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Title: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 12, 2009, 02:02:35 PM
"When are you gonna stop training? Everything in moderation, you shouldn't be small but you shouldn't be too big either and that is too much. I'm just telling you how it is, i don't think that looks good" etc.........

Discuss
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: spinnis on December 12, 2009, 02:04:32 PM
"I dont remember asking you what You thought about My body?"
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Kwon on December 12, 2009, 02:04:50 PM
Sorry for that Bobby.

Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 12, 2009, 02:13:13 PM
"I dont remember asking you what You thought about My body?"

lol it's funny how people just volunteer their opinion...would they say the same to a fat person?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Smokincrazy on December 12, 2009, 02:15:32 PM
lol it's funny how people just volunteer their opinion...would they say the same to a fat person?
No fat people are socially accepted becasuse our society is turning into a bunch of fat slobs
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: pluck on December 12, 2009, 02:17:26 PM
lol it's funny how people just volunteer their opinion...

...ughhh that's what this site is about.


First thing is first...how big are you? Unless you have the parents from that midget reality show on TLC you're not big.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: _bruce_ on December 12, 2009, 02:19:04 PM
Enjoy it while it lasts...
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: mar10s on December 12, 2009, 02:32:17 PM
No fat people are socially accepted becasuse our society is turning into a bunch of fat slobs

Wow, quoted for truth!!!

A great example...at many stores, people won't even return a cart to the cart return, because it's "too far" or (even when it's nice outside) still need to find the absolute closest parking spot to the store entrance. 
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Parker on December 12, 2009, 02:40:08 PM
No fat people are socially accepted becasuse our society is turning into a bunch of fat slobs
Mofo you are right. If you have any degree of musculature or are in shape, it ellicits jealousy, because most Americans are fat, lazy slobs, in which discipline is 4 letter word. Most of our inventions were made to make our lives more easier, thus making us lazier. The worst and best invention of mankind is the remote control.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Earl1972 on December 12, 2009, 02:42:48 PM
maybe you're putting on too much fat

i got the same speech only they were too nice to use the word "fat"

E
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Hulkotron on December 12, 2009, 02:57:44 PM
Wow, quoted for truth!!!

A great example...at many stores, people won't even return a cart to the cart return, because it's "too far" or (even when it's nice outside) still need to find the absolute closest parking spot to the store entrance. 

Yes!  Lack of cart returning infuriates me.  My current pet peeve is people who don't flush the toilet in a public restroom.  How fucking hard is it?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 12, 2009, 03:01:04 PM
nobody think a fit guy is too muscular.

Also fit guys are the models featured in advertisement, everyone wants to be or be with a fit looking guy.

being "huge" looks stupid for the general public. And somehow, they are right, especially if you had to take steroids to look that stupidly big.



Accepted/worshipped by society:

(http://www.adrants.com/images/undergear_abs.jpg)
(http://salbahe.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/brandon-stoughton-womanizer-music-video-male-model-3.jpg)


rejected by society:
(http://www.mesomorphosis.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/manuel-manchado-lopez.jpg)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: NaturalWonder83 on December 12, 2009, 03:05:21 PM
are u sure youre in good shape?
you might think youre big and muscular but u might just be large and fat
if u have a fat face then that is not good
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: chaos on December 12, 2009, 03:09:12 PM
"When are you gonna stop training? Everything in moderation, you shouldn't be small but you shouldn't be too big either and that is too much. I'm just telling you how it is, i don't think that looks good" etc.........

Discuss
No you didn't, you made this up to make yourself feel better about being fat.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: affeman on December 12, 2009, 03:11:23 PM
lol it's funny how people just volunteer their opinion...would they say the same to a fat person?

No, most of the time it's the fat people who say shit like that to us. Most of the time I refuse to even give a reaction to human garbage like that nowadays, u can't fight human moronism, they are too many. That's the point when everybody blames me of being arrogant again.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 12, 2009, 03:13:23 PM
No, most of the time it's the fat people who say shit like that to us.
thats because they can feel you re as if not more insecure than them about your own physique, and that's pathetic.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: calfzilla on December 12, 2009, 03:14:46 PM
Well congrats man it sounds like a compliment.  I once got the "you're not on steroids are you" from my dad, and I have never even been that big.   :-\
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: 240 is Back on December 12, 2009, 03:20:06 PM
tell them that you enjoy slaying tang, and that BBing makes more of that possible.

if they want grandkids, they'll STFU and enjoy the many offspring you will bring them.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 12, 2009, 03:23:13 PM
nobody think a fit guy is too muscular.

Also fit guys are the models featured in advertisement, everyone wants to be or be with a fit looking guy.

being "huge" looks stupid for the general public. And somehow, they are right, especially if you had to take steroids to look that stupidly big.



