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Title: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 07:20:23 AM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 07:22:56 AM
Call a lawyer asap. Cops always side with the women.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: The Showstoppa on July 02, 2010, 07:23:01 AM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.

Damn man.....thats a shitty story.  Where do you live?  Show the cops your war wounds as soon as they arrive, at least she will get arrested too, in most states.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 07:24:45 AM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.
Have fun, this is how women manipulate the system. Starting with the cops. Then judicial officers...then on down the line...
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 07:25:51 AM
Damn man.....thats a shitty story.  Where do you live?  Show the cops your war wounds as soon as they arrive, at least she will get arrested too, in most states.

Tampa FL.

Actually she threw a vase at me and it broke on my back, I have this bruise about 6in x 6in, it's purple. Along with all the pictures I took last night.

Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 07:27:07 AM
Have fun, this is how women manipulate the system. Starting with the cops. Then judicial officers...then on down the line...
Exactly. They know how to manipulate and play the crying game very well. Seen it enough times with my buddies that went through divorce. They almost always 99.9% of the time side witht he women. That's why, get a lawyer, never strike the woman whatever you do and keep your nose clean.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 07:32:10 AM
Exactly. They know how to manipulate and play the crying game very well. Seen it enough times with my buddies that went through divorce. They almost always 99.9% of the time side witht he women. That's why, get a lawyer, never strike the woman whatever you do and keep your nose clean.

lol yep. she busted her lip on the wall so of course they will thinks it's me.. my criminal record won't help me out either. too many violent charges.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 07:33:25 AM
Exactly. They know how to manipulate and play the crying game very well. Seen it enough times with my buddies that went through divorce. They almost always 99.9% of the time side witht he women. That's why, get a lawyer, never strike the woman whatever you do and keep your nose clean.
Yet, want to be treated equal. When shit hits the fan, all of a sudden, they need to be "protected".
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 07:34:21 AM
lol yep. she busted her lip on the wall so of course they will thinks it's me.. my criminal record won't help me out either. too many violent charges.
And she'll proceed to tell the cops that your stalking her, calling her numerous times, etc. Be careful and tell your lawyer everything. Give him your cell phone records, computer hardrive (for email), etc for proof. Take her down in court. Best way.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 07:38:30 AM
And she'll proceed to tell the cops that your stalking her, calling her numerous times, etc. Be careful and tell your lawyer everything. Give him your cell phone records, computer hardrive (for email), etc for proof. Take her down in court. Best way.

well to make things even more complicated she's my baby momma.. she said she filed the report last night so I would imagine they would have already showed up to my house last night or to my work today..

she might just be bluffing..

actually after all this went down she sent me a message asking if I payed rent, lol fucking girl.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: clued-up on July 02, 2010, 07:39:01 AM
fucking bitches... ::)
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 02, 2010, 07:39:32 AM
If she's calling the cops on your ass it's time to ditch the bitch.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Get Rowdy on July 02, 2010, 07:40:56 AM
At least you found out she's a crazy bitch before marrying her.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 07:41:48 AM
well to make things even more complicated she's my baby momma.. she said she filed the report last night so I would imagine they would have already showed up to my house last night or to my work today..

she might just be bluffing..

actually after all this went down she sent me a message asking if I payed rent, lol fucking #girl.
She'll make you miseralble for the rest of your life. Cut her off like a forskin and take her apart in court.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 07:42:57 AM
At least you found out she's a crazy bitch before marrying her.

Oh I knew that before, we just got back together after a 6 month break.. 2 months in and she's already pulling this shit.. I'm like fucking inspector gadget, I've always busted her talking to other guys behind my back but I told myself this would be the last time.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 02, 2010, 07:45:09 AM
Oh I knew that before, we just got back together after a 6 month break.. 2 months in and she's already pulling this shit.. I'm like fucking inspector gadget, I've always busted her talking to other guys behind my back but I told myself this would be the last time.

