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Title: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 09:47:49 AM
A lot of you will need to consult for sex addiction in the future, cause years of internet porn will slowly destroy the quality of your behaviors , relationships  towards and with others and especially young girls -eventual daughters- and your wives / girlfriends.

I came to the conclusion that almost every single individual on this board is a full blown or a future addict. You re sick, but you dont know it, as it is a new, recent phenomenon linked to the emergence of the internet. You also excuse yourself and each others in order to bask in your bad habits and not change em.
"hey nobody has proven it's bad, so it must be good!"  ::)

 Just because one of the main problem with sex addiction , internet porn, is that it ultimately leads to insatisfaction towards what you have and adulterous behaviors should make you think twice about it.

Look for "sexual dependancy" "hypersexuality" "porn addiction" on google and you ll find out easily what's wrong with your daily habits and how it will affect your life in the long term.


Prevention is better than cure...
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 09:51:31 AM
no such thing as sex addiction....just a lot of human nature, and knowing what you want going around...

bench
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: brent2741 on May 18, 2010, 09:52:34 AM
time to ungay this shit
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: MAXX on May 18, 2010, 09:54:21 AM
A lot of you will need to consult for sex addiction in the future, cause years of internet porn will slowly destroy the quality of your behaviors , relationships  towards and with others and especially young girls -eventual daughters- and your wives / girlfriends.

I came to the conclusion that almost every single individual on this board is a full blown or a future addict. You re sick, but you dont know it, as it is a new, recent phenomenon linked to the emergence of the internet.

Look for "sexual dependancy" on google and you ll find out easily what's wrong with your habits.


Prevention is better than cure...
epic projection
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 09:54:41 AM
time to ungay this shit
thank science....i was beginning to worry 8)

bench
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 09:55:41 AM
no such thing as sex addiction....just a lot of human nature, and knowing what you want going around...

bench

ignorant retard, trying to justify his habits because he doesnt understand em.

http://www.internetsafety101.org/upload/file/Social%20Costs%20of%20Pornography%20Report.pdf



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2010 February 28
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Glowing brainIs porn addiction any closer to official recognition in the psychotherapy community? Well, kind of.

The DSM (or Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) is the American “bible” of mental health. It is quoted by therapists, researchers, pharmaceutical companies and policy makers from all over the world. The DSM is also used by US health insurance companies to determine which mental disorder treatments they will pay out for.

Right now, porn addiction isn’t recognised by the DSM. Neither is sex addiction or internet addiction. In fact, the DSM doesn’t like the addiction word at all. But this might all change in the fifth revision, due to be released in 2013. Some proposed changes are:

    * A category called “substance-related disorders” would include not only drug and alcohol addiction, but also gambling addiction. Recognition of a “non-substance” addiction like gambling in this category would be a considerable shift.
    * Internet addiction might also be covered by this category, though subject to further research.
    * Compulsive sexual behaviour issues, including obsession with pornography, would come under the new definition of “hypersexual disorder”. This would apply to people who repetitively engage in sexual “fantasies, urges and behavior”, and who repeatedly try and fail to control or significantly reduce the urges and behaviour.

So “pornography addiction” and “sex addiction” don’t get definitions in their own right, but would be recognised as hypersexuality issues. One line from the proposed criteria for hypersexual disorder particularly leapt out at me:

“Repetitively engaging in these sexual fantasies, urges, and behavior in response to dysphoric mood states (e.g., anxiety, depression, boredom, irritability).”

Now all these proposals are still being fleshed out, and they’ll be field tested for some time. Many experts have argued against inclusion of behavioural or “non-substance” addictions in the DSM on the basis that we will focus too much on the “addiction” and not the real, underlying problems.

Psychoanalyst Todd Essig is bang on the nail:

    Making bad choices, developing destructive habits, and attempting solutions to problems in living that then become serious problems themselves will all become less important as the locus of responsibility shifts from the person doing something to the something being done.

To my mind, addiction therapy is a two-pronged approach:

    * Help the person to directly address the behaviour; learn to develop an observing self that can notice and manage the specific trigger scenarios.
    * Explore and address any underlying issues or trauma.

The balance and combination of both approaches is what makes good therapy. So the proposed new definition and criteria looks useful, even if “hypersexual disorder” might seem a somewhat misleading title at first. While I still have reservations about “addictions” in the DSM, I’m pretty optimistic about the inclusion of compulsive porn behaviour in this way.

You can read (and comment on) the proposed “hypersexual disorder” DSM-5 revision. Todd Essig’s excellent article about “internet addiction” is here in full.
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: brent2741 on May 18, 2010, 09:57:01 AM
thank science....i was beginning to worry 8)

bench
i always say thank science..... most people dont get it, but its my little jab at the moral majority
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 09:58:02 AM
epic projection
I myself am part of the "internet generation" thingy and have been prone to fall for internet porn addiction. Just thought i'd share my thoughts about this as it effectively impacted badly on my everyday life. Feel free to believe there are no side effects to hours and hours of weekly porn consumption over years, decades.
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 10:08:31 AM
Thanks for the advice man, after your 850 posts of douchebaggery I am really gonna take this to heart.  ???
then go play somewhere else  ???
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on May 18, 2010, 10:13:57 AM
Probably a great place to meet chicks.  At least you know they like to fuck.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: lovemonkey on May 18, 2010, 10:17:06 AM
Yes yes, we should go back to our ancestral roots and only think about sex 95% of the time instead of 96%. Good lord what have we modern spoiled humans got ourselves into.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Palpatine Q on May 18, 2010, 10:18:09 AM
I don't watch porn...I'd rather do it than watch it.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: clued-up on May 18, 2010, 10:19:20 AM
You re sick, but you dont know it

Oh, I'm sick, and I know it.

I’ve had no problem finding women to accommodate my sick, perverted desires.. and satisfying them, on tape, if thats what I want.

My behavior has nothing to do with watching internet porn (who has time to waste on that anyway?)
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Voice of Doom on May 18, 2010, 10:21:53 AM
I was hoping porn would bring me closer to my teenage daughters............... ... :o












































 ;D
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: pluck on May 18, 2010, 10:24:33 AM
Wrong.

The only difference between porn now and back in the day is the openness about it. People were horny freaks centuries ago like they still are today. How do you think many families had 5 + kids at the turn of the century?

Anyways, I had a conversation a few weeks back with a retired and obese school teacher at the cigar lounge. It was hilarious to see few other old timers chime in on the topic of pussy destroying in the 60s.

These old men who are in their early 70s now were all talking about how cars these days are pieces of shit, not because of crappy materials and manufacturing...but because none of the front seats are big enough to fuckk chicks in. ...

the moral of the story is people were and always will be horny. The only difference is that now it's much more accepted to talk and approach people for sex than during the time of our grandparents.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 10:29:40 AM
i d knew most of you would come with bullshits arguments but hey, if you can think twice about it and have some useful readings just because of my thread i will consider my job done.
Dont want to give any lessons... just a warning...



