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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
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yes. just jerk off a lot or think of oiled up men in things while fucking her. Maybe it's a sign your gay.
Bay may need to clarify this.
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Does she want to have sex with you?
If so,and you aren`t interested,be up front from the get go.....if she can`t deal with it...........see ya` !
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
That's usually called a 'friendship'.
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
It sounds like he's a horny dude :-X
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
Yes , $
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At least try her out she might surprise you...
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I was in a relationship like this. she wanted sex all the time and I was just totally not into it most of the time. she would get so pissed and tell me there was something wrong with me. after we broke up I realized it was just because she was gross lol. I constantly want to have sex with the girl I'm with now.
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The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.
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The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.
Go for it bro.....beauty is only skin deep!
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has been there for me when nobody else was.
That's nice ,just fuck her once a month .
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Yes , $
I'm thinking she'd take care of me you know. Never been the type to take advantage of people but fuck this going to work everyday bullshit. I wanna live the dream....train, eat and sleep.
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The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.
then perhaps you should talk to her
Sex is easier to get than friendship but more transitory and not take you through difficult times.
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The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.
Thats code for shes huge.
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That's usually called a 'friendship'.
lol, this
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its the story with most people, people really live in their fantasy lives and when they wanna have kids they imagine theyre fucking someone else, its how it goes for 99% of people
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Go for it bro.....beauty is only skin deep!
Yeah this girl is amazing person. Super nice and sweet.
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Just keep some side stuff on the sly!
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^ this. Excellent post. Obi wan
Thank you young padawn! ;D
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Just keep some side stuff on the sly!
I'm not the type to do that to someone but maybe I could start. ;D
Same situation here. Made the decision to drop the fast broads and stick with the less attractive broad who takes good care of me. Cooks all my meals, handles my books, washes clothes. But moreover she is stable, from a good home, organized. And she would run into oncoming traffic for me. I'm the kind of guy that needs this as I have been bi fuckinh polar sometimes and she has grounded me. I was upfront in the beginning bu she has been relentless and outlasted all the other fast ass bitches I was with. You don't gotta be with he forever, but maybe she will help your life and if she likes you that much you will help hers. Peace
With the "hot" girls its a constant battle with them to see who has who at the beginning. Eventually they give in but they won't treat you the way the less attractive girl would. Glad its working out for you.
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
Have you tried to have sex with her? If you have and there is no physical attraction, then just keep her as a really good friend. It's not fair to her to have a relationship with her when you are not attracted to her. Imagine how you would feel if a woman dated you but then you found out later down the track that she didn't find you attractive and didn't want to have sex with you. It would be hurtful for anybody, male or female.
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My business has been going really great since I been with this broad. But I'm nnot gonna tell you it ain't a sacrifice. The thin Wes said would work, but you gotta find the right situation. Nothin that's gonna blow up your spot. The girl I'm with even puts up with that too. Although her patience for that is fading with time.
Try it out bro, if she's not for you, you can leave. But you will probably have some good effects on your life that will last when she's gone. And she will get some muscular pipe, which is what she probably wants. She will help you and your life to get it. Let her. Don't gotta marry her. Do your thing. It's ok to be a little selfish sometimes. Good luck bro.
You know the other thing with her is that she is a great singer so if she makes it someday I'll be kicking myself. She does shows where she lives and has won some competitions as well but the thing holding her back is her Adele like looks. Like you said maybe she can help my life and I can help her by knocking the donuts out of her mouth. And hopefully she goes a little further with her music career but she has a good job anyway so its not a big deal if she doesn't.
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Girls do this all the time. And the guy with money, who is ugly, nerdy, or fat, and with a hot chick. Isn't complaining. He's just happy to be fucking her! Your girl will probably feel that way about you. Great boost to self confidence. And not having the stress hot bitches bring will help out lifting and business efforts.
Yeah, I'm not buying what booty is saying. I'm all for equal rights myself.
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While i believe that honesty like hard work can sometimes be overrated one of its main advantages is that you dont have to remember
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Yeah, I'm not buying what booty is saying. I'm all for equal rights myself.
