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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: GroinkTropin on May 19, 2011, 03:02:39 PM
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So I was checking out transformers 3 previews and someone mentioned this guy Josh Duhamel so I google and this is what I find (among other pictures)
(http://imstars.aufeminin.com/stars/fan/josh-duhamel/josh-duhamel-20051207-88690.jpg)
99% of american women get creamy here, and are like "he's so buff! he's huge! droooool"
I literally could not make myself look like this guy. I have a solid base I couldn't even starve off of myself that crushes this twink. And I look like crap! Anyone who has never lifted can look like him, just run a few miles a week and do some pushups and crunches.
So, the above is a male ideal, as per america. And then we stare at this(http://www.ironmagazine.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/kai-greene.jpg)
And we wonder why bodybuilding isn't mainstream.
What I cannot figure out is, who are the fucked up ones? Are women fucked up for oogling a body any lazy bum can achieve in a few weeks or are we fucked up for ooogling a guy who busts his ass and lifts heavy ass weights and takes a shitload of drugs?
Girls see Kai and say "OH MY GOD, HOW GROSS!" While we say "How can girls oogle a twink like this???? He can't even bench 200lbs!"
In the end, as sad as it is, we bodybuilders are on the losing side of this debate :(
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Shut up.
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In my early days I went into discussions with Joe Public trying to convince them how beautiful bodybuilding could be. Now I realize this debate is completely worthless. Why would you try to convince someone who loves Van Gogh paintings that Dali works are even "better"?!
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It's like convincing someone that Photoshop is better than CGI
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In my early days I went into discussions with Joe Public trying to convince them how beautiful bodybuilding could be. Now I realize this debate is completely worthless. Why would you try to convince someone who loves Van Gogh paintings that Dali works are even "better"?!
Because I have muscle, and pride myself on work ethic when I train. Translation- I look nothing like the guy in the picture. Girls do not like any guy over like 160lbs it seems, wish public perception was different...
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i have been to a lot of pro shows and seen chicks going crazy over pro bodybuilder physiques.
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if you want to be like everyone else then go for it
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top guy looks like he has yet to hit puberty plus what's with the faggoty face/partial squint?
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Shut up.
This........
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if you want to be like everyone else then go for it
This thinking always saw me through the toughest times, but frankly I got tired of people (and girls) pretty much ostracizing me for wanting to be huge. I was well into the 240's at 5ft9 for a long time, and it got old.
That said I have been depressed BAD ever since I quit bbing. I don't know what to say or do anymore...Depressed cuz I look like shit, depressed cuz I think I look great and others think I look like shit...Can't fucking win!!!
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This thinking always saw me through the toughest times, but frankly I got tired of people (and girls) pretty much ostracizing me for wanting to be huge. I was well into the 240's at 5ft9 for a long time, and it got old.
That said I have been depressed BAD ever since I quit bbing. I don't know what to say or do anymore...Depressed cuz I look like shit, depressed cuz I think I look great and others think I look like shit...Can't fucking win!!!
yes, it's tough to go from being a beefy stud to a tiny tit
are you at least ripped? a twinkish physique can still be impressive if you're lean enough
maybe start running and try for the health look
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I stay very lean now, till a couple weeks ago around 8%. Can't get much lower without a very shitty diet, and I enjoy food.
IDK, I miss being huge. But, I do not miss having to eat constantly, and sitting there flexing my arms and chest because they feel soooooo good from having trained them a day or two before.
I also do not miss stressing in the mirror because my right pec is flat while my left is big and full, or that my left lat is much bigger and fuller than my right. Or that my right vastus lateralus won't develop etc etc.
What I DO miss, I fucking miss triple drop set leg presses with my buddy and 12 45s a side on top. I fucking miss front squatting 315, I definitely miss deadlifting 405, I really really really miss heavy heavy training. There was NO feeling like it, never in my life.
I can't train heavy without getting pretty big, maybe there is a middle ground...But of all the aspects of bodybuilding I miss the most, the intense heavy training was definitely it. I lived for it from the time I was 14 til 25.
I remember being 16, and doing incline db presses with 70's, and at night I would dream about hitting the 90's and how big I would be. Ah memories...
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Yes...after all, it's all about you, Methyl Mike.
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Nowadays more and more people are savvy to what it takes to look like a bodybuilder.
The drug abuse, the force feeding, the obsessive compulsive narcisism, the unhealthy practices....
Before the internet lots of people had no idea what it took to look like that, and there was a mystique to it.
But now, almost everyone knows all about the unhealthy lifestyle. And there's nothing cool about it really.
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i have been to a lot of pro shows and seen chicks going crazy over pro bodybuilder physiques.
You must not have been too close to these "girls".
Next time take a look at the: adams apple, shoe size and 5 O'clock shadow. ;)
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Shut up.
Are you related to dukey187?
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You must not have been too close to these "girls".
Next time take a look at the: adams apple, show size and 5 O'clock shadow. ;)
Yeah pretty much the only females who like bodybuilders are the girlfriends of competitors (who were usually with the guy long before he got into the sport) competitors themselves (you can read that as crazy as fuck women- especially on low carbs!) and- well that's just it.
