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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: 240 is Back on September 29, 2011, 03:30:50 PM
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In a study that will leave many men pretty damn pleased with themselves, the Center for Disease Control stated that the median number of female partners for a man is 7. 7 partners. And this is a number you can believe.
The big issue with these surveys before is that they were held face-to-face, so the interviewees were often compelled to tell the interviewer what they thought they wanted to hear or what they assumed to be "average." This time around, the CDC went with a computerized survey that fostered more of a sense of both privacy and anonymity.
I would figure that, in keeping with gender roles, men would still be inclined to inflate their number, while women kept theirs low. However, with a response of "7" for men (and "4" for women), that number seems incredibly low. So if you have been dying to know how you stack up against the average dude, there you go.
The survey elicited some other interesting stats, such as:
17 percent of men have only one partner during their lifetime.
Only 17 percent of men have had sex with two or more people in the past year.
29 percent of men overall have had more than 15 female partners in their life, but 46 percent of black men claimed to have. (Way to go, black guys!)
(Cue sad tuba music) 4% of Americans (men and women) have never had sex.
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I once had sex with 6 women in a month but if you do not have the body and charm to pull tail then those are going to be your numbers.
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I love it when a girl tells me they arnt feeling well.. I always say,,''maybe your pregnant''
Just so I can hear their ridiculous response like. ''I'd have to have sex first'' or ''I havnt had sex in a year''
Then I break down into laughter.
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What a pleasant idea it is to marry a girl that cuddled 718 men before you.
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I once had sex with 6 women in a month but if you do not have the body and charm to pull tail then those are going to be your numbers.
Now that is more like it for us getbiggers. These poor fools, can't get no ass.
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i once fucked 4 hoes in one 24 hour time frame ... required some work, they all lived far from each other, lots of gas and tire wear that day
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when are you going to cheat on your wife robert, it's ok we get it you re sick of her... It's been like one year you ve been pondering this.
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Naughty Lola
In German
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With women, they have to take in account:
The dudes they don't want to remember
the dudes they screwed when they were drunk
Their ex's that they hate
the flings that they had behind their ex's back
When they screwed their boss
When they screw the boss to get a promotion (this is diff than screwing their boss)
Screwing their ex, behind the new boyfriend's back
Dudes that they've met on dating sites, like POF
Dudes that they felt sucked in bed
Dudes that made them fell like whores in bed
If they have a porno past
With women it gets to be a mileage issue, and they want to seem like they have low mileage, unfortunately for men, there is no Carfax equivalent for women...
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i once fucked 4 hoes in one 24 hour time frame ... required some work, they all lived far from each other, lots of gas and tire wear that day
I once fucked 4 hoes in one 24 minutes time frame .
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I once fucked 4 hoes in one 24 minutes time frame .
;D
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Christ I've had like three in a one year period. (alright 2 of those spanned over 2 other years)
But still man, I've never felt so not shitty. Fuck I've been trying that whole puritan shit on the side.
What the fuck is up, every getbigger fucks more than me, we must be a bunch of cool guys.
P.S. black guys stop spreading aids. it's not cool.
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9 in one day..paid by very rich husbands down-stairs.
Well over 20 a month
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im at 7 right now. does that mean i should stop?
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IT'S ALL SO INVERSE.
90% OF WOMAN HAVE SEX REGULARLY, BUT IT'S THE SAME 10% OF MEN THAT GET THE SEX. YOU GOTTA BE IN THAT UNIT. ;D
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;D
I'm not black.
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I once fucked 4 hoes in one 24 minutes time frame .
Your wife must be proud ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::)
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Your wife must be proud ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::)
Don't worry about my wife ,she's doing just fine.
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I once had sex with 6 women in a month but if you do not have the body and charm to pull tail then those are going to be your numbers.
::)
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See the Andie McDowell and Hugh Grant partner count scene in Four Wedding and Funeral. More realistic than this crap...
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Don't worry about my wife ,she's doing just fine.
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im at 7 right now. does that mean i should stop?
Does that include dudes??
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lol
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3 in one day once, but I'm not proud of it. It was when I was a male chauvinist pig...
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3 in one day once, but I'm not proud of it. It was when I was a male chauvinist pig...