That's fine you don't have to. You asked for advice and members gave it and since I am female I thought it might be worth something. From a womans perspective or even a mans, it would be hurtful to know that the person you are with is only with you because they think they can get something out of you and is not physically attracted to you or wants to have sex with you. Sooner or later it will blow up in your face and when she finds out that you don't want to have sex with her and never really wanted to, you will lose her as a friend.
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in my first post,I felt just like booty did,but when Borracho said she was cool and would do anything for him,I changed my tune.
I`ve been with a lot of pretty fine ,but superficial broads but it never worked out......can`t deal with high maintenance bullshit.
A slightly lesser looker who would kill for you can be great to have as a keeper as long as she doesn`t look like a fucking bog beast.
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in my first post,I felt just like booty did,but when Borracho said she was cool and would do anything for him,I changed my tune.
I`ve been with a lot of pretty fine ,but superficial broads but it never worked out......can`t deal with high maintenance bullshit.
A slightly lesser looker who would kill for you can be great to have as a keeper as long as she doesn`t look like a fucking bog beast.
That's all good wes but he said he isn't attracted to her so how is he supose to remain faithful? When you are in a relationship, most people want the whole package someone who they have a friendship with, who is staunch and loyal, kind, grounded, morals, similar interests and being sexually intimate is important too. It's something that you don't share with anyone else, so if you don't want to have sex with them how can you remain faithful?
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Quote from: Borracho on Today at 06:03:46 PM
Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
Yes , $
Possible. Look below.
That's nice ,just fuck her once a month .
Nope, I got an ugly rich girl, and I can just barely look at her, let alone do anything with her.
I'm so hard wired for looks. It isn't funny.
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I was in that type of relationship when it first started, ended up falling in love and being attracted to her....
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That's all good wes but he said he isn't attracted to her so how is he supose to remain faithful? When you are in a relationship, most people want the whole package someone who they have a friendship with, who is staunch and loyal, kind, grounded, morals, similar interests and being sexually intimate is important too. It's something that you don't share with anyone else, so if you don't want to have sex with them how can you remain faithful?
That`s why I suggested side stuff! ;D
I wouldn`t really do that seriously,you have made a good point.
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That`s why I suggested side stuff! ;D
I wouldn`t really do that seriously,you have made a good point.
That's good because side stuff is really low. It's wasting a persons time if you are with them to get something out of them and then have to fuck someone on the side. That's morally wrong and will back fire big time.
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That's fine you don't have to. You asked for advice and members gave it and since I am female I thought it might be worth something. From a womans perspective or even a mans, it would be hurtful to know that the person you are with is only with you because they think they can get something out of you and is not physically attracted to you or wants to have sex with you. Sooner or later it will blow up in your face and when she finds out that you don't want to have sex with her and never really wanted to, you will lose her as a friend.
I don't wanna turn this into a men vs women argument but you guys have always looked to get something from a man. Money, power, and fame appeal to women because they mean security so that you are able to ensure that your offspring will live on. God I sound like uberman ...lol
This girl really likes me btw and she knows there isn't mutual chemistry otherwise I already would've had sex with her. She's an amazing person and I wanna be with her but physically its not there... yet
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I was in that type of relationship when it first started, ended up falling in love and being attracted to her....
This is what I wanted to hear.
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I don't wanna turn this into a men vs women argument but you guys have always looked to get something from a man. Money, power, fame appeal to women because they mean security so that you are able to ensure that your offspring will live on. God I sound like uberman ...lol
This girl really like me btw and she knows there isn't mutual chemistry otherwise I already would've had sex with her. She's an amazing person and I wanna be with her but physically its not there... yet
Not all women. And the ones who do use someone to get something from them, leave when they are no longer getting what they want or have got what they want. That isn't a relationship in my eyes. Using people is wrong. If you think you can build something with this woman then go for it. But keep things honest and hopefully the phsyical attraction comes. I just don't think that it's something you can force. However if you develope feelings for her then the phsyical attraction may come but it might not be the strong kind where you look into each others eyes and want to tear each others clothes off. It might be the kind where she stands there trying to get you to bed and you are too busy looking at the tv. :-\
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That's good because side stuff is really low. It's wasting a persons time if you are with them to get something out of them and then have to fuck someone on the side. That's morally wrong and will back fire big time.
