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Title: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Natural Man on January 21, 2012, 08:23:07 AM
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2051299/Black-women-look-outside-race-successful-man.html

Black women are surging ahead of black men both socially and economically, leading to a ‘relationship crisis’, says a professor of family law.

According to Ralph Richard Banks, as black men fall behind in education and income, they become less compatible with women of the same race, leading to black females becoming the ‘most unmarried’ group in American society.

In his book Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone, Banks says the most obvious solution is for black women to marry outside their race.

Banks cites figures claiming around one in ten black men in their early thirties are in prison and that two black women graduate from college for every black man, elevating the women into the middle classes, while the men remain in the lower classes.

As a result, says Banks, many black women ‘marry down’, with the result that two out of every three black marriages failing, around twice the rate of white marriages, The Economist reported.

The Stanford professor claims due to this ‘man shortage’ black women are half as likely as white women to be married and three times as likely never to marry.
In his book Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone, Banks terms the phenomena of black women surging ahead as a 'social catastrophe' for black men

In his book Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone, Banks terms the phenomena of black women surging ahead as a 'social catastrophe' for black men

Banks also suggests that while statistically black women are least likely to marry into other races, their loyalty to black men is ‘noble’ yet counterproductive and they should look to white, Latino or Asian men as potential partners.

In an interview with Nightline, Banks claimed sixty years ago black marriages and families were ‘as stable as white families’ and that the decline comes as ‘black women have moved ahead, black men have fallen behind’.

Terming the phenomena as a ‘social catastrophe’ for black men, he added: ‘Imprisonment numbers, unemployment numbers, under-performance academically, these are crisis not just for African-Americans, but for the nation.

‘Many women would do well to expand their options in the same way people of other races have, and look beyond black men in their search for a partner.

‘Black women are the most segregated group in our society when it comes to relationships.’

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2051299/Black-women-look-outside-race-successful-man.html#ixzz1k6urIiLl


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Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: G_Thang on January 21, 2012, 10:24:26 AM
boy, you are working hard to push this thread.  anyway, someone posted a video with black women w/white men and the only lost out the 20 or so i saw was paula patton.  they rest you could have.

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not trying to hurt feelings, but this is a common practice by very, very dark black women to go white or light skin black man.   

black men get money, degrees, etc, etc, etc., go after what's closest to this.

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it's not that they are not out there, it's who they are looking for when they succeed. you can confirm this with o'tre and wiggs.

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o'tre
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wiggs

Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: che on January 21, 2012, 10:25:18 AM
Winner hahaaa

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Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 10:26:43 AM
LOL @ unterman trying to bait people...Go ahead, you can have all the black broads you want. Just ensure you keep churning out white broads and everything will be great.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: G_Thang on January 21, 2012, 10:28:47 AM
what's the ticket to erin stern?  :-*

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Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: che on January 21, 2012, 10:31:51 AM
what's the ticket to erin stern?  :-*


Martinez vs Floyd in November.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Doug_Steele on January 21, 2012, 10:37:07 AM
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: freespirit on January 21, 2012, 10:39:27 AM
Girls and sons.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Natural Man on January 21, 2012, 10:41:11 AM
LOL @ unterman trying to bait people...Go ahead, you can have all the black broads you want. Just ensure you keep churning out white broads and everything will be great.
? nobody wants black women, even educated, that's why they re stuck sticking to underdeveloped black males, cause nobody else wants them, cause.. they are black. You should read the article before commenting. Actually black women dont want black men but are forced to settle with Them CAUSE NOBODY WANTS THEM EITHER IN OTHER RACES.

Fact is educated black women want to "whiten" themselves and go away from their black roots being disgusted by them. I see a lot of christian hard working young black girls here in canada in libraries hunting for educated white males for example. They often attempt to make eye contact with me when im studying again for example. Fact is I, just like other educated, faithful well raised white males arent interested the least in dating them... We re interested in white women. So these girls will have no choice but to date...black men, cause only them want them! Only fat white losers might end dating them. That's the best that could happen to both of them anyway, as white women arent interested in fat ugly looking white men either.