Accepted/worshipped by society:



i think none of them look good, how about an in between?

(http://i.b5z.net/i/u/230085/i/Stan_mcquay_bodybuilder_c_ezr.jpg)

(http://lh5.ggpht.com/_7DbBwz1lDQE/SY_Se9R-0CI/AAAAAAAARnk/auycwjGssSo/s640/jpg_Bob_Paris_100.jpg)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: affeman on December 12, 2009, 03:23:51 PM
thats because they can feel you re as if not more insecure than them about your own physique, and that's pathetic.

No, it's because they are extremely unhappy with themselves and would love to change their lives, but can't find the beginning (trapped in their pathetic day to day family/job lives). So they try to put people they envy down to make themseves feel better, instead of changing their own lives.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 12, 2009, 03:25:34 PM
maybe you're putting on too much fat

i got the same speech only they were too nice to use the word "fat"

E

nah man, not by normal people standards, i can still see abs
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: chaos on December 12, 2009, 03:26:53 PM

But it reminds me of a time I dyed my hair red and some lady I saw less than once a month whose name I didn't even know told me she didn't like it.  I told her I'd be sure and check with her first before I made any other changes to it.






You're a wild one STells. :o
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Butterbean on December 12, 2009, 03:36:54 PM
You're a wild one STells. :o

LOOK OUT!! :o
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 12, 2009, 03:38:47 PM
i think none of them look good, how about an in between?

(http://i.b5z.net/i/u/230085/i/Stan_mcquay_bodybuilder_c_ezr.jpg)

(http://lh5.ggpht.com/_7DbBwz1lDQE/SY_Se9R-0CI/AAAAAAAARnk/auycwjGssSo/s640/jpg_Bob_Paris_100.jpg)

i think considering the selection of pics you picked that you are gay.

And that if you wish to look like them you ll have to get your hands on steroids  spermbreath.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: mar10s on December 12, 2009, 03:40:18 PM
Bobby, it's a gutsy move posting a pic of Stan.  There's a guy on this site that worships hiim and will jack this thread...jtsunami I think his name is/was.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 12, 2009, 03:42:02 PM
i think considering the selection of pics you picked that you are gay.

And that if you wish to look like them you ll have to get your hands on steroids  spermbreath.

haha translation I'm a bitter tiny tit
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 12, 2009, 03:42:21 PM
No, it's because they are extremely unhappy with themselves and would love to change their lives, but can't find the beginning (trapped in their pathetic day to day family/job lives). So they try to put people they envy down to make themseves feel better, instead of changing their own lives.

since when being muscular makes you "happier" than them. It may make you healthier, but psychologically happier? 2 different things.
Never forget these people might feel happier than you even with an out of shape body. If muscles= hapiness and if more muscles = more hapiness i  think we would know  ::)   seeing  so many obsessive losers pathetically showing off in the gym -the only place where they are respected for their endeavours- and everywhere they go only proves they re as insecure now whatever the "muscle mass" they achieved as when  they started lifting weights.


Just believing that because you have some muscle = you re the happiest/better person than other people who arent as "inshape" as you is a common yet stupid mistake.

Btw your level of "hapiness" is mainly linked to your serotonine levels, it means it's essentially genetically programed.  

Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 12, 2009, 03:43:12 PM
Bobby, it's a gutsy move posting a pic of Stan.  There's a guy on this site that worships hiim and will jack this thread...jtsunami I think his name is/was.

haha i think you mean jumpstart? and oh yes, if he gets here it's all over lol
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: mar10s on December 12, 2009, 03:52:41 PM
haha i think you mean jumpstart? and oh yes, if he gets here it's all over lol

Haha...ya, my bad.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: wavelength on December 12, 2009, 03:57:07 PM
No, it's because they are extremely unhappy with themselves and would love to change their lives, but can't find the beginning (trapped in their pathetic day to day family/job lives). So they try to put people they envy down to make themseves feel better, instead of changing their own lives.

yeah, those fat unhappy people, despicable
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Smokincrazy on December 12, 2009, 04:00:23 PM
since when being muscular makes you "happier" than them. It may make you healthier, but psychologically happier? 2 different things.
Never forget these people might feel happier than you even with an out of shape body. If muscles= hapiness and if more muscles = more hapiness i  think we would know  ::)   seeing  so many obsessive losers pathetically showing off in the gym -the only place where they are respected for their endeavours- and everywhere they go only proves they re as insecure now whatever the "muscle mass" they achieved as when  they started lifting weights.


Just believing that because you have some muscle = you re the happiest/better person than other people who arent as "inshape" as you is a common yet stupid mistake.

Btw your level of "hapiness" is mainly linked to your serotonine levels, it means it's essentially genetically programed.  



