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Title: Need Advice....
Post by: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 08:40:56 PM
I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: benchmstr on July 07, 2010, 08:45:05 PM
I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???
that shit never ends well....i wouldnt do it.....cause if they have your contact info, there is no such thing as no strings attached...

bench
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: SF1900 on July 07, 2010, 08:48:44 PM
Stay away. It can only end badly. Not worth the stress.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: chaos on July 07, 2010, 08:51:36 PM
I say tap that ass, what do you have to lose?
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 09:03:44 PM
I say tap that ass, what do you have to lose?

I am kinda thinkin the same way...Haven't went through with it yet, but she texts me all the time
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: chaos on July 07, 2010, 09:06:40 PM
I am kinda thinkin the same way...Haven't went through with it yet, but she texts me all the time

Bang her silly and make her buy you stuff in return.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: ThaRealist on July 07, 2010, 09:07:56 PM
Bang her silly and make her buy you stuff in return.

Yeah, she wants it to be a normal thing after we have sex...
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: boonasty on July 07, 2010, 09:19:38 PM
I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

does everything sound awesome to you

hell no stay away
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Coach is Back! on July 07, 2010, 09:22:13 PM
I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

Run as far as you can!
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Parker on July 07, 2010, 09:26:21 PM
I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???
Then everything is NOT awesome, if you have to go outside. It's merely a bandaid for the issues that are in the marriage itself...

I say go for and D her down really, really good. I'm talking PUT IT DOWN LIKE NEVER BEFORE. And then keep doing it, and then just stop one day and ask, "if your marriage is so awesome, why do you need another man to screw you?", do this with him in the room.


Or just ask that question w/o doing the deed.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: chaos on July 07, 2010, 09:35:52 PM
Just fuck her, deal with the consequences after you drop a load.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Agnostic007 on July 08, 2010, 06:48:25 AM
Pics or it didn't happen
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: DK II on July 08, 2010, 06:55:59 AM
If you're single you can fuck whoever you want but stay away from married women.

NOW they might be in an "open marriage" (whatever the fuck that is, either you're married or you aren't) but eventually in a few years it's all over and someone decides it's all your fault and shows up at your house with a shotgun.

There are enough women to fuck out there. Stay away from that one.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 08, 2010, 07:00:19 AM
DK speaking the truth. I've fucked a pretty long list of married women whan I was single (most of them were subtle enough to hide that fact for a while) and it only led to problems. Married women seem a good option if you're not willing to commit as you find them less needy at first. But eventually you always end up in the same place except that with a married woman you have to deal with the husband at one point.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: DK II on July 08, 2010, 07:05:02 AM
DK speaking the truth. I've fucked a pretty long list of married women whan I was single (most of them were subtle enough to hide that fact for a while) and it only led to problems. Married women seem a good option if you're not willing to commit as you find them less needy at first. But eventually you always end up in the same place except that with a married woman you have to deal with the husband at one point.

I'd rather expect married women fucking around wanting even MORE than single women at one point.

Even if you don't have to deal with the husband, i would think that a married woman not getting what she wants can get a real pain in the ass.
 
Just find some cheap slut in a disco and fuck that.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: MORTALCOIL on July 08, 2010, 07:06:53 AM
I'd rather expect married women fucking around wanting even MORE than single women at one point.

Even if you don't have to deal with the husband, i would think that a married woman not getting what she wants can get a real pain in the ass.
 
Just find some cheap slut in a disco and fuck that.

Exactly. As long as the bitch doesn't have your number....well, she hasn't got your number and that's good news.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: CalvinH on July 08, 2010, 08:18:06 AM
Tell her you wanna fuck her and the husbands girl at the same time.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on July 08, 2010, 08:23:05 AM
Too Many whiny bitches on here that watch oprah and Dr. phil.  Listen bub.  Fuck her if she is attractive.  Nothing wrong with pounding pussy.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: bigkid on July 08, 2010, 08:45:14 AM
I see this ending badly. Like going to work in the morning and taking a shotgun blast to the face as you open your door bad.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: HTexan on July 08, 2010, 09:12:33 AM
Too Many whiny bitches on here that watch oprah and Dr. phil.  Listen bub.  Fuck her if she is attractive.  Nothing wrong with pounding pussy.
there is if she a crazy bitch. :-X
(http://www.thebricktestament.com/the_law/male_genital_injury/dt23_01b.jpg)
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: ThaRealist on July 08, 2010, 10:05:07 AM
I have been blowing her off, but she texts me all day about dumb shit. I told her if we did anything it would be strictly sex and nothing more, she wants a boyfriend and I am not down with that.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: newmom on July 08, 2010, 10:20:30 AM
I have been blowing her off, but she texts me all day about dumb shit. I told her if we did anything it would be strictly sex and nothing more, she wants a boyfriend and I am not down with that.