Man you gotta stop thinking  this bitch will change, if she keeps running the same game you gotta learn from it.

no bitch is worth a cold cell and a concrete bed.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 07:45:50 AM
Oh I knew that before, we just got back together after a 6 month break.. 2 months in and she's already pulling this shit.. I'm like fucking inspector gadget, I've always busted her talking to other guys behind my back but I told myself this would be the last time.
This will be her downfall in court.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: clued-up on July 02, 2010, 07:50:34 AM
Do not get involved with psychotic whores...
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 07:52:29 AM
Do not get involved with psychotic whores...
Amen to that.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: jon cole on July 02, 2010, 07:59:52 AM
when women get caught they're always violent, because they don't have ball to face the reality, they prefer to escape.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: polychronopolous on July 02, 2010, 08:10:11 AM
LOL @ saopl still posting on getbig 30 minutes after his girlfriend supposedly called the police to "drag him away to jail"  ::)
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 08:12:04 AM
LOL @ saopl still posting on getbig 30 minutes after his girlfriend supposedly called the police to "drag him away to jail"  ::)

reading comprehension ftw, cleary in my earlier posts I stated she claimed she filed he police report last night, so I'm waiting for them to show up at my job, so far they haven't..

I took my shit and left last night and haven't talked to her since.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: drkaje on July 02, 2010, 08:27:23 AM
Yet, want to be treated equal. When shit hits the fan, all of a sudden, they need to be "protected".

QFT!!
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: 240 is Back on July 02, 2010, 08:30:26 AM
before the cops get there - go in there and actually kick the shit out of her.

youre gonna go to jail for it anyway... you might as well get your money's worth!
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 08:31:04 AM
before the cops get there - go in there and actually kick the shit out of her.

youre gonna go to jail for it anyway... you might as well get your money's worth!

good point
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 08:35:17 AM
lol yep. she busted her lip on the wall so of course they will thinks it's me.. my criminal record won't help me out either. too many violent charges.
Time to run Bro, I been through stuff like this had knifes thrown at me suicide attempts and such in my house. It wont get better run now.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 08:37:16 AM
LOL @ saopl still posting on getbig 30 minutes after his girlfriend supposedly called the police to "drag him away to jail"  ::)
You never know....pigs usually take forever to show up to a scene.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Power on July 02, 2010, 08:40:04 AM
before the cops get there - go in there and actually kick the shit out of her.

youre gonna go to jail for it anyway... you might as well get your money's worth!


Finally some sound advice given on GetBig!
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: kh300 on July 02, 2010, 08:43:04 AM
How do we know hes telling the truth?

And considering he chose to stick with a psycho bitch, he obviously isn't very bright.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 08:47:22 AM
Chances are they won't come. If it was sooo important, she would have gone to he hospital, and they would have called the cops, of she would have called 911...she is yanking your chain...but if you get back together and something else pops off, she will use this time to show that there is a history or pattern of domestic abuse, and yes you will get locked up. Because, in the cop's eyes you are a woman beater.

She of course thrives on drama like this, so you only deal with the child. And you knew she was crazy before you had a child with her---before you bust a nut, make sure she ain't a nut.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 08:50:32 AM
Chances are they won't come. If it was sooo important, she would have gone to he hospital, and they would have called the cops, of she would have called 911...she is yanking your chain...but if you get back together and something else pops off, she will use this time to show that there is a history or pattern of domestic abuse, and yes you will get locked up. Because, in the cop's eyes you are a woman beater.

She of course thrives on drama like this, so you only deal with the child. And you knew she was crazy before you had a child with her---before you bust a nut, make sure she ain't a nut.

well she got preggo 3 months into us dating so I really didn't know her too well.. my fault, but I manned up and have been taking care of them both for 3 years now (I pay a car payment for her, 08' commander on 24's) the kid has everything she always needs, I've lent her over 3k to take care of the little one but i'm done now.. too good for this shit.