Translation:I was on my way to the gym and stopped and got gas.  A jacked dude was a gas pump away.  There was eye contact.  I put my head down and swore to myself about that "juicer mothafukker" as i got back in my car and drove home.  The day was ruined.  I later went and posted on Getbig about my hidden hate and jealousy for any fit or inshape person with muscle
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: affeman on December 12, 2009, 04:07:12 PM
Translation:I was on my way to the gym and stopped and got gas.  A jacked dude was a gas pump away.  There was eye contact.  I put my head down and swore to myself about that "juicer mothafukker" as i got back in my car and drove home.  The day was ruined.  I later went and posted on Getbig about my hidden hate and jealousy for any fit or inshape person with muscle

 :D
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: affeman on December 12, 2009, 04:08:42 PM
Never forget these people might feel happier than you even with an out of shape body. If muscles= hapiness and if more muscles = more hapiness i  think we would know  ::)  

We know it's not true, but the fat people think it is. They think with an in shape body all their problems in life would just disappear and they'd fuck topmodels on a weekly basis. And be honest, you thought that too before you started lifting.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Smokincrazy on December 12, 2009, 04:12:28 PM
We know it's not true, but the fat people think it is. They think with an in shape body all their problems in life would just disappear and they'd fuck topmodels on a weekly basis. And be honest, you thought that too before you started lifting.
Speak for yourself.  I started working out so I could fuck all the pigs at the trailer park    :-* :D   
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: chaos on December 12, 2009, 04:15:31 PM
Speak for yourself.  I started working out so I could fuck all the pigs at the trailer park    :-* :D   
Hi Dave.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Smokincrazy on December 12, 2009, 04:25:30 PM
Hi Dave.
haha a Getbig original.  I knew once I put trailer park that somebody would say something about the man himself
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: BIG_STI on December 12, 2009, 04:29:12 PM
this guy is either a 180lb s "big" or a fat slob
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: G o a t b o y on December 12, 2009, 04:43:55 PM
this guy is either a 180lb s "big" or a fat slob


180 at very low bodyfat can look "big" to the average douche.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Smokincrazy on December 12, 2009, 04:47:32 PM

180 at very low bodyfat can look "big" to the average douche.
very true
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Method101 on December 12, 2009, 05:18:12 PM
pics bobby?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: TrapsMcLats on December 12, 2009, 05:50:03 PM
Mofo you are right. If you have any degree of musculature or are in shape, it ellicits jealousy, because most Americans are fat, lazy slobs, in which discipline is 4 letter word. Most of our inventions were made to make our lives more easier, thus making us lazier. The worst and best invention of mankind is the remote control.

I agree 100%

People at my work make fun of what I eat.  They ask me "don't you get tired of chicken breasts, broccolli, and sweet potatoes?  Live a little"

I live all the time.  I choose to make my vices non caloric things like cigars or scotch (well... i suppose there's a few calories in scotch, but u get my point.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 12, 2009, 06:06:23 PM
I agree 100%

People at my work make fun of what I eat.  They ask me "don't you get tired of chicken breasts, broccolli, and sweet potatoes?  Live a little"

I live all the time.  I choose to make my vices non caloric things like cigars or scotch (well... i suppose there's a few calories in scotch, but u get my point.

maybe they make fun of you cause you re an obsesive insecure self absorbed douche , arent you the guy who complained about how his colleagues made fun of him like 6 months ago already?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: TrapsMcLats on December 12, 2009, 06:09:33 PM
maybe they make fun of you cause you re an obsesive insecure self absorbed douche , arent you the guy who complained about how his colleagues made fun of him like 6 months ago already?

no, i think you're confusing me with someone else... and I eat clean because i have a kidney problem.  I believe there was a thread about THAT though, where parker and I compared diets.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: wavelength on December 12, 2009, 06:39:01 PM
180 at very low bodyfat can look "big" to the average douche.

At under 6 feet, it will look huge.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: chaos on December 12, 2009, 06:59:29 PM
At under 6 feet, it will look huge mediocre.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Ursus on December 12, 2009, 07:20:27 PM
I get it from one girl in work.

Slut.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Danimal77 on December 12, 2009, 08:48:24 PM
"When are you gonna stop training? Everything in moderation, you shouldn't be small but you shouldn't be too big either and that is too much. I'm just telling you how it is, i don't think that looks good" etc.........

Discuss

Are we talking about your Mommy and Daddy or your wife over here??? Just trying to decide if you're a kid living at home, or a husband with a wife who thinks you're on the juice?

Clear this up RIGHT NOW.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: G o a t b o y on December 12, 2009, 09:29:46 PM
Are we talking about your Mommy and Daddy or your wife over here??? Just trying to decide if you're a kid living at home, or a husband with a wife who thinks you're on the juice?