Outside of our little community you become a freak show never to be taken seriously.
I shit you guys not- as I have gone down in weight, people literally listen to me more and take me more seriously. It's very strange.
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Yeah pretty much the only females who like bodybuilders are the girlfriends of competitors (who were usually with the guy long before he got into the sport) competitors themselves (you can read that as crazy as fuck women- especially on low carbs!) and- well that's just it.
Outside of our little community you become a freak show never to be taken seriously.
I shit you guys not- as I have gone down in weight, people literally listen to me more and take me more seriously. It's very strange.
Are you giving out advice as to how not to pay your credit card bills? ??? ???
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Nowadays more and more people are savvy to what it takes to look like a bodybuilder.
The drug abuse, the force feeding, the obsessive compulsive narcisism, the unhealthy practices....
Before the internet lots of people had no idea what it took to look like that, and there was a mystique to it.
But now, almost everyone knows all about the unhealthy lifestyle. And there's nothing cool about it really.
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THE ILLUSION IS GONE. People have woken up and realize that looking like a super hero is not the same thing as being one.
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Are you giving out advice as to how not to pay your credit card bills? ??? ???
That is EXACTLY what I do. Line around the block mondays and wednesdays. Hence my being able to post on getbig today, a thursday ;D
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That is EXACTLY what I do. Line around the block mondays and wednesdays. Hence my being able to post on getbig today, a thursday ;D
Did you also tell them that they will always settle? ??? ??? And the hell with paying the entire amount..... ???
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(http://www.ironmagazine.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/kai-greene.jpg)
(http://www.8balls.com.br/b/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/goro_mortal_kombat.png)
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humans aren't programmed to find shit like juiced up bbers attractive.. we didn't look like that in our cro-magnon days so why would the mind be primitively driven to accept something out of the ordinary?
this is much closer to what women are predisposed to get moist over..
(http://chickchats.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/ryan.jpg)
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Haha, "I was checking out the latest Transformers 3 news and stumbled upon this shirtless picture of Josh Duhamel" Gayer than natural peanut butter.
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Women love the "sweet spot" between normal athletic guys and extreme. Somewhere in the middle
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Haha, "I was checking out the latest Transformers 3 news and stumbled upon this shirtless picture of Josh Duhamel" Gayer than natural peanut butter.
I eat natural peanut butter exlusively. Laura scudders if you must know. Salted and nutty.
Your point? I prefer it over sugary crap.
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I eat natural peanut butter exlusively. Laura scudders if you must know. Salted and nutty.
Your point? I prefer it over sugary crap.
Are you trying to become a Pro Bodybuilder? ???
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THE ILLUSION IS GONE. People have woken up and realize that looking like a super hero is not the same thing as being one.
reality of the matter is that when you are in and know the characters,,when you understand how you get up,,,when you understand how fella actually grow ....you know that unlike the lies you hear...back in 2002! it was a private university tuition to become 260 8% at 5'9
yep you heard that right private university tuition ,,and I'm not talking about no one semester...im talking degree completion !
that's why many don't go to university because all the money went you know where,,
that's the reality of the matter and the honest truth ,,when you actually know bodybuild and know what it takes from actually seeing the drugs ,,,and seeing how much the hormones are not even everything...once you get in a room full of hormones ready to be taken by bodybuild all over ....then you realize just how huge HOW HUGE ,,the bunk suppl company do to you is,,you then understand how bodybuild can exist ,,you then understand how one can truly bench the numbers you hear and actually build muscle and not fuck it up... you then understand how pity and gullible te youngster that only try to build some muscle are
gh15 approved
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Are you trying to become a Pro Bodybuilder? ???
no
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Haha, "I was checking out the latest Transformers 3 news and stumbled upon this shirtless picture of Josh Duhamel" Gayer than natural peanut butter.
Gayer than carbing up to do Cross Fit
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This is all true, but it doesn't matter how big and gross you are.. if you pull up your shirt to reveal abs, they'll be creaming all over you too. Girls say things about not liking muscles but in real life it's always much different.
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This is a prime examlpe of what makes ladies cream their panties...
Slim and narrow hips, with a trim and tight waistline, topped off by broad shoulders, and musclular arms.
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I counter that with, that status quo of what bodybuilder look like is not what up and coming bodybuilders want to look like, but have to to get placings. They much rather look like Arnold, just if the stupid judges would stop rewarding this crazy shit.
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Girls really like a guy with a firm butt...
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You guys don't get it to you they are programmed to be attracted to HEALTHY looking males. If you don't look like you could at least run then your as good as fat.
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I stay very lean now, till a couple weeks ago around 8%. Can't get much lower without a very shitty diet, and I enjoy food.
IDK, I miss being huge. But, I do not miss having to eat constantly, and sitting there flexing my arms and chest because they feel soooooo good from having trained them a day or two before.
I also do not miss stressing in the mirror because my right pec is flat while my left is big and full, or that my left lat is much bigger and fuller than my right. Or that my right vastus lateralus won't develop etc etc.