You do not learn how to please women when watching porn, only how to please yourself. You do not learn what real life relationships with women are, you dont leartn how to communicate either, you only learn how to dominate em by focusing on your own needs without having a clue about what they think or feel. Especially when they re submissive, young , inexeprienced. Basically you teach em in this case things that are negative to both of you in the long term; basically you re not aware of the importance of your role as a sexual "mentor" and may endanger the psychological stability of your partner which will eventually lead to suffering in the end for either her or both of you. You also tend to want more and more, and happen to never be satisfied and always looking for an edge that never comes. Basically you dont take pleasure in the act in itslef at all over time.You re dqamaging the initial pleasure you had  in the first place over time. You re destroying your pleasure slowly without noticing. I'm not saying real sex nor masturbating is bad at all -it cannot be "bad"-, i'm just saying that the way people are having sex, thinking, feeling it,  being influenced by a daily consuption of internet porn is getting them more and more troubled, and sexologists will have a lot of work in the next decades. Most of the time men are the ones watching porn and having problems with their sexual life over time with their sex partners, when their female partners who dont watch porn simply dont get it; it means they re not conditionned so dont feel any suffering while their male partners who expose themselves to these conditionnings are developping different kinds of physical and psychological forms of suffering.
You get obsessed about the sexual part of the relationship and tend to lose any interest in the other parts of it that are devaluated in your eyes even if they keep being important for your partner -who stays balanced in her view of the relationship- all that matters for you is to  satisfy your impulse that gets bigger and bigger over time as you feed it all by yourself. Basically you become the slave of an habit you developed all by yourself and that ultimately makes you unhappy when you could actually be happy if you werent obsessed, addicted, and able to see how the other parts of the relationship are as important as the sexual part of it.

You know there has to be a problem when you ve done it all but still feel deeply unsatisfied and wanting for more...

Addiction is not a thing to joke with.

I wont even mention the fact youths are getting an access to internet porn sooner than ever which makes em prone to addiction very early...which means more difficulties to get rid of em later once they have become disfunctional adults....
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: Tapeworm on May 18, 2010, 10:39:10 AM
time to ungay this shit

Lol.  10 points!


Disagree, uber.  It'll do in a pinch but porn is kind of dull.  Awesome when you're 14 but in your 30s not so much. 
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Earl1972 on May 18, 2010, 11:02:07 AM
thanks for the free mental health evaluation 8)

E
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: bigmc on May 18, 2010, 11:08:10 AM
I don't watch porn...I'd rather do it than watch it.

 8)
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Devon97 on May 18, 2010, 11:09:07 AM
Keep in mind Uberman -

Seeing a oiled up muscle man in a thong triggers the same pernicious addiction in Earl that  traditional porn does in everyone else.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: doison on May 18, 2010, 11:09:42 AM
A lot of you will need to consult for sex addiction in the future, cause years of internet porn will slowly destroy the quality of your behaviors , relationships  towards and with others and especially young girls -eventual daughters- and your wives / girlfriends.

I came to the conclusion that almost every single individual on this board is a full blown or a future addict. You re sick, but you dont know it, as it is a new, recent phenomenon linked to the emergence of the internet. You also excuse yourself and each others in order to bask in your bad habits and not change em.
"hey nobody has proven it's bad, so it must be good!"  ::)

 Just because one of the main problem with sex addiction , internet porn, is that it ultimately leads to insatisfaction towards what you have and adulterous behaviors should make you think twice about it.

Look for "sexual dependancy" "hypersexuality" "porn addiction" on google and you ll find out easily what's wrong with your daily habits and how it will affect your life in the long term.


Prevention is better than cure...

The irony between your name and this post is breathtaking.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on May 18, 2010, 11:09:57 AM
Daily internet porn use is bad...because men do it. If it were women though...
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: big L dawg on May 18, 2010, 11:14:43 AM
A lot of you will need to consult for sex addiction in the future, cause years of internet porn will slowly destroy the quality of your behaviors , relationships  towards and with others and especially young girls -eventual daughters- and your wives / girlfriends.

I came to the conclusion that almost every single individual on this board is a full blown or a future addict. You re sick, but you dont know it, as it is a new, recent phenomenon linked to the emergence of the internet. You also excuse yourself and each others in order to bask in your bad habits and not change em.
"hey nobody has proven it's bad, so it must be good!"  ::)

 Just because one of the main problem with sex addiction , internet porn, is that it ultimately leads to insatisfaction towards what you have and adulterous behaviors should make you think twice about it.

Look for "sexual dependancy" "hypersexuality" "porn addiction" on google and you ll find out easily what's wrong with your daily habits and how it will affect your life in the long term.


Prevention is better than cure...

How many women have you had sexual relationships with?
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Earl1972 on May 18, 2010, 11:16:00 AM
Keep in mind Uberman -

Seeing a oiled up muscle man in a thong triggers the same pernicious addiction in Earl that  traditional porn does in everyone else.

keep spelling my name right, bitch :P

E
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Bodybuilding Related on May 18, 2010, 12:43:44 PM
From John Mayer's Playboy Interview:

MAYER: I’m a self-soother. The Internet, DVR, Netflix, Twitter—all these things are moments in time throughout your day when you’re able to soothe yourself. We have an autonomy of comfort and pleasure. By the way, pornography? It’s a new synaptic pathway. You wake up in the morning, open a thumbnail page, and it leads to a Pandora’s box of visuals. There have probably been days when I saw 300 vaginas before I got out of bed.

PLAYBOY: What’s your point about porn and relationships?

MAYER: Internet pornography has absolutely changed my generation’s expectations. How could you be constantly synthesizing an orgasm based on dozens of shots? You’re looking for the one photo out of 100 you swear is going to be the one you finish to, and you still don’t finish. Twenty seconds ago you thought that photo was the hottest thing you ever saw, but you throw it back and continue your shot hunt and continue to make yourself late for work. How does that not affect the psychology of having a relationship with somebody? It’s got to.

PLAYBOY: You seem very fond of pornography.

MAYER: When I watch porn, if it’s not hot enough, I’ll make up backstories in my mind. My biggest dream is to write pornography.

PLAYBOY: How did you become a self-soother?

MAYER: I grew up in my own head. As soon as I lose that control, once I have to deal with someone else’s desires, I cut and run. I’m pretty culpable about being hard to live with. I have had a good run of imagining things into reality. I’ve got a huge streak of successes based on my own inventions. If you tell me I’m wrong or that I’m overthinking something, well, overthinking has given me everything in my career. I have a hard time not looking at anxiety disorder as being like an ATM. I can invent things really well. I mean, I have unbelievable orgasms alone. They’re always the best. They always end the way I want them to end. And I have such an ability to make believe, I can almost project something onto my wall, watch it and get off to it: sexually, musically, it doesn’t matter. When I meet somebody, I’m in a situation in which I can’t run it because another person is involved. That means letting someone else talk, not waiting for them to remind you of something interesting you had in mind.

PLAYBOY: Masturbation for you is as good as sex?

MAYER: Absolutely, because during sex, I’m just going to run a filmstrip. I’m still masturbating. That’s what you do when you’re 30, 31, 32. This is my problem now: Rather than meet somebody new, I would rather go home and replay the amazing experiences I’ve already had.

PLAYBOY: You’d rather jerk off to an ex-girlfriend than meet someone new?

