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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: tallandfat on July 07, 2010, 05:09:40 PM
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is it a short guy thing?
overcompensation?
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Oh geez, another thread about short people wanting to be big to overcompensate. There are plenty of gym rats that are tall. Granted, the IFBB does have a lot of short to medium sized competitors in terms of height; however, the rare exception. Gyms contain a mixture of short to tall men all trying to get big.
Maybe they want to get huge because that's what they want. If I want to get huge, I want to get huge for ME! If some ladies don't like it, oh well. I don't go to the gym each day thinking, "oh man, I am going to pump my biceps to get the ladies tonight."
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In my gym the only big guys and guys wanting to get big are thr 6'+
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i have no idea
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it's a "it's easier use "bulking" and "getting huge" as a excuse to eat like shit and get fat" type thing
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is it a short guy thing?
overcompensation?
Welcome back Shitsukki
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Welcome back Shitsukki
aw man I wish :D
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To get the fear/respect of other guys! lol
sad but true.
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To get the fear/respect of other guys! lol
That has already been solved: wear a Tapout shirt.
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it's a "it's easier use "bulking" and "getting huge" as a excuse to eat like shit and get fat" type thing
Way to kill my excuses asswipe. >:(
Next time you post about stripping I'll chime in about daddy issues. ;)
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how many of you would still be lifting if you were told that you'd never come across another female(or male for some guys here) ever again?
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sorry to disappoint you but, its a face thing.. if you are skinny and ugly.. you are ugly... if u get ripped and are ugly, you are still ugly...women like attractive faces... duh... you ugly fellas best bet is to use "personality" that usually works over bodybuilding......
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Bulking is easier than cutting.
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not everyone does things based solely on the purpose of attracting women, believe it or not some men can get women based on things other than physical attributes.
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not everyone does things based solely on the purpose of attracting women, believe it or not some men can get women based on things other than physical attributes.
Brent that is true, but honestly, it does also come along with what the opposite gender finds attractive.
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is it a short guy thing?
overcompensation?
Some woman like big,some like ripped.
....and some woman just don't know.
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Brent that is true, but honestly, it does also come along with what the opposite gender finds attractive.
no matter if your big or ripped or both as long as its within reason you will find more than enough people that find you attractive i dont think its an issue of 100% of women finding ripped attractive and 0% of women finding big unattractive
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no matter if your big or ripped or both as long as its within reason you will find more than enough people that find you attractive i dont think its an issue of 100% of women finding ripped attractive and 0% of women finding big unattractive
what do you mean within reason?
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Brent that is true, but honestly, it does also come along with what the opposite gender finds attractive.
You're right to some extent...the reason I want to try get cut is cos it will look good to women i guess, but its mostly for my own self esteem.
The reason I bother with things like deadlifts and heavy compound movements has nothing to do with women whatsoever. I would never risk putting the loads through my joints that I do, and having to buy weight belts etc just to look good for women, that is purely 100% for myself and if Freud interviewed me probably some deep seated childhood problem that I have no idea exists ;D...I like feeling strong, regardless of whether people like how i look or not, its not something I want to sacrifice.
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what do you mean within reason?
being not to ripped or not to big example: 400 lbs vs 85lbs...... somewhere in the middle that most people would find attractive
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"ripped" guys are for the girls.
Real women like huge guys.
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"ripped" guys are for the girls.
Real women like huge guys.
i do see some truth in this
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"ripped" guys are for the girls.
Real women like huge guys.
See meso gets it..
being not to ripped or not to big example: 400 lbs vs 85lbs...... somewhere in the middle that most people would find attractive
Gotcha..
Now fellas lets be honest. Sure both men and woman want to be attractive to the opposite gender, it's our genetic makeup. If we don't like the way we look, how the fuck would we be comfortable around anyone else. Also, boils down to self esteem. I mean honestly, men arn't gonna see a woman physically not their type body wise and say "hey I bet she has a great personality" I would like to get to know her. CMON
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It's all about yourself. If you want to be big, then by all means accomplish that goal.
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Meh, money trumps all.
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What women like? Is that important? ???
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why do guys buy porsche or monster truck or corvette when they have no penny to rub together? women! and most woen want jean claude van dam look --- ripped --- not huge
I will say I think it feels better to be huge, but never having had 8 pak I can't easily compare.
money does trump all , but once that woman gets the money, she will go seeking ripped hunk.
its funny, all business ego and governmetn power ego is really about women
married losers want to have bigger car n house since in thier mind they picked better woman and single guys take sloppies
single guys laugh cuz they love variety, which all men do
plus it feels great to show off
when I dated a 6 foot blonde i loved to make out at bar and she get mad saying its not classy and Id grin and grab her ass, love other egotistical bartender fags to be jelous -- zest of life!
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If you're not putting money in the equation, most women go for confident guys, short, tall, big, skinny, whatever...If you reek insecurity, you can be 7 ft tall at 400lbs of hard muscles, only women with problems of their own will go for you. As long as you seem to be confortable with your body, neither nelgecting it or being obsessive about it.
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If you're not putting money in the equation, most women go for confident guys, short, tall, big, skinny, whatever...If you reek insecurity, you can be 7 ft tall at 400lbs of hard muscles, only women with problems of their own will go for you. As long as you seem to be confortable with your body, neither nelgecting it or being obsessive about it.
