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Title: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 01, 2010, 04:50:33 PM
I was at the Mall yesterday, with a a former significant other. I was helping her pick out glasses. Well, as we were walking, it was side by side, talking, laughing, etc. As she was being helped, I sat down and  noticed (it was about an hour) probably about 30 couples, various races, ages, etc, go by.  And my question is this:

What do you percieve when the woman is walking ahead of the man, even when talking to him?
What do you percieve when the man is walking in ahead of woman?

And by these observations, can one gauge the intimacy level or the closeness and strength of the relationship? Or who is dominant one?

Your thoughts?
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: 240 is Back on July 01, 2010, 04:54:52 PM
could just be Type A and type B people together.  Anyone who is walking ahead is usually there for the purpose... the other is just putting up with the BS
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: big L dawg on July 01, 2010, 05:10:47 PM
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Post by: SF1900 on July 01, 2010, 05:47:01 PM
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar- Sigmund Freud
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Shockwave on July 01, 2010, 06:12:20 PM
Im all for anazlying people but man you are just trying to hard.
You can learn a lot more from watching them interact, and theyre body language.
Youre just going nuts trying to analze the way they walk.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Ursus on July 01, 2010, 06:13:15 PM
Maybe they are in a rush or something. I doubt it means much tbh
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Post by: Earl1972 on July 01, 2010, 07:49:40 PM
the person walking ahead doesn't want to be seen with the other person ;)

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Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on July 01, 2010, 09:02:00 PM
the one walking ahead is searching desperately for a ceramic bowl in which to spray a buttfull of brown straw-filled semi-liquid feces
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: phreak on July 02, 2010, 12:21:17 AM
I was at the Mall yesterday, with a a former significant other. I was helping her pick out glasses. Well, as we were walking, it was side by side, talking, laughing, etc. As she was being helped, I sat down and  noticed (it was about an hour) probably about 30 couples, various races, ages, etc, go by.  And my question is this:

What do you percieve when the woman is walking ahead of the man, even when talking to him?
What do you percieve when the man is walking in ahead of woman?

And by these observations, can one gauge the intimacy level or the closeness and strength of the relationship? Or who is dominant one?

Your thoughts?
One thing I've noticed (in myself as well as others): men who walk/stand behind their woman usually look more at other women. being behind your woman's field of vision gives the freedom to do that.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: clued-up on July 02, 2010, 01:01:40 AM
I was at the Mall yesterday,  <-- :-\ with a a former significant other.  <-- :-\

I was helping her pick out glasses. As she was being helped, I sat down and  noticed (it was about an hour) <----- WTF?

Your thoughts?

You’re a severely confused *man*. Truly lost.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Stark on July 02, 2010, 01:31:04 AM
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar- Sigmund Freud


Well sometimes it's a big, brown dick with a white collar business criminal asshole sucking on the wet end of it.

George Carlin
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 01:34:26 AM
You’re a severely confused *man*. Truly lost.
Im friends with her. And she respects my opinion.  Don't know about you and your former significant others, but I'm friends with all of mine---cause I'm cool like that... ;D

not "trying too hard", I notice their interactions with one another. But you know in some cultures like some Indian (dot), the woman walks behind the man, means he is the Dom one and she is the sub one.

It was midday and nobody was rushing,

and the few times I was walking ahead, I was checking out other women....the few times I was ahead.
Now, I had noticed the couples because, I was waiting for her to do what she had to do with the person helping her. So I sat and observed.



Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Thin Lizzy on July 02, 2010, 01:46:23 AM
Im friends with her.