Hence the point of this educated, christian black man's book, you fucking retarded low life loser. Black males are genetically dumb, and disgust smarter more educated black females who want to purify their genes dating white men instead.

Anyways why are you mad? You re not concerned the least by any of this, you unemployed, unemployable, ugly , fat black loser who s been made cuckhold...by a... white woman.


Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 10:45:35 AM
Not This shit again,
look...black women and women in general are a man's quality control, if there is no control, there is no quality.
Black women have diff standards for black men than for white, Asian, and non-black Latino.
They should have the same standards, but instead they want black men to be hoods, thugs, players, or ballers.
They don't go for the black men degrees, nor do they support or push black to do better....from once they were high school or youger black women have been taught to go for education, but also deal with the black men who are the "cool" dudes---those that aren't about anything, now that black women want to marry, those same dudes are locked up---they never required them to be men or to be about anything.

Families? Most black families are headed by black women--who again, only required the black me in their loves to be sperm donors. Thus, showing their black daughters the same path, and their sons that it's okay to "hit and run". Also, there is the fact that a lot black men are with white women.
Women and people today fail to realize, that the power is in women's hands when it comes to determining the parameters of the relationship...

And I think this is a push or an agenda for women and society to "give up" on black men---black men are only meant for a few things---playing ball or padding arrest stats (or posing in thongs), and justifying the building of new prisons.    
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Hulkotron on January 21, 2012, 10:48:47 AM
  The institution of marriage was created in the late Neolithic era to protect women and children and not men. Men had all the power, including the power to murder his women and children, so men as a collective threw women a bone dictating that, if a man left his wife for whatever reasons besides cheating, that he should support her with an income for the rest of her life. This was obvious and necessary since women couldn't earn any income.

  The problem is that, nowadays, women have as much if not more power than men, but the institution of marriage continues to protect women and children out of tradition. Men are screwed because the traditional institutions of society still see women as the weaker gender in need of protection. A man leaves his wife and he has to give her 50% of everything he has but if the woman leaves the man she doesen't need to give him anything. An adolescent girl committs an act of delinquency and she receives a slap in the wrist from the male judge since she is "one of the future mothers of Society and sending her to a brutal prison environment would ruin her nurturing instincts. An adolescent boy in the same position gets sent to juvy to be brutalized and "straightened into a man". Most boys get the prepuces of their penises hacked at birth and no legal consequences come from it, but if a doctor even pricks the genital of a baby girl, there is hell to pay. Boys learn from a very young age that girls get away with almost anything, whilst boys get beaten and straightened out if they do crazy stuff.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 10:50:03 AM


Listened to the kunt for 5 seconds and couldn't handle more.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: G_Thang on January 21, 2012, 10:55:26 AM
Martinez vs Floyd in November.

post the link or you buy your crack in Little Haiti?  FMW would never take that fight.   what happen to ward vs martinez?  
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Tre on January 21, 2012, 10:56:22 AM

I am black, fairly well-educated, own my own business, and have never been arrested. 

I also have decent genetics - not ugly, not short, not slow.  Everyone in my family is employed (or retired) and has a college degree.  We don't do welfare.  We don't believe in taking on credit card debt.  We serve our communities, we serve our country.  Despite my involvement in the adult industry, I am from very good stock. 

I'm also the smartest guy in the room more than 99% of the time and can fuck for almost an hour without cumming, guaranteeing my partner multiple orgasms before I finish in her. 

Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 10:56:27 AM
? nobody wants black women, even educated, that's why they re stuck sticking to underdeveloped black males, cause nobody else wants them, cause.. they are black. You should read the article before commenting. Actually black women dont want black men but are forced to settle with Them CAUSE NOBODY WANTS THEM EITHER IN OTHER RACES.