What I DO miss, I fucking miss triple drop set leg presses with my buddy and 12 45s a side on top. I fucking miss front squatting 315, I definitely miss deadlifting 405, I really really really miss heavy heavy training. There was NO feeling like it, never in my life.
I can't train heavy without getting pretty big, maybe there is a middle ground...But of all the aspects of bodybuilding I miss the most, the intense heavy training was definitely it. I lived for it from the time I was 14 til 25.
I remember being 16, and doing incline db presses with 70's, and at night I would dream about hitting the 90's and how big I would be. Ah memories...
:)
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I say who gives a fuck what the general public or women think! Bodybuilding will never be mainstream & socially accepted and who wants it to be anyways?? If you're into bodybuilding to gain approval from the mainstream or "get girls" you'll be sorely disappointed. Because in reality they don't really care. The same applies to all other "social value" things like having an awesome car, lots of money etc. it's the same thing... I'm not saying having this added social value doesn't help get you places. But if you are one dimensional, shallow and insecure, a guy who has low personal value you will be a lonely confused person. It's the old 80/20 rule....The most attractive attribute to the general public and to women is a man who "brings something to the table" has a mission in life & has lots of personal value (80%) who's indifferent to what anyone thinks of him (regardless of looks etc) is centered and keeps his power to himself (I'm sure you've seen the "in your opinion" ugly guys with these hot chicks before..now you know why. NOW add the other 20% the "social value stuff" (looks, body, sports car, high flying job, wealth) on top and communicate with women & people as their equal or greater. THEN you've got a winner!
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I wonder where do you live, because in the place i come from appearance might bring a single stare, but not even word,
here it's all about how you talk and think...
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you need a good looking face (whether or not you have muscles)
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So I was checking out transformers 3 previews and someone mentioned this guy Josh Duhamel so I google and this is what I find (among other pictures)
(http://imstars.aufeminin.com/stars/fan/josh-duhamel/josh-duhamel-20051207-88690.jpg)
99% of american women get creamy here, and are like "he's so buff! he's huge! droooool"
I literally could not make myself look like this guy. I have a solid base I couldn't even starve off of myself that crushes this twink. And I look like crap! Anyone who has never lifted can look like him, just run a few miles a week and do some pushups and crunches.
So, the above is a male ideal, as per america. And then we stare at this(http://www.ironmagazine.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/kai-greene.jpg)
And we wonder why bodybuilding isn't mainstream.
What I cannot figure out is, who are the fucked up ones? Are women fucked up for oogling a body any lazy bum can achieve in a few weeks or are we fucked up for ooogling a guy who busts his ass and lifts heavy ass weights and takes a shitload of drugs?
Girls see Kai and say "OH MY GOD, HOW GROSS!" While we say "How can girls oogle a twink like this???? He can't even bench 200lbs!"
In the end, as sad as it is, we bodybuilders are on the losing side of this debate :(
guy is fem
proves all women are lesbian deep down
WIN
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Haha, "I was checking out the latest Transformers 3 news and stumbled upon this shirtless picture of Josh Duhamel" Gayer than natural peanut butter.
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humans aren't programmed to find shit like juiced up bbers attractive.. we didn't look like that in our cro-magnon days so why would the mind be primitively driven to accept something out of the ordinary?
this is much closer to what women are predisposed to get moist over..
(http://chickchats.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/ryan.jpg)
what a tiny tit!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Because I have muscle, and pride myself on work ethic when I train. Translation- I look nothing like the guy in the picture. Girls do not like any guy over like 160lbs it seems, wish public perception was different...
Shit do you leave the house at all :-\ - sure Olympian level guys most girls dont like but if you are lean and quite large (210 - 220) girls go nuts and stare and hit on you left right and centre in the bars - so I disagree with your post .
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Girls really like a guy with a firm butt...
I know I use this term sometimes in derogatory fashion, but Kovacs looks like a big lump of shit there. I'd be embarrassed to take my shirt off looking like that.
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(http://64.19.142.13/chickchats.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/ryan.jpg)
his right forearm is bigger than his upper arm. :D
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you need a good looking face (whether or not you have muscles)
That's right.
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Yeah pretty much the only females who like bodybuilders are the girlfriends of competitors (who were usually with the guy long before he got into the sport) competitors themselves (you can read that as crazy as fuck women- especially on low carbs!) and- well that's just it.
Outside of our little community you become a freak show never to be taken seriously.
I shit you guys not- as I have gone down in weight, people literally listen to me more and take me more seriously. It's very strange.
I was thinking more of the "drag queen" he/she variety going crazy for the musclemen, hehehe.
I do know what you mean about looking more normal and being taken more serious by the gen public.
Since I have gotten older and no longer compete, my body fat is average ( sad to say).
People just think I am big, stocky guy that used to play football or wrestle , etc.
I also wear polo shirts and shorts and avoid "street fashions" poular with a lot of younger bodybuilders.
Between the age and my mainstream image, I tend to get more respect from more people I run into.
