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Title: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: bigmikecox on September 22, 2011, 10:54:18 AM

If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
   didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?
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Post by: claymore on September 22, 2011, 10:54:59 AM
Your kidding right...
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Post by: bradistani on September 22, 2011, 10:55:27 AM
depends on how much you love her
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Post by: Fortress on September 22, 2011, 10:56:26 AM
Ditch the bitch like the dirty whore she is.
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Post by: dr.chimps on September 22, 2011, 10:56:39 AM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?
You gonna kiss that mouth?    ;D
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 11:04:29 AM
Did she tell you it was a blowjob? or could you smell it on her breath?
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Post by: Dr Dutch on September 22, 2011, 11:14:31 AM
...then I will finally find out what her head on a stick in the front yard looks like...
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Post by: Fitness4Life on September 22, 2011, 11:15:12 AM
weren't we having this discussion in my "job" posting lol
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Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 22, 2011, 11:16:59 AM
no because she refuses to give me blowjobs i'd be extra mad
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Post by: bigmikecox on September 22, 2011, 11:17:32 AM
I always found it funny how some girls wont fuck but will glady swallow your load after knowing you for 20 minutes
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Post by: Dr Dutch on September 22, 2011, 11:17:38 AM
weren't we having this discussion in my "job" posting lol
My post above answers the question adequately..
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 11:18:09 AM
i have a Romanian female friend that has her front chicklet chipped off, i asked what happened to her tooth, she said her romanian boyfriend in romania broke it and chipped it off when he caught her cheating

 
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Post by: pluck on September 22, 2011, 11:18:29 AM
Next time your wife kisses you, imagine her gagging on that guys dick.

Hope this helps
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Post by: MikMaq on September 22, 2011, 11:18:50 AM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?
Drag her to some inner city crack den, and force her to suck a few dicks, if and i mean if she don't get aids, you got a keeper ;D
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Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 22, 2011, 11:19:00 AM
I always found it funny how some girls wont fuck but will glady swallow your load after knowing you for 20 minutes

weird, most girls do anything to avoid blow job duty
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Post by: Dr Dutch on September 22, 2011, 11:19:48 AM
Next time your wife kisses you, imagine her gagging on that guys dick.

Hope this helps
If her head's on a stick the only one she'll be kissing is Lucifer...
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 11:20:24 AM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?

it's not forgivable but I wouldn't be "mad" about it.
just like having sex

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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 11:21:02 AM
Next time your wife kisses you, imagine her gagging on that guys dick.

Hope this helps

like she hasn't gagged on somebody's dick before she got with you

makes no sense
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Post by: smoothasf on September 22, 2011, 11:21:59 AM
Tell her you want a three some with her and her hottest mate to make up for it. Afterwards.dump her...unless it was really good lol
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Post by: OneMoreRep on September 22, 2011, 11:22:40 AM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?

Even if your girlfriend (or boyfriend in the case of most getbiggers  ;) ) has an emotional affair with another man, I would dump her.

Don't take a chance with someone who isn't going to cherish and respect you.

Now, if you entice her into wanting to suck another man's penis, then that's on you.

"1"
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Post by: THEBOSS on September 22, 2011, 11:24:26 AM
 ;D If she doesnt own half you"er stuff fuck it . Just don"t marry it !
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 11:27:17 AM
Even if your girlfriend (or boyfriend in the case of most getbiggers  ;) ) has an emotional affair with another man, I would dump her.

Don't take a chance with someone who isn't going to cherish and respect you.
Now, if you entice her into wanting to suck another man's penis, then that's on you.

"1"

wait a minute here

I love my gf and I have a fucking hard time not fucking other bitches, doesn't mean I don't love her.

but who knows, maybe one night it will be too hard to resist and I'll fuck a hoe and it wouldn't mean shit to me.

I expect the same from her, she is just as human as I am.

even if she says she would never cheat on me I don't believe her for shit
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 11:28:13 AM
http://www.xvideos.com/video854721/trina_michaels_punish_that_bitch (http://www.xvideos.com/video854721/trina_michaels_punish_that_bitch)
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 11:40:36 AM
wait a minute here

I love my gf and I have a fucking hard time not fucking other bitches, doesn't mean I don't love her.

but who knows, maybe one night it will be too hard to resist and I'll fuck a hoe and it wouldn't mean shit to me.

I expect the same from her, she is just as human as I am.

even if she says she would never cheat on me I don't believe her for shit

uh...yeah it does

You need to find another woman...if that's the dynamic of your relationship, where it's "inevitable' someone is going to fuck another person, you aren't meant to be together. unless of course...You are not in a committed relationship and you're cool with her sucking someone elses cock and getting her pussy pummeled by another dude.

Not trying to be a dick...but that's fucked up. i would never cheat on my woman...(and i get PLENTY of opportunities)..and i know in my heart she feels the same way
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Post by: cephissus on September 22, 2011, 11:46:02 AM
lol nice edit groink
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Post by: D.O.U.P on September 22, 2011, 11:47:36 AM
uh...yeah it does

You need to find another woman...if that's the dynamic of your relationship, where it's "inevitable' someone is going to fuck another person, you aren't meant to be together. unless of course...You are not in a committed relationship and you're cool with her sucking someone elses cock and getting her pussy pummeled by another dude.

Not trying to be a dick...but that's fucked up. i would never cheat on my woman...(and i get PLENTY of opportunities)..and i know in my heart she feels the same way
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Never? Come on my man. Right time, right vibe anyone is capable given the perfect set of circumstances.
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Post by: OneMoreRep on September 22, 2011, 11:48:02 AM
wait a minute here

I love my gf and I have a fucking hard time not fucking other bitches, doesn't mean I don't love her.

but who knows, maybe one night it will be too hard to resist and I'll fuck a hoe and it wouldn't mean shit to me.

I expect the same from her, she is just as human as I am.

even if she says she would never cheat on me I don't believe her for shit

Because you love her, you show her enough respect and cherish her by not fucking random women.  That is exactly what you said and further validates my point.  I don't see where we do agree there.

Also, if you are starting to sway, even mentally, start reexamining and maybe considering that while you do love her, you might not be "in" love with her.

Big difference between the two..  Groink knows what I'm talking about.
"1"
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Post by: Tre on September 22, 2011, 11:49:03 AM
Any guy who even uses the word 'cheating' is a pussy.  It's such a fucking bitch word to use.  

Now you know.
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 11:49:38 AM
uh...yeah it does

You need to find another woman...if that's the dynamic of your relationship, where it's "inevitable' someone is going to fuck another person, you aren't meant to be together. unless of course...You are not in a committed relationship and you're cool with her sucking someone elses cock and getting her pussy pummeled by another dude.

Not trying to be a dick...but that's fucked up. i would never cheat on my woman...(and i get PLENTY of opportunities)..and i know in my heart she feels the same way

Maybe I am just an asshole.

I don't know, I have never been in a relationship where I haven't been tempted by other girls.

it's just the way I am. Doesn't mean I always cheat. In some relationship I have, in some I haven't.

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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 11:50:51 AM
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Never? Come on my man. Right time, right vibe anyone is capable given the perfect set of circumstances.

Not in my opinion....it's called having some self control and respect...That's just me. if you are going to commit to somebody...yeah....NEVER

if you want to play the field, that's cool too
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 11:51:14 AM
Because you love her, you show her enough respect and cherish her by not fucking random women.  That is exactly what you said and further validates my point.  I don't see where we do agree there.

Also, if you are starting to sway, even mentally, start reexamining and maybe considering that while you do love her, you might not be "in" love with her.

Big difference between the two..  Groink knows what I'm talking about."1"

I understand what you guys are saying, I am just not that way.

I have a hard time with the "in love" thing.


scientificly, love is simply a sexual pulsion toward somebody that "fits" you ideal caracteristic 
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 11:58:58 AM
I understand what you guys are saying, I am just not that way.

I have a hard time with the "in love" thing.


scientificly, love is simply a sexual pulsion toward somebody that "fits" you ideal caracteristic 

I guess if you're cool with it being done to you too, i really can't fault you dude.

But I will say, If that day comes, good chance you change your tune  ;D
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Post by: Man of Steel on September 22, 2011, 12:01:23 PM
I understand what you guys are saying, I am just not that way.

I have a hard time with the "in love" thing.


scientificly, love is simply a sexual pulsion toward somebody that "fits" you ideal caracteristic 

You haven't met the right woman.  The moment you begin to rationalize love with science LOL.....well........you've never been in love.
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Post by: OneMoreRep on September 22, 2011, 12:02:13 PM
You haven't met the right man or woman.  The moment you begin to rationalize love with science LOL.....well........you've never been in love.

Edited for good measure..

"1"
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 12:03:29 PM
You haven't met the right woman.  The moment you begin to rationalize love with science LOL.....well........you've never been in love.

Yup....the thought of another man putting his hands on my woman makes me want to rip someones throat out
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Post by: calfzilla on September 22, 2011, 12:04:12 PM
uh...yeah it does

You need to find another woman...if that's the dynamic of your relationship, where it's "inevitable' someone is going to fuck another person, you aren't meant to be together. unless of course...You are not in a committed relationship and you're cool with her sucking someone elses cock and getting her pussy pummeled by another dude.

Not trying to be a dick...but that's fucked up. i would never cheat on my woman...(and i get PLENTY of opportunities)..and i know in my heart she feels the same way

I agree with groink. Stavios the way you describe things you are not in love at all. When truly in love with a girl you will not want to fuck other bitches. Sure everyone always looks , but as far as seriously wanting to do anything, that's not love.
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Post by: greeneyes on September 22, 2011, 12:05:18 PM
I'll leave her and never talk to her again doesn't matter how much I love her or how much I'll suffer
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 12:10:06 PM
I guess if you're cool with it being done to you too, i really can't fault you dude.

But I will say, If that day comes, good chance you change your tune  ;D

haha I am not "cool" with it, it's just that it would be hypocritical of me to call my gf a slut if she cheats on me while I could do the same thing if the temptation is too strong
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Post by: OneMoreRep on September 22, 2011, 12:10:12 PM
Yup....the thought of another man putting his hands on my woman makes me want to rip someones throat out

Take it easy with this guy, take it easy..

"1"
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 12:11:31 PM
You haven't met the right woman.  The moment you begin to rationalize love with science LOL.....well........you've never been in love.

haha well wtf, you guys are shaking up my world today  ;D

maybe you guys are right, I don't know !

I have always felt this way so maybe I have never been "in love"

good thing my girlfriend don't read getbig  ;D
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 12:12:36 PM
Take it easy with this guy, take it easy..

"1"

 ;D....or pull on someones balls really hard...better  :D ;D
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Post by: littleboyblue on September 22, 2011, 12:13:08 PM
weird, most girls do anything to avoid blow job duty
What kind of girls do you know?  Never had that issue! ;D
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Post by: LittleJ on September 22, 2011, 12:14:14 PM
We love you stavios
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Post by: OneMoreRep on September 22, 2011, 12:14:41 PM
;D....or pull on someones balls really hard...better  :D ;D

Well, now, that would just be plain old fun big boy!

"1"
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Post by: Deicide on September 22, 2011, 12:19:13 PM
In my experience just move on; my latest relationship I had, I had forgiven her after she cheated on me (to her credit she admitted to me) but ultimately that and other things put too much strain on the relationship and I could not trust her, so sorry and sad to say, if she cheated, get rid of her.
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 12:19:57 PM
haha well wtf, you guys are shaking up my world today  ;D

maybe you guys are right, I don't know !

I have always felt this way so maybe I have never been "in love"

good thing my girlfriend don't read getbig  ;D

It's OK Stav...we still love ya
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Post by: JZMB on September 22, 2011, 12:21:25 PM
Islamic way of looking the adultery: If the women look straight up to another's man eye, she must be killed, that's in the law  

Koran rules
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 12:23:25 PM
Shes riding passanger seat on your road trip Stavios .... have fun at it
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 12:23:47 PM
It's a scientific fact if you have a big penis you won't get cheated on
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Post by: Man of Steel on September 22, 2011, 12:24:00 PM
;D....or pull on someones balls really hard...better  :D ;D

Groink once clotheslined his grandmother for mixing whole milk with his whey.
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Post by: Deicide on September 22, 2011, 12:32:58 PM
It's a scientific fact if you have a big penis you won't get cheated on

Do you have data on this? It sounds interesting.
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Post by: Hulkotron on September 22, 2011, 12:34:38 PM
Tell her you want a three some with her and her hottest mate to make up for it. Afterwards.dump her...unless it was really good lol

x2 strong plan
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Post by: 240 is Back on September 22, 2011, 12:35:27 PM
I always found it funny how some girls wont fuck but will glady swallow your load after knowing you for 20 minutes

Yes.  Some moral loophole with which they are fortunately blessed with :)
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Post by: THEBOSS on September 22, 2011, 12:43:40 PM
 ;D Always remember DO ONTO OTHERS before they DO ONTO YOU .  You cant lose .
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Post by: funk51 on September 22, 2011, 12:44:02 PM
 ;D
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 12:47:53 PM
Gooooooomahhhhhhh  ;)

 

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Post by: Vikingman on September 22, 2011, 12:49:14 PM
It's a scientific fact if you have a big penis you won't get cheated on
lmao absolutelyWRONG
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Post by: 240 is Back on September 22, 2011, 12:50:15 PM
lol @ women cheating!

lol @ men defying their natural genetic predisposition to bang everything in sight.

lol @ myself!
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Post by: Vikingman on September 22, 2011, 12:50:25 PM
Maybe I am just an asshole.

I don't know, I have never been in a relationship where I haven't been tempted by other girls.

it's just the way I am. Doesn't mean I always cheat. In some relationship I have, in some I haven't.


youre not an asshole-youre a realist
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 12:52:30 PM
It's a scientific fact if you have a big penis you won't get cheated on
;D
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 12:53:33 PM
lol @ women cheating!

lol @ men defying their natural genetic predisposition to bang everything in sight.

lol @ myself!
;D
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 12:56:46 PM
Funny vid... minus some of the kids they showed

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Post by: Fortress on September 22, 2011, 01:01:32 PM
Give it a rest, guys.