Fact is educated black women want to "whiten" themselves and go away from their black roots being disgusted by them. I see a lot of christian hard working young black girls here in canada in libraries hunting for educated white males for example. They often attempt to make eye contact with me when im studying again for example. Fact is I, just like other educated, faithful well raised white males arent interested the least in dating them... We re interested in white women. So these girls will have no choice but to date...black men, cause only them want them! Only fat white losers might end dating them. That's the best that could happen to both of them anyway, as white women arent interested in fat ugly looking white men either.

Hence the point of this educated, christian black man's book, you fucking retarded low life loser. Black males are genetically dumb, and disgust smarter more educated black females who want to purify their genes dating white men instead.

Anyways why are you mad? You re not concerned the least by any of this, you unemployed, unemployable, ugly , fat black loser who s been made cuckhold...by a... white woman.




LMAO  Look at the little unterman tryin' to talk tough...lol....Black males genetically dumb yet all of getbigs top black posters have at least bachelor degrees. :D

What happened did you run out of c o c k for your peanutbutter and c o c k sammich?....BTW you just reminded me of something I need to start a thread on...toodle-loo goo-gobbler....lol
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 11:03:30 AM
See, I knew it uberman, you were going to say it---"black males are genetically dumb"
 
"Something is wrong with the black men",
yet, women are not held accountable for not having requirements.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Natural Man on January 21, 2012, 11:05:05 AM
genes of smartest, better educated -christian, evangelized by white people- BLACK males and females will survive mixed with genes of white people , that's all that matter. And hopefully after several generations their genetical stupidity will be totaly erased, if they dont breed with black anymore. Mixed offsprings often dont date black people once adults, but they stay with white people, as black people reject them.  That's why black women want to go with white males, intrinsically, to better their genes. To get rid of the black in them. Wont despise them for that, at least they want to better themselves, at all costs, and arent ashamed of it.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 11:10:21 AM
genes of smartest, better educated -christian, evangelized by white people- males and females will survive mixed with genes of white people , that's all that matter.

That leaves you out slappy. :-*
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: B_B_C on January 21, 2012, 11:11:30 AM
genes of smartest, better educated -christian, evangelized by white people- .

right on bro
these is the people that invented concentration camps, atom bombs, mass ethnic cleanzing, world wars and ....
oh where did it all go right
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 11:12:21 AM
genes of smartest, better educated -christian, evangelized by white people- BLACK males and females will survive mixed with genes of white people , that's all that matter. And hopefully after several generations their genetical stupidity will be totaly erased, if they dont breed with black anymore. Mixed offsprings often dont date black people once adults, but they stay with white people, as black people reject them.  That's why black women want to go with white males, intrinsically, to better their genes. To get rid of the black in them. Wont despise them for that, at least they want to better themselves, at all costs, and arent ashamed of it.

LMAO..You are a clown... :D
I find you assertions quite hilarious...
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Natural Man on January 21, 2012, 11:14:22 AM
That leaves you out slappy. :-*

Huh? I'm white you godamn mental midget.

 As if anyone is going to listen to a low life atheist black loser like you instead of a black christian professor in law from standford who writes books for a living anyway...
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Tito24 on January 21, 2012, 11:14:54 AM
uberman is david duke
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Natural Man on January 21, 2012, 11:15:39 AM
right on bro
these is the people that invented concentration camps, atom bombs, mass ethnic cleanzing, world wars and ....
oh where did it all go right
how old are you? You cant be that fucking dumb...ooooh...let me guess... you re black right?
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: G_Thang on January 21, 2012, 11:17:38 AM
where's nails?  :(
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: funk51 on January 21, 2012, 11:18:34 AM
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2051299/Black-women-look-outside-race-successful-man.html

Black women are surging ahead of black men both socially and economically, leading to a ‘relationship crisis’, says a professor of family law.