20 yrs ago , when I acted like a cocky musclehead, I got treated very differently in public places
For example, at a resturant , the waitress just seems more attentive and polite now. No idea why, it just happens..
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This is a prime examlpe of what makes ladies cream their panties...
Slim and narrow hips, with a trim and tight waistline, topped off by broad shoulders, and musclular arms.
WTF? Sounds like you're the one creaming his panties. ???
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i have been to a lot of pro shows and seen chicks going crazy over pro bodybuilder physiques.
Exactly. You go to any club in any city or any country and if you look around, its the guy whos big and looks good with who has all the broads around him. Not the skinny bone rack fuck standing by the bar who thinks "he's ripped".
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It is really crazy how delusional some of you are who think the first guy in the picture set is a twink or small. He has good muscle mass and is in good shape. He is healthy, not a drug crazy addict and can fit in regular clothes. Woman do not want some dude with veins and muscle so big he can't wipe his ass. Go see a psychiatrist.
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Exactly. You go to any club in any city or any country and if you look around, its the guy whos big and looks good with who has all the broads around him. Not the skinny bone rack fuck standing by the bar who thinks "he's ripped".
Girls do not like skinny fucks either- if they are older than 16 at least.
What I mean is, they like this semi- built athletic swimmer type of body. I have wide shoulders, I could never achieve it properly.
In fact, in my physiology class we had a HUGE argument between myself and 4 girls. I said sprinters have the best builds and perform the best, from a physiological standpoint. I also pointed out that long distance running is catabolic and hard on the body.
OH MY GOD- not 3 but FOUR more girls wandered over to the computer and we settled on googling runners for images to compare. I found some nice sprinters, they found some anorexic looking runners.
ALL of the girls picked the sickly runners as having by far the best bodies. They looked like concentration camp survivors, and the girls were creamy. Smelled like sweaty crotches all around the room.
The sprinters I thought looked best, and the girls were like YUCK! It was very depressing. I shall post pics for reference.
(http://www.ecrossfit.com/home/sprinter.jpg)
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(http://graphics.fansonly.com/schools/amer/graphics/auto/Hallinan.jpg)
Used the same search strings, and these were the two images we chose. ALL of the girls picked the lanky dude. I called him sickly, and they pointed out his massive quads (lol?) and started laughing at me and my roided out sprinter.
I am not making this up. Hot girls too... >:(
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Hot girls too... >:(
MM did you put the wood to any of them?
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Just do your fucking thing. In the end girls are stupid and easy to please.
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Girls do not like skinny fucks either- if they are older than 16 at least.
What I mean is, they like this semi- built athletic swimmer type of body. I have wide shoulders, I could never achieve it properly.
In fact, in my physiology class we had a HUGE argument between myself and 4 girls. I said sprinters have the best builds and perform the best, from a physiological standpoint. I also pointed out that long distance running is catabolic and hard on the body.
OH MY GOD- not 3 but FOUR more girls wandered over to the computer and we settled on googling runners for images to compare. I found some nice sprinters, they found some anorexic looking runners.
ALL of the girls picked the sickly runners as having by far the best bodies. They looked like concentration camp survivors, and the girls were creamy. Smelled like sweaty crotches all around the room.
The sprinters I thought looked best, and the girls were like YUCK! It was very depressing. I shall post pics for reference.
(http://www.ecrossfit.com/home/sprinter.jpg)
vs
(http://graphics.fansonly.com/schools/amer/graphics/auto/Hallinan.jpg)
Used the same search strings, and these were the two images we chose. ALL of the girls picked the lanky dude. I called him sickly, and they pointed out his massive quads (lol?) and started laughing at me and my roided out sprinter.
I am not making this up. Hot girls too... >:(
When men stop believing the stuff that comes out of women's mouthes is when men will finally start winning the battle of the sexes.
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The general public does not find pro bodybuilding attractive because it is to extreme. Just like an anorexic woman is disgusting to a man, a hyper muscular super ripped body builder is disgusting to most all woman. We are programmed to find attributes of both sexes that project fertility and health, attractive. Proportion is also a huge factor. Does a pro bodybuilder look healthy and proportionate to the average women? Fuck no, they can’t even wear normal clothes, they look like shit!
Women like muscular and athletic men, not juiced up freaks who waddle like ducks. There is a tiny percentage of women who like extreme amounts of muscle; it’s a fetish, just like there is a small percentage of men who like disgusting female bodybuilders.
Bodybuilders are hugely insecure. Most bodybuilders learned from a young age that their manhood is connected to their muscles; the bigger their muscles, the more of a man they are. They learned how to be a man from fucking comic books. Why else would you pump your body full of insane amounts of drugs for no reason? There are a FEW guys making money from bodybuilding. The rest make a decent income and will pay for their use later on in life. It’s fucking insane.
That’s the truth.
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If a guy has low BF, of course he is going to be attractive to most women. Add some muscle and it will grow, but like breast implants, most of us find it gets overdone and stops being as attractive at some point.
If you stay very low BF, you can still look big in clothes but people don't realise how big you really are.