Outed ;)
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 01:56:44 AM
Outed ;)
Yeah, damn...I gotta piss her off, somehow...
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Post by: Tapeworm on July 02, 2010, 01:58:35 AM
If the guy is trailing, it's because he's been mall shopping for over 20 minutes and has reached his mall saturation point.  His eyes are glazed over and he has no spark of life remaining.  If he's ahead, it's because the next destination is the parking lot and freedom.  I hate the mall.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 02:11:25 AM
If the guy is trailing, it's because he's been mall shopping for over 20 minutes and has reached his mall saturation point.  His eyes are glazed over and he has no spark of life remaining.  If he's ahead, it's because the next destination is the parking lot and freedom.  I hate the mall.
I hate the mall too, sometimes. But, other times, I view the mall like a male lion does when he is prowling on the Serengeti plains..."is it slim pickings or full of prey?", and the food court is like a "watering hole" of sorts. Women have their guard down, when on the phone-walking, buying things (confused and asking for your opinion), and at the food court (she doesn't notice the croc....)

But, being a former Mall rat, Gap and Footlocker employee, when I go to Mall, I get what I want, and bounce...
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Tapeworm on July 02, 2010, 02:18:00 AM
I hate the mall too, sometimes. But, other times, I view the mall like a male lion does when he is prowling on the Serengeti plains..."is it slim pickings or full of prey?", and the food court is like a "watering hole" of sorts. Women have their guard down, when on the phone-walking, buying things (confused and asking for your opinion), and at the food court (she doesn't notice the croc....)

But, being a former Mall rat, Gap and Footlocker employee, when I go to Mall, I get what I want, and bounce...

Ya, I'm a surgical strike shopper.  My ex was a meanderer.  Tension.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 03:21:50 AM
Ya, I'm a surgical strike shopper.  My ex was a meanderer.  Tension.
Mall opens up at 10? Roll in get what you want, when you want, and the employees tend to be slightly nicer---their day just began.
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Post by: RAZA-BLADE on July 02, 2010, 05:51:41 AM
I hate the mall too, sometimes. But, other times, I view the mall like a male lion does when he is prowling on the Serengeti plains..."is it slim pickings or full of prey?", and the food court is like a "watering hole" of sorts. Women have their guard down, when on the phone-walking, buying things (confused and asking for your opinion), and at the food court (she doesn't notice the croc....)

But, being a former Mall rat, Gap and Footlocker employee, when I go to Mall, I get what I want, and bounce...

 :o OUTED!!!!!
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Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 06:18:05 AM
I have a good laugh watching these loser husbands dragging six bags of shopping while their wives walk a good 10 paces infront of them spending all their money and running up their credit cards. No one has balls and or respect anymore.
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Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 08:28:02 AM
:o OUTED!!!!!
Back in my college days, I worked there and got some good trim from there. This was before the twink era. And Footlocker as well---you have to bring 5 things to the customer, so you learn how to hook up a tennis outfit for a chick---and get the digits as well, if you do a good job. One dude who looked like Ginuwine, got a girl's number right in front of her man--(in case she needed to return items, and left a smiley face)

hey, at least you know I know how to dress and I'm not ugly---they don't hire those people at the gap.
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Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 08:47:08 AM
my 2 cents;

the person walking in front, is there for a reason..
the person walking in back, has been forced or just doesn't really want to be there in the first place
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 08:50:08 AM
my 2 cents;

the person walking in front, is there for a reason..
the person walking in back, has been forced or just doesn't really want to be there in the first place
Good call, from experience?
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 08:52:06 AM
Good call, from experience?

yes, I'm usually the person in the back following.. I fucking hate shopping.  ;D
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Wiggs on July 02, 2010, 10:21:30 AM
Why the fuck you hangin' out with yesterday's news?  That's what I wanna know....Funk dat.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 11:20:52 AM
Why the fuck you hangin' out with yesterday's news?  That's what I wanna know....Funk dat.
Well I'm still friends with her, and she respects my opinion on things. She wanted a man's and friend's opinion on what she was picking out...
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 11:21:55 AM
Well I'm still friends with her, and she respects my opinion on things. She wanted a man's and friend's opinion on what she was picking out...