Clear this up RIGHT NOW.

Sounds more like something a mommy or daddy would say.  Of course, that doesnt mean he lives with them.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Colossus3 on December 12, 2009, 11:12:51 PM
Maybe they meant that you are too big as in too FAT?! Years ago when I used to over bulk my parents would tell me that I was too big. In reality i was just too fat!  Now When I bulk i just go over 10-15 pounds thats it.


Any pics? Stats?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: gordiano on December 12, 2009, 11:40:32 PM
lol it's funny how people just volunteer their opinion...would they say the same to a fat person?

LOL....good point.  ;)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: mogulgangi on December 12, 2009, 11:41:52 PM
"son, rru on steroids...steroids are bad...ur head is growing....ur gonna have a roid rage and kill someone"
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: kyomu on December 13, 2009, 04:15:46 AM
If they say you are too big, you simply say thanx,period.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Mr Nobody on December 13, 2009, 04:18:51 AM
If you think are big you are = Bob Chick's way of speaking
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: kyomu on December 13, 2009, 04:29:45 AM
If you think are big you are = Bob Chick's way of speaking
Bit sounds philosophycal. ;D
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: local hero on December 13, 2009, 04:32:52 AM
this thread is worthless with out pics or stats....... saying as half the people on here barely look as tho they train let alone look big,,,,,,,,,, 180lbs looks big, for fucks sake!!!!!, id kill me self if i ever weighed as little.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 08:17:20 AM
Are we talking about your Mommy and Daddy or your wife over here??? Just trying to decide if you're a kid living at home, or a husband with a wife who thinks you're on the juice?

Clear this up RIGHT NOW.

it was a family gathering though guy

Maybe they meant that you are too big as in too FAT?! Years ago when I used to over bulk my parents would tell me that I was too big. In reality i was just too fat!  Now When I bulk i just go over 10-15 pounds thats it.

they would think you are too big too, even when lean. and i said i can still see abs.

It's the the whole swole trap,delt,chest area that puts most off
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 08:23:07 AM
this thread is worthless with out pics or stats....... saying as half the people on here barely look as tho they train let alone look big,,,,,,,,,, 180lbs looks big, for fucks sake!!!!!, id kill me self if i ever weighed as little.

weight is just a number, jrod at 190 or something like that, nothing to sneeze at

(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_o1eJx3E9x64/Slzp0jTlCuI/AAAAAAAAAaM/9d-WtUZFqQU/s1600-h/JeffRodriguez_7-10-09_10weeksOut_fls.JPG)

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_o1eJx3E9x64/Slzp0jTlCuI/AAAAAAAAAaM/9d-WtUZFqQU/s1600-h/JeffRodriguez_7-10-09_10weeksOut_fls.JPG
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: NaturalWonder83 on December 13, 2009, 08:28:38 AM
Maybe they meant that you are too big as in too FAT?! Years ago when I used to over bulk my parents would tell me that I was too big. In reality i was just too fat!  Now When I bulk i just go over 10-15 pounds thats it.


Any pics? Stats?
x2
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: IrishMuscle84 on December 13, 2009, 09:20:28 AM
Mofo you are right. If you have any degree of musculature or are in shape, it ellicits jealousy, because most Americans are fat, lazy slobs, in which discipline is 4 letter word. Most of our inventions were made to make our lives more easier, thus making us lazier. The worst and best invention of mankind is the remote control.
YUP. Like i said before bodybuilding causes alot of jealousy and shit-talking from people who dont workout. Especially if your out somewhere. I was at a local bar, last year sometime, and this guy sitting next to me at the bar, was like "you look like you workout.......you probably think your all tough and a man because you lift weights, i tear down and build decks 12 hrs a day" and while hes saying that, hes got food hanging from the corner of his mouth and flying out while hes talking. Another time, i was at a bar my buddy was a bartender at, one of the "regulars" i got to know through my buddy who worked there were talking one day, just bullshitting.....he made a comment, "Dont go around thinking your tough and can beat anyones ass just because you lift weights, i know a few guys that do MMA fighting thatll beat your ass.LOL ::) At the same bar, differant day, another guy who worked there, was eyeballing up and down, sizing me up, and looked at me and smirked and said "man, ill have you on the ground soo fast, you wouldnt know what hit you". Lol. My point is being in shape or being big from working out and being out in public, youll get people, mostly guys, just like the ones i mentioned who say shit just make them feel better about themselves.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Julio Ceasar on December 13, 2009, 10:03:09 AM
If people think u/someone else are to big, in almost 99% of the cases the person is bulked up and fat and look like shit when the clothes come of. No one can be to big when they are in shape accept some guys with superior genetics like Coleman Cutler and the guys. U can win a national contest and still look "normal" in a regular shirt. But bulking up and try look as big as possible is only stupid.