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When men stop believing the stuff that comes out of women's mouthes is when men will finally start winning the battle of the sexes.
Bing bing bing!@!!! We have a winner ;D
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This thinking always saw me through the toughest times, but frankly I got tired of people (and girls) pretty much ostracizing me for wanting to be huge. I was well into the 240's at 5ft9 for a long time, and it got old.
That said I have been depressed BAD ever since I quit bbing. I don't know what to say or do anymore...Depressed cuz I look like shit, depressed cuz I think I look great and others think I look like shit...Can't fucking win!!!
lift for yourself mike, and no one else.
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Girls do not like skinny fucks either- if they are older than 16 at least.
What I mean is, they like this semi- built athletic swimmer type of body. I have wide shoulders, I could never achieve it properly.
In fact, in my physiology class we had a HUGE argument between myself and 4 girls. I said sprinters have the best builds and perform the best, from a physiological standpoint. I also pointed out that long distance running is catabolic and hard on the body.
OH MY GOD- not 3 but FOUR more girls wandered over to the computer and we settled on googling runners for images to compare. I found some nice sprinters, they found some anorexic looking runners.
ALL of the girls picked the sickly runners as having by far the best bodies. They looked like concentration camp survivors, and the girls were creamy. Smelled like sweaty crotches all around the room.
The sprinters I thought looked best, and the girls were like YUCK! It was very depressing. I shall post pics for reference.
(http://www.ecrossfit.com/home/sprinter.jpg)
vs
(http://graphics.fansonly.com/schools/amer/graphics/auto/Hallinan.jpg)
Used the same search strings, and these were the two images we chose. ALL of the girls picked the lanky dude. I called him sickly, and they pointed out his massive quads (lol?) and started laughing at me and my roided out sprinter.
I am not making this up. Hot girls too... >:(
they're full of shit mike,
if that negroid came sprinting in, they would melt for the black dong.
all women lie about what looks good. they love muscles and money.
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they're full of shit mike,
if that negroid came sprinting in, they would melt for the black dong.
all women lie about what looks good. they love muscles and money.
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Girls do not like skinny fucks either- if they are older than 16 at least.
What I mean is, they like this semi- built athletic swimmer type of body. I have wide shoulders, I could never achieve it properly.
In fact, in my physiology class we had a HUGE argument between myself and 4 girls. I said sprinters have the best builds and perform the best, from a physiological standpoint. I also pointed out that long distance running is catabolic and hard on the body.
OH MY GOD- not 3 but FOUR more girls wandered over to the computer and we settled on googling runners for images to compare. I found some nice sprinters, they found some anorexic looking runners.
ALL of the girls picked the sickly runners as having by far the best bodies. They looked like concentration camp survivors, and the girls were creamy. Smelled like sweaty crotches all around the room.
The sprinters I thought looked best, and the girls were like YUCK! It was very depressing. I shall post pics for reference.
(http://www.ecrossfit.com/home/sprinter.jpg)
vs
(http://graphics.fansonly.com/schools/amer/graphics/auto/Hallinan.jpg)
Used the same search strings, and these were the two images we chose. ALL of the girls picked the lanky dude. I called him sickly, and they pointed out his massive quads (lol?) and started laughing at me and my roided out sprinter.
I am not making this up. Hot girls too... >:(
maybe they thought the lanky dude had a cuter face
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The general public does not find pro bodybuilding attractive because it is to extreme. Just like an anorexic woman is disgusting to a man, a hyper muscular super ripped body builder is disgusting to most all woman. We are programmed to find attributes of both sexes that project fertility and health, attractive. Proportion is also a huge factor. Does a pro bodybuilder look healthy and proportionate to the average women? Fuck no, they can’t even wear normal clothes, they look like shit!
Women like muscular and athletic men, not juiced up freaks who waddle like ducks. There is a tiny percentage of women who like extreme amounts of muscle; it’s a fetish, just like there is a small percentage of men who like disgusting female bodybuilders.
Bodybuilders are hugely insecure. Most bodybuilders learned from a young age that their manhood is connected to their muscles; the bigger their muscles, the more of a man they are. They learned how to be a man from fucking comic books. Why else would you pump your body full of insane amounts of drugs for no reason? There are a FEW guys making money from bodybuilding. The rest make a decent income and will pay for their use later on in life. It’s fucking insane.
That’s the truth.
Great post right there.
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most women lie.... until they get to know you and that wall has been taken down..they wont tell you their true feelings.. had a waitress a couple of years ago told my friends i was too big and it was gross... after going to that place for 3weeks she was gravy in my hands.. and i brought up that comment she had made when she first met me.. she denied it and my friends told her she was lieing... thats just many experiences ive had with insecure women.. usually older women will be blunt and up front.
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i do know now that you have to "prove" yourself more than a smaller guy to a woman, they are usually pretty intimidated and im not even steroid big, insecurance about their own body and thinking you might be an ass are reasons for that probably.
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Interesting responses here, I dig it.
Not sure what to think- a few big guys here say girls front but dig the big look in the end- i would be interested in seeing how you look, dress, how attractive your face it etc.