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3 in one day once, but I'm not proud of it. It was when I was a male chauvinist pig...
No such a thing, Dutch.
The women were whore sluts. Don't feel sorry.
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Does that include dudes??
no that number would be closer to 50
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Two in a 24 hour period was my best effort and promiscuity. 4 weekends in a row I pulled.
In total, I'd say I've nailed around 40 chicks in my life. 31 now.
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Do hookers count?
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no that number would be closer to 50
WTF TBOMBZ ,you said you were bisexual but more straight than gay .
7 women, 43 men ? you're gay as fuck .
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Do hookers count?
Yes
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WTF TBOMBZ ,you said you were bisexual but more straight than gay .
7 women, 43 men ? you're gay as fuck .
ive put zero effort into getting men. never had to try in the slightest. women on the other hand... that used to be quite a struggle. another factor, the dudes are pretty much all one time encounters. but with the females i always come back for more.
during the relationship before my current i must have had sex over 300 times during a little over 2 years. maybe more like 500. if you take that into account im much much much more experienced with women.
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I´ve done over 100 stopped counting after....7 wtf? women are easy...although 25-30 were real hoes i´ve pulled more tail then almost 10 americano men together... i live in europe hope this helps...
4 for women...LOL...average is more like 50 dick-ins + 50 just a blowjob...
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ive put zero effort into getting men. never had to try in the slightest. women on the other hand... that used to be quite a struggle. another factor, the dudes are pretty much all one time encounters. but with the females i always come back for more.
during the relationship before my current i must have had sex over 300 times during a little over 2 years. maybe more like 500. if you take that into account im much much much more experienced with women.
A woman with some self respect would never ever be involved with a "man" like you who sucks cocks. :-X
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Erm, was that survey on some totally random group of men or age was specified? Coz you know, you get totally different results depending on this variable.
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WTF TBOMBZ ,you said you were bisexual but more straight than gay .
7 women, 43 men ? you're gay as fuck .
hahaha x2
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How the fuck can this survey be accurate unless you interview every old girl on their death bed?
I have no idea how many girls i'll plow because i have a good 20 years left in me i hope.
average 7? by what age? in my 60's and 70's i'll be plowing cheap oriental and east european pussy by the shitlaod i hope.
Assuming my pension holds out and my old wife is safely committed in an old folks home. ;D.
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Maybe 7 a week in the 80's/90's, give or take a few. One of the fringe benefits of being in a rock band.
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143 and counting (2 I couldn't get off, so 141).
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It would seem I have led a sexually sheltered life compared to some guys. Probably explains why I am still married to the same woman after almost 47 years.
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It would seem I have led a sexually sheltered life compared to some guys. Probably explains why I am still married to the same woman after almost 47 years.
I bet you've had 5times more sex anyway, as in sum of ejaculations performed with a real female.
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I bet you've had 5times more sex anyway, as in sum of ejaculations performed with a real female.
That's a possibility. I will say that I am not an overly sexual person. Some guys claim they have to have sex all the time. I never felt that way. Perhaps I have always had a fairly low libido, who knows? More importantly, my wife and I have always been affectionate with each other regardless of whether we were having sex or not. My wife's poor health today makes intercourse all but impossible for her....and I'm not talking mere headaches here.
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A woman with some self respect would never ever be involved with a "man" like you who sucks cocks. :-X
;D ya, women hate guys that they can relate to, who enjoy going shopping, who have good fashion sense, who view the world in a similar manner as they do, men who dont have any of the negative male stereotypical behaviors.. men who can be their best friend, better friend than their closest female friend, and lover at the same time. ;D they really REALLY hate it
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I bet you've had 5times more sex anyway, as in sum of ejaculations performed with a real female.
Qft. I was the same way with my ex wife because I was with her throughout hs,college, 11 yrs total and we screwed like rabbits the whole time. I'm starting to catch up with some of you here in numbers now though ;D
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I once worked with a guy who claimed a 170 women the first 10 of which were virgins. He also claimed his wife was a virgin when he met her. Needless to say the guy was a BEAST hahahaha. I wish i had his picture to post. Anyone claiming in the 100's is usually bullshitting. I have a friend who is a total ladies man and his number is currently at 60 which is disgusting in my opinion. When you play that game you realize after a while that it isn't worth it anymore. Sex gets to a point where it becomes meaningless but for some i guess it is as addicting as a drug.