Every time I attend a bodybuilding contest I see these guys in the audience trying to look as big as possible and then u can see the local champion walking around like a normal person, just a little bit bigger. I guess its the same phenomena with fighter guys, kids running around in town trying to start fights to get some attention and respect.

Why the hell bulking up anyway, have never understood the meaning of it if your not into powerlifting or sumowrestling. Isen't bodybuilding all about having a well built, nice symmetrical and attractive body with a nice gentleman approach. Hmm, I guess Im stuck into the 80ies...

I guess being a monster and a freak is the ideal today...
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 13, 2009, 10:12:21 AM
"you probably think your all tough and a man because you lift weights"

exactly what 99,99% of people think of wieght lifters, wether they are posers or low profile individuals.

I even happen to think thar about some weights lifters myself so.. Fact is people always compare themselves to each others, and if one has muscles and/or looks it doesnt mean he "has it all". This is true. Hapiness is not linked to how muscular or good you look. These peopel as out of shape as they are know it and they re right.

Most people also think that sporting muscles = trying to compensate for physical and psychological shortcomings, and again when i see people showing off constantly wether they re really muscular or not, trying to impress everyone with their lifts etc especially in the gyms which are filled with sad delusional and uterly vain people, i mean of course they trying to compensate for some reasons.



Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Mars on December 13, 2009, 10:17:18 AM
always funny how out of shape people are never being questioned but when you live a healthy life and train with weights its nothing but negativity and should you explain yourself.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 10:26:15 AM
YUP. Like i said before bodybuilding causes alot of jealousy and shit-talking from people who dont workout. Especially if your out somewhere. I was at a local bar, last year sometime, and this guy sitting next to me at the bar, was like "you look like you workout.......you probably think your all tough and a man because you lift weights, i tear down and build decks 12 hrs a day" and while hes saying that, hes got food hanging from the corner of his mouth and flying out while hes talking. Another time, i was at a bar my buddy was a bartender at, one of the "regulars" i got to know through my buddy who worked there were talking one day, just bullshitting.....he made a comment, "Dont go around thinking your tough and can beat anyones ass just because you lift weights, i know a few guys that do MMA fighting thatll beat your ass.LOL ::) At the same bar, differant day, another guy who worked there, was eyeballing up and down, sizing me up, and looked at me and smirked and said "man, ill have you on the ground soo fast, you wouldnt know what hit you". Lol. My point is being in shape or being big from working out and being out in public, youll get people, mostly guys, just like the ones i mentioned who say shit just make them feel better about themselves.

LOL! people sure are strange huh...monster jealousy
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 13, 2009, 10:27:41 AM
always funny how out of shape people are never being questioned but when you live a healthy life and train with weights its nothing but negativity and should you explain yourself.
agree that if you make fun of a fat person you re "bad" .but to be honest its been a long time i simply decided to subtly make fun of em openly without caring about being politically corect and pointing at the fact that i know they re insecure about their bodyweight/appearence;  when you crush em from the begining they re all nice and sweet to you afterwards.  
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 10:30:49 AM
exactly what 99,99% of people think of wieght lifters, wether they are posers or low profile individuals.

I even happen to think thar about some weights lifters myself so.. Fact is people always compare themselves to each others, and if one has muscles and/or looks it doesnt mean he "has it all". This is true. Hapiness is not linked to how muscular or good you look. These peopel as out of shape as they are know it and they re right.

Most people also think that sporting muscles = trying to compensate for physical and psychological shortcomings, and again when i see people showing off constantly wether they re really muscular or not, trying to impress everyone with their lifts etc especially in the gyms which are filled with sad delusional and uterly vain people, i mean of course they trying to compensate for some reasons.





you lift weights too right? so what are you "compensating" for?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 13, 2009, 10:42:20 AM
you lift weights too right? so what are you "compensating" for?
i  had some shity reasons when a teen (family problems, living in shity suburbs with the lowest social class) that deeply motivated me to lift weights to insure my own survival first and  then as a relief to global anxiety , but im not stupid enough to expose them in details  here. I could have been playing soccer basketball or something else instead.

The most interesting thing is that once i got away from these shity environments and improved my quality of life, i didnt need to overcompensate anymore and found less interest in "getting bigger and bigger" with no end in sight. I found other ways, more fulfiling and interesting stuff to do instead. Everything's relative.

Lifting weights and getting muscular or "big" whatever you call it isnt an answer to everything, it's only a very small part of life. And it can be either good or bad wether you re being balanced or too extremistic in the way your practice it.

Those who focus mainly on "getting bigger" have issues they didnt solve, and that keep alterating in an extremistic way how they practice their hobby.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Method101 on December 13, 2009, 10:47:07 AM
When your natural, the health look is the only option lol.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 13, 2009, 10:49:36 AM
When your natural, the health look is the only option lol.

