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I posted about this in the Ronnie (Jersey Shore) thread. That many of us tend to eventually pick what we "think" we are...
Do you agree with these vids?
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html)
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html)
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I posted about this in the Ronnie (Jersey Shore) thread. That many of us tend to eventually pick what we "think" we are...
Do you agree with these vids?
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html)
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html)
womens number system wether they are 5's, 6's or 10's etc, is determined most of the time by their looks alone. Men, good looks is about 30% of the whole judging system in the end. There are exceptions but every exception only veryfies the rule.
And again... lol I have to mention about the dancing ;D.. do you all realise how fed up women are dancing with themselves on the dancefloor? They dance so they get attention, now, take a guy who "knows how todance", it's just like in nature, male birds dance to female birds to "show their stuff".
Now I say again, I, devilsmile, do not know how to dance :D, I'm JUST saying, if you knew how to dance like michael jackson, I guarantee that no matter how poor you are, you get the dimes.
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Men dancing is gay unless your a dancing bear in front of a girls gaping wide mouth.
Interesting set of videos though. I wonder about the pheremone thing. Some days girls flock without me even trying while wearing sweatpants and a t shirt. Life is usually good and there is an 'air' about me. Confidence but not cockiness. Then there are times like lately getting over a bitch that I am mopey.. The attraction to me just isn't the same I sense it. That makes my mopeyness even worse. Wish there was some sort of happy pill or switch to hit that would just make the other me come back.
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I posted about this in the Ronnie (Jersey Shore) thread. That many of us tend to eventually pick what we "think" we are...
Do you agree with these vids?
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html)
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html)
I'm a stripper ???
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i think it's true for the most part
people aren't going to settle for less than what they think they deserve, the star athlete/singer is always with a hot cheerleader/model, the band geek is with the band geek, fat ugly guy that stocks shelves at walmart is with fat ugly cashier at wal mart
i think most women know where they rank when it comes to their looks, some are delusional but i think most know instinctively
women aren't going to show much interest in a much better looking guy, a rosie o'donnel look alike is not going to hand her phone number out of the blue to some brad pitt look alike, unless she's drunk out of her mind
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it's natural selection. People following reassuring, original patterns... You can only be sucessful dating people of your "level" and who share personality/physical traits with the persons you knew in the past.
http://thomasslater.blogspot.com/
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Men dancing is gay unless your a dancing bear in front of a girls gaping wide mouth. e back.
i LOVE that site but you would have to be a complete FOOL to think that any of that stuff is real
All the women in it are either paid actresses or women aspiring to get in the porn business
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hell with all of you... I'm gonna try these catch phrases next time I'm going out 8)
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it's natural selection. People following reassuring, original patterns... You can only be sucessful dating people of your "level" and who share personality/physical traits with the persons you knew in the past.
http://thomasslater.blogspot.com/
Quite true....i generally attract women who are thoughtful, "womanly", caretakers, earthy, curvy, intelligent, emotional, and mysterious...I share a kinship with such women. Women who are stuck up, care about the latest fashions, golddiggers, always careing about going out and being seen---i don't attract them.
i think it's true for the most part
people aren't going to settle for less than what they think they deserve, the star athlete/singer is always with a hot cheerleader/model, the band geek is with the band geek, fat ugly guy that stocks shelves at walmart is with fat ugly cashier at wal mart
i think most women know where they rank when it comes to their looks, some are delusional but i think most know instinctively
women aren't going to show much interest in a much better looking guy, a rosie o'donnel look alike is not going to hand her phone number out of the blue to some brad pitt look alike, unless she's drunk out of her mind
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Quite true...
Although the woman in the second vid could have "scored" higher.