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;D ya, women hate guys that they can relate to, who enjoy going shopping, who have good fashion sense, who view the world in a similar manner as they do, men who dont have any of the negative male stereotypical behaviors.. men who can be their best friend, better friend than their closest female friend, and lover at the same time. ;D they really REALLY hate it
What? It's true they do :)
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I once fucked 4 hoes in one 24 minutes time frame .
But you're also an extremely good looking guy with a huge penis, that does help a little..
"1"
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But you're also an extremely good looking guy with a huge penis, that does help a little..
"1"
Doesn't matter how good looking he is. He could be the ugliest fuck in the world with a wad of cash in his hand. He could also have nothing going for him as well except game and still achieve that.
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I once worked with a guy who claimed a 170 women the first 10 of which were virgins. He also claimed his wife was a virgin when he met her. Needless to say the guy was a BEAST hahahaha.
"Beast" as in bodybuilding terms?
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"Beast" as in bodybuilding terms?
As in lady killer ::). I can't remember his last name so getbig will have to forgo pictures :-\
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WTF TBOMBZ ,you said you were bisexual but more straight than gay .
7 women, 43 men ? you're gay as fuck .
LMAO
sorry Bombz but that made me lol real hard ;D
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LMAO
sorry Bombz but that made me lol real hard ;D
That kind of activity is pretty dangerous. Surprised he hasn't caught a disease yet especially considering the part of the country he lives. My gay room mate told me he refused to have sex with anyone from Atlanta because he knew too many people who had AIDS there.
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Doesn't matter how good looking he is. He could be the ugliest fuck in the world with a wad of cash in his hand. He could also have nothing going for him as well except game and still achieve that.
But it doesn't hurt. All things held the same, if a woman (or man) looks at two men from a distance, both just sitting there AND one of them happens to be physically good looking, while the other looks like a turd in clothes, no amount of game will attract her to the turd.
"1"
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But you're also an extremely good looking guy with a huge penis, that does help a little..
"1"
QFT
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glad to see the getbig average seems to be at least 10 times the american average
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Does that include dudes??
Dudes are less trouble. Dudes understand that it is just sex and nothing more. Most women expect some romance and a relationship. -Not that relationships are bad, just more involved.
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A woman with some self respect would never ever be involved with a "man" like you who sucks cocks. :-X
You may be right about that. However, one doesn't generally introduce themselves to a woman by announcing who they have had sex with and what they've done sexually.
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WTF TBOMBZ ,you said you were bisexual but more straight than gay .
7 women, 43 men ? you're gay as fuck .
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHA......
...I would wear out my H & A letters this is so friggin' funny!
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WTF TBOMBZ ,you said you were bisexual but more straight than gay .
7 women, 43 men ? you're gay as fuck .
Can you imagine what that kids sphincter looks like after being ravaged by 43 men. I guess the name ColonDrizzle really does apply to him.
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Can you imagine what that kids sphincter looks like after being ravaged by 43 men. I guess the name ColonDrizzle really does apply to him.
Check his post history, he has also said that he enjoys being fisted. Kid is really fucked up in the head.
Oh and his dad rides with HA...........hahahahahaa a!!!!!! ;D ;D
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Check his post history, he has also said that he enjoys being fisted. Kid is really fucked up in the head.
Oh and his dad rides with HA...........hahahahahaa a!!!!!! ;D ;D
Perhaps he is just highly sexual and open to anything or easily bored. Ouch, though....shoving a fist up one's butt hole would have to hurt like shit. I would think one would have to be loaded on something in order not to feel the pain.
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I once worked with a guy who claimed a 170 women the first 10 of which were virgins. He also claimed his wife was a virgin when he met her. Needless to say the guy was a BEAST hahahaha. I wish i had his picture to post. Anyone claiming in the 100's is usually bullshitting. I have a friend who is a total ladies man and his number is currently at 60 which is disgusting in my opinion. When you play that game you realize after a while that it isn't worth it anymore. Sex gets to a point where it becomes meaningless but for some i guess it is as addicting as a drug.