For example I say female bodybuilders who start out cute end up being cute girls with muscles- maybe the truth is just that I am an ugly guy, and not totally honest with myself...
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In my own personal experience, and from viewing others, it seems to me that very sexy and slutty females dig the big and massive guys, while the pretty and elegant females dig the slim dudes. Just sayin...
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In my own personal experience, and from viewing others, it seems to me that very sexy and slutty females dig the big and massive guys, while the pretty and elegant females dig the slim dudes. Just sayin...
Now THIS might be fairly spot on.
I have to give it some thought, and refer back to personal experience...
The girl in my physio class, I regard very highly, she is very attractive but classy...And dating a guy who is 6ft2 and think as a bean pole...Well holy shit, that about describes the runner in the picture she picked doesn't it? Hehe...
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In my own personal experience, and from viewing others, it seems to me that very sexy and slutty females dig the big and massive guys, while the pretty and elegant females dig the slim dudes. Just sayin...
That's what they want us to believe..
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i think thats true about steroids freaks. you will never really see a classy woman walking around with one. while you do always see the slutty porno types digging the steroid empty heads.
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So I was checking out transformers 3 previews and someone mentioned this guy Josh Duhamel so I google and this is what I find (among other pictures)
(http://imstars.aufeminin.com/stars/fan/josh-duhamel/josh-duhamel-20051207-88690.jpg)
99% of american women get creamy here, and are like "he's so buff! he's huge! droooool"
I literally could not make myself look like this guy. I have a solid base I couldn't even starve off of myself that crushes this twink. And I look like crap! Anyone who has never lifted can look like him, just run a few miles a week and do some pushups and crunches.
So, the above is a male ideal, as per america. And then we stare at this(http://www.ironmagazine.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/kai-greene.jpg)
And we wonder why bodybuilding isn't mainstream.
What I cannot figure out is, who are the fucked up ones? Are women fucked up for oogling a body any lazy bum can achieve in a few weeks or are we fucked up for ooogling a guy who busts his ass and lifts heavy ass weights and takes a shitload of drugs?
Girls see Kai and say "OH MY GOD, HOW GROSS!" While we say "How can girls oogle a twink like this???? He can't even bench 200lbs!"
In the end, as sad as it is, we bodybuilders are on the losing side of this debate :(
this is something i don't get. you get on here and criticize bodybuilding..women don't like it., it won't go mainstream. blah blah blah but you are on here talking about it. if you don't like it. don't follow it. certainly don't bash it. it's not everyone's cup of tea. so what. alot people don;t like football, nascar, basketball
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this is something i don't get. you get on here and criticize bodybuilding..women don't like it., it won't go mainstream. blah blah blah but you are on here talking about it. if you don't like it. don't follow it. certainly don't bash it. it's not everyone's cup of tea. so what. alot people don;t like football, nascar, basketball
Bodybuilding has been a huge part of my life since I was 14...
Sometimes you love something and cannot explain why. It just takes over, and becomes a part of you forever.
Just because I love the sport does not mean I am happy with certain things that have happened in it...
I will always follow it. Sad part is, in 20 years I will be 50 and another weird old guy who loves to lift and be a part of it, but I will never walk away from it completely.
I can't. I invested too much of my life to ever do so. It's like being in love with a crazy chick you always crawl back to , and want to know how she is doing, even though your friends tell you that you are stupid etc etc....You can't help it, just how things are...
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haha good post.
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Bodybuilding has been a huge part of my life since I was 14...
Sometimes you love something and cannot explain why. It just takes over, and becomes a part of you forever.
Just because I love the sport does not mean I am happy with certain things that have happened in it...
I will always follow it. Sad part is, in 20 years I will be 50 and another weird old guy who loves to lift and be a part of it, but I will never walk away from it completely.
I can't. I invested too much of my life to ever do so. It's like being in love with a crazy chick you always crawl back to , and want to know how she is doing, even though your friends tell you that you are stupid etc etc....You can't help it, just how things are...
stop complaining then ;)
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that dude in the first pic (josh duhamel) is actually a big guy...6' 4" and with a decent physique. That height and looks with even an average physique is going to attract most girls. He probably isn't a good example of why being lean is better than being big since few people look like him.
The example comparing the white skinny guy and black guy isn't necessarily a good example either due to the difference in race. You should have put up two white guys OR two black guys and then see who they would pick.
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Just do your fucking thing. In the end girls are stupid and easy to please.
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Who gives a fuck,none of you guys get laid anyway!!! ;D
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that dude in the first pic (josh duhamel) is actually a big guy...6' 4" and with a decent physique. That height and looks with even an average physique is going to attract most girls. He probably isn't a good example of why being lean is better than being big since few people look like him.
The example comparing the white skinny guy and black guy isn't necessarily a good example either due to the difference in race. You should have put up two white guys OR two black guys and then see who they would pick.