Doesn't matter how "in love" you are, a real man will always wanna bang different pussy. The difference is, a man in love will avoid doing so, because, as someone else said, he respects his lady. Same thing for the women.

I have never cheated on a girlfriend. I choose to be with that girl because I respect her, otherwise she's just a fuck partner. Now, if she goes out on me, I have to re-think my respect for her and come to the conclusion that she is a worthless whore who doesn't deserve my respect and loyalty.

 
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Post by: Kwon_2 on September 22, 2011, 01:02:08 PM
wait a minute here

I love my gf and I have a fucking hard time not fucking other bitches, doesn't mean I don't love her.

but who knows, maybe one night it will be too hard to resist and I'll fuck a hoe and it wouldn't mean shit to me.

I expect the same from her, she is just as human as I am.

even if she says she would never cheat on me I don't believe her for shit

Sounds like you haven't found "The One" yet.

The one you want to get a family with, grow old with etc, the only one you need.
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Post by: jaejonna on September 22, 2011, 01:04:45 PM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?
  If my gf/wife even french kissed another man I would kick the bitch to the curb...hahaha dump the slut. Oh yeah when they say that she only gave him a bj that basically means that she fucked him like 5 times bj'd him before letting him smash w/out a condom. Too much time looking in the mirror and posting pics for guys on getbig leave a lady wanting 'more' ....

hope this helps.
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Post by: Stavios on September 22, 2011, 01:05:40 PM
Sounds like you haven't found "The One" yet.

The one you want to get a family with, grow old with etc, the only one you need.

I'd get a family with her if she wants, she is the perfect girlfriend and she doesn't bother me with the bullshit most girl expect you to do to make her happy.

I made my rules from the start and we have always been fine  8)

but fuck when I see some girl with big asses, tiny waist and nice looking tits of course the temptation is there ! I don't fuck them out of respect for my girlfriend but it doesn't make the envy of them sucking up my cock suddenly go away
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Post by: Pet shop boys on September 22, 2011, 01:18:22 PM
It's a scientific fact if you have a big penis you won't get cheated on


Quit watching porn for a min lad....



How would you react If you find out that ur girl has been cheating on you with a dude with a dick half your size?



WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHH
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 01:23:13 PM

Quit watching porn for a min lad....



How would you react If you find out that ur girl has been cheating on you with a dude with a dick half your size?



WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHH

Yeah.....I was joking
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Post by: Meso_z on September 22, 2011, 01:27:42 PM
I would hang them both side-to-side...to see if they are still happy.
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Post by: cephissus on September 22, 2011, 01:52:45 PM
strange society we live in  :-\
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Post by: BiGHer on September 22, 2011, 01:57:02 PM
Felt the need to chime in... Having been in love and having cheated on people I love, I can say this, it's nothing but destructive.

I've had loyal relationships and if you don't want a loyal relationship, the best thing you can truly do is be up front about what you want and go from there.  It's different with love though because you don't want to lose love.  You want to find a way to have your cake and eat it too.  It's a sick mental thing, but the problem is... the problem is when you get caught and you lose the love.  Then you go nuts because it hits you like a cement truck knowing what you had and lost.  All for what?  A piece of ass?  Meanwhile you had all that and a thousand other amazing things with the person you love and you get sick with yourself for throwing all that away for some bullshit.  It's really destructive.  Cheating on some random chick your dating and don't give a shit, fine.  Cheat on those you love and you will only hurt yourself more in the end.
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Post by: deadz on September 22, 2011, 02:08:46 PM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?
I'd tell her to get the fuck out and I would move on.
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Post by: badlad on September 22, 2011, 03:35:16 PM
Seriously, if you have agreed to a monogamous relationship then its not even open to negotiation. Cheating is cheating - if it happens then 'the relationship' is null and void coz it obviously isn't working. Here endeth the lesson.
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Post by: D.O.U.P on September 22, 2011, 03:50:30 PM
It's a scientific fact if you have a big penis you won't get cheated on

Uh oh.
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Post by: tbombz on September 22, 2011, 03:50:38 PM
weird, most girls do anything to avoid blow job duty
thats another idiotic post from you. first it was only sluts want to fuck more than once a week. now its girls dont like sucking dick. your pathetic and i truly feel sorry for you. all women like dirty nasty sex, they love sucking cock, love getting dominated. you just have to get them comfortable first.


Even if your girlfriend (or boyfriend in the case of most getbiggers  ;) ) has an emotional affair with another man, I would dump her.

Don't take a chance with someone who isn't going to cherish and respect you.

Now, if you entice her into wanting to suck another man's penis, then that's on you.

"1"
i think an emotional affair is much much worse than a sexual one. just my feelings.

uh...yeah it does

You need to find another woman...if that's the dynamic of your relationship, where it's "inevitable' someone is going to fuck another person, you aren't meant to be together. unless of course...You are not in a committed relationship and you're cool with her sucking someone elses cock and getting her pussy pummeled by another dude.

Not trying to be a dick...but that's fucked up. i would never cheat on my woman...(and i get PLENTY of opportunities)..and i know in my heart she feels the same way
right. in true love your oblivious to other people.

Yup....the thought of another man putting his hands on my woman makes me want to rip someones throat out
now this is just your ego, it doesnt have anything to do with loving her, it has to do with loving yourself .... TOO MUCH  ;D
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 22, 2011, 03:57:11 PM
Felt the need to chime in... Having been in love and having cheated on people I love, I can say this, it's nothing but destructive.

I've had loyal relationships and if you don't want a loyal relationship, the best thing you can truly do is be up front about what you want and go from there.  It's different with love though because you don't want to lose love.  You want to find a way to have your cake and eat it too.  It's a sick mental thing, but the problem is... the problem is when you get caught and you lose the love.  Then you go nuts because it hits you like a cement truck knowing what you had and lost.  All for what?  A piece of ass?  Meanwhile you had all that and a thousand other amazing things with the person you love and you get sick with yourself for throwing all that away for some bullshit.  It's really destructive.  Cheating on some random chick your dating and don't give a shit, fine.  Cheat on those you love and you will only hurt yourself more in the end.

I fell in love with a girl head over heals in love when I was 16. We dated through highschool and then college. I was madly in love with this girl I would do anything for her. I totally gave her my heart she could rip it out and crush me if she chose to. We went to different colleges. She stayed in our home town I left the state to play football. No one new who I was there I could pretty much do whatever I wanted. Well I came home to visit one time when facebook first came out. I left my page singed in on her computer. I had messages from several other girls. I was driving home when I got the call and she told me what she saw. My world came crashing down I almost threw up in the car. I went through weeks and weeks of her torturing me for it. It was fucken horrible. She would call me at all hours of the night crying. I should of just broke up with her when I had the chance. I stuck around and made it up to her as best as I could. What a terrible time.

When college was over I moved home and we were still dating. Well I went on a cycle of some really good test and dbol. I was a walking hard on. Only 22 at the time. I got caught cheating again!! I went through that horrible struggle again to keep her around. God I should of just let her go. She would call my cellphone again all hours of the night. If I didn't pick up she would call my house phone! I moved in with my parents ao they would get woken up! I'm surprised my dad didn't beat my ass for that. I would have to go pick her drunk ass up at 4 in the morning so she could cry to me and bitch me out. Then we would have amazing sex for another couple hours. It was a really strange time. I was deep into pill addiction to. My life was spiraling out of control fast! I just couldn't deal with giving her to anyone else. What a mistake. There's nothing worse than getting caught cheating. I was way to young to be in such a serious relationship. I should of stayed single!

I was into pills and steroids and had all this fucked up shit going on with my girlfriend. Sometimes I wonder how I made it through those dark days. I would get so strung out! I could never make it through that kind of pain again. I really think the person who gets caught has it the hardest.!

(little side story the day I left for college was one of the hardest days in my life. I was so in love with my girlfriend I didn't have a veichle so I new I wouldn't be able to see her for months. We were inseparable throughout our relationship we spent every second together. We both dreaded me going off to school! I cried myself to sleep for the first 2 weeks! I couldn't concentrate on football I don't know how I made it through the camp. I would call my parents and tell them I wanted to come home and quit. Thank god they made me stay and get my degree! Thank god! Love can be a very powerful thing. My world felt like it had been torn apart. Just because I was five hours a way from the love of my life! I don't think I will ever be in love like that again! When I would come home after a long 2-3 months away we would have mind blowing passionate sex the whole time I was home. I would even cry with her sometime after. That is real true passion and love. It was almost scary!
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Post by: D.O.U.P on September 22, 2011, 04:15:14 PM
I fell in love with a girl head over heals in love when I was 16. We dated through highschool and then college. I was madly in love with this girl I would do anything for her. I totally gave her my heart she could rip it out and crush me if she chose to. We went to different colleges. She stayed in our home town I left the state to play football. No one new who I was there I could pretty much do whatever I wanted. Well I came home to visit one time when facebook first came out. I left my page singed in on her computer. I had messages from several other girls. I was driving home when I got the call and she told me what she saw. My world came crashing down I almost threw up in the car. I went through weeks and weeks of her torturing me for it. It was fucken horrible. She would call me at all hours of the night crying. I should of just broke up with her when I had the chance. I stuck around and made it up to her as best as I could. What a terrible time.

When college was over I moved home and we were still dating. Well I went on a cycle of some really good test and dbol. I was a walking hard on. Only 22 at the time. I got caught cheating again!! I went through that horrible struggle again to keep her around. God I should of just let her go. She would call my cellphone again all hours of the night. If I didn't pick up she would call my house phone! I moved in with my parents ao they would get woken up! I'm surprised my dad didn't beat my ass for that. I would have to go pick her drunk ass up at 4 in the morning so she could cry to me and bitch me out. Then we would have amazing sex for another couple hours. It was a really strange time. I was deep into pill addiction to. My life was spiraling out of control fast! I just couldn't deal with giving her to anyone else. What a mistake. There's nothing worse than getting caught cheating. I was way to young to be in such a serious relationship. I should of stayed single!

I was into pills and steroids and had all this fucked up shit going on with my girlfriend. Sometimes I wonder how I made it through those dark days. I would get so strung out! I could never make it through that kind of pain again. I really think the person who gets caught has it the hardest.!

(little side story the day I left for college was one of the hardest days in my life. I was so in love with my girlfriend I didn't have a veichle so I new I wouldn't be able to see her for months. We were inseparable throughout our relationship we spent every second together. We both dreaded me going off to school! I cried myself to sleep for the first 2 weeks! I couldn't concentrate on football I don't know how I made it through the camp. I would call my parents and tell them I wanted to come home and quit. Thank god they made me stay and get my degree! Thank god! Love can be a very powerful thing. My world felt like it had been torn apart. Just because I was five hours a way from the love of my life! I don't think I will ever be in love like that again! When I would come home after a long 2-3 months away we would have mind blowing passionate sex the whole time I was home. I would even cry with her sometime after. That is real true passion and love. It was almost scary!

Respect for having the stones to share that. Respect.
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Post by: chaos on September 22, 2011, 04:22:18 PM
When did getbig turn into the Dr Phil show ???
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 22, 2011, 04:23:50 PM
Thanks man. I always put my whole heart into things. I loved her with every ounce of my being. I felt like I had my whole life taken from me just because I had to move to another state for awhile lol. Thank god I had my own room for the first semester of college. I was one of the few who did. I cried myself to sleep many nights. I would talk to her on the phone for hours and hours. I always tell younger men to wait until they're older for a serious relationship. Im actually still living with the girl to this day. We fight like cats and dogs. We lost the powerful passion we once had for eachother. I don't think we're going to make it much longer.
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Post by: chaos on September 22, 2011, 04:27:05 PM
Thanks man. I always put my whole heart into things. I loved her with every ounce of my being. I felt like I had my whole life taken from me just because I had to move to another state for awhile lol. Thank god I had my own room for the first semester of college. I was one of the few who did. I cried myself to sleep many nights. I would talk to her on the phone for hours and hours. I always tell younger men to wait until they're older for a serious relationship. Im actually still living with the girl to this day. We fight like cats and dogs. We lost the powerful passion we once had for eachother. I don't think we're going to make it much longer.
The fuck ???

Next there will be group internet hugs.... ::)
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 22, 2011, 04:29:54 PM
The fuck ???

Next there will be group internet hugs.... ::)

Quit hateing man. Woman fall hard for me I can't help it. I wear my heart on my sleave and I'm epicly handsome. They love that shit!

Wanna fight about it?
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Post by: chaos on September 22, 2011, 04:31:46 PM
Quit hateing man. Woman fall hard for me I can't help it. I wear my heart on my sleave and I'm epicly handsome. They love that shit!

Wanna fight about it?
I remember a getbig that would have destroyed you for admitting any of that. :(

OK, let's fight! >:(
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Post by: D.O.U.P on September 22, 2011, 04:32:21 PM
Dude doesn't give a fuck about how his words are perceived. THAT takes REAL stones.

Look I hate all most everyone and everything so when I read something true/honest I give the props.
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Post by: chaos on September 22, 2011, 04:34:55 PM
Dude doesn't give a fuck about how his words are perceived. THAT takes REAL stones.

Look I hate all most everyone and everything so when I read something true/honest I give the props.
Looks more like a cry for sympathy.....a little "begging for attention" if you will. :-\
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Post by: WillGrant on September 22, 2011, 05:09:17 PM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?
A bullet is needed here - kill her
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 22, 2011, 05:10:12 PM
Looks more like a cry for sympathy.....a little "begging for attention" if you will. :-\

Haha I had something I could add to this. It felt good to get that out.
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Post by: Nails on September 22, 2011, 05:11:45 PM
Haha I had something I could add to this. It felt good to get that out.


Good story Mak.... what position did you play when you played ball?

