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Title: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 27, 2011, 04:15:44 PM
About time Men started standing up to these modern day Whores - These women should be thrown in Jail.

A WOMAN has been ordered to pay her former husband almost $13,000 in child support after DNA tests confirmed he was not the father of her 14-year-old son.

The man - who once caught his wife in a compromising position with a neighbour - secretly took the boy for a DNA test after his own mother raised doubts about the boy's parentage from the time he was four.

"(X) is looking less and less like you. There is nothing similar, not even his ears or toes or fingers," the man's mother said.
 
The couple began living together in their late 20s and married in 1984.

The boy was born in 1995 and still believes the man is his father.
 
"For him, this has been an unfortunate situation not of his own making," Federal Magistrate Stephen Scarlett said in his ruling.
 
"In January 2009, the parties separated and the person whom the child thought was his father moved out of the matrimonial home. Less than a year and a half later, the child's father figure no longer has anything to do with him.

"Effectively, he is now without a father, through no fault of his own. From the child's point of view, his father (as he thought) has rejected him, for no apparent reason.
 
"The applicant's desire to find out the truth about the child's paternity will result in a financial benefit to him, at the expense of collateral damage to the child."
 
The couple divorced in 2010, but the father continued paying for the boy's overseas holidays, school fees and $700 a month in child support.
 
Now the court has ordered the women to pay the man $12,969.
 
The man has had no contact with the boy he believed was his son since the DNA tests confirmed he was not the father.
 
The woman must repay the child support as well as $4038 in court costs within 12 months.
 
The woman was represented by an independent advocate who also caused concern to the court.

"Her involvement in the respondent's case has all the appearances of engaging in legal practice," Mr Scarlett said.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Soul Crusher on November 27, 2011, 04:17:11 PM
I have a few buddies who have gotten raped in divorce court.    Just waiting to read about them in the news. 
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 04:19:11 PM
Although of course I know my son is mine, my ex owes me about $63k in back child support.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 04:20:01 PM
WTF?

You got a Jerry Springer Show app on your iPhone?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 04:21:25 PM
WTF?

You got a Jerry Springer Show app on your iPhone?

LOL....now you know why I'm a "off" at times ;D
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 04:25:22 PM
Hey Cooch - I heard the NASM is going to come out with a new test for certifying personal trainers on Dec 1st - is that going to affect you?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 04:27:38 PM
Hey Cooch - I heard the NASM is going to come out with a new test for certifying personal trainers on Dec 1st - is that going to affect you?

They have had a test for CPT's forever. Is this something new? Wouldn't effect me anyway. I have the PES.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 04:28:56 PM
It's something new for CPT's. Apparently stricter.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Swlabr on November 27, 2011, 04:29:15 PM
Although of course I know my son is mine, my ex owes me about $63k in back child support.

Was the pussy worth 63k, Joe?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: theheman on November 27, 2011, 04:29:22 PM
So many men all around the globe are raising kids thinking it's their own child when it really isn't.  It should be mandatory that every man ought to get a DNA test.  I'm sure if this kind of thing was happening to women then there would probably a law to have it done for this.  On the same topic check this out:
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 04:30:51 PM
Was the pussy worth 63k, Joe?

The only thing good that came out of that disaster was my son.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 04:34:22 PM
It's something new for CPT's. Apparently stricter.

Nah, wouldn't effect me unless I had to retake a test. The only thing I would have to retake is the PES but I haven't had to retake a test in years with any of the certs I have. I have a ridiculous about of accumulated CEU's to last a life time. 
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: 240 is Back on November 27, 2011, 04:35:13 PM
1) Men, flush your OWN condoms.

2) Get vasectomies and don't tell women.

3) When just jerking off on a girl (smart and safe move), always jizz in your own drawers.  It's an uncomfortable way to drive home, but knowing she can't frame you for rape, lock away a blue dress for your perjury trial, use a turkey baster, or freeze your jizz is worth it!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: newmom on November 27, 2011, 04:35:58 PM
she should pay him back. Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 04:36:56 PM
Isn't plowing them in the ass a whole lot easier?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 04:37:33 PM
Isn't plowing them in the ass a whole lot easier?