MAYER: Yeah. What that explains is that I’m more comfortable in my imagination than I am in actual human discovery. The best days of my life are when I’ve dreamed about a sexual encounter with someone I’ve already been with. When that happens, I cannot lay off myself.
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on May 18, 2010, 12:44:05 PM
time to ungay this shit

damn thats hot
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 01:07:01 PM
Wrong.

The only difference between porn now and back in the day is the openness about it. People were horny freaks centuries ago like they still are today. How do you think many families had 5 + kids at the turn of the century?

Anyways, I had a conversation a few weeks back with a retired and obese school teacher at the cigar lounge. It was hilarious to see few other old timers chime in on the topic of pussy destroying in the 60s.

These old men who are in their early 70s now were all talking about how cars these days are pieces of shit, not because of crappy materials and manufacturing...but because none of the front seats are big enough to fuckk chicks in. ...

the moral of the story is people were and always will be horny. The only difference is that now it's much more accepted to talk and approach people for sex than during the time of our grandparents.
they had a way more limited access to porn back then. They had one, but it was way limited. They jerked off a lot alone using their imagination or with a picture, and they were more encouraged to meet women to fuck em if they wanted to obtain what they desired... Once they met they were actualy HAVING REAL LIFE SEXUAL INTERCOURSES WITH EVERYTHING REAL IT INVOLVES... a lot more different than spending 1 hour a day -if not more- jerking off alone for months, years...decades... and it was a lot less diversified than it is nowadays too.. nowadays a 12 y/o can access to -and become addicted to- every single stuff that is avaialable if he has an access to the internet that is not controlled by his parents.

You re comparing different situations. Yes people always had sex, but it's the "way we re having sex nowadays that changed, and not for good. Something smells fishy -pardon the pun- with what our urban capitalistic and materialistic occidental societies are promoting , without knowing the side effects.

I think you get addicted to the perople you see in the vids, they are the people you want to have sex with, and if you cant have sex with these people, you will spend your whoole life trying to find em or you ll become unsatisfyied by your current partner if she doesnt look or act like that character you want to fuck. problem is everyone's different, so you re chasing after something that you cant obtain. And even in the case you would actually fuck the woman you seen in the video -or man for many homos on here- it's not even going to be how you thought it would be either! You re looking for something that doesnt exist, and you re getting bored of what truly exists and is available.
Lots of mental distortions are developing due to porn addiction. It in fact affects the way you fuck. it can improve it -you learn stuff- but even this is questionable, since asking directly your partner what she wants and telling her what you want should suffice -but not everyone has the skill to communicate efficiently-, or deteriorate it -you re not satisfied with what you have and always more or different than what you have- if you abuse internet porn.


Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: lovemonkey on May 18, 2010, 01:11:18 PM
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Croatch on May 18, 2010, 01:13:10 PM
I owe a lot to internet porn.  Compared to years ago, I'm much better at whacking it these days.
Thanks.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: _bruce_ on May 18, 2010, 01:13:41 PM
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.

Poor übermann  :D
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Kwon on May 18, 2010, 01:15:46 PM
Who the hell is this Undermann-character anyways?

Is he thinking he is doing us any favors?
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 01:16:38 PM
i d knew most of you would come with bullshits arguments but hey, if you can think twice about it and have some useful readings just because of my thread i will consider my job done.
Dont want to give any lessons... just a warning...



You do not learn how to please women when watching porn, only how to please yourself. You do not learn what real life relationships with women are, you dont leartn how to communicate either, you only learn how to dominate em by focusing on your own needs without having a clue about what they think or feel. Especially when they re submissive, young , inexeprienced. Basically you teach em in this case things that are negative to both of you in the long term; basically you re not aware of the importance of your role as a sexual "mentor" and may endanger the psychological stability of your partner which will eventually lead to suffering in the end for either her or both of you. You also tend to want more and more, and happen to never be satisfied and always looking for an edge that never comes. Basically you dont take pleasure in the act in itslef at all over time.You re dqamaging the initial pleasure you had  in the first place over time. You re destroying your pleasure slowly without noticing. I'm not saying real sex nor masturbating is bad at all -it cannot be "bad"-, i'm just saying that the way people are having sex, thinking, feeling it,  being influenced by a daily consuption of internet porn is getting them more and more troubled, and sexologists will have a lot of work in the next decades. Most of the time men are the ones watching porn and having problems with their sexual life over time with their sex partners, when their female partners who dont watch porn simply dont get it; it means they re not conditionned so dont feel any suffering while their male partners who expose themselves to these conditionnings are developping different kinds of physical and psychological forms of suffering.
You get obsessed about the sexual part of the relationship and tend to lose any interest in the other parts of it that are devaluated in your eyes even if they keep being important for your partner -who stays balanced in his view of the relationship- all that matters for you is to your satisfy your impulse that gets bigger and bigger over time as you feed it all by yourself. Basically you become the slave of an habit you developed all by yourself and that ultimately makes you unhappy when you could actually be happy if you werent obsessed, addicted, and able to see how the other parts of the relationship are as important as the sexual part of it.

You know there has to be a problem when you ve done it all but still feel deeply unsatisfied and wanting for more...

Addiction is not a thing to joke with.

I wont even mention the fact youths are getting an access to internet porn sooner than ever which makes em prone to addiction very early...which means more difficulties to get rid of em later once they have become disfunctional adults....

addictions only happen to mentally weak people.....its not genetic......its just a very stupid, and worthless person...

bench
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 01:21:12 PM
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.
as usual, lot of young unexeperienced morons pretending to know it all always trying to save face and pretend when older people like myself who are in their 30 s or 40s and others on here will understand what im talking about. lol at thinking you re in charge of anything when you re between 16 and 30. Just because you believe in your own ignorance and show it off constantly proves you have a lot to learn.

Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: leadhead on May 18, 2010, 01:23:08 PM
John Mayer is a weirdo if he would rather beat off that get pussy- new or old ::)
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 01:24:27 PM
addictions only happen to mentally weak people.....its not genetic......its just a very stupid, and worthless person...

bench
define 'mentally weak' ? lol...good luck with that one.

where in hell did i say being prone to any addiction is genetical? actually it's not innate it s acquired/learned depending on what conditionnings you ve been subject  to in your childhood and adolescence. Basically you re shaped by your surroundings without having any control over em for the first part of your life until you reach your 20s.

Fact is everything is a conditionning. Some are better than others, some can ruin your life if you dont find a way to reverse/substitute em soon enough, especially when you dont have the intelectual capacity to identify them as being harmful.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: lovemonkey on May 18, 2010, 01:35:28 PM
as usual, lot of young unexeperienced morons pretending to know it all always trying to save face and pretend when older people like myself who are in their 30 s or 40s and others on here will understand what im talking about. lol at thinking you re in charge of anything when you re between 16 and 30. Just because you believe in your own ignorance and show it off constantly proves you have a lot to learn.



