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Worth it only if you`re into phone sex!!
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One of the reasons it didnt work out for me bro...ill pm you the longer explanation later!!
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Did it for a very long time....
She's now my wife!
Its not easy AT ALL.... NEED TRUST, and LOTS of communication!
When I did it, Skype and all that wasn't big either, and there were shitty long distance plans!
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Did it for a very long time....
She's now my wife!
Its not easy AT ALL.... NEED TRUST, and LOTS of communication!
When I did it, Skype and all that wasn't big either, and there were shitty long distance plans!
How often did you talk? Seems to me without a common day to day routine there is no need to talk that much.
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Not unless you can watch tv from distance of up to 500 feet away.
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How often did you talk? Seems to me without a common day to day routine there is no need to talk that much.
Everyday for hours sometimes. I remember a few sundays, we were talking from like 10 am to midnight non stop! She was in Florida and I was in DC for many years!
The last year before we got married, she was in Florida and I was in EGYPT!!!! We didnt talk as much then because of the time difference!
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I live in Cali, my wife lived in Guam....we're now married.
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Worked out great for my sis, her previously Chicago based boyfriend is now her Oslo based husband.
Snakker han norsk? ???
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Everyday for hours sometimes. I remember a few sundays, we were talking from like 10 am to midnight non stop! She was in Florida and I was in DC for many years!
The last year before we got married, she was in Florida and I was in EGYPT!!!! We didnt talk as much then because of the time difference!
Weird. I can't imagine what you talked about the whole time. Engineering?
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Weird. I can't imagine what you talked about the whole time. Engineering?
LOL looking back it also seems a bit weird to me now too!!! But those conversations were great man!!! I dunno we talked about everything man!
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Not really, just some very basic words/phrases..
No offence but that is really sad. I mean, Norwegian is an insanely easy language to learn compared to many...why doesn't he try or how long has he been there?
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LOL looking back it also seems a bit weird to me now too!!! But those conversations were great man!!! I dunno we talked about everything man!
Weird. My gf isn't really a big talker. I think that is her way and in any event I am not sure what we would talk about if we talked all the time.
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Everyday for hours sometimes. I remember a few sundays, we were talking from like 10 am to midnight non stop! She was in Florida and I was in DC for many years!
The last year before we got married, she was in Florida and I was in EGYPT!!!! We didnt talk as much then because of the time difference!
great post ..
I live in Cali, my wife lived in Guam....we're now married.
Even though you've been through a few "relationships" before Coach .. do you feel this is different than your previous ones ? and was there any advantage /disadvantage of it being long distance ?
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If my girlfriend/wife was far-far away from me for weeks or months, I'd be tempted to hit fine ass hoes on my "lonely" nights... :-\
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If my girlfriend/wife was far-far away from me for weeks or months, I'd be tempted to hit fine ass hoes on my "lonely" nights... :-\
No way man. If you find a girl who is quality you know that even if and when you lust (it happens to us all), it ain't worth going beyond what is in your thoughts.
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I don't take offence to it, I think it is weird that he hasn't made more of an effort. He's been here for a couple of years now so there really is no excuse, I guess he's fine with it because most of us speak english well.
Wow, that is sad. If I were living in Norway for years I guarantee I would be fluent by that time. Doesn't your sister want him to learn?
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Weird. I can't imagine what you talked about the whole time. Engineering?
He's a muslim cleary, 1/3rd of his time was targets, 1/3rd was how weak and gullable the infedels are, and the remainder how many kids they have upon there invasion of the American heartland.
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He's a muslim cleary, 1/3rd of his time was targets, 1/3rd was how weak and gullable the infedels are, and the remainder how many kids they have upon there invasion of the American heartland.
You forgot breaking for prayer 5 times a day! ;D
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Maybe use webcams?
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Maybe use webcams?
yeeeep
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You forgot breaking for prayer 5 times a day! ;D
Dam it you know us too well.
Seriously though I tried it failed big time. We lasted 6 weeks, we broke up two days after valentine days, fucking sucked dick.
She was in england 3.5 hours away, and would stay up all night I got up too early, bad mix. She got all depressed and lonely, I got impatient and horny. Worst part is the breakup was dragged out from january to June. It kinda sucked alot of wasted time would of been way better off if we just ended in december. Got super depressed and shit since and haven't got laid for 5 months. Back on the prowell now though so all is good.
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Dam it you know us too well.