You can be natural and unhealthy you stupid prick, do you ever stop saying stupid stuff.

Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Method101 on December 13, 2009, 10:58:26 AM
You can be natural and unhealthy you stupid prick, do you ever stop saying stupid stuff.


lol shut the fuck up cun t. I mean you can only aim for the health look without drugs, as it is impossible to get big by Flex magazine standards.
If i lost about 10lbs of fat i would have the health look, my arms were atleast as lean and big as the underwear model pictures on the first page yet i got ridiculed on these forums. Torso is about the same level aswell.
 ::)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: uberman09 on December 13, 2009, 11:03:01 AM
there are fat or skinny "naturals" who think they re healthy and who drink beer and have shity eating habits...but just because they suscribed to a gym last month and wear a tapout tshirt think they re the shit.

Just because you lift weights and DONT take steroids doesnt mean you re "healthier/holier" than anyone  shitstain.



And dont call someone who's older and bigger than you a #### when yourself are a 15 y/o with only a vein on his bicep to show off.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Method101 on December 13, 2009, 11:04:19 AM
there are fat or skinny "naturals" who think they re healthy and who drink beer and have shity eating habits...but just because they suscribed to a gym and wear a tapout tshirt think they re the shit.

Just because you lift weights and DONT take steroids doesnt mean you re "healthier/holier" than anyone  shitstain.

Im alot healthier than pros walking around at 5ft10 and 300lbs.
Post your pictures fucktard.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: hazbin on December 13, 2009, 11:08:39 AM
you must be a freak, or be one of those guys who walk with their arms all stuck out. all i got when i looked like this was ' hey, you're starting to get big!'
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Mr Nobody on December 13, 2009, 11:15:00 AM
you must be a freak, or be one of those guys who walk with their arms all stuck out. all i got when i looked like this was ' hey, you're starting to get big!'
Damn haz is large and in charge (no homo) vascularity out da roof
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Van_Bilderass on December 13, 2009, 11:15:02 AM
you must be a freak, or be one of those guys who walk with their arms all stuck out. all i got when i looked like this was ' hey, you're starting to get big!'

I bet you also got a few, "do you work out or do any sports"? And, "you're pretty big, my 17 year old cousin is a bodybuilder too, he's a bit bigger and wider but he uses creatine".
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: nolotil on December 13, 2009, 11:20:43 AM
If people think u/someone else are to big, in almost 99% of the cases the person is bulked up and fat and look like shit when the clothes come of. No one can be to big when they are in shape accept some guys with superior genetics like Coleman Cutler and the guys. U can win a national contest and still look "normal" in a regular shirt. But bulking up and try look as big as possible is only stupid.

Every time I attend a bodybuilding contest I see these guys in the audience trying to look as big as possible and then u can see the local champion walking around like a normal person, just a little bit bigger. I guess its the same phenomena with fighter guys, kids running around in town trying to start fights to get some attention and respect.

Why the hell bulking up anyway, have never understood the meaning of it if your not into powerlifting or sumowrestling. Isen't bodybuilding all about having a well built, nice symmetrical and attractive body with a nice gentleman approach. Hmm, I guess Im stuck into the 80ies...

I guess being a monster and a freak is the ideal today...


very very good post, i agree with everything you say. specially naturals in shape will never look big in clothes....unless they have a huge frame and are very tall.

Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: hazbin on December 13, 2009, 11:38:04 AM
I bet you also got a few, "do you work out or do any sports"? And, "you're pretty big, my 17 year old cousin is a bodybuilder too, he's a bit bigger and wider but he uses creatine".

exactly!!  " the jocks in my high school had 23" arms - but they did the juice!"
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Saxon on December 13, 2009, 11:46:15 AM
you must be a freak, or be one of those guys who walk with their arms all stuck out. all i got when i looked like this was ' hey, you're starting to get big!'

Great moustache!
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 11:47:38 AM
you must be a freak, or be one of those guys who walk with their arms all stuck out. all i got when i looked like this was ' hey, you're starting to get big!'

bull fucking shit!!!!!!!!!

people whisper behind your back and turn their heads when a monster like that is anywhere near them! hyooooooge sumbitch right there! 8)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: d0nny2600 on December 13, 2009, 11:48:24 AM
lol shut the fuck up cun t. I mean you can only aim for the health look without drugs, as it is impossible to get big by Flex magazine standards.
If i lost about 10lbs of fat i would have the health look, my arms were atleast as lean and big as the underwear model pictures on the first page yet i got ridiculed on these forums. Torso is about the same level aswell.
 ::)
Twinkle toe'd meltdown
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 11:52:16 AM
i  had some shity reasons when a teen (family problems, living in shity suburbs with the lowest social class) that deeply motivated me to lift weights to insure my own survival first and  then as a relief to global anxiety , but im not stupid enough to expose them in details  here. I could have been playing soccer basketball or something else instead.