Please describe briefly what sexuality is and how much of it is too much and why. This kind of discussion/thinking is not exactly unique to this time period alone you know so stop thinking you're bringing something revolutionary to the table.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 01:40:06 PM
Please describe briefly what sexuality is and how much of it is too much and why. This kind of discussion/thinking is not exactly unique to this time period alone you know so stop thinking you're bringing something revolutionary to the table.
Sexuality has 3 functions; reproductive, social and anxiolitic.
there's what brings a feeling of satisfaction -well being- to yourself without hurting the others and if possible, also improve their own well being in the process, and there's what brings a feeling of unsatisfaction - frustration- to yourself and others and hurts everyone in the process leading to anger and psychological/physical suffering for everyone. (same applies to everything, not just sex. )

Any cognition or behaviors that leads to one's suffering is a problem for the whole society which will have to find a counter-cognition / counter-behavior in order to preserve, maintain it's integrity for the benefit of all its members.


And do your researches by yourself, Im not going to regurgitate 60+ books i ve read to you just to please you especially when getting nothing in return.

Im saying porn addiction is a real danger based on what ive read/studied and my personnal life experience, and you re saying 'no it isnt' based on.... ?

Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: lovemonkey on May 18, 2010, 01:52:26 PM
there's what brings a feeling of satisfaction -well being- to yourself without hurting the others and if possible, also improve their own well being in the process, and there's what brings a feeling of unsatisfaction - frustration- to yourself and others and hurts everyone in the process leading to anger and psychological/physical suffering.

same applies to everything, not just sex.

As someone mentioned real harmful addiction is only privileged to a select few that usually have issues to begin with. With that said, humans are addicted to sex, it makes us who we are. There's no way to get rid of that besides neutering yourself which is a bit extreme I'd say. Our sex drive has about the same power as our craving for food and that says a lot. People even shagged in the WWII concentration camps. Look at roman catholic priests, look at muslims going to "legal" brothels etc etc. To deny our sex drive is just gonna make matters worse.

Porn is just one of many ways to release ourselves from the urge. Some people don't even use porn but still masturbate frequently. Some people have a lot of actual sex frequently. No matter the outlet the urge usually follows the same pattern.

To say that someone or a majority of the people have a sex addiction is hypocritical at best. When the sex urge really interferes and disrupts your life to the point of being helpless then sure, do something about it. For 99,99% of the population this is not the case.

EDIT: Epic post edit you little shit.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 02:07:12 PM
As someone mentioned real harmful addiction is only privileged to a select few that usually have issues to begin with. With that said, humans are addicted to sex, it makes us who we are. There's no way to get rid of that besides neutering yourself which is a bit extreme I'd say. Our sex drive has about the same power as our craving for food and that says a lot. People even shagged in the WWII concentration camps. Look at roman catholic priests, look at muslims going to "legal" brothels etc etc. To deny our sex drive is just gonna make matters worse.

Porn is just one of many ways to release ourselves from the urge. Some people don't even use porn but still masturbate frequently. Some people have a lot of actual sex frequently. No matter the outlet the urge usually follows the same pattern.

To say that someone or a majority of the people have a sex addiction is hypocritical at best. When the sex urge really interferes and disrupts your life to the point of being helpless then sure, do something about it. For 99,99% of the population this is not the case.
do you know the amount of people who find themselves in this situation? are you sure they re only representing 0,01 % of the western population?
Please.
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Post by: JasonH on May 18, 2010, 02:09:41 PM
Well it's a good thing uberman is in charge of absolutely nothing so we can all continue to enjoy our beloved pr0n.

 ;D
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: lovemonkey on May 18, 2010, 02:18:23 PM
do you know the amount of people who find themselves in this situation? are you sure they re only representing 0,01 % of the western population?
Please.

Well in that case I'm pretty sure your definition of addiction is way different from ours, at least when it comes to sexuality. I can't remember the last time I showed up late to work because I simply had to rub one off ::)
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on May 18, 2010, 02:19:24 PM
I've deliberately been watching a minimum of internet porn over the last couple of months. It has helped me think less about sex, which was getting too much. I thought so much about sex that it took my attention from more important things.

I think watching too much internet porn is like watching a cooking show on TV even if you are not hungry... it will make you crave what you see.

I don't judge what other people do, but I am more balanced in my thinking now that I've cut down on porn.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Parker on May 18, 2010, 02:28:52 PM
Actually, what all of you have said is correct. Pretty much goes down like this, use don't abuse it. But, our society is about extremes, not about moderation, so most abuse it. I gotta find me F$$k partner...
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: johnnynoname on May 18, 2010, 02:32:17 PM
no such thing as sex addiction....just a lot of human nature, and knowing what you want going around...

bench

I agree with this 1000%

fact in this matter is that their is no such thing as "sex addiction"

humans are animals
animals are meant to reproduce
sex is the only way to reproduce

we think that our "jobs" are to direct traffic or do taxes or whatever

however, our REAL job is to have sex and reproduce



therefore, "sex addiction" is just psycho-babble
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Palpatine Q on May 18, 2010, 03:07:25 PM
Yes and No...JNN.

Cavemen fucked......but they didnt snort coke all night and jerk off to other cavemen fucking on the net...Ha ha
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: benchmstr on May 18, 2010, 03:13:24 PM
Yes and No...JNN.

Cavemen fucked......but they didnt snort coke all night and jerk off to other cavemen fucking on the net...Ha ha
no, they chewed on coca leaves and waited for the technology to happen ;D

bench
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Parker on May 18, 2010, 03:14:22 PM
Yes and No...JNN.

Cavemen fucked......but they didnt snort coke all night and jerk off to other cavemen fucking on the net...Ha ha
No, one that's gay and two it should be "cavemen and cavewomen fucking on the cave wall"

Actually there are drawings of cavemen looking or appearing to look ready to violate a " wild ass", and I'm talking about the Equine ones..

 
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Palpatine Q on May 18, 2010, 04:09:47 PM
No, one that's gay and two it should be "cavemen and cavewomen fucking on the cave wall"

Actually there are drawings of cavemen looking or appearing to look ready to violate a " wild ass", and I'm talking about the Equine ones..

 


HaHaHa...... ;D

i know, i should have wrote "cavepeople"
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Parker on May 18, 2010, 04:15:21 PM

HaHaHa...... ;D

i know, i should have wrote "cavepeople"
There is a erotic comicbook series called Cavebang, look it up. Basically it has modernday people thinking about what cavepeople would do. So,for example you have like a modern day woman imagining a bunch of cavemen doing a gangbang on her.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: James Blunt on May 18, 2010, 04:18:49 PM
I find being worried about other peoples masturbation habits is kind of strange. People beat off all the damn time. It's more normal to beat off than to not beat off.

If you don't get the urge it's because your test levels are low.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: bigmikecox on May 18, 2010, 04:19:44 PM
www.mikeinbrazil.com

SKEET SKEET
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: johnnynoname on May 18, 2010, 04:20:50 PM
btw, on the topic of Internet porn.....

..."exploited black teens" is, seriously, my new favorite site

do a search of them on tubegalore
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Parker on May 18, 2010, 04:24:06 PM
btw, on the topic of Internet porn.....