That's what I told Will Grant but he doesn't give a fuck.
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Not all women. And the ones who do use someone to get something from them, leave when they are no longer getting what they want or have got what they want. That isn't a relationship in my eyes. Using people is wrong. If you think you can build something with this woman then go for it. But keep things honest and hopefully the phsyical attraction comes. I just don't think that it's something you can force. However if you develope feelings for her then the phsyical attraction may come but it might not be the strong kind where you look into each others eyes and want to tear each others clothes off. It might be the kind where she stands there trying to get you to bed and you are too busy looking at the tv. :-\
You sound like a hopeless romantic...as I am. lol
But we keep going after good looking people we are physically attracted to and then when it fades whats left?
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That's good because side stuff is really low. It's wasting a persons time if you are with them to get something out of them and then have to fuck someone on the side. That's morally wrong and will back fire big time.
I hear ya`...I was goofing around,and goofing around on my wife is something I would never do.
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Bullshit. If you have respect for her you won't get caught. But almost every guy does it, homey. Hate to break it to booty. And broads do it too. You only get one life my man. Gotta be a successful person. Not somebody always chasing a better nut to bust. Side shit, smartly. Will keep you interested in her. Go to a washy massage or find girl you can bang with no drama. Gotta be right girl though if gonna side piece. Don't set yourself up for failure. Hit the wash massage until you are sure you gotta a side broad that knows the deal and don't even contact you by phone. A girl you run into most days. And when you do. And she see you. You both know what time it is. No phone trail. Washy massage bitches will never tell nobody! Ha
I love this guy hahaha
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That's good because side stuff is really low. It's wasting a persons time if you are with them to get something out of them and then have to fuck someone on the side. That's morally wrong and will back fire big time.
i already told wilma and you if something goes wrong don't come on this board with bullshit. i'll be the first to ron to delete accounts. you believe this than you're setup already.
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There is more to life than sex. And how the he'll is she gonna find out you don like having sex with her. You know that you cant tell her that. This broad is just talking out her twat. And you are giving her something as well as getting something. Sounds like it has the makings of a nice thing. You aren't taking advantage. And you won't lose her as friend. You are giving muscular cock and she is helping stabilize your life. If you are anything like me or most bber/litters. You probably need a broad like your girl.
I am not talking out of my twat. I am being totally honest and it sounds like to me that you are on a big of a ego trip regarding the whole giving the girl the muscle thing. And yes the fastest way to lose a woman or a man for that matter is to not be honest with them and then they find out later down the track that you were never attracted to them from the beginning after you have met someone whom you are and start having sex on the side (cheating). I have never had this experience but it could pan out this way if a person continued to stay with somebody that didn't fulful their sexual desires and needs.
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You sound like a hopeless romantic...as I am. lol
But we keep going after good looking people we are physically attracted to and then when it fades whats left?
Well the key is to find someone who fits the whole package not just looks. Obviously, a person doesn't embark on a relationship with someone based solely on phsyical attraction. Just find a good balance. Find a woman who is a good person, kind, has morals etc and who wants to be with you and is grounded and stable and whom you find yourself phsyically attracted to. Phsyical attraction doesn't have to come first, but it definitley has to be there if you are going to have a long term honest faithful relationship with them. You've got to meet each others needs including sexual ones.
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i already told wilma and you if something goes wrong don't come on this board with bullshit. i'll be the first to ron to delete accounts. you believe this than you're setup already.
You're talking out of your ass because Will and I have got nothing to do with this thread.
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Bullshit. If you have respect for her you won't get caught. But almost every guy does it, homey. Hate to break it to booty. And broads do it too. You only get one life my man. Gotta be a successful person. Not somebody always chasing a better nut to bust. Side shit, smartly. Will keep you interested in her. Go to a washy massage or find girl you can bang with no drama. Gotta be right girl though if gonna side piece. Don't set yourself up for failure. Hit the wash massage until you are sure you gotta a side broad that knows the deal and don't even contact you by phone. A girl you run into most days. And when you do. And she see you. You both know what time it is. No phone trail. Washy massage bitches will never tell nobody! Ha
Are you a chocolate face by any chance?