According to Ralph Richard Banks, as black men fall behind in education and income, they become less compatible with women of the same race, leading to black females becoming the ‘most unmarried’ group in American society.

In his book Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone, Banks says the most obvious solution is for black women to marry outside their race.

Banks cites figures claiming around one in ten black men in their early thirties are in prison and that two black women graduate from college for every black man, elevating the women into the middle classes, while the men remain in the lower classes.

As a result, says Banks, many black women ‘marry down’, with the result that two out of every three black marriages failing, around twice the rate of white marriages, The Economist reported.

The Stanford professor claims due to this ‘man shortage’ black women are half as likely as white women to be married and three times as likely never to marry.
In his book Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone, Banks terms the phenomena of black women surging ahead as a 'social catastrophe' for black men

In his book Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone, Banks terms the phenomena of black women surging ahead as a 'social catastrophe' for black men

Banks also suggests that while statistically black women are least likely to marry into other races, their loyalty to black men is ‘noble’ yet counterproductive and they should look to white, Latino or Asian men as potential partners.

In an interview with Nightline, Banks claimed sixty years ago black marriages and families were ‘as stable as white families’ and that the decline comes as ‘black women have moved ahead, black men have fallen behind’.

Terming the phenomena as a ‘social catastrophe’ for black men, he added: ‘Imprisonment numbers, unemployment numbers, under-performance academically, these are crisis not just for African-Americans, but for the nation.

‘Many women would do well to expand their options in the same way people of other races have, and look beyond black men in their search for a partner.

‘Black women are the most segregated group in our society when it comes to relationships.’

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2051299/Black-women-look-outside-race-successful-man.html#ixzz1k6urIiLl


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;D ;D ;D ;D   i always liked standford and son.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 11:24:53 AM
genes of smartest, better educated -christian, evangelized by white people- BLACK males and females will survive mixed with genes of white people , that's all that matter. And hopefully after several generations their genetical stupidity will be totaly erased, if they dont breed with black anymore. Mixed offsprings often dont date black people once adults, but they stay with white people, as black people reject them.  That's why black women want to go with white males, intrinsically, to better their genes. To get rid of the black in them. Wont despise them for that, at least they want to better themselves, at all costs, and arent ashamed of it.
So, basically you like others, are trying to push this "mixed race" agenda, to get rid of "blackness", to whitewash America...but it will end up looking like Brazil...
But with an amercsn twist, racism is the impetus for it, colorism will be the result of it...
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 11:25:56 AM
Huh? I'm white you godamn mental midget.

 As if anyone is going to listen to a low life atheist black loser like you instead of a black christian professor in law from standford who writes books for a living anyway...

Yes, that is all you are from your list genius.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: bike nut on January 21, 2012, 11:32:47 AM
If black women marrying white men is considered marrying "up", wouldn't by implication white men marrying black women be considered marrying "down"?

How does this racist, liberal, blowhard reconcile that? Considering he brushes over lack of education and imprisonment rates of black males as a "phenomena".

Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 11:50:26 AM
If black women marrying white men is considered marrying "up", wouldn't by implication white men marrying black women be considered marrying "down"?

How does this racist, liberal, blowhard reconcile that? Considering he brushes over lack of education and imprisonment rates of black males as a "phenomena".


Exactly...
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Rome on January 21, 2012, 11:56:35 AM
A lot of sisters think material acquisitions ( own car, apartment, good credit), automatically make them "Good catches" .. "So where's my man?"
If you have those things but are bossy, pushy and self centered, guess what? You're not a good catch!

Those who feel they need to trip into a life boat and date outside the race for partners who can meet their lengthy list of demands are more than welcome.

 Nothing wrong with Black women dating other races but better choices in men (give the corny, educated brother a chance instead of "da Thug"  ::)) and being less a little less superficial might be a better option for some.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 12:10:42 PM
Parker and Rome are correct. Back when I was a square, black women wouldn't give me a second conversation. I don't sound "black", I'm not into "black culture" and I didn't have I guess what they call "swagger" today. I really don't know what they want as I've never taken the time to ask. But like most women, they want something that doesn't exist.