Did she at least give you a little show in the dressing room?
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 11:25:25 AM
Did she at least give you a little show in the dressing room?
She was picking out glasses...
So, no show---
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Man of Steel on July 02, 2010, 12:39:34 PM
I was at the Mall yesterday, with a a former significant other. I was helping her pick out glasses. Well, as we were walking, it was side by side, talking, laughing, etc. As she was being helped, I sat down and  noticed (it was about an hour) probably about 30 couples, various races, ages, etc, go by.  And my question is this:

What do you percieve when the woman is walking ahead of the man, even when talking to him?
What do you percieve when the man is walking in ahead of woman?

And by these observations, can one gauge the intimacy level or the closeness and strength of the relationship? Or who is dominant one?

Your thoughts?

Problem #1:  why were you at a mall?
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 12:45:33 PM
Well I'm still friends with her, and she respects my opinion on things. She wanted a man's and friend's opinion on what she was picking out...
Men and women are not meant to be "friends". If you ain't tapping that move on to the millions of other lovely selections to choose from.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Man of Steel on July 02, 2010, 12:47:00 PM
Men and women are not meant to be "friends". If you ain't tapping that move on to the millions of other lovely selections to choose from.

This is true.  Now a women can be a friend to a man, but a man cannot be a friend to a woman unless sex is involved and in that case a relationship is happening.
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Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 12:49:03 PM
This is true.  Now a women can be a friend to a man, but a man cannot be a friend to a woman unless sex is involved and in that case a relationship is happening.
If she isn't into you sexually, GET RID OF IT ASAP!
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Man of Steel on July 02, 2010, 12:50:31 PM
If she isn't into you sexually, GET RID OF IT ASAP!

Now, I'm a married man and I'm taking my wife to see the Twilight movie this weekend.  If we weren't having sex with each other I would not be going.
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Post by: Earl1972 on July 02, 2010, 12:53:08 PM
Now, I'm a married man and I'm taking my wife to see the Twilight movie this weekend.  If we weren't having sex with each other I would not be going.

ok "man of steel" haha ::)

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Post by: CalvinH on July 02, 2010, 12:53:35 PM
Guys that are "friends" are pussywhipped and hope by hanging in that they will eventually get layed.
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Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 12:54:59 PM
Guys that are "friends" are pussywhipped and hope by hanging in that they will eventually get layed.
Exactly and eventually they mutate into a bitch and they start gabbing like one.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Man of Steel on July 02, 2010, 12:55:45 PM
ok "man of steel" haha ::)

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Earl, you no good and well if you and your husband weren't having sex you wouldn't take him to Twilight either.
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Post by: CalvinH on July 02, 2010, 12:59:24 PM
Exactly and eventually they mutate into a bitch and they start gabbing like one.


I use to date a girl that never would never argue with me....when she got pissed at me she just wouldn't talk to me for a few days/week.imagine not having to deal with a pissed chick who wanted to fight and being left alone!




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Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 01:03:24 PM
I never kept a chick if I didn't get some kind of action. What's the point? Way too many women out there to cling on to one chick especially if your single and you have your game on.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 01:09:14 PM
Men and women are not meant to be "friends". If you ain't tapping that move on to the millions of other lovely selections to choose from.
There is "friends", where you are in the friend zone, and you are trying to get into the endzone and then there is friends after the breakup---we broke up due to her wanting buy everything and having no money nor discipline, financially or physically---every see a woman with GGs trying to run?
Mutual respect, but I ain't going down that road again...  
We ain't together, and we don't talk everyday, when I say "friends", I'm talking somebody you might see every other month, or 3 months.