I have had about 130-150 as i am 42 and never been married. I have to say that i kind of regret all of the sleeping around in my younger days as it prob fucked up my chances of meeting a decent girl.
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I have had about 130-150 as i am 42 and never been married. I have to say that i kind of regret all of the sleeping around in my younger days as it prob fucked up my chances of meeting a decent girl.
No homo but i truly believe sleeping around with that many takes a bit of your soul away. There comes a point where you stop learning things from the women you hook up with and you start loosing a piece of yourself with each one. Sex kind of just becomes another act like eating or bathing. However it is hard to fight your animalistic instincts.
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No homo but i truly believe sleeping around with that many takes a bit of your soul away. There comes a point where you stop learning things from the women you hook up with and you start loosing a piece of yourself with each one. Sex kind of just becomes another act like eating or bathing. However it is hard to fight your animalistic instincts.
This behavior has nothing to do with animalistic instincts, it's about not having inherited spirituality from parents who didnt have one either. His father advised him to behave that way obviously. He told his son to reproduce what he did. He condemned his son to share his fate doing so. Possibly the end of another lineage. Natural selection, or God's Will ?
We all have animalistic instincts but what separates those who follow them and those who dont, is acquired, inherited, spirituality, moral values, Faith coming -or not- from our parents or mentors of subsitution if we didnt have parents.
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No homo but i truly believe sleeping around with that many takes a bit of your soul away. There comes a point where you stop learning things from the women you hook up with and you start loosing a piece of yourself with each one. Sex kind of just becomes another act like eating or bathing. However it is hard to fight your animalistic instincts.
Sex is just another act like eating or bathing. Love on the otherhand....
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I have had about 130-150 as i am 42 and never been married. I have to say that i kind of regret all of the sleeping around in my younger days as it prob fucked up my chances of meeting a decent girl.
I'd say you are JUST 42, still plenty of time to meet someone "right". I'm nowehere in the position to teach you, as I'm way younger, but think about it in this way: you'd have met a "decent girl" in your 20's (let's assume that), you'd have married her...and fast forward - she'd most probably be an old hag right now,gained a ton of weight, and generally - boring/irritative creature that some time in the past was what you remember as a "sexy young girl" you fell in love with. You'd be sitting on the couch thinking to yourself (while these money draining bastards running around you) - "How the fuck did I end up like this?".. There's a possibility for a better scenario, but it's not that common, so... at least you have something to remember.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Marsden
Early life and family
Marsden was born in Stillwater, Oklahoma. His father, James L. Marsden, Ph.D., a professor of animal sciences and industry at Kansas State University,[1] and his mother, a nutritionist, divorced when he was nine years old.[2] Marsden has four siblings: two younger sisters, Jennifer and Elizabeth, and two brothers, Jeff and Robert. He attended Hefner Middle School and Putnam City North High School, in Oklahoma City, and later went on to attend Oklahoma State University, where he studied broadcast journalism. He was also a member of Delta Tau Delta fraternity. However, Marsden left after one and a half years, opting instead to move out to Los Angeles in order to pursue his acting career.
Personal life
Marsden married actress Lisa Linde, daughter of country music songwriter Dennis Linde, on July 22, 2000. Marsden and Linde have two children: son Jack Holden and daughter Mary James.[16] Linde filed for divorce on September 23, 2011.[17]
http://celebritybabies.people.com/2010/11/16/family-photo-james-marsdens-bowling-bunch/
Family Photo: James Marsden’s Bowling Bunch
Say cheese! James Marsden, wife Lisa Linde and their kids — son Jack Holden, 9½, and daughter Mary James, 5
James marden parents divorced when he was 9.
He divorced from his own wife when his own son was... 9 .
We re only subconsciously reproducing what happend to us in our childhood. Sons walk in the steps of their fathers. It's reassuring even if the reproduced behavior is a bad one. He s doing to his own son what his father did to him.
The ten commandments ;
-Do not worship any other gods besides me.
-Do not make idols of any kind, whether in the shape of birds or animals or fish. You must never worship or bow down to them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not share your affection with any other god! I do not leave unpunished the sins of those who hate me, but I punish the children for the sins of their parents to the third and fourth generations. But I lavish my love on those who love me and obey my commands, even for a thousand generations.