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Post by: D.O.U.P on September 22, 2011, 05:48:23 PM
Looks more like a cry for sympathy.....a little "begging for attention" if you will. :-\

Somewhat, yet it's still ballsy to lay that stuff down. He MUST have known he was going to get blasted.
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Post by: flinstones1 on September 22, 2011, 05:50:07 PM
Thanks man. I always put my whole heart into things. I loved her with every ounce of my being. I felt like I had my whole life taken from me just because I had to move to another state for awhile lol. Thank god I had my own room for the first semester of college. I was one of the few who did. I cried myself to sleep many nights. I would talk to her on the phone for hours and hours. I always tell younger men to wait until they're older for a serious relationship. Im actually still living with the girl to this day. We fight like cats and dogs. We lost the powerful passion we once had for eachother. I don't think we're going to make it much longer.

your 27? so 11 years now you have been with her that is pretty awesome. Do you think she has ever cheated on you? Sounds like a pretty amazing girl to have put up with all that, that many times and stay loyal to one guy.  But I see your point for wanting to break up with her, Charleston is an absolute nightmare for a guy in your situation with all these beautiful women around


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Post by: chaos on September 22, 2011, 05:51:40 PM
Somewhat, yet it's still ballsy to lay that stuff down. He MUST have known he was going to get blasted.
A few years back and he would be in tears already.....

Oh well.......adapt or die. ;)
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 22, 2011, 06:05:00 PM

Good story Mak.... what position did you play when you played ball?



I was a 6'0 180 pounds my freshman year. I was skinny and lanky. I played receiver my freshman year. By the time I became a senior I was weighing 205 they moved me to outside linebacker. It was a huge step up in competition from highschool. I didn't get much playing time until my junior senior year. We had 100 guys on our team.

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Post by: makaveli25 on September 22, 2011, 06:07:23 PM
your 27? so 11 years now you have been with her that is pretty awesome. Do you think she has ever cheated on you? Sounds like a pretty amazing girl to have put up with all that, that many times and stay loyal to one guy.  But I see your point for wanting to break up with her, Charleston is an absolute nightmare for a guy in your situation with all these beautiful women around




She's a really good girl very loyal. We were together for so long theres a chance she cheated somewhere a long the line especially to get back at me. Our personalities clash. Her mom always wore the pants in her family. I was brought up the exact opposite way. It has caused huge conflicts along the way.
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Post by: Xerxes on September 22, 2011, 06:13:45 PM
Is love really anything more than codependency?
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 06:26:34 PM
Is love really anything more than codependency?

Yes...it's a lot more.

Like MOS said....if you are going to try and explain love with scientific terms, you don't know what it is.

Love is looking at your woman and wishing you both were little kids....so you could have experienced everything life has to offer, together
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Post by: che on September 22, 2011, 06:35:41 PM
Love is looking at your woman and wishing you both were little kids....so you could have experienced everything life has to offer, together

Awwwww

BTW ,where is Racistmom ?
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Post by: 2ND COMING on September 22, 2011, 06:36:33 PM

Love is looking at your woman and wishing you both were little kids....so you could have experienced everything life has to offer, together

check your e2 lately  :D
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 06:38:56 PM
I'll fucking kill you  >:( >:( !!!!

 ;D  just keeping it real, you could describe "love" a million different ways...that's just one way.
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Post by: Swlabr on September 22, 2011, 06:39:45 PM
inb4 Groink gets dumped.

I'll be here when that happens. :)
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 06:41:56 PM
inb4 Groink gets dumped.

I'll be here when that happens. :)

not happening anytime soon, things are good in Groinkville....knock wood
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Post by: Vikingman on September 22, 2011, 06:50:16 PM
Uh oh.
to be honest-ive been with a few women whose husbands were big and Im average-and they loved me-must have been my pecs... 8)
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Post by: garebear on September 22, 2011, 06:50:28 PM
I remember a getbig that would have destroyed you for admitting any of that. :(

OK, let's fight! >:(
This.
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Post by: Quickerblade on September 22, 2011, 06:51:16 PM
I will do this.



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Post by: apply85 on September 22, 2011, 06:52:08 PM
why would anyone ever marry someone as stupid as a woman, those creatures repulse me they really do
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Post by: Xerxes on September 22, 2011, 06:52:15 PM
Yes...it's a lot more.

Like MOS said....if you are going to try and explain love with scientific terms, you don't know what it is.

Love is looking at your woman and wishing you both were little kids....so you could have experienced everything life has to offer, together
You on your period? You sound like a bitch.




















 ;D  :-*
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Post by: Rami on September 22, 2011, 06:53:14 PM
But didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?

yeah, have a nice time kissing that...
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Post by: Vikingman on September 22, 2011, 06:58:33 PM
you gotta take the ego out of this-it gets you in trouble-or in jail-yes we would get angry and throw something but having kids Id just get a divorce or even stay married and just separate and fuck everything that moves-cause Id never get married again and I have a good marriage with sex etc-just not a natural thing-UNLESS you meet that ONE -but I have and Im not with her either-life aint no fairy tale
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Post by: Palpatine Q on September 22, 2011, 06:58:40 PM
You on your period? You sound like a bitch.




















 ;D  :-*

Yep...and this is why you'll never see me starting a "my GF dumped me, what should i do ?? :'(" thread  ;) 8)

I love the shit out of my woman, she's a great girl, and i light up like a Christmas tree when i open the door and she's standing there...fine as hell  :)

It's good shit...i hope you all get to experience it...even you bitter mutherfukkers  ;D
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Post by: PJim on September 22, 2011, 06:59:59 PM
Ted Bundy the kunt.
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Post by: Fortress on September 22, 2011, 07:01:40 PM
I have had my heart smashed to bits several times and have had it with the whole deal. My last relationship was two years ago. Her and I were together 10 years. She cheated and played games and that was that.

I dated this one girl in the late '90s who I was TOTALLY head over heels for. Never felt that way before or since. Crazy for this chick. Everything she said was perfect; she looked perfect (to me), etc. Then over the course of a season or two I found out she was completely psychotic and basically lived a split life. Crushed me, dead.

I'd like to believe in romantic love, but I just do not any longer.

Not ONCE have I ever cheated on a girl. Hell, with that 10-year gal I lived alone in another country for a few years. Had all sorts of chances to cheat. Never did.

In the end she treated me like just some piece of shit who never mattered.

Fuck it.  
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Post by: che on September 22, 2011, 07:16:58 PM
Where's the expert Coach ?
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Post by: gh15 on September 22, 2011, 07:27:10 PM
I have had my heart smashed to bits several times and have had it with the whole deal. My last relationship was two years ago. Her and I were together 10 years. She cheated and played games and that was that.

I dated this one girl in the late '90s who I was TOTALLY head over heels for. Never felt that way before or since. Crazy for this chick. Everything she said was perfect; she looked perfect (to me), etc. Then over the course of a season or two I found out she was completely psychotic and basically lived a split life. Crushed me, dead.

I'd like to believe in romantic love, but I just do not any longer.

Not ONCE have I ever cheated on a girl. Hell, with that 10-year gal I lived alone in another country for a few years. Had all sorts of chances to cheat. Never did.

In the end she treated me like just some piece of shit who never mattered.

Fuck it.  

female usualy not like that,, has to be something with you ,, maybe too kind of a fella,, you cant be too kind to girl my friend,, you always need to make sure you win some ,, bodybuild especialy we love our asses,, our girls know this and either in for it or not ,,but our girl knwo we love our asses,,

be litle more strong with them ,, dont let them step on you ,, pussy is only a pussy and every woman is kind and will at the end if inlove do whatever to make you happy trust me on that,, dont get blind by the look ...remember its all make up and balonie,, moment you fuck it couple times pussy remain pussy and its all about same...unless the girl is 250lb obese then its a problem,, but over all 120-160 all the same balonie IF! THE GIRL IS SMALL TO BEGIN WITH!,,the girl has to have small to medium frame to begin with ...to be cosndierered small and pull ilussion ,, in any way you have to make sure she respect you and that doesnt mean give her money or find a good career...it means she need to know you are one thing she wont be able to live with out,, no not physically but EMOTIONALY
'
your story is sad but life is long

gh15 approved
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Post by: Fortress on September 22, 2011, 07:30:56 PM
female usualy not like that,, has to be something with you ,, maybe too kind of a fella,, you cant be too kind to girl my friend,, you always need to make sure you win some ,, bodybuild especialy we love our asses,, our girls know this and either in for it or not ,,but our girl knwo we love our asses,,

be litle more strong with them ,, dont let them step on you ,, pussy is only a pussy and every woman is kind and will at the end if inlove do whatever to make you happy trust me on that,, dont get blind by the look ...remember its all make up and balonie,, moment you fuck it couple times pussy remain pussy and its all about same...unless the girl is 250lb obese then its a problem,, but over all 120-160 all the same balonie IF! THE GIRL IS SMALL TO BEGIN WITH!,,the girl has to have small to medium frame to begin with ...to be cosndierered small and pull ilussion ,, in any way you have to make sure she respect you and that doesnt mean give her money or find a good career...it means she need to know you are one thing she wont be able to live with out,, no not physically but EMOTIONALY
'
your story is sad but life is long

gh15 approved

I appreciate what you say, my friend. Perhaps I am too kind. It's just been my way with chicks.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: basil on September 23, 2011, 07:18:54 AM
You should cornhole some guy, but tell her it's not really cheating b/c it was a guy and you're not gay.  That will teach her a lesson.   :D
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Post by: MikMaq on September 23, 2011, 07:38:52 AM
She's a really good girl very loyal. We were together for so long theres a chance she cheated somewhere a long the line especially to get back at me. Our personalities clash. Her mom always wore the pants in her family. I was brought up the exact opposite way. It has caused huge conflicts along the way.
Thanks dude you made me feel good. You not only cheated once but several times in the relationship, you also say you were adicted to pills.

You have a pretty consistent mark of a douchebag. Sorry dude it's the truth. Cheating on your girl don't make you a bad person, but it's behavior that shitty people are great at. No matter how long ago this happened unless you've made some very fundamental changes, (finding god, quitting drugs, or stopping cheating DOES NOT COUNT) your still a peace of shit. Sorry and know crying and having emotions does not make you a good person, everyone thinks there a good person, it's being aware of the results of your actions that makes you have way descent. Cheating for you, is most likely just the tip of the iceberg of how your an asshole.

 
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Post by: dyslexic on September 23, 2011, 08:53:23 AM
Just like anything else. Keep playing around with the whole "cheating" scenario. Keep trippin' and thinking, losing sleep, stressing out, taking her back after you know she can't keep her legs closed or her mouth shut.

God forbid you were stupid enough to have children with her.


One day you will wake up and nothing will matter. Nothing that concerns her anyway. You will go on to live your life and you will probably despise all women and trust noone.

It's inevitable.

Marriages today are NOT based on anything moral or solid. It's not even sexual attraction that makes most folks cheat. It's the work environment. Most people don't know where to draw the line in a (what was once) *friendly* situation.


Women have agendas too. Trust me when I say, it may have nothing to do with you. A cheating woman more often than not possesses some inherently fucked up, long-time gone bad character traits. If you care to find out where they came from, have at it.

It won't "fix" anything. Once a cheater, always a cheater.. and if there is alcohol involved, throw in the towel.
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Post by: Tapeworm on September 23, 2011, 09:02:40 AM
Love and lust are only semi-compatible at best.  Hijinks ensue.
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Post by: ChristopherA on September 23, 2011, 09:32:29 AM
Thanks dude you made me feel good. You not only cheated once but several times in the relationship, you also say you were adicted to pills.

You have a pretty consistent mark of a douchebag. Sorry dude it's the truth. Cheating on your girl don't make you a bad person, but it's behavior that shitty people are great at. No matter how long ago this happened unless you've made some very fundamental changes, (finding god, quitting drugs, or stopping cheating DOES NOT COUNT) your still a peace of shit. Sorry and know crying and having emotions does not make you a good person, everyone thinks there a good person, it's being aware of the results of your actions that makes you have way descent. Cheating for you, is most likely just the tip of the iceberg of how your an asshole.

 
Who the fuck are you again? The guy says a couple things about himself and you say he's a POS? Thats one of the stronger insults you can use on someone in my opinion. Never cheated on anyone myself but had my own issues will pills just like millions of Americans right now, it's an epidemic. Doesnt make me a piece of shit, just was in a bad place prob like Makaveli was. Dont be an asshole
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Post by: RC Money on September 23, 2011, 09:43:47 AM
Any guy who even uses the word 'cheating' is a pussy.  It's such a fucking bitch word to use.  

Now you know.

I know right, what is it a test or competition. No.. your just fucking other bitches and being unfaithful not "cheating".
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 23, 2011, 09:46:02 AM
Thanks dude you made me feel good. You not only cheated once but several times in the relationship, you also say you were adicted to pills.

You have a pretty consistent mark of a douchebag. Sorry dude it's the truth. Cheating on your girl don't make you a bad person, but it's behavior that shitty people are great at. No matter how long ago this happened unless you've made some very fundamental changes, (finding god, quitting drugs, or stopping cheating DOES NOT COUNT) your still a peace of shit. Sorry and know crying and having emotions does not make you a good person, everyone thinks there a good person, it's being aware of the results of your actions that makes you have way descent. Cheating for you, is most likely just the tip of the iceberg of how your an asshole.

 

Ohh fuck you dude. How many people are perfect? I know what I did was fucked up. I was 19-20 years old and had been in one serious relationship my whole life. I'm sure you've never made any mistakes before right  ::)

This guys must of caught the love of his life getting double penetrated by a pack of brothas.
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Post by: RC Money on September 23, 2011, 09:46:16 AM
What kind of girls do you know?  Never had that issue! ;D
i know right, thats the minimum a hoe could do for ya
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Post by: ChristopherA on September 23, 2011, 09:48:28 AM
Ohh fuck you dude. How many people are perfect? I know what I did was fucked up. I was 19-20 years old and had been in one serious relationship my whole life. I'm sure you've never made any mistakes before right  ::)
Thats what I'm saying. Calling someone a POS is fucked up. I had your back dawg. We have ALL made mistakes
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Post by: makaveli25 on September 23, 2011, 09:49:30 AM
Thats what I'm saying. Calling someone a POS is fucked up. I had your back dawg. We have ALL made mistakes

He problalby walked in on a few of his girlfriends getting railed or something and he's talking it out on me.
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Post by: Devon97 on September 23, 2011, 09:57:14 AM
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Never? Come on my man. Right time, right vibe anyone is capable given the perfect set of circumstances.