LMAO!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Soul Crusher on November 27, 2011, 04:38:14 PM
1) Men, flush your OWN condoms.

2) Get vasectomies and don't tell women.

3) When just jerking off on a girl (smart and safe move), always jizz in your own drawers.  It's an uncomfortable way to drive home, but knowing she can't frame you for rape, lock away a blue dress for your perjury trial, use a turkey baster, or freeze your jizz is worth it!

 ;D
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: wes on November 27, 2011, 04:38:30 PM
Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.
X2
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: newmom on November 27, 2011, 04:41:10 PM
Isn't plowing them in the ass a whole lot easier?

 ;D
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: The Grim Lifter on November 27, 2011, 04:41:16 PM
she should pay him back. Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.

Compared to having the kid with some random and claiming it was his all along???
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: booty on November 27, 2011, 04:41:35 PM
she should pay him back. Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.
Agreed.  I feel sorry for the boy.  
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: newmom on November 27, 2011, 04:43:36 PM
Compared to having the kid with some random and claiming it was his all along???

well perhaps it wouldn't of been an easy situation but that kid is almost 12 I'll say. Sit him down and be honest with him. Perhaps she thought it was his (NO WAY am I sticking up for the mother). He was in his life since jump street. That kid wasn't asked to be born. How can you just leave a kid dangling like that. Blood don't make you family
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Soul Crusher on November 27, 2011, 04:46:33 PM
PRE NUP!!!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: TrueGrit on November 27, 2011, 04:47:19 PM
Gotta love DNA. For millennia men have been raising other men's kids thinking they're their own.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Soul Crusher on November 27, 2011, 04:47:55 PM
Gotta love DNA. For millennia men have been raising other men's kids thinking they're their own.

Wow!!!   
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: haider on November 27, 2011, 04:51:07 PM
Gotta love DNA. For millennia men have been raising other men's kids thinking they're their own.
something like 1-3% of kids are not their nominal father's children  :D
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 04:52:51 PM
If the kid is currently fatherless it's because of the actions of his lying, whore of a mother. Although he is not truly fatherless - there is a father out there somewhere.

Why would anyone think the other man owes that family anything? FFS she cheated on him with the neighbor, then divorced him.He's the one that was being dangled.

Any pain or suffering the kid goes through now is 100% due to the actions of his mother.No sympathy for that whore.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: TrueGrit on November 27, 2011, 04:56:04 PM
something like 1-3% of kids are not their nominal father's children  :D

 
I can believe it.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 05:00:37 PM
Bike Nut's Relationship Tip of The Day:

The reason it's called a "money shot" is because pulling out and blasting it on her face keeps you from paying alimony.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: tu_holmes on November 27, 2011, 05:00:55 PM
Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.

It does, but if she wasn't a lying tramp in the first place, then it wouldn't be an issue. Where's the real dad?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: newmom on November 27, 2011, 05:03:40 PM
It does, but if she wasn't a lying tramp in the first place, then it wouldn't be an issue. Where's the real dad?

I agree. If she knew when he was 4, she should of woman up and been more truthful. None the less, he wasn't asked to be born, how can someones feelings change for a child. He helped raise him for what 14 years when he found out. That makes him the dad, not the blood line
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: MikMaq on November 27, 2011, 05:06:00 PM
If the kid is currently fatherless it's because of the actions of his lying, whore of a mother. Although he is not truly fatherless - there is a father out there somewhere.

Why would anyone think the other man owes that family anything? FFS she cheated on him with the neighbor, then divorced him.He's the one that was being dangled.

Any pain or suffering the kid goes through now is 100% due to the actions of his mother.No sympathy for that whore.
Seriously she should have to give him about 15 years worth of child support for this crap.