-Do not misuse the name of the Lord your God. The Lord will not let you go unpunished if you misuse his name.
Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days a week are set apart for your daily duties and regular work, but the seventh day is a day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God. On that day no one in your household may do any kind of work. This includes you, your sons and daughters, your male and female servants, your livestock, and any foreigners living among you. For in six days the Lord made the heavens, the earth, the sea, and everything in them; then he rested on the seventh day. That is why the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and set it apart as holy.
-Honor your father and mother. Then you will live a long, full life in the land the Lord your God will give you
-Do not murder.
-Do not commit adultery.
-Do not steal.
-Do not testify falsely against your neighbor.
-Do not covet your neighbor’s house. Do not covet your neighbor’s wife, male or female servant, ox or donkey, or anything else your neighbor owns.
Exodus 20:5, Deuteronomy 5:9 and Deuteronomy 24:16; Ezekiel 18:20
Yes they do
(Exodus 20:5) - "You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and the fourth generations of those who hate Me,"
(Deuteronomy 5:9) - "You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, and on the third and the fourth generations of those who hate Me,"
(Exodus 34:6-7) - "Then the Lord passed by in front of him and proclaimed, "The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth; 7who keeps lovingkindness for thousands, who forgives iniquity, transgression and sin; yet He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations."
(1 Cor. 15:22) - "For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ all shall be made alive."
Natural selection or the will of our Creator, our unique ancestor, our Father, God ?
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I'd say you are JUST 42, still plenty of time to meet someone "right". I'm nowehere in the position to teach you, as I'm way younger, but think about it in this way: you'd have met a "decent girl" in your 20's (let's assume that), you'd have married her...and fast forward - she'd most probably be an old had right now,gained a ton of weight, and generally - boring/irritative creature that some time in the past was what you remember as a "sexy young girl" you fell in love with. You'd be sitting on the couch thinking to yourself (while these money draining bastards running around you) - "How the fuck did I end up like this?".. There's a possibility for a better scenario, but it's not that common, so... at least you have something to remember.
wrong. Very few people want you once you re past 40.
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wrong. Very few people want you once you re past 40.
I know guys who are 45-50 (in a great shape and look young) - gets TONS of young and fresh pussy (money not involved btw).. It depends on a person A LOT (and a geographical location I guess.. as I've noticed in US for ex. - the age "gap" is frowned upon a lot, while in Europe - it's nothing to talk about, etc..). I'd actually upload pics, but that wouldn't be ethical (as who knows who is reading this board).
And if you are in great shape, look good and HAVE MONEY in addition to that - you'll have quite a pool of females, starting from 20 (most will seek advantage, depends on what you seek for), to these 30-35 divorced with a kid or two (who cares if looks good, and some of them really does)..
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This behavior has nothing to do with animalistic instincts, it's about not having inherited spirituality from parents who didnt have one either. His father advised him to behave that way obviously. He told his son to reproduce what he did. He condemned his son to share his fate doing so. Possibly the end of another lineage. Natural selection, or God's Will ?
We all have animalistic instincts but what separates those who follow them and those who dont, is acquired, inherited, spirituality, moral values, Faith coming -or not- from our parents or mentors of subsitution if we didnt have parents.
Your religious ramblings are nothing more then a soup sandwich. They hold nothing of value. Please preach the chronicles of Narnia to me. At least that is half entertaining.
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From as much as I've red Ubermans posts yet - I like his style (of putting words together), but it completely baffles me when a man of a seemingly high intelligence is as religiously nut as he is.
Fear of death must be going strong.. no offence.
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I'd say you are JUST 42, still plenty of time to meet someone "right". I'm nowehere in the position to teach you, as I'm way younger, but think about it in this way: you'd have met a "decent girl" in your 20's (let's assume that), you'd have married her...and fast forward - she'd most probably be an old hag right now,gained a ton of weight, and generally - boring/irritative creature that some time in the past was what you remember as a "sexy young girl" you fell in love with. You'd be sitting on the couch thinking to yourself (while these money draining bastards running around you) - "How the fuck did I end up like this?".. There's a possibility for a better scenario, but it's not that common, so... at least you have something to remember.