and I'm definately not getting back with her, 3rd time we've gotten back together and 3rd time I've caught her talking to a guy. fuck that shittttttt
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 09:01:32 AM
well she got preggo 3 months into us dating so I really didn't know her too well.. my fault, but I manned up and have been taking care of them both for 3 years now (I pay a car payment for her, 08' commander on 24's) the kid has everything she always needs, I've lent her over 3k to take care of the little one but i'm done now.. too good for this shit.

and I'm definately not getting back with her, 3rd time we've gotten back together and 3rd time I've caught her talking to a guy. fuck that shittttttt
Sell the rims, recoup some money back. No reason that vehicle can't roll on stock rims. You are stuck because if you roll, you have to pay child support. Stay in the child's life and only deal with the mother when you have to.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 09:04:10 AM
well she got preggo 3 months into us dating so I really didn't know her too well.. my fault, but I manned up and have been taking care of them both for 3 years now (I pay a car payment for her, 08' commander on 24's) the kid has everything she always needs, I've lent her over 3k to take care of the little one but i'm done now.. too good for this shit.

and I'm definately not getting back with her, 3rd time we've gotten back together and 3rd time I've caught her talking to a guy. fuck that shittttttt
Bro you cant prevent a girl talking to guys or going out on you they will find a way.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 09:08:36 AM
Bro you cant prevent a girl talking to guys or going out on you they will find a way.

maybe I should have got into depth what I mean about talking to guys, it wasn't like a 'oh hey, how are you' talk? I'm not the jealous type to freak out over something like that. It was more of the 'oh i had amazing dreams about you last night, I can't wait to see you, you're so sexy, can't wait to get you alone' stuff..

and in all honesty I know exactly where she gets it from, her mom and dad have been off and on for the past 34 years, they get back together for a few months, then break up and get bf/gfs, then come back to each other.. and she's seen it her whole life and she doesn't know any different.. I don't blame her, I blame her parents for setting horrible examples to follow.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Rami on July 02, 2010, 09:12:12 AM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.

"she has before" ? And you just let that slip?
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 09:22:41 AM
maybe I should have got into depth what I mean about talking to guys, it wasn't like a 'oh hey, how are you' talk? I'm not the jealous type to freak out over something like that. It was more of the 'oh i had amazing dreams about you last night, I can't wait to see you, you're so sexy, can't wait to get you alone' stuff..

and in all honesty I know exactly where she gets it from, her mom and dad have been off and on for the past 34 years, they get back together for a few months, then break up and get bf/gfs, then come back to each other.. and she's seen it her whole life and she doesn't know any different.. I don't blame her, I blame her parents for setting horrible examples to follow.
Genetic's rule mentally and physically. You might consider getting out of this while you can. I have been down this street.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 09:34:44 AM
"she has before" ? And you just let that slip?

well we are both young, I'm 23 she's 20.. she had the kid when she was 18, I've known her since she was 16.. but I thought she would grow out of it and especially now that our daughter is almost 2, but I was wrong.. I thought it would be different, I believed her when she said she changed and would never do that to me again..

My family, friends, even HER friends and family warned me.. but I didn't want to listen, my fault, I take blame for letting it get to this point. Funny how her family are the ones calling me apologizing for her actions, telling me I'm better and deserve better than her, how they love me and consider me family etc.

Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 09:44:14 AM
/end rant

 ;D
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 09:45:55 AM
well we are both young, I'm 23 she's 20.. she had the kid when she was 18, I've known her since she was 16.. but I thought she would grow out of it and especially now that our daughter is almost 2, but I was wrong.. I thought it would be different, I believed her when she said she changed and would never do that to me again..

My family, friends, even HER friends and family warned me.. but I didn't want to listen, my fault, I take blame for letting it get to this point. Funny how her family are the ones calling me apologizing for her actions, telling me I'm better and deserve better than her, how they love me and consider me family etc.


