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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
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I figure I can sport this hairstyle and legally change my name to Joe Dirt
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
How would you do it?
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
while we are in fantasy land here
i wish you could live your life over several times..you do be something or try something different each time. :-\
maybe you could be a bank robber and then when you finally get arrested just start over again
i would be a cop in the next one 8)
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while we are in fantasy land here
i wish you could live your life over several times..you do be something or try something different each time. :-\
maybe you could be a bank robber and then when you finally get arrested just start over again
i would be a cop in the next one 8)
I am living a fantasy.
I am going to get up in the morning and sniff my dogs ass and let my wife out to go piss in the backyard.
Then I am going to slide on my 44' waist jeans , and cruise down to MCdonalds in my '89 dodge for a hot sausage biscuit
Then I wll head home to post some nonsense for 12 straight hrs on getbig going for my 10000000000 post
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
Why?
Would your german wife approve? Or is it her you are planning to run from?
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Yes and I have Airline points and a Passport would be real easy.
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Yes I have thought about it in fantasy land lol. Just split like Ur Jimmy Buffet, and lie on the beach the rest of life.
The problem is, no matter were you go, you're still there. 8)
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I am living a fantasy.
I am going to get up in the morning and sniff my dogs ass and let my wife out to go piss in the backyard.
Then I am going to slide on my 44' waist jeans , and cruise down to MCdonalds in my '89 dodge for a hot sausage biscuit
Then I wll head home to post some nonsense for 12 straight hrs on getbig going for my 10000000000 post
Dude, what is your obsession with asses, farts and feces?! it's starting to get a little disturbing..
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I would like to get off the grid. The government has way too much info on all of us it is pretty scary. If I had money I could make it happen but Ron cut the pay here for posting so I'm stuck for now.
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Just turn off the lights and don't smile (no racist)
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my question is this... would your new identity still come to getbig? My belief is yes.
Would you even change your screen name, or would that depend upon post count?
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the Holden Caulfield cabin in the woods idea is sometimes appealing.
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Dude, what is your obsession with asses, farts and feces?! it's starting to get a little disturbing..
I noticed that to. Pretty disturbing.
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I hate when people say "If i had a choice" .... you always have one.
Instead you have to think... what is stopping me right now to do what I want.
Me - if I had a choice - I would take all my money buy a place in the montana mountains and life by myself - I am okay with myself - I never had a the need for social things I am a loner since I can remember and for very complicated personal reason with the answer in my childhood I am unable to trust people apart from my wife and possibly parents - ever.
So yes I think I be okay by myself in a blockhouse - and sure I am fully aware of the romantic factor involved here - I have spend long times in places that you just don't go unless you don't want to see anybody else (wicklow mountains) so I am aware of that the minute you get in real danger or extremely cold and wet you wish you be in your civilized place with the restaurant and shopping mall close by.
But every now and then I have a huge urge to leave all the shit behind me - all the bad news - all the problems at work and financial meltdowns - all the end of the world shit the health scares and worries my son will grow up in a world that will make it impossible for him to become what he wants to be.
What stops me?
Anything and everything - I am like some of the old guys you find in Irish NY pubs, the once that come over if they hear that you have an Irish accent and they sit down with you and explain to you that they are planing to go back to the promised land - they tell you that all they wanted from life was a little bit of respect and a good pension in the same sentence they let loose and inform you that back 20 years they have just missed out on the big job how the jews are getting special treatment and how their kids are ungrateful - they talk about Ireland like the promised land and one day one final day I will pack up my shit and take the family to Ireland - and it never happens - and they know it.
Truthfully I am scared of change - scared that I will not be able to support my wife and kid, scared that I might loose them - you cling on to your guard rails in life and try to hold on like your life depends on it - we have more too loose than to gain and as soon as you figure out how easy and fast you can loose everything you got you cannot stop worrying about it.
And I am speaking by experience - I have lost once before everything - no job no place to life no money... I've been there and once you've been there and came back you are forever scared it can or will happen again.
I am not smart enough or ruthless enough to make a lot of money, I am battling my demons the once my biological parents gave me on my way to my life and try to get by - I am 36 years old screwed up and more crazy than a lot of people might think.
I can be extremely pleasant and extremely brutal and unpleasant - maybe that makes me a sociopath I would not be shocked if I fall into that category.
There is no hope for people like me - I am on a one way street to what ever - but I also never give up - I keep trying and keep trying and only for the reason that one final day I want to knock on my biological mothers door and tell her - see the guy in front of you? I am your son and you abandoned me and left me for dead - take a good fucking look at me you cunt.
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Why?
Would your german wife approve? Or is it her you are planning to run from?
Seems like this pot smoking whore monger is looking for a way to bail on the wife.
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last time i thought about it was 20 minutes ago.
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
If this thought recurs then you need to learn to make better choices in life. Running away to a new life is not the answer because the same mentality and behaviors that brought you to the unhappy place you are in now (the one prompting you to run away) will still be with you and you will recreate it in whatever new setting you find yourself. Think about the people who run up credit card debt and then declare bankruptcy. They effectively start with a clean slate. It may surprise you to learn that, within a matter of years, more than half of those people are right back in the same situation, buried under debt.
