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Title: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Butterbean on November 11, 2010, 02:10:30 PM
For instance, if you friend was talking about a friend of hers that always wore some pants that looked terrible and then your friend told you, "If I ever wear anything that looks terrible on me, please tell me!"

Would you
1) say OK but never tell her

2) say, "Remember that shirt you had on at the ____ party?"  and then make a cringing face
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: benchmstr on November 11, 2010, 03:13:03 PM
For instance, if you friend was talking about a friend of hers that always wore some pants that looked terrible and then your friend told you, "If I ever wear anything that looks terrible on me, please tell me!"

Would you
1) say OK but never tell her

2) say, "Remember that shirt you had on at the ____ party?"  and then make a cringing face
the very few people on this planet that i consider my friends, are considered friends for that exact reason......i have friends that have got on a plane, flown halfway across the planet just to tell me how fucking stupid i am for doing certain things...

bench
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Migs on November 11, 2010, 03:22:33 PM
2
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: w8m8 on November 11, 2010, 03:34:55 PM
2

 ;D




Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Princess L on November 11, 2010, 06:20:07 PM
For better or worse, I'm pretty brutally honest.  Men seem to be much more sensitive about the honesty.
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: benchmstr on November 11, 2010, 09:16:33 PM
For better or worse, I'm pretty brutally honest.  Men seem to be much more sensitive about the honesty.
its cause all the men you know are old, and have declining T counts...

bench
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: tonymctones on November 11, 2010, 09:22:26 PM
For instance, if you friend was talking about a friend of hers that always wore some pants that looked terrible and then your friend told you, "If I ever wear anything that looks terrible on me, please tell me!"

Would you
1) say OK but never tell her

2) say, "Remember that shirt you had on at the ____ party?"  and then make a cringing face
iono I think that while of course certain things dont look good on ppl its more of how you carry yourself that ppl percieve than anything else. Although some ppl carry themselves in a way that isnt conducive to certain clothes I guess.

I generally tell my close friends if they are dressed in a certain way i find bad but my close friends seem to have pretty good self esteem so they tell me Im wrong  :P :D until others tell them the same thing I did   ;D
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: 24KT on November 12, 2010, 01:09:34 AM
For instance, if you friend was talking about a friend of hers that always wore some pants that looked terrible and then your friend told you, "If I ever wear anything that looks terrible on me, please tell me!"

Would you
1) say OK but never tell her

2) say, "Remember that shirt you had on at the ____ party?"  and then make a cringing face

It depends on the person. Some people say they'd want to know, ...but don't really.
Others say they want to know, ...and really want to know.

It completely depends on the person because some people really can't handle the truth.

What really bugs me are people who say they want to know, but don't really.
If you don't want to know, ...keep your mouth shut and don't make me waste my time or hurt your feelings by telling you.
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Butterbean on November 12, 2010, 05:53:26 AM
It depends on the person.

Agree.



The person who asked it really did want to know...she got #2 and got rid of the shirt.
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: BayGBM on November 12, 2010, 06:25:11 AM
Would you tell your friend if you knew the spouse was cheating?
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Butterbean on November 12, 2010, 06:32:37 AM
Would you tell your friend if you knew the spouse was cheating?

OOO that could be a tough one...that would also depend on the friend and the situation.   You'd also have to know 100% if the spouse was cheating...and that the friend would want to know....then maybe approach the cheater and give them a chance to come clean first... I don't know..there are many variables you'd have to consider.   

How about you..would you tell?
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: benchmstr on November 12, 2010, 01:56:51 PM
OOO that could be a tough one...that would also depend on the friend and the situation.   You'd also have to know 100% if the spouse was cheating...and that the friend would want to know....then maybe approach the cheater and give them a chance to come clean first... I don't know..there are many variables you'd have to consider.   

How about you..would you tell?
of course.....i have...not 1 person i have ever told has believed me either.....and all but one has regretted it later..

bench
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: BayGBM on November 12, 2010, 04:32:38 PM
Obviously it depends but generally speaking, no, I would not tell.  It is not my business and I don't know what the nature of their relationship is.  Maybe they are open?  Maybe they are swingers?  Maybe they have an arrangement of some sort?  Again, it is not my business.  It would depend greatly on which of them I was friends with too.  I know a few guys who "cheat" but my friendship is with them--not their spouse. :-\
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Migs on November 12, 2010, 05:47:58 PM
i would as long as i knew it to  be true
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Princess L on November 14, 2010, 12:20:41 PM
its cause all the men you know are old, and have declining T counts...

bench

You've been awfully sensitive lately.  You've fallen into the above category  ???
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: benchmstr on November 15, 2010, 05:47:36 PM
You've been awfully sensitive lately.  You've fallen into the above category  ???
negative....actually the count was higher than normal on my last visit...

bench
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Migs on November 15, 2010, 05:50:09 PM
I flushed away some T

 :'(
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Playboy on November 19, 2010, 08:43:49 AM
For instance, if you friend was talking about a friend of hers that always wore some pants that looked terrible and then your friend told you, "If I ever wear anything that looks terrible on me, please tell me!"

Would you
1) say OK but never tell her

2) say, "Remember that shirt you had on at the ____ party?"  and then make a cringing face
Never tell anyone your own private, personal business. Rule of thumb.
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Migs on November 21, 2010, 06:40:37 PM
i called a friend a fucktard today
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Playboy on November 22, 2010, 05:06:04 AM
i called a friend a fucktard today
Lol....and what did that friend call you?  :)
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: CalvinH on November 22, 2010, 05:13:40 AM
Pretty damn honest.
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Migs on November 22, 2010, 07:29:35 PM
Lol....and what did that friend call you?  :)

nothing just shook his head and agreed, lol
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on November 23, 2010, 05:07:12 PM
i'm 99% honest with my guy friends....

i dont have any friends that r girls except my girlie...

she is my best friend and the only girl friend .

Anymore and i'd consider myself to have too much time on my hands
Title: Re: How honest are you with your friends?
Post by: Andy Griffin on November 29, 2010, 06:10:20 PM
2

 ;D






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