Seriously though I tried it failed big time. We lasted 6 weeks, we broke up two days after valentine days, fucking sucked dick.
She was in england 3.5 hours away, and would stay up all night I got up too early, bad mix. She got all depressed and lonely, I got impatient and horny. Worst part is the breakup was dragged out from january to June. It kinda sucked alot of wasted time would of been way better off if we just ended in december. Got super depressed and shit since and haven't got laid for 5 months. Back on the prowell now though so all is good.
Glad to hear of your recovery bro! Leave no prisoners! ;)
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great post ..
Even though you've been through a few "relationships" before Coach .. do you feel this is different than your previous ones ? and was there any advantage /disadvantage of it being long distance ?
The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.
Wife 1 - Adopted to older parents, her parents were in their late 50's and early 60's when she was 20. Eventually found out she was gay.
Wife 2 - Parents divorced when she was 14-15, mom and dad both had affairs, she had an affair on me.
Wife 3 - Both parents deceased, she is bi-polar, here mom was severely bipolar/manic. She had affairs on me.
Wife 4 - 100% stable, parents been married for over 30 years, strong family values and support.
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If you don't mind her screwing other dudes behind your back (like Coach and Big Ach) it is possible .
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The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.
Given your obsessive and overly agressive nature, do you think that might have some effect on your current situation, furthermore do your father in law demonstrate any of the overly aggreasive behaviour that you so often exhibit.
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If you don't mind her screwing other dudes behind your back (like Coach and Big Ach) it is possible .
Being that far away you can tell (always) just by the tone in their voices if they have been cheating or not. Plus my wife has strong Christian values (which is the main reason why are marriage is strong now).
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Given your obsessive and overly agressive nature, do you think that might have some effect on your current situation, furthermore do your father in law demonstrate any of the overly aggreasive behaviour that you so often exhibit.
LOL...what?
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Being that far away you can tell (always) just by the tone in their voices if they have been cheating or not.
Hahhahaa, OK Coach ;D
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I wouldn't do it
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If you don't mind her screwing other dudes behind your back (like Coach and Big Ach) it is possible .
she could be only 5 miles away from you and screw other dudes behind your back anyway
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LOL...what?
No reply, figures.
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she could be only 5 miles away from you and screw other dudes behind your back anyway
she could be living with you and screwing the mail man every day when you're at work!
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she could be living with you and screwing the mail man every day when you're at work!
exactly bro !
honnestly, I have a hard time trusting a woman, but once I do, I do.
My philosophy is: if she does, well I will probably know about it sometime in the futur, and when I do, I will have no problem dumping her and getting myself another chick.
I have been with my girl for only a month now, so it will take a few months to learn to trust her but I am not jealous so it's no biggy. But I am not to the point where she could say " I am going to vacations for 2 weeks with my friends" and me 100% sure she won't be fucking anybody like it was the case with my ex.
I don't know her well enough yet
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i don't see the point
why not hook up with somebody that's more convenient?
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Bizarrement j'ai une confiance absolue en elle, alors qu'elle est fidele a moi....c'est la nature de son caractere. Non, nous avons d'autres problems.
exactly bro !
honnestly, I have a hard time trusting a woman, but once I do, I do.
My philosophy is: if she does, well I will probably know about it sometime in the futur, and when I do, I will have no problem dumping her and getting myself another chick.
I have been with my girl for only a month now, so it will take a few months to learn to trust her but I am not jealous so it's no biggy. But I am not to the point where she could say " I am going to vacations for 2 weeks with my friends" and me 100% sure she won't be fucking anybody like it was the case with my ex.
I don't know her well enough yet
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if she swallows, its worth it. ;D
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The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.
Wife 1 - Adopted to older parents, her parents were in their late 50's and early 60's when she was 20. Eventually found out she was gay.
Wife 2 - Parents divorced when she was 14-15, mom and dad both had affairs, she had an affair on me.
Wife 3 - Both parents deceased, she is bi-polar, here mom was severely bipolar/manic. She had affairs on me.
Wife 4 - 100% stable, parents been married for over 30 years, strong family values and support.
Wife 5- coming soon!
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The biggest difference between my wife and the others is family stability. It took me three times to finally figure this out. my previous "relationships" all came from unstable families meaning their families (mother and father) we're either divorced, sick or deceased. I came from a stable household, mom and dad were married for 24 years before my dad passed (I was 23) both had stable jobs, grew up in the same house since I was 6, etc,etc. The others (except my current wife) didn't have that. Now I'm not saying some of wasn't brought on by me but typically when problems arise in a stable relationship, they can usually be worked out.
