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Just moved back to capital city, getting back in touch with a few old friends and alot of people I'm suppose to be friendly with. First time seeing alot of these people in 2-3 years, and it was pretty weird. I realized alot of the people I use to know haven't moved on or done anything since the last time I've hung out with them. They've all gotten fat, bald, lazy, unsuccessful, haven't touched a weight in years, haven't matured since high school, dating chicks that "use" to be hot, successful but totally boring, etc. I didn't really see this coming(i'm 24) but it seems like everyone aside from myself have hit a brick wall.
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I feel you, exact same thing right here, except I've seen them evolving the way you described on a daily basis.
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I get depressed when I go home for the holidays. Same old people doing the same old thing living like townies. They all look like shit except for a couple of us who are addicted to working out. I'm 27 it's pathetic! The girls have all gotten fat to!
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Just moved back to capital city, getting back in touch with a few old friends and alot of people I'm suppose to be friendly with. First time seeing alot of these people in 2-3 years, and it was pretty weird. I realized alot of the people I used to know have moved on or done something since the last time I've hung out with them. I've gotten fat, bald, lazy, unsuccessful, haven't touched a weight in years, haven't matured since high school, dating chicks that "use" to be hot, successful but totally boring, etc. I didn't really see this coming(i'm 24) but it seems like out of everyone only I have hit a brick wall.
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Just moved back to capital city, getting back in touch with a few old friends and alot of people I'm suppose to be friendly with. First time seeing alot of these people in 2-3 years, and it was pretty weird. I realized alot of the people I use to know haven't moved on or done anything since the last time I've hung out with them. They've all gotten fat, bald, lazy, unsuccessful, haven't touched a weight in years, haven't matured since high school, dating chicks that "use" to be hot, successful but totally boring, etc. I didn't really see this coming(i'm 24) but it seems like everyone aside from myself have hit a brick wall.
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Just moved back to capital city, getting back in touch with a few old friends and alot of people I'm suppose to be friendly with. First time seeing alot of these people in 2-3 years, and it was pretty weird. I realized alot of the people I use to know haven't moved on or done anything since the last time I've hung out with them. They've all gotten fat, bald, lazy, unsuccessful, haven't touched a weight in years, haven't matured since high school, dating chicks that "use" to be hot, successful but totally boring, etc. I didn't really see this coming(i'm 24) but it seems like everyone aside from myself have hit a brick wall.
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I see what you have done there ;D
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I feel you, exact same thing right here, except I've seen them evolving the way you described on a daily basis.
Nah for me it was a little different. I gravitated to my group of people because they had showed some potential back when we were 19-22, I assumed over the last 2 years they'd keep up the progress, but they've all turned to shit.
A few of my friends were dating total babes, but have since been dumped, a few of my friends were in a band but have since given up on it, and most of myfriends, are either done school and have gotten lazy in their new jobs, or desperately trying to get a better job/education.
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You have to be the most boring poster on here, we don't want to hear your life stories.
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Just moved back to capital city, getting back in touch with a few old friends and alot of people I'm suppose to be friendly with. First time seeing alot of these people in 2-3 years, and it was pretty weird. I realized alot of the people I use to know haven't moved on or done anything since the last time I've hung out with them. They've all gotten fat, bald, lazy, unsuccessful, haven't touched a weight in years, haven't matured since high school, dating chicks that "use" to be hot, successful but totally boring, etc. I didn't really see this coming(i'm 24) but it seems like everyone aside from myself have hit a brick wall.
=they're simply living.
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=they're simply living.
I'm living, but I prefer to live better than people that try to just get by, when the fuck did self improvement become some big taboo in our culture. ???
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it only gets worse my friend, I am over 40 now and when I see people I knew from 15-20 years ago I pretend not to recognize them, or I quickly vacate the area non detected by them - 99.9% are now fatty fats. On the odd occasion I see someone who was unkind to me from years ago I will acknowledge them but say "wow ! what happened to you ??" etc...
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Just moved back to capital city, getting back in touch with a few old friends and alot of people I'm suppose to be friendly with. First time seeing alot of these people in 2-3 years, and it was pretty weird. I realized alot of the people I use to know haven't moved on or done anything since the last time I've hung out with them. They've all gotten fat, bald, lazy, unsuccessful, haven't touched a weight in years, haven't matured since high school, dating chicks that "use" to be hot, successful but totally boring, etc. I didn't really see this coming(i'm 24) but it seems like everyone aside from myself have hit a brick wall.
as you get older thing gonna get worse...i'm 33 and when i see guy around me between 28-35 y/o looking 10 years older than me, bald fat impotent, with two divorce, shitty life, ex wife and stupid children, there life are endless pain.
it's even more tragic and pathetic when it's old close friend.
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I'm living, but I prefer to live better than people that try to just get by, when the fuck did self improvement become some big taboo in our culture. ???
that was ironic, i don't want to pay that kind of price "for living".
self improvment doesn't exist in France, you're supposed to follow the way...getting fatter, smoking, booze, junk food, shitty life, and all the "excuse" are furnished...
i smoke because of this, i get fat because of my children, i get bald because of my house...
smart and aware people don't follow that way.