Just look how arnold got shunned, and compare it to this, atleast he supported the fucking kid, this bitch ripped off a guy.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: tu_holmes on November 27, 2011, 05:10:39 PM
I agree. If she knew when he was 4, she should of woman up and been more truthful. None the less, he wasn't asked to be born, how can someones feelings change for a child. He helped raise him for what 14 years when he found out. That makes him the dad, not the blood line

Probably a lot of anger and it does speak about his character.

I know this guy who married a girl who was already pregnant when he met her.

When the kid was born, he signed the birth certificate just like he was the father. They got divorced later and he STILL continued to be the father of that child.

He never once said anything about him not being the dad... Only when the kid was about 16 did both parents finally come clean.

He's that kids father and that's the way it is.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: 240 is Back on November 27, 2011, 05:11:56 PM
wouldn't it be funny if 333386 was the illigitimate son of a kenyan named barry? 

it would be some star wars type shit.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 05:14:39 PM
Man...some of you people need a dose of reality.

Pretty Woman was not a love story folks - in the end Julia Roberts is still a whore. When will you guys learn that there are nasty, evil people out there that aren't June and Ward Cleaver?

Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: The Grim Lifter on November 27, 2011, 05:15:35 PM
something like 1-3% of kids are not their nominal father's children  :D

I would say it's only that low because of religious families pumping out kids.

Not sayin' religious people don't cheat, but the women in those families (like mormons) are far less likely to.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: tu_holmes on November 27, 2011, 05:17:04 PM
wouldn't it be funny if 333386 was the illigitimate son of a kenyan named barry? 

it would be some star wars type shit.

(http://www.finanzaonline.com/forum/attachments/small-cap/1404676d1300898580t-cell-therapeutics-fatturati-ipotizzati-vol-ii-nooooo10.jpg)

In all seriousness, 3.14159265 is a good guy... he just lets Obama frazzle him.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 05:18:51 PM
Ok, the mother lied to the "father" about the child being his. He raised the child for 14 years thinking it was his, finds out it wasn't and just up and leaves?? They are both POS. There was a relationship built in that 14 years between the son and "father". I'm quite sure that boy didn't want his "father" to leave whether it was biologically his or not.....fucking man up!!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: tu_holmes on November 27, 2011, 05:21:39 PM
Ok, the mother lied to the "father" about the child being his. He raised the child for 14 years thinking it was his, finds out it wasn't and just up and leaves?? They are both POS. There was a relationship built in that 14 years between the son and "father". I'm quite sure that boy didn't want his "father" to leave whether it was biologically his or not.....fucking man up!!

How about he spends his time trying to have his OWN family... maybe he wants to start a family with a kid that might actually be his?

You talk about manning up, but I doubt any man on this fucking board would continue to be a "father" to a kid that isn't fucking his and he had no desire to be a parent of in the first place.

Man up? It's manning up in this day and age for a man to tell some bitch to fuck off... He DID man up... He just didn't do it in the way that people wanted him to.

They would rather him "man up" and stay his ex-wife's bitch.

Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Soul Crusher on November 27, 2011, 05:22:22 PM
wouldn't it be funny if 333386 was the illigitimate son of a kenyan named barry? 

it would be some star wars type shit.

LMFAO!!!   no black in me       
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: newmom on November 27, 2011, 05:22:51 PM
Probably a lot of anger and it does speak about his character.

I know this guy who married a girl who was already pregnant when he met her.

When the kid was born, he signed the birth certificate just like he was the father. They got divorced later and he STILL continued to be the father of that child.

He never once said anything about him not being the dad... Only when the kid was about 16 did both parents finally come clean.

He's that kids father and that's the way it is.

my brother similar. He met his son's mother when her other son was 6 months old. They were together and married for 10 years. He knew from a young age my brother wasn't his dad but none the less he's 18 years old and still calls him dad. He's my nephew, why, because my brother raised him and he's been in my life since he was a baby.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: gh15 on November 27, 2011, 05:24:32 PM
So many men all around the globe are raising kids thinking it's their own child when it really isn't.  It should be mandatory that every man ought to get a DNA test.  I'm sure if this kind of thing was happening to women then there would probably a law to have it done for this.  On the same topic check this out:


americana in its glory lol,, good story but many like this around sadly,,fellas are being abused by female ,, believe it or not ,,its male being abused today more than female being abused

gh15 approved
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 05:26:15 PM
Maybe we should separate a conscious decision to raise someone else's child....and a fucking whore that lies to you to get you to raise the kid she knows the real father won't.