You have sad and somewhat warped view of married life. Just so you know, some men grow old, fat and crabby too. If you are lucky, you and your partner will grow old and live happily ever after....whatever that means.
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wrong. Very few people want you once you re past 40.
What are you suggesting? Do you think life is over at 40? Contrary to what you suggest, there is someone for everyone. Unfortunately, very often the longer one remains unattached, the more comfortable they get with living alone (set in their ways). When people are open to relationships with others, they can connect at any point in their lives.
Incidentally, you put a lot of the ownness of a man's behavior on what he learned from his father. What about boys who have either no father figure or a weak father figure setting the example in their lives. I cannot agree that we are destined to repeat the mistakes of our fathers or our mothers for that matter.
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I have had about 130-150 as i am 42 and never been married. I have to say that i kind of regret all of the sleeping around in my younger days as it prob fucked up my chances of meeting a decent girl.
Had you met a "decent" woman in your younger days, you probably would be with her today. Some folks shop until they drop. That's OK as long as they aren't looking for something that cannot be found. There are no perfect people, but their are people who are perfect for each other. If you want to be married, you will be. It makes no difference that you are forty-two years old.
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anything the virgin uberman says about women or sex is bs
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From as much as I've red Ubermans posts yet - I like his style (of putting words together), but it completely baffles me when a man of a seemingly high intelligence is as religiously nut as he is.
Fear of death must be going strong.. no offence.
Some folks suddenly find religion when they near the end of their lives. Are they looking to be saved? Some people make religion the corner stone of their lives.
I am old and not very religious. However, I believe we reap what we sow. Expect life to be good, nuture it and make it good and it will be good. Each of our lives will also end someday....makes no difference whether we have faith in a higher power or not.
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I know guys who are 45-50 (in a great shape and look young) - gets TONS of young and fresh pussy (money not involved btw).. It depends on a person A LOT (and a geographical location I guess.. as I've noticed in US for ex. - the age "gap" is frowned upon a lot, while in Europe - it's nothing to talk about, etc..). I'd actually upload pics, but that wouldn't be ethical (as who knows who is reading this board).
And if you are in great shape, look good and HAVE MONEY in addition to that - you'll have quite a pool of females, starting from 20 (most will seek advantage, depends on what you seek for), to these 30-35 divorced with a kid or two (who cares if looks good, and some of them really does)..
I have no issues with age gaps in relationships as long as we are discussing consenting adults. However, as you've outlined here, your view of relationships seems somewhat shallow. It also doesn't reflect what I know about Europeans from my own family some of whom are in fact European.
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I have no issues with age gaps in relationships as long as we are discussing consenting adults. However, as you've outlined here, your view of relationships seems somewhat shallow. It also doesn't reflect what I know about Europeans from my own family some of whom are in fact European.
You are a wise man, we may not agree on some points when it comes to marriage or so (I see too many unhappy/depressed people..and I'd say it's because they tried to fulfill a "scenario" that has been made up against human nature, or generally - just acted out of fear to be "alone". Most of them commited while very young. I'd say if to marry, at 35-40 - would be a far wiser move..But that's just MY point of view, I generally don't agree with these traditions, and not because I'm some kind of a "rebel", I just have my own ways..), but generally I'd agree with what you replied to my posts.
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You are a wise man, we may not agree on some points when it comes to marriage or so (I see too many unhappy/depressed people..and I'd say it's because they tried to fulfill a "scenario" that has been made up against human nature, or generally - just acted out of fear to be "alone". Most of them commited while very young. I'd say if to marry, at 35-40 - would be a far wiser move..But that's just MY point of view, I generally don't agree with these traditions, and not because I'm some kind of a "rebel", I just have my own ways..), but generally I'd agree with what you replied to my posts.
I partially agree with you. I believe you should be financially stable and mature if you wanna have a family and kids. It's lifetime commitment, divorce is for weak morons. You should really be aware of your responsibilities and be prepared both mentally and financially to do that.
On the other hand in order to assure kids are healthy woman should be young enough.
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I partially agree with you. I believe you should be financially stable and mature if you wanna have a family and kids. It's lifetime commitment, divorce is for weak morons. You should really be aware of your responsibilities and be prepared both mentally and financially to do that.