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i think it's true for the most part
people aren't going to settle for less than what they think they deserve, the star athlete/singer is always with a hot cheerleader/model, the band geek is with the band geek, fat ugly guy that stocks shelves at walmart is with fat ugly cashier at wal mart
i think most women know where they rank when it comes to their looks, some are delusional but i think most know instinctively
women aren't going to show much interest in a much better looking guy, a rosie o'donnel look alike is not going to hand her phone number out of the blue to some brad pitt look alike, unless she's drunk out of her mind
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lol funny but true.
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I posted about this in the Ronnie (Jersey Shore) thread. That many of us tend to eventually pick what we "think" we are...
Do you agree with these vids?
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html)
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html)
It's pretty accurate.
One thing he misses but touches on indirectly (i guess by not living as a ten or close) is that when you are a 9 or 10 you are not going to get the same amount of attention or offers because most people think you are out of their league. I would put a 6 as the one to get the most offers. Because people who are between a 4-8 would consider them a mate and most people would be in that range.
Once you get to be a 9 or 10 lets face it, there's no-one above you, and not many people at your level. You are limited and the ones below you might not be interested because they think you have a multiple of offers.
In top shape i only attract the hard body girls. Which is not as attractive to me as a girl with more fat ie. curves. But they think they are too fat ::) due to the bullshit modeling world telling them that.
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The biggest issue is confidence. Many people, both men and women are very intimidated to approach someone they are interested in.
Dancing and knowing how to bust a move is not a necessity. I knew lots of guys that grabbed tons of pussy and all they did was stand by the bar and look pretty because they had the muscle, the threads and the look women liked.
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i know i lucked out because i ain't nothin special and i married a colombian beauty - the proverbial "woman of my dreams" - (who also comes from much more money than i do.)
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The biggest issue is confidence. Many people, both men and women are very intimidated to approach someone they are interested in.
Dancing and knowing how to bust a move is not a necessity. I knew lots of guys that grabbed tons of pussy and all they did was stand by the bar and look pretty because they had the muscle, the threads and the look women liked.
devilsmile will be crushed by this.....
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i know i lucked out because i ain't nothin special and i married a colombian beauty (who also comes from much more money than me.)
Yeah, but where did that money come frome? Was it legit? Is she straight from Colombia--because "certain factions" had their hands in every part of Colombian society...other than that...good job for you ;D
It's pretty accurate.
One thing he misses but touches on indirectly (i guess by not living as a ten or close) is that when you are a 9 or 10 you are not going to get the same amount of attention or offers because most people think you are out of their league. I would put a 6 as the one to get the most offers. Because people who are between a 4-8 would consider them a mate and most people would be in that range.
Once you get to be a 9 or 10 lets face it, there's no-one above you, and not many people at your level. You are limited and the ones below you might not be interested because they think you have a multiple of offers.
In top shape i only attract the hard body girls. Which is not as attractive to me as a girl with more fat ie. curves. But they think they are too fat ::) due to the bullshit modeling world telling them that.
Yes I completelt agree with you! Especially the last part...I knew one girl who was a size 8 at 5'3-5'4, I thought she was size 6 and had some of the best looking DD-E cups and a nice butt and big brown eyes, yet she thought she was fat and was trying to be a size 4....she didn't know attractive she really was...yet she was rubbing my back and arms, to me she had "8" face without make up, and a "10" body...it was bananas, she had more curves than a mountain road.
There is another vid from th series I will post, it's about the facial features, the "cues" we seek.
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There are beautiful girls who date fat assholes with money simply because their own father was a fat asshole with money or because their step father was one. The personnality patterns put aside physical patterns (morphotypes) are more important than you think.
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Yeah, but where did that money come frome? Was it legit? Is she straight from Colombia--because "certain factions" had their hands in every part of Colombian society...other than that...good job for you ;D
my wife's from medellin, the cocaine capital of the world (at least it was, not sure about right now.)
her family's wealthy, but not mafia tho. they hate the mafia. they're all lawyers and have a few farms with tons of cattle. i'm a canadian city boy who now owns a herd of cows in colombia that we bought with some of our wedding gift money. my wife says the cows are a good investment so long as chavez doesn't invade colombia and pillage the countryside haha.