The most interesting thing is that once i got away from these shity environments and improved my quality of life, i didnt need to overcompensate anymore and found less interest in "getting bigger and bigger" with no end in sight. I found other ways, more fulfiling and interesting stuff to do instead. Everything's relative.

Lifting weights and getting muscular or "big" whatever you call it isnt an answer to everything, it's only a very small part of life. And it can be either good or bad wether you re being balanced or too extremistic in the way your practice it.

Those who focus mainly on "getting bigger" have issues they didnt solve, and that keep alterating in an extremistic way how they practice their hobby.

that's true, you shouldn't be too obsessed, have other things too. "Muscles" isn't the answer or solves anything but it is good fun.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: _bruce_ on December 13, 2009, 12:06:13 PM
Should there be an incidence of people mocking me because of my gargantuan physique... I subtly mention the Hells Angels and Getbig... and off they back...
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: funk51 on December 13, 2009, 12:17:39 PM
"When are you gonna stop training? Everything in moderation, you shouldn't be small but you shouldn't be too big either and that is too much. I'm just telling you how it is, i don't think that looks good" etc.........

Discuss
              this isn't funny my size  hurts me in the wallet quite a bit, and i'm not really that big. i've lost tons of tv and movie roles over this. just last week some boardwalk something  or other on HBO  called and wanted me to come in for a costume fitting, i know it sounds gay but that's what they call it. well anyway they told me not to come back when they found i take a size 52 jacket the biggest they had was 42 no shit i kid you not. and this ain't the first time.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Bobby on December 13, 2009, 12:22:21 PM
              this isn't funny my size  hurts me in the wallet quite a bit, and i'm not really that big. i've lost tons of tv and movie roles over this. just last week some boardwalk something  or other on HBO  called and wanted me to come in for a costume fitting, i know it sounds gay but that's what they call it. well anyway they told me not to come back when they found i take a size 52 jacket the biggest they had was 42 no shit i kid you not. and this ain't the first time.

interesting! have we seen you in anything on tv ?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: funk51 on December 13, 2009, 12:33:23 PM
interesting! have we seen you in anything on tv ?
            7 movies and 3 tv shows thus far numerous print ads some terrible commercials cmcforex or something like that some rodeo shit. here's my pic .
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Mars on December 13, 2009, 02:28:27 PM
hazbin is not that big
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: nolotil on December 13, 2009, 02:52:32 PM
hazbin is not that big

neither is oprah winfrey
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Ursus on December 13, 2009, 05:45:31 PM

very very good post, i agree with everything you say. specially naturals in shape will never look big in clothes....unless they have a huge frame and are very tall.



I would not say I am out of shape but not turbo lean. I get comments reqularly but I am tall wide a wide frame.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Hulkotron on December 13, 2009, 07:05:39 PM
you must be a freak, or be one of those guys who walk with their arms all stuck out. all i got when i looked like this was ' hey, you're starting to get big!'

That is an EPIC mustache!
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: G.O.A.T. on December 13, 2009, 07:30:17 PM
tell them that you enjoy slaying tang, and that BBing makes more of that possible.

if they want grandkids, they'll STFU and enjoy the many offspring you will bring them.
I busted out laughing out that one!
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: hazbin on December 13, 2009, 08:03:19 PM
That is an EPIC mustache!

it's a goatee now. i only compete every few years, and half the competitors are bald with a goatee. i turn it into a handlebar to compete, so the judges might remember me a little better. ( didn't work tho, i always lost, lol)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: johnnynoname on December 13, 2009, 08:21:40 PM
my family has never had that conversation with me

btw, why should you give a shit what they think of you

once you get rid of shame and stop worrying about what your family thinks about you, you will have a blast with your life my friend
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Mars on December 14, 2009, 02:00:05 AM
are you preparing us for your coming out john?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: johnnynoname on December 14, 2009, 02:17:34 AM
are you preparing us for your coming out john?

i've been out lol
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on December 14, 2009, 04:34:09 AM
YUP. Like i said before bodybuilding causes alot of jealousy and shit-talking from people who dont workout. Especially if your out somewhere. I was at a local bar, last year sometime, and this guy sitting next to me at the bar, was like "you look like you workout.......you probably think your all tough and a man because you lift weights, i tear down and build decks 12 hrs a day" and while hes saying that, hes got food hanging from the corner of his mouth and flying out while hes talking. Another time, i was at a bar my buddy was a bartender at, one of the "regulars" i got to know through my buddy who worked there were talking one day, just bullshitting.....he made a comment, "Dont go around thinking your tough and can beat anyones ass just because you lift weights, i know a few guys that do MMA fighting thatll beat your ass.LOL ::) At the same bar, differant day, another guy who worked there, was eyeballing up and down, sizing me up, and looked at me and smirked and said "man, ill have you on the ground soo fast, you wouldnt know what hit you". Lol. My point is being in shape or being big from working out and being out in public, youll get people, mostly guys, just like the ones i mentioned who say shit just make them feel better about themselves.