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This is what I wanted to hear.
Have you seen any pics of her when she was younger? If the potential is there you can always get her in shape.
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No. Irish, Cuban descent. 100% American.
Cubans have some chocolate in them
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Have you seen any pics of her when she was younger? If the potential is there you can always get her in shape.
I haven't seen her in over a year and I know she began working out and going to the gym. Don't remember seeing her younger pics...my guess she looked the same (fatty) otherwise she wouldn't have such a nice personality. ;D
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
Sounds like a description of most marriages
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its hard I have been trying to get ride of this girl the last month. She just keeps crying my god I think I finally got rid of her tonight though I hope. I feel bad for her I cant stand her she sleeps all the time and gained a bunch a weight and is just not there up stairs. She has money and new suv but god I just cant take it she bothers me I can get anything done that's the main problem I can really give a fuck if she here as long as she doesn't bother me. I threw her out to weeks ago she went to work and threw up then my mom let her back here and she missed a week of work and was with me even more :(.
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Just keep some side stuff on the sly!
fuck if thats what gets everyone through the day so be it like you said it might not be right but if it keeps everyone happy fine by me.
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thankfully some good sex still exists in my marriage but foreplay and kissing long gone 8)
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Thank god I found someone who feels the same as me. Reading these replies is depressing.
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man theres so much bullshit in the last several posts. cheating keeping you happy. theres nothing worse than a guilty conscience. either be honest and ask your significant other for an open relationship or at least to allow you to fool around while she remains fathful, or break it off and be single. there are plenty of people open to open relationships, and even an amount of people who would be willing to remain faithful while you sleep around. regardless though, you will feel much better living honestly than you ever will chetaing and being deceitful to your loved one.
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man theres so much bullshit in the last several posts. cheating keeping you happy. theres nothing worse than a guilty conscience. either be honest and ask your significant other for an open relationship or at least to allow you to fool around while she remains fathful, or break it off and be single. there are plenty of people open to open relationships, and even an amount of people who would be willing to remain faithful while you sleep around. regardless though, you will feel much better living honestly than you ever will chetaing and being deceitful to your loved one.
You are correct Tbombizzle. Been there and got caught. It sucks.
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Finally some good advice.
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man theres so much bullshit in the last several posts. cheating keeping you happy. theres nothing worse than a guilty conscience. either be honest and ask your significant other for an open relationship or at least to allow you to fool around while she remains fathful, or break it off and be single. there are plenty of people open to open relationships, and even an amount of people who would be willing to remain faithful while you sleep around. regardless though, you will feel much better living honestly than you ever will chetaing and being deceitful to your loved one.
I agree that there is nothing worse than a guilty conscience. That is why I don't have one.
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You are correct Tbombizzle. Been there and got caught. It sucks.
Correct - getting caught does suck...
So don't get caught.
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This is just like Ron heris and skip lacour. But for girl advice. This is balonie. Sounds like politician goody goody cub scout bullshit. What I told you is good info bro. Not this. Do not get caught. This is easy. Be smart. You are a real man, you wait till your opportunity is golden. Not crush your family, but still be a man and take care of man needs. This is truth. Go get your fat girl bro. And sometimes wet your dong in a dirty whore. Key is responsible silence on yours and chosen side whore piece. I have no guilty conciense. Only growing business, full belly, clean clothes, organized credit, clean home. Great and normal life even though I'm a little fucked up.
I hope your girl is fucking around on you.
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I hope your girl is fucking around on you.
im pretty sure the guilt and remorse will catch up to him eventually and the pain of knowing his wrongs will be more than enough punishment for his actions..
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Im not worried. Another reason to go with fatty, my man. No worries at home. Who cares if a dirty side piece ends. Your comfy nice home and marriage aren't threatened because your girl who has alottle extra weight would nerve do that because you are he Hercules and make her feel great and lay pipe in her good. Side piece that is sexy will stray and let them, leave em in the skank tank and go home to your chubby goddes and your house smelling of baked goods and ask for egg whites and enjoy life
There's alot of men out there who love curves. Don't be so sure your wife isn't getting her needs met by someone else because more than likely when a woman cheats its for emotional reasons and not just sexual and that's more dangerous. You come accross as very selfish, it's all about what you are getting from this marriage and not what your wife wants or needs.