Sounds like you are hooked on the sex dude.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 09:48:25 AM
Sounds like you are hooked on the sex dude.

lol that easy to tell? she has the perfect body.. 5'4, 105 lbs, 32 DDs, bubble butt, definately hot but in Tampa she's a dime a dozen.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 09:52:23 AM
lol that easy to tell? she has the perfect body.. 5'4, 105 lbs, 32 DDs, bubble butt, definately hot but in Tampa she's a dime a dozen.
There you go your root problem. See I hate looking for women so if I find a hot one I put up with shit. Does this sound familar? But thing is they will take you down if you let them.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 10:27:25 AM
lol that easy to tell? she has the perfect body.. 5'4, 105 lbs, 32 DDs, bubble butt, definately hot but in Tampa she's a dime a dozen.
We need some pics of this skank.

Bump for a pic.  8)
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: jtsunami on July 02, 2010, 10:32:19 AM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.

and you stayed with her the first time she did it, your fault bro, should have left as soon as she pulled the shit first time and got a lawyer, now it happened a second time?

WOW are you really desperate for pussy or something?
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: The True Adonis on July 02, 2010, 10:36:33 AM
well we are both young, I'm 23 she's 20.. she had the kid when she was 18, I've known her since she was 16.. but I thought she would grow out of it and especially now that our daughter is almost 2, but I was wrong.. I thought it would be different, I believed her when she said she changed and would never do that to me again..

My family, friends, even HER friends and family warned me.. but I didn't want to listen, my fault, I take blame for letting it get to this point. Funny how her family are the ones calling me apologizing for her actions, telling me I'm better and deserve better than her, how they love me and consider me family etc.


You both certainly sound like trashy people.  Should have gotten an abortion.  You are now doomed to mediocrity with a miserable well below middle class lifestyle.  Have fun with your debt ridden existence as well. (24 inch rims on a Commander, oh brother  ::)  )   Its too bad your baby is going to most likely follow suit and continue on yours and her legacy of trash.

In other words, you are FFL. (Fucked for Life).
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: jtsunami on July 02, 2010, 10:38:12 AM
You both certainly sound like trashy people.  Should have gotten an abortion.  You are now doomed to mediocrity with a miserable well below middle class lifestyle.  Have fun with your debt ridden existence as well. (24 inch rims on a Commander, oh brother  ::)  )   Its too bad your baby is going to most likely follow suit and continue on yours and her legacy of trash.

In other words, you are FFL. (Fucked for Life).

I agree with TA here.

Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Les Grossman on July 02, 2010, 10:41:13 AM
You both certainly sound like trashy people.  Should have gotten an abortion.  You are now doomed to mediocrity with a miserable well below middle class lifestyle.  Have fun with your debt ridden existence as well. (24 inch rims on a Commander, oh brother  ::)  )   Its too bad your baby is going to most likely follow suit and continue on yours and her legacy of trash.

In other words, you are FFL. (Fucked for Life).

+ 1
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: body88 on July 02, 2010, 10:42:54 AM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.

You deserve it for staying with her.

Leave her now.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: drkaje on July 02, 2010, 10:43:12 AM
Damn, dude.

You're stuck dealing with a crazy chick forever and so is the kid.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 10:50:23 AM
You both certainly sound like trashy people.  Should have gotten an abortion.  You are now doomed to mediocrity with a miserable well below middle class lifestyle.  Have fun with your debt ridden existence as well. (24 inch rims on a Commander, oh brother  ::)  )   Its too bad your baby is going to most likely follow suit and continue on yours and her legacy of trash.

In other words, you are FFL. (Fucked for Life).

Shitty situation but I'm definately not trashy, I don't live in or within 20 miles of a trailer park. The only reason the Commander isn't payed off is I wanted to build my credit, I also have an 2008 Audi A4 1.8T with no car payment.

But yeah I agree I'm going to have to deal with her trashy-ness for the next 16 years. I pay all the bills in the house and she was basically getting a free ride, any money she made she could keep for herself. I have a very well paying job.. 6 figures, what have you accomplished other than fail bulking on mcdonalds?