With black males and black female relationships you have a case of the chicken and the egg.  Black guy treats black woman like shit, black woman act like kunt...Don't know which came first but I'm guessing it was the brothas that fucked up...It is now at the point to where educated black guy doesn't want black woman because of stereotypes and educated black woman doesn't want black guy because of stereotypes and the poor and uneducated blacks are perfectly fine with both and continue to procreate.

It's pretty sad. :'(
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 12:28:27 PM
Parker and Rome are correct. Back when I was a square, black women wouldn't give me a second conversation. I don't sound "black", I'm not into "black culture" and I didn't have I guess what they call "swagger" today. I really don't know what they want as I've never taken the time to ask. But like most women, they want something that doesn't exist.

With black males and black female relationships you have a case of the chicken and the egg.  Black guy treats black woman like shit, black woman act like kunt...Don't know which came first but I'm guessing it was the brothas that fucked up...It is now at the point to where educated black guy doesn't want black woman because of stereotypes and educated black woman doesn't want black guy because of stereotypes and the poor and uneducated blacks are perfectly fine with both and continue to procreate.


It's pretty sad. :'(
Its kinda like this Wiggs, since I straddle the "cool guy---educated man line",
in black culture, like Latin, African cultures, men are very possessive, and higlight masculine attributes,
a mouthy woman gets treated heavy-handed, you are not "nice" to her...many black women (not all) think a nice black dude is a weak-fuck, but expect white, Asian men to be nice (and educated)

Rome, I don't think one has to be corny and educated, it's that black folks have this thing that they go hand in hand, and that thugs or hoods, are "cool", when it was thrown upon black males to be that in the 70s---when all those blaxploitation films made it cool.
A black man with an education was seen as trying to be white, the black man with the females was usually the hood dudes...
Black women and black people need to realize that you cannot build a community or a nation upon criminality or being a hood---aka a man child,

and I see it every day at work, and it literally pisses me off.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 12:47:38 PM
Its kinda like this Wiggs, since I straddle the "cool guy---educated man line",
in black culture, like Latin, African cultures, men are very possessive, and higlight masculine attributes,
a mouthy woman gets treated heavy-handed, you are not "nice" to her...many black women (not all) think a nice black dude is a weak-fuck, but expect white, Asian men to be nice (and educated)

Rome, I don't think one has to be corny and educated, it's that black folks have this thing that they go hand in hand, and that thugs or hoods, are "cool", when it was thrown upon black males to be that in the 70s---when all those blaxploitation films made it cool.
A black man with an education was seen as trying to be white, the black man with the females was usually the hood dudes...
Black women and black people need to realize that you cannot build a community or a nation upon criminality or being a hood---aka a man child,

and I see it every day at work, and it literally pisses me off.

Yes.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Max B on January 21, 2012, 01:44:28 PM
? nobody wants black women, even educated, that's why they re stuck sticking to underdeveloped black males, cause nobody else wants them, cause.. they are black. You should read the article before commenting. Actually black women dont want black men but are forced to settle with Them CAUSE NOBODY WANTS THEM EITHER IN OTHER RACES.

Fact is educated black women want to "whiten" themselves and go away from their black roots being disgusted by them. I see a lot of christian hard working young black girls here in canada in libraries hunting for educated white males for example. They often attempt to make eye contact with me when im studying again for example. Fact is I, just like other educated, faithful well raised white males arent interested the least in dating them... We re interested in white women. So these girls will have no choice but to date...black men, cause only them want them! Only fat white losers might end dating them. That's the best that could happen to both of them anyway, as white women arent interested in fat ugly looking white men either.

Hence the point of this educated, christian black man's book, you fucking retarded low life loser. Black males are genetically dumb, and disgust smarter more educated black females who want to purify their genes dating white men instead.