One can be friends with exes, there is no rule that says you can't, especially if you have kids involved. Not all relationships end in the "I hate you" category. Unfortunately, most people today get into relationships where they don't know the person nor themselves...most people are too immature to actually be in relationships. Especially women.
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Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 01:11:00 PM
There is "friends", where you are in the friend zone, and you are trying to get into the endzone and then there is friends after the breakup---we broke up due to her wanting buy everything and having no money nor discipline, financially or physically---every see a woman with GGs trying to run?
Mutual respect, but I ain't going down that road again...  
We ain't together, and we don't talk everyday, when I say "friends", I'm talking somebody you might see every other month, or 3 months.

One can be friends with exes , there is no rule that says you can't, especially if you have kids involved. Not all relationships end in the "I hate you" category. Unfortunately, most people today get into relationships where they don't know the person nor themselves...most people are too immature to actually be in relationships. Especially women.
= that a person is hurting and can't move on in life and pick up other women.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 01:47:24 PM
= that a person is hurting and can't move on in life and pick up other women.
Oh we both have moved on,  trust me on that!!! when a girl has no financial discipline, that spells disaster!!! Parker ain't stupid, I'll help you pick out glasses, but that is it. You see, I'm friends, but I ain't enemies, but I ain't with the "gimme's", you feel me on that. Why the hell do think I was looking at other people...

Hell, if you asked me to help you pick out some rims, a tie, Gucci loafers, cufflinks, whatever Man shit, I'd roll with you, and I don't even know you.
Therein lies the type of person I am, as one female co-worker put it, "Helpful Henry" 
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Post by: Shockwave on July 02, 2010, 03:04:44 PM
I can't believe some of the getbig "studs" on here. You guys are so badass you won't even talk to a women let alone grace her with your presence unless she puts out huh? ::)

staying in good graces with ex's or hanging with chick friends your aren't banging is a good thing, it means you have the opportunity to meet all of her friends, opening up countless new pussy possibilities. Honestly some of you people are fucking rediculous. Oh I forgot, you guys are such "studs" that the pussy just shows up naked on your doorstep and leaves quietly and fufilled when you done right?  ::)  
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: clued-up on July 02, 2010, 08:06:04 PM
Now a women can be a friend to a man, but a man cannot be a friend to a woman unless sex is involved

Yes... men want to fuck women - period.

Im friends with her. And she respects my opinion.  Don't know about you and your former significant others, but I'm friends with all of mine---cause I'm cool like that... ;D

Parker is that desperate, sneaky little weasel who remains friends with his ex’s.. all of them apparently - pathetic.

Women are hardly trustworthy as is.. a woman with *male friends* is complete bullshit. A woman who has male friends that have stuck their dick inside of her - is a complete waste of time.

Parker is that male friend your girl has fucked.. and he will be hanging with her any chance he gets.

Do we like guys like Parker? I sure dont.


Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 09:33:22 PM
James  you like me, you can't help but not too....so bring your gurl come over, Maxwell will be playing ;D

Now, back to the topic at hand, how one walks with their significant other and observing mannerisms, behavior is something we consciously and unconsciously. Sometimes we use it to decern who we want to talk to in a crowded room, or a unfamiliar setting.
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: clued-up on July 02, 2010, 09:48:37 PM
James  you like me, you can't help but not too....so bring your gurl come over, Maxwell will be playing ;D

I do like you, Parker.. but you’re still *that guy*.

I hope, degrading yourself the way you do.. that you’re at least nailing some of that *ex ass*.

You’re putting the work in.. is it paying off?
Title: Re: Observations in the Mall-how one walks with the opposite sex.
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 10:25:42 PM
I do like you, Parker.. but you’re still *that guy*.

I hope, degrading yourself the way you do.. that you’re at least nailing some of that *ex ass*.

You’re putting the work in.. is it paying off?
Trust me brah, I wouldn't want it. I said she lacked financial and physical discipline...you know what  happens when a thick gal goes a tad overboard...she goes into the WYHI file...

I helped her pick out glasses, no wrk to put in....but that woman who worked there, she was promising ;)
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Post by: _bruce_ on July 03, 2010, 04:54:40 AM
ok "man of steel" haha ::)

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 :D