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is this the fag from the other thread where hes a fag?
booty this man is a homosexual, a lost cause
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im pretty sure the guilt and remorse will catch up to him eventually and the pain of knowing his wrongs will be more than enough punishment for his actions..
I don't know Tbombz. I think this guy is a real loser.....probably some fat fuck sitting behind the computer who can't even get it up let alone satisfy his wife or run around with other women. He wants to make out as though he is some greek god, he's probably a fat useless beer drinking yobo.
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is this the fag from the other thread where hes a fag?
booty this man is a homosexual, a lost cause
He's just a fat useless fuck.
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fuck him. how are u btw booty?
my room is so filthy, i wish a hot australian milf u would come and clean it
u can wear this
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The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.
sadly they do this just to make up for how unattractive they are. :( hot girls are not nice simply bc they don't have to be.
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shut up dware u fag, booty is pretty smart, pretty much never says the wrong thing
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Blahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! You should run for president! Lol. Sound like youre auditionin to lead a flock. You are great and moral man. The pain of known my wrongs! where do you come up with this shit ahahahahahahahaha.
personal experience. used to think like you. my conscience caught up with me.
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You're misrepresenting what I claimed because you're dumb
You're mistaken by believing that being sly and deceiving your wife is smart. I think you are a POS for fucking around on your wife and bragging about it. I am smarter because I intend to keep my man happy and be completely honest with him and work on the relationship. When your wife catches you out cheating on her onday and she leaves you, then we will see who is smarter. ;)
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
Pics of the lady? You can cover her face.
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Now you predict the future. Lol! Sounds like the people that say you will ge yours in the end. Good will always win. Take your crap back to walt Disney world goody goody bla bla bla. And here how you work on your relationship. Do what your man needs you to do. And yes not cheating is essential for women. Men live by different rules. You are in a discussion for men. Now buzz off dumb broad.
This is a forum for both men and women. Maybe you should buzz off since you don't appear to be a "real man". ;) What you are describing is double standards and I don't believe in them. Not a very good receipe for a sucessful long term relationship.
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I don't know Tbombz. I think this guy is a real loser.....probably some fat fuck sitting behind the computer who can't even get it up let alone satisfy his wife or run around with other women. He wants to make out as though he is some greek god, he's probably a fat useless beer drinking yobo.
Booty speaks the truth! Nail on the head.
It's normally those that are not satisfied with life (and their situation) that acts and reacts like that.
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Now I'm fat? Hahahahahaha!
You are real joke. I posted good info for the guy. Based on life. What did you do but regurgitate some hallmark bullshit and try to sound all noble. Did you post anything of merit? Any info? Ahahahahahahahaha ah
You and tbomz sound like your running for class president.
What a joke you is
Booty is a webcam whore and former prostitute. She's been known to hang outside of mens changing rooms at bodybuilding comps and dish out blowjobs to whatever dirty cock is willing to risk it with her. She's also a snitch and constantly troll for customers and cock on most fitness websites. Don't put too much effort into arguing with a whore. She agrees with you really.
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its the healthiest relationship. Centuries ago you married someone you should marry in benefit of a better life not someone attractive.
Base your relationship in: common goals, common interests, compatible lifestyle and ideologies, friendship, respect and admiration. This relationship WORK.
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Booty is a webcam whore and former prostitute. She's been known to hang outside of mens changing rooms at bodybuilding comps and dish out blowjobs to whatever dirty cock is willing to risk it with her. She's also a snitch and constantly troll for customers and cock on most fitness websites. Don't put too much effort into arguing with a whore. She agrees with you really.
You are a slanderous POS. All lies!!!
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Booty is a webcam whore and former prostitute. She's been known to hang outside of mens changing rooms at bodybuilding comps and dish out blowjobs to whatever dirty cock is willing to risk it with her. She's also a snitch and constantly troll for customers and cock on most fitness websites. Don't put too much effort into arguing with a whore. She agrees with you really.
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You are a slanderous POS. All lies!!!
You're melting down whore. Show some of whatever dignity you have left. Say, post up that webcam pics of yours please. The ones that's been floating around here.