..."exploited black teens" is, seriously, my new favorite site

do a search of them on tubegalore
milfhunter or milf finder, I saw some black/hispanic milf on spankwire, she took two guys like a champ. But what was funny was when one of the guys spit on her cooter, and she says, with hand on her mouth in disbelief, "That was sooo nasty...I was so in the mood"
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: johnnynoname on May 18, 2010, 04:27:05 PM
milf hunter is too "pro" these days

...plus that dude with the moustache is a fucking asshole
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: bigmikecox on May 18, 2010, 04:30:44 PM
I like the mature/milf shit too.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Parker on May 18, 2010, 04:40:33 PM
milf hunter is too "pro" these days

...plus that dude with the moustache is a fucking asshole
Whitezilla is funny, then there is the Asian man on American (white women), it's strictly Japanese...
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on May 18, 2010, 05:17:37 PM
I find being worried about other peoples masturbation habits is kind of strange. People beat off all the damn time. It's more normal to beat off than to not beat off.

If you don't get the urge it's because your test levels are low.

Just another group of people who want to control other people. Lets do the opposite then.  :D
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: garebear on May 18, 2010, 05:28:20 PM
btw, on the topic of Internet porn.....

..."exploited black teens" is, seriously, my new favorite site

do a search of them on tubegalore
Hey, thanks for the new porn link.

I knew this thread would be of some use.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: ThaRealist on May 18, 2010, 06:05:52 PM
If I don't subdue my sexual appitite with 2 rounds of internet porn a day, I am a afraid I would be raping women in public...
Title: Re: just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 18, 2010, 07:17:05 PM
I agree with this 1000%

fact in this matter is that their is no such thing as "sex addiction"

humans are animals
animals are meant to reproduce
sex is the only way to reproduce


we think that our "jobs" are to direct traffic or do taxes or whatever

however, our REAL job is to have sex and reproduce



therefore, "sex addiction" is just psycho-babble

there are lots of animals, especially bonobos, orang outans, chimpanzees , gorillas who have sex without reproducing; they do cunilingus, fellatios, group sex , incestual sex etc, sex is not only geared toward reproduction, it has an anxiolitic -it s a powerful stress releaser and act the same way in the brain than drugs/alcohol etc- and social purpose too.
Scientists found out animals from various species do not always have sex just for reproduction.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: big14 on May 18, 2010, 07:53:15 PM
A lot of you will need to consult for sex addiction in the future, cause years of internet porn will slowly destroy the quality of your behaviors , relationships  towards and with others and especially young girls -eventual daughters- and your wives / girlfriends.

I came to the conclusion that almost every single individual on this board is a full blown or a future addict. You re sick, but you dont know it, as it is a new, recent phenomenon linked to the emergence of the internet. You also excuse yourself and each others in order to bask in your bad habits and not change em.
"hey nobody has proven it's bad, so it must be good!"  ::)

 Just because one of the main problem with sex addiction , internet porn, is that it ultimately leads to insatisfaction towards what you have and adulterous behaviors should make you think twice about it.

Look for "sexual dependancy" "hypersexuality" "porn addiction" on google and you ll find out easily what's wrong with your daily habits and how it will affect your life in the long term.


Prevention is better than cure...
spot on.
Getbiggers complaining pussy smell!!  like they never had a real girl.
Internet porn is pretty odorless in comparison, can be a shock with the real thing.
Someone posting pics of some girls they had sex with and
everybody are impressed,that is crazy, sort of like a nerd party.
This should be a normal thing to have at least 20girls (not 1nighters but 30nighters each)
Here it is not normal if you do that here you are a "stud" lol
Most of getbiggers bodies are so used to masturbation in front
of the PC that doing it with a girl is almost awkward for them.
Sorry guys there is no hope for recovery.
But internet porn will always be there so you will be ok.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: HTexan on May 18, 2010, 08:02:52 PM
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Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: marty31672 on May 18, 2010, 08:08:34 PM
there is a such thing as sex addiction and it can ruin marriages and ruin lives
sex was always meant to be shared between one man and one woman after a formal marriage
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on May 18, 2010, 08:13:06 PM
spot on.
Getbiggers complaining pussy smell!!  like they never had a real girl.
Internet porn is pretty odorless in comparison, can be a shock with the real thing.
Someone posting pics of some girls they had sex with and
everybody are impressed,that is crazy, sort of like a nerd party.
This should be a normal thing to have at least 20girls (not 1nighters but 30nighters each)
Here it is not normal if you do that here you are a "stud" lol
Most of getbiggers bodies are so used to masturbation in front
of the PC that doing it with a girl is almost awkward for them.
Sorry guys there is no hope for recovery.
But internet porn will always be there so you will be ok.


Haha, that's me to a t.  :-[ But I've always been...hmmm...like this. I actually was really old when I finally watched real porn the first time. I was 18. Didn't change me one bit.  ;D
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: HTexan on May 18, 2010, 08:20:29 PM
Haha, that's me to a t.  :-[ But I've always been...hmmm...like this. I actually was really old when I finally watched real porn the first time. I was 18. Didn't change me one bit.  ;D
I first "found" internet porn at age 12. At that age it is awesome. Porn never will ever compare to a real chick. So i think most people outgrow porn. I watch some every now and then, but I prefer going babe hunting.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: big14 on May 18, 2010, 08:21:49 PM
Haha, that's me to a t.  :-[ But I've always been...hmmm...like this. I actually was really old when I finally watched real porn the first time. I was 18. Didn't change me one bit.  ;D
I am sorry klaus i hope i wasnt to harsh.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: pellius on May 18, 2010, 09:48:25 PM
It is in the social and cultural sphere where uberman really shines. Porn has now become not only mainstream but encouraged in every facet of or society. When you see 12 year old girls wearing T-shirts that say "Porn Star" you know something is not right. And when certain behaviors become more casual, accepted and encouraged you get more of it. I was at my cousin's house a few weeks ago and his 10 and 13 year old daughters were watching some sit com where they were making references to anal sex. The parents seemed oblivious. At least the ten year old, noting my disgust, tried to comfort me by saying, "I don't really know what they are talking about." After reading on her MySpace account some thug describing the best way to perform oral sex I had my doubts. Her parents, though good people, are clueless as to what is out there. Nowadays oral sex is what? third base now? It use to be considered more intimate than sex but now it's not even considered sex any more.

But I'm sure the young studs see this as a good thing. But you wonder why a girls by the time they are in their twenties are already jaded and desensitized. Men as well but in a different sense.

 To think that the premature sexualization of pre-teens and the ready access of even the most deviant forms of sexual behavior has not had a profound and adverse effect on our culture and relationships is to closed your eyes to reality. Read that recent news story about a 7th and 8th grader having sex in class while there was a movie playing and the room was dark?

 I am very pessimistic as to the future of mankind. Nothing last forever.
   
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on May 18, 2010, 10:03:30 PM
It is in the social and cultural sphere where uberman really shines. Porn has now become not only mainstream but encouraged in every facet of or society. When you see 12 year old girls wearing T-shirts that say "Porn Star" you know something is not right. And when certain behaviors become more casual, accepted and encouraged you get more of it. I was at my cousin's house a few weeks ago and his 10 and 13 year old daughters were watching some sit com where they were making references to anal sex. The parents seemed oblivious. At least the ten year old, noting my disgust, tried to comfort me by saying, "I don't really know what they are talking about." After reading on her MySpace account some thug describing the best way to perform oral sex I had my doubts. Her parents, though good people, are clueless as to what is out there. Nowadays oral sex is what? third base now? It use to be considered more intimate than sex but now it's not even considered sex any more.