On the other hand in order to assure kids are healthy woman should be young enough.
Yeah.. that's why one should be in the best shape possible, acquire the best possible financial stability and then have kids with a young woman.. It may last, it may not, but still beats being bored to hell at 40 after 10-15 years of marriage already (it may NOT be like that, but again - statistics aren't nice in that case..)..
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Yeah.. that's why one should be in the best shape possible, acquire the best possible financial stability and then have kids with a young woman.. It may last, it may not, but still beats being bored to hell at 40 after 10-15 years of marriage already (it may NOT be like that, but again - statistics aren't nice in that case..)..
Some ppl just like "boring". You just have to be aware of what are you designed for. I am perfectly designed for long term, maybe lifetime relationship. With time I get more and more devoted than initially and I never really get bored, or let's just say - I like it when it's boring.
So unlike 80% of my friends having sex with shitloads of women, buying expensive cars and shit like this is not my dream. My dream is to build my own house, have enough money not to worry about it, nice job, loving wife and kids. That's my lifetime dream at 22 years old. Maybe it's weird, but who cares. I won't try anyway until I finish my studies. My short term goal is to work as intern @ google, my friends worked there and it's awesome job they say.
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So unlike 80% of my friends having sex with shitloads of women, buying expensive cars and shit like this is not my dream. My dream is to build my own house, have enough money not to worry about it, nice job, loving wife and kids. That's my lifetime dream at 22 years old. Maybe it's weird, but who cares. I won't try anyway until I finish my studies. My short term goal is to work as intern @ google, my friends worked there and it's awesome job they say.
You are right, for each his own. The most imortant thing is that you know exactly what you want.
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You are a wise man, we may not agree on some points when it comes to marriage or so (I see too many unhappy/depressed people..and I'd say it's because they tried to fulfill a "scenario" that has been made up against human nature, or generally - just acted out of fear to be "alone". Most of them commited while very young. I'd say if to marry, at 35-40 - would be a far wiser move..But that's just MY point of view, I generally don't agree with these traditions, and not because I'm some kind of a "rebel", I just have my own ways..), but generally I'd agree with what you replied to my posts.
There are a lot of folks who believe it is better to wait until one is settled and somewhat secure in life before they marry....and this goes for men as well as women. I have come to believe that what makes a successful marriage varies from person to person and that good marriages also happen when folks marry young and grow together.
I married at twenty. I was just a kid really. My education wasn't finished. I didn't have a secure job or hardly any money. On top of that, I was bisexual. My wife was twenty-one when we married. We were both just a couple of dumb kids really. Our families were against the marriage, btw. Here we are today, almost forty-seven years later and still married and loving it. Our families didn't think our marriage would last a year. We showed them!
Our son married at twenty-two. His bride was nineteen. They were just kids too. They have been happily married for twenty-three years.
Our daughter married at nineteen. Her husband was twenty-one. They have been happily married for sixteen years.
Unlike my and my wife's families we embraced/supported our kids marriages and hoped the best for them. Maybe there is something unique going on in our family that makes for successful marriages, I don't really know.
One thing I do know is that I am not perfect and neither is my wife. Our marriage has been good, but not some story book example of marriage, like Ozzie and Harriet. If we exampled anything to our kids it was to accept that life isn't always what you expect and people are not always perfect in every way. Love each other, flaws and all and don't try to change one another into someone else.
I don't know that I am wise....just been around for a long time now.
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im at 7 right now. does that mean i should stop?
Men don't count Gaylor
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Men don't count Gaylor
He means girls...he said he's over 49 when it comes to men....
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im at 7 right now. does that mean i should stop?
Nah, when you tire of the current woman or she of you, you'll probably just find another one. Is there supposed to be a limit? Of course, the time may come when you are no longer interested in getting to know someone new, or better yet, you'll fine someone who holds your interest and you won't ever get tired of them.
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Men don't count Gaylor
Smashing 10 ghetto hood rats = 1 normal white girl
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Tbombz - keep it safe man. 43 dudes is a lot of men to be fucking at your age.
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Tbombz - keep it safe man. 43 black dudes is a lot of men to be fucking at your age.
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