Wife 1 - Adopted to older parents, her parents were in their late 50's and early 60's when she was 20. Eventually found out she was gay.
Wife 2 - Parents divorced when she was 14-15, mom and dad both had affairs, she had an affair on me.
Wife 3 - Both parents deceased, she is bi-polar, here mom was severely bipolar/manic. She had affairs on me.
Wife 4 - 100% stable, parents been married for over 30 years, strong family values and support.
a friend that keep marry 4 times,, it is somethign that is wrong with him not with the girls,, you are a nice fella when it coe to internet board,,btu in reality since i know the in and outs of the cult,,we both know that the type of female you chose depend on you ,,and its your responsibility to make sure you go with good girls,,you dont make mistakes 4 times in a raw unless something is wrong with the person,,what is wrong with person? usually they are addicted to something,,in your case it was hormones and the idea of becomgin best bodybuilder,,many locals are like that ,,like i know that you woudnt even enter a gym with out something in yoru system but you claim to be completly clean ,,,for how long? 2 weeks? lol
reality is bodybuilder and anyone to do with strength srpots are liars of the 10th degree,,you would shrink into 170 so fast with out anything in the system lol that you woont be able to say jack,,and if not shrinking would sit at a nicely 22-25% bf which you are not,,bloated yes! high bodyfat no!
so like with hormones like with females,,the problems were mostlikley at the least 50-75% your fault ,,but its true to many in the cult so no worries
gh15 approved
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a friend that keep marry 4 times,, it is somethign that is wrong with him not with the girls,, you are a nice fella when it coe to internet board,,btu in reality since i know the in and outs of the cult,,we both know that the type of female you chose depend on you ,,and its your responsibility to make sure you go with good girls,,you dont make mistakes 4 times in a raw unless something is wrong with the person,,what is wrong with person? usually they are addicted to something,,in your case it was hormones and the idea of becomgin best bodybuilder,,many locals are like that ,,like i know that you woudnt even enter a gym with out something in yoru system but you claim to be completly clean ,,,for how long? 2 weeks? lol
reality is bodybuilder and anyone to do with strength srpots are liars of the 10th degree,,you would shrink into 170 so fast with out anything in the system lol that you woont be able to say jack,,and if not shrinking would sit at a nicely 22-25% bf which you are not,,bloated yes! high bodyfat no!
so like with hormones like with females,,the problems were mostlikley at the least 50-75% your fault ,,but its true to many in the cult so no worries
gh15 approved
Are you saying that coach is going to have a 5th wife?
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decide,
Didn't you post recently you were driving back from your gf's house in Brooklyn. If so, then what do you consider long distance
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decide,
Didn't you post recently you were driving back from your gf's house in Brooklyn. If so, then what do you consider long distance
I am in London, she is in NYC.
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Depends on the distance if you can get together on the weekends its all good then you dont get the shit worried out of you everyday. Otherwise they suck.
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Depends on the distance if you can get together on the weekends its all good then you dont get the shit worried out of you everyday. Otherwise they suck.
Well, the good thing is that I have a lot of trust in my gf so worrying is really a big deal. Sometimes I worry about the long term stuff but for the moment there is nothing she or I can do.
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I am in London, she is in NYC.
oh okay, when you posted you were driving back I thought you lived in NYC.
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I am in London, she is in NYC.
Dayum.
Well I wouldn't do it.
If I knew they guy well before he went away, maybe.
Your mileage may vary.
8)
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a friend that keep marry 4 times,, it is somethign that is wrong with him not with the girls,, you are a nice fella when it coe to internet board,,btu in reality since i know the in and outs of the cult,,we both know that the type of female you chose depend on you ,,and its your responsibility to make sure you go with good girls,,you dont make mistakes 4 times in a raw unless something is wrong with the person,,what is wrong with person? usually they are addicted to something,,in your case it was hormones and the idea of becomgin best bodybuilder,,many locals are like that ,,like i know that you woudnt even enter a gym with out something in yoru system but you claim to be completly clean ,,,for how long? 2 weeks? lol
reality is bodybuilder and anyone to do with strength srpots are liars of the 10th degree,,you would shrink into 170 so fast with out anything in the system lol that you woont be able to say jack,,and if not shrinking would sit at a nicely 22-25% bf which you are not,,bloated yes! high bodyfat no!
so like with hormones like with females,,the problems were mostlikley at the least 50-75% your fault ,,but its true to many in the cult so no worries
gh15 approved
Trying to decode your post is damn near impossible, that being said I had to study it hard to figure it out.