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as you get older thing gonna get worse...i'm 33 and when i see guy around me between 28-35 y/o looking 10 years older than me, bald fat impotent, with two divorce, shitty life, ex wife and stupid children, there life are endless pain.
it's even more tragic and pathetic when it's old close friend.
Yeah well as you get older looks aren't really a big deal, but when your in your mid 20's and single you need to keep up with everyone else. But I'll agree about the divorce and all their other shit.
People just don't plan very well, they tend to put all their shit into one basket until their stench seeps through. This is the difference between positive thinking and proactive thinking. A positive thinker will just get fat and say oh well my family will love me anyway, a proactive thinker will keep themselves fit and healthy out of respect to the ones they love knowing full well nothing last forever.
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I went to a small HS so they invite alumni to the Christmas parties every year. I went the last 3 years or so and it is comical how fat and ugly they have all become and they won't shut up about how big I got
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yeah i'm 24 as well and most of the "hot girls" from my high school days are fat slobs now. :-X i think i lot of it is due to the fact that they no longer have sports to be involved in. and yes they all use the "i had a baby" excuse. having a BABY DOES NOT MAKE YOU FAT. you just retain water momentarily. EATING GARBAGE DAY IN AND DAY OUT (AND EVEN MORE GARBAGE NOW CAUSE YOU'RE "EATING FOR TWO" ;) ;) MAKES YOU FAT. ::)
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I have no fucking peers..........
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.......And neither should you!
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yeah i'm 24 as well and most of the "hot girls" from my high school days are fat slobs now. :-X i think i lot of it is due to the fact that they no longer have sports to be involved in. and yes they all use the "i had a baby" excuse. having a BABY DOES NOT MAKE YOU FAT. you just retain water momentarily. EATING GARBAGE DAY IN AND DAY OUT (AND EVEN MORE GARBAGE NOW CAUSE YOU'RE "EATING FOR TWO" ;) ;) MAKES YOU FAT. ::)
This is why I ain't gettin married until after the kid has been popped out.
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I'm living, but I prefer to live better than people that try to just get by, when the fuck did self improvement become some big taboo in our culture. ???
you sound very unhappy. Are you depressed. I am willing to bet most of these old friends are much happier with life than you chasing a goal that will never be accomplished.
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you sound very unhappy. Are you depressed. I am willing to bet most of these old friends are much happier with life than you chasing a goal that will never be accomplished.
I am guessing you are now a depressed fatty fat that "used" to be a popular guy ?
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An old acquittance {not really a friend} just moved back to the city.never knew he moved away or cared.
now it's really weird cuz he keeps trying to contact me and my friends.we've all moved on,become successful.
so now now this kid has moved back into the city.he couldn't cut it out of town so now what makes him think he can make it here?
i hope he drives into a brick wall.
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An old acquittance {not really a friend} just moved back to the city.never knew he moved away or cared.
now it's really weird cuz he keeps trying to contact me and my friends.we've all moved on,become successful.
so now now this kid has moved back into the city.he couldn't cut it out of town so now what makes him think he can make it here?
i hope he drives into a brick wall.
Take him out on one of your drinking binges and he probably will at full speed.
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Take him out on one of your drinking binges and he probably will at full speed.
Lol ;D
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yes, and i keep coming back here :P
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I also have noticed this trend. Most of my old friends are now fat with 3.5 kids hateing life.
I think thats a big factor, not having kids keeps you young.
An old friend i used to tear up the desert with, broke down his bike to rebuild it, had a kid, and its been sitting disasembled for 8 or so years. Hes now a fat fuck who i never see cause we have absolutly nothing in common anymore.
He works to survive and have his 6 pack every night, trying to escape from the reality he created. Sad.
Meanwhile my wife and i been married 10 years, no kids, have great carrers and just moved, just for the heluva it.
Living the dream. ;D
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Try bumping into old friends when you`re 56 years old..................... motherf uckers look like death warmed over and can`t get out of their own way.
I`ll never stop training.
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I also have noticed this trend. Most of my old friends are now fat with 3.5 kids hateing life.
I think thats a big factor, not having kids keeps you young.
An old friend i used to tear up the desert with, broke down his bike to rebuild it, had a kid, and its been sitting disasembled for 8 or so years. Hes now a fat fuck who i never see cause we have absolutly nothing in common anymore.
He works to survive and have his 6 pack every night, trying to escape from the reality he created. Sad.
Meanwhile my wife and i been married 10 years, no kids, have great carrers and just moved, just for the heluva it.
Living the dream. ;D
Though this is not entirely true, oe has to be very careful to keep his personality and to manage a balance between being a good parent and still being an individual once you have kids. You can get sucked in very easily onto a shitty "family life". But it doesn't need to be that way.
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I also have noticed this trend. Most of my old friends are now fat with 3.5 kids hateing life.