Might clarify things a bit for the slower folk in the group.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 05:28:12 PM
How about he spends his time trying to have his OWN family... maybe he wants to start a family with a kid that might actually be his?

You talk about manning up, but I doubt any man on this fucking board would continue to be a "father" to a kid that isn't fucking his and he had no desire to be a parent of in the first place.

Man up? It's manning up in this day and age for a man to tell some bitch to fuck off... He DID man up... He just didn't do it in the way that people wanted him to.

They would rather him "man up" and stay his ex-wife's bitch.



he manned up when he thought it was his for 14 years. as soon as he found out it wasn't, he bailed. That's not manning up that him in relief of himself selfishly seeing his way out. Thats being a pussy thats abandoning a kid who obviously needed a "father" in his life. If any one on this board would actually do that to a kid that needs him, then they should REALLY think about having a family.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: gh15 on November 27, 2011, 05:29:44 PM
Isn't plowing them in the ass a whole lot easier?

i had a red head ,,blond red strawbery blond ,, i used to fuck the flying day light out of her ass,, she actualy prefered it and was crying and saying mother fuck moment iput it in etc and ws in real pain but it was the best ,, nothing like fuckin a female up the ass and see the face lol espcialy when they start playing with thier clit and pussy while getting it in the ass...then you know you are hiting them hard ,,some girls wil do anyuthing for you to liek them ...you need to keep it this way and then you prevent baby drama and balonie

gh15 approved
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: tu_holmes on November 27, 2011, 05:32:58 PM
he manned up when he thought it was his for 14 years. as soon as he found out it wasn't, he bailed. That's not manning up that him in relief of himself selfishly seeing his way out. Thats being a pussy thats abandoning a kid who obviously needed a "father" in his life. If any one on this board would actually do that to a kid that needs him, then they should REALLY think about having a family.


The kid needs HIS OWN DAD... The one that slut slept with... That's the person who should be out at the ball park with the kid... Not convenient Dad who happened to be married to the tramp.

You are a decent guy Joe, but you are really misguided here.

Forcing this guy to be a "father" is like socialism... Saying that the kid's needs are so much more important than the adult who has NO responsibility to that kid in the first place.

Are you a 99%er Coach... Are you?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: gh15 on November 27, 2011, 05:33:16 PM
it wasnt mother ufck what she said ,, it ws GOD DAMN,, LOL ,, now i remember ,, everytime i put it in i used to love getting it in hard and fast eventhough slow it what you need to do...but i liked fuckin her hard ,, evberytime i did it she was GOD DAMN in painnnnn i was geting so hard my cock was stimulate into new dimention i had tingly sensations in the balls i remmebr i could make a hole in the wall with my cock back those moments lol

everytime she say ,, god damn in pain and she didnt know i liked to hear it ,, i LOVVVVVED IT,, was good sex,,

gh15 approved
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Mjolnir on November 27, 2011, 05:57:40 PM
The biggest loser in this whole mess is the kid, I really feel sorry for him.
It's a shame we don't have the whole story but I wonder if he stopped seeing the boy because they simply didn't get along or didn't like each other.  Maybe seeing the kid really cut him up and reminded him of the cheating bitch he was with and wanted to put it all behind him.  Pretty poor though if he got along well with the boy and then just cut him off though, I know I would still be his dad after that long as father and son.  It's just a real sad story.