Not a bad observation. You notice the more intricate details, what I would expect should I have a life threatening illness. Doctors are supposed to notice the finer details ;)
And yeah, I thought all the the same. However, at the time, it was nerve racking to even be doing this in the middle of physio lab, as you can imagine. Didn't have the time to do the comparisons properly. Just amazing how quickly girls run over when the topic of ideal male bodies comes up haha.
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Fuck it sucks being short. 5ft9.5 (on a good day) makes me average, at best.
Most prolific memory- I am 24, and at a house party with my buddy Josh, who was 21 at the time.
I had the hots for this girl, she's young 18-19, getting pretty drunk. I get the feeling I can make a move, and josh gets up to go get a beer (he is 6ft2) and I hear it- I will never forget these words, as long as I live "youurrree so taaalllll!!!!!!" she says to him, as he walks by he smiles and she damn near falls backward out of her chair. He fucked her that night in his car.
At the time I was at least 235 and pretty lean, with my shoulders being as they were I had a ridic taper- Studly material, so says bodybuilding magazines.
But over the years I could NEVER pull nearly as much tail as my bean pole (but 6ft2) buddy. I resented him for years. Things never changed either, till we went out separate ways. I nailed 1 hot girl for ever 5 he banged, and never once given the choice did a girl go for the buff guy, they ALWAYS magnetically went for the thin lanky (but tall) guys.
Wonder how life would have been different had I been 4 inches taller and similarly built? Hmm...
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Fuck it sucks being short. 5ft9.5 (on a good day) makes me average, at best.
Most prolific memory- I am 24, and at a house party with my buddy Josh, who was 21 at the time.
I had the hots for this girl, she's young 18-19, getting pretty drunk. I get the feeling I can make a move, and josh gets up to go get a beer (he is 6ft2) and I hear it- I will never forget these words, as long as I live "youurrree so taaalllll!!!!!!" she says to him, as he walks by he smiles and she damn near falls backward out of her chair. He fucked her that night in his car.
At the time I was at least 235 and pretty lean, with my shoulders being as they were I had a ridic taper- Studly material, so says bodybuilding magazines.
But over the years I could NEVER pull nearly as much tail as my bean pole (but 6ft2) buddy. I resented him for years. Things never changed either, till we went out separate ways. I nailed 1 hot girl for ever 5 he banged, and never once given the choice did a girl go for the buff guy, they ALWAYS magnetically went for the thin lanky (but tall) guys.
Wonder how life would have been different had I been 4 inches taller and similarly built? Hmm...
Buy lift shoes and try living at 6"2 for a while. A guy at 6"2 does not tower the population unless you live in the Philippines.
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Fuck it sucks being short. 5ft9.5 (on a good day) makes me average, at best.
Most prolific memory- I am 24, and at a house party with my buddy Josh, who was 21 at the time.
I had the hots for this girl, she's young 18-19, getting pretty drunk. I get the feeling I can make a move, and josh gets up to go get a beer (he is 6ft2) and I hear it- I will never forget these words, as long as I live "youurrree so taaalllll!!!!!!" she says to him, as he walks by he smiles and she damn near falls backward out of her chair. He fucked her that night in his car.
At the time I was at least 235 and pretty lean, with my shoulders being as they were I had a ridic taper- Studly material, so says bodybuilding magazines.
But over the years I could NEVER pull nearly as much tail as my bean pole (but 6ft2) buddy. I resented him for years. Things never changed either, till we went out separate ways. I nailed 1 hot girl for ever 5 he banged, and never once given the choice did a girl go for the buff guy, they ALWAYS magnetically went for the thin lanky (but tall) guys.
Wonder how life would have been different had I been 4 inches taller and similarly built? Hmm...
Less intimidated by his body. More intimidated by yours. Don't think they're in your league, think you want a Barbie Doll etc. He's more of a sure thing.
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Fuck it sucks being short. 5ft9.5 (on a good day) makes me average, at best.
Most prolific memory- I am 24, and at a house party with my buddy Josh, who was 21 at the time.
I had the hots for this girl, she's young 18-19, getting pretty drunk. I get the feeling I can make a move, and josh gets up to go get a beer (he is 6ft2) and I hear it- I will never forget these words, as long as I live "youurrree so taaalllll!!!!!!" she says to him, as he walks by he smiles and she damn near falls backward out of her chair. He fucked her that night in his car.
At the time I was at least 235 and pretty lean, with my shoulders being as they were I had a ridic taper- Studly material, so says bodybuilding magazines.
But over the years I could NEVER pull nearly as much tail as my bean pole (but 6ft2) buddy. I resented him
for years. Things never changed either, till we went out separate ways. I nailed 1 hot girl for ever 5 he banged, and never once given the choice did a girl go for the buff guy, they ALWAYS magnetically went for the thin lanky (but tall) guys.
Wonder how life would have been different had I been 4 inches taller and similarly built? Hmm...
Try and be 5'5 like me. My personality had to be taller than my height...plus, I'm not bad looking or cocky, and I know how to dress. I can blend into the crowd, or stand out by myself...I had a huge crush on woman who only like tall pretty boys, but due to me being a massive flirt---the feeling became mutual...it never went down (damn it!)
i've never Bern envious of tall dudes, nor huge bbers. I'm just a cool mofo, that if there was need for a black Smurf stand in, or the only black Hobbit, i'd volunteer.