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my wife's from medellin, the cocaine capital of the world (at least it was, not sure about right now.)
her family's wealthy, but not mafia tho. they hate the mafia. they're all lawyers and have a few farms with tons of cattle. i'm a canadian city boy who now owns a herd of cows in colombia that we bought with some of our wedding gift money. my wife says the cows are a good investment so long as chavez doesn't invade colombia and pillage the countryside haha.
I wateched the movie "Medellin" and the lead character was a engineer who father had a farm with tons of cattle...is your wife banging as hell? If so, you got the motherload...
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I wateched the movie "Medellin" and the lead character was a engineer who father had a farm with tons of cattle...is your wife banging as hell? If so, you got the motherload...
i was very content as a single guy (and never felt any pressure, or had any great desire, to get married), but then one day i was working out at a gym in medellin (while i was on holiday) and i laid my eyes on one of the most beautiful faces i'd ever seen in my life ... and the body wasn't half bad either (with a big firm curvy latina butt) ... and i said to myself "if she's single, that's my wife right there."
and i still can't believe i pulled it off.
(and she ended up being an extremely lovely person as well.)
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i was perfectly content as a single guy (and never felt any pressure, or had any great desire, to get married), but then one day i was working out at a gym in medellin (while i was on holiday) and i laid my eyes on one of the most beautiful faces i'd ever seen in my life . . . and the body wasn't half bad either (with a big firm curvy latina butt) . . . and i said to myself "if she's single, that's my wife right there."
and i still can't believe i pulled it off.
(and she ended up being an extremely lovely person as well.)
That's great man...it's good to actually hear something like that, reminds me of Big Boi's part in the song "SpottieOttieDopalicious"
"When I first met my SpottieOttieDopalicious Angel
I can remember that damn thing like yesterday
The way she moved reminded me of a Brown Stallion
horse with skates on smooth like a hot comb
on nappy ass hair
I walked up on her & was almost paralyzed
her neck was smelling sweeter
than a plate of yams with extra syrup
eyes beaming like four karats apiece just blindin' a guy
felt like I chiefed a whole O of that Presidential
My heart was beating so damn fast
never knowing this moment would bring another
life into this world"
Your humbleness in this whole affair, how it went down, is cool. Too many times you hear how the dude was shooting for a dimepeice, only because she was a dime, because that is what defines him...having a trophy. May everything be in your favor thru-out life.
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My wife doesn't look like me or my mom ,I hope this helps.
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There are beautiful girls who date fat assholes with money simply because their own father was a fat asshole with money or because their step father was one. The personnality patterns put aside physical patterns (morphotypes) are more important than you think.
too bad there aren't beautiful girls with ugly fathers who date fat ugly assholes like you
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My wife doesn't look like me or my mom ,I hope this helps.
Does she have any personality traits similar to your mom?
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My wife doesn't look like me or my mom ,I hope this helps.
:D
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Does she have any personality traits similar to your mom?
Zero, zip, zilch, nada!
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My wife doesn't look like me or my mom ,I hope this helps.
Your mom looks like your mom
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I would fucking kill myself if a girlfriend had a single trait or look of my goddamn mother. Similarities to myself? that's possible, in fact i think there is definately a pattern there.
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Your mom looks like your mom
;D
I would fucking kill myself if a girlfriend had a single trait or look of my goddamn mother.
Exactly
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Your mom looks like your mom
fucking post of the day ;D
I lol-ed outloud at work
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fucking post of the day ;D
I lol-ed outloud at work
'Your mom' jokes are always good.
Not everyone appreciates them, though :'(
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Zero, zip, zilch, nada!
You are just saying that >:(
Well, she is a woman, now there! Something she has in common with your wife.... ;D
***Sometimes it is the opposite of our mothers that we are attracted to----hence "good" men from good homes like the opposite of Moms Dukes...you wife is fine shit, though ;)
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'Your mom' jokes are always good.