Anyways why are you mad? You re not concerned the least by any of this, you unemployed, unemployable, ugly , fat black loser who s been made cuckhold...by a... white woman.




Holy shit!!!!!!!!!!!

Are u 100 percent german?
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: wes on January 21, 2012, 01:50:16 PM
 :'(
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 01:53:24 PM
:'(


I like how he deleted his post that he German and French....No asshole youre a dumbfuck American from bumfuck nowhere...

He looks like an angry little fella. he talks a lot of shit for a guy with such a tiny mouth and no lips.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: wes on January 21, 2012, 01:53:54 PM
I like how he deleted his post that he German and French....No asshole youre a dumbfuck American from bumfuck nowhere...

He looks like an angry little fella. he talks a lot of shit for a guy with such a tiny mouth and no lips.
Yup
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Archer77 on January 21, 2012, 02:18:23 PM
Dated blacks girls but not because of their color but because we ha things in common.  My brother, who has always had a thing for Nubian bitches, married one.  What I've found is that higher educated black women are nearly indistinguishable from their white counter parts, at least in terms of temperament and sophistication.  Their main complaint about the brothas was more about social class value differences than race in and of itself.   

They also said that they received the most opposition to interracial relationships from the black community and that in conversations with other black women it was this pressure and fear of being a race traitor which influenced many black women not to date outside their race when in fact many where interested in doing so.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Kulutues on January 21, 2012, 02:25:39 PM
actually the only real reason black women are so far ahead of black men is because of harmful government initiations like affirmative action (benefits black women much more than black males) and the simple fact that the drug war primarily targets males much more than females.  And many more things the government does to keep people dependent upon it and harming quality of life
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 02:48:17 PM
Dated blacks girls but not because of their color but because we ha things in common.  My brother, who has always had a thing for Nubian bitches, married one.  What I've found is that higher educated black women are nearly indistinguishable from their white counter parts, at least in terms of temperament and sophistication.  Their main complaint about the brothas was more about social class value differences than race in and of itself.   

They also said that they received the most opposition to interracial relationships from the black community and that in conversations with other black women it was this pressure and fear of being a race traitor which influenced many black women not to date outside their race when in fact many where interested in doing so.
The problem is that many black women won't tell you this, and even your brothers black wife (was that the Haitian chica), is that the stigma of being "white man's plaything" is far reaching...and they have a grass is greener on the otherside mentality---when it is they who pick the men...they date the same type of black men (thugs, drug dealers, ballers,etc), but the women are on the grind gettig an education (like alot of women), but don't require the black men in their lives to do so (ironically will require the white or Adian men to do so). And then when they want to settle down, the men are still doing the same thing, as they are still dating women who accept them like that, but black women want them to be educated and with stability.

Coupled with the fact that such black women are notoriously picky---like the black girl from Real World with 200 things a black man should have, not every black woman is a "beautiful black butterfly ready to be captured in the net of love"
women, all women need to require the men in their lives to match or exceed what they are doing, but the femisist movement, doesn't want that---because they think men have a unfair advantage...
If black women want black men, then they need to have requirements for them---starting with the parents and how they raise their sons, and the expectations for them, and for their daughters. And black women need to require black men to be role models for their kids---don't count on pop culture and hip-hop figures to be their role models. And black wome need to require black men to be fathers, and not just a ATM machine---thus showing her daughter and son the expectation of a man as a father, husband, homie, lover, friend.