I think thats a big factor, not having kids keeps you young.
An old friend i used to tear up the desert with, broke down his bike to rebuild it, had a kid, and its been sitting disasembled for 8 or so years. Hes now a fat fuck who i never see cause we have absolutly nothing in common anymore.
He works to survive and have his 6 pack every night, trying to escape from the reality he created. Sad.
Meanwhile my wife and i been married 10 years, no kids, have great carrers and just moved, just for the heluva it.
Living the dream. ;D
Meh you gotta have kids, your a loser if you don't in my opinion, the thing is you gotta do that stuff smart, have the money needed to do so, be able to afford to downgrade in your job. And don't make bad decisions like getting married.
I'm really thinking about getting some 3rd world chick pregnant, and having kids outside of the country, seems like the cheapest route, if your gonna end up paying child support/devorce settlement, it might as well be in foreign dollars.
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you sound very unhappy. Are you depressed. I am willing to bet most of these old friends are much happier with life than you chasing a goal that will never be accomplished.
I'm actually pretty happy, finally got my shit together recently, just a little surprised how the balance of my group of friends has shifted, I'm a late bloomer, and my life was a mess for so long everyone kinda got use to me being in the back of the pack, now I've kinda shifted to the front.
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I wonder Mikmaq, did u come from a large family or small? Seems those from large familys always want kids.
Its kinda like thats all they know, and dont know any better.
Or they equate large familys with success, and those without kids failures.
Theres a shit ton of mehicans were i live and all have at least 18 kids.
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On another note, ever seen that movie were all the idiots of the world keep multiplying and the smart people die off lol?
Good stuff ;D
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Meh you gotta have kids, your a loser if you don't in my opinion, the thing is you gotta do that stuff smart, have the money needed to do so, be able to afford to downgrade in your job. And don't make bad decisions like getting married.
I'm really thinking about getting some 3rd world chick pregnant, and having kids outside of the country, seems like the cheapest route, if your gonna end up paying child support/devorce settlement, it might as well be in foreign dollars.
Where does that thinking come from, your a loser if you don't have kids? It is a personal choice, a lifestyle choice pretty much.
Do you consider this man a loser? He doesn't have kids, just dates women.
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I wonder Mikmaq, did u come from a large family or small? Seems those from large familys always want kids.
Its kinda like thats all they know, and dont know any better.
Or they equate large familys with success, and those without kids failures.
Theres a shit ton of mehicans were i live and all have at least 18 kids.
Basic genetics if you don't pass your genes on your not worth fuck all. I don't think kids are everything, but to think not breeding makes you a winner is foolish. The problem is when people have to many kids, forget kids are only around a few years, or give up on their own lives just to have them.
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Basic genetics if you don't pass your genes on your not worth fuck all. I don't think kids are everything, but to think not breeding makes you a winner is foolish. The problem is when people have to many kids, forget kids are only around a few years, or give up on their own lives just to have them.
MikMaq, there are already too many people on this earth, passing on your genes in this day and age would only hurt humanity, why not adopt a child instead that needs a family? Overpopulation is going to be a huge problem.
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MikMaq, there are already too many people on this earth, passing on your genes in this day and age would only hurt humanity, why not adopt a child instead that needs a family? Overpopulation is going to be a huge problem.
Because adopting isn't passing on my genes. Anyhow I'm so sick of this overpopulation bullshit. If everyone had two kids(from two parents), there wouldn't exist any such problem , why the fuck should I pay for other peoples recklessness. A two child policy should be the norm with almost all certainty. Everyone gets a shot, and no one looses.
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Because adopting isn't passing on my genes. Anyhow I'm so sick of this overpopulation bullshit. If everyone had two kids(from two parents), there wouldn't exist any such problem , why the fuck should I pay for other peoples recklessness. A two child policy should be the norm with almost all certainty. Everyone gets a shot, and no one looses.
I am not sure the cost, but do you know the cost for having a kid, hospital bills, little kids get sick, just adopt one that knows english already, how to act properly, and use the bathroom the correct way, you would avoid a lot of bullshit that way.
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Because adopting isn't passing on my genes. Anyhow I'm so sick of this overpopulation bullshit. If everyone had two kids(from two parents), there wouldn't exist any such problem , why the fuck should I pay for other peoples recklessness. A two child policy should be the norm with almost all certainty. Everyone gets a shot, and no one looses.
What's the point of passing shit genes like yours?
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I am not sure the cost, but do you know the cost for having a kid, hospital bills, little kids get sick, just adopt one that knows english already, how to act properly, and use the bathroom the correct way, you would avoid a lot of bullshit that way.
Adoption is like buying a car and letting someone else drive it. Besides there are tons of hot milfs, looking for a daddy.
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The funny is they must be thinking exactly the same about you.
Typical of our modern era.
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Adoption is like buying a car and letting someone else drive it. Besides there are tons of hot milfs, looking for a daddy.
Not really Mr Maq, you adopt a child and you raise the child, comparing a car to raising a child and your comparison makes no sense.