Oh btw, I live in Bellair.. next to Clearwater, look it up.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: HTexan on July 02, 2010, 11:01:33 AM
that's one crazy chick... be glad you found out before you married here.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Parker on July 02, 2010, 11:04:08 AM
lol that easy to tell? she has the perfect body.. 5'4, 105 lbs, 32 DDs, bubble butt, definately hot but in Tampa she's a dime a dozen.
DDs fake or real. A chica with DDs and 105 pounds and a bubble butt at 5'4?
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 11:08:08 AM
DDs fake or real. A chica with DDs and 105 pounds and a bubble butt at 5'4?

real, yeah she's 1/2 brazilian and 1/2 german.

fucked a bunch of girls when we broke up the first few times and nothing compares to her magical pussy haha  :-\
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 11:33:51 AM
I had a similar incident with some dishrag whore.  Good luck.
PTPS dawg.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 12:01:54 PM
saopl, have you had the baby checked for a DNA match to ensure you are the ACTUAL father?  She may have got preggo with someone else and said it was you.  i know someone else this happened to.  he took care of the baby for a year and then found out.  i think you can actually sue her if thats the case. 

anyways, i would look into it.  if it aint your baby, then she's not only cheating on you, but using and abusin ya too. 



no I havent, at first I thought the same but she looks more like me than she does her own mother, she has my ears, eyes, lips, chin, nose, everything.. baby momma has black hair, I have blonde.. kid has blonde hair.. definately mine but regardless if I don't get a DNA test done before she turns 24 months then I'm responsible for child support regardless if it's my kid or not (FLA laws are fucked)
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: OneManGang on July 02, 2010, 12:06:38 PM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.

You should move to a muslim country. The police there would take care of the beating for you.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Natural Man on July 02, 2010, 12:09:45 PM
lol yep. she busted her lip on the wall so of course they will thinks it's me.. my criminal record won't help me out either. too many violent charges.
LOL you ruined it all with this.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 12:27:40 PM
LOL you ruined it all with this.

How so? They are all 4+ years old, but only have 1 conviction..all others got dropped because parents bailed me out with a bad ass lawyer.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Les Grossman on July 02, 2010, 12:43:48 PM
How so? They are all 4+ years old, but only have 1 conviction..all others got dropped because parents bailed me out with a bad ass lawyer.

Wow....you're so cool. I'll bet that impresses the guys down at the local Jiffy Lube.

Loser.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 12:44:12 PM
How so? They are all 4+ years old, but only have 1 conviction..all others got dropped because parents bailed me out with a bad ass lawyer.
Your officially fucked now. She will use this to ruin you and milk you dry.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Flexb on July 02, 2010, 12:45:45 PM
I installed a keylogger on my computer because I had a feeling my GF/fiance was fucking around behind my back and it was true, I came home last night and found a bunch of shit, confronted her about it and she went crazy started punching and kicking me but I never touched her, she went in the bathroom and smashed her head against the wall a few times and said "now I'm calling the cops"

she's going to try to blame it on me saying I hit her etc, she has before, and I'll prob make a trip down to county jail.

what a great start to a wonderful weekend.

You're fucked now lol
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on July 02, 2010, 12:55:35 PM
Go to the store right now and get yourself a mini-tape recorder and start taping your conversations with her. Get your to say she fucked yourself up on tape. After you get that on tape, make a copy keep it out of the house. If she does get the cops involved, you will be arrested no doubt about it. After she admits to beating yourself up on tape and you have a copy in a safe place, make sure you tell her that you don't trust her and that you are taping every conversation you ever have with her from here on out. When the cops tell you that you aren't allowed to tape anyone who doesn't know they are being taped, you tell them that you told her that you are taping her.(even if you didn't tell her before she admitted to beating herself up) who cares, the cops will have to drop it all because it will be on big cluster fuck and in most cases they will listen to the tapes and realize she is fucked. But keep copies in a safe place. And if cops ask you if there are copies tell them of course there is.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Playboy on July 02, 2010, 12:59:43 PM
Grab your shit and leave the country. Go somewhere in south america with no extradition.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 02, 2010, 01:16:41 PM
Grab your shit and leave the country. Go somewhere in south america with no extradition.

lol  ;D
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: drkaje on July 02, 2010, 02:16:05 PM
lol  ;D

Saopl,

You do understand that the actual, true drama will not begin until she realizes you aren't coming back, right?