Running away is never the answer; confronting your demons is. Unfortunately, for most people the biggest demon they must face—is themselves. Can you do that? :-\
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Yes and I have Airline points and a Passport would be real easy.
Then people could figure out what country you left for very easily. Cash.
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Think about the people who run up credit card debt and then declare bankruptcy. They effectively start with a clean slate. It may surprise you to learn that, within a matter of years, more than half of those people are right back in the same situation, buried under debt.
You're never going to set MethylMike free from the curse, are you?
Well, what are you going to do?
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If this thought recurs then you need to learn to make better choices in life. Running away to a new life is not the answer because the same mentality and behaviors that brought you to the unhappy place you are in now (the one prompting you to run away) will still be with you and you will recreate it in whatever new setting you find yourself. Think about the people who run up credit card debt and then declare bankruptcy. They effectively start with a clean slate. It may surprise you to learn that, within a matter of years, more than half of those people are right back in the same situation, buried under debt.
Running away is never the answer; confronting your demons is. Unfortunately, for most people the biggest demon they must face—is themselves. Can you do that? :-\
LOL. You're like Inspector Javert. ;D
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that's the beauty of those who battle it out on stage armed only with a glittery thong - there's nowhere to run, nowhere to hide.
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You're never going to set MethylMike free from the curse, are you?
Well, what are you going to do?
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I could easily have pointed to Mike as an example, but I did not do so because this is not really about him; many people are stuck in the same dynamic and it is not always about finances or debt. Rather it is about patterns of behavior and failing to notice the link between the choices one makes and the consequences one lives with.
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
Sometimes I feel like that...
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I did, for 6 months in 1994... then I came back. Never regretted it, made OK $ met some cool people.
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I did, for 6 months in 1994... then I came back. Never regretted it, made OK $ met some cool people.
Did anyone even notice you were away ??
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Did anyone even notice you were away ??
Wiggs tells me your name is Hidde. Is this true?
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Wiggs tells me your name is Hidde. Is this true?
Wiggs should be careful with the words he spreads around..
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Many times.
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I could easily have pointed to Mike as an example, but I did not do so because this is not really about him; many people are stuck in the same dynamic and it is not always about finances or debt. Rather it is about patterns of behavior and failing to notice the link between the choices one makes and the consequences one lives with.
I have this female friend in her late 30s who spends a few yrs in one palce and then moves, her same financial situation is still the same, and she never gets it right.. I told her that no man wants a awoman who has no stability, financial or other...She repeats the same pattern of behavior over and over again.
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I have this female friend in her late 30s who spends a few yrs in one palce and then moves, her same financial situation is still the same, and she never gets it right.. I told her that no man wants a awoman who has no stability, financial or other...She repeats the same pattern of behavior over and over again.
and she is fat as hell, which doesn't help anything.
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and she is fat as hell, which doesn't help anything.
Yep....she is, you must know her...gained a shitload of weight.
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
I've not thought about disappearing, because I like my life most of the time. I have considered that it would be nice to have a duplicate that could lead an alternative lifestyle and disappear if they got into too much trouble. This way I could be home being a good husband while my duplicate could go out and raise hell. I mean, if one is going to dream, dream big. I also think it would be fun to be like Lestat the vampire. Whatever you do, you wake up the next day refreshed and unscathed.
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I'm sure there's many men in thongs who did in fact cross that imaginary line on the carpet who would like to just disappear and start over.
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Yep....she is, you must know her...gained a shitload of weight.
I know you, brother man.
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Mexicans do it all the time here in America..... Very plausible
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Mexicans do it all the time here in America..... Very plausible
Hahahah, QFT!
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
What's bothering you, mate?
Spit it out. 8)
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Did anyone even notice you were away ??
Yeah, my friends from the military, and my family but they had no clue where I'd gone...
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Wiggs get some help man. Too much going on right now.
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
You've done it "many" times?
Don't you say in your other post you've been married for 12 years?
So did you pull this off before or while you were married?
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A man is his own anchor first. [/Papa Hemmingway mode]
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You've done it "many" times?
Don't you say in your other post you've been married for 12 years?
So did you pull this off before or while you were married?
Read the title. Then read his post again .... Slowly... It's not that hard.
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What about the house, stocks, pension, family? I'd quit jobs and dissapear in my 20's. Now it's all out of the system. In the end you can run but can't hide from yourself. 8)
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"Any of you ever think about disappearing" contemplating this idea one can only assume you live a miserable, emotionally unstable existence. Get some help before you start to consider suicide, seriously.
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Just leaving and starting a new life, new name, no notice? Just wondering. And yes I have many times.
i had no problem doing it in Venezuela or argentina if i could find the right job, would just keep in touch with the folks and siblings.
i dream about being hugos right hand man, and taking over when he is done.
(http://www4.pictures.gi.zimbio.com/People+En+Espanol+50+Most+Beautiful+People+rIBbiMsaCbBl.jpg)
obviously a Ven beauty as your 1st lady is a must.
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Read the title. Then read his post again .... Slowly... It's not that hard.
I stand corrected. I messed that one up, sorry Mr. Wiggs.