Lol at GH15 talking about butt fucking and we're all talking about the article!!!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: theheman on November 27, 2011, 06:01:36 PM
it wasnt mother ufck what she said ,, it ws GOD DAMN,, LOL ,, now i remember ,,  i LOVVVVVED IT,,
gh15 approved

Now here's the thing.  Whenever you suspect you've seen gh15 in real life (nasser, gunter, dennis etc.) have a chick walk up to him and say "GOD DAMN".  Then notice the reaction.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 06:03:12 PM
The biggest loser in this whole mess is the kid, I reall feel sorry for him.
It's a shame we don't have the whole story but I wonder if he stopped seeing the boy because they simply didn't get along or didn't like each other.  Maybe seeing the kid really cut him up and reminded him of the cheating bitch he was with and wanted to put it all behind him.  Pretty poor though if he got along well with the boy and then just cut him off though, I know I would still be his dad after that long as father and son.  It's just a real sad story.

Lol at GH15 talking about butt fucking and we're all talking about the article!!!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: MikMaq on November 27, 2011, 06:09:03 PM
I agree. If she knew when he was 4, she should of woman up and been more truthful. None the less, he wasn't asked to be born, how can someones feelings change for a child. He helped raise him for what 14 years when he found out. That makes him the dad, not the blood line
So would you raise a 14 year old kid, that your ex husband had, if he never mentioned he was having an affair ??? and you had no idea the kid was yours.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 06:09:29 PM
The kid needs HIS OWN DAD... The one that slut slept with... That's the person who should be out at the ball park with the kid... Not convenient Dad who happened to be married to the tramp.

You are a decent guy Joe, but you are really misguided here.

Forcing this guy to be a "father" is like socialism... Saying that the kid's needs are so much more important than the adult who has NO responsibility to that kid in the first place.

Are you a 99%er Coach... Are you?


1. I agree but in 14 years has this kids dad ever came forward? No, not that I've read and chances are until this kid is an adult and the hopefully the guilt has set in...he won't and then it's too late.

2. Like "socialism"? I didn't say he HAD to I was suggesting it's the RIGHT thing to do.

And as I'm writing this looking at my own 14 year old on the opposite couch watching football with me, I'm thinking to myself if that was me and my ex had done that to me......I wouldn't (and couldn't) love him any less. It's not the kids fault and yes....he's the big loser in all of this.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 27, 2011, 06:10:28 PM
So would you raise a 14 year old kid, that your ex husband had, if he never mentioned he was having an affair ??? and you had no idea the kid was yours.

It's the right thing to do...it wasn't the kids fault.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Dr.J on November 27, 2011, 06:14:30 PM
BIKE NUT is %100 correct!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: bike nut on November 27, 2011, 06:44:41 PM
Bike Nut is always 100% correct...except the time I sent the penis photos to runningmom and didn't know "she" is actually a "Chaos" gimmick.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: theheman on November 27, 2011, 06:56:28 PM
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Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 27, 2011, 09:27:16 PM
I would say it's only that low because of religious families pumping out kids.

Not sayin' religious people don't cheat, but the women in those families (like mormons) are far less likely to attract a man.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Spicoli on November 27, 2011, 10:28:52 PM
LMFAO!!!   no black in me       

Not yet anyway. Just hope you dont go to prison any time soon.
just playin  8)
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Spicoli on November 27, 2011, 10:38:58 PM
something like 1-3% of kids are not their nominal father's children  :D

Just watched a documentary on this a few weeks ago. The real % is roughly 1/3.    33% of the children walking this earth come from someone elses ball sack than the man they beleive to be their father.
Thats a scary thought. Seeing as I have 3 kids. chances are 1 is not mine. OUCH!!!!!! Now even more fucked up is I wonder how many men are raising kids of mine as well?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: delta9mda on November 27, 2011, 10:47:10 PM
Isn't plowing them in the ass a whole lot easier?
thats where lawyers come from
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 27, 2011, 11:26:46 PM
she should pay him back. Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.

no it doesnt.  it's not his and its the c u n t s fault. i dont blame him at all.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 27, 2011, 11:28:25 PM
Probably a lot of anger and it does speak about his character.

I know this guy who married a girl who was already pregnant when he met her.

