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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: bearn8v on September 29, 2010, 08:59:04 PM
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Ok have a problem. How do I get my wife to go to the gym with me she keeps sayin she will but never goes through with it. She is gaining a little weight but not horrible. She keeps sayin she needs to work on her legs stomach and butt. I've asked her repeatedly to go. I'm not an ass so the blunt aproach is out any hints ladies ??
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Tell her she's fat.
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Ok have a problem. How do I get my wife to go to the gym with me she keeps sayin she will but never goes through with it. She is gaining a little weight but not horrible. She keeps sayin she needs to work on her legs stomach and butt. I've asked her repeatedly to go. I'm not an ass so the blunt aproach is out any hints ladies ??
Maybe you could tell her there is a girl at the gym w/great legs, stomach and butt (if there is) and maybe she could help her.
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How do I get my wife to go to the gym with me...
Get a new wife.
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Get a new wife.
Yep, at least with GFs that was the only thing that worked.
Look, if she doesn't want to work out then she won't.
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Tell her I go there... ;D
Failing that go with Clavins idea
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Ok have a problem. How do I get my wife to go to the gym with me she keeps sayin she will but never goes through with it. She is gaining a little weight but not horrible. She keeps sayin she needs to work on her legs stomach and butt. I've asked her repeatedly to go. I'm not an ass so the blunt aproach is out any hints ladies ??
good for you for wanting to be nice about it :)
I'd say
" I really enjoy being with you .... can't you please just come with me for the company and have a look see ? ... if you don't feel comfortable working out that'll be fine .. but I think you'll see there's people in worse shape than you that are there ... I'd like it if this could be something we can enjoy together lovey "
good luck to you both :)
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good for you for wanting to be nice about it :)
I'd say
" I really enjoy being with you .... can't you please just come with me for the company and have a look see ? ... if you don't feel comfortable working out that'll be fine .. but I think you'll see there's people in worse shape than you that are there ... I'd like it if this could be something we can enjoy together lovey "
good luck to you both :)
That is great! Except maybe re-word this part?
. but I think you'll see there's people in worse shape than you that are there ...
Plus if he tells her there is another chick there that looks great she may want to go to "protect her territory"
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@w8m8. Thankyou sounds pretty good since she is a lil sappy bout things. @ butterbean. Thankyou as well some rewording would help lol and ys she would protect and I mean literally. No quotes.
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Go home and brag about all the hotties throwing themselves at you on a daily basis. Your wife will then be at the gym for hours a day.
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have you tried hitting her?
bench
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@andyG that might actually work if I was any level of hot but sadly just a big dude with a cute face lol
@Bench man you crack me up with most of your posts but I dont hit females dude sorry. Thanks for tryin though
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@andyG that might actually work if I was any level of hot but sadly just a big dude with a cute face lol
@Bench man you crack me up with most of your posts but I dont hit females dude sorry. Thanks for tryin though
so you are denying women their equal rights?
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so you are denying women their equal rights?
bench
I never thought of it that way. Hmmmm maybe I should start. ;D
Dam I'm getting into this getbig persona crap.
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I never thought of it that way. Hmmmm maybe I should start. ;D
Dam I'm getting into this getbig persona crap.
Scientifically speaking... Has not hitting a bitch worked out for you.
;)
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@andyG that might actually work if I was any level of hot but sadly just a big dude with a cute face lol
@Bench man you crack me up with most of your posts but I dont hit females dude sorry. Thanks for tryin though
Do you find it ok for females to hit males? just curious...
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Do you find it ok for females to hit males? just curious...
off topic:
do you find it ok for males to walk away from all responsibilities to their children?
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Do you find it ok for females to hit males? just curious...
no. My #3 rule. .. ill never raise my hand to you and I expect the same.
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off topic:
do you find it ok for males to walk away from all responsibilities to their children?
Uhm, no. Why on earth would you ask me that?
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off topic:
do you find it ok for males to walk away from all responsibilities to their children?
I don't believe this was directed at me but wanted to answer.
These kinda generalizations aggravate me cause of what I had to do to get my son so here goes.
No. I have custody of my son after 5 years of DHS trying to keep him with his meth head mother.
Do you think its ok for a female to keep her child only to use him for child support, taxes, and foodstamps ??
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Uhm, no. Why on earth would you ask me that?
b/c for some reason you feel its ok for women to have the right to shirk their responsibility and have an abortion...
kinda funny that you give them the right but not the man...