Not everyone appreciates them, though :'(
I think they work best when there is something a little wrong/awkward about them ;)
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My mom is a total prude, and I'm by far the most attracted to sluts.
Only girl I ever really went for was pretty high-ranking, and well, I got owned. I haven't recovered...
Also I hope guys really don't believe "looks are only 30%" of a girls equation or something to that effect. Looks are very important to a woman -- not only for the sex itself, but looks tell them what their babies are going to look like!
Iwas trying to be polite...I concur with you on that issue...
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its all about the body and a nice face being clean a good smelling
:)
if you have cash of course you can pay for ass, thats easy
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I posted about this in the Ronnie (Jersey Shore) thread. That many of us tend to eventually pick what we "think" we are...
Do you agree with these vids?
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-the-dating-and-mating-pool.html)
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html (http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-of-sex-appeal-out-of-your-league.html)
First link, think its funny that they said that was a group was just 'average' in regards to physical attractiveness.
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its all about the body and a nice face being clean a good smelling
:)
if you have cash of course you can pay for ass, thats easy
Bullshit bullshit bullshit and what a load of crap! Been there done that.
The cash however... truth!
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My mom is a total prude, and I'm by far the most attracted to sluts.
Only girl I ever really went for was pretty high-ranking, and well, I got owned. I haven't recovered...
Also I hope guys really don't believe "looks are only 30%" of a girls equation or something to that effect. Looks are very important to a woman -- not only for the sex itself, but looks tell them what their babies are going to look like!
i guess your father told you your mom was bad in bed hence your choices? And hence him leaving her? lol
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First link, think its funny that they said that was a group was just 'average' in regards to physical attractiveness.
Yeah, especially when there were some hot chicas in there. And there were the Mr. Square Jaws as well.
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The 10 chick was like a 2 are you kidding me
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'Your mom' jokes are always good.
Not everyone appreciates them, though :'(
your mom appreciates them.
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your mom appreciates them.
;D
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you can always byes her a present that most times work to
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My mom is a total prude, and I'm by far the most attracted to sluts.
Also I hope guys really don't believe "looks are only 30%" of a girls equation or something to that effect. Looks are very important to a woman -- not only for the sex itself, but looks tell them what their babies are going to look like!
My mom's a prude, too, (then I married one) and although I'm not into white trash or ghetto hoodrats, I do have a strong preference for the intellectual, slutty types.
Agreed 100% on mating with the kids' looks in mind. People may not like it, but the Beautiful People tend to have better lives than the un-beautiful.
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hell with all of you... I'm gonna try these catch phrases next time I'm going out 8)
hahah
"im mistress of the night- and im mr of the universe"
"hello senorita, sprechen si love"
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My mom is a total prude, and I'm by far the most attracted to sluts.
Only girl I ever really went for was pretty high-ranking, and well, I got owned. I haven't recovered...
Also I hope guys really don't believe "looks are only 30%" of a girls equation or something to that effect. Looks are very important to a woman -- not only for the sex itself, but looks tell them what their babies are going to look like!
I see a lot of guys say that looks arn't that important to a girl.
These guys need to stop believing what a girl says and look at real life.
When a girl says she wants a funny guy who she gets along with or whatever, she means she wants someone around her level of looks with those qualities. Not some ugly fat shit who is funny.
You look at couples, they generally are in the same ballpark if you ranked them out of 10 and a lot of the time have similar bodytypes. I used to work with a guy who did video's and photos for weddings on the weekends and we talked about this once. He said the vast majority of couples he would meet with were very similar in looks, you would get the odd one where the chick was significantly better and you could tell the guy had money. One of those was recent to him and he said she was such a fucking bitch when he met with them, the marriage only lasted two weeks because the guy figured her out pretty quick (and he was glad he still got paid!).