this is not really a black problem as you are seeing it with white men and women as well. There are more women in law school and going to graduate school than men---regardless of color.
Men in the media are shown as bumbling idiots, and that woman always have the answer and are always right...the last bastion of maleness is fighting, which you've seen the MMA scene explode.
Men in general are "lost", there is a progressive movement to strip men of their balls and maleness, to neuter them. And in turn, women are the new men---take men out of the families...replace them with women or even gay men.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: Nomad on January 21, 2012, 02:54:30 PM
race of marriage  ::)
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Wiggs on January 21, 2012, 02:58:42 PM
The problem is that many black women won't tell you this, and even your brothers black wife (was that the Haitian chica), is that the stigma of being "white man's plaything" is far reaching...and they have a grass is greener on the otherside mentality---when it is they who pick the men...they date the same type of black men (thugs, drug dealers, ballers,etc), but the women are on the grind gettig an education (like alot of women), but don't require the black men in their lives to do so (ironically will require the white or Adian men to do so). And then when they want to settle down, the men are still doing the same thing, as they are still dating women who accept them like that, but black women want them to be educated and with stability.

Coupled with the fact that such black women are notoriously picky---like the black girl from Real World with 200 things a black man should have, not every black woman is a "beautiful black butterfly ready to be captured in the net of love"
women, all women need to require the men in their lives to match or exceed what they are doing, but the femisist movement, doesn't want that---because they think men have a unfair advantage...
If black women want black men, then they need to have requirements for them---starting with the parents and how they raise their sons, and the expectations for them, and for their daughters. And black women need to require black men to be role models for their kids---don't count on pop culture and hip-hop figures to be their role models. And black wome need to require black men to be fathers, and not just a ATM machine---thus showing her daughter and son the expectation of a man as a father, husband, homie, lover, friend.

this is not really a black problem as you are seeing it with white men and women as well. There are more women in law school and going to graduate school than men---regardless of color.
Men in the media are shown as bumbling idiots, and that woman always have the answer and are always right...the last bastion of maleness is fighting, which you've seen the MMA scene explode.
Men in general are "lost", there is a progressive movement to strip men of their balls and maleness, to neuter them. And in turn, women are the new men---take men out of the families...replace them with women or even gay men.

Yes. It's a fucking mess. Which is why I'll never remarry. Bitches need to relearn their place and it's not as the head of the family.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 03:05:54 PM
Yes. It's a fucking mess. Which is why I'll never remarry. Bitches need to relearn their place and it's not as the head of the family.
If you look at how many "females" act, like their actions have no recourse, yet they want men to be every damn thing in the book---except only to their whim, you see that they were sold a dream, and many are miserable. They want a man to be a man, only on their terms, meaning a piece at a time.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: devilsmile on January 21, 2012, 03:12:33 PM
my mom told me that she never cared of the mans social status or his money income because that's superficial. For her the most important thing in a man was that he can take care of himself, is honest, real, loving, mature and has a great ass. Everything else would be a bonus.

Now days we get these books where they "explain" how you have to have big income and education so that you can love someone, lol wut.

All the social status and easy pussy comes from that but real love and relatioships shouldn't be built like this. It's not humane. We aren't products.
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: diamondcut on January 21, 2012, 03:12:53 PM
what is the opposite term for mudshark?

a black women who goes for white guys?

lol
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: devilsmile on January 21, 2012, 03:15:08 PM
what is the opposite term for mudshark?

a black women who goes for white guys?

lol

snow flake... vanilla pumper... I dunno... :D
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanford l
Post by: bike nut on January 21, 2012, 03:20:02 PM
So...if the author is correct a university educated, professional black male should have at least 10X the number of female black peers.

Man, those fuckers should be swimming in pussy. How do I get in on some of that action? Tanning booth?
Title: Re: Black women should look outside their race for a successful man, says Stanfo
Post by: Parker on January 21, 2012, 03:31:18 PM
So...if the author is correct a university educated, professional black male should have at least 10X the number of female black peers.

Man, those fuckers should be swimming in pussy. How do I get in on some of that action? Tanning booth?
They are---well the good looking ones, in a sense. The problem is, black women don't like it...
Black women tend to have this "woe is me" atitude---coupled with the fact that as many of you have said, "black women are easy", a man wants to keep swimming in pussy for as long as possible. Thus, still pissing off black women---because a handsome educated black man has access to not just black women.