A wise man learns to avoid those circumstances.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: ChopperRider on September 23, 2011, 10:13:53 AM
If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
   didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?

He only let her give him a blowjob because she wasn't worth him cheating on his wife with.

Hope this helps.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: doison on September 23, 2011, 11:59:46 AM
Just like anything else. Keep playing around with the whole "cheating" scenario. Keep trippin' and thinking, losing sleep, stressing out, taking her back after you know she can't keep her legs closed or her mouth shut.

God forbid you were stupid enough to have children with her.


One day you will wake up and nothing will matter. Nothing that concerns her anyway. You will go on to live your life and you will probably despise all women and trust noone.

It's inevitable.

Marriages today are NOT based on anything moral or solid. It's not even sexual attraction that makes most folks cheat. It's the work environment. Most people don't know where to draw the line in a (what was once) *friendly* situation.


Women have agendas too. Trust me when I say, it may have nothing to do with you. A cheating woman more often than not possesses some inherently fucked up, long-time gone bad character traits. If you care to find out where they came from, have at it.

It won't "fix" anything. Once a cheater, always a cheater.. and if there is alcohol involved, throw in the towel.

This post is so straight-forward and accurate.....without a hint of any "I'm trying to minimize the evidence that I'm full stop crazy" thought process....that I'm compelled to ask you to save it on your hard drive.  Title it "proper neural connections -a thought process-" and set it aside for future comparison when you're not sure if you're thinking crazy or not.  

Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 12:13:32 PM
I have had my heart smashed to bits several times and have had it with the whole deal. My last relationship was two years ago. Her and I were together 10 years. She cheated and played games and that was that.

I dated this one girl in the late '90s who I was TOTALLY head over heels for. Never felt that way before or since. Crazy for this chick. Everything she said was perfect; she looked perfect (to me), etc. Then over the course of a season or two I found out she was completely psychotic and basically lived a split life. Crushed me, dead.

I'd like to believe in romantic love, but I just do not any longer.

Not ONCE have I ever cheated on a girl. Hell, with that 10-year gal I lived alone in another country for a few years. Had all sorts of chances to cheat. Never did.

In the end she treated me like just some piece of shit who never mattered.

Fuck it.  

I will explain this idea 100%

There is a dicotomy in every woman, every woman loves two things: power and sex.

However to them power is what they make you do in order to have sex with them, so in other words power = how crazy u get when they don't have sex with you.

So this woman had power over you and so she kept the relationship going, but when she needed to get fucked she went somewhere else... she couldn't come to you for sex, then her power is gone, see?

Nothing about being strong with them or whatever, it's a gene that gets activated by certain conditions in your environment such as women sucking your dick and accepting a wad of spit into their mouths with a smile, or it doesn't and you forever stay a beggar, never a chooser. No disrespect, but that's how it is, you the happiness of accepting a woman's will into your mind, the price for this happiness is being deceived, if you want to be a chooser there's courage required, it isn't free, treating a woman like the dog she is takes courage plane and simple
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: dyslexic on September 23, 2011, 12:14:15 PM
I know right, what is it a test or competition. No.. your just fucking other bitches and being unfaithful not "cheating".

we here at Getbig love semantics, don't we?
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 12:15:52 PM
Thanks dude you made me feel good. You not only cheated once but several times in the relationship, you also say you were adicted to pills.

You have a pretty consistent mark of a douchebag. Sorry dude it's the truth. Cheating on your girl don't make you a bad person, but it's behavior that shitty people are great at. No matter how long ago this happened unless you've made some very fundamental changes, (finding god, quitting drugs, or stopping cheating DOES NOT COUNT) your still a peace of shit. Sorry and know crying and having emotions does not make you a good person, everyone thinks there a good person, it's being aware of the results of your actions that makes you have way descent. Cheating for you, is most likely just the tip of the iceberg of how your an asshole.

 

lol @ this, this is how cowards react, this is the will of women that inhabits your brain reactiving negatively, in reality this notion that a woman's will is sacred is a lie, women love to be disciplined with pain and sorrow, simply takes courage to push out a woman's will out of your head and fill it with your own
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: makaveli25 on September 23, 2011, 12:20:30 PM
lol @ this, this is how cowards react, this is the will of women that inhabits your brain reactiving negatively, in reality this notion that a woman's will is sacred is a lie, women love to be disciplined with pain and sorrow, simply takes courage to push out a woman's will out of your head and fill it with your own

QFT.
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 23, 2011, 04:10:11 PM
Love is looking at your woman and wishing you both were little kids....so you could have experienced everything life has to offer, together
Wow...that is disturbing. Lol. Can you say "stalker"? 
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Nails on September 23, 2011, 04:11:49 PM
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: MuscleManiac on September 23, 2011, 05:02:55 PM
Ok so she cheats on you and you know that she cheats on you. Now you know that she has had another man's penis in her mouth and you're going to take her back and kiss her. I don't know...thats kinda like kissing his penis when you kiss her which is kinda gay...  :-\
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 05:04:09 PM
Ok so she cheats on you and you know that she cheats on you. Now you know that she has had another man's penis in her mouth and you're going to take her back and kiss her. I don't know...thats kinda like kissing his penis when you kiss her which is kinda gay...  :-\

love it when the virgins chime in
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: MuscleManiac on September 23, 2011, 05:09:51 PM
HA seriously though. If your girl sucks another man off and you take her back she has no respect for you period. Heck I'd say you have no respect for yourself but in this day and age it wouldn't surprise me when men shop in the women's section for clothes now and carry their woman's purses for them and shit like that.

How could you even look at her the same way after some shit like? Love? A woman who loves you wouldn't stoop so low as to do something like that. A girl who does this is a ho...plain and simple.


Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 05:14:25 PM
HA seriously though. If your girl sucks another man off and you take her back she has no respect for you period. Heck I'd say you have no respect for yourself but in this day and age it wouldn't surprise me when men shop in the women's section for clothes now and carry their woman's purses for them and shit like that.

How could you even look at her the same way after some shit like? Love? A woman who loves you wouldn't stoop so low as to do something like that. A girl who does this is a ho...plain and simple.




Do you want me to be serious or something, I mean I don't know if you are serious, but you are a virgin ok, it doesn't matter if you've had sex because it hasn't had the effect it should have
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: flinstones1 on September 23, 2011, 06:36:53 PM
apply is there  Something you want to share with us that happened during your lifetime to have such a view on women? While it is admirabl to us softies who fall head over heels for girls on a regular basis, and while I think you have your points, no way You could of always been like this. Let it out dude we want to hear it
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: chaos on September 23, 2011, 06:39:39 PM
apply is there  Something you want to share with us that happened during your lifetime to have such a view on women? While it is admirabl to us softies who fall head over heels for girls on a regular basis, and while I think you have your points, no way You could of always been like this. Let it out dude we want to hear it
Aren't you the guy that jacked off his buddy?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 06:40:51 PM
apply is there  Something you want to share with us that happened during your lifetime to have such a view on women? While it is admirabl to us softies who fall head over heels for girls on a regular basis, and while I think you have your points, no way You could of always been like this. Let it out dude we want to hear it

My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 06:46:48 PM
And listen... do you think I joke when I talk about the dichotomy of women's love for power and her love for sex? Do you think I'm bullshitting? You understand if you let a woman's will inhabit your mind, she will then look for another man to inhabit hers, because that's what women really want to happen they are DOGS, they function best with a man owner... if you fall in love with a woman and she doesn't fuck around on you, you got lucky, it's like making a bad play in poker and hitting your flush, it's a bad move, it's a losing move, you gotta count on being lucky
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: 2ND COMING on September 23, 2011, 06:57:48 PM
Aren't you the guy that jacked off his buddy?

LOL
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: flinstones1 on September 23, 2011, 07:19:04 PM
My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power

looks like we have something in common. My mom kicked me out when I was 17 I was a junior in hs at the time really getting shitty grades. I just hated school, waste of time to me and I couldnt stand being around a bunch of slow mexicans all day. Just a huge insult to flin, Im not bragging but Im just telling it the way it was. School was a total insult to me.

One day she comes home, calls me up while Im smoking with a couple friends and tells me all my shit is on the front lawn. She found orals, , some pot , a shitload of test amps, proviron,  I think I had some deca in there too. It wasnt so much the gear I doubt she knew what the fuck  "omnadren"  was. My guess is   it was the needles , thats a sight that would make any mother loose her head.  over a  year later here I am supporting myself on the east coast.  My dad helped me  out until I got my feet on the ground.  Thank god my dad's jewishness was with him and  was there to support me, it didnt do a thing for my mom. You would never guess in a million years she is Jewish, she totally takes advantage of my dad and his money just a very cold person.  My mom said if I stayed then she would leave my father with all the money. I couldn't do that to him.  So yeah I know what your saying about women . Although I still love her cause she is my mom, I will always hate the bitch
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 23, 2011, 08:07:58 PM
looks like we have something in common. My mom kicked me out when I was 17 I was a junior in hs at the time really getting shitty grades. I just hated school, waste of time to me and I couldnt stand being around a bunch of slow mexicans all day. Just a huge insult to flin, Im not bragging but Im just telling it the way it was. School was a total insult to me.

One day she comes home, calls me up while Im smoking with a couple friends and tells me all my shit is on the front lawn. She found orals, , some pot , a shitload of test amps, proviron,  I think I had some deca in there too. It wasnt so much the gear I doubt she knew what the fuck  "omnadren"  was. My guess is   it was the needles , thats a sight that would make any mother loose her head.  over a  year later here I am supporting myself on the east coast.  My dad helped me  out until I got my feet on the ground.  Thank god my dad's jewishness was with him and  was there to support me, it didnt do a thing for my mom. You would never guess in a million years she is Jewish, she totally takes advantage of my dad and his money just a very cold person.  My mom said if I stayed then she would leave my father with all the money. I couldn't do that to him.  So yeah I know what your saying about women . Although I still love her cause she is my mom, I will always hate the bitch


have some self esteem for chrissake
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Meso_z on September 23, 2011, 09:08:16 PM
My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power
Nice family.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: BIG DUB on September 23, 2011, 09:27:35 PM
You're welcome.. ;D

50 THINGS A MAN SHOULD THINK ABOUT HIS WOMAN   Author Unknown.

1. If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a woman's behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a woman's character, let her go.
4. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change her or yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Don't let a woman push you into a relationship you don’t want to be in.
8. A woman wants to be with a man she can be proud of at all times. Don’t be a fool.
9. It takes a second to lose her trust, and a lifetime to gain it back.
10. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
11. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
12. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
13. Avoid women who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different men.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Don’t be with a mean-spirited person. Being “mad at the time” is not a good excuse.
16. Be with a woman you admire and trust.
17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let her figure things out (but don't wait for her, move on).
18. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If she causes any of them...flee.
19. You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within.
20. Don't let her place rules on you that she is not willing to follow herself -- double-standard.
21. Don’t worry about what your friends say, think about how you feel.
22. Be with someone who shows kindness... to everyone.
23. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has more education or in a better job.
24. Do not make her into a goddess. She is a woman, nothing more, nothing less.
25. Don’t be superficial, remember 25 years from now its not going to matter “who’s cuter”.
26. Actions speak louder than words. Don't play games.
27. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
28. Just because she says she loves you, doesn't mean that you are meant to be.
29. Love is a verb.
30. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
31. All women are NOT bitches.
32. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
33. If you don't love yourself...you can't love anyone else.
34. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
35. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing attractive about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
36. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
37. Never become your woman's "therapist".
38. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions.
39. Be with a woman who respects herself.
40. Give her space...let her go out with the girls, don't pressure her to spend time with you, You can't force a woman to hang out with you.
41. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later.
42. Never co-sign for a woman or let her mess-up your credit.
43. Sex is a small part of a real relationship. Find someone you can talk to.
44. When it's time to let go; let go.
45. Good women should be treated like good women.
45. Good women do want good men.
46. You can't make a wh**e into a housewife.
47. Never date a girl who looks fake or acts fake.
48. If you want out, get out. Don’t be complacent or lazy.
49. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
50. There is someone out there worthy to be in your life. Let out the trash, so she can come in
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: chess315 on September 23, 2011, 09:52:21 PM
weird, most girls do anything to avoid blow job duty
where do you find these girl pure natural strenght lol
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Meso_z on September 23, 2011, 10:07:04 PM
lmao @ 13.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 24, 2011, 12:46:33 AM
My mother kicked me out of the house because of my old profession, didn't talk to her for one year, from then on I have never believed a word out of a woman's mouth, aka I figured out they are dogs, and now I resent the power that they have over me with their fucking beauty and what not, so I insist on thinking of them as nothing and diluting that power
So, she kicked you out for a reason. Her house (as the parent), her rules.
Our mothers are the first women we have a relationship with, when that is strained, our perception of women is skewed.
I have a jobin which most (98%) are liars, cheats, and cheaters. Both the men and women, and they continually do it...many times the women "look" nice, but they have no admirable qualities, and they date men with no admirable qualities (just like their fathers, and the women are just like the guys mothers). So, with this being said, do you date women with no real admirable qualities? Do they only have good "surface" qualities?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: gh15 on September 24, 2011, 05:48:01 AM
it got to be americano mothers,, this is not how international mothers act,, especilay nto jew mothers,, they would feed spoon their son til they are 50 year old with soup,, they will complain he dont eat enough ,, they will always stand for their kids,, they will always blame everyone for anything done wrong beside their kid because their kid is best,,

i told you before americano parents are fucked up,, not all some are ok but most of them just ..well thats how they were raised,, its shitty life ,, sad for whomoever need to go through it ,, it get you strong though but it also get you nasty fucked up person ,,

again you need to look around you at what happening,, human being is at the lowest of the lowest culturally ,, and your parents are part of it,, it is a big problem what happened to americnaa society ,, big big problem

i dont think its recoverable as of the next 10-20 years,, maybe im wrong ,, i hope im wrong,,

when the only fella on americano tv i like to watch is don imus...it tell you something on the americano society ,, the americano society is fake shit balonie that is really really got to the buttom of the buttom now day ,, don imus keep it real but aside from him really everything ishorrid and catastrophic ,,that include the mams descriptions you just put here,, they are part of it all

a jew mom to treat her kid like this? blood mother?? JEW mohters? jew mother will let herself starve! for her boy or girl to have clothes and warm soup in and on their body,,

the storys you tell here are horrid and very sad,, it show how low th esociety got last 15 years,, it wasnt like that back in the 70s and 80s ,,it went catasrophic in the mid 90s and out of control in the 2000s,,

very sad

gh15 approved
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 24, 2011, 05:59:08 AM
Americano, no, born and raised in another country,
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Tito24 on September 24, 2011, 06:04:39 AM
You're welcome.. ;D