But I'm sure the young studs see this as a good thing. But you wonder why a girls by the time they are in their twenties are already jaded and desensitized. Men as well but in a different sense.

 To think that the premature sexualization of pre-teens and the ready access of even the most deviant forms of sexual behavior has not had a profound and adverse effect on our culture and relationships is to closed your eyes to reality. Read that recent news story about a 7th and 8th grader having sex in class while there was a movie playing and the room was dark?

 I am very pessimistic as to the future of mankind. Nothing last forever.
   

i think having all sexuality out in the open is much better and healthier than trying to keep 'anything sex' hidden in the shadows and viewed with contempt as something only sick, blasphemous deviants do. ::)

its much better and healthier for a 13 year old to see and hear about sexuality and let them know it is a normal, natural, and in fact incredibly awesome part of life than to try to shelter them until they are 20 years old and have them feel shame and cry when they get a hard on and jerk off because they think god will hate them for it haha.

i never saw this supposed correlation between sexual openness and the 'degradation of humanity'  ::)
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: James Blunt on May 18, 2010, 10:10:26 PM
I imagine if people quit masturbating the number of rapes would skyrocket.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: pellius on May 18, 2010, 10:26:22 PM
i think having all sexuality out in the open is much better and healthier than trying to keep 'anything sex' hidden in the shadows and viewed with contempt as something only sick, blasphemous deviants do. ::)

its much better and healthier for a 13 year old to see and hear about sexuality and let them know it is a normal, natural, and in fact incredibly awesome part of life than to try to shelter them until they are 20 years old and have them feel shame and cry when they get a hard on and jerk off because they think god will hate them for it haha.

i never saw this supposed correlation between sexual openness and the 'degradation of humanity'  ::)

I hear that all the time. But these are the same people who think kids should be shelter from violence. What would bother you more, if your 12 year old got into a fight or had intercourse?

There is something about age appropriate behavior. Private behavior. Being discrete about certain practices. Would you want your 12 year old daughter sleeping over a friends house if you knew the parents and children walked around nude? Would you have sex with your wife on the couch with your 15 year old boy right there? Would you start jacking off to porn as your daughter was sitting there doing her home work?  

Is it really necessary and good to put every form of behavior out in the open for the world to see? The radical "openess" vis-a-vis sexual behavior makes it common place and nothing special. It trivializes it. And of course the mainstreaming of porn has led to the degradation of our culture. The sexual practices now considered common I would never have imagined if I hadn't seen it. Bukake, pissing, DP. And the most popular forms of porn (I have a friend who works as a camera man on shoots and porn star "Mr. Marcus" use to train at my gym when I was living in So. Cal) involves degrading women. Pulling hair, spitting in their face, forced sex, gang bangs, doing girls made to look like little kids....

I don't know how old you are friend, but anyone that is over forty has lived long enough to be able to compare the kids today to how they were when they were in their teens and its like night and day. Even the idea of a kid taking pics of themselves nude let alone showing it to their friends never even entered one's mind in my day.

Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: pellius on May 18, 2010, 10:29:13 PM
btw, on the topic of Internet porn.....

..."exploited black teens" is, seriously, my new favorite site

do a search of them on tubegalore

Link? (Sorry uber but a man has needs. But I promise only on Friday nights and maybe Wednesday to help get me through the week. But absolutely, positively not on Sundays.)
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: pellius on May 18, 2010, 10:41:05 PM
I was just reminded that you don't have to go back in time to see the difference between women now and then. Just compare the women in countries that haven't been as exposed to and jaded by the sexual revolution that cursed this country in the late sixties early seventies. Especially women from third world countries like the Philippines, South America, even Japan and Korea. You will see how much more feminine they are. It's like they are more comfortable in the fact that they are women and being very different from men. In comparison they make American women look lewd and crass. They seem to inherently know the difference between being sexy and just being slutty. And they don't have that chip on the shoulder that so many American women have. Always looking to see if you "slip up" and show the real chauvinist that they know all men really are.

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Post by: Palpatine Q on May 18, 2010, 10:48:20 PM
Agreed Pellius....very astute obsevations...you can add drugs as an example as well. They exist and people do them, so it's okay for your 12 year old to shoot heroin, because it's "out there" ??
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: io856 on May 18, 2010, 11:43:57 PM
only watch porn every month or two.. to ease the tension...
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: muscularny on May 18, 2010, 11:47:45 PM
first off calm down there, you sound like a real junkie or like one of those recovering alcoholics that walk around preaching on how they found life and god and how everyone should meditate do yoga and become spiritual.

Normal sane men understand what porn is and what real life is, if you can't grasp it then stop watching movies altogether or you will think that superman is real and you might start jumping off buildings, in addition avoid the crazy video games or you will start driving 600mph.

Sane people understand that the girl in the porno isn’t really a housewife, and that the milfhunter isn’t real, and that regular non porn chics are not ok with ass to mouth all day and night.

Stop blaming porn on your problems; imagine a world with no porn, more stressed people walking around, etc. People can play out their fantasies by watching without going out and doing it, less STD's etc.

Porn is good for you but again if you are a stupid weak minded person, lock yourself in a room and don’t come out, everything out there might influence your weak brain to do crazy stuff.

Thanks for telling everyone here you are a weak minded idiot.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: HTexan on May 18, 2010, 11:55:56 PM
So iyo, webcam sex with strangers is healthily?
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Tombo on May 19, 2010, 12:12:39 AM
what a load of poop
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: #1 Klaus fan on May 19, 2010, 01:58:59 AM
I hear that all the time. But these are the same people who think kids should be shelter from violence. What would bother you more, if your 12 year old got into a fight or had intercourse?

There is something about age appropriate behavior. Private behavior. Being discrete about certain practices. Would you want your 12 year old daughter sleeping over a friends house if you knew the parents and children walked around nude? Would you have sex with your wife on the couch with your 15 year old boy right there? Would you start jacking off to porn as your daughter was sitting there doing her home work?  

Is it really necessary and good to put every form of behavior out in the open for the world to see? The radical "openess" vis-a-vis sexual behavior makes it common place and nothing special. It trivializes it. And of course the mainstreaming of porn has led to the degradation of our culture. The sexual practices now considered common I would never have imagined if I hadn't seen it. Bukake, pissing, DP. And the most popular forms of porn (I have a friend who works as a camera man on shoots and porn star "Mr. Marcus" use to train at my gym when I was living in So. Cal) involves degrading women. Pulling hair, spitting in their face, forced sex, gang bangs, doing girls made to look like little kids....

I don't know how old you are friend, but anyone that is over forty has lived long enough to be able to compare the kids today to how they were when they were in their teens and its like night and day. Even the idea of a kid taking pics of themselves nude let alone showing it to their friends never even entered one's mind in my day.

The problem arises if the only sexual activity kids encounter is porn. They should be educated and taught about sexuality even before they are let to use the internet on their own. So the answer is definately not to keep it all hid.
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Post by: Natural Man on May 19, 2010, 07:14:46 AM
first off calm down there, you sound like a real junkie or like one of those recovering alcoholics that walk around preaching on how they found life and god and how everyone should meditate do yoga and become spiritual.

Normal sane men understand what porn is and what real life is, if you can't grasp it then stop watching movies altogether or you will think that superman is real and you might start jumping off buildings, in addition avoid the crazy video games or you will start driving 600mph.