IMO red flags everywhere Realist
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 08, 2010, 10:38:47 AM
IMO red flags everywhere Realist
Well yes and and no if can she keep quiet here lies the key.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: newmom on July 08, 2010, 11:02:11 AM
Well yes and and no if can she keep quiet here lies the key.

CMON, first off she is texting him off the hook and they haven't even hooked up..STALKERRRRRRRRRRRRR besides MOST women can't keep their yaps shut (not one word Chaos, Alex23 or Calvin)
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 08, 2010, 11:08:01 AM
CMON, first off she is texting him off the hook and they haven't even hooked up..STALKERRRRRRRRRRRRR besides MOST women can't keep their yaps shut (not one word Chaos, Alex23 or Calvin)
Outstanding observation, then its a no to the girl unless he dont care to get caught.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: leadhead on July 08, 2010, 12:02:46 PM
I see this ending badly. Like going to work in the morning and taking a shotgun blast to the face as you open your door bad.

x2. It happens frequently, open marriage or not....
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: chaos on July 08, 2010, 05:13:29 PM
I have been blowing her off, but she texts me all day about dumb shit. I told her if we did anything it would be strictly sex and nothing more, she wants a boyfriend and I am not down with that.
Ah......stay away then, if you can talk her into no commitment sex, do it.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Primemuscle on July 08, 2010, 06:44:23 PM
I need some advice....Old friend contacted me about her marriage and saying everything is awesome, but is in an open marriage and wants me to be the guy on the side. Her husband has a gf and she wants me to be the bf on the side....What do you guys think???

If you have to ask for advice, you probably shouldn't do it.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: HTexan on July 08, 2010, 06:59:26 PM
YUP YUP trust your gut.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Tapeworm on July 09, 2010, 04:31:23 AM
I advise you to fuck her and do a really really bad job.  Then she will leave you alone.  This is coming from a guy who just blew $440 to get a lawyer to write a strongly worded letter and I never even fucked the psycho bitch.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: tallandfat on July 09, 2010, 04:37:29 AM
pic of her?
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: newmom on July 09, 2010, 05:01:17 AM
I advise you to fuck her and do a really really bad job.  Then she will leave you alone.  This is coming from a guy who just blew $440 to get a lawyer to write a strongly worded letter and I never even fucked the psycho bitch.


eeeekkkk hope she gets the hint
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Tapeworm on July 09, 2010, 08:41:21 AM
eeeekkkk hope she gets the hint

Some people just get their jollies by making others miserable.  One more knock on the door and I call the police and have her charged with criminal harassment and tell the lawyer to file a restraining order with the court.  I'm not putting up with another round of this bullshit.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: newmom on July 09, 2010, 11:02:55 AM
Some people just get their jollies by making others miserable. 

Oh goodness, you got one of them in your life too..BRUTAL

If I may ask, obviously you don't have to answer, is this someone you lived with?
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: chaos on July 09, 2010, 04:13:21 PM
I advise you to fuck her and do a really really bad job.  Then she will leave you alone.  This is coming from a guy who just blew $440 to get a lawyer to write a strongly worded letter and I never even fucked the psycho bitch.

LOL
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: TacoBell on July 09, 2010, 04:16:54 PM
Just fuck her, deal with the consequences after you drop a load.

Hi dad
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: newmom on July 09, 2010, 04:19:09 PM
This is the perfect opportunity to offer her a Cleveland Steamer.


ewwwwwwwwwwww
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Tapeworm on July 10, 2010, 03:36:34 AM
Oh goodness, you got one of them in your life too..BRUTAL

If I may ask, obviously you don't have to answer, is this someone you lived with?

No.  It's my nutso neighbor.  She went away for a little while but on Monday night she was back with a vengeance.  Neighborly Tapeworm is no more.  This is Go Ahead Make My Day Tapeworm.


LOL

Not LOL.  I'm scared enough to err on the side of caution.  She's a genuine crazy.  Been institutionalized.  Made some comment about how she thought my dog was dead.  Physically pushed her way into my house and wouldn't leave until I took her by the arm and led her out the door.  And just would not go away no matter how many times I told her to.  Getting a history of events taken down by a legal rep, having him send a letter and be prepared to file a restraining order... it might be the best $440 I ever spent if things go south.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: DK II on July 10, 2010, 03:46:26 AM
No.  It's my nutso neighbor.  She went away for a little while but on Monday night she was back with a vengeance.  Neighborly Tapeworm is no more.  This is Go Ahead Make My Day Tapeworm.