50 THINGS A MAN SHOULD THINK ABOUT HIS WOMAN   Author Unknown.

1. If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a woman's behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a woman's character, let her go.
4. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change her or yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Don't let a woman push you into a relationship you don’t want to be in.
8. A woman wants to be with a man she can be proud of at all times. Don’t be a fool.
9. It takes a second to lose her trust, and a lifetime to gain it back.
10. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
11. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
12. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
13. Avoid women who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different men.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Don’t be with a mean-spirited person. Being “mad at the time” is not a good excuse.
16. Be with a woman you admire and trust.
17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let her figure things out (but don't wait for her, move on).
18. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If she causes any of them...flee.
19. You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within.
20. Don't let her place rules on you that she is not willing to follow herself -- double-standard.
21. Don’t worry about what your friends say, think about how you feel.
22. Be with someone who shows kindness... to everyone.
23. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has more education or in a better job.
24. Do not make her into a goddess. She is a woman, nothing more, nothing less.
25. Don’t be superficial, remember 25 years from now its not going to matter “who’s cuter”.
26. Actions speak louder than words. Don't play games.
27. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
28. Just because she says she loves you, doesn't mean that you are meant to be.
29. Love is a verb.
30. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
31. All women are NOT bitches.
32. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
33. If you don't love yourself...you can't love anyone else.
34. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
35. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing attractive about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
36. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
37. Never become your woman's "therapist".
38. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions.
39. Be with a woman who respects herself.
40. Give her space...let her go out with the girls, don't pressure her to spend time with you, You can't force a woman to hang out with you.
41. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later.
42. Never co-sign for a woman or let her mess-up your credit.
43. Sex is a small part of a real relationship. Find someone you can talk to.
44. When it's time to let go; let go.
45. Good women should be treated like good women.
45. Good women do want good men.
46. You can't make a wh**e into a housewife.
47. Never date a girl who looks fake or acts fake.
48. If you want out, get out. Don’t be complacent or lazy.
49. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
50. There is someone out there worthy to be in your life. Let out the trash, so she can come in


very good ones!
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 24, 2011, 06:08:58 AM
it got to be americano mothers,, this is not how international mothers act,, especilay nto jew mothers,, they would feed spoon their son til they are 50 year old with soup,, they will complain he dont eat enough ,, they will always stand for their kids,, they will always blame everyone for anything done wrong beside their kid because their kid is best,,

i told you before americano parents are fucked up,, not all some are ok but most of them just ..well thats how they were raised,, its shitty life ,, sad for whomoever need to go through it ,, it get you strong though but it also get you nasty fucked up person ,,

again you need to look around you at what happening,, human being is at the lowest of the lowest culturally ,, and your parents are part of it,, it is a big problem what happened to americnaa society ,, big big problem

i dont think its recoverable as of the next 10-20 years,, maybe im wrong ,, i hope im wrong,,

when the only fella on americano tv i like to watch is don imus...it tell you something on the americano society ,, the americano society is fake shit balonie that is really really got to the buttom of the buttom now day ,, don imus keep it real but aside from him really everything ishorrid and catastrophic ,,that include the mams descriptions you just put here,, they are part of it all

a jew mom to treat her kid like this? blood mother?? JEW mohters? jew mother will let herself starve! for her boy or girl to have clothes and warm soup in and on their body,,

the storys you tell here are horrid and very sad,, it show how low th esociety got last 15 years,, it wasnt like that back in the 70s and 80s ,,it went catasrophic in the mid 90s and out of control in the 2000s,,

very sad

gh15 approved



This is unconditional love for your child!
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Tito24 on September 24, 2011, 06:37:59 AM


This is unconditional love for your child!

i dont understand how there can be parents who get angry about it.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: D.O.U.P on September 24, 2011, 09:03:11 AM
And listen... do you think I joke when I talk about the dichotomy of women's love for power and her love for sex? Do you think I'm bullshitting? You understand if you let a woman's will inhabit your mind, she will then look for another man to inhabit hers, because that's what women really want to happen they are DOGS, they function best with a man owner... if you fall in love with a woman and she doesn't fuck around on you, you got lucky, it's like making a bad play in poker and hitting your flush, it's a bad move, it's a losing move, you gotta count on being lucky

SPOT ON.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Wiggs on September 24, 2011, 09:13:32 AM
You're welcome.. ;D

50 THINGS A MAN SHOULD THINK ABOUT HIS WOMAN   Author Unknown.

1. If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a woman's behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a woman's character, let her go.
4. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change her or yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Don't let a woman push you into a relationship you don’t want to be in.
8. A woman wants to be with a man she can be proud of at all times. Don’t be a fool.
9. It takes a second to lose her trust, and a lifetime to gain it back.
10. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is.
11. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
12. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
13. Avoid women who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different men.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Don’t be with a mean-spirited person. Being “mad at the time” is not a good excuse.
16. Be with a woman you admire and trust.
17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let her figure things out (but don't wait for her, move on).
18. There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If she causes any of them...flee.
19. You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within.
20. Don't let her place rules on you that she is not willing to follow herself -- double-standard.
21. Don’t worry about what your friends say, think about how you feel.
22. Be with someone who shows kindness... to everyone.
23. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has more education or in a better job.
24. Do not make her into a goddess. She is a woman, nothing more, nothing less.
25. Don’t be superficial, remember 25 years from now its not going to matter “who’s cuter”.
26. Actions speak louder than words. Don't play games.
27. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you.
28. Just because she says she loves you, doesn't mean that you are meant to be.
29. Love is a verb.
30. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
31. All women are NOT bitches.
32. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
33. If you don't love yourself...you can't love anyone else.
34. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
35. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing attractive about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
36. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
37. Never become your woman's "therapist".
38. When actions and words conflict, believe the actions.
39. Be with a woman who respects herself.
40. Give her space...let her go out with the girls, don't pressure her to spend time with you, You can't force a woman to hang out with you.
41. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later.
42. Never co-sign for a woman or let her mess-up your credit.
43. Sex is a small part of a real relationship. Find someone you can talk to.
44. When it's time to let go; let go.
45. Good women should be treated like good women.
45. Good women do want good men.
46. You can't make a wh**e into a housewife.
47. Never date a girl who looks fake or acts fake.
48. If you want out, get out. Don’t be complacent or lazy.
49. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
50. There is someone out there worthy to be in your life. Let out the trash, so she can come in


Thanks...good shit.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 24, 2011, 10:38:39 AM
SPOT ON.

if your brain is broken
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: D.O.U.P on September 24, 2011, 02:24:08 PM
hahaha explain?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 24, 2011, 02:25:21 PM
groink is manipulated by women
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 24, 2011, 04:07:34 PM
groink is manipulated by women
Hs's what doctors call "co-dependent". Have you read his posts that sound like a bad hallmark card? He must go into a deep, depressed  stalker mode when these chicks realize how needy he is and quietly change their cell phone number and place of residence.lol.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 24, 2011, 04:20:43 PM
Hs's what doctors call "co-dependent". Have you read his posts that sound like a bad hallmark cars? He must go into a deep, depressed  stalker mode when these chicks realize how needy he is and quietly change their cell phone number and place of residence.lol.

lol, fucking brutal dude, groinks a good guy
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: flinstones1 on September 24, 2011, 06:15:12 PM
 Guys trying to act hard like what women do or say doesn't phase them ::)  if a girl I truly cared about cheated on me I would be absolutely crushed, if you dont then something is FUCKEN WRONG with you and you need to get some damn therapy. At the end of the day, your still a human being with feelings and emotions. All these are a dangerous combo when you throw a shitload of testosterone into the mix. Testosterone is a strange fucking hormone and it's amazing the impact it has on the brain. apply trust me dude, once you start  playing with your hormones a bit and start using AAS you will see what a pussy you turn into on the inside, it is inevitable. Do you think it's a coincidence that most juicers fall so hard for women?  Dont bother talking with your friends who are natty about girl problems, they wont be able to relate. Im not saying this is ALWAYS true, but most juicers I know are either in long term relationships or have very strong feelings for one girl. Im starting to get what gh15 says about whores taking advantage of these bodybuilders.  You would think the opposite, that drug using bodybuilders jacked up on test chase whores all day  and  like the single life. But in the real world Most I know are either married, always in love with a girl, depressed about some chick, or in some type of long term relationship. Nothing tops the feeling you get when your with a girl you truly like, and she feels the same I would kill to have that again.  

 


Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 24, 2011, 06:27:08 PM
why are you telling people who know women better than you that there's something wrong with them, women and love to you is still a fantasy, you haven't had even a taste yet, I'm as intimate with women as you are with dianabol, they're in my veins lol, you've accepted the deception and you haven't even learned that it is a lie, groink knows he's just forgotten, he loves the lie too much, in the end I will fall for a woman eventually, I will give in, but it wont be the truth
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: flinstones1 on September 24, 2011, 06:49:55 PM
why are you telling people who know women better than you that there's something wrong with them, women and love to you is still a fantasy, you haven't had even a taste yet, I'm as intimate with women as you are with dianabol, they're in my veins lol, you've accepted the deception and you haven't even learned that it is a lie, groink knows he's just forgotten, he loves the lie too much, in the end I will fall for a woman eventually, I will give in, but it wont be the truth

fair enough fair enough 8)
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: dyslexic on September 24, 2011, 08:10:42 PM
... treating a woman like the dog she is takes courage plane and simple


In the beginning anyway...


Later, it's so damn easy you'll get angry with yourself for ever tripping in the first place. And, you better NOT let it happen again. "Once a fool..."




("Dog Tired") ~ that's a good one.  ;)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Meso_z on September 24, 2011, 10:28:52 PM
Seems like someone checks his "friends" cocks, then comes here giving dangerous advice regarding "women".

Do you know how rare an 8 inch cock is, I've seen pretty much all my friends dicks, and we are all what people may call players whos dicks have clout with women, maybe one guy is 8 inches, if that, but really he was very lean when I saw his dick, so he may be less. Once a dick is over 6 inches, every inch above is actually 3 inches to a woman, a woman will say a 7 inch cock is 9 inches, an 8 inch cock is 12 inches. But 6 inches and below, they all look the same to a woman, even to men. Me and my buddy double teamed a girl we met in bar one time, he has a weiner the size of my thumb, but in the midst of the threesome it looked like a normal dick, it looked liek any old avg 6 incher

lmao.

Dude, I dont know, you might be right but I dont know how you gathered that "knowledge" around women...not all men are the same and shouldnt act the sa,e...just go by feel.

You just give cookie-cutter advice based on you own "experience" with women thinking its spot on.

And to reply to the original q.

If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
   didnt fuck, she just gave a guy a blowjob, is that forgivable?

No, I wouldnt fogive that...in fact they would both take such a beating they would be crawling afterwards.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: dyslexic on September 25, 2011, 02:19:23 AM
"Unforgivable"


Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Meso_z on September 25, 2011, 02:27:03 AM
why would anyone ever marry someone as stupid as a woman, those creatures repulse me they really do
You sure youre not "Method101"?  ::)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: lovemonkey on September 25, 2011, 02:54:01 AM
Some good honest discussions here with a lot people opening themselves up.. and then we've got Chaos, a bitter man whose wife spends all day in front of the TV watching old black and white movies.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Army of One on September 25, 2011, 03:26:46 AM
Some good honest discussions here with a lot people opening themselves up.. and then we've got Chaos, a bitter man whose wife spends all day in front of the TV watching old black and white movies.

Probably watches in black and white so she isnt reminded of the horrors of seeing his cankles in full color.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 05:21:31 AM
Hs's what doctors call "co-dependent". Have you read his posts that sound like a bad hallmark cars? He must go into a deep, depressed  stalker mode when these chicks realize how needy he is and quietly change their cell phone number and place of residence.lol.

 ::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. It doesn't automatically equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to you

there is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship.

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships.   The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Army of One on September 25, 2011, 05:24:21 AM
::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. It doesn't automatically equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to you

there is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship.

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships.   The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.

Better looking you are less chance of rejection or abandonment, sad but true
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 25, 2011, 05:25:54 AM
::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. It doesn't automatically equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to you

there is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships.   The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.
that last statement--I just got a picture of naked women in war paint dancing around a bonfire with hearts on sticks taking bites out of them, and a guy tied down on a sacrifical alter, screaming, but he can't be heard over the drums...
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Meso_z on September 25, 2011, 05:30:03 AM
::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. It doesn't automatically equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to you

there is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship.