When the kid was born, he signed the birth certificate just like he was the father. They got divorced later and he STILL continued to be the father of that child.

He never once said anything about him not being the dad... Only when the kid was about 16 did both parents finally come clean.

He's that kids father and that's the way it is.

Where i'm from, we call those suckers.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: tu_holmes on November 27, 2011, 11:29:17 PM
Where i'm from, we call those suckers.
Well, he never paid any child support for the kid... he just treated the kid like his own.

I wouldn't have done it.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 27, 2011, 11:31:53 PM
he manned up when he thought it was his for 14 years. as soon as he found out it wasn't, he bailed. That's not manning up that him in relief of himself selfishly seeing his way out. Thats being a pussy thats abandoning a kid who obviously needed a "father" in his life. If any one on this board would actually do that to a kid that needs him, then they should REALLY think about having a family.


don't be a dipshit coach. it's not his. it's the mothers fault....MOTHERS FAULT. The guy has every right to bounce and not be judged. The mother should be punished not this guy.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Mjolnir on November 27, 2011, 11:35:55 PM
Let's put the boot on the other foot - how would you all feel as a 14yo boy who grew up with his 'dad' and then your 'dad' suddenly leaves the house and says you aren't my boy anymore? You would feel like shit and would wonder what you did wrong! This kid doesn't understand his mom is a whore he just knows his dad no longer wants anything to do with him.  If the relationship between 'father' and son was good he should have just kept on with it and collected the money from the whore, no need to punish the kid for the mother's mistake.  I reckon there's more to this story than we're being told.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 27, 2011, 11:42:05 PM
Let's put the boot on the other foot - how would you all feel as a 14yo boy who grew up with his 'dad' and then your 'dad' suddenly leaves the house and says you aren't my boy anymore? You would feel like shit and would wonder what you did wrong! This kid doesn't understand his mom is a whore he just knows his dad no longer wants anything to do with him.  If the relationship between 'father' and son was good he should have just kept on with it and collected the money from the whore, no need to punish the kid for the mother's mistake.  I reckon there's more to this story than we're being told.

No ifs and other foots bullshit. Look at it as it is.
SLUT MOTHER
VICTIM CHILD
SAP Raising child.

Sap should be free to go at anytime. While heartless, I can understand what he did and it will be the mothers fault the kid is fucked for life.....Hope she dies depressed...whore.

So glad I dont have children.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Mjolnir on November 27, 2011, 11:47:36 PM
My point is, there doesn't need to be a child victim! Plenty of guys grew with mom's that are ho's and turned out ok.  If the relationship between the man and th boy was good he should have just kept being his dad he didn't have to live in the same house, doesn't have to pay child support so it could have been fine.  I have afeeling that all was not well between man and boy and that's why he cut off all contact, at least I hope that's what it was.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 28, 2011, 01:21:27 AM
No ifs and other foots bullshit. Look at it as it is.
SLUT MOTHER
VICTIM CHILD
SAP Raising child.

Sap should be free to go at anytime. While heartless, I can understand what he did and it will be the mothers fault the kid is fucked for life.....Hope she dies depressed...whore.

So glad I dont have children.

x 100
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: newmom on November 28, 2011, 03:26:49 AM
So would you raise a 14 year old kid, that your ex husband had, if he never mentioned he was having an affair ??? and you had no idea the kid was yours.

absofuckinglutely. I have no doubts I would. Even if my ex (daughter father) has a child with his current, I'd welcome that kid in my house, because that's my daughters half brother or sister.