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I don't believe this was directed at me but wanted to answer.
These kinda generalizations aggravate me cause of what I had to do to get my son so here goes.
No. I have custody of my son after 5 years of DHS trying to keep him with his meth head mother.
Do you think its ok for a female to keep her child only to use him for child support, taxes, and foodstamps ??
I wasnt saying that i feel men should be able to walk away but in terms of equal rights/treatment which is what deicide was hinting at men get the shaft in that department as you undoubtedly know...
I think if you give the woman the right to walk away via abortion then you need to give the man the same right as well...
dont even get me started on custody bs in Tx I live in Houston and have a buddy who had a child out of wedlock with a chick and see first hand the BS that he goes through its so one sided its not even funny and she uses their child as a pawn man its downright sickening.
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Yes it is. Hope your friend gets what's best in the end. I had to finally find a judge that actually looked at the files. Rather than just saw mother vs father and go with mother.
Didn't help any that the ex in-laws were hooked up with the county.
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its downright sickening.
Yes it is. Hope your friend gets what's best in the end. I had to finally find a judge that actually looked at the files. Rather than just saw mother vs father and go with mother.
Didn't help any that the ex in-laws were hooked up with the county.
he originally tried to work it out without going to court but it didnt work out for him. Anytime he did something she didnt like(he has been in a relationship and the mother wanted to get together with him) she would withhold the child. He finally took her to court and he kept record b/c he was paying her money for support since the child was born. They gave him I think 2 days/one night a week which is still bogus if you ask me. She is so passive aggressive and manipulating its freaking horrible she tales their child that she doesnt like the girl he is with and the child inturn unknowingly tells that person and thats not even on the map of bad stuff this broad has done, so freaking childish man I swear
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Me and my ex split on decent terms (everything ends bad) my problems started when she foundout the "benefits" of having custody. Dhs help welfare or whatever its called now. All that got stuck in her head was money and free shit. Then found out she was using meth and the guy she was dating was dealing. My boy would come home for the weekend and tell me "mama got put in jail" and all kinds of other stuff. I started really pursuing full custody and every judge or lawyer I ran into knew her mom or grandpa. I live in a rural part of Oklahoma so that family crap still has a lot of pull around here.
Tell your friend not to give up if he keeps tryin the courts will notice. And will eventually start workin for him instead of against.
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Me and my ex split on decent terms (everything ends bad) my problems started when she foundout the "benefits" of having custody. Dhs help welfare or whatever its called now. All that got stuck in her head was money and free shit. Then found out she was using meth and the guy she was dating was dealing. My boy would come home for the weekend and tell me "mama got put in jail" and all kinds of other stuff. I started really pursuing full custody and every judge or lawyer I ran into knew her mom or grandpa. I live in a rural part of Oklahoma so that family crap still has a lot of pull around here.
Tell your friend not to give up if he keeps tryin the courts will notice. And will eventually start workin for him instead of against.
glad to hear you have custody now no kid deserves to go through stuff like that man.
ya he is staying with it and I think the courts are starting to work a little more in his favor now. The original custody agreement was around a year ago or so and I think they have to renegotiate the terms here pretty soon or maybe it was in the original agreement that after a year or so he gets more rights...
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Cool good to hear keep me posted I like to hear when good people win
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I wasnt saying that i feel men should be able to walk away but in terms of equal rights/treatment which is what deicide was hinting at men get the shaft in that department as you undoubtedly know...
I think if you give the woman the right to walk away via abortion then you need to give the man the same right as well...
dont even get me started on custody bs in Tx I live in Houston and have a buddy who had a child out of wedlock with a chick and see first hand the BS that he goes through its so one sided its not even funny and she uses their child as a pawn man its downright sickening.
Tony, no doubt a lot of women are evil when it comes to children. I have a friend whose ex tricked him and get got pregnant and tells him to this day the kid is only there to torment him and trap him. Lovely people.
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Ok have a problem. How do I get my wife to go to the gym with me she keeps sayin she will but never goes through with it. She is gaining a little weight but not horrible. She keeps sayin she needs to work on her legs stomach and butt. I've asked her repeatedly to go. I'm not an ass so the blunt aproach is out any hints ladies ??
Coax her into joing the gym and you can workout at the same time or together. You do your stuff and she does hers.
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Maybe you could tell her there is a girl at the gym w/great legs, stomach and butt (if there is) and maybe she could help her.
And then get a stopwatch to time the miliseconds from palm to face!!