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Title: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: Butterbean on August 18, 2011, 07:26:16 AM: Dear Abby: Sometime ago, you printed a letter from one of your readers who was upset over her son’s polyamorous relationship. I didn’t respond then, but now that my triad is ready to come out to my boyfriend’s family (we are out to mine and to my husband’s family), I feel the need to address this lifestyle in your column and ask your advice.

My husband and I have been together 10 years. We started out as swingers. When we met my now-boyfriend, it became apparent that it was going to be more serious than “play” partners. Our particular arrangement is a “V” triad, meaning I am involved with two (husband and boyfriend), but they are not involved with each other.

My boyfriend is extremely important to us in every way. We all work together to make a very smooth-running, loving household.

I want you and your readers to know that this IS a viable relationship with love, respect and, most important, open communication. This kind of relationship — or any, for that matter — is doomed without it.

An estimated half-million people in the United States are part of polyamorous relationships. We’re not freaks in need of counseling, but people who realize that love can grow and that there is an alternative to monogamy.

Abby, I would like to get some tips from someone who doesn’t readily accept this life or even know it’s out there. My boyfriend’s family is conservative and they know he lives with a married couple. We’ve all spent time together, and I think they like me. Of course, they don’t know I’m romantically involved with their son.

What’s the best way to tell them about our triad? We want them to know this isn’t the end of the world and that I love him very much. I’d appreciate any advice from you or your readers on this. Until we’re out of the closet, please sign me ...

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Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: w8m8 on August 18, 2011, 08:51:12 AM: I wonder how old they are
Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: BayGBM on August 21, 2011, 04:52:41 PM: Interesting!
Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: newmom on August 23, 2011, 04:44:03 AM: I couldn't do it. If it works for them, then by all means be happy.
Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: Migs on August 23, 2011, 05:43:17 PM: Quote from: Runningmom on August 23, 2011, 04:44:03 AM
I couldn't do it. If it works for them, then by all means be happy.

i'll just wait until you are drunk
Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: newmom on August 23, 2011, 06:00:22 PM: Quote from: Migs on August 23, 2011, 05:43:17 PM
i'll just wait until you are drunk

awww miggils..I don't get drunk
Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: Migs on August 23, 2011, 07:22:54 PM: you should start trying
Title: Re: POLL: Polyamorous Relationships
Post by: newmom on August 23, 2011, 07:26:06 PM: Quote from: Migs on August 23, 2011, 07:22:54 PM
you should start trying

wonder if calvin has any pointers ;D