Again, blood doesn't make you family either
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: dr.chimps on November 28, 2011, 04:27:57 AM
LMFAO!!!   no black in me       
That's what James Watson said. His DNA test said different.    ;)
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 28, 2011, 04:39:35 AM
This kid doesn't understand his mom is a whore
Hey, the kids 14, he has known his mother was a whore for quite some time now.  Men are biologically programmed to be able to detect a whore quite easily.  Similar to mating behaviour.  Every man within a 5km radius of this women knew she was a whore.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 07:24:25 AM
Hey, the kids 14, he has known his mother was a whore for quite some time now.  Men are biologically programmed to be able to detect a whore quite easily.  Similar to mating behaviour.  Every man within a 5km radius of this women knew she was a whore.

lol...true....you just kinda know who the whores are.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Nomad on November 28, 2011, 07:29:16 AM
well perhaps it wouldn't of been an easy situation but that kid is almost 12 I'll say. Sit him down and be honest with him. Perhaps she thought it was his (NO WAY am I sticking up for the mother). He was in his life since jump street. That kid wasn't asked to be born. How can you just leave a kid dangling like that. Blood don't make you family

lol female logic...why are you blaming the man for this  :D
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHE
Post by: Parker on November 28, 2011, 07:41:22 AM
So many men all around the globe are raising kids thinking it's their own child when it really isn't.  It should be mandatory that every man ought to get a DNA test.  I'm sure if this kind of thing was happening to women then there would probably a law to have it done for this.  On the same topic check this out:

There is a saying, "Feed him 'til he looks like you."
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 28, 2011, 07:44:41 AM
lol female logic...why are you blaming the man for this  :D
This is the problem with women, they are blind to their own and other womens evil doing all the while pretending to be saintly and non whore like - all the while they have no problem ruining a good mans life with their pussy.  Thank God we can beat the shit out of those bitches any time we like.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 07:51:34 AM
Any of you suckers that don't have a DNA test on your kids are exactly that SUCKERS!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 28, 2011, 08:52:16 AM
don't be a dipshit coach. it's not his. it's the mothers fault....MOTHERS FAULT. The guy has every right to bounce and not be judged. The mother should be punished not this guy.

Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Nomad on November 28, 2011, 08:54:51 AM
Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.

So sink more time into a kid that's not yours?
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 28, 2011, 08:56:35 AM
So sink more time into a kid that's not yours?

Yes. After 14 years that kid is apart of you. Consider himself a step-parent.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 28, 2011, 08:59:34 AM
Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.
Law of the jungle, dont raise anothers mans sperm (child), it lessens the chances of you succesfully reproducing your genes.  If anything that child got of lucky, if he was a lion cub, he would be dead by now. 
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 09:02:06 AM
Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.

you are 100% correct.  Lets say I'm in this situation (i'd never be cause I'd have gotten a DNA test). You are correct. Because of the emotional bond any normal person have an extrodinarilly difficult time just cutting and running...I mean the kids 14 and you have 4 more years to raise him and he's a grown man and he'd think of you as a helluva man raising him knowing you weren't his...

vs. this kid hating women and being an angry little fuck for the rest of his life...

I know the morally right thing to do but the man shouldn;t be faulted....it's not his fault or his business. The woman should go to jail also for fraud.

Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Coach is Back! on November 28, 2011, 09:11:35 AM
Law of the jungle, dont raise anothers mans sperm (child), it lessens the chances of you succesfully reproducing your genes.  If anything that child got of lucky, if he was a lion cub, he would be dead by now. 

You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

At 14 he's in the vulnerable time in his life and could be teetering on being a total fuck up (hanging around the wrong influences) or being around the right people and developing himself into a productive part of society when he becomes an adult. We already have enough fuck ups in this world.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 09:16:43 AM
You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

At 14 he's in the vulnerable time in his life and could be teetering on being a total fuck up (hanging around the wrong influences) or being around the right people and developing himself into a productive part of society when he becomes an adult. We already have enough fuck ups in this world.

To be honest Coach, most men wouldn't do this.  They might say they would but they wouldn't....Me included. Now the c u n t? Well now that's a different story...that's what hit men and tight alibies are for cause I'm 99% sure I'd have her head cut off.

I am the 99%
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 09:21:33 AM
With DNA testing available there should be a law.
You should have the option of a DNA test after the childs birth. If you refuse, you are responsible for the child till it is 18 whether it's yours or not.

If you accept and it's not yours, you're free to go if you want.