1. I didn't say it was all of their faults (exept for #3). The rest followed the traits of the parents.
2. I train almost everyday and the days I don't go, I train in my garage (which is better anyway)
3. Been clean for 3 years from EVERYTHING.
4. Couldn't get to 170 if I wanted to.
You're slipping in the accuracy of your posts. To say someone would get to "170" when coming off gear is the most assnine thing I've read from you.
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Well it depends on your goals with the relationship. If you're going to get serious, then you will need to ask yourself "Are you willing to move for this person".
The people I have had long distance relationships with have never gotten to the point of being REALLY SERIOUS.
If you're going to be allowed to see other people: Really be up front and honest about it. If you expect TOTAL monogamy....be really clear about that as well.
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Chaos lives in Cali and I live on the east coast but it works.
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The whole point of being together is to be together. ::)
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The whole point of being together is to be together. ::)
I understand what you're saying but it doesn't always work that way.what about soldiers and sailors that go overseas ???.
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I understand what you're saying but it doesn't always work that way.what about soldiers and sailors that go overseas ???.
What about it? That is why it is called a sacrifice and a service to your country. Repeated and extended deployments destroy marriages.
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What about it? That is why it is called a sacrifice and a service to your country. Repeated and extended deployments destroy marriages.
Oh well,I guess we'll agree to disagree :)
....the only reason I brought it up is because years ago I met a girl on vacation.we had a long distance relationship for a year before she ended up moving in with me.....after a few years it didn't work out but to this day I don't regret it.
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My wife and I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and then we got married 3 years later! Today I get to stay at home and pretty much do what I want because I stuck with it. I have a cool life.
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Are you saying that coach is going to have a 5th wife?
And he's gonna have to find another excuse when #4 goes down the toilet. ;D
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Waste of time.
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The whole point of being together is to be together. ::)
I respect you a lot Bay but sometimes things don't work out exactly the way we want. I was already destined for London well in advance of meeting my gf so we both knew about that and one day I hope to be closer but right now my current course of studies is important and I am paying a lot of money for it all so...
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And he's gonna have to find another excuse when #4 goes down the toilet. ;D
Trust me dude, if that ever happend I wouldn't be getting married ever again.
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Trust me dude, if that ever happend I wouldn't be getting married ever again.
x4=lesson learnt? ???
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Chaos lives in Cali and I live on the east coast but it works.
dumb dorks were texting on casino night..
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Oh well,I guess we'll agree to disagree :)
....the only reason I brought it up is because years ago I met a girl on vacation.we had a long distance relationship for a year before she ended up moving in with me.....after a few years it didn't work out but to this day I don't regret it.
I'm blamming your cat.
Seriously, sad to hear that
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Don't tell me you're one of those filthy Arsenal fans Deicide ????
No, completely indifferent to football. Tribalism and savagery at its best.
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x4=lesson learnt? ???
Yeah yeah..I know :-\
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texting changed everything. A guy can go to take a leak, and quickly text his mistress to wait another 10 minutes before arriving because the wife is running late for work.
text messaging has destroyed the fabric of american marriage.
oh, and porn too.
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texting changed everything. A guy can go to take a leak, and quickly text his mistress to wait another 10 minutes before arriving because the wife is running late for work.
text messaging has destroyed the fabric of american marriage.
oh, and porn too.
Porn? how did porn destroy marriage?
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No, it is not.
Of course it is. Human beings are tribal animals and you see quite a bit of that manifested in football 'fans' in their opposition to other teams and in particular in their opposition to other people merely for having a different preference. It's idiotic.
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Ok dude, I guess chess is more your thing.
No, but when people beat and murder people because they don't support the same team, it's pretty stupid and barbaric. Wouldn't you agree?
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What is that, a one in a billion example? Pretty stupid generalization dude.
Hardly.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Football_hooliganism
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I did this a long time ago. Had a girlfriend living 400 miles away. It completely sucks. Nothing good about it. Very unhealthy.
If you have a girlfriend, being about to see her in person is essential.