I did save it once but then flies started buzzing around my laptop. Had to delete.
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I did save it once but then flies started buzzing around my laptop. Had to delete.
lol!
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Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??
Any tips?
don't know why you would bother if that's true. sex is a pretty important part of relationships, without sex you are just "friends" so yes it matters a lot
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I was in a relationship like this. she wanted sex all the time and I was just totally not into it most of the time. she would get so pissed and tell me there was something wrong with me. after we broke up I realized it was just because she was gross lol. I constantly want to have sex with the girl I'm with now.
Maybe you shouldn't have "dated" your mom in the first place.
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shut up dware u fag, booty is pretty smart, pretty much never says the wrong thing
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
Funnniest post of the year!!! :D
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Isn't booty the Aussie chick who posed nude on webcams, etc?
Aussie chicks are the easiest women I've ever come across to get into the sack.
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Now you predict the future. Lol! Sounds like the people that say you will ge yours in the end. Good will always win. Take your crap back to walt Disney world goody goody bla bla bla. And here how you work on your relationship. Do what your man needs you to do. And yes not cheating is essential for women. Men live by different rules. You are in a discussion for men. Now buzz off dumb broad.
Yeah I don't care too much about listening to a woman's advice on women to begin with. Plus, I'd take a sweet chubby girl over a web cam whore any day.
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its the healthiest relationship. Centuries ago you married someone you should marry in benefit of a better life not someone attractive.
Base your relationship in: common goals, common interests, compatible lifestyle and ideologies, friendship, respect and admiration. This relationship WORK.
Yeah bro, now people get together for vanity and look at the divorce rates. I heard arranged marriages in countries like India actually work better than the typical western marriages.
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don't know why you would bother if that's true. sex is a pretty important part of relationships, without sex you are just "friends" so yes it matters a lot
All my past relationships were based solely on sex. And its always been great but its never enough to keep me around. Its nearly impossible to find a complete package I think. You gotta sacrifice one thing or the other.
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All my past relationships were based solely on sex. And its always been great but its never enough to keep me around. Its nearly impossible to find a complete package I think. You gotta sacrifice one thing or the other.
There is no sacrifice....as you said, you based you relationships solely on sex...
So you never got to know that person (nor did she get to know you), and when you eventually did...you didn't like what you saw...or you two didn't "fit".
Today's women, create "instant relationships" with men by just letting you "get it in" real early...no wooing, courting, so you two don't really know one another.
Now, you have listed this woman's attributes, and it seems that it far outweighs her "not being pretty enough" and her "Adele like looks", but if you look at Adele's face, she is pretty cute (with makeup on of course).
As long as she is not a whale, and she has your best interest at heart, I'd say go for it, and chances are you'll be in a happier place, unless you eff it up.
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There is no sacrifice....as you said, you based you relationships solely on sex...
So you never got to know that person (nor did she get to know you), and when you eventually did...you didn't like what you saw...or you two didn't "fit".
Today's women, create "instant relationships" with men by just letting you "get it in" real early...no wooing, courting, so you two don't really know one another.
Now, you have listed this woman's attributes, and it seems that it far outweighs her "not being pretty enough" and her "Adele like looks", but if you look at Adele's face, she is pretty cute (with makeup on of course).
As long as she is not a whale, and she has your best interest at heart, I'd say go for it, and chances are you'll be in a happier place, unless you eff it up.
Thanks for the advice. And I think she needs a complete make over but I really think I've been way too superficial with the way I live my life in general and that needs to change.
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Girls do this all the time. And the guy with money, who is ugly, nerdy, or fat, and with a hot chick. Isn't complaining. He's just happy to be fucking her! Your girl will probably feel that way about you. Great boost to self confidence. And not having the stress hot bitches bring will help out lifting and business efforts.
Very true, but this not the way to a happy life for anybody. It is empty...
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All my past relationships were based solely on sex. And its always been great but its never enough to keep me around. Its nearly impossible to find a complete package I think. You gotta sacrifice one thing or the other.
naw, you just gotta keep looking. eventually you will find someone with a great personality who is also attractive, just a very rare thing to find for people who have some standards lol
never settle bro, never ever settle.