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships. 
 The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.
hahahaha so fucking true...the other guy above, "apply86" says he feels "disgust" by women...sees them as "dogs". Yet, he has no problem eye-measuring his buddies erected cocks when hes surrounded by them. lmao..what a pesona.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: apply85 on September 25, 2011, 06:01:35 AM
hahahaha so fucking true...the other guy above, "apply86" says he feels "disgust" by women...sees them as "dogs". Yet, he has no problem eye-measuring his buddies erected cocks when hes surrounded by them. lmao..what a pesona.

what do u mean "yet". there's no contradiction there

WHy do you keep bringing up what I wrote about having a threesome with my buddy, there's nothing significant in it, I related the anecdote in a discussion about penis size. That's why I talked about it, not because I love to look at my friend's dicks, I couldn't help but look, we were both fucking the same woman
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 25, 2011, 07:07:42 AM
::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. It doesn't automatically equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to you

there is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship.

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships.   The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.
Lol...easy does it tiger...no need to melt down.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Deicide on September 25, 2011, 07:10:28 AM
::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. It doesn't automatically equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to you

there is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship.

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships.   The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.

Just because it never happened to you, doesn't mean it can't, you are just a human mortal after all.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 25, 2011, 07:31:35 AM
Just because it never happened to you, doesn't mean it can't, you are just a human mortal after all.
Lol...the guy is pushing 50 and only been with the same chick a couple of years. Then he brags about true love. So that's either his first girlfriend or he's been told to get lost by other females.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: flinstones1 on September 25, 2011, 07:48:54 AM
Better looking you are less chance of rejection or abandonment, sad but true

So true. If I had a face like brad pitt I would not bother working out or stepping foot in a gym :D

I am the king of moonfaces ..if my body responded as well as my cheeks do to test I would be on a national stage right now. I  know the only time I have a chance of pulling a hot woman (without buying her shit or killing myself) is when I'm very lean.  I lasted there less than a month though, it was a nice change as far as attention from  girls go but  no bitch  is worth my five guy burgers 8)

There was this one girl, dirty blonde hair phat ass 20 years old.. :P .just  my type.  I think I could of gotten it if I pushed it, but I dont force things like that unless I know a girl likes me. I did a little experiment, I went on a cutting diet, in a matter of 8 weeks  I was amazed at how "nice" she started to get, and she broke up with her boyfriend in that 8 week period  that she told me she had  been with for the past year. (which I doubt existed)  Most of been a coincidence ::)

I mean tell me you guys dont notice a difference 5 pounds up or down on the scale, its  NIGHT AND DAY with women. And they say we are shallow haha oh brother ::)

Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Meso_z on September 25, 2011, 07:57:15 AM
So true. If I had a face like brad pitt I would not bother working out or stepping foot in a gym :D

I am the king of moonfaces ..if my body responded as well as my cheeks do to test I would be on a national stage right now. I  know the only time I have a chance of pulling a hot woman (without buying her shit or killing myself) is when I'm very lean.  I lasted there less than a month though, it was a nice change as far as attention from  girls go but  no bitch  is worth my five guy burgers 8)

There was this one girl, dirty blonde hair phat ass 20 years old.. :P .just  my type.  I think I could of gotten it if I pushed it, but I dont force things like that unless I know a girl likes me. I did a little experiment, I went on a cutting diet, in a matter of 8 weeks  I was amazed at how "nice" she started to get, and she broke up with her boyfriend in that 8 week period  that she told me she had  been with for the past year. (which I doubt existed)  Most of been a coincidence ::)

I mean tell me you guys dont notice a difference 5 pounds up or down on the scale, its  NIGHT AND DAY with women. And they say we are shallow haha oh brother ::)


True...as long as youre not a fat shit...just skinny/fat. It works.

Fortunately I dont bloat on my face..but when i diet down I look like shit in the face, gets too thin. lol like a fox or something.  :D ;D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: D.O.U.P on September 25, 2011, 08:09:28 AM
::) ::)

Let me know when you lose your "V" card...stud  :D

I turn away women on a daily basis and I've been with the same girl over two years, idiot. What you don't realize is a real man isn't afraid to show his feelings. doesn't automaticalIt ly equate to you being walked all over by your mate. Maybe for you it does, because you don't deserve respect..so none is given to youthere is such a thing as mutual respect dipshit.  maybe if you didn't view women as the enemy and try and "control them" you might actually have a healthy relationship.

You guys must have been fucked over something fierce, the way you put on 7 coats of armor when we talk about women and relationships.   The company of women was always no challenge for me...so i guess i don't harbor the same resentments you do...because some "evil bitch" never tore my heart out.....ever.

yep
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 09:00:46 AM
Lol...the guy is pushing 50 and only been with the same chick a couple of years. Then he brags about true love. So that's either his first girlfriend or he's been told to get lost by other females.

 ::) ::)

why don't you tell us about your conquests "stud"

Oh...that's right, you're a douchebag gimmick....can't give any info about yourself. people would be able to talk shit about you too then...we can't have that  ;)

as usual...64 posts and knows every detail about me

OH...by the way....I'm betting you never got that "date"  ;)


http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=392515.0
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Deicide on September 25, 2011, 09:07:32 AM
End of the day, we are all human and thus vunerable to slip-ups and being fucked over, on the surface it always seems we have a lot of differences but we are more similar than we think, anyone can have his heart broken or get dumped.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: chaos on September 25, 2011, 09:09:34 AM
Hahaha this topic seems to have opened some deep emotional wounds and has alot of "men" on getbig babbling like idiots! :D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 25, 2011, 09:21:55 AM
Hahaha this topic seems to have opened some deep emotional wounds and has alot of "men" on getbig babbling like idiots! :D
Didnt you get the memo? Women are the enemy!
Men (dudes) are scared of women, dude let's himself get open and then "Bam!", she rips his bearing heart out! Women are dangerous...treat them like dogs to contain them!
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Deicide on September 25, 2011, 09:24:38 AM
Didnt you get the memo? Women are the enemy!
Men (dudes) are scared of women, dude let's himself get open and then "Bam!", she rips his bearing heart out! Women are dangerous...treat them like dogs to contain them!

It's not women or men, it's both, people can suck big time, you should know this from your work parker, come on!
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 09:30:13 AM
It's mostly unattractive people and saps that have a hard time meeting women that get fucked over.

Fuck them anyway, hahahaaahaaaa. I'm glad it happens to them

Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 25, 2011, 09:40:07 AM
How about you give us a crash course in getting chicks, Mighty Groink? ;D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 09:44:12 AM
How about you give us a crash course in getting chicks, Mighty Groink? ;D

I already have.

Or you can be like your average gymrat and stalk them  ;)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 25, 2011, 10:01:55 AM
::) ::)

why don't you tell us about your conquests "stud"

Oh...that's right, you're a douchebag gimmick....can't give any info about yourself. people would be able to talk shit about you too then...we can't have that  ;)

as usual...64 posts and knows every detail about me

OH...by the way....I'm betting you never got that "date"  ;)


http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=392515.0
"know every detail" about you? You're like 50, been with the same chick for only 2 years, and you talk about "love" like a black chick. Oh and by the way, I'll be hooking up with that other chick shortly. Just as soon as I get tired of banging her best friend. And guess what else?  I don't need drugs to get lean.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 10:10:33 AM
"know every detail" about you? You're like 50, been with the same chick for only 2 years, and you talk about "love" like a black chick. Oh and by the way, I'll be hooking up with that other chick shortly. Just as soon as I get tired of banging her best friend. And guess what else?  I don't need drugs to get lean.

Yes because after two years straight you barely know a person  ::) ::)

So you saw some girl at the gym, and had a crush on her, and somehow you miraculously ran into her BEST FRIEND and starting dating her.?  *cough*bullshit* cough*

How about a pic, you lean stud  :D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 25, 2011, 10:26:32 AM
Yes because after two years straight you barely know a person  ::) ::)

So you saw some girl at the gym, and had a crush on her, and somehow you miraculously ran into her BEST FRIEND and starting dating her.?  *cough*bullshit* cough*

How about a pic, you lean stud  :D
The point about the two years is not how well you know her. It simply demonstrates that all your previous relationships have failed. Also, I didn't meet the first one at the gym. You basically have no idea what you're talking about.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 10:30:03 AM
The point about the two years is not how well you know her. It simply demonstrates that all your previous relationships have failed. Also, I didn't meet the first one at the gym. You basically have no idea what you're talking about.

I got divorced you idiot, you know, like 52% of all married people.  ;) let me guess......you are perfect....right  ::)

I know exactly what I'm talking about...you are a full of shit gimmick, all I need to know
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Deicide on September 25, 2011, 10:36:02 AM
I got divorced you idiot, you know, like 52% of all married people.  ;) let me guess......you are perfect....right  ::)

I know exactly what I'm talking about...you are a full of shit gimmick, all I need to know

Are you saying that you are not perfect?! :o
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 25, 2011, 12:44:43 PM
It's not women or men, it's both, people can suck big time, you should know this from your work parker, come on!
I was being sarcastic...
And still nobody commented on my "naked women wearing warpaint while dancing around a bonfire", I mean y'all had to chuckle...didn't you  :'(
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: chaos on September 25, 2011, 01:14:43 PM
I was being sarcastic...
And still nobody commented on my "naked women wearing warpaint while dancing around a bonfire", I mean y'all had to chuckle...didn't you  :'(
Sounds like an average night in my backyard........
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Stavios on September 25, 2011, 01:23:07 PM
It's mostly unattractive people and saps that have a hard time meeting women that get fucked over.

Fuck them anyway, hahahaaahaaaa. I'm glad it happens to them



 ;D

damn you make me laugh
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: cephissus on September 25, 2011, 01:23:57 PM
It's mostly unattractive people and saps that have a hard time meeting women that get fucked over.

Fuck them anyway, hahahaaahaaaa. I'm glad it happens to them




 :D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: lovemonkey on September 25, 2011, 01:33:05 PM
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Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Meso_z on September 25, 2011, 01:54:53 PM
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;D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 25, 2011, 02:07:36 PM
It's mostly unattractive people and saps that have a hard time meeting women that get fucked over.

Fuck them anyway, hahahaaahaaaa. I'm glad it happens to them


Explain Branch?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 02:46:10 PM
So your wife decided to move on...it happens. Did you wish you were little kids with her all over again too? LMFAO!!

wrong  ;)

but you would assume that.  i guess every girl you have ever been with has dumped you too, right ?

don't bother responding, i'm done feeding the troll

Let me expand here a little....it's people like you that ruin this place. I've had wars with many "known" members here, and it gets pretty heated....but there's always accountability, because you know you're going to be dealing with this person again.

Scumbags like you jump from account to account over the course of years... saying shit that would get you smacked in the mouth in person. because there is no "you" .....you got nothing to lose. It's the same three or four pieces of shit that are behind them all
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: tbombz on September 25, 2011, 03:07:58 PM
groink im wondering if you thought about this


Yup....the thought of another man putting his hands on my woman makes me want to rip someones throat out
now this is just your ego, it doesnt have anything to do with loving her



??



So true. If I had a face like brad pitt I would not bother working out or stepping foot in a gym :D

I am the king of moonfaces ..if my body responded as well as my cheeks do to test I would be on a national stage right now. I  know the only time I have a chance of pulling a hot woman (without buying her shit or killing myself) is when I'm very lean.  I lasted there less than a month though, it was a nice change as far as attention from  girls go but  no bitch  is worth my five guy burgers 8)

There was this one girl, dirty blonde hair phat ass 20 years old.. :P .just  my type.  I think I could of gotten it if I pushed it, but I dont force things like that unless I know a girl likes me. I did a little experiment, I went on a cutting diet, in a matter of 8 weeks  I was amazed at how "nice" she started to get, and she broke up with her boyfriend in that 8 week period  that she told me she had  been with for the past year. (which I doubt existed)  Most of been a coincidence ::)

I mean tell me you guys dont notice a difference 5 pounds up or down on the scale, its  NIGHT AND DAY with women. And they say we are shallow haha oh brother ::)



tell me you hit that flin

"know every detail" about you? You're like 50, been with the same chick for only 2 years, and you talk about "love" like a black chick. Oh and by the way, I'll be hooking up with that other chick shortly. Just as soon as I get tired of banging her best friend. And guess what else?  I don't need drugs to get lean.




This is unconditional love for your child!
thats awesome he posted that onlije. im sure it helped alot of people get over their fear of coming out. last spring when i told my dad and brother i just blurted it out over family dinner, my brothers jaw dropped and he had this goofy ass grin on his face like "WTF YOU GOTTA BE SHITTIN ME". my dads face got solemn because he realized how his comments about homosexuals in the past must have affected me. they were amazing about it. we only have had one issue and it was a few days after i came out, my brother called some guy a cock sucker, i told him not to use that term as in insult, my dad said "well it is an insult".. i fucking blew up on him. yelled at him, told him his wife was a guy, his daughter was a cock sucker, and me, his son, was also a cock sucker and that if he felt the term was an insult he really didnt love any of us. i stormed out of the house and when i got back both my brother and dad apologized. the experience really boosted my faith in humanity. anyways i am sharing that because i  want any of you reading this to know its ok to come out. 

Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 25, 2011, 03:11:06 PM
I thought you loved the pussy, tbombz. ???
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 25, 2011, 03:11:39 PM
Some of ya'll need to sit back and listen to some David Ruffin, particularly "Let Somebody Love Me".
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: tbombz on September 25, 2011, 03:12:21 PM
I thought you loved the pussy, tbombz. ???
bisexual, still have to "come out the closet" even though i enjoy the coochie
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: CalvinH on September 25, 2011, 03:18:24 PM
Sounds like an average night in my backyard........


Tell runningmom to put her clothes back on....
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 25, 2011, 03:20:06 PM
bisexual, still have to "come out the closet" even though i enjoy the coochie

Ever had a cock up your ass?

(no homo)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: tbombz on September 25, 2011, 03:20:55 PM
Ever had a cock up your ass?