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I see a lot of guys say that looks arn't that important to a girl.
These guys need to stop believing what a girl says and look at real life.
When a girl says she wants a funny guy who she gets along with or whatever, she means she wants someone around her level of looks with those qualities. Not some ugly fat shit who is funny.
You look at couples, they generally are in the same ballpark if you ranked them out of 10 and a lot of the time have similar bodytypes. I used to work with a guy who did video's and photos for weddings on the weekends and we talked about this once. He said the vast majority of couples he would meet with were very similar in looks, you would get the odd one where the chick was significantly better and you could tell
the guy had money. One of those was recent to him and he said she was such a fucking bitch when he met with them, the marriage only lasted two weeks because the guy figured her out pretty quick (and he was glad he still got paid!).
dude should have figured it out before they got married...
A friend of mine were looking at wedding pics online, and I saw this one pic, the girl was decent, the dude looked like a gremlin--i said that she was looking for a safe dude to take care of her kids, sure enough, she had two daughters in the wedding pics
also, I had mentioned this to JNN, there was a wedding announcement in a local paper, the woman was straight banging, and was a teacher, the guy look like he was a off brand "King of Queens", and was a bank teller---where they lived teachers make serious money, about 25k more than a bank teller---if both were starting out. A co-worker said, "It must be the sex", I said, "no, dude is a 'safe guy'."
those dudes present no real threat, and will not stray...they tend to be real nice and have round faces, and doughy bodies...they score with the hotties---because they are searching for someone to put up with their bullshit, and be henpeck, and stay around...eventually, dude either gets wise, or worn down, and passively aggressively acts out.
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dude should have figured it out before they got married...
A friend of mine were looking at wedding pics online, and I saw this one pic, the girl was decent, the dude looked like a gremlin--i said that she was looking for a safe dude to take care of her kids, sure enough, she had two daughters in the wedding pics
also, I had mentioned this to JNN, there was a wedding announcement in a local paper, the woman was straight banging, and was a teacher, the guy look like he was a off brand "King of Queens", and was a bank teller---where they lived teachers make serious money, about 25k more than a bank teller---if both were starting out. A co-worker said, "It must be the sex", I said, "no, dude is a 'safe guy'."
those dudes present no real threat, and will not stray...they tend to be real nice and have round faces, and doughy bodies...they score with the hotties---because they are searching for someone to put up with their bullshit, and be henpeck, and stay around...eventually, dude either gets wise, or worn down, and passively aggressively acts out.
She probably would been with a lot of better looking guys who just used her (because she's a pain in the ass to be with for any length of time) and she went for a lower end guy.
Wedding photos in the paper are an awesome source of entertainment, to see who the winners and losers are. Religion also can fuck things up from what i have seen, an ex's friend had a guy much hotter than her (she was fucking nothing) yet typical wog attitude she had a problem with him spending all his money going overseas and doing charity work. From that situation i thought Religion can just make the rules change for God ;)
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also, I had mentioned this to JNN, there was a wedding announcement in a local paper, the woman was straight banging, and was a teacher, the guy look like he was a off brand "King of Queens", and was a bank teller---where they lived teachers make serious money, about 25k more than a bank teller---if both were starting out. A co-worker said, "It must be the sex", I said, "no, dude is a 'safe guy'."
those dudes present no real threat, and will not stray...they tend to be real nice and have round faces, and doughy bodies...they score with the hotties---because they are searching for someone to put up with their bullshit, and be henpeck, and stay around...eventually, dude either gets wise, or worn down, and passively aggressively acts out.
hmm maybe that's why i seemed to get more interest from women when i was more doughy, i get far less by being in shape
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hmm maybe that's why i seemed to get more interest from women when i was more doughy, i get far less by being in shape
I think I'm at about the same level of interest. Back then, I was young and in shape, but now I'm older and out of shape, but have money (at least for now).
I mated strong, though, because I was just a twink (fit, but small).