I don't like to give advice because no one can ever follow it but here's my $0.02: Get a restraining order against her immediately, then petition family court for visitation help and let them handle dispersing child support money.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Hulkster on July 02, 2010, 02:24:20 PM
the first thing I would do is get a paternity test done because there is a damn good chance that kid isn't yours.

don't just assume it has to be yours.

you said yourself this girl is a skank, fucking everything that moves, including you.

you could be paying for a child that isn't even yours.

do the test and let the REAL father do that part..

if thats the case. but you need to find out. now.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Earl1972 on July 02, 2010, 02:25:20 PM
how are you making 6 figures at 23 while having a criminal record?

E
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: TacoBell on July 02, 2010, 02:45:37 PM
how are you making 6 figures at 23 while having a criminal record?

E

Getbig dollars  ;)
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Palpatine Q on July 02, 2010, 03:08:41 PM
Sounds like these two idiots deserve each other to me.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on July 02, 2010, 04:25:38 PM
so did the cops show up yet?
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: lesaucer on July 02, 2010, 05:28:12 PM
tips to stay anabolic: use condoms. live alone.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 02, 2010, 05:30:36 PM
tips to stay anabolic: use condoms. live alone.
Agreed.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Hulkster on July 02, 2010, 06:43:54 PM
Getbig dollars  ;)

gotta love that exchange rate!



 ;D
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: drkaje on July 02, 2010, 07:45:01 PM
He's also gotta worry about having a crazy kid, too. Mental disease is definitely some shit people can inherit.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 04, 2010, 05:32:57 PM
So what happened with this ?!?! did you get rid of that bitch or are you still in her clutches? seriously dude, if you don't get out of it now you're gonna kill yourself in a few years when next time she cuts herself and calls the SWAT team to the house, fuck this crazy bitch...plenty more fish in the pond.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: WillGrant on July 04, 2010, 05:37:24 PM
Have fun, this is how women manipulate the system. Starting with the cops. Then judicial officers...then on down the line...
Sad but true  :( >:(
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 04, 2010, 05:44:18 PM
ALso you don't need a tape recorder, if you have an extra phone, turn the ringer off on one and put it in your pocket, call it from your other phone and don't answer, let it go to voicemail...then start arguing with her, within 45 seconds she'll scream at you 'I'm gonna go cut my self and call the cops and you're going to jail' voicemail has a tendency to run for  a good 5-10 minutes if you don't cut it off...everything will be recorded.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: chaos on July 04, 2010, 08:20:06 PM
Dude, before you leave PIITB.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: benchmstr on July 04, 2010, 08:21:20 PM
remember....violence solves everything....you cant win a war without it.....strike first while you still have the element of suprise!!!

bench
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: odilly on July 04, 2010, 08:45:05 PM
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: wes on July 05, 2010, 12:23:52 AM
Call Maury Povich and book yourself on the show!!
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 05, 2010, 12:27:46 AM
I wonder if saopl has access to getbig in jail..
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: sync pulse on July 05, 2010, 03:16:37 PM
A six figure income...with a criminal record?...wonder what his job is?
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: disco_stu on July 05, 2010, 03:35:39 PM
well she got preggo 3 months into us dating so I really didn't know her too well.. my fault, but I manned up and have been taking care of them both for 3 years now (I pay a car payment for her, 08' commander on 24's) the kid has everything she always needs, I've lent her over 3k to take care of the little one but i'm done now.. too good for this shit.

and I'm definately not getting back with her, 3rd time we've gotten back together and 3rd time I've caught her talking to a guy. fuck that shittttttt

classy.. you are a douchebag. "the kid" - is your child. you've "leant her over 3k to take care of the little one..."   err, douche- thats your responsibility for creating the child...there's nothing "leant" about it.

and note for you- you cant "...but I'm done now..".. you have a life sentence now you are a father.