(no homo)

you know that quote... "its like a deep tissue massage, only its in your ass" that people use on here all the time ?

that came from me

 :)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Army of One on September 25, 2011, 03:22:28 PM
you know that quote... "its like a deep tissue massage, only its in your ass" that people use on here all the time ?

that came from me

 :)

How many cocks have you taken, tbombz?How many guys buttholes have you pumped?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 25, 2011, 03:23:13 PM
you know that quote... "its like a deep tissue massage, only its in your ass" that people use on here all the time ?

that came from me

 :)

LOL

So... who's the bitch when you fuck a guy? How do you decide?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 25, 2011, 03:23:49 PM
you know that quote... "its like a deep tissue massage, only its in your ass" that people use on here all the time ?

that came from me

 :)

aren't you scared of contracting H.I.V.? before you say "condoms" take a look at this

(http://oi53.tinypic.com/2hehkqs.jpg)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 25, 2011, 03:26:05 PM
You do realise none of us can read that, right?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: tbombz on September 25, 2011, 03:26:26 PM
Some of ya'll need to sit back and listen to some David Ruffin, particularly "Let Somebody Love Me".



never heard that before. nice suggestion



How many cocks have you taken, tbombz?How many guys buttholes have you pumped?
ha ha ha

been fucked by.. 7 guys ?  its less than 10 i know that. dont feel like trying to count them all.  only fucked 2 guys. dont really get off on fucking dudes.

LOL

So... who's the bitch when you fuck a guy? How do you decide?
the bitch is almost always the bottom, thats a universal truism for all kinds of sex; hetero, homo, etc.  

you want to know how two guys decide who will top and who will bottom?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 25, 2011, 03:30:02 PM
Would it be gay if I wanted to know?

Ah, fuck it. Tell me anyway.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: tbombz on September 25, 2011, 03:33:18 PM
Would it be gay if I wanted to know?

Ah, fuck it. Tell me anyway.

its usually determined by personal preference. most of the time when two guys meet it will be fairly obvious who is the top and who is the bottom. sometimes they need to ask eachother. sometimes they are both versatile and they take turns fucking eachother. alot of times they will let the cocks decide. (the bigger dick gets to top). 
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 25, 2011, 03:35:04 PM
You do realise none of us can read that, right?
you're supposed to right click it and then click "view image"

but you can also click the link to the image

http://oi53.tinypic.com/2hehkqs.jpg
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: PJim on September 25, 2011, 03:38:19 PM
aren't you scared of contracting H.I.V.? before you say "condoms" take a look at this

(http://oi53.tinypic.com/2hehkqs.jpg)

What the fuck is that nonsense.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 25, 2011, 03:40:47 PM
What the fuck is that nonsense.

it's called bug chasing, google it if you have the stomach for it  :-X
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 25, 2011, 04:11:40 PM
wrong  ;)

but you would assume that.  i guess every girl you have ever been with has dumped you too, right ?

don't bother responding, i'm done feeding the troll

Let me expand here a little....it's people like you that ruin this place. I've had wars with many "known" members here, and it gets pretty heated....but there's always accountability, because you know you're going to be dealing with this person again.

Scumbags like you jump from account to account over the course of years... saying shit that would get you smacked in the mouth in person. because there is no "you" .....you got nothing to lose. It's the same three or four pieces of shit that are behind them all
Lol...you're at war with your own ego. I'm just redirecting your hostility back to it's origin: your low self-esteem. Try reading some Eckhart Tolle dude. Put an end to your anguish. I'm so tranquil while you're melting down, its amusing. You're no match for Zen, dude.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 04:35:11 PM
Lol...you're at war with your own ego. I'm just redirecting your hostility back to it's origin: your low self-esteem. Try reading some Eckhart Tolle dude. Put an end to your anguish. I'm so tranquil while you're melting down, its amusing. You're no match for Zen, dude.


Yes, that's what you're doing  ::) ::)

you  are so "tranquil' you follow me from thread to thread like a lost puppy...and if you are so "zen like' and tranquil" why did you start attacking me out of the blue in the first place ?...not a very "enlightened" thing to do....dipshit

worry about yourself and your "17's"  ::) ....LOL "self esteem"...that's rich
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Wiggs on September 25, 2011, 04:42:38 PM
aren't you scared of contracting H.I.V.? before you say "condoms" take a look at this

(http://oi53.tinypic.com/2hehkqs.jpg)

Wtf bro? Some of the worst shit ive read....EVER.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 25, 2011, 04:51:44 PM


never heard that before. nice suggestion
 

There are some here who seemingly reflect his "Walk Away From Love"...
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 25, 2011, 06:35:12 PM
Yes, that's what you're doing  ::) ::)

you  are so "tranquil' you follow me from thread to thread like a lost puppy...and if you are so "zen like' and tranquil" why did you start attacking me out of the blue in the first place ?...not a very "enlightened" thing to do....dipshit

worry about yourself and your "17's"  ::) ....LOL "self esteem"...that's rich
Your ego is stifling your deductive faculties. If you paused and thought before you typed, you wouldn't write 90% of the things you do. You are a slave to the "self".  I just sit right back and observe, reflect the truth back, and watch you go nuts. If I wasn't a student of Tolle, I would be tempted to find this amusing...lol
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 25, 2011, 09:59:43 PM
Your ego is stifling your deductive faculties. If you paused and thought before you typed, you wouldn't write 90% of the things you do. You are a slave to the "self".  I just sit right back and observe, reflect the truth back, and watch you go nuts. If I wasn't a student of Tolle, I would be tempted to find this amusing...lol

Yes...I'm really going "nuts" in that post  ::)...this is one of the great hypocrisies of Getbig.

someone follows you around all day, responds to your every post....but they are "tranquil" and you are "going nuts"...yes..because you say so, right. bye troll. i believe I've fed you enough

Oh...and as far as Eckhart Tolle goes.   LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL..... ..you think you know something because you read that fraud/salesman's books ?.....He was on Oprah....that's all i have to say about Tolle. you have fun with that, lemming

what this tells me is you are a weak minded piece of dog shit who lets these hucksters easily manipulate your simple little brain
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: purenaturalstrength on September 26, 2011, 12:20:13 AM
Wtf bro? Some of the worst shit ive read....EVER.

you may also like







didnt watch but it's about people who actively searched for hiv then felt bad about having it
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 26, 2011, 05:29:29 AM
Yes...I'm really going "nuts" in that post  ::)...this is one of the great hypocrisies of Getbig.

someone follows you around all day, responds to your every post....but they are "tranquil" and you are "going nuts"...yes..because you say so, right. bye troll. i believe I've fed you enough

Oh...and as far as Eckhart Tolle goes.   LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL..... ..you think you know something because you read that fraud/salesman's books ?.....He was on Oprah....that's all i have to say about Tolle. you have fun with that, lemming

what this tells me is you are a weak minded piece of dog shit who lets these hucksters easily manipulate your simple little brain
Here's a guy who decided to take drugs because he was influenced by steangers on internet forums. Lol.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 05:46:31 AM
Here's a guy who decided to take drugs because he was influenced by steangers on internet forums. Lol.

Um...no   ;)

unlike you..... i make my own decisions, and i don't need anyone else, or a self help (lol) guru... to tell me what i should feel and do.

You study the teachings of some dude you never met(and who doesn't even know you exist) to find happiness and the key to inner peace.

I rely on myself and my instincts and values....now who has the esteem issues ?..my little drone  :D

you really made this much easier than it needed to be when you dropped that "Tolle" gem....thanks...LOL

You realize that shit is for weak minded idiots, right ?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 26, 2011, 06:19:59 AM
Um...no   ;)

unlike you..... i make my own decisions, and i don't need anyone else, or a self help (lol) guru... to tell me what i should feel and do.

You study the teachings of some dude you never met(and who doesn't even know you exist) to find happiness and the key to inner peace.

I rely on myself and my instincts and values....now who has the esteem issues ?..my little drone  :D

you really made this much easier than it needed to be when you dropped that "Tolle" gem....thanks...LOL

You realize that shit is for weak minded idiots, right ?


I tried reading that Tolle shit. Downloaded a book of his, and couldn't get past the first page. What the fuck is that guy on about? ??? Seems like a bunch of pretentious crap. ???
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 06:29:01 AM
I tried reading that Tolle shit. Downloaded a book of his, and couldn't get past the first page. What the fuck is that guy on about? ??? Seems like a bunch of pretentious crap. ???

That's because it is pretentious crap.

but nimrods like your average asshole think it's "deep" because it's meandering nonsense
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Swlabr on September 26, 2011, 06:32:25 AM
"Always say “yes” to the present moment. What could be more futile, more insane, than to create inner resistance to what already is? what could be more insane than to oppose life itself, which is now and always now? Surrender to what is. Say “yes” to life — and see how life suddenly starts working for you rather than against you."

???

"What a liberation to realize that the “voice in my head” is not who I am. Who am I then? The one who sees that."

???

"The secret of life is to “die before you die” — and find that there is no death."

???

I enjoy philosophy (Love Schopenhauer), but come on, this is just meaningless drivel. Gymrat, tell me, what is so "deep" about this féLlá?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: 240 is Back on September 26, 2011, 06:34:05 AM
1.  Tell her you need to chew on it.

2.  Request the most foul sex act you've always want from her.

3.  She agrees, you do it, ,you videotape it.

4.  You pwn her for life with this video.  Dump, keep, do as you will.  She'll be paying your verizon bill to keep that shit off youtube.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 26, 2011, 11:08:02 AM
Notice: the harder you huff and puff, and the more words you type-it's all fodder for the body of pain (the pain-body) which resides within you. The pain-body operates on a frequency that metaphysically attracts more pain to itself, and you, the host of the pain-body). Now you also notice I don't "react" to your attempts because I have evolved and am above you. I have dissolved any and all pain from my psyche and I just deflect and redirect your negative energy.
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: makaveli25 on September 26, 2011, 11:10:13 AM
You are a fucking pussy

Fuck you bitch. I was young dumb kid. I learned more about life in those couple years.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 11:16:42 AM
Notice: the harder you huff and puff, and the more words you type-it's all fodder for the body of pain (the pain-body) which resides within you. The pain-body operates on a frequency that metaphysically attracts more pain to itself, and you, the host of the pain-body). Now you also notice I don't "react" to your attempts because I have evolved and am above you. I have dissolved any and all pain from my psyche and I just deflect and redirect your negative energy.

Nobody's huffing and puffing you moron....I'm "tranquil". It's called "ridiculing an idiot" no need to get excited, as easy as you make it

You think you have some novel approach with this metaphysiacal gobbledeygook, but you are just doing the tired old, "you're mad and I'm not" routine....trolling 101.  ::)

And when you respond, it's a "reaction"....... genius  ;)

PS...you obviously suffer from Last Word-Itis, another typical troll attribute...so feel free to have it. I'm done acknowledging your posts
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Meso_z on September 26, 2011, 11:23:09 AM
You are a fucking pussy
Whats wrong with actually having feelings?  ???
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: makaveli25 on September 26, 2011, 11:32:22 AM
Whats wrong with actually having feelings?  ???

One thing I learned is to never let a woman have that much power over me again. You have to be able to leave a relationship in a moments notice. You never want to completely invest all of your feelings into someone. They can fuck your life up.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 26, 2011, 11:37:11 AM
Wrong again. I either "reflect" or "deflect". I'm either stripping your camouflaged statements of self rejection of the smoke and mirrors and reflecting your simple truth back at you, or I'm deflecting your negative energy back into the universe, where it becomes neutered and harmless.  You have two modes of relating: bogus self-aggrandizement or bitter vitriol. Both are intended to harm others. Most people think very little of these kinds of self-expression. Take my advice, stop with the self absorption. You're not fooling anyone.
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 26, 2011, 12:03:02 PM
One thing I learned is to never let a woman have that much power over me again. You have to be able to leave a relationship in a moments notice. You never want to completely invest all of your feelings into someone. They can fuck your life up.
Love is an illusion dude .
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: NarcissisticDeity on September 26, 2011, 12:11:27 PM
Love is an illusion dude .

Love is a marketing tool

someone once said ' Love is two people being stupid together ' lol rings true
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: cephissus on September 26, 2011, 12:13:49 PM

I enjoy philosophy (Love Schopenhauer), but come on, this is just meaningless drivel. Gymrat, tell me, what is so "deep" about this féLlá?

 :D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Hulkotron on September 26, 2011, 12:14:42 PM
I suspect everyone saying "yes" in this unexpectedly long thread secretly desires a big shlong in their mouth.
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: dr.chimps on September 26, 2011, 01:27:19 PM
One thing I learned is to never let a woman have that much power over me again. You have to be able to leave a relationship in a moments notice. You never want to completely invest all of your feelings into someone. They can fuck your life up.
So, you base your romantic feelings on DeNiro's character in Heat!? Wow.     
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 02:28:44 PM
So, you base your romantic feelings on DeNiro's character in Heat!? Wow.     

LOL....maybe he's a high stakes career criminal too?
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Army of One on September 26, 2011, 02:51:55 PM
So, you base your romantic feelings on DeNiro's character in Heat!? Wow.     

Jokes aside its a good way to live, within 30 seconds you can drop everything, have no home, woman, kids or bills to pay for\look after  8)
Title: Re: IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE CHEATED ON YOU........
Post by: Nails on September 26, 2011, 02:53:26 PM
Jokes aside its a good way to live, within 30 seconds you can drop everything, have no home, woman, kids or bills to pay for\look after  8)

QFT

fucking having monkeys on your back
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 02:58:01 PM
You'll have to excuse me if i don't view my child ,or my woman...or my FAMILY...as "monkeys on my back"................I guess I'm not as Badass as i thought  ::)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Parker on September 26, 2011, 02:59:32 PM
1.  Tell her you need to chew on it.

2.  Request the most foul sex act you've always want from her.

3.  She agrees, you do it, ,you videotape it.

4.  You pwn her for life with this video.  Dump, keep, do as you will.  She'll be paying your verizon bill to keep that shit off youtube.
you can't put it on youtube---youporn maybe...
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Army of One on September 26, 2011, 03:05:56 PM
You'll have to excuse me if i don't view my child ,or my woman...or my FAMILY...as "monkeys on my back"................I guess I'm not as Badass as i thought  ::)

I havnt met a married guy or father who didnt wish at a time he was single or didnt have kids to look after, not to say he didnt love them or regretted having them.I dont deny if I had a kid Id love it, but the thought of being tied down gives me nightmares.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 03:18:04 PM
I havnt met a married guy or father who didnt wish at a time he was single or didnt have kids to look after, not to say he didnt love them or regretted having them.I dont deny if I had a kid Id love it, but the thought of being tied down gives me nightmares.

