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Title: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Butterbean on February 19, 2011, 07:22:10 AM
"Yes dear."


Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: chaos on February 19, 2011, 07:57:16 AM
That always elicits a negative response from my old battle axe.......

I think I usually say it more like "yes dear ::) "
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Butterbean on February 19, 2011, 08:02:59 AM
That always elicits a negative response from my old battle axe.......

I think I usually say it more like "yes dear ::) "

 ;D

It can be in the delivery....try to be less  ::)  and more   :)


When my hub says it to me, I infer I'm being unreasonable about something  :)  He either uses the "Yes Dear" or "The Ocean called."
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: chaos on February 19, 2011, 08:21:44 AM
"The Ocean called."

Explain.
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Butterbean on February 19, 2011, 08:30:04 AM
Explain.

GEORGE: (angry, to himself) The ocean called. Running outta shrimp. Outta
shrimp! (a thought occurs) Oh! Yes! That's what I shoulda said! (frustrated
shout) Dammit!

[New York Health & Racquet Club]

George and Jerry come along a corridor. They're carrying bags and
paraphernalia indicating they've been playing tennis.

JERRY: 'The ocean called, They're running outta shrimp'?

GEORGE: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But then, I said to him, 'Oh yeah? Well, the jerk
store called, and they're running outta you.'

Jerry and George halt at a bench by the entrance to the pro shop. Jerry
rummages in his bag, producing an old-fashioned wooden framed tennis racquet.

JERRY: (smiling) Really? That's great. You said that to him?

GEORGE: (confessing) Well, actually, I thought it up on the way over here.

JERRY: Oh. That's not quite the same.



Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: tonymctones on February 19, 2011, 08:51:42 AM
^^^^^^^^^

 ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: benchmstr on February 19, 2011, 10:10:25 AM
"shut up", or "get out" sound much better to me...

bench
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Butterbean on February 19, 2011, 10:22:35 AM
"shut up", or "get out" sound much better to me...

bench

You may have missed the "good relationship" part.
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: w8m8 on February 19, 2011, 11:31:44 AM
"Yes dear."




I'm not really that all lovey dovey talky kinda girl so I'd never say them ... and I can't imagine anyone saying them to me ... it's way more like .. Shut Up .. :D  ... or fuh  cough



LOL
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Butterbean on February 19, 2011, 12:42:35 PM
I'm not really that all lovey dovey talky kinda girl so I'd never say them ... and I can't imagine anyone saying them to me ... it's way more like .. Shut Up .. :D  ... or fuh  cough



LOL

But Yes dear means Shut Up!  ;D
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Migs on February 19, 2011, 03:58:48 PM
fuh cough

rofl

  >:(
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: CalvinH on February 19, 2011, 04:12:10 PM
I'm not really that all lovey dovey talky kinda girl so I'd never say them ... and I can't imagine anyone saying them to me ... it's way more like .. Shut Up .. :D  ... or fuh  cough



LOL


Yes dear.
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Migs on February 19, 2011, 05:46:20 PM
bl_w  j_b
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: xxxLinda on February 20, 2011, 09:53:14 AM


Yes is a good word which always works,

But it's the 'dear' part I find objectionable.  It sounds patronising or even a bit of a putdown...  It's like what you call your spinster auntie...  Oh dear !


One must train others to always attempt to be polite, even under duress, therefore "Yes darling?" or "Yes Madam?" is surely more conductive to an appropriate relationship?


xxxL

and when you say no, don't just say No.  Say No Thankyou.
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: tonymctones on February 20, 2011, 10:03:27 AM

Yes is a good word which always works,

But it's the 'dear' part I find objectionable.  It sounds patronising or even a bit of a putdown...  It's like what you call your spinster auntie...  Oh dear !


One must train others to always attempt to be polite, even under duress, therefore "Yes darling?" or "Yes Madam?" is surely more conductive to an appropriate relationship?


xxxL

and when you say no, don't just say No.  Say No Thankyou.

it is supposed to sound patronizing, thats the point...
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: xxxLinda on February 20, 2011, 01:21:02 PM
oh okay then.  I'd no idea that you liked that kind of thing.

yes dear, but it seems to me that that's far from a good relationship, isn't it?



My father didn't even say that to me and he had plenty of reasons and opportunities to.


xxxL

I'm really very glad i didn't bother with a monogamous long-term relationship, sounds so horribly boring...
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: xxxLinda on February 20, 2011, 01:27:08 PM
bl_w  j_b


lol
that's more like it !



x
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: CalvinH on February 21, 2011, 07:14:39 AM
;D

It can be in the delivery....try to be less  ::)  and more   :)


When my hub says it to me, I infer I'm being unreasonable about something  :)  He either uses the "Yes Dear" or "The Ocean called."




I like wicked witch of the west best :)
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: w8m8 on February 22, 2011, 04:13:34 AM
fuh cough

rofl

  >:(

 ;D you make me LOL Migs

I like wicked witch of the west best :)


old .. green .. mean and melting  ???

Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: newmom on February 22, 2011, 05:54:56 AM

old .. green .. mean and melting  ???



it reminds him of spoiled milk :-X :-X :-X
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: CalvinH on February 22, 2011, 06:54:27 AM
;D you make me LOL Migs


old .. green .. mean and melting  ???




Naw,one time Butters husband got mad at her and called her that :D
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: Butterbean on February 22, 2011, 06:54:38 AM


I like wicked witch of the west best :)

 ;D



Naw,one time Butters husband got mad at her and called her that :D

He wasn't mad :-\
Title: Re: One secret to a good relationship = 2 words
Post by: CalvinH on February 22, 2011, 06:58:41 AM
;D


He wasn't mad :-\



 :o ;D