Sane people understand that the girl in the porno isn’t really a housewife, and that the milfhunter isn’t real, and that regular non porn chics are not ok with ass to mouth all day and night.

Stop blaming porn on your problems; imagine a world with no porn, more stressed people walking around, etc. People can play out their fantasies by watching without going out and doing it, less STD's etc.

Porn is good for you but again if you are a stupid weak minded person, lock yourself in a room and don’t come out, everything out there might influence your weak brain to do crazy stuff.

Thanks for telling everyone here you are a weak minded idiot.

this is where you re wrong. The numerous examples of charlie sheen, tiger woods, kobe bryant and tons of other actors, politics and sportsmen who are multi millionaire - do they live like 16 y/o "nerds" to you ?  ??? - and fell for porn addiction are staggering. Some scientists to day start going even further by saying there's a link between the explosion of divorces and the emergence of internet porn and a growing number of occidental males getting addicted to it in the last decade.

Fact is it can happen to anyone, wether you re a lonely virgin teen, a politician, a rich actor or a nba or nfl player, an entrepreneur or a plumber, every male can fall in the trap of porn addiction.
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Post by: lovemonkey on May 19, 2010, 07:20:34 AM
this is where you re wrong. The numerous examples of charlie sheen, tiger woods, kobe bryant and tons of other actors, politics and sportsmen who are multi millionaire - do they live like 16 y/o "nerds" to you ?  ??? - and fell for porn addiction is staggering. Some scientists to day start going even further by saying there's a link between the explosion of divorces and the emergence of internet porn and a growing number of occidental males getting addicted to it this last decade.

Fact is it can happen to anyone, wether you re a lonely virgin teen, a politician, a rich actor or a nba or nfl player, every male can fall in the trap of porn addiction.

You seem to have a problem with reading too many books about human psychology and then spreading your newly acquired knowledge on internet message boards. This is occupying too much of your time and is surely a destructive element in your personality. Think of all the things you could have achieved if you weren't obsessed with this behavior.

You my friend, have a douchebag addiction.
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Post by: Natural Man on May 19, 2010, 07:21:12 AM
So you're addicted to porn? Pretty pathetic uberman.
do i really need to list the number of posts from you containing porn pictures or links to pornsites -at the time you were trying to justify your heterosexuality after being exposed as a pole smoker- , do i really need to point out at your avatar?

god you re stupid. Stay away from adult's conversations.
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Natural Man on May 19, 2010, 07:24:28 AM
You seem to have a problem with reading too many books about human psychology and then spreading your newly acquired knowledge on internet message boards. This is occupying too much of your time and is surely a destructive element in your personality. Think of all the things you could have achieved if you weren't obsessed with this behavior.

You my friend, have a douchebag addiction.
Look, this kind of discussions are interesting to some, and uninteresting to others, just dont read it, who forces you to read it? What's so hard to understand; you cant deal with some serious questions, just gtfo , im sure there are pics of gay men somewhere on the board to please you.
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Post by: lovemonkey on May 19, 2010, 07:33:40 AM
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Post by: lovemonkey on May 19, 2010, 07:35:02 AM
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Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: lovemonkey on May 19, 2010, 07:44:07 AM
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Post by: ShipSekki on May 19, 2010, 07:49:16 AM
 I do notice that when I look at lots and lots of porn I kind of get desensitized to it.

 If I stop looking at porn for a while then even seeing a picture of a woman in a bra or a bikini is enough to get my heart racing. And when I see hot women on the street it has a much bigger impact on me. In general I just feel like hot women have a bigger impact on me,

 When I watch tons of porn all the time, I just get desensitized to it all.

 Right now i'm on a "pictures only" phase. Where I only look at pics and not video.
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Post by: lovemonkey on May 19, 2010, 07:52:08 AM
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Post by: big L dawg on May 19, 2010, 08:29:24 AM
OK...this thread just got alot better...
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Post by: Parker on May 19, 2010, 08:47:37 AM
I just watched Cherokee D'Ass get boned by Shorty Mac, very good scene. Xerxes, you should check it out on spankwire. Two freaks of nature, one known for her ass (they took it off your avatar) and the other a short dude known for his extreme girth...
Title: Re: internet porn...just so you know..
Post by: Parker on May 19, 2010, 08:59:02 AM
LOL  ;D, I will when I get home  ;), off to the beach now for a blunt and celebrating a little after 1/3 exams done. Peace
Goood, I will remind you! BTW, I didn't know she was 5'3-4", no wonder her ass is soo big, and she weighs 169 pounds...that is a industrial strength brickhouse!
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Post by: Immortal_Technique on May 19, 2010, 02:40:06 PM
A lot of you will need to consult for sex addiction in the future, cause years of internet porn will slowly destroy the quality of your behaviors , relationships  towards and with others and especially young girls -eventual daughters- and your wives / girlfriends.

I came to the conclusion that almost every single individual on this board is a full blown or a future addict. You re sick, but you dont know it, as it is a new, recent phenomenon linked to the emergence of the internet. You also excuse yourself and each others in order to bask in your bad habits and not change em.
"hey nobody has proven it's bad, so it must be good!"  ::)

 Just because one of the main problem with sex addiction , internet porn, is that it ultimately leads to insatisfaction towards what you have and adulterous behaviors should make you think twice about it.

Look for "sexual dependancy" "hypersexuality" "porn addiction" on google and you ll find out easily what's wrong with your daily habits and how it will affect your life in the long term.


Prevention is better than cure...

I watch plenty of intrawebs porns, but can also subsist entirely on memory wanks if needed so I figure I'll be okay in the future  ;D
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Post by: Natural Man on May 19, 2010, 03:18:13 PM
if some of you missed it -obviously-

it's none of my "invention":

the social cost of pornography

http://www.internetsafety101.org/upload/file/Social%20Costs%20of%20Pornography%20Report.pdf




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THE PECULIAR NATURE OF INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY
MAKES ADDICTION MORE LIKELY

this increasingly visceral experience has lately been further explained
by contemporary advances in neuroscience. One scientist describes it as
follows:

Pornography is more exciting than satisfying because we have
two separate pleasure systems in our brains, one that has to
do with exciting pleasure and one with satisfying pleasure.
The exciting system relates to the ‘appetitive’ pleasure that we
get imaging something we desire, such as sex or a good meal.
Its neurochemistry is largely dopamine-related, and it raises
our tension level.