Not me. If i wanted to be single, I'd be single....nobody is twisting my arm to be in a committed relationship. as far as my kid....The thought never crossed my mind....my kid is awesome and I consider her a gift, not a burden. I fucking LOVE being her Dad, it gives me great joy

But I'm sure you are right, a lot of people get tied down to the wrong one, or pop out 5 kids when they weren't ready...and now they are like WTF ?  
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Nails on September 26, 2011, 03:31:03 PM
(http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/218923/81876287.jpg)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: NarcissisticDeity on September 26, 2011, 03:33:22 PM
(http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/218923/81876287.jpg)

Shit when I was in school detention was 1 hour
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 26, 2011, 05:10:54 PM
Nobody's huffing and puffing you moron....I'm "tranquil". It's called "ridiculing an idiot" no need to get excited, as easy as you make it

You think you have some novel approach with this metaphysiacal gobbledeygook, but you are just doing the tired old, "you're mad and I'm not" routine....trolling 101.  ::)

And when you respond, it's a "reaction"....... genius  ;)

PS...you obviously suffer from Last Word-Itis, another typical troll attribute...so feel free to have it. I'm done acknowledging your posts
This was just a long winded way of saying "I quit. I'm getting ragtagged here, and I'm tired." Folks, this is mental Aikido. I let him do all the work, and all I needed to do is redirect is negative energy back at him through reflecting truth. He is a sad, angry man.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: JBGRAY on September 26, 2011, 05:14:18 PM
If you wife or gf said it was a blowjob, likely she got fucked in the ass...without protection.

Now, if she said she got slightly flirty with another guy, then yes....she gave him a slobbering blowjob in the mop closet.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 06:14:36 PM
This was just a long winded way of saying "I quit. I'm getting ragtagged here, and I'm tired." Folks, this is mental Aikido. I let him do all the work, and all I needed to do is redirect is negative energy back at him through reflecting truth. He is a sad, angry man.


LOL....keep telling yourself that...if you would notice...not a soul is agreeing with you. normally on getbig...if you get somebody good, you receive acknowledgement

here's the skinny, chump....nobody care's about your "mental akido" i'm quite happy...thank you...and the reason I bowed out is because you are terminally boring with your Psychobabble. as I just stated...you aren't getting any traction here...it's a poiintless, boring exchange

you are a poor man's Uberman...you know what i want you to know about me....but in your arrogance you fill in the blanks and draw your own conclusions about my mental makeup...I'm quite happy...thank you very much....

So much so, that i don't spend my days trying to irritate some guy on a bodybuilding forum with metaphysical horseshit..,..because i don't like him...

nobody here bothers me to the point i single them out...but I'm the "unhappy" one  ::) ;)

You might want to look in the mirror and ask yourself why you let me have this power over you, where you feel compelled to try and hurt my feelings. because the opposite doesn't hold true....I didn't seek you out...if you didn't start stalking me i wouldn't know you exist. if you died tomorrow i wouldn't bat an eye.

I don't say this with any malice whatsoever...I don't know you or have any feelings about you one way or the other...whereas you obviously know all about me  :D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Stavios on September 26, 2011, 07:07:16 PM
(http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/218923/81876287.jpg)

 ;D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Natural Man on September 26, 2011, 07:47:59 PM
you are such an asshole it's beyond words...oh..and reported  :)
lol? You re in your 40s right?

you re the only real life/internet asshole i see in this thread -and many others-.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 08:16:33 PM
lol? You re in your 40s right?

you re the only real life/internet asshole i see in this thread -and many others-.


I see your scummy post was deleted...I mean really, shouldn't that tell you something ?

what do you get out of being such a scumbag?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Natural Man on September 26, 2011, 08:23:55 PM
I see your scummy post was deleted...I mean really, shouldn't that tell you something ?

what do you get out of being such a scumbag?

it got deleted because you whined to the mods, are you stupid or something?
you are such an asshole it's beyond words...oh..and reported  :)



And you dont know what the people -you re whining to- and I are telling each others in private.



You brought it all upon yourself all by yourself from the very beginning, remember. Just like many others.

 Being in your 40s with no education, a shity job, on steroids and posting pics and comments revolving around your body after telling (and you bragged about it at first...before it backfired badly, thank god some people still have a moral) everyone you abandonned both wife and daughter for another woman who looks better and also has a daughter is not "cool" in any way.  Especially when youg males are reading this board and might think you represent some kind of model.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: chaos on September 26, 2011, 08:28:20 PM
it got deleted because you whined to the mods, are you stupid or something?


And you dont know what the people -you re whining to- and I are telling each others in private.


A whole lot of nothing.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Natural Man on September 26, 2011, 08:30:06 PM
I didn't abandon anyone you classless piece of shit...just the opposite..as i have explained. but that doesn't stop you from posting your hateful, untrue shit about my kid....you are the lowest form of humanity in existence.


hahaha, the mighty groink talking about "class"... Is there a need to quote your so many messages about the "Arms Don, the alpha male rethoric by groink, "how to impress kids with your 40 y/o steroid body in the line at the theater"" ... man, you re vain.

I'm just a mirror, and you dont like what you see in it. Break the mirror, you ll still be who you are, and it's nobody else fault but yours.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 08:31:51 PM


hahaha, the mighty groink talking about "class"...

I'm just a mirror, and you dont like what you see in it. Break the mirror, you ll still be who you are, and it's nobody else fault but yours.

no you're not...you're a miserable fuck who posts lies about my personal life....and you know it.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: flinstones1 on September 26, 2011, 08:32:33 PM
youraveragegymrat, . No doubt that Groink has his faults at times and has said some shitty things to various members in including myself, but I have also said some fucked up things to him. Classless stuff that I really do feel bad about. We ALL have at times,  nobody is perfect. Bottom line is if your gonna attack someone out of the blue, at least do it with some pride/ identity. Even the liars like Dante nobody can stand that come here still get "mutual respect".. because at least they are REAL. Lying is one thing, but gimmicks suck. Nobody wants to argue with someone who doesn't exist.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Natural Man on September 26, 2011, 08:39:06 PM
no you're not...you're a miserable fuck who posts lies about my personal life....and you know it.

you re getting pathetic. You posted your personal life on here in the firstplace. You bragged about how life was good since you left them, freedom, etc etc. I could browse thru your post history just for fun but who cares anyway. Some people still remember the real, original groink.

 You have a very short term memory obviously. Now attempting to backpedal and portray yourself differently wont change the way you started it all and who you are.

Clearely you re a clown. And always were. I just need to look at your avatar for confirmation.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 08:42:04 PM
you re getting pathetic. You posted your personal life on here in the firstplace. You bragged about how life was good since you left them, freedom, etc etc. I could browse thru your post history just for fun but who cares anyway. Some people still remember the real, original groink.

 You have a very short term memory obviously. Now attempting to backpedal and portray yourself differently wont change the way you started it all and who you are.

Clearely you re a clown. And always were. I just need to look at your avatar for confirmation.


I never said any of that...you are lying yet again.  and who the fuck gave you the right to talk about my child regardless.....listen..f uck you....I will report every single post you refer to my kid in...that is all
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Wiggs on September 26, 2011, 09:50:22 PM
(http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/218923/81876287.jpg)

Lmao
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: luvvsuNOT on September 26, 2011, 10:57:54 PM

You brought it all upon yourself all by yourself from the very beginning, remember. Just like many others.

 Being in your 40s with no education, a shity job, on steroids and posting pics and comments revolving around your body after telling (and you bragged about it at first...before it backfired badly, thank god some people still have a moral) everyone you abandonned both wife and daughter for another woman who looks better and also has a daughter is not "cool" in any way.  Especially when youg males are reading this board and might think you represent some kind of model.

YOu know for someone who claims not to care that people here enjoy bodybuilding and what they do and how they live their lives

It's ok , keep enjoying your juiced muscles men in thong, like I care what you do with your life and what you like or dont like.

you sure seemd very interested in groinnk and follow him around constantly finger pointing and lecturing him about his life.

How did you parents treat you? Seriously?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: dyslexic on September 26, 2011, 11:01:59 PM
Here we go... bringing the kids into it again.


Uberman needs to get Cyber fucked into never-never land.


Let's vote on it.


All for Uberbutthole's disappearance, say "I"


Geez.  :-\
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: luvvsuNOT on September 26, 2011, 11:13:40 PM
Here we go... bringing the kids into it again.


Uberman needs to get Cyber fucked into never-never land.


Let's vote on it.


All for Uberbutthole's disappearance, say "I"


Geez.  :-\

uberman is truly a deeply disturbed person. his melt down reply to my question to him really confirmed this and actually I find him even more interesting. there are different characters on this board that are not all there, goodrum, suckmymyscle, basile, but this uberman is different ona  different level. he seems more spiteful and even tortured. I remembr a pschology professor once told me that it's the crazy people that go into psychology. the ones who are some preoccupied with motives and causes always analyzing and over analyzing things. Its their way of trying to understnad thier own pathologies. always have some angle to try to explain things and justify their psychosist. With uberman everything, he be all and end all, is how your parents raised you, you literally haveno free will or ability to make your own choices, it's all preprogrammed and preordained by your parents. Who knows what this guy has done or does that he is so determined to relieve himslf of repsonsibility. "its my parents fault" he can alwasy say. He to make him feel good about himself, to try to gain some measure of self esteem he letures others, not just groink, about their failings and skewed value system.

I've got to log on more to this board. Its rare that you get a real true blue psychotic to observe in real time.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 26, 2011, 11:19:43 PM
uberman is truly a deeply disturbed person. his melt down reply to my question to him really confirmed this and actually I find him even more interesting. there are different characters on this board that are not all there, goodrum, suckmymyscle, basile, but this uberman is different ona  different level. he seems more spiteful and even tortured. I remembr a pschology professor once told me that it's the crazy people that go into psychology. the ones who are some preoccupied with motives and causes always analyzing and over analyzing things. Its their way of trying to understnad thier own pathologies. always have some angle to try to explain things and justify their psychosist. With uberman everything, he be all and end all, is how your parents raised you, you literally haveno free will or ability to make your own choices, it's all preprogrammed and preordained by your parents. Who knows what this guy has done or does that he is so determined to relieve himslf of repsonsibility. "its my parents fault" he can alwasy say. He to make him feel good about himself, to try to gain some measure of self esteem he letures others, not just groink, about their failings and skewed value system.

I've got to log on more to this board. Its rare that you get a real true blue psychotic to observe in real time.

Alls i know is if the gods smile on me,  and put me in the same place he is...I'm going to snap his fucking neck  :)
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: pellius on September 27, 2011, 01:38:44 AM
Alls i know is if the gods smile on me,  and put me in the same place he is...I'm going to snap his fucking neck  :)

But then your parents will be responsible for murder?  ;D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Xerxes on September 27, 2011, 02:40:00 AM
 ;D
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 27, 2011, 05:02:33 AM
LOL....keep telling yourself that...if you would notice...not a soul is agreeing with you. normally on getbig...if you get somebody good, you receive acknowledgement

here's the skinny, chump....nobody care's about your "mental akido" i'm quite happy...thank you...and the reason I bowed out is because you are terminally boring with your Psychobabble. as I just stated...you aren't getting any traction here...it's a poiintless, boring exchange

you are a poor man's Uberman...you know what i want you to know about me....but in your arrogance you fill in the blanks and draw your own conclusions about my mental makeup...I'm quite happy...thank you very much....

So much so, that i don't spend my days trying to irritate some guy on a bodybuilding forum with metaphysical horseshit..,..because i don't like him...

nobody here bothers me to the point i single them out...but I'm the "unhappy" one  ::) ;)

You might want to look in the mirror and ask yourself why you let me have this power over you, where you feel compelled to try and hurt my feelings. because the opposite doesn't hold true....I didn't seek you out...if you didn't start stalking me i wouldn't know you exist. if you died tomorrow i wouldn't bat an eye.

I don't say this with any malice whatsoever...I don't know you or have any feelings about you one way or the other...whereas you obviously know all about me  :D
Why would I seek "acknowledgment"? That's one of your sick needs, not mine. You claim to be "tranquil", yet you threaten others physically and insult them. Isn't it obvious to everyone here you desperately want to be respected?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Natural Man on September 27, 2011, 06:33:32 AM
Alls i know is if the gods smile on me,  and put me in the same place he is...I'm going to snap his fucking neck  :)

(http://oncle.dom.pagesperso-orange.fr/humour/anims/divers/fichiers/images/rofl.gif)

Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 27, 2011, 09:02:47 AM
Why would I seek "acknowledgment"? That's one of your sick needs, not mine. You claim to be "tranquil", yet you threaten others physically and insult them. Isn't it obvious to everyone here you desperately want to be respected?

I threaten him because he incessantly says false hurtful things about my 11 year old kid...he's a piece if shit...and that is the general consensus when it comes to him.

insults are stock and trade of Getbig...if you are going to call me out for slinging insults, i guess you have a problem with every single person here.

anything else ?
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Your Average GymRat on September 27, 2011, 09:08:40 AM
I threaten him because he incessantly says false hurtful things about my 11 year old kid...he's a piece if shit...and that is the general consensus when it comes to him.

insults are stock and trade of Getbig...if you are going to call me out for slinging insults, i guess you have a problem with every single person here.

anything else ?
You're under attack from your own pain-body. I'm just observing and reflecting. I don't call people out.
Title: Re: If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you, but...
Post by: Palpatine Q on September 27, 2011, 09:09:40 AM
You're under attack from your own pain-body. I'm just observing and reflecting. I don't call people out.

well my chest is a little sore  ::)