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I thought 6"2 was short. :-\ That is my weight. >:(
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I don't think it scares the public. More like makes the public laugh.
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I don't think it scares the public. More like makes the public laugh.
No the waddle makes the public laugh...and if you have huge legs and small cock, it'll make the women laugh....
I think if one dressed normally, and spoke like they had some sense, they'd be taken seriously. I knew of a dude who looked like Beau Matlock, he worked for Northrop Grumman as some type of engineer and was about 215, and about 5'11 if that. Dude was cool as shit and smart as fuck. He was never cocky, and the women loved him---as I said, he looked like Beau Matlock facially.
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THE ILLUSION IS GONE. People have woken up and realize that looking like a super hero is not the same thing as being one.
That is worth remembering. It's rare indeed for me to find something I find this compelling on any internet forum, but you have nailed it.
Everyone wishes they were from Krypton, but the reality is that Comic Con is not where we live. You words are spot on.
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Try and be 5'5 like me. My personality had to be taller than my height...plus, I'm not bad looking or cocky, and I know how to dress. I can blend into the crowd, or stand out by myself...I had a huge crush on woman who only like tall pretty boys, but due to me being a massive flirt---the feeling became mutual...it never went down (damn it!)
i've never Bern envious of tall dudes, nor huge bbers. I'm just a cool mofo, that if there was need for a black Smurf stand in, or the only black Hobbit, i'd volunteer.
You are at least five inches taller than me, so count your blessings. ;) By the way, I'm first in line for the role of "Mulatto Smurf" should Hollyweird ever be so inclined. It could happen you know. After all, "Thor" has a "Nordic Negro" in it. FTN. ;D
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Fuck it sucks being short. 5ft9.5 (on a good day) makes me average, at best.
Most prolific memory- I am 24, and at a house party with my buddy Josh, who was 21 at the time.
I had the hots for this girl, she's young 18-19, getting pretty drunk. I get the feeling I can make a move, and josh gets up to go get a beer (he is 6ft2) and I hear it- I will never forget these words, as long as I live "youurrree so taaalllll!!!!!!" she says to him, as he walks by he smiles and she damn near falls backward out of her chair. He fucked her that night in his car.
At the time I was at least 235 and pretty lean, with my shoulders being as they were I had a ridic taper- Studly material, so says bodybuilding magazines.
But over the years I could NEVER pull nearly as much tail as my bean pole (but 6ft2) buddy. I resented him for years. Things never changed either, till we went out separate ways. I nailed 1 hot girl for ever 5 he banged, and never once given the choice did a girl go for the buff guy, they ALWAYS magnetically went for the thin lanky (but tall) guys.
Wonder how life would have been different had I been 4 inches taller and similarly built? Hmm...
You call that short? FTN. ;D I am barely five feet in height. Notice that I didn't say "tall". ;)
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That is worth remembering. It's rare indeed for me to find something I find this compelling on any internet forum, but you have nailed it.
Everyone wishes they were from Krypton, but the reality is that Comic Con is not where we live. You words are spot on.
Funny thing is, most who go to Comicon are overweight, except the guest stars, like Tom Welling, models who do the cosplay and a few of the girlfriends
You are at least five inches taller than me, so count your blessings. ;) By the way, I'm first in line for the role of "Mulatto Smurf" should Hollyweird ever be so inclined. It could happen you know. After all, "Thor" has a "Nordic Negro" in it. FTN. ;D
reminds of a friend of my in high school, he was barely over 5'2, and was light brown...he would date the bangingest girls in HS, he also ran track. My senior yr his gf was a mixed we said was Halle Berry's better looking
twin....
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The example comparing the white skinny guy and black guy isn't necessarily a good example either due to the difference in race. You should have put up two white guys OR two black guys and then see who they would pick.
I honestly feel blacks and whites should be in separate competitive classes in bodybuilding bc of black's obvious genetic advantage.
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THE ILLUSION IS GONE. People have woken up and realize that looking like a super hero is not the same thing as being one.
May be true, but i still rather look like Superman than the average Joe.
(http://blogsoop.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/superman-flying.jpg)
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It's all about nostril size.
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i think thats true about steroids freaks. you will never really see a classy woman walking around with one. while you do always see the slutty porno types digging the steroid empty heads.
true.
Actually some good posts in this thread.
For me personally, I did better with girls when I was slimmer (athletic) than now.
Thats why Im considering stopping bbing (the bulk look and drugs) after summer, concentrate on lifting weights...still bodybuild, but for recreation and take up bicycling more seriously.
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humans aren't programmed to find shit like juiced up bbers attractive.. we didn't look like that in our cro-magnon days so why would the mind be primitively driven to accept something out of the ordinary?
this is much closer to what women are predisposed to get moist over..
(http://chickchats.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/ryan.jpg)
hahahah that image is as real as pamela anderson's tits hahahahah stupid shit smears.