Not LOL.  I'm scared enough to err on the side of caution.  She's a genuine crazy.  Been institutionalized.  Made some comment about how she thought my dog was dead.  Physically pushed her way into my house and wouldn't leave until I took her by the arm and led her out the door.  And just would not go away no matter how many times I told her to.  Getting a history of events taken down by a legal rep, having him send a letter and be prepared to file a restraining order... it might be the best $440 I ever spent if things go south.
(http://saraschaefer.com/ss/falling_down.jpg)
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Tapeworm on July 10, 2010, 04:13:03 AM
(http://saraschaefer.com/ss/falling_down.jpg)


(http://indomobi.com/download/Wallpaper240x320/Creative%2001/Do_Not_Disturb.jpg)
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 10, 2010, 06:01:03 AM
No.  It's my nutso neighbor.  She went away for a little while but on Monday night she was back with a vengeance.  Neighborly Tapeworm is no more.  This is Go Ahead Make My Day Tapeworm.


Not LOL.  I'm scared enough to err on the side of caution.  She's a genuine crazy.  Been institutionalized.  Made some comment about how she thought my dog was dead.  Physically pushed her way into my house and wouldn't leave until I took her by the arm and led her out the door.  And just would not go away no matter how many times I told her to.  Getting a history of events taken down by a legal rep, having him send a letter and be prepared to file a restraining order... it might be the best $440 I ever spent if things go south.
I had a couple of stalkers before one of them I met this girl on the internet. So to protect my self upfront I met her at restaurant, she was fat as hell nothing as she told me or her pics revealed. So I was nice talked her and shit even paid for dinner told her I would call her I didnt want to be a asshole fat people have feelings too. So I didnt call her in about 3 days she is blowing my phone up with nasty messages and stuff as to why I had not called. I never returned her calls so about 2 days later she is knocking on my door (apparently followed me me home after the dinner) I didnt give her my address. I didnt answer the door so she started blowing the car horn for like 15 min I called the cops. She later called and left more nasty messages I guess I shouldnt of been nice to her to begin with learnd my lesson. Stalking shit is not fun and Tape never talk to neighbors. I dont even know mine... 8)
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: JimmyJam1974 on July 10, 2010, 06:04:10 AM
Tape - where you at geographically?
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: DK II on July 10, 2010, 06:43:13 AM
Tape - where you at geographically?

Dude, he already has a stalker, i doubt he needs more.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: JimmyJam1974 on July 10, 2010, 06:53:48 AM
Dude, he already has a stalker, i doubt he needs more.
Just give me a postal code  :D
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: chaos on July 10, 2010, 05:30:35 PM
I had a couple of stalkers before one of them I met this girl on the internet. So to protect my self upfront I met her at restaurant, she was fat as hell nothing as she told me or her pics revealed. So I was nice talked her and shit even paid for dinner told her I would call her I didnt want to be a asshole fat people have feelings too. So I didnt call her in about 3 days she is blowing my phone up with nasty messages and stuff as to why I had not called. I never returned her calls so about 2 days later she is knocking on my door (apparently followed me me home after the dinner) I didnt give her my address. I didnt answer the door so she started blowing the car horn for like 15 min I called the cops. She later called and left more nasty messages I guess I shouldnt of been nice to her to begin with learnd my lesson. Stalking shit is not fun and Tape never talk to neighbors. I dont even know mine... 8)
You should have fucked her, she would have stayed away after that.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: newmom on July 10, 2010, 05:31:49 PM
You should have fucked her, she would have stayed away after that.

 ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: CalvinH on July 10, 2010, 06:20:28 PM
You should have fucked her, she would have stayed away after that.


 ;D
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Tapeworm on July 10, 2010, 08:38:01 PM
I had a couple of stalkers before one of them I met this girl on the internet. So to protect my self upfront I met her at restaurant, she was fat as hell nothing as she told me or her pics revealed. So I was nice talked her and shit even paid for dinner told her I would call her I didnt want to be a asshole fat people have feelings too. So I didnt call her in about 3 days she is blowing my phone up with nasty messages and stuff as to why I had not called. I never returned her calls so about 2 days later she is knocking on my door (apparently followed me me home after the dinner) I didnt give her my address. I didnt answer the door so she started blowing the car horn for like 15 min I called the cops. She later called and left more nasty messages I guess I shouldnt of been nice to her to begin with learnd my lesson. Stalking shit is not fun and Tape never talk to neighbors. I dont even know mine... 8)

Dude, that sucks.  I agree, it all starts because you're just trying to be polite.  It's scary dealing with a woman doing this shit because you know if things get physical and there's no witnesses then you're probably going to get arrested even though you're the victim.  You did the right thing by not opening the door.  That's the plan. 

Tape - where you at geographically?

Perth, Australia.  Land of the loopy.
Title: Re: Need Advice....
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 10, 2010, 08:52:48 PM
Dude, that sucks.  I agree, it all starts because you're just trying to be polite.  It's scary dealing with a woman doing this shit because you know if things get physical and there's no witnesses then you're probably going to get arrested even though you're the victim.  You did the right thing by not opening the door.  That's the plan. 

Perth, Australia.  Land of the loopy.
Being nice nowdays will get you in trouble, I remember your trying to help someone in a parking lot at a store turned into a nightmare, I quit trying.