a "higher power" and I know that that "higher power" doesn't care if you are married or not
x2 mostly woman care about marriage, more like a guarantee for them to get paid for riding your dick for so many years, one way you will pay no matter what. In the end whores are cheaper and you don't have to put up with some hag face or free willy if you woman starts snacking uncontrollably.
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a guarantee for them to get paid for riding dick
you are looking for that same deal as the women.
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you are looking for that same deal as the women.
not sure what you mean, I personally prolly wouldn't get married, I was stating that woman one way or another want to make some money off there coochy and are greedy son of a bitches. They look at having sex with you in marriage as something they are gifting you or you are lucky they are giving you.
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not sure what you mean, I personally prolly wouldn't get married, I was stating that woman one way or another want to make some money off there coochy and are greedy son of a bitches. They look at having sex with you in marriage as something they are gifting you or you are lucky they are giving you.
i am saying you want to get paid to ride dick you milky sausage lover.
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i am saying you want to get paid to ride dick you milky sausage lover.
oh lol
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simple don't make any money :D
Or break her arm when she starts up with that divorce malarkey! I keed! I keed!
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How come everyone talks about how shit their ex is? "She's a bitch. He's an asshole. She's insane. He's a loser." Pretty rare that anyone admits their own failings as a spouse.
No one ever admits that they're the least bit sad about it either. They're alway 'better off without her' and 'moving on' with 'a new lease on life.' ::)
My ex is a selfish bitch and she's insane, and I really am better off without her, but a lot of our failed marriage was my fault and I'm very fucked up about the whole thing. How someone's first priority in divorce can be money is a mystery to me.
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How come everyone talks about how shit their ex is? "She's a bitch. He's an asshole. She's insane. He's a loser." Pretty rare that anyone admits their own failings as a spouse.
No one ever admits that they're the least bit sad about it either. They're alway 'better off without her' and 'moving on' with 'a new lease on life.' ::)
My ex is a selfish bitch and she's insane, and I really am better off without her, but a lot of our failed marriage was my fault and I'm very fucked up about the whole thing. How someone's first priority in divorce can be money is a mystery to me.
woman care more about money, guys giving there hearts away for a little pussy these days, sad times.
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How come everyone talks about how shit their ex is? "She's a bitch. He's an asshole. She's insane. He's a loser." Pretty rare that anyone admits their own failings as a spouse.
No one ever admits that they're the least bit sad about it either. They're alway 'better off without her' and 'moving on' with 'a new lease on life.' ::)
My ex is a selfish bitch and she's insane, and I really am better off without her, but a lot of our failed marriage was my fault and I'm very fucked up about the whole thing. How someone's first priority in divorce can be money is a mystery to me.
Real talk. I'm the same way, mine is a fucking c.unt as well, but I did my fair share of fucking up. The shit really does fuck with you, I'll never look at women the same. I wish it would have worked out, like somebody said earlier on here, people usually don't get married to get divorced. Just have to be straight up about the whole thing, don't like to yourself. We all fuck up.
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How come everyone talks about how shit their ex is? "She's a bitch. He's an asshole. She's insane. He's a loser." Pretty rare that anyone admits their own failings as a spouse.
No one ever admits that they're the least bit sad about it either. They're alway 'better off without her' and 'moving on' with 'a new lease on life.' ::)
My ex is a selfish bitch and she's insane, and I really am better off without her, but a lot of our failed marriage was my fault and I'm very fucked up about the whole thing. How someone's first priority in divorce can be money is a mystery to me.
Haven't been married, but have had long relationships end. You made a great point. Although US culture does encourage incredible fuckery when it comes to the sexes and marriage, it truly does take two to make a mess of things. Perhaps it'll force people to become more intelligent in their decisions of the heart.
No, it won't. People will continue to attempt to have their cake and eat it too. :)
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woman care more about money, guys giving there hearts away for a little pussy these days, sad times.
Bollox. If you really think this then you need to meet a better class of women. Fuck dude, if you workout at all you'd at least meet women who just want a casual screw.
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"Don't by into the God wants you to be married" LOL, ok dude!
After 7 times at trying marrige coach can you now see god is a liar and woman are satan ;D
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My buddy just got a POSTnup... His wife refuses to sign divorce papers but is willing to sign one of these. (Doesn't help OP who sounds like they want to have everything arranged before letting the other half know.)
That's great! It gives him a reason not to fuck up and marry again.
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this thread is depressing :D :D
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hahaha good thing i am young and have getbig.
From what i gather.........enjoy my money and don't get married.
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hahaha good thing i am young and have getbig.
From what i gather.........enjoy my money and don't get married.
enjoy your money....and marry somebody wealthier than you are
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this thread is depressing :D :D
You said it brother!
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enjoy your money....and marry somebody wealthier than you are
Good advice right here.....no doubt about it.
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How come everyone talks about how shit their ex is? "She's a bitch. He's an asshole. She's insane. He's a loser." Pretty rare that anyone admits their own failings as a spouse.
No one ever admits that they're the least bit sad about it either. They're alway 'better off without her' and 'moving on' with 'a new lease on life.' ::)
My ex is a selfish bitch and she's insane, and I really am better off without her, but a lot of our failed marriage was my fault and I'm very fucked up about the whole thing. How someone's first priority in divorce can be money is a mystery to me.
Yes this happens often. You would hope someone would learn from the experiance and use that in future relationships. Most people dont use thier head fully when getting involved. I mean you have to know what works for you. Sometimes you will overlook many of the incompatiabilitys at first cause of the excitement of a new love, the sex and the fun you are having, that initial lust or fireworks. But sooner or latter you better look at the big picture for real to see if there is a long term future there.
Too many people men and very much woman will say "If we love each other it will all work out no matter what" This is a nice notion but it came from the movies and religion so it is not based in reality. You need to know yourself first and evalute if the relationship will work for you long run, not just cause you are having good sex now.
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How do you do it without getting shafted financially?
What are the processes involved?
Marry someone with their own finances?
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Yes this happens often. You would hope someone would learn from the experiance and use that in future relationships. Most people dont use thier head fully when getting involved. I mean you have to know what works for you. Sometimes you will overlook many of the incompatiabilitys at first cause of the excitement of a new love, the sex and the fun you are having, that initial lust or fireworks. But sooner or latter you better look at the big picture for real to see if there is a long term future there.
Too many people men and very much woman will say "If we love each other it will all work out no matter what" This is a nice notion but it came from the movies and religion so it is not based in reality. You need to know yourself first and evalute if the relationship will work for you long run, not just cause you are having good sex now.
Very true indeed :) My friend got married after knowing her man for about 5 months (plus she was 18 and he's... 28 I think). I wonder how that marriage is going to work out ;D Always best to wait until the newness of the relationship runs out and you're not in lala land anymore before you think about marriage lol.
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Very true indeed :) My friend got married after knowing her man for about 5 months (plus she was 18 and he's... 28 I think). I wonder how that marriage is going to work out ;D Always best to wait until the newness of the relationship runs out and you're not in lala land anymore before you think about marriage lol.
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wait until the newness of the relationship runs out and you're not in lala land anymore before you think about marriage lol.
Wise words