This is 100% fair. You get a chance.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: theheman on November 28, 2011, 09:22:30 AM
You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

You're so judgemental man.  The guy was stating a fact that happens in nature.  He wasn't saying men should kill other men's children.  Maybe you're thinking it and projectiong your own "selfish asshole" characteristic on others.  The real selfish asshole is the woman that gets impregnated w/the man she finds better genetically suited for survival and having her partner raise it.  By priniciples of biology and nature the real winner is the man that can impregnate as many women as possible and have other males raise it for him.  We don't live like that because we are given dominion over other animals and hence have a higher level thinking than ...
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: theheman on November 28, 2011, 09:23:37 AM
With DNA testing available there should be a law.
You should have the option of a DNA test after the childs birth. If you refuse, you are responsible for the child till it is 18 whether it's yours or not.

If you accept and it's not yours, you're free to go if you want.

This is 100% fair. You get a chance.

X2--just what I said earlier too.  I'm glad we are in agreement.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 09:28:02 AM
X2--just what I said earlier too.  I'm glad we are in agreement.

Sorry didn't see that. And yes, it doesn't get anymore fair than that.
Cause what it comes down to then is trust.
How much do you trust your broad? I would get the DNA test 100% of the time...She could threaten me with divorce or breaking up and everything else. I'd do it. and not secretly I want her to know I don't fuck around.

This is an extrememly traumatic event for a man and should be treated with more care. But because we're guys we're supposed to "tough it out"....Oh brother ::)...Any man that finds out and kills the bitch should be put in a nut house not a prison.
The cu nt should be jailed for fraud.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 28, 2011, 09:29:39 AM
You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

At 14 he's in the vulnerable time in his life and could be teetering on being a total fuck up (hanging around the wrong influences) or being around the right people and developing himself into a productive part of society when he becomes an adult. We already have enough fuck ups in this world.
The boys got no chance, he has a whore for a mother,  Fuck Ups make life Interesting - It's the do-gooders I cant stand, spreading their evil everywhere
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on November 28, 2011, 09:50:38 AM
He has every right to walk out on the childs life. Hes 14, not an infant. Not his child so fuck it, he may want to move on and have his own life and family
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Samourai Pizzacat on November 28, 2011, 10:24:50 AM
don't be a dipshit coach. it's not his. it's the mothers fault....MOTHERS FAULT. The guy has every right to bounce and not be judged. The mother should be punished not this guy.

If the guy has any sensibilities he will continue to father the boy, perhaps not fulltime, but take him on the weekends, whatever. This is about the child now, not about a man's ego. Life puts you in horrible dilemma's, the measure of a man is how he handles these situations. Walking away is a complete cop-out!
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Wiggs on November 28, 2011, 10:38:44 AM
If the guy has any sensibilities he will continue to father the boy, perhaps not fulltime, but take him on the weekends, whatever. This is about the child now, not about a man's ego. Life puts you in horrible dilemma's, the measure of a man is how he handles these situations. Walking away is a complete cop-out!

Yes Sir.  See my post that starts with "to be honest coach".
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Man of Steel on November 28, 2011, 10:43:28 AM
The mother was wrong and the "father" was wrong...both made very poor choices.

People need to keep it in their pants and figure out who they're actually dating and possibly marrying before "makin babies" together.  20 seconds of irresponsible, cross-eyed bliss and lives get ruined like this.  Exercise some self control.
Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Radical Plato on November 28, 2011, 10:50:01 AM
People need to keep it in their pants and figure out who they're actually dating and possibly marrying before "makin babies" together.  20 seconds of irresponsible, cross-eyed bliss and lives get ruined like this.  Exercise some self control.
Easy when you are as ugly as most getbiggers, but what happens when you have the kavorka like I do


Title: Re: Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER
Post by: Man of Steel on November 28, 2011, 10:52:07 AM
Easy when you are as ugly as most getbiggers, but what happens when you have the kavorka like I do

Yes, some of us do look like Shrek so self control is a non issue.