Wow I think that is the most insecure creature on this planet, willing to kill himself from work just to keep an image...
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Gino30 on December 14, 2009, 05:04:08 AM
"When are you gonna stop training? Everything in moderation, you shouldn't be small but you shouldn't be too big either and that is too much. I'm just telling you how it is, i don't think that looks good" etc.........

Discuss

You think Arnold listened to his stew-eating, peasant, small town Austrian friends?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: nolotil on December 14, 2009, 05:06:45 AM
I would not say I am out of shape but not turbo lean. I get comments reqularly but I am tall wide a wide frame.

yes i seen pics of you..you are big for sure and i believe it when you say natural. very good genetics and huge frame
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: WingedLion on December 14, 2009, 05:11:28 AM
motivated me to lift weights to insure my own survival first and  then as a relief to global anxiety
:D :D :D
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Parker on December 14, 2009, 05:20:19 AM
You think Arnold listened to his stew-eating, peasant, small town Austrian friends?
Hes right. And your right. But Arnold of yesterday, today couldn't even win a local show, he is moderation.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: WingedLion on December 14, 2009, 05:25:12 AM
Arnold of yesterday, today couldn't even win a local show
goes to show what a retard u are

stick to cars and othershit . leave bodybuilding "dude"
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: liberalismo on December 14, 2009, 07:11:46 AM
Honestly the MOST important thing is symmetry and aesthetics.

You can have symmetry and aesthetics without size or with size.

Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: io856 on December 14, 2009, 09:17:34 AM
Honestly the MOST important thing is symmetry and aesthetics.

You can have symmetry and aesthetics without size or with size.


according to who?
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Fatpanda on December 14, 2009, 09:54:09 AM
We know it's not true, but the fat people think it is. They think with an in shape body all their problems in life would just disappear and they'd fuck topmodels on a weekly basis. And be honest, you thought that too before you started lifting.

i can confirm i think this way.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: mass 04 on December 14, 2009, 09:55:55 AM
Better than the "you're too small" speech i get from my girlfriend.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: CalvinH on December 14, 2009, 10:09:50 AM
Not with my family.Granny loves a good pose-down at Christmas :)
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: Captain Equipoise on December 14, 2009, 10:21:05 AM
I get the same shit every year from my parents, mostly from my health concerned mother.... 'oh you shoulldn't be getting so big, I know you're using those 'steroids' and things, they're not good for you, what do you weight now.. 245, 250?;.. 'raises hands to god' make him stop...

For some reason this only happens around the holidays, or if I'm wearing t-shirts around them
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: IrishMuscle84 on December 14, 2009, 10:32:19 AM
exactly what 99,99% of people think of wieght lifters, wether they are posers or low profile individuals.

I even happen to think thar about some weights lifters myself so.. Fact is people always compare themselves to each others, and if one has muscles and/or looks it doesnt mean he "has it all". This is true. Hapiness is not linked to how muscular or good you look. These peopel as out of shape as they are know it and they re right.

Most people also think that sporting muscles = trying to compensate for physical and psychological shortcomings, and again when i see people showing off constantly wether they re really muscular or not, trying to impress everyone with their lifts etc especially in the gyms which are filled with sad delusional and uterly vain people, i mean of course they trying to compensate for some reasons.




ABSOOOOLUTELY TRUE, about how "we compare ourselves with others" and "when people see someone muscular, thinks they are a millionaire.....and have everything." BUT the whole working out and having muscle and being happy, i disagree with that. Working out and being in shape, having muscle etc.....SHOULD make you happy and feel good about yourself, have self esteem, self-worth. You should be happy BECAUSE you feel good about yourself.
Title: Re: I got the "you're too big" speech from the family today...
Post by: _bruce_ on December 14, 2009, 10:44:47 AM
ABSOOOOLUTELY TRUE, about how "we compare ourselves with others" and "when people see someone muscular, thinks they are a millionaire.....and have everything." BUT the whole working out and having muscle and being happy, i disagree with that. Working out and being in shape, having muscle etc.....SHOULD make you happy and feel good about yourself, have self esteem, self-worth. You should be happy BECAUSE you feel good about yourself.

Yep - one's muscle, no matter how little or much, should act as an armor against unwanted physical and psychological intrusion...