"too good for this shit"...?..hardly... the evidence is that you are an irresponsible dumb ass who wants to play mummy and daddy then vanish...and whilst having a domestic you decide to post on a public forum.

yeah you are a real class act.

Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Agnostic007 on July 06, 2010, 08:22:28 AM
I worked 2 yrs in a Family Violence unit as a Detective back in the 90's. Couple things come to mind.. Someone had the idea of recording conversations. Excellent idea and in some states it is not illegal to record a conversation as long as the person recording is part of the conversation. Another thing is, anytime your spouse, GF/Fiance' starts beating themselves up, call the police yourself. It tends to make a difference as far as credibility if you call. Even if the psycho calls, never leave the scene entirely. Remove yourself from his/her immediate presence, but if you never talk to the police, they won't have your side. A warrant will be issued based on the physical evidence, his her form she fills out at the scene.
At this point, just sitting around wondering and waiting to see if the police show up is silly. You can call and find out if a report was made. You can ask for the number to the investigating Detective and you can give your side of it. It will not be the first time the detectives worked a case where the "victim" caused their own injuries.
If you are reading this from jail, disregard..
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 06, 2010, 08:31:39 AM
A six figure income...with a criminal record?...wonder what his job is?

sales  ;D

sometimes it's less, sometimes it's more.. but this year has been very profitable.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: sync pulse on July 06, 2010, 01:27:23 PM
Selling what?...From what I have observed people in sales either make it big,...or whither...no in between.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 06, 2010, 01:41:19 PM
Selling what?...From what I have observed people in sales either make it big,...or whither...no in between.

medical supplies
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: The True Adonis on July 06, 2010, 01:49:29 PM
medical supplies
What specifically? 
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on July 06, 2010, 01:56:07 PM
What specifically? 

Why?  Are you looking to buy these.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: quadzilla456 on July 06, 2010, 03:51:29 PM
Why?  Are you looking to buy these.


LMAO!
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: newmom on July 06, 2010, 03:53:39 PM
Why?  Are you looking to buy these.


crap that reminds me, ugh time for the yearly visit..I KNOW A MAN INVENTED THAT SHIT
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 06, 2010, 04:52:36 PM
crap that reminds me, ugh time for the yearly visit..I KNOW A MAN INVENTED THAT SHIT

Wouldn't he be like 120 by now!?! these things have been around for a while..
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Earl1972 on July 06, 2010, 04:56:17 PM
medical supplies

drug dealer :)

E
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: drkaje on July 06, 2010, 04:59:26 PM
So did the cops actually show up?
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: polychronopolous on July 06, 2010, 05:08:35 PM
crap that reminds me, ugh time for the yearly visit..I KNOW A MAN INVENTED THAT SHIT

Why?

I have talked to several women who actually came during a papsmear.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: newmom on July 06, 2010, 05:13:57 PM
Why?



Why??that shit hurts, and most of them dont fucking warm them up
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: newmom on July 06, 2010, 05:14:39 PM
Wouldn't he be like 120 by now!?! these things have been around for a while..

I supposed but like I said..A man would of invented those fucking things
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: chaos on July 06, 2010, 08:57:51 PM
Why?  Are you looking to buy these.

Hi Max Hardcore. ;D
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Dballn247 on July 06, 2010, 09:10:59 PM
At least you found out she's a crazy bitch before marrying her.

QFT
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on July 06, 2010, 09:22:12 PM
have the cops showed up yet
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: saopl on July 07, 2010, 07:42:18 AM
have the cops showed up yet

nope, she lied about calling them and filing a report.. just wanted to cause a huge scene, I haven't talked to her since it happened.
Title: Re: Waiting for the cops to show up..
Post by: Captain Equipoise on July 07, 2010, 10:37:27 PM
nope, she lied about calling them and filing a report.. just wanted to cause a huge scene, I haven't talked to her since it happened.

Get a lawyer, a female witness and get your shit the hell out of there, or kick her ass out... even the fact that she threatened that is a bad bad sign..