So, that eliminates 99.9% of GBers :-X :-\
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Regular looking guys can be ripped just because they have the right eating habits. Big guy is never just an Average Joe. ;)
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Way to kill my excuses asswipe. >:(
Next time you post about stripping I'll chime in about daddy issues. ;)
lol
pw3nd
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when I first joined getbig I was a typical permabulker
it was great being larger and stronger than most but it was a lot of work eating just to maintain the size
these days I'm much smaller but lean
what women want notwithstanding, I prefer being lean with clear abs and veins popping
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Exactly poppa J, it's what we like within ourselves FIRST IMO
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it's what we like within ourselves FIRST IMO
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"Big" guys look like fucking clowns in society.
Most people treat you as a joke, but the meatheads think they're "intimidating".
So, deep seated insecurities = wanting to be "big".
Unless you're getting paid to be "big", what's the point? If you want to stand out, just pierce your forehead.
At 235, I thought i was "big". I'm 195 now, and am shooting for 180.
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"Big" guys look like fucking clowns in society.
Most people treat you as a joke, but the meatheads think they're "intimidating".
So, deep seated insecurities = wanting to be "big".
Unless you're getting paid to be "big", what's the point? If you want to stand out, just pierce your forehead.
At 235, I thought i was "big". I'm 195 now, and am shooting for 180.
so why did you want to be "big"?
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"ripped" guys are for the girls.
Real women like huge guys.
I think this is true. Girls drool over "ripped" guys in pictures but end up fucking the huge guys and wanting to stay with them.
Girls tell me "don't get too big, don't get too many veins" but even if I'm bloated with washed out abs I can turn on the charm and fuck them. Girls DO desire strong, big men. They'll cream their panties over Jacob from Twilight but at the end of the day they want to fuck a strong man, IMHO.
Just maintain somewhat visible abs if you want to either attract or impress girls. No harm there. Charm and humor will drop any woman's panties. Throw some drinks in there and keep the tempo steady and you'll rock that pussy in no time. When I realized how easy it was to fuck girls I knew how easy it was in highschool when I was pussy starved. Charming a keeper is different though.
I'm getting married next month and I think it can be worth it if you find the right one. Although its rare these days. We'll see if I survive LOL she's a crazy woman!
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I'm getting married next month and I think it can be worth it if you find the right one. Although its rare these days. We'll see if I survive LOL she's a crazy woman!
Congrats and best wishes
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Women like men in thongs
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Women like men in thongs
no no, not all women, HOWEVER, that pic, big legs che ;D
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no no, not all women, HOWEVER, that pic, big legs che ;D
See ;)
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some women like huge ;)
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"Big" guys look like fucking clowns in society.
Most people treat you as a joke, but the meatheads think they're "intimidating".
So, deep seated insecurities = wanting to be "big".
Unless you're getting paid to be "big", what's the point? If you want to stand out, just pierce your forehead.
At 235, I thought i was "big". I'm 195 now, and am shooting for 180.
I mean, I don't consider myself big, but I am definitely not small. Most people have payed me compliments, saying they wish they had enough discipline to go to the gym day-in-and-day out.
However, you might be referring to people that are pros and whatnot.
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I assume most men on here already know what this video demonstrates, but to those who don't. Especially pay attention to the last 40 or so seconds. 8)
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because real "guys" do what they feel like instead of what a girl likes and wants
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because real "guys" do what they feel like instead of what a girl likes and wants
x2
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Women are most attracted to professional bodybuilders in contest condition. Has always been this way since caveman times many tens of thousands of years ago.
And sewing a thong from mastadon hide was no mean feat.
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Not everyone here trains to impress women, who the fuck cares what they think anyway?
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not really
avg bodybuilder in contest condition is wayy to big for most women
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Bulking is easier than cutting.
Not if you're ectomorphic. Getting cut is much easier than gaining size is, for folks like that.
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so why did you want to be "big"?
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because i had no other priorities in life and didn't have a serious job which required interaction with other humans.
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women don't care much about ripped guys either because women are JEALOUS beings. Therefore, they couldn't stand a man who looks better in their jeans than they do
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Getting ripped can take a few months. Getting big can take a few decades. Enough said.
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Getting ripped can take a few months. Getting big can take a few decades. Enough said.
yet many take the "few decades" route. wonder why.
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yet many take the "few decades" route. wonder why.
we all know the real reason
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women don't care much about ripped guys either because women are JEALOUS beings. Therefore, they couldn't stand a man who looks better in their jeans than they do
this is true
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lol
I am getting ripped slowly myself!
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fact is women or men all wish to obtain what they dont have, especiall in our "modern" occidental societies. Fact is when you mix tons of people in big urban areas where they re forced to bump into each other on a daily basis, better looking, richer , smarter people will anger midly good looking, rich ,smart people who will anger dumb, poor and ugly people.
ts always been the same. People are gonna want what they see as better than what they have and if they cant get it they ll hate on you. Wether they have a vagina or a cock between their legs, its human -animal- nature.
Life s unfair, there s no justice, you just have to survive and if it means fucking other people up well , tough shit, better me than them. People only team together when they share common interests, and everything is based on interests in human relationships, again, that's how it works, it's no fairy tale.
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Perhaps people are looking too deep into the question. Why does anyone do anything? Everyone chooses a different goal or hobby in life. I never really questioned why I prefer to get huge instead of being ripped. And to be honest, I really don't give a shit either.
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we all know the real reason
small cock/man syndrom.
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is it a short guy thing?
overcompensation?
women love permabulkers.
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its about being da motha fukin shit...owning the room