Thee second pleasure system has to do with the satisfaction,
or consummatory pleasure, that attends actually having
sex or having that meal, a calming, fulfilling pleasure. Its
neurochemistry is based on the release of endorphins, which
are related to opiates and give a peaceful, euphoric bliss.
Pornography, by offering an endless harem of sexual objects,
hyper-activates the appetitive system. Porn viewers develop new
maps in their brains, based on the photos and videos they see.
Because it is a use-it-or-lose-it brain, when we develop a map
area, we long to keep it activated. Just as our muscles become
impatient for exercise if we’ve been sitting all day, so too our
senses hunger to be stimulated. The men at their computers
[addicted to] looking at porn [are] uncannily like the rats in the
cages of the NIH, pressing the bar to get a shot of dopamine
or its equivalent. !ough they [don’t] know it, they [have] been
seduced into pornographic training sessions that [meet] all the
conditions required for plastic change of brain maps.19

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. . . lest pornography get written off as a “women’s problem,”
consider the extensive effects of pornography on the primary
users, men . . . . Countless men have described to me how,
while using pornography, they have lost the ability to relate
to or be close to women. They have trouble being turned on
by “real” women, and their sex lives with their girlfriends or
wives collapse. These are men who seem like regular guys, but
who spend hours each week with porn—usually online. And
many of them admit they have trouble cutting down their
use. They also find themselves seeking out harder and harder
pornography.20
The combination of hyper-realistic imagery, moving pictures, and rapid-fire
bombardment of images appears to mean also that chronic consumers both
become visually desensitized, and find themselves viewing depictions they
themselves would once have regarded as taboo or off-limits.
This de-sensitization brought on by the barrage of imagery is familiar among
therapists. One phenomenon described numerous times at the consultation
was the way in which images that would initially disgust the viewer—including
unwanted pop-ups such as child pornography or violent pornographic images
encountered during the search for non-violent images—lose their ability to
shock and disgust over time.

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Most notably, and most alarmingly, numerous users have described both to
reporters and to clinicians the apparent slippery slope from using pornography
featuring adults to using child pornography
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Post by: clued-up on May 19, 2010, 03:27:57 PM
You get obsessed about the sexual part of the relationship and tend to lose any interest in the other parts of it that are devaluated in your eyes even if they keep being important for your partner -who stays balanced in her view of the relationship- all that matters for you is to  satisfy your impulse

You’re a woman, I’m convinced. uberman = female.
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Post by: garebear on May 21, 2010, 05:35:26 AM
this is where you re wrong. The numerous examples of charlie sheen, tiger woods, kobe bryant and tons of other actors, politics and sportsmen who are multi millionaire - do they live like 16 y/o "nerds" to you ?  ??? - and fell for porn addiction are staggering. Some scientists to day start going even further by saying there's a link between the explosion of divorces and the emergence of internet porn and a growing number of occidental males getting addicted to it in the last decade.

Fact is it can happen to anyone, wether you re a lonely virgin teen, a politician, a rich actor or a nba or nfl player, an entrepreneur or a plumber, every male can fall in the trap of porn addiction.

Maybe it's our water addiction that does us in.
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Post by: Natural Man on June 22, 2010, 07:00:18 PM
 :(
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Post by: jr on June 23, 2010, 04:24:21 AM
I do notice that when I look at lots and lots of porn I kind of get desensitized to it.

 If I stop looking at porn for a while then even seeing a picture of a woman in a bra or a bikini is enough to get my heart racing. And when I see hot women on the street it has a much bigger impact on me. In general I just feel like hot women have a bigger impact on me,

 When I watch tons of porn all the time, I just get desensitized to it all.

 Right now i'm on a "pictures only" phase. Where I only look at pics and not video.

This is true. I worked out what uberman is talking about regarding porn a long time ago, using both logic/common sense and breaking down what regular pornography usage is all about in terms of human physiology. I also had a psychedelioc experience which further opened my mind to what excessive porn use does at the subconsious level.

These days I keep porn usage to about maybe one day a week or less. It true though about the sex drive increase with less porn.
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Post by: Thin Lizzy on June 23, 2010, 05:20:39 AM
You’re a woman, I’m convinced. uberman = female.

Yes, it sounds like someone who worked in porn, got too old, then, became an anti-porn crusader, much like the recovered junkie who goes on to become a drug addiction counselor.
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Post by: io856 on June 23, 2010, 05:23:52 AM
uberman bringing up pornography on the g&o = troll
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Post by: spinnis on June 23, 2010, 05:31:31 AM
How many women have you had sexual relationships with?

Take a WILD guess! hhahahaha

Im only gonna bother with the first page of "uber"man's dumbass thoughts lol
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Post by: doison on June 23, 2010, 06:09:48 AM
An addiction is something you suffer from.  I enjoy every minute of my internet porn obsession. 
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Post by: _bruce_ on June 23, 2010, 06:18:57 AM
Doing it, better than watch. Tough not always.
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Post by: Croatch on June 23, 2010, 10:52:14 AM
If you don't beat off to internet porn, you've missed the best thing this generation has created.
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Post by: tendonitis on June 23, 2010, 10:55:29 AM
if internet porn was bad for you I would have been dead a long time ago
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Post by: big L dawg on June 23, 2010, 10:59:59 AM
Take a WILD guess! hhahahaha

Im only gonna bother with the first page of "uber"man's dumbass thoughts lol

the fact that I asked in a few different threads in which he created and preached about said topic but has refused to respond speaks volumes...
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Post by: Nails on June 23, 2010, 11:10:33 AM
Internet porn is the reason i dont go around punching douche bags in the face and slapping stupid whinny bitches around.. A TUG A DAY KEEPS THE COPS AWAY
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Post by: bodybuilder1234 on June 23, 2010, 11:29:33 AM
I dont think anyone feels comfortable with 12-14 year old kids watching some chick get screwed by a 10 inch cock
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Post by: gh15 on June 23, 2010, 12:04:35 PM
I myself am part of the "internet generation" thingy and have been prone to fall for internet porn addiction. Just thought i'd share my thoughts about this as it effectively impacted badly on my everyday life. Feel free to believe there are no side effects to hours and hours of weekly porn consumption over years, decades.
its notinternet generation,,its generation NOTHINGNESS,,it has a name and its the one you belong to wehter you like it or not,,no one care about no one now days,,everyone care about their own body and look and  nothing else,,luckily americano parents throw their kids out at 18 and thus those kids still need to find work otherwise they are homeless cuz pasrents rarely help in america,,mainly because ther parents have no money either cuz they been divorced 10 times,,but in many cases its just being selfish which is whats going on now days,,

the internet porn is very good because it demonstrate what gh15 just said in a whole diff way yet still give you the abiklity  to jack off to whores,,diff whors all colors all kinds,,while keeping youer cock clean and more safe and also help you learn how to hold your performance and make it lasting,,its teaches you how to treat americano girl in bed  and how they like it ,,it is actually one of the best things generation nothingness has to offer ,,its a whole 101 sex lesson on internet because now days rare are the girls who makle love,,for example through those internet porn you can actually seethat a pussy needs  to be eaten in specific way for the girl to orgasm well and its called the shape 8 way,,when yuo move your tongue and create the number 8 over the clit horizontally ,,this is something that generation nothingness is very very good at ,,cold emotionless ,,unattouched ,,no strings sex

gh15 approved
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Post by: Mr Nobody on June 23, 2010, 01:16:54 PM
There is a comfort with staying with porn.
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Post by: #1 Klaus fan on June 23, 2010, 03:12:45 PM
Internet porn is the reason i dont go around punching douche bags in the face and slapping stupid whinny bitches around.. A TUG A DAY KEEPS THE COPS AWAY

Are you serious. Once a day still keeps me horny most of the day.
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Post by: Nails on June 23, 2010, 03:24:07 PM
Are you serious. Once a day still keeps me horny most of the day.

I was actually being modest.. its more